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Inspiring Children's Sustainability Skills at Home with Stephanie Seferian (EP318)

Inspiring Children's Sustainability Skills at Home with Stephanie Seferian (EP318)

Released Tuesday, 6th February 2024
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Inspiring Children's Sustainability Skills at Home with Stephanie Seferian (EP318)

Inspiring Children's Sustainability Skills at Home with Stephanie Seferian (EP318)

Inspiring Children's Sustainability Skills at Home with Stephanie Seferian (EP318)

Inspiring Children's Sustainability Skills at Home with Stephanie Seferian (EP318)

Tuesday, 6th February 2024
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2:17

Hello and welcome to the minimalist moms podcast.

2:19

Today I bring you my third

2:21

conversation with author and fellow podcaster

2:24

Stephanie Safarian. Stephanie hosts

2:26

the sustainable minimalist podcast and

2:28

speaks on topics such as

2:30

sustainability, zero waste living, decluttering,

2:32

parenting and conscious consumerism. Today

2:35

she's here to talk about engaging

2:38

our children in sustainable practices. We

2:40

talk about practical activities for kids.

2:42

We also address skepticism and fear

2:44

around sustainable living. We talk about

2:47

practical ways you can implement sustainability

2:49

in daily life, alternative gift ideas

2:52

and how to encourage our children's interest in

2:54

sustainability. It's a short and

2:56

sweet episode, but I'm sure you'll walk away having learned

2:58

something new. And

3:01

with that, let's get into this conversation with Stephanie. Hey,

3:04

Stephanie. Thanks

3:08

again for joining me today on the minimalist moms podcast.

3:10

Thanks for having me, Diane. So excited to see

3:13

you again. Talk to you. I love it. Before

3:15

we get into the conversation, why don't you go ahead and

3:17

reintroduce yourself for listeners that may not have heard those past

3:19

two episodes, but I'll be sure to link those in the

3:21

show notes. My name is

3:23

Stephanie Safarian. I am the host

3:26

of the sustainable minimalist podcast. I'm

3:28

also the author

3:30

of a nonfiction book by the

3:32

same name, sustainable minimalism. I live

3:34

outside of Boston where it is

3:37

really darn cold right now with

3:39

my two daughters, my husband, and

3:41

yeah, I'm just a mom trying

3:43

to live a minimalist life

3:45

that is easy on the planet. And

3:48

so we're going to be talking about how we can

3:50

get our kids more engaged with sustainability. I think for

3:53

maybe just the average listener, how

3:55

do we even begin that conversation

3:57

with our kids? Yeah. I

4:00

want to say first and

4:02

foremost to all the minimalist

4:04

listening, step one is to

4:07

not do anything different. Minimalism,

4:09

a minimalist lifestyle, a minimalist

4:11

home that already provides the

4:13

perfect backdrop for talking

4:15

about sustainability with our kids

4:17

because if we're not

4:19

buying let's say like the cheap plastic

4:22

junk because you don't want the clutter,

4:24

that simple choice to keep the cheap

4:26

plastic junk culture out of your home

4:28

that can pivot so easily into a

4:31

conversation about how that

4:33

plastic pop it, how it's made from

4:35

fossil fuels and fossil fuels are a

4:37

non-renewable resource that's pulled from the earth

4:39

and when we burn the fossil fuel

4:41

like crude oil to create the pop

4:44

it, the burning of the fossil fuel

4:46

warms up our atmosphere, enter global warming.

