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Welcome to Mindsurfer MD . I'm
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your host , Dr Liz Trainor , and my
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mission is to normalize discussions about
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mental health and provide resources to
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those of us who are riding the waves . So
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let's dive in .
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Hi everybody . I am so delighted
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to have Dr Judith Hong here with us today
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. She is a board certified
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dermatologist practicing in Northern California
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, and she is also an
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avid artist and a
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gymnast and a hockey player and
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a dancer , and she is also a
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master teacher
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of Reiki . She's a Reiki master teacher
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and I'm very excited to explore
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what Reiki is and
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how you stumbled upon it and
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how it can
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be useful in
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life for those of us who are struggling
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with depression or pain
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or anxiety or many
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other things . So yeah
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, so hi how are you ?
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I'm doing well Thank you , liz , for inviting
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me to your podcast and I'm really
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nervous but excited to
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share about my
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Reiki journey and how it's impacted
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me and how I
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love sharing about it because it's
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helped me so much in my life and continues
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to , and how maybe
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this is something that could help others and
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they may not even realize it . So
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I'm really excited and
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I was actually thinking if we could just start
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with a little meditation and
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I'll write this and so everyone listening
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please join along and we
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can enjoy this together . So we'll start
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with our hands in what's called gao shou and
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that's prayer position or hands
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coming together , and
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you're going to go ahead and just start
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to notice your body and notice your breath , just
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coming back to
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our bodies , our senses , and
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just let that breath naturally start to deepen
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and
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soft bellies . And
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let's go ahead and imagine a cord
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comes from the tip of our tailbone
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, so an area some might
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know as the root chakra , and
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have it go down into the ground and
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it keeps going down into the earth and it goes
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down , down , down , down , down
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down all the way to the
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core of Mother Earth and there it anchors and
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wraps around and
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, as that happens , anything
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that's dense or not serving
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you or any
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stressors just start to naturally drain
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down this cord and it goes into the
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Mother Earth to be absorbed
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and transmuted into love and light . At
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the same time , there's this earth energy that
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starts to flow up the cord and into our bodies
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. Then
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, at the crown of your head , imagine that
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it opens up and then there's this beautiful
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waterfall , brilliant
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white light , the sparkling , dancing
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light coming from the cosmos
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. It flows into our
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heads and it starts to just spread
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into every part of our body
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. It goes down our
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head or neck , into our shoulders
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, all the way down to the tips of the fingers
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, it goes down our chest
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, our abdomen , into
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the pelvis , into both hips and it goes
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all the way down to the tips
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of our toes . This
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brilliant light is just saturating
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every cell in our body and every space
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in between . And
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as you breathe in , you really feel this
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earth and cosmic energy
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coming in . And
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as you breathe out , imagine it expands
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out every surface
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of your body 360 degrees
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like a fine mist . So
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we're just breathing it in and
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as we breathe out , it just expands and
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we can start to use our imagination . And
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since there's no limits to
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our imagination . You can start to see
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this mist of energy expanding
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out further and further . So
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maybe it starts with filling up whatever
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room you're in , maybe
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expands to your
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city , and
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then you can expand it out to your whole country
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, and
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then next we can even expand it to
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cover our entire planet so
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that every being living
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or inanimate can receive this , and
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then you can let it continue out to infinity
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into the universe . So we're breathing
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it in and as it expands
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it just goes out forever
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, and
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then we're going to slowly start to bring it back in
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. So let's
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bring it back to the
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earth , let's
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bring it back to our country , let's
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bring it back to our city , let's
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bring it back to our room , and
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then let's put our hands on our heart and
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let's bring all that back into our heart . This
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is women , physicians . We
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know what it is like to really
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give and give with a heart , and
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this is just a little moment where we can
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let our heart receive . Our
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very loving , generous
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, giving hearts can just
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receive this energy that's all
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around us . It's the heavens
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, each other , and
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I'm just so grateful to
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be here on the podcast and thank
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you everyone for listening
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. We
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can slowly come back
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to and
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you can open your eyes , as they're been closed .
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And that was beautiful . Thank you so much . I
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really needed that because I was nervous too
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. I don't know why , but I
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just I loved your class . I'm
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so grateful that I was able to take your
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Reiki level one class
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a couple of weeks ago and in fact I tried
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and it actually really
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helped . I did some Reiki on myself this morning
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, Just
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being present , and I found
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it very grounding and something that you said in class
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has become a little bit of a mantra that
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I am grounded and it's not about
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me and just letting
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that energy flow through to
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calm myself and
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heal myself , and I'm
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learning to apply that to help
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others too . So very early
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on my journey . But I would
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love to hear a little bit about how
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Reiki first came into your life , Judith . If
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you could tell us a little bit about that .
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So it's funny one of my teachers
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says you don't find Reiki , reiki finds
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you . So
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Reiki found me and basically
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I did all my training at UCSF
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med school residency just
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very focused . And then we
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decided to move to Sonoma County . That's
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where I got my job , which I'm still at . It's a
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really wonderful office . And
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Sonoma County I didn't know . I
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knew it was beautiful as wine country but is
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actually home to just a lot
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of interest in spiritual
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practices , alternative , complimentary
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Reiki . And
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so I just started
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to hear the word Reiki and
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some of my close friends , actually in different
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circles who are
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very intuitive I had two separate
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friends said you should do Reiki . I said
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I have no idea what that is , but great
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, just brush it off . And I think
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it popped in a couple other times . I'm like
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, oh , there's that word Reiki again . And finally
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it was actually a new patient at
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my office . She had tinny aversa
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color , so it was pretty simple
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, straightforward visit .
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but I looked at her occupation and
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I said hey , it says you're a Reiki
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master .
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I'm like what is that and how do I
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learn it ? So she
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told me a little bit about it and said
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oh there's . You know , if you
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want to learn , there's a really great teacher locally
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here in Santa Rosa , daily Little . And
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so I went and I looked as like , oh , there's
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a workshop in two weeks . Okay , I
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can do it , I'll sign up for it . I didn't even
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bother reading about it or looking into
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it , and so I showed up to class
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and I love doing this . I'm very curious and
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I'll just try anything . You know that's
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legal .
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Yes , yes , you sound like me . Yes , yes , exactly , I
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have my boundaries .
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But you know , I'm like , why not ? You know , reiki
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class ? And I thought it was really interesting
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. I just it was such a different way
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of thinking about wellness
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and healing and you know , her whole thing
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was that you're just a vessel to , not about
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you . And
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that blew my mind because I was like , as a physician
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, it's like , oh my God , it is about me , it's
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my , it's my duty , it's my job . I
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have to fix this person . And this was
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, you know , her concept was the more
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you're just relaxed and not invested
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in it , the more happens . And that
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just completely I
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didn't get it you know and I'm learning
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to , to understand the process , but I
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loved it and I didn't
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actually feel very much . You know , there
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are people that were very intuitive . They were seeing
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colors , they were feeling the energy
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and I was like , oh , I'm relaxed
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, this is good . But when I was doing we
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were doing practice on each other and I was hovering my
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hands over someone
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, the teacher said , wow , there's
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so much energy pouring out of your hands . And I
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looked at my hands . I was like , I don't know what
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you're talking about , but , okay
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, I'll go with it . And
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so that was my Reiki one class , and
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I started just practicing because I found
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it really calming for myself . So and
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I like helping others so it was great
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. It's like , oh , you're , you know you're , you
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have a headache or you're stressed Like , come here , let
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me , let me try this Reiki thing . I just learned and
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I found myself really calm . The other
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person really loved it , and so
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that that kept going . And then
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what happened was that I realized that
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it was divine timing . So I learned Reiki
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one in April of 2017
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. And then , october of 2017
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, I'm in Santa Rosa . It
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was the Tubbs fire and
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I was in an area
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that was just completely devastated
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by the fire . I lost my house . I lost
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every single item I owned , except
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for the clothing on my body . I
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got my dogs and my husband and
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my purse , and that was it . And
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so it was traumatic , to
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say the least , and not just the individual trauma
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, but the trauma of this
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entire community , I mean , burnt to ashes
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. People lost their home , people lost their lives
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, their loved ones , their businesses
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, and
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so my world was completely turned
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upside down . And then here's where Reiki
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came in again was it
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was the first week after the fires . I
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mean just trying to find a place to sleep
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, a place to eat .
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I mean basics , right , yeah
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bottom of my heart , I
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was like my friends like what do you mean ?
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right now ? I'm like , do you have nail clippers ? Like my
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nails were too long and I didn't have nail
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clippers , so she got me nail clippers
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and the same friend I am gifted me a session
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with this other woman . We both knew for
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Reiki . And so I went
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and I had not been sleeping I mean just the
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most shock and trauma
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and frozen you know
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I could be and so
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I was on the table and she started doing
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some Reiki and I told her I was like you know , if
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you have any messages of guidance
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, I knew she was intuitive and
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psychic . I was like I just need
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anything right . And so she
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kind of paused , hesitated , and she said
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you know , 10
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years ago , did you ever lose yourself
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? And I looked at her , I
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said what do you mean by losing
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yourself ? And she said have
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you ever been suicidal ? And
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I said yes , actually around 10 years
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ago , around time of internship
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, I was suicidal . And
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she said well , what I'm hearing now
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is that 10 years ago
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you had everything and
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you lost yourself . And
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now you've lost everything but
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you have yourself , and
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it still kind of brings tears
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to my eyes too . Yeah
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, it was a lightning bolt and I literally felt this
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like coming in through me and it
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was like at that moment because I have all
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the work I'd done from that period , so
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that I called . That was the first fire . That was
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like the burning of myself , that
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was , I lost all of myself and I had
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to raise myself from the ground up
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, right , and , you know , dove into
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that healing process and
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then , you know , 10 years later , my whole
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home , my community's , burnt to the ground . But
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I realized I had myself , I'd
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gotten to a place where I understood
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what that was . And even
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though the journey has not been easy and it's
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still , you know , ongoing , you
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know , four years later , I
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knew that I could , you know , get through this . And
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the universe has sent out , you know , support
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. And it's funny , actually , it
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was right after the Reiki class , about a month later , I
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had already signed up for a Reiki level two and
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I wasn't going to do it Before the fire , oh my
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. God , I'm in this like frazzled
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state and people say that a lot . They're like you know , things have
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come up . I'm not ready to be spiritual
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and grounded . I'm like that is the time
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to do these classes . And
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I tell people I've cried at every
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single Reiki class I've taken
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and actually some I've taught , because it's
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just such an opening
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and it's , you know , to
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have that space where you know
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Reiki's not about fixing you , it's
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not giving you advice , it's not , it's
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just letting you be and
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just with just holding the space and
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this intention for everyone's
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wellbeing . And
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that's how it's been such
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a powerful practice for me and to
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the point where I want to , you know
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, share about it . So that's
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a very personal story that
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I've only recently began
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sharing . But I realized just , you
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know for any listeners out there
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for you . You know , we
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I think a lot of us have these moments , and
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I think it's normalizing these conversations
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that we can share these pretty
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magical experiences that change
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our lives . So Absolutely
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.
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Thank you so much , judith , for sharing that , because
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I was just , it
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was so touched by your story . It
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just it really moved me . It brings me to tears again
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too , and
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suicide is the 10th most common cause of death
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in this country . It is something that I
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think is something
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that that is so , so
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common but not discussed Suicidal
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ideation and I I
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want to provide
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resources such as Reiki to
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those of us who are struggling , because I
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think it's something that , if we're willing
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to talk about it , we can
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open each other's
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hearts to providing
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these resources . I
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would love to hear because I know you've
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had some pretty powerful examples in your practice
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. There's
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one in particular about Well
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, let me just open it up to you Can you tell us about
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some of the experiences
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in your practice of dermatology where
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bringing the
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practice of Reiki has been helpful ?
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Yeah . So there's always one that
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comes to mind and is what really
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kind of launched me into being more
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open to Reiki . Because
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as a physician
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, I totally understand the need
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for evidence-based medicine
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and evidence-based practices
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and I understand
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skeptics and I
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am one too . So
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after I took my Reiki class , I'd just been practicing
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on just kind of friends and
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some colleagues and just very private about it , Like
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, oh , this is just this little fun thing and so
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closet . Reiki-est yes
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exactly , and then it was . I
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think it was just about two months after I
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took Reiki one . I was
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working with a patient who was
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there for a melanoma excision
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and I already knew she already
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told me she's high anxiety
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. I had given her Ativan
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, premedicated her beforehand , I
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even was trying to speak in my
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calmest voice possible and
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just to talk her through breathing , but she
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was just having a
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complete anxiety attack and
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out of desperation I just blurted
18:55
out have you heard of Reiki ? I
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was just grasping at straws and so she's
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like oh yeah , my sister does Reiki right . Perks
19:03
of being in Sonoma .
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County .
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And so I said well , you know , I just
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learned Reiki and could I just
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offer you a little bit of Reiki
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? And I was
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already gloved in and so it's great , right , you don't
19:16
have to touch . So I just like hovered , my medical
19:18
system was across the way and she
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just transformed in front of me
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, in front of the table and
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I will actually read her Yelp review
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because I'll let her speak about it
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and the ironic thing is that she misspelled
19:31
my name .
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She wrote Dr Wong , but I'll change it to Dr Wong , but
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it's there on .
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Yelp . So she
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wrote . Dr Hong is above and beyond any
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MD I have ever been treated by . First
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, she found , biopsied and verified a
19:44
melanoma on my back . Then , when I arrived
19:46
to have her remove it , I was a mess , totally anxious
19:49
, scared , shaking and crying . Dr
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Hong is clearly much more than a great MD
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she's a kind , caring and amazing
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energy healer . When Dr Hong put
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her hands on my back near the site to be removed
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, my whole body stopped shaking . I
20:02
became immediately calm and as she was working
20:04
on me , I became even more calm
20:06
. I know it's because of her healing energy
20:08
and presence . By the end of the surgery
20:11
, I felt completely peaceful in my body
20:13
. The whole experience was quite spiritual
20:16
for me . Dr Hong indeed gave me
20:18
a healing on mind , body and soul
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levels . Oh , and I have
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the dates from so June of 2017
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and I took Reiki April of
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2017 . So
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that is one of the most
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singular moments of this
20:34
Reiki journey where I was like
20:37
what , what just happened ? And
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it made me realize , okay
20:42
, I need to keep going with this
20:44
. I don't know what it is , I
20:47
don't know what happened In
20:49
a way I still don't but this
20:51
is really fascinating . And how wonderful
20:54
that I can just hover
20:57
my hand , do nothing , and
20:59
we can shift this whole . And we
21:01
both had this spiritual experience right there
