Hi! I'm writing to share some exciting news. While Ménage à Moi has been on hiatus, I've been working on a podcast project for Season 4 of SFMOMA's Raw Material. It's called Luvvers. Luvvers is a six part series that considers the relationshi

Lindsay: Beguiled by Female Ejaculation

Jul 6th, 2018 32m 5s

Lindsay is a goddess. She is a spiritually and sexually enlightened being with special physical abilities that put her in a divine class of life forms whose experience of orgasm is heightened by releasing an ecstatic fountain of fluid from her

Amy: Brushing My Teeth, Washing My Hair, and Getting Off

Jun 22nd, 2018 27m 53s

If you’ve ever given yourself the old “I don’t have time” or “I’m too tired” excuse as a reason not to masturbate, then this is the episode for you. Amy has a lot going on in her life, probably more than you, and yet she makes time to connect w

Jennifer: I Just Need This Right Now

Jun 8th, 2018 31m 14s

The pickles-and-ice-cream cravings of a desperate pregnant woman and the agonized screams of an unprepared body in labor are well-worn Hollywood tropes, and for many of us, they are the first things we see and hear about birth. What we don’t se

Christian: Ovulating like a Frat Boy at a Party

May 25th, 2018 30m 47s

Only the funniest, most down-to-earth midwife would compare her sexual outlook while ovulating to that of a party-going frat boy. Well, say hello to Christian of Fertile Moon Midwifery! Of course she knows her own body really well, but she also

Erica: Unlearning Shame

May 11th, 2018 24m 56s

Have you ever thought about putting your deepest darkest sexual experiences into a book? Most people wouldn’t dare, let alone publish it under their real name! Well, Erica, my guest this week has done just that in a remarkably authentic and str

Tyomi: We Have Infinite Amounts of Sexual Energy

Apr 30th, 2018 34m 20s

Sexperts have never really been my thing, but this conversation has me reconsidering my position. Glamazon Tyomi tells me that most men are probably masturbating wrong by simply producing “meaningless emissions” (which is also my new band’s nam

Nikki: I Have Pleasure, I Have Desire, and I Have the Right to Enjoy My Body

Feb 16th, 2018 28m 31s

Nikki is a jack-of-all-trades: a writer, performer, and artist who, through her work, challenges widespread, culturally ingrained misogyny. Nikki is all about letting her freak flag fly and spreading the gospel of why it’s important for everyon

Bianca. How to Pull Ideas Out of Your Vagina

Feb 2nd, 2018 28m 31s

Bianca’s lust for life shines bright, whether it’s embodied in the artwork she makes at her creative business called Chaparral Studio or heard in her voice while describing the indispensability of a detachable shower head. She is a true advent

Phoebe: Masturbating Away Shitty Power Dynamics

Jan 19th, 2018 27m 41s

Pleasure and sex are not always synonymous, and for young women this is especially true. Despite Phoebe’s early and creative forays into the world of self-pleasure, it was not until she had a ‘feminist awakening’ that she began to prioritize he

Suzanne. Porn-induced Orgasms are the TV Dinners of Sex

Jan 5th, 2018 32m 47s

With Suzanne Santo's 2017 debut solo album 'Ruby Red' receiving many accolades and her accompanying North American tour now in full swing, Ménage à Moi was lucky enough to get some face time with the Honey Honey songstress while she made a brie

Jenée: Sex is Funny, Fake Orgasms are Not

Dec 22nd, 2017 24m 46s

Ménage à Moi’s guest this week went from watching age-inappropriate movies as a child beside her parents, to making perfectly pitched indie movies that capture the complexities of women and the evolving nature of identity and sexuality. Yes, ar

Cadyn. Pleasure Requires Bravery

Dec 8th, 2017 27m 59s

Testosterone orgasms vs. estrogen orgasms—this week I attempt to get my medically trained guest, Cadyn, to give the final verdict on which one is better. Spoiler alert: I fail. Male and female hormones aside, too much focus on achieving orgasm

Ellen: When You Want to Rub Yourself, You Rub Yourself

Nov 24th, 2017 32m 40s

Assholes, what are they good for? No, not the orifice, those are great. I mean the people! This week’s guest, Ellen, gives credit where credit is due, to all the assholes she encountered in her budding sex life. With their help, she’s develope

Nicole: Blowing Up Your Life Can be a Really Good Thing

Nov 10th, 2017 22m 36s

Guess what? Lots of women have lots to say about masturbation. All you have to do is ask. Politely and respectfully, of course! At least that’s what I did with this week’s guest: Nicole from the amazing Bitchface podcast. Clearly she’s thought

Jessa: Sex is What You Make of It

Oct 26th, 2017 24m 32s

Introducing Jessa, the wonderful woman who answered MàM's online call for masturbators. What a fearless move! As you will learn, Jessa is an old pro at arranging IRL encounters. Anyone remember IRC chat rooms? Yes, that was the early 90’s. Jes

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