4:48

So I want to say that for

4:50

the minimalist living all you have to

4:52

do step one instead of adding something

4:55

onto your plate like oh now I

4:57

got to teach my kids about sustainability

4:59

too, just do what you're already doing

5:01

and connect your minimalist efforts to issues

5:03

surrounding the planet and climate change it's

5:06

almost effortless. I also think too like

5:08

explaining the why behind why we don't

5:10

buy plastic pop it let's say or

5:13

plastic junk or those trinkets. Yes we

5:15

stay away from them because of the

5:17

clutter issue but we also stay away

5:19

from these junk culture items right because

5:22

we care about the planet and we

5:24

care about the animals and we care

5:26

about our neighbors we care about other

5:28

people so doing what we're

5:31

already doing and connecting it to the

5:33

planetary piece I think is step one

5:35

and step one just happens to be

5:37

effortless. And I will say there are

5:39

areas of sustainable living that I'm stronger

5:41

in and I want to say to

5:43

people listening maybe they don't believe in

5:46

some of the things that you and

5:48

I believe or they aren't that sustainable.

5:50

I think that some of these practical

5:52

tips you're going to share today are

5:54

just healthy habits to cultivate for reducing

5:56

just waste in general just not to

5:59

be so wasteful. to prioritize quality over

6:01

quantity. I know a lot of people like

6:03

to go to the store Five Below or

6:05

the dollar store, and maybe there's a place

6:07

for that, but I think if we're consistently

6:09

buying these things that just break or end

6:11

up in the landfill, it just is wasteful

6:14

of our funds. Maybe it's a generational thing,

6:16

but I think that I have a lot

6:18

of family members that this conversation, they might

6:20

roll their eyes at. They might be like,

6:22

oh, we don't need to worry about that.

6:24

Like it's all just conspiracy or it's not

6:27

that big of a deal. The earth is

6:29

always changing and evolving. So I always

6:31

come at it from like a Christian perspective

6:33

too, where I feel like if you are

6:35

someone that says you believe in any type

6:38

of faith, that we are given this world

6:40

to take care of, and so that's a

6:42

huge motivator for me too. But

6:44

I don't know, do you have any thoughts

6:47

with skepticism or just like how we can

6:49

make this applicable if you pick someone off

6:51

the street that they would want to listen

6:53

to this? I mean, I guess I would

6:55

say to any skeptics who are listening, I

6:57

would just say that being wasteful isn't

7:00

a quality that any human being

7:02

aspires to. We don't say I'm

7:04

kind and creative and I'm wasteful.

7:07

Like nobody wants to be wasteful.

7:09

And so wastefulness is something that whoever

7:12

you are, whatever you believe in, we

7:14

should actively be trying to step away

7:16

from. Yes, absolutely. Okay, so I wanna

7:19

talk about engaging activities that parents could

7:21

do with their children to introduce them

7:23

to the concept of sustainability. Again, you

7:26

said if we're already pursuing a minimalist

7:28

lifestyle or a life where we're prioritizing,

7:30

just not being wasteful, but what have

7:33

you done with your kids to get

7:35

them more actively engaged with sustainability? Well,

7:37

so for me as a minimalist, I

7:39

try to almost never buy new things.

7:41

Step one would be, of course, go

7:43

to your library, get some books. There

7:46

are so many great books that are

7:48

tailored to your child's age to discuss

7:50

issues about sustainability. You choose the issue,

7:52

there's a book for it. I just

7:54

read one with my six year old

7:56

last night about what happens to a

7:59

plastic straw. after we use it that one

8:01

time. If you care about gardening,

8:03

if you care about bees, there's a book

8:05

for it. So head to your library, borrow

8:07

a book, ask your librarian, and then read

8:09

it with your child and chat about it.

