In this podcast, Monk and I read and answer a letter about how to meet kinky romanticpartners, and then a letter from a woman who is struggling with herfeelings about humiliation in BDSM porn and erotica, and who iswondering if being African-American is part of that.

Take-home quote: "It's only porn if you make money from it. If you're not going to make any money from it, it's not porn, it's erotica."

(Ten minutes, definitely not work safe.)