Life is not some rule you have to follow, life is about discover you and who you are and what part you play in the world. Don’t keep burying yourself trying to fit in to other people’s narratives cause why are they better than you? Why are their narratives true and yours a shame? Cause other people agree? Those agreeable people are just other lost souls trying to fit in to the same narrative or people who also belong to that narrative. You determine what life should be, not your parents, teachers or friends. I hope you understand