8:11

I think that's step two, no

8:14

money wasted using your community

8:16

resources. And hopefully you can

8:18

have some inspiring conversations with your child after

8:20

you read. One thing that's been really helpful

8:22

to me, my daughter really wanted

8:24

a Toy Story doll of Bo Peep. And

8:27

we were at Target. She's like, let me

8:29

just look at it. And I told her, hold

8:31

on, let's just check Facebook Marketplace because you may

8:33

be able to save some of the money that

8:35

you have saved up for this. Let's

8:37

check and see if there's a more, again,

8:40

sustainable, but also a more thrifty way to

8:42

purchase this thing that's already out existing, but

8:44

we don't have to buy it from the

8:46

store. And so we were able to do

8:48

that. So I think even just introducing them

8:50

to the idea of secondhand and being thrifty

8:52

and being resourceful is really important. Again, just

8:55

even from a frugality standpoint. But I think

8:57

another really big thing for us, we love

8:59

to be outside. And

9:01

I think getting your kids outside experiencing

9:03

nature, it just, I don't know, it

9:05

just opens a door of wanting to

9:08

preserve the land because they're engaged in

9:10

nature. I think it's easier to be

9:12

dismissive and or just like turning your

9:14

back to it when you're not regularly

9:17

experiencing it. Yeah, so just to go

9:19

back to what you said about buying

9:21

this doll secondhand, I know for a

9:23

lot of people, finances are tight, right?

9:26

So if you are acquiring things secondhand,

9:29

maybe you're going to your local

9:31

buy nothing group to find that

9:33

doll or snow pants or whatever,

9:35

or maybe you're purchasing it on

9:37

Facebook Marketplace. There's just like an

9:39

one added step there. And then

9:41

you've incorporated sustainability, which is explaining

9:43

the why. So you

9:45

could say money's tight and I need

9:48

to buy these snow pants for a

9:50

little bit less than Target selling them.

9:52

And also when we take something secondhand

9:54

that another family no longer has used

9:56

for, but we can use it, we're

9:58

keeping it out of land. and that is

10:01

a great way to help the planet.

10:03

It's really just that simple, connecting it

10:05

to the why. You mentioned also going

10:07

outside. I totally agree. Like I live

10:10

outside of Boston. It's so cold, but

10:12

a thing that we do in my

10:14

family is we go outside in all

10:17

weather. We're outside as much as possible.

10:20

I mean, it's like three degrees here

10:22

today. So in the efforts of safety,

10:24

maybe not today, but if we want

10:26

kids to care about the natural environment,

10:29

we need to show them why it

10:31

matters. And so even when it's precipitating,

10:33

we still need to get outside. And

10:35

for me, like I'll be honest, like

10:37

I don't love winter. It's not my

10:39

favorite season, but I do believe that

10:42

we need to find things that we

10:44

love about every season outdoors, because otherwise,

10:46

at least for me, winter is like

10:48

half the year here. So

10:50

does that mean putting on our snow

10:52

shoes as a family and going for

10:54

a hike, we're big skiers, getting outside

10:56

and then making observations about what we're

10:59

seeing. Like we've had a string of

11:01

an amazing sunrises. So

11:03

I walk the kids to the bus

11:05

stop and the sun is coming up,

11:08

like making observations about the ways that

11:10

the pink and orange sunrise is hitting

11:12

the snow. We can combine that with

11:15

a Christian-based statement about how beautiful this

11:17

world is that God has given us

11:19

and we need to take care of

11:21

it. And so just doing what we're

11:24

already doing and adding in a little

11:26

bit of conversation is really the special

11:28

sauce there. Yes, absolutely, absolutely. So it's

11:31

my perception that there is a

11:33

sect of people that care about sustainability

11:35

in the planet that are using more

11:37

fear-based methods to scare our kids. And

11:39

I wanna give them an opportunity to

11:41

not be so afraid, but to see

11:44

that there is an opportunity here to

11:46

again, protect and I don't think fear

11:48

is ever a good motivator. People will

11:50

be like, the world's gonna end in

11:53

10 years. Maybe

11:55

the world might look slightly different, but also if the world

11:57

is going to end in 10 years, I don't

11:59

need to put. that on my children. I

12:01

need to just allow them to take the

12:03

parts that they can play and then I

12:05

can hold that information as a grown-up. So

12:07

how do you strike a balance of encouraging

12:10

kids without going down that path? Certainly.

12:12

I would never tell anybody that the

12:14

world is ending in 10 years because

12:17

the science doesn't back that up. So

12:19

for people using fear-based tactics that are

12:21

just coming out of thin air, I

12:24

would suggest to them to again read

12:26

science first. I would also suggest for

12:28

parents listening they don't want to scare

12:31

their kids. A common phrase that I

12:33

say in my household is, yes our

12:35

planet is facing some challenges but the

12:38

good news is there are a lot

12:40

of really smart people working on it.

12:42

That's a great place to start. So

12:45

pivot it and make it positive. And

12:47

if the planet and saving it and

12:49

helping it and helping the bees is

12:52

something that matters to you, that's

12:54

a career path that we can work

12:56

towards for you if that interests

12:58

you. I think the doom and gloom talk

13:00

has no place in a child's childhood and

13:03

so I definitely agree with you on that

13:05

point. It's just hard to not attach our

13:07

emotions to this thing that we're so passionate

13:09

about. We are missing people because of the

13:11

way that we're communicating. So that's why I

13:13

do think it's so important to just, I

13:15

don't want to say dumb it down, but

13:18

make this topic accessible to people. And like

13:20

you said we are already behaving in a

13:22

lot of these ways so maybe just take

13:24

convenience out of it of, oh I'm gonna

13:26

go to Target and buy my daughter this

13:28

toy. It's like, okay that's convenient for me.

13:31

But what is one more step to again

13:33

save money and to be sustainable if that's

13:35

something that you're curious of getting your feet

13:37

wet with? I totally agree and I would

13:40

just say to the passion and

13:42

the apocalyptic statements that you may hear

13:44

and may be referring to, I don't

13:46

agree with them. I don't think it

13:49

has any place in a childhood like

13:51

I said. I also just want to

13:53

say though that the people making them,

13:55

it almost always if you get

13:57

to the bottom of it all, it's a

14:00

fear for our children, right? So

14:02

it's based in like a fear of

14:04

wanting our children to be able to

14:07

grow up and fully self-actualize. In any

14:09

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14:11

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14:13

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14:15

we all want, we're all united in

14:18

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14:20

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14:22

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14:24

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curious about a few other practicals that you're doing

18:08

in your household and implementing how old are your

18:10

kids again? Six and nine. Okay,

18:12

so they're able to help out a lot

18:14

more than maybe my four year old, but

18:16

even I think the four year old is

18:18

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18:21

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18:23

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18:25

your kids are being more hands on and

18:27

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18:29

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18:31

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18:33

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18:35

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18:41

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18:43

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18:45

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18:48

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18:50

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18:52

why in our family we do

18:55

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18:57

ourselves to step away from the

18:59

single use disposables, the paper products

19:02

in particular, you know, there's deforestation

19:04

concerns with that. I don't think

19:06

anybody would argue that cutting down trees to

19:08

make a single use product. I mean, we

19:11

all do it. Certainly it's what we do

19:13

as a culture. However, we choose not to

19:15

because we care about forests and we care

19:17

about trees. And so that

19:20

opened up a whole nother conversation

19:22

about what's a single use product?

19:24

What's a reusable? Why do we

19:26

use reusable? The key here was

19:28

I really tried to ask her,

19:30

do you think that when we

19:32

use a reusable, it works worse

19:34

than a single use item or

19:36

the same or better? And she said,

19:38

I think it's about the same. I

19:40

think using a cloth napkin as opposed

19:42

to a paper napkin, there's no difference

19:44

in its wiping capabilities. And so

19:47

I really wanted her to come to that conclusion

19:49

on her own. I did not want to be

19:51

the one saying we use reusables because they're better,

19:53

better, better for this, better for you, better for

19:55

the planet. I wanted her to come to that

19:57

on her own and I think she did. So

20:00

taking what I do and

20:02

letting them lead the conversation,

20:05

letting them and their questions

20:07

and their curiosity open up

20:09

more conversations as they become

20:11

more interested and more developmentally

20:14

ready. Yeah. Is

20:16

there something that you're trying to get your

20:18

kids on board with that has just maybe

20:20

struggled to work out? Yeah, I would say

20:23

the junk culture, the plastic junk. I

20:26

mean, the minimalist listening, they know too. You

20:28

go to a birthday party, you try to

20:30

sneak out without the goodie bag.

