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You're listening to Math and Magic, a production
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of iHeartRadio.
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I think it comes down to truth.
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No matter what we're collectively marketing
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and or the dirty word it's selling,
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it has to be based in truth because even
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if you pull the wool over someone's eyes once,
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it's not going to resonate the second time.
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I'm Bob Pittman.
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Today is a special episode of Math and Magic,
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and it might sound a little different, not
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only because our guest is one of the biggest rock
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stars on the planet, but because we recorded
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live on stage at the Possible
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Conference at the Fountain Blue in Miami.
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And I hope you enjoyed my conversation exploring
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math and magic, which I bon Jovi.
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Today we have a guest who is a magician
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in many obvious ways, which
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we'll explore today. But the math's pretty good too.
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You've sold one hundred and fifty million albums worldwide.
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He's played twenty eight hundred concerts
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and fifty for thirty.
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Five million fans.
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He had three top ranking
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tours in six years, matching a record held
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by only the Rolling Stones. He
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is also a successful business
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person. He and his son started the wildly successful
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Hampton Water Wine company. He's
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a generous and impactful philanthropist.
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He's an actor, he has strong political
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convictions which make their way into his music.
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And he's a well known family man,
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great marriage and role model for how to
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do it the right way. But
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what's also interesting is he started his ride
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at about the same time we started
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MTV, so we were sort of locked
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through this thing.
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And you know, when people start, especially
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in the music.
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Business, you never know who's
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going to be there thirty years from now, and very
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few are.
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So we got the guy who
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is here, John bon Jovi.
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Well, thank you, thank you, Mom, thank you. I'm happy to
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be here. Good morning.
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We got a lot to talk about.
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But first I want to do do you in sixty
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seconds. What we're going to do is we're going to lightning
2:04
round style. Give you a couple
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of choices.
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Lay down right like you're ready to go. Ready
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to go.
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Prefer cats or dogs, dogs,
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early.
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Riser, night out, morning guy city
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or country city, winter
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or summer.
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Summer, salt, your sweet torn.
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Beach, your mountains, beach, off of your tea
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coffee text dark call depends.
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Garden State or Madison Square Garden Garden
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State.
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There we go.
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Here's the Jersey folks, It's
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about to get harder. All time favorite
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musical artist The Beatles. Childhood
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hero.
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Bruce had a lot to do with my being here today.
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There we go.
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Technology, you can't live without my teenage
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kids, favorite
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country to visit.
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The final one, What did you want to be when
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you're growing up?
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Me?
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And it happens only in America?
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So let's jump in.
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You are one of the best
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and most enduring brands in music?
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How do you stay connected with this audience for
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forty years?
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Nothing would have happened if you didn't have a song.
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So the brand had to be built on a solid
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foundation, which was the song and
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being true to who and what I
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was.
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In order for the collective
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we to.
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Then be true to who we were, and
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so that is the basis of all of it. Not
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to chase fads and fascions was
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also really important to me. Fads
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and fashions come and go, and the truth
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will always prevail.
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Were you ever tempted with any of the fads or fashions.
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Not really to be? I don't think well, I
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don't think so.
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I may have been a byproduct
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of the closure wore in the a or
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the haircut you hadn't it. But that's
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who and what you were in real time.
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And if the next fat in fashion
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came along, ie in our business, boy
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bands and then grunge music
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and then wrap, you know, we were there
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at the advent of rap, and to
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start doing duets would
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not have seemed honest, you know, to
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certainly be with a boy band and or none
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of that would have rang true. So I was
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smart enough to know not to get a flannel shirt.
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When Seattle became popular, it was just
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stay the quarters.
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Let's talk about intergenerational hits,
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and these are marketers here, so they're looking
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for things that are enduring. My friend's
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daughter, it is twenty two. She was
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in a college bar, living on
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a prayer comes on. The kids all
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start dancing on the tables. They
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weren't even born when the song came out. What
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is it about your music that
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connects was such a young generation,
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even though it was made originally for a
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completely different generation.
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Again, I think it comes down to truth.
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No matter what we're collectively marketing
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and or you know the dirty words selling,
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it.
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Has to be based in truth.
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Because even if you pull the wool over someone's
5:15
eyes once, it's not going to resonate the second
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time. So when we wrote a song, if
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I was doing it from a place of honesty,
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that song resonated with me, and therefore I was
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confident it would probably.
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Resonate with that audience.
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Songs like Living on a Prayer, when we wrote them
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to be bluntly honest, I didn't realize what we
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had, but I felt that the character
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driven storyline was legit,
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and in doing so, you know, obviously
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that's.
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One of the many that has stood the test of time.
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It's as simple as that, because it's everybody's
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story.
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So when you create a new song, how
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often do you know that you've got
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something special?
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Absolutely do not, as you know, as we talk
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behind the stage. I got in around two thirty this
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morning and have been recording some
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stuff in Los Angeles for next
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year.
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And I left there thinking
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I've got it. I'm a genius.
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But I wake up this morning you go, I don't
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know what I'm talking about. I just did it again, you
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know, you really, you don't know. There's so many times that
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I've thought I had it and I don't, and so
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many times that I was surprised.
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So by the way, for us old people, let me just throw something
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out.
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Hey, But you've gotten older, have
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you got more questions when you were younger? Did you
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think this is going to be a hit or is
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this something that as you age you go.
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Who knows.
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There's a certain confidence you have when you're a young
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kid.
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I was much more fearless, and
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it was probably naivete. Now
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I don't live in fear, but I
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don't pay attention like I used to. There
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was a story I was talking about yesterday and
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it was during the era of Slippery and Wet,
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and I remember this really well, reading
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a music publication and George
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Harrison was alive and well, and it was
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asked about the success of the band and
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he said, I don't know who they are. And I
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was initially offended. And
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I was saying to the guy yesterday that I was talking
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to. He wasn't saying
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something offensive about the band. It
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was just not where he was at
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in his life then. So
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as we were talking about young, young, young
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artists yesterday that coming out of TikTok,
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you know the guys with one new song, I
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said, no, I'm sorry, I don't know them. And it wasn't meant
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to be at all offensive. It was
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that I'm not paying attention to that.
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All I can do is beyond my journey and
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write who I am and what I want to talk about,
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and not to look around based on that.
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It has to be based in truth.
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So let's take that one step further.
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You are almost like a rock
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star by day, family
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man by night, and everyone who knows
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you comments that's sort of your reputation.
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I don't think you've ever fallen victim to the trappings
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of being a rock star. You stay in rooms,
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not sweets. There are no trails of limos,
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there's no tons of security, no
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visible hangar ons, and you have one
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of the most six celebrity marriage is how
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does that happen?
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There have to be some lessons in that.
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But the group of everybody here who
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probably has opportunities to get seduced
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by power and privilege.
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So did I look, I'm those
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saint, I'm the lead singer and a
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very successful rock band. We've
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had a lot of wonderful memories,
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but they were what they were, and you
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know, on the family side of things, that's my rock
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and my wife and I went to high.
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School together, and I know that we
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grew together.
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That was important, you know, we grew up together,
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so she saw every facet of this, and
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then you know, we grew together. That's imperative
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here. And then you know, the kids, I hope
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they see that work ethics. So again,
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if you can bestow on your kids anything
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is if they could see by example
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what you've done, maybe they'll take the
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good of it and disregard some of the bad.
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I'm no saint, it's just it's a work in progress.
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You grew up obviously the product
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of the seventies and early eighties. How
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did your family life influence you? And
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what are those sort of lessons
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that you learned there that show up as you
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today.
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In the time that I was born, in nineteen sixty two,
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President Kennedy was in office, my parents fully
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bought into the whole camelot.
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You know, we can go to the moon, you could be
9:20
anything you want. We're going to buy a house in middle
9:23
class New Jersey. I was blessed with
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that. I was born at the right time, in the right place,
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looking a certain way, and so there
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weren't a lot of, you know, obstacles in the way
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of dreaming. And I know the difference,
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and I know the difference especially now,
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so I was lucky, and then hard work
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and.
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Luck makes for success, you
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know.
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But a lot of it had to do with the time, the
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place, the color of my
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skin, the economic advantages
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of you know, two parents that worked, and
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that work ethic was instilled in all of us.
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Got to hope my kids say something like that about
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me at a certain point. Are
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there any words from your parents that
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echo in your head now? And then
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that advice they gave you or comments
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they made.
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Other than my mother was smart enough to say the
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band's name should be bon Jovi.
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That was pretty good advice. You
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know.
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Even then, I knew that if I was going to fail
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or succeed, it was going to be, you know, my
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responsibility.
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So that was actually
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great advice. That my
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folks were supportive enough.
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And when the drinking age in New Jersey
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was eighteen and you could sneak into a bar at sixteen,
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you could cut your teeth, but you didn't have responsibility
10:37
yet. You didn't have to worry about a paycheck.
