"Real Housewives of Atlanta" star and singer Kandi Burruss has become a mom in four unique ways. And on this episode of Me Becoming Mom, she gets characteristically candid and tells all. Kandi shares her story of going through IVF to have son Ace, and then making the "tough decision" to use a surrogate for her daughter Blaze. The Bravo personality also talks about the worst stigmas around surrogacy including the painful comment a friend made, what it was like to lose one of her twin embryos, and the advice she got from Andy Cohen about surrogacy that still makes her laugh. Then, we sit down with Kandi's surrogate Shadina Blunt about what it's like to be on the other side of surrogacy.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices