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What is up everyone ? Welcome

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to Mindfully Moody , a

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podcast community to

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help you , empower you

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, guide you , support you

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, love you on your journey to

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be the absolute best version

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of yourself . We are

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happy to have you back for another episode . I'm

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Sarah and I am joined

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by my best friend and co-host , hannah , and

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we're getting into it . Today , we

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got some shit to say , and you know what I actually

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think . It's literally so amazing

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that I feel that we

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have just blasted

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the doors wide open of like we're

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just going to be free , we're

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just going to be ourselves , we're going to be authentic

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, we're going to say what we want to say and we are not going

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to be afraid of what people

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have to say about it .

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Period , because we got

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some hot takes up in

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this bitch . We're getting raw

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, we're getting real . We're going to

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just be telling you some

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things that we have

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maybe a controversial opinion

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on Getting into dirt

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. Getting into , I don't even

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know .

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We want to be funny , we want to be , we

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want to be getting some

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laughter going , getting

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some giggles happening . And

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actually , if you didn't listen to our

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relationship episode

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, like what it what was it titled ? Hannah ? red flags

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and ghosting . Go

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listen to that if you are someone

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that's dating , even if you're not , like just

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to get some laughs . But we posted some clips

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on tiktok of that episode and people

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had some reactions some good reactions , some bad reactions and people had some reactions

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some good reactions , some bad reactions

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and we

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love it . I just , yeah , we love it . We're

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open to the reactions . You know what , we're

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being free and you be free too , react if

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you want to react . But it just makes

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me think about too , like before we even

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get into it , like spiritual

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people can have opinions too . Okay , like

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we're allowed to , right . That

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person Say spiritual people can have opinions too , okay , like we're allowed to

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right that .

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Say what we want to say . You know what I mean ? Yeah , okay , wait , let's give like just like a little

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insider about . About the comment . It's not

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even that big of a deal , but what were we talking

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about ? Oh , I was talking about um

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, men that send selfies

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, too many selfies . I'm like it's

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cringe , it gives me the ick and someone's like wow

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way to make fun of guys or some shit

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like what did she say ?

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yeah , I mean , I think there was actually a few

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. I think there was a few , and the one that I'm

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thinking of is like well , yeah , no

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, the one that you're talking about was like give guys

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like a break , or like something like that , and it's like

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something about spiritual . Oh , it says , like your honey

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, we've been giving guys a break , society

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is giving guys plenty of a break , but no

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, someone else wrote exactly what you're just saying . Like

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your whole shtick is like mindset and spirituality

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and like you're , you know , you're

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like getting on men for sending selfies

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and it's like we're

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allowed to have opinions .

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Right , right , you can't have a growth

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mindset and like , not want , not want a guy

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to send you a selfie the first 72 hours

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of knowing him . Like , are

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you off your ?

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rocker lady like

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. Also , it's reminding me of the episode of yeah

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, it's also reminding the

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episode of like we do both , when

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we were talking about that . Like we're spiritual girlies

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and we watch reality tv and

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we have hot takes and we have opinions

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, like I think that like , as we've

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grown in our lives , like we've maybe

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shifted away from like having as harsh

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of opinions as like certainly

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myself , the younger version of myself had of like

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black and white , but like it doesn't mean

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I don't like and dislike things .

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Yeah , you know it's so funny , as I'm like and dislike things yeah . You

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know it's so funny , as I'm like going through this list

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and creating hot takes , I'm like these are going to be controversial

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, but I feel like not for the general

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audience , like I'm like they're

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going to be controversial between me and you .

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I'm like I know that you're going to be like ew

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, that's funny . All

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right , let's go . What ?

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you got what's all

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right , let's start off . Let's start off hot with a good

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one . Hot

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, take guys

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that drive big trucks are sexy

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. I've

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been like lately turned on by a guy who drives

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a truck and like in the past I was

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like ew , that's disgusting , like oh my god , it takes

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up so much gas . You know environment , bad for the environment

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. And now I'm like literally turned

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on . I'm like damn , like daddy in the truck

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okay

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, I'm dead because you are so right .

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That is gonna be one that I am not into , although

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, like , I could maybe be into . Like

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, like it depends on the truck

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. You know , like , what kind of truck

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are we talking ? Like ?

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Not a big old Texas rig .

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Okay .

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Not like the ones that are like lifted

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, not like the big ass wheels

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Right . But like a nice big truck

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, like

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pick me up , daddy

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.

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Does he have a purpose for the truck Like

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? I need more details . No , you know no .

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All right , the truck like . I need more details you know .

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All right , no farmer or something , I don't know cow , no , I'm thinking that's

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way hotter . Like a cowboy with a truck is way

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hotter than like an average gym

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bro in austin with a truck that

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does nothing with it . No

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, the hot take cowboys are

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hotter .

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Wow coming from a horse girl , you

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know . I was actually thinking this

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as a hot take as well . I was like gym

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bros are kind of hot , like

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they're on their shit , like they're committed

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Whoa , whoa , whoa .

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Stop right there .

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Hold up . Take over the mic , please .

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Okay , I actually it's funny about

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the truck . I had this situation

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yesterday and this was like an old guy with

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a truck , so I mean older guy with a truck , but

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like he used to think that he was a hot guy

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with a truck , he still thinks that he's a hot guy with a truck

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. I was in the whole foods parking lot and I

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literally , like in florida texas

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is probably the same people have these giant

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hitches on the back of their truck

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, like literally comes out like two feet

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from the car , runs directly into

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like a small car while I am

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parked in my parking

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spot and I witness him do

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it . Okay , backs right into the thing

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. Bam hits it , gets out of the

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car , looks , gets back

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in the car , pulls into the spot

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, across so that like they wouldn't

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know that it was him that did it shut

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up , he .

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He just left it . What did you do ? So I ?

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like zoom in

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and I like get a picture of his license plate

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because it's like , okay , yeah , hot , take . Is what

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would you do in this situation ? Um , and

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then I witness another car

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who must have also seen it come

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park and I had my window up and

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I was like not trying to be too nosy and

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like start yelling at the guy , basically

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Like saying that like what he did was wrong

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and like it's like this redneck guy , he's

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like he's like fighting back .

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Oh my gosh . Yeah , I mean , I definitely would have done that

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too , because imagine if someone did that to your car .

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I would be so I know well , I got

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out and , like I looked at the damage and it wasn't because

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I was thinking I'm gonna leave a note on this person's car

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and tell them like

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literally like this man

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like hit your car

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. You know what I mean , but

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the damage wasn't that bad . But still , you

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know , screw that guy for doing that . Um

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, but maybe if it's like a bronco or

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something , okay , anyway , moving on , she

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likes gym boys now okay

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.

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But like , if you think about it like , think , think

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about the qualities of a gym guy , gym

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tan , tan , laundry . No

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, like he's consistent , he cares about his health . Like

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he prioritizes self-care . Like

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why are we hating on gym bros Like

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, and they have a good body ? I mean like I'm not

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Depends on the guy . Okay , I'm just going to be keep

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going . The hot takes keep coming . Okay

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, just let me shut up .

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Literally shut up . Literally shut up , just right off . Okay , I'm going to

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do a relationship one Hot take . Most

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people are in

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unhappy relationships and will continue

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to be in them Romantic relationships

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because they are scared to be alone . I've

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been thinking about this a lot lately because I've

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been thinking about just like compatibility

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, that two people are required to have

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to literally embark on life together , and

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the fact that so many people are in relationships

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and it literally doesn't . I'm

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thinking about that meme where it's like have

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like plus , like minuses . Yeah

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, I'm like it's not

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. It's not making sense to me . It's not

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making sense to me that so many

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people are in committed relationships

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because of how hard it is to

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literally have a compatible relationship and

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it just then . Therefore , my mind

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makes me think OK , people are just so

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scared to be alone that they will literally settle for

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the absolute bare minimum the worst

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type of qualities in a partner . Settle

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for the absolute bare minimum , the worst type of qualities in a partner they will never

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leave , because they're just so scared about what it would be like to be alone

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period

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100 people are . So

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many people are in that it's like , well

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, this is what I got , I'm stuck with

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it right and

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like our parents generation , like that's just what they

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did because they didn't want to get divorces , you

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know . So like they like literally , were like well

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, I'm stuck with it for 50 years , right

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. And then people end up cheating , signing up for pure misery .

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People end up cheating or constantly

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fighting or just like dealing

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with the shit and being unhappy . So

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if you're in a relationship that doesn't

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make you happy , leave Facts

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. Okay

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, I got a good one here . Hot

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take Speedos should be

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illegal and you should go to jail if you wear

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a speedo . I've

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never seen a guy wear a speedo that looks

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good . Hot take Doesn't

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look good Like just wear wear boxer pants , swim trunks or something .

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I'm so with you on this one . Like I completely

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agree . Like I've never seen

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a guy in a speedo , I've been like hell

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damn holler at me

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like I get

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it you want to like ? No , I actually

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don't get it , but like you . I don't get it be

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more scantily clad , like it is a very

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like euro thing , you know , yeah

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, like I'm thinking like , okay , what about like hot model

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, like on , like the beach in

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Italy , like is

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it's still late , it still ain't doing it

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for me yeah , no

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, I'm with you , it's doing it for you , you love

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it ? no , I don't .

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I'm thinking just get shorts that are like shorter

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yeah , you know like swim shorts

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that like show a little more leg if

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you want to show the leg , yeah , get some short shorts , get some

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chubby .

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I'm with you on that because the butt never

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looks good in the speedo either , like

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it's not

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kidding .

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Does reza own a speedo ?

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no , and he does

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not . No , and he is never

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, ever , ever going to . He is , he

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is . Would he wear a speedo ?

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I'm gonna ask him after this ask

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him if he's ever wore one before . Come on , just

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hit him with the text babe

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, have

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you ever worn a speedo before ?

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have you ever worn a speedo before ? We

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need some content for the podcast . Yeah

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, no , he never has

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, would you ever ? Oh

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?

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yeah , sure , yes

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, loves it , if you want him to .

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Good guy . That's

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funny . That's

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actually hilarious In Italy .

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He just said in Italy . Ok , well , stay

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tuned on the podcast . Sarah will send

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you guys an email of Reza and his speedo in

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Italy on their honeymoon .

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Like is he going to look good in it ? That's what I'm thinking right

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now .

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He's your man , so like OK . The one

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exception they don't have to go to jail is if it's your man

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, ok , but like no , my man

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is not wearing a Speedo .

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No , he's never going to wear a Speedo . Like

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. He just said that . To like say some shit

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. Ok , yours are so funny . That's actually

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hilarious . I'm

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like what don't I like clothes ? Okay , I , I gotta , I gotta keep thinking on that one . Okay

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, I want to say another , um , more serious one , but also make

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it funny , because this is really on my

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mind now . Lately , too , the

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people that say

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like , oh

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, you're so woo , woo , or you're so like

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spiritual , or like that and like

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, use it as literally a form of

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insult , which I feel like is like low-key

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, running rampant right now , like it is

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. That is such an ick , like the fact that

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you're going to use that as an insult . You

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are literally scared and intimidated by spirituality

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and you don't know who you are and that

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is why you are putting

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that out there . Like people that have a connection

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to spirituality are like that's

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, that's weird , that's crazy

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. You know , like , ew

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, like . Even as I'm saying this , I'm like , ew

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, like . Why , who does that

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?

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you know what I mean yep

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, I'm immediately thinking about someone who has said

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that was like I I'm

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not spiritual , like that . Like why

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are you grossed out that I have a connection with myself

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, like that's weird , that's

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weird , that's weird on you .

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That's weird and it's like . I

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saw this TikTok and it went literally like viral

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and crazy about this guy being like talking

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about woo woo , being angry , used as an insult

13:45

, and then like going in like the complete opposite

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direction of like how spiritual people

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like know so much about the world and themselves

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and have so much knowledge and connection

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, and like how it is actually such a badge

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of honor to like wear the idea

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of being woo woo , like connected

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to the planets and god and and

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mother gaia and like all of these

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things you know , like . So

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if you do that , you listen , like

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about to go into the listener . People listen to

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this podcast , definitely agree with

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what I'm saying right now . But

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even people that listen to this podcast and

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be like , oh , that's woo woo and I've done this a lot

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in the past earlier in my spiritual journey like don't

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demean yourself by saying woo woo

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, you feel me like ? Oh

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, I'm too woo woo for other people , or that's too

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woo woo of a thing it's like .

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No , I definitely do that

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I definitely do that and I was actually

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listening to this podcast . But it's like like

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I'll be , like I know it's a little woo

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woo and , if you actually like think about it like

14:42

I was thinking about this podcast , and they're talking about

14:45

being like ashamed of calling themselves

14:47

like influencers , but like , end of the day , like it's

14:49

fucking cool that you're influencing people . You're

14:51

a woman who's like running her own business , like

14:53

making mad money , like impacting the world

14:55

, and it's like that's the same thing , like why

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there's no shit , like sorry , it's a little woo woo

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, don't apologize for me being like

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I'm not apologizing for me being woo woo . Like that's

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cool , that's spiritual . It's like you're just trying

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to like lessen the

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impact or the feelings of other

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people or something in that , or at least like I'm

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doing that almost . It's like you don't want people

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to .

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Right ? Well , because it's just not accepted

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by society at large . So

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we feel like we have to , like you know

15:24

, qualify it and caveat

15:27

it and have all these like additional things

15:29

, because maybe we won't be accepted , because

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we're not fitting in with the rest of society

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. You know .

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Yeah , okay . We need to turn it every

15:37

time we say it's giving

15:39

woo-woo in the best way , like , yeah

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, no , we love it we love woo-woo .

15:44

I literally love woo-woo . To me woo-woo

15:46

is like fabulous , you know , like that

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, like that's my shit

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, that's my shit .

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, on

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the flip side of that , just because

17:19

someone says they're spiritual doesn't mean

17:21

they're a good person . Oh

17:23

, yes , right , I feel like

17:26

Amelia , you might see someone , or like , if

17:28

I'm on a dating app , or like whatever someone

17:30

says that they're spiritual , it's like there

17:32

could be a lot of spiritual ego inside

17:35

of that person , right ? So we can't always just trust

17:37

the labels that people put on themselves

17:39

, right , we have to wait for them to show us

17:41

who they are . But

17:43

I feel like , yeah , there's this energy , like , oh , they're spiritual , they

17:45

must be a good person .

17:49

Eh , not the . There's this energy like oh , they're spiritual

17:51

, they must be a good person . Not the case , totally agree , like

17:54

there are bad people for lack of a better

17:56

way to say that in every single

17:58

group in society , including spirituality

18:00

, and you should always , always

18:02

use

18:12

your intuition , use your you know , wisdom and understanding of people to decide

18:14

who is a good person , who's not . You know . Okay

18:21

, I actually want to piggyback off

18:23

of something

18:26

that probably goes with the truck thing , but

18:28

an actual , like really long-term ick

18:31

of mine and hot , take people

18:33

that back into parking spaces , give

18:37

small dick energy , like here

18:42

you are you're literally stopping

18:44

up the whole lane in Whole Foods , the whole

18:47

parking line , because you need

18:49

everyone to know that you are

18:51

such a good driver that

18:54

you know how to reverse into a parking spot .

18:56

Like you're not saving that much time

18:58

, bro . Easy access out , like it's

19:00

not . It just

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reminds me of Cam , you know

19:04

. Did you see the TikTok of Cam pulling back ? Whoa

19:09

, daddy knows how to pull the mat , he's

19:12

so hard . Oh

19:15

, he knows how to back the parking spot . I wish

19:17

I knew how to drive a car like that .

19:21

Can we get him on the podcast

19:23

? Like , let's literally manifest right

19:25

now him coming on the podcast . That

19:27

would be so freaking funny . Oh

19:30

my god , we just laughed the

19:32

whole time .

19:33

So true , but like he

19:35

made it , he made it look hot . But I

19:38

don't know , I don't know , I might have to debate

19:40

this one . You know you're in sitting

19:42

passenger princess . He whips his arm

19:44

around you , his little muscle touches you . He looks

19:46

in the bag . You can see little glands , like it's

19:49

kind of hot reza

19:53

actually does do .

19:54

This is the funny thing , um

19:57

, but it just , you

19:59

know , when you're in a group , like it's reminding

20:01

me we were on this family vacation where my dad

20:03

was like backing into parking spots and literally me and my whole

20:06

family were like , oh shit , like same

20:08

as like the camp , I'm like you know how

20:10

to back in . Like damn

20:13

, it's

20:15

like it just literally gives me

20:17

. It's just like you're asking

20:19

to be made fun of . Like if you are

20:22

backing into a space , like you

20:24

have literally opened the floodgates to

20:26

me . Making fun of you , like it is

20:28

just it's too much for me .

20:30

Like why are you holding up traffic ? Like come on

20:32

, you're doing too much and you know

20:34

people do .

20:36

There's one thing if it's an empty area , but now

20:38

you're literally holding up traffic like in a parking

20:40

garage or some shit , keep it moving

20:42

.

20:43

Keep it pushing boy , that

20:47

kills me .

20:48

All right .

20:53

That's funny going into the food and beverage

20:55

arena hot take Mountain Dew is good .

20:56

Oh , you lost me there .

20:58

You lost me hold up , hold up , baja

21:00

Blast , baja Blast . Come

21:03

on , come on , all right it's

21:05

been years .

21:05

I haven't had that in like 10 years . I would

21:07

maybe have to like get a sit . I'm like you

21:10

don't even more 15 , you never

21:12

. No , yes baja blast

21:14

fucks . Well , how long ago was I in college

21:17

?

21:17

that's about 10 years , yeah do you guys

21:19

get a baja blast in miami when you ordered

21:21

taco ball at four in the morning ?

21:24

I would man I was that diet , a diet

21:26

Coke girl you know , other

21:28

people did but I've been like grossed

21:31

out by that for like like I

21:33

have this , it kind of

21:35

gives like Red Bull . I would have

21:37

fought you way more on that one if you said Red Bull is good

21:39

. It kind of gives Red Bull type of

21:41

vibe to me , where it's like people

21:43

are just it

21:45

gives gasoline and like people

21:47

are just literally like I

21:50

don't know can somehow getting convinced that this

21:52

is good for marketing , like that's what

21:54

. Like red bull is literally

21:56

marketing . Red bull is not good

21:59

it's disgusting .

22:01

Also , I do not like mountain dew . I need to just stay

22:03

that . But it's like I only drink . But I need

22:05

to state this , so you guys don't fully judge me

22:07

I only drink Baja Blast if I go

22:09

to Taco Bell , which is like never . Is

22:11

there a difference ?

22:14

It's a different kind . Baja Blast

22:16

is Mountain Dew . Yeah , Baja

22:19

Blast is Mountain Dew . They're the same .

22:20

Oh it's a Mountain Dew brand . Like

22:22

I didn't think we'd be going into this

22:24

. It's just like a flavor

22:26

of Mountain Dew . Oh

22:31

it to this . It's just like a flavor of Mountain Dew .

22:33

Oh , it's a , oh it's a flavoring my sister's husband drinks Mountain Dew and I always make fun of

22:35

him . Randy got the dues like dude . It's such a midwestern vibe

22:37

to me , you know , like

22:39

it really is like .

22:40

I know people that drink Mountain Dew too once

22:43

a year , but not last .

22:44

I gotta try it now . I feel like it

22:47

hits . You're like you don't , you

22:49

don't need to try it , it ain't

22:51

that good . Oh

22:54

my God . Okay

22:57

, I'm going on another mindset one , and I feel like this actually

22:59

is a really hot take , because people get

23:02

really triggered by this , and I get it . It

23:05

is , it can be triggering , it

23:13

can be triggering . It can be triggering . But if you say that you will not

23:15

make it , if you say I will never have

23:17

X , I will never have a job that

23:20

gives me the freedom that I desire , I will never

23:22

meet . I will always be alone . I will

23:24

always be alone . I will never meet the love

23:26

of my life . I will . There's no man out there for me . I will never meet the love of my life . There's

23:28

no man out there for me . I will never

23:30

live in the house that I dream of , have

23:33

the life I dream of . You literally

23:35

won't . You

23:38

won't and

23:41

I'm like is that as triggering ? I feel

23:43

like what's triggering about

23:45

it is that you have your , your

23:48

energy has the power to

23:50

create things for yourself negative

23:53

or positive and if you sit

23:55

in that kind of mindset , you

23:58

will never achieve the things that you desire to achieve

24:00

, like you're literally telling the universe don't

24:03

bring this to me , you

24:06

know especially

24:08

the relationship one like I will always

24:10

be alone . I will never find my partner like then . You never

24:13

will right and like .

24:15

Then you're just like looking for like experiences

24:18

in your life to solidify that feeling right , I'll never

24:20

be in a relationship . Oh now , I dated that shitty guy

24:22

. Oh , that person treated me like shit . Oh

24:24

, I don't get any likes on Instagram or

24:26

on dating apps Poor me , poor

24:29

me , victim mindset . Yep

24:31

, we need to get in abundance

24:34

. Everything that we desire is on

24:36

its way to us . Yes

24:39

, okay

24:41

, hot take . You don't need to calorie

24:43

count to lose weight .

24:46

That's a good one .

24:48

Yeah .

24:48

Agreed 100% agreed .

24:51

Proof for me that I literally

24:53

Lost 25 pounds in

24:55

the past six months . Proud

24:57

of that Snaps for me , woo

25:00

. And

25:02

literally didn't count one single calorie . Like

25:04

intuitive eating , baby . Oh , we got

25:06

a little thumbs up here on the

25:08

video , thumbs up for the energetics

25:11

. Literally I did not count one single calorie

25:13

ever . It was all intuitive eating and

25:15

like eating foods that made me feel good

25:17

. And fuck the calorie counting

25:20

that that shit is so restrictive .

25:23

Completely agree . I'm going to piggyback off that

25:25

and say hot take fad diets

25:27

are a complete fucking scam . Yes

25:30

and they literally keep

25:32

you stuck in a cycle

25:35

of diet culture like they

25:37

are marketing . They don't

25:39

work and people

25:42

have such a hard time With

25:44

that . You know , because like People

25:46

get so like , they get so attached

25:49

To like their diets . You know

25:51

, take it back , hannah and Sarah

25:53

. I mean we were never attached to like Weight Watchers , but

25:55

you know how people were like attached to that , like

25:57

it was like a part of their personality , like I'm on Weight

25:59

Watchers .

26:01

I mean like we were going to weekly meetings . We

26:04

were eating the snacks , like we were kind of attached

26:06

to it .

26:06

Dude , hit me with the ingredients list of

26:09

those snacks Right now like I would literally tear them

26:11

a new one Like that's so unhealthy

26:13

, the chemicals and that shit , um

26:16

, but yeah

26:18

, I completely agree , the calorie counting , the diets

26:20

being like you do not have to do that

26:22

, like eating real food , minimally

26:25

processed food which , by the way , is

26:27

really freaking good food

26:29

from the earth you know it's like that's

26:31

another thing that I feel like we convince , society convinces

26:33

us . It's like not good .

26:35

You know what's up , literally I know

26:38

, wait , we , I

26:40

this is like a actually just a topic

26:42

that is like coming to mind but like things

26:45

just change . Like about food

26:47

. Like when you start to see like food that's good

26:49

for you quote unquote like as actually

26:51

tasty and nourishing , like things change . Or when you see

26:53

, like walking or going like on a workout going

26:56

to work out as like good for your mental health

26:58

and like makes you feel like endorphins , like

27:00

you have a change . I just had like this mental

27:02

shift about weight lifting , because I know

27:04

how good weight lifting is for

27:06

me and my mental health , and now I'm

27:08

like I got out of this place

27:10

of like I need to go to the gym like three times a week . I

27:12

need to do these sets . It's like no , let me just

27:15

go go to the gym and lift a couple weights because it's going

27:17

to make me feel good , rather than like I

27:19

need to build my ass or like get strong

27:21

muscles , like I'm having this total

27:23

shift . That was like totally off topic , but we

27:26

should talk about that of like having those mindset

27:28

shifts , because it makes things so much easier

27:30

and takes pressure off things .

27:32

So true , so true . It's

27:34

like things don't

27:37

have to be as hard as we make them . You know

27:39

, hot take , we make shit way harder than

27:41

it needs to be , you

27:43

know .

27:45

Yeah , that's a cool take .

27:46

I think we all know that . Yeah , yeah

27:49

, people ones , okay

27:52

, hot take

27:54

Close it

27:58

out Nice guys don't finish last

28:00

.

28:00

Like , come on , let's make nice guys finish first

28:02

. Like , why are the nice guys always finishing last ? Let's change

28:05

that narrative . I just wanted to say that . One for

28:07

the collective let's get the , let's get the the

28:09

. You're right , okay , did

28:14

I just go literally on like stutter repeat let's

28:16

let the nice guys win

28:18

first this year . Come on 2024

28:21

, let's go okay

28:24

, yeah , hot .

28:25

Take . The reason that nice

28:27

guys don't finish a lot or do finish

28:30

last and women like bad

28:32

boys or whatever is

28:34

because they are so incredibly unhealed

28:37

from their trauma , from their life . So

28:40

nice guys finish last

28:42

because people never heal their trauma

28:44

and people can't take responsibility

28:46

for their trauma and

28:48

therefore become a better version of themselves

28:51

that understands that they don't deserve

28:53

to be treated like shit , like their father

28:55

, mother , grandfather , ex-boyfriend

28:58

, brother , sister , cousin , friend

29:00

taught them that they should be period

29:03

.

29:04

Okay , let's just rapid fire like three more . We

29:06

would just go back and forth . Oh okay

29:08

, wait like

29:10

what else I got ? Okay , go ahead

29:12

, go ahead okay I mean just

29:14

beer is not good , beer

29:16

is disgusting .

29:18

Dude , I'm so with that one

29:20

right now . I am so with that

29:22

one right now . Ok

29:25

, everyone has the power

29:27

. I'm curious about what people's responses

29:29

on this would be . Everyone

29:31

has the power to access Christ consciousness

29:33

, which is what I think that Jesus access

29:36

, and I think that you can access it , I can access

29:38

it and everyone can access it . And I don't think that anyone access , and I think that you can access it , I can access it and everyone can access

29:40

it . And I don't think that anyone should be put on

29:42

a pedestal . I don't think anyone should be a guru

29:44

. Everyone has the power to create

29:46

that in their own lives .

29:49

Period . Similar along those lines

29:51

is , I feel , like hot take . We're

29:53

all talking to the same God , buddha

29:55

, jesus , muhammad Ali

29:58

, muhammad Ali , muhammad

30:04

Ali . He

30:08

might be God in some people's eyes . Whoever I

30:10

was trying to go for when the flow just keeps

30:12

going . When

30:15

the flow just starts flowing . We're all talking

30:17

to the same God here , okay .

30:19

So , so freaking

30:21

real . Okay , it's

30:24

funny because I'm looking at a bag of this Hot take

30:26

Ultra

30:29

. Preppy clothes are ugly as shit

30:31

. Okay , I'm talking vineyard

30:34

vines , like that

30:37

type of vibe . So

30:43

ugly , hate it , not my vibe . Let's close the stores . Not the vibe I'm looking at , like kind of preppy

30:45

bag called southern tide . So

30:48

that just spurred my memory .

30:49

It's giving naples , florida . Okay

30:53

, yeezys are ugly , they're

30:56

just ugly . Just stop wearing them . Kanye's

30:58

done , and so are Yeezys .

31:01

Dude , abso-fucking-lutely

31:04

, abso-fucking-lutely . Never

31:07

had them , never wanted them , always hated

31:09

them . Okay , hot

31:11

take , is this my final one ? Cancel

31:14

. Culture has gotten absolutely

31:17

out of control , oh

31:20

okay

31:22

, were you gonna elaborate on that ? that's an unexpected

31:25

one . No , I

31:27

I will slightly elaborate . I

31:29

think that people literally

31:32

allow no

31:34

room for change from others . They

31:37

rip people apart in

31:40

entertainment , on , like influencers

31:42

, regular people in

31:45

your friend group , like people

31:47

are literally held with their feet

31:49

to the fire for every single thing that

31:51

they do or say . And

31:53

I'm not saying that , that excuses , like

31:55

you know , prejudice or anything like that . Obviously I'm not saying that . But

31:57

excuses , like you know , prejudice or anything like that . Obviously I'm not saying that . But

31:59

this shit is crazy out here at

32:01

this point , like people literally cannot

32:03

even live their damn life without

32:06

having some sort of fear that they're going

32:08

to cancel . I mean shit , we have it , you

32:11

know , like someone's going to cancel us . Give Mindfully

32:13

Moody off the air or something .

32:18

Damn , I know , and that I mean , I mean like

32:20

one . It's like watching , you know you do have

32:22

to people do sometimes

32:24

have to watch what they have to , what they say . But like , if

32:26

you're just , you know , if you're being a good person , you

32:28

have a good heart . Like , and

32:30

there's haters , people trying to cancel you , like

32:32

yeah

32:35

means you made a baby .

32:37

No , I'm kidding . Some people are really doing bad shit , but you

32:39

know what I mean .

32:40

It's gotten out of hand , yeah , it really

32:42

has okay , all

32:44

right . Well , that wraps up our

32:47

hot takes episode don't cancel

32:49

us , don't cancel us , please

32:51

. If you hated what we said , just keep

32:54

it to yourself , okay as

32:56

we say in spirituality , take

32:59

what resonates and leave what doesn't thank

33:02

you so much for listening . We

33:05

appreciate you . We love you . We hope you have

33:07

an amazing week . Bye

33:10

.