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You know, you lived under your folks roof at sixteen,
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at least I did. All they told us was
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that if you're going to be in a bar, at least we know where you are,
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and so if you're going to focus on something, keep
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focusing on it. I didn't go to college,
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you know, but I had a record deal by the time I was twenty
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one. It's the same record deal at the same company,
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and I'm sixty one, and that's pretty
10:57
good.
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Yeah, that's pretty good.
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Give me a little loss of that stability,
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and the music business not allow of
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it.
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You.
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Also, we were talking a little bit of a
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backstage where parents, we all have
11:10
these kids coming into their own great
11:13
temptation to tell your kids
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what they should do. Did
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you give your parents a vote, you know.
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In retrospect. But I don't want to hear that, Bob. I
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want to hear that I'm right and my kids.
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Should listen to me.
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This is bullshit, because
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I've come to that phase and stage in my children's
11:31
lives where they don't listen to me any longer.
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And I'm I'm just dad. Oh you
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don't know what you're talking about, and you're like, oh God,
11:38
But you know, it's a continual learning.
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In the process of learning and being
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a parent, ever evolving a.
11:46
Being a family man. You're actually in business with your
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sons.
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Yeah, in this great
11:52
successful watch company.
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Hampton water, Hampton Water.
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How did that dynamic come about?
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My son, Jesse, was a walk on football player
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at Notre Dame and his roommate
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was a hockey player. And I often
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drank Rose wine, and for
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many many years, under the guise
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of not telling my kids that I was drinking as much,
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I'd say, Daddy wants.
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Some pink juice.
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And one night the kid came home and he said, I've
12:15
got an idea. It's not pink juice anymore.
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It's Hampton water and you know, and I went,
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wow, I love that. And
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then we start to jokingly saying
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we should have a wine knowing nothing
12:26
about the wine business, and I said, if you go back
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to school, use that business degree, come
12:31
back with a power point if it makes
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any sense, I know where to go with it. He
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did six years later, where the
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number five rose in the world, and
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he's really on the verge of something big, which
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is fabulous. One
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thing we did from day two was
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we really were confident that we
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weren't going to have a celebrity brand, but we
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were going to have a family business. And
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so you know, I'm Santa Claus, I'm the guy
12:57
that shows up for the photo op he's the
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one that does all the hard work. But we've
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got a full staff. Were in all fifty states, we're
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in fifty plus countries, and it's a
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family business. It's going great.
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So let me get attle entrepreneurs lesson
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in here.
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Yeah, if you had known everything
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you know now about the wine business,
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would you have started it?
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Then?
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Yeah? I like this.
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I find it sexier than selling you know,
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socks. You know, I get the samples. I
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like taking the samples home at night, so
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you know, we're having fun with it. More
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importantly, I'm absolutely
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pay for the privilege of
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being in business with one of my children,
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who make me proud every day.
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More of math and Magic right after this quick
13:45
break, Welcome
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back to Mathem Magic.
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Let's hear more from my conversation with John
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bon Jovi. Soul
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Kitchen. You
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and your wife started it.
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It served over one hundred and sixty thousand
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meals. I think it's the number you've used
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your power and connections to help others.
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That's a hallmark.
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I think you've done on a very small scale, and
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then you're doing on a much larger scale too. Where
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did that strong commitment to help others
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come from?
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There was probably instilled in me in
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my years of travel.
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The seeds were probably planted by my parents,
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but they weren't necessarily philanthropic, or
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certainly weren't political. In
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my world travels, i'd seen a lot of unfair
14:32
inequality. But on the streets
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of Philadelphia, I
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was the co owner of an arena football
14:39
team with a buddy of mine
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named Craig Spencer.
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Whose daughter's here today.
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And I said, we can win
14:48
in the market if we think
14:50
of this differently than the Big four baseball,
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basketball, football, hockey.
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And that was to be more philanthropic than anyone.
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One night, I was looking out of the window of the hotel
15:00
and I saw a man sleeping on a great
15:03
dead a winter. And I called a buddy of mine
15:05
who was born and raised in Philly, and I said, if you could
15:07
find me somebody in the homeless area, I'd
15:09
like to talk about housing. And
15:12
he found me the Michael Jordan of the issue,
15:15
a sister of mercy by the name of Mary
15:17
Scullion. So Sister Mary and I meet
15:20
and she says, maybe you guys can save up enough money
15:22
to refurbish a row home.