20:32

It's impossible. And then this

20:34

stuff comes in and then it clutters up

20:36

the house and they play with it for

20:39

five seconds and they like weirdly love the

20:41

stuff, even though they know it's junk. I'm

20:43

really struggling with how to break out of

20:45

that pattern of, I mean, I don't buy

20:48

it, but I still get it in my

20:50

house and the

20:52

kids want it. That's a balancing act

20:54

between letting them be children and be

20:57

happy with all their trinkets. Versus me

20:59

having mortal issues with these

21:01

single use plastic problems. I

21:04

had a, I think her name was Stephanie

21:06

Miller and she wrote something about 80, 20

21:08

sustainability. I've had a few episodes on sustainable

21:10

living. Someone said, if you're going

21:12

to do the gift bags at birthdays, maybe this

21:14

is a word of encouragement to the women listening.

21:16

Hey, that's okay to want to do that for

21:18

your children because we want to create these experiences

21:21

for our kids and we want them to feel

21:23

special and we're not trying to take things from

21:25

their childhood, but maybe use a consumable in a

21:27

gift fee way. Go to Pinterest, Google it. There

21:29

are things that you can gift in those ways

21:31

or just don't do it because you're not the

21:34

first person that has said that. I feel the same way.

21:36

Most of my friends feel the same way. So why don't

21:38

we just take the pressure off ourselves to say, this birthday

21:40

is going to be great. We don't

21:42

have to have something. The memory is what we're

21:44

taking away. It's not this little trinket. Yeah. So

21:46

I've spent so much of my brain power trying

21:49

to figure this out. And yes, when my kids

21:51

are younger, I asked everybody

21:53

on the invitation, I said, instead

21:55

of a gift for my child,

21:58

please bring a wrapped. children's

22:00

book. And so then when everybody

22:02

left, they took a wrapped book that

22:04

they didn't bring. So everybody goes home

22:06

with a new book. That was a

22:08

gift. And then last year I changed

22:10

it up a bit and I gave

22:12

$5 gift

22:14

certificate to our local ice cream parlor.

22:16

And that worked really well. I

22:19

love that. I think my cousin's son's

22:21

first birthday, she did give little honey

22:23

jars to everyone that came because the

22:25

party was B themed. I

22:27

love the idea of the book exchange, if

22:29

you will, I think that's great. I really

22:31

just want conversations like this to encourage people

22:33

that most of us are feeling the same

22:35

exact way. For our our nature group moms

22:37

night, we did a gift exchange, but it

22:39

had to be something either homemade or something

22:41

from your home. But I thought that was

22:44

kind of a fun way to at least

22:46

exchange something. Most people did do homemade gifts,

22:48

but I just thought that was a cool

22:50

thing. So you can even write that

22:52

on your birthday card for your kid,

22:54

like secondhand gifts are totally welcome. No

22:56

judgment. I love that because my kids

22:58

don't care if something's new or not.

23:00

No, definitely not. Do you have any

23:02

other words of wisdom you want to

23:04

leave with the listeners before we wrap

23:06

this up? Yeah, as with anything and

23:08

kids, right, if we want to instill

23:10

in them a love of puzzle, pets,

23:12

whatever it is, right, whenever we're dealing

23:14

with kids, I'm a former teacher, I

23:16

believe we have to make it fun

23:18

and engaging and child

23:21

led. Think about, you know, what

23:23

lights your kids up and then

23:25

run with it. So my six

23:27

year old, she loves art.

23:29

She's extremely creative. So for her,

23:31

it's a child led activity making

23:33

artwork. So I have to plug

23:35

this book. She got it for

23:37

Christmas from her mother-in-law. It's called

23:39

Art Making with MoMA, MoMA Museum

23:41

of Modern Art. And each page

23:43

gives you a different thing to

23:45

make. And it's largely using

23:48

stuff from your recycle bin. So

23:50

that is like perfect for her.

23:52

We sit on the floor the

23:54

other day, we used old Amazon

23:56

boxes to create models of houses.

23:58

And so a great conversation. about repurposing

24:01

boxes and making something amazing

24:03

or using old wire and

24:05

shaping it into faces like

24:07

Alexander Calder. Child-led fun with

24:09

a little bit of an

24:11

extra twist and conversation with

24:13

me. My other daughter, so a

24:15

couple years ago I decided to

24:17

grow microgreens and if anybody doesn't know

24:20

what a microgreen is it's like the

24:22

second stage of all the plants right

24:24

after a sprout. You just stick the

24:26

seeds on and then they grow and

24:28

in five to ten days maybe

24:30

even last you have microgreens to

24:32

sprinkle on your food. Salad super

24:34

healthy and there was something about

24:36

the growing of the microgreens that

24:38

my older daughter like her face

24:40

just lit up you could tell

24:42

something about growing clicked with her

24:45

and so these days it's maybe four or

24:47

five years later now we have a hydroponic

24:49

garden indoors during the winter months and it's

24:51

largely my nine year old who's taking care

24:53

of it. So I just say all that

24:56

to make the point like whatever your kids

24:58

are interested in let them lead the way

25:00

make it fun make it engaging and add

25:02

a little bit of a sustainability component to

25:04

it. Yeah no I love that and microgreens

25:06

they're pretty easy to take care of so

25:09

that would be a great thing for a

25:11

kid to take over. Well Stephanie where can

25:13

listeners connect with you online and find you

25:15

if they want to connect? I am on

25:17

social media at Sustainable Minimalists and again my

25:20

podcast is called the Sustainable Minimalist podcast you

25:22

can find it everywhere. Great well as we

25:24

got things up here I usually ask guests

25:26

two questions but I was just thinking I

25:28

want to do just a few rapid fire

25:31

of some of your favorite things. So

25:33

what would you say your favorite

25:35

sustainable clothing brand is for adults?

25:37

Tentry. Tentry okay I haven't heard of

25:39

it. What has been one of your

25:42

favorite books that you've read on sustainability?

25:44

On the topic of clothes the

25:47

conscious closet is a really good

25:49

one so how to make your

25:51

wardrobe more ethical and more intentional.

25:53

Okay favorite sustainable makeup?

25:56

I'll go with Burt's Bees I

25:58

wouldn't call it sustainable but there

26:00

are some less toxic ingredients inside.

26:02

Okay, my last rapid fire question

26:04

for you is, what is

26:07

the easiest change that someone could make?

26:09

So I think that there are easy

26:11

changes that we can make that

26:13

actually don't change anything, like they don't

26:16

do much. So a great example of

26:18

that would be like bringing your

26:20

cup to Starbucks, like, yeah, it's a

26:22

change. And yeah, it's not all

26:24

that hard. But also the benefit to

26:27

the planet isn't all that

26:29

great either. So I'm going

26:31

to take your question and I'm going

26:33

to tweak it a little bit. And

26:35

I'm going to say what is one

26:37

easy ish, but also profoundly impactful change

26:39

that people could make. And

26:41

I will say that for that, eat a

26:43

meat free meal once a week. Just

26:46

like one meal breakfast, lunch or dinner? I

26:49

mean, I would prefer a dinner, like

26:51

maybe a meatless Monday dinner. That is

26:53

a great way to lower your carbon footprint. Cool.

26:56

Well, Stephanie, thanks for joining me today. I

26:58

love these little questions at the end, getting

27:00

to know you better. So I appreciate you

27:02

joining me and thanks for all the helpful

27:04

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27:06

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