I think we've all heard someone say "the relationship didn't work because my partner was crazy". There is a reason why we think someone is "crazy" or has changed and is different than when we started dating them. This episode breaks down why

M.I.R. Why Your Environment Affects The Success Of Your Relationship

Jul 20th, 2022 16m 32s

I share a personal story of how the environment surrounding you can affect your life and your relationship.Many dynamics go into your personal ecosystem... AKA your environment. The people the places, the work, the energy, the mindsets, the ha

M.I.R The Real Raw Truth From A Relationship Coach

Jul 9th, 2022 14m 46s

This episode is for the high achievers who desire more in life, and who are unwilling to settle for an average relationship.I discuss the problems that are associated with these desires. I want you to know that these problems are normal. It's

M.I.R. How To Navigate Conflict Before It’s Too Late

Jun 18th, 2022 27m

This is a tactical episode filled with a step-by-step guide on navigating conflict. If we don't properly resolve conflict we will end up compounding that conflict into something that is unbearable. These steps are universal for any type of con

M.I.R. Why you won’t lose yourself if you “change” to make your relationship work.

Jun 7th, 2022 18m

We typically get triggered by our partners because we experienced situations in the past that affected our psychology and the way we interpret the world. Many times we experienced situations when we were children (or from past relationships) th

M.I.R. Universal Laws To Get Your Relationship Back On Track

May 28th, 2022 24m 46s

Do you have a burning desire to achieve more in life? I know I certainly do.Does that same desire distract you from one of the most essential and important aspects of your life - AKA your relationship?For me, there was a direct impact on m

M.I.R. Why Men Need To Be In Tune With Their Emotions In Order To Avoid Major Issues In A Relationship

May 19th, 2022 26m 32s

This podcast episode is packed with information on why it's important to be aware and in tune with our emotions. Below are some topics covered in today's informative episode. **Practicing the concepts in this episode can drastically minimize m

M.I.R. Do You Have Fear Around Marriage? Then Listen To This.

May 11th, 2022 24m 33s

Are you questioning a relationship or marriage? *I find one of the most common reasons for cold feet, or fear of the commitment that comes with marriage is because it challenges our unconscious values.*One of the most significant values for

M.I.R. Avoid These Roadblocks In Order To Reconnect After Conflict

May 4th, 2022 32m 56s

Today I talk about the blockages that commonly get in the way of reconnection after a conflict, disagreement, or misunderstanding.*I’m talking about this subject because recently, I’ve failed to do a good job at reconnecting.I’ll be honest, I

M.I.R. The Seasons Of A Relationship- How To Prepare For Change In Your Relationship

Apr 27th, 2022 32m 17s

We can grow together or grow apart.If we aren’t prepared for each different season in our life we are setting ourselves up for disruption and potential failure.“Failing to prepare is preparing to fail” John Wooden A successful relationship d

M.I.R. Why Emotional Intelligence Is More Important Than IQ For Men In Relationships

Apr 22nd, 2022 29m 11s

Emotional intelligence will lead to connection. We will not know how to have emotional intimacy without emotional intelligence. Both are fundamental pieces to ensuring the success of your relationship.One of the main fundamental human needs is

M.I.R. Creating A Shared Life Vision To Avoid Codependency

Apr 14th, 2022 33m 2s

I was a bachelor for many years, only living for myself. I think (external success is a much easier game when you are going at it solo)… You can put your head down and eliminate all "distractions". What we forget to think about is that sometime

M.I.R. The Necessary Identity Shift To Save Your Relationship

Apr 6th, 2022 33m 19s

Identity- Is not a fixed concept. It is a set of qualities and beliefs that make one person or group different from others…. We can change our qualities/ characteristics/interests and beliefs.We base our identity on what we’ve done in the pas

M.I.R. Why Changing Your Beliefs Will Change Your Relationship.

Apr 1st, 2022 31m 36s

When I reverse engineered the process that I went through to transform myself and my relationship the first step was believing I could. I know, I know... This sounds like a bunch of B.S. and fluff. It might, but ultimately who cares if it work

M.I.R.-The Way Out Of A Stagnant Relationship. Why A Healthy Relationship Is Important.

Mar 24th, 2022 22m 28s

Are you losing connection and desire in your relationship? Would you define your relationship as healthy or stagnant? We are supposed to be in an incredible relationship, it's what all the movies and society tell us, right?But do you ever tak

M.I.R.- How to get to the root of emotions to minimize conflict

Mar 19th, 2022 33m 19s

When we don't fully understand where our emotions stem from, our natural tendency will be to react to them, rather than explore and redirect them. This can have a negative impact on your relationship.In this episode, I will talk about:-How to

Men In Relationships (MIR) Intro Episode

Mar 15th, 2022 11m 8s

I have re-branded the podcast!!I am extremely passionate about helping men in relationships, so I will be revolving my message around that.I think it's so important for a man to continually work on his inner and outer relationships. Doing thi

It‘s Time To Pivot

Nov 14th, 2021 15m 48s

This is the final episode of Surrendering Average! Along our journey we usually need to make pivots, in order to course correct to ensure we are staying aligned to our life's mission and vision.I will fill you in with where I am heading and w

Relationships- How To Shorten Arguments And Reduce The Recovery Period

Nov 7th, 2021 28m 57s

Long drawn out arguments that would stay unsettled for a long period of time was something that Jess and I used to struggle with a lot. There would be a disagreement and the energy in the air didn't seem to settle for a long period of time.I c

Implementation And Integration Beyond Information

Oct 24th, 2021 33m 35s

Do you find yourself reading countless books, listening to multiple podcasts, and yet still haven't seen any tangible results?? This episode will break down all the reasons why this might be happening to you. It is absolutely incredible how mu

Think Bigger.

Oct 20th, 2021 34m 3s

Thinking the same way day after day will produce the same results we've got in the past. Familiar and recurring thoughts will populate unconsciously unless we can consciously inject new thoughts into our minds.Over time I personally noticed a

Relationships- What‘s More Important- Love Or Compatibility?

Oct 10th, 2021 29m 26s

This is a topic that many people face when first entering a relationship, or if they've been together for a while and may be questioning their future existence together.In today's episode we will explore how love and compatibility are built an

Protecting Your Personal Energy

Oct 4th, 2021 32m 46s

Who you hang out with and the daily activities you perform will impact the quality of your thinking, your inspiration, your capability to dream, and of course your ENERGY. All of which will have a direct impact on the results you will create.W

Separation By Cognitive Bias

Sep 26th, 2021 29m 49s

Lately, it's evident that there is more and more separation in the world. Most people take a firm stand towards their viewpoints, and typically aren't willing to see the other side.In today's show I want to shine a light on why I think this is

Ep. 81 Thorns Behind The Beauty

Sep 12th, 2021 33m 14s

In this episode I discuss how we all have thorns living in our subconscious. The thorns are a metaphor for unwanted automatic behavior response, bad habits, beliefs, traits, and neurological hardwiring that may not be serving us. We may never