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And I said, how much is it to do a block? And
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I said, I'm not being a wise ass, but
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if we can do a block, we could do a neighborhood. If we could
15:31
do a neighborhood, we can impact the city. She
15:33
said, I like you, And one thing led
15:35
to another. We've built
15:37
a thousand units of affordable housing. We have
15:40
four soon to be five Soul Kitchen
15:43
restaurants. The restaurant is an
15:45
incredibly unique model. It didn't exist anywhere,
15:48
but Dorothea dreamed it up. It's a
15:50
pay it forward model. If any
15:52
of you were to come to it, there's no prices on
15:54
the menu. It's a farm to table
15:56
environment. It looks like a beautiful beestro,
15:59
but you would never know that someone next to you is.
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Actually in need.
16:02
And get out of your mind's eye that it's
16:05
a soup kitchen, because it's not those
16:08
amongst us that are making ends
16:10
meet barely.
16:12
You know the old adage two paychecks away.
16:14
In the economic downturn, this was really
16:17
prevalent again in COVID. People
16:19
would come to our restaurant. They
16:21
are greeted by a what looks
16:23
like a hostess, but really a social worker.
16:26
That social worker discusses the
16:28
concept and if you are
16:32
willing, you participate and
16:34
that means you're busting a table, you're
16:36
working in the garden, you're doing something that
16:38
is earning that meal.
16:42
Empowering somebody,
16:44
having them give the opportunity to earn
16:46
that meal makes someone feel so
16:49
much better than a handout.
16:51
It is a hand up.
16:53
And so we created this model in the restaurant
16:55
those who want to affect change directly. If you
16:57
and I go in there and you put down fifty
17:00
dollars, it pays for your meal and
17:02
the meal of that guy and his wife.
17:04
Daughter sitting next to you.
17:07
Directly, I'm affecting change
17:09
and that guy's volunteering, or if you don't
17:11
volunteer, you sort of feel
17:13
like you're missing out of the party. So we started
17:15
the first one in a thirty three seat restaurant. It
17:18
serve over one hundred thousand meals.
17:20
Our second one was after Supers from
17:22
Sandy in New Jersey. We have an
17:24
all service providing in there, which was
17:26
integral to this too, because people
17:29
who are in need of a meal, they
17:32
need opportunities for service
17:34
providing, whether it's work credentials or
17:36
job training, childcare, dental
17:38
doctors. We have access
17:41
to all that in our second location. Then in
17:44
a genius move. We realize that kids
17:46
on college campuses who
17:48
are struggling with food insecurity.
17:51
So we went to Rutgers University,
17:53
and to be honest with you, the chancellor didn't
17:55
realize her own food pantry
17:58
was what and where it was until
18:00
mister bon Jovi showed up and she's walking
18:02
through the halls of Rutgers and sees that food
18:04
pantry and goes, we can do better,
18:07
and we said we'd like to put a sole kitchen on
18:09
campus.
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The phone rang off the hook.
18:12
From UCLA to Georgia, universities
18:14
across the nation wanting to open soul
18:17
kitchens and then COVID hit.
18:19
It set us back.
18:20
But Rutgers was the first one to stand
18:22
up and say we want to do this.
18:24
And now it's doing very well
18:27
there and at a place called Jersey City
18:29
University, and now we're going to expand
18:32
on the college model because, much
18:34
to many people's surprise, kids
18:36
on college campus just have food insecurity.
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That's great. Great.
18:45
We can't leave today without
18:47
the hot topic AI music.
18:52
I want AI to do my interviews to
18:56
travel for me.
18:57
Yesterday was my first opportunity to
19:00
see that mash up with the weekend and.
19:03
It scared the hell out of me.
19:05
What I'm hoping though, is that again
19:07
the truth prevails, and so you
19:10
know, a real song written by the real
19:12
guy, I
19:14
hope is always going to win that fight. So
19:20
I guess I'm going to offer the same massage I did
19:22
when I came in. Don't fall for fads and fashions,
19:24
and let's be aware that that one's scary, you
19:26
know, AI really is. It can be used
19:28
for good and it can be used for bad, and we
19:31
should all be very.
19:31
Aware of it.
19:33
We are probably all of us in the advertising
19:35
business, probably overrepresented in
19:38
New York Silicon Valley, LA.
19:41
You're out on tour, you really see the country.
19:43
What advice would you have for everybody
19:45
here in terms of trying to talk
19:47
about everybody in America, not
19:50
just the narrow world we'd live in.
19:52
The coasts, as we call it, the flyover.
19:54
Yeah, there's fifty states with fifty diverse
19:58
opinions of who and.