21:04
. Yeah , clinic , yes , so
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, so , yeah , so that was one of my most
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powerful ones . And I'm
21:12
still not someone I don't really bring
21:14
in Reiki as a clinical
21:16
practice into , because I
21:19
really use it kind
21:21
of for myself and just
21:23
to help with staff sometimes or just
21:25
to kind of manage energy
21:27
. But I it's
21:30
been rare I actually do Reiki in the
21:32
clinic , but that was one time where
21:34
I did . And then the other fun one I actually
21:36
just saw her back recently is
21:39
a patient where same thing , her
21:41
anxiety I had to do a biopsy , a
21:43
shaped biopsy . She was panicking
21:46
. I was trying
21:48
to help her out and talk
21:51
and finally I was like , oh well , there was that
21:53
Reiki time . I did Okay . So I was like
21:55
, okay , oh , have you
21:57
heard of Reiki ? And fortunately she did , and
22:00
so I did a little Reiki
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and then I went ahead and did the procedure
22:04
and it went great . And
22:07
the next time she came back six
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months later and
22:11
, actually interesting , it turned out to be a melanoma that
22:13
I biopsied . So when she came back
22:16
another time she said Dr Hong
22:18
, you changed my life what
22:20
? And she's like my needle
22:23
phobia is gone . And I said
22:25
what she's like ? Yeah
22:27
, it's gone , it's this lifelong
22:29
phobia . And I
22:31
was like , okay , and
22:34
of course I'm like okay
22:36
. Well , maybe the explanation was I put
22:38
her in a very calm state
22:41
and just by offering her something
22:43
, even if Reiki doesn't exist , but
22:45
me just being present with her , willing to
22:47
try something out of the box , shifted
22:50
something in her synapses
22:53
and the link to the amygdala
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, fear , reaction . But whatever , if
22:57
that's it , if that's all . It was a placebo
23:00
. Fantastic and
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that's the fun thing is the unexpected
23:05
, it's the magic , I call
23:07
it . It's like the magic of medicine
23:09
and or magic of
23:11
life and the surprises
23:13
and the mystery and
23:16
the . I always , when I was little , like , I love
23:18
, like the magical realms and
23:21
the sparkly , the unicorns
23:23
, the , and so
23:25
Reiki has that for me . It fills
23:28
that little , that childhood wonderment
23:30
, childhood joy of like , ooh
23:32
, what if there is magic in the world ?
23:35
So yes , and
23:37
I think we create
23:39
our magic and I think that
23:41
, like you said earlier with
23:43
and you taught this in the class that Reiki
23:45
is not about us , the practitioner
23:48
, healing the patient . It's allowing
23:50
the patient to heal themselves . It's creating a calm
23:53
place and
23:55
I think of it as basically holding somebody in
23:57
meditation and love together and
24:01
allowing them to come to that calm place . And , like you
24:03
said , if you want to get into the science of it , rewiring
24:05
things to calm down the
24:07
amygdala right or Fright or Flight Fear
24:10
Center , and
24:13
that can lead us into talking a little bit about some
24:15
of the science because , like you were saying , you know , as
24:17
physicians , we want the data , we
24:19
want the numbers , and there have been a number
24:21
of studies that are placebo controlled , that
24:24
have found some benefit to
24:26
Reiki . Can you talk a little bit about those
24:28
?
24:29
Yeah , absolutely , and you
24:31
know , and for those of you who
24:33
kind of want more information , you're always
24:35
welcome to reach out to me , because
24:38
I've compiled some of it and I don't
24:40
have it by memory , so I'm going to be looking at my
24:42
notes . But one
24:45
website I really recommend is
24:47
the Center for Reiki Research
24:49
, and this is
24:52
a group of Reiki
24:54
practitioners , scientists , whose
24:57
goal is really compiling all the studies
24:59
that have been done on Reiki , and
25:01
then they have this process
25:03
called the Touchstone Process , where they actually do these
25:05
summaries . And so I
25:07
was really excited because you
25:10
know , I , you know I like
25:12
looking at some of the research , but for me it's such
25:14
like a like a spiritual experiential
25:16
practice , but I know some
25:18
people that's really important , and so this is a really
25:21
great resource for that . And
25:23
then another good book is
25:25
called Reiki and Clinical Practice , a Science-Based
25:28
Guide by Ann Baldwin
25:30
, and she also does a kind
25:32
of summary of all the different studies
25:34
. And you know she has an interesting journey because
25:36
she's also a scientist too , and
25:38
there was a lab assistant
25:41
that did Reiki and she had
25:43
a profound experience , and so she shifted
25:45
her studies to studying
25:47
Reiki . But let
25:49
me see there's also McManus
25:53
2017 has a very good
25:55
review about placebo-controlled
25:57
Reiki trials
25:59
. So this is the cool thing there are actually
26:02
quite a lot of placebo-controlled
26:04
, because of course you're like , oh , someone's there
26:06
, they're putting their hands on you , like
26:09
that's healing in and of itself . But in
26:11
the placebo-controlled trials they had people
26:13
who were not Reiki practitioners
26:16
and they had them like actors
26:19
or nurses and they trained them . This is
26:21
where you put your hands or this is how you mimic
26:23
, and so you're
26:25
actually they got sham Reiki and
26:28
so I know that's always very
26:30
important to have that control aspect
26:33
. And there are different studies
26:35
, but some of them have showed a decrease
26:38
in heart rate in high
26:40
blood pressure sorry , not heart rate , blood
26:42
pressure in hypertensive patients
26:45
. There was a study about burnt out
26:47
healthcare professionals that showed
26:49
increased heart rate variability . We
26:52
don't relate to that at all . Right , health
26:55
care professionals burnt out what are you talking about
26:57
?
26:57
I love pathology . I have to say I feel very
26:59
fortunate to be a pathologist .
27:01
And I'm a dermatologist . Yes
27:04
, we're so grateful
27:06
for all you primary care
27:09
frontline workers . I
27:11
mean just
27:13
so much respect for all
27:16
our colleagues , our physician colleagues , our
27:18
healthcare colleagues , every
27:21
one out there who's doing what
27:23
they can . And
27:26
then there , let me see , there were also
27:29
some decrease in
27:31
pain , depression and
27:33
anxiety in a group
27:35
of chronically ill patients . And
27:39
then there were studies that show no effect
27:41
too . So there was a study on fibromyalgia
27:44
no difference in pain . There was a study
27:46
on the amount of anesthesia needed for
27:48
pediatric patients , I believe
27:50
, getting dental procedure no difference . So
27:53
I am not here to say
27:55
, gosh , rakey's gonna cure
27:57
everything that's out there , because it's
28:00
not . And actually that's
28:02
not the point of it at all . As I've learned , it's
28:05
a really meditative , compassion
28:08
, mindfulness practice , and
28:10
the healing is a byproduct . That's
28:13
not up to us . It's that
28:16
person's own journey , it's their own
28:18
connection with the spirit divine
28:20
, whatever you call it God . They're
28:22
higher selves , and
28:25
so that's how I viewed it and it's
28:27
a . I love it as a compassion practice
28:29
, because you can do self
28:31
Rakey , you can do Rakey for others , you can
28:33
do Rakey for the planet , you can do Rakey
28:36
for something going on at a
28:38
distance , you can send Rakey ahead of time
28:40
for something . I sent Rakey to this podcast
28:42
because I was like , oh , my gosh , I was so nervous
28:44
about this . Like okay , well , I'm talking about
28:47
Rakey , I should just do my own practice and
28:49
send it , rakey and I asked for Rakey
28:51
friends to send you know , and
28:54
so it's kind of fun . It's prayer
28:56
, it's intention , it's
28:58
something that's been part of human
29:00
. You know , just being
29:02
human right like how , how
29:05
much has has spiritual practice
29:07
or prayer hands-on
29:10
healing , you know so
29:12
.
29:14
That's the community aspect , and you have a , you
29:16
have a Facebook group , I think . If can
29:18
you tell us a little bit about that , is that for students
29:20
?
29:20
or um , no , it's , it's for anyone interested
29:23
. It kind of started out as the place to
29:25
gather you know people I was teaching , but it's
29:28
open . It's called a wishing wellness
29:31
way Reiki , and
29:33
that's . You can just find
29:35
it on Facebook or you can find me , judith
29:37
Hong , and you know , message me and I can always
29:39
add you and and
29:41
that's a fun thing . And I realized one of the most
29:44
fun things about teaching Reiki is
29:46
the cool people I get to Meet and then they
29:48
learn Reiki and then I can ask them to send me some Reiki
29:50
. I need help , selfish
29:54
, you motive , but no
29:57
, it's , it's just really great community
29:59
and and and then
30:01
people bring in such a different gifts . You know there's
30:03
other people who do other forms
30:05
of energy healing , like I've . You know
30:07
healing touch or qigong , or you
30:10
know yoga practices , and so
30:13
we have all these different ways of connecting
30:15
to those , those parts of us and
30:18
that connection to spirit . So Reiki's
30:20
just one , you know , example
30:23
of that . But it doesn't have to be
30:25
just that . I always tell people just go with
30:27
what Resonates and what's
30:29
fun , right , don't pursue something
30:31
if it's not enjoyable . If you
30:33
know if and I tell my students that , like
30:36
anything here I'm teaching
30:38
that doesn't resonate , just let it go . But if there's
30:40
something that you really connect to
30:42
, like , you really like the hands on the self
30:44
, great , you know the self Reiki . Or you
30:46
like visualizing the light , wonderful
30:49
, you know other things , you know
30:51
let it go . I'm not , I don't
30:53
. I want everyone to just explore
30:55
themselves , and and the analogy
30:58
I use is you know , I'll show you a
31:00
brush and here's the blank canvas
31:02
, is here's how you dip the brush and paint and paint
31:04
. But I don't want you to paint
31:06
like me , I want you to do your own art
31:09
style , whatever you bring in . And so
31:11
with Reiki , I say , if you already do
31:13
yoga , just bring in Reiki
31:15
into your yoga practice . If
31:17
you cook , you love cooking , send
31:19
Reiki to your ingredients , to your food , and so
31:22
that's where it's like a mindfulness practice
31:24
of it's my little
31:26
touchstone , for you
31:28
know , being mindful about what I'm doing , what
31:31
I'm experiencing , and
31:33
I am definitely not there most of
31:35
the time and it's a little early
31:37
on . Yes , I'm quite
31:39
human but it's helped me so much
31:41
, just with every you
31:44
know part of my life . Just
31:46
, you know , reiki and the
31:48
. The other thing I do want to share that rate
31:50
my animal Reiki teacher , kathleen Prasad
31:52
, taught me is that Reiki is
31:54
about our inner light , seeing
31:57
another person's inner light . So there's a sense
31:59
that we all have our light and sometimes it gets covered up
32:01
, it's foggy
32:04
, it's misty , there's mud on it . Right , life
32:06
happens and we feel like we have no light , but
32:09
it's there , and then if you can see
32:11
other people's light and
32:13
look for that , that's
32:16
. I'll share a story about that one
32:18
. So I had a metastatic melanoma
32:21
patient who was , just , you
32:24
know , not happy with the health care system
32:26
, not happy with you
32:28
know a lot of what was happening in general
32:31
, of course , and and he was difficult
32:33
energetically , very difficult for me and I would Kind
32:38
of dread our visits because it was hard
32:40
for me . I'm very sensitive and someone's
32:42
not happy or you know
32:44
, in a in a kind of angry , frustrated place
32:46
that it impacts me . So I just took
32:48
this animal Reiki class . She said , you know , my
32:50
light sees your light . I was like , okay , all right , that's my practice for this week
32:52
. My light , I'm seeing his light , I'm seeing his light , I'm seeing his light , I'm
32:56
seeing his light . So I go in and
32:58
we're going about our visit and somehow
33:00
I think I just asked about his hobbies
33:03
, right ? I'm like , okay , I'm not
33:05
seeing a sick patient
33:07
, I'm seeing who is . Who is he like ? What
33:09
is he interested in ? And he says
33:11
hockey . And so I was like hockey
33:13
, oh my god , I played hockey
33:15
