I'm back with another episode....finally! This week's episode I have a special guest, my friend Ayanni! During this week's episode my friend share's her story and gives us a life update about where she is mentally, her relationships with family

Random Thoughts of the Week

Jun 5th, 2023 33m 4s

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I send my condolences to Tina Turner & Jacky Oh. I also share my thoughts about British Williams fraud case. During this week's episode I share my thoughts on work place harassment

My Black Is Beautiful

May 19th, 2023 30m 42s

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions about Tokyo Toni & Blac Chyna's relationship. This weeks topic is about my encounter with a black man who celebrated my blackness but was disgusted

Vet 'Em Right

May 5th, 2023 28m 29s

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions on how I felt about Nick Cannon's response to RTT getting canceled and eating around the tissue. This weeks topic is about vetting someone intentio

Don't Forget About You Sis

Apr 14th, 2023 24m 29s

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions on how this Shanquella Robinson case is playing out. This weeks topic is about motherhood and how it made me fall into a deep depression because I

Wanna Be Poly?

Apr 7th, 2023 24m 24s

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I touch on doing things right by societies standards and ending up alone and unhappy and also resolving miscommunications between siblings. This weeks topic is about my point of vi

Fight Your Own Battles

Mar 29th, 2023 25m 30s

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I congratulate Blac Chyna on her transition back to Angela. In this episode I'll share a little story time and how repeating conversations can lead to the destruction of relationsh

Unlearning Bad Habits

Mar 10th, 2023 33m 5s

I'm backkkkkk with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my opinion on the Mexican kidnappings and Bishop Whitehead. This week is all about unlearning bad communication habits some of us witnessed as a child. I share how tho

Reason's Why I Joined The Military

Feb 27th, 2023 25m 19s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode and for this week's history lesson I talk about how General Marcelite Harris career was so inspiring to black military members today. I also share the reasons why I joined and how I'm thankful f

It's Black History Month

Feb 7th, 2023 30m 35s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode and is ready to celebrate Black History Month! This week for the Red Hot Topic I give a little history lesson about a Black way maker that doesn't get the shine she deserves. I also speak on the

Family Introductions

Jan 7th, 2023 30m 57s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode and a special guest! This week we me and my husband discuss introducing potential love interest to our families and whether or not doing so is still considered sacred. We also touch on Nick Cann

2022 Recap/Lessons

Dec 31st, 2022 33m

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This weeks episode is all about how 2022 was for me and the lessons this year taught me and where I want to be in the new year. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share.Follow th

Mad Maddy

Dec 16th, 2022 29m 37s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week I share a story about a new friendship quickly went south and other random messy situations from Coach Stormy to trending TikTok relationship drama. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscr

Protecting Your Peace

Oct 24th, 2022 29m 26s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week I talk about how important it is for me to protect my peace. How dealing with my triggers and going to therapy helped me get to a space where peace is my priority over all things. Enj

One Year of LA Livin'

Oct 3rd, 2022 33m 32s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week with my special guest Lay, we discuss what it's been like livin' in LA for one year. The highs and lows of moving cross country away from our families, trying to fit into the LA scen

Let's Get Married

Sep 19th, 2022 27m 49s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week is about I give my opinion on men who seek out young women. I also talk speak on whether on not as a women you should be expecting your man to propose to you. Enjoy the episode. Follo

Lunch With A Coworker

Sep 5th, 2022 28m 54s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode. This week I share my recent experience of going to lunch with a coworker of the opposite sex. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situations/?__coig_rest

Dream Chaser

Aug 16th, 2022 16m 56s

Your favorite sister is back with another episode. This week I speak on being a dream chaser in my mid 20s and what my options were growing up with big dreams. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situatio

Be Black & Be Proud

Jun 20th, 2022 22m 1s

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week we talk about how our feelings towards black people who fake like they mixed and they not. Black girls wearing colored contacts in 2022 and the token black person among their gr

Trap Church's

Jun 13th, 2022 23m 7s

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! In this episode we share how we feel about these 2022 churches. How it's hard to find a good church these days, the music has changed and how the vibes are way different as we've gotten o

Taking Someone Out The Friend Zone

May 30th, 2022 27m 13s

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week we discuss taking a guy out of the friend zone. Why we would or would not and if we have ever dated someone we friend zoned. Enjoy the episode. Follow us on IG at _messy_situati

Evidence

May 23rd, 2022 32m 53s

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week we share our take on dealing with someone who try's to hide the fact that they are a cheater and giving their partner the chance to choose if they want to stick around or not. E

First Impressions

May 9th, 2022 28m 41s

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week ask each other if first impressions matter, when it comes to love interest & friendships. We also talk about what we do/like to see when we are meeting a person for the first ti

Domestic Abuse

May 2nd, 2022 33m 2s

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week we share our opinion about the Meg the Stallion & Tory situation and how to potentially protect yourself from relationships that are abusive. Enjoy the episode. Follow us on IG

Okay With Being # 2

Apr 25th, 2022 28m 4s

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week we ask each other if we would be down to marry a man knowing we were his second option, women being desperate for love, and more! Enjoy the episode. Follow us on IG at _messy_si