19:59
What we are as an But that's really what we're
20:01
supposed.
20:01
To have made the nation great, which was that
20:03
we the people, and you know, everybody
20:06
has their values and they should be
20:08
spoken to without just
20:10
the use of social media.
20:13
You know that connectivity is what's missing
20:15
today. And you know, brands
20:18
to me, bon Jovi is
20:21
Levi's. We are Cadillac,
20:23
we are Coca Cola. We're that thing that's
20:25
been there forever. And those
20:27
people between the two
20:30
sides are
20:32
that right and those values
20:35
are legit and should be heard.
20:37
So we always end the episodes
20:40
of Mathemagic with shout outs to the greats
20:43
for you because of who you are, who
20:45
on the business side of the music
20:48
business would you give a shout out to?
20:51
First name I guess it comes to mind is an old friend
20:53
named Jimmy Iveen. Jimmy,
20:56
you know, of course, was a great record producer,
20:59
saw that there was a change in
21:01
his own life and making the records that he
21:03
knew how to make.
21:04
It was like what am I going to do next?
21:06
So he was smart enough to become an owner
21:09
and create Innerscope with Ted
21:11
Field and then go on to
21:13
be in Beats when Interscope had run
21:16
its course. So he really created
21:18
something magical. If I think about
21:20
my football ties, you think about Jerry Jones,
21:23
and you know he just took another
21:25
football team and said, no, this is America's
21:27
team, and then he created the Dallas cowboys.
21:30
So there's ways to take something that is.
21:33
Considered to just be bedrock and
21:36
make magic out of it because you know of what it
21:38
stood for. So those would be guys,
21:40
you know, from different walks of my life that I feel
21:42
that I'd give it the quickest shout.
21:44
Let's go on the other side, let's go on the magic
21:46
side, creative side, producer,
21:48
artist, Who would you give a shout out to?
21:52
I don't know.
21:52
I worked with a guy yesterday named Ryan Tedder
21:55
from a band called One Republic.
21:56
I find that he's the next generation.
21:58
Kind of whiz kid
22:00
and very very smart, both you know,
22:02
playing the instrument as well as talking
22:05
about the business of music. I used to pride
22:07
myself on knowing many of the
22:09
aspects of the business of music.
22:11
You know, I'm one of those fortunate guys. I
22:13
own my publishing.
22:14
That's seventeen albums of you know,
22:17
that's a lot of records for.
22:18
You who don't know that. That's like Nirvana.
22:20
Yeah, so it's I knew all
22:22
those things when I was a kid. It was we
22:25
created bon Jovie Management. I didn't have a
22:27
manager, the commission stayed in house.
22:29
So we were smart enough that I knew how to do all
22:31
that, But I'd see the next generation that's
22:34
what they do, and.
22:36
I'm excited to talk.
22:37
To those kind of young guys about it.
22:40
John, thanks for coming.
22:41
Thank you, Bob, thank you for having me.
22:43
Here
22:46
are a few things I picked up from my conversation with
22:48
John bon Jovi. One, stay
22:51
true to who you are. Fads and fashion
22:53
come and go. For John, staying
22:55
true to himself instead of chasing the hottest
22:57
new trend in music has been the key to longevity.
23:01
Two.
23:02
Luck is no match for discipline. John
23:04
is the first to admit that much of his success has
23:06
to do with being born at the right place the right
23:08
time. However, he wouldn't have
23:11
achieved his level of success without
23:13
the strong work ethic his parents
23:15
instilled in him.
23:17
Three. Family and business
23:19
can be a great mix. When john
23:22
Son came up with the idea of the successful
23:24
wine brand Hampton Water, John
23:27
knew he didn't want it to be just another
23:29
short lived celebrity brand. Instead,
23:33
he built it together with his son, and it's
23:35
a true family business with staying
23:37
power. I'm Bob Pittman, Thanks
23:39
for listening.
23:42
That's it for today's episode. Thanks so
23:44
much for listening to Math and Magic, a production
23:46
of iHeartRadio. The show is hosted
23:48
by Bob Pittman. Special thanks to Sidney
23:51
Rosenbloom for booking and wrangling our
23:53
wonderful.
23:53
Talent, which is no small feat. Our
23:55
editor Emily Meronoff, our engineers
23:58
Jessica Crinchitch and but He Fraser,
24:00
our executive producers Nikki Etoor and
24:02
Ali Perry, and of course Gail
24:05
Raoul, Eric Angel Noel and
24:07
everyone who helped bring this show to your ears.
24:10
Until next time,
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