, you know , and I played roller hockey
33:17
, I played ice hockey , like I love hockey
33:20
, and he just lit up right
33:22
and we just we talked about hockey
33:24
, I asked about what position he played
33:26
and anyway , so , and it
33:28
just , it just shifts right . And so the
33:32
next time he comes in , he
33:34
hands me this thing wrapped
33:36
in this black scarf , and he's like here you go
33:38
. And I said oh , what
33:41
is it ? He's like well , it's a gift
33:44
. And he said
33:46
I was out with my brother and I
33:48
said I want to buy my doctor a gift . And
33:50
he's like oh , like which doctor ? And
33:52
your oncologist ? He's like no , my dermatologist
33:55
. She's , she's one of the most important doctors
33:57
you know . So
34:00
I opened the gift and we're in
34:02
Santa Rosa , which is , you know
34:04
, charles Schultz and Snoopy and all that
34:06
, and it was Snoopy playing
34:09
hockey with an H and
34:11
he said the H is for hockey and the H
34:13
is for Hong , and I had to hold
34:15
myself from just you know Bali , and
34:19
it still sits on my desk and
34:22
and that's like my little reminder
34:24
of if we can just do
34:26
those little shifts . You know
34:28
, instead of dreading to see that
34:30
patient that you know , yes , time and again
34:32
they've been difficult , if
34:35
we can , okay , where , where's their light
34:37
? You know where's their light and ask
34:39
I asked for help , like you know Reiki , for
34:41
helping me connect
34:43
to this person . And
34:46
and you know what's ? I realize
34:48
what's kind of fun about
34:50
being a clinical physician
34:52
is that it's a great playground
34:54
to try these practices
34:57
. So , as you learn different practices
34:59
you know compassion practices , loving
35:01
, kindness , reiki , grounding
35:05
just try
35:07
it out in your clinic and
35:10
and you'll , you'll get feedback . You'll get feedback
35:12
like , oh , this , this is something
35:14
that works well for me , or no
35:16
, didn't really feel that , but that
35:18
shifted my . My practice is a . You
35:20
know I , any patients are listening .
35:22
I hope they don't feel like they're a little out
35:26
of compassion and , you know
35:28
, wanting to help you know others be
35:31
as good of a physician as I can , so well
35:34
, I really benefited from taking your class
35:36
and you know I'm a pathologist , so I also
35:38
will be using Reiki only probably on myself
35:40
and and family members . But I
35:43
would love for our listeners to be able
35:45
to find your class , and you said that
35:47
people can find you on Facebook . They can find
35:49
you on Facebook and you do to Hong
35:51
hong , or do you have a website
35:54
that you want to let people know about ?
35:55
you . I don't , but
35:58
I know that is next , so . But
36:00
at this point you could actually I do
36:03
have a separate email account . So
36:05
that's wishing wellness
36:07
at gmailcom
36:10
and so , and then I
36:12
guess what I do develop a website
36:14
. We could probably tack
36:16
that on somehow . So thank you
36:18
for wonderful , wonderful , wonderful
36:20
.
36:21
Yeah , and I again
36:24
, I found it to be such a simple
36:26
but but powerful technique and
36:28
I was surprised
36:30
in the sense that it's something
36:34
that was only what I think a three
36:36
hour class , that
36:38
that just just to get some
36:40
of the basic fundamentals , that
36:42
and you know , as you said , you'd
36:44
only taken Reiki one and already , two
36:47
months later , we're able to really help
36:49
a patient in a way that you might
36:51
not have been able to before taking
36:53
that class . So it's a pretty simple but
36:55
powerful and experience that I highly
36:58
highly recommend it . Anyway
37:00
thank you so much for sharing your
37:02
journey . I am so grateful . I think
37:04
this will be really beneficial to our listeners . Hopefully
37:07
you weren't meditating when you were driving , but we are
37:10
just so happy to have you here
37:12
and please , please
37:14
, reach out to Judith to find more information
37:17
.
37:17
So thank you so much
37:19
. Thank you , liz . This was wonderful
37:22
. My first podcast , you did
37:24
it . Yeah , with you , I'm the better
37:26
person to walk
37:28
hand in hand through .
37:29
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37:31
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