0:35

M-O-W-M-A-Q-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E . That's my name . Mama

0:38

Q , m-o-w-m-a-q-e-e-e-e-e-e-e-e-e-e-e-e

0:45

, that's my name . Mama

0:47

Q , say it faster . Slow

0:50

don't really matter , though the U-E

0:52

gets them in the tongue . Tizzy yo , hey

0:54

, kinda dizzy bro . Who was she ? Mama

0:57

Q ? Mama gave birth

0:59

little ways , no girth several years ago

1:01

. No , I don't want . Mo Q is

1:03

a lie and I tried to align this double

1:06

untundra , petty , ha-ha . It's one of

1:08

my mantras . Mama

1:10

Q , I'm the first one in

1:12

and the first one out . Mivis tinnakey

1:14

is my word about . Don't complain

1:16

, man . Say , stick to one topic . I reply

1:18

your mind is very myopic with

1:20

Mama Q . You

1:23

need better opts , picking and choosing , copying

1:25

me . Are you uninspired ? Definitely

1:28

. No need to whisper gracefully . I like it better

1:30

off-key . Now let's see . Do

1:32

you remember me ? M-o-w-m-a-q-w-e , d-o-w-e

1:39

, that's my name , mama

1:42

Q . M-o-w-m-a-q-w-e

1:48

, d-o-w-e , that's my name , mama

1:51

Q . Hey

1:57

, hi , it's me , mama Q . I

1:59

welcome you to Moments in Q . In

2:01

Q today . Hi-wai , black

2:03

Business , houdu , houdu . And

2:05

are you kinky or not ? Hi-wai

2:12

, give you the green of the day and I'm explaining the

2:14

why of this episode . Ramadan

2:16

Kareem . May Allah answer

2:18

your prayers this month . I'm

2:20

on time , but a little late . Look , I

2:22

move when spirit wants me to share my thoughts

2:24

. It ain't tomorrow yet I

2:27

hope you ate already because I will

2:29

talk about some black restaurants , because Memphis

2:31

Black Restaurant Week is ending , but

2:33

support is appreciated all year . Houdu

2:36

gets a double shot because I

2:38

roll my eyes at the Christians current

2:40

social media frenzy and introduce

2:43

new to me Traders which

2:45

I briefly learned in the book Queen Sugar . And

2:47

since Easter is coming , let me talk about

2:50

the St Andrews' Crawls for all your kinky

2:52

fun . Black

2:57

Business . I highlight a black business

2:59

to bring awareness and my experience with said

3:02

business . Unless I say it , it

3:04

isn't a paid ad . I'm open to paid

3:06

ads , but I definitely want to highlight black business

3:08

. There's enough money for all of us to get

3:10

it . Memphis had its Black Restaurant

3:12

Week and I've been to a few of them

3:14

restaurants , so let me tell you about it . Mahogany

3:17

, memphis , is delicious . If

3:19

you are looking for healthy eating , this ain't

3:21

the place . They do it themselves the upscale

3:24

Southern with the dash of Creole . I'm

3:26

going to suck up the themes in wordplay . Their

3:28

courses are named the extras , which

3:31

means appetizers . The props

3:33

, that soup is salad . The cast

3:35

, that's the entrees , the wrangler for

3:37

the chillens , the stunts I

3:40

forgot what that was and the finale , which

3:42

is desserts . They even have vegan

3:44

options , vegan options , I mean . Anyway

3:47

, the adult beverages have cute nicknames

3:49

too . As a lover of brown

3:51

liquor , like my man , I

3:53

had a drink from a woman , though it was called

3:55

the Robin Givens , aka Boomerang

3:58

with whiskey , lemon juice and bitters . It

4:00

made me move in my seat , just like Eddie

4:02

Murphy did in the movie Boomerang

4:05

. I ate the catfish because it

4:07

had hot water , comb bread and that comb

4:10

bread , like an Asian person did on TikTok

4:12

faking a black accent , is called corn

4:14

bread and collard greens

4:16

. Because I'm yeah , I need veggies in my life . I

4:19

know I'm making you hungry , so I will eat it there

4:21

. But I will talk about other restaurants that

4:23

I enjoyed as well . Sage went

4:26

there for their brunch , slimming Huskies

4:29

I like their pizza and Bala's Bistro

4:31

. Now , a friend of mine can remember if

4:33

I told you he's from well , I

4:35

don't know if we're still friends , but anyway he's

4:38

from Nigeria and he said

4:40

that he didn't care too much for the Bala's Bistro

4:42

because it's a West African cuisine

4:45

and he felt like it was Americanized

4:47

. Look , I liked it because , you know , love me

4:49

some Jalof rice . So , whether

4:51

you made it to Memphis Black Restaurant Week

4:53

or not , please support these black

4:56

businesses and or other black business

4:58

restaurants in your area . If you need

5:00

to know about other black restaurants , I follow

5:03

Black Restaurant Week on IG . They

5:05

celebrate black-owned restaurants all year

5:07

round . So even if you travel outside your

5:09

city , you can still support black restaurants

5:12

. All right , bon appetit . Hootoo

5:19

, Hootoo . I get to the root of hootoo

5:21

. Conjure up thoughts that pop into my mind

5:23

about spirituality . Come on , get this work

5:25

. I didn't want to talk about social

5:27

media demonizing hootoo . New

5:29

age spirituality , as they call it

5:31

, reiki and other things I may or may not

5:33

practice , but

5:35

you know what I mean . I love drama

5:38

and talking shit , but anyway , I will

5:40

try my absolute best to briefly skim over

5:42

it . Then talk about a book I read a while

5:44

ago . Oh

5:46

yeah , because that book I read a while ago that briefly

5:48

mentioned about spell work . Alright

5:51

, so per usual , I feel like people that

5:53

practice spirituality and the like

5:55

be minding their motherfucking business and

5:57

without notice . Someone feels like I've spoke

5:59

to them and told them to condemn

6:01

a practice that they know nothing about aside

6:04

from movies and maybe Google . These

6:07

people refuse to learn or hear their practices

6:10

of Christianity

6:12

and the quote unquote new age spirituality

6:15

is similar . I have a Christian Facebook

6:17

friend that has reposted several times this

6:19

week , this stuff the original

6:21

poster , per usual screenshot of stuff

6:23

from Google that they didn't even flow

6:25

together . Many times yoga

6:28

people not the skinny white women have said

6:30

yoga is more than an exercise of

6:32

stretching and is not demonic . Nor is it

6:34

a hootoo religion . If anything

6:36

, it's a practice that , in my words

6:39

, teach you to listen to your body , have

6:41

self-awareness of your body and meditate , which

6:43

has nothing to do with religion

6:46

, especially Hinduism , wait

6:48

, I'm sorry , especially Christianity

6:50

. So , without

6:52

further ado , I will briefly

6:54

read the statuses , hopefully

6:57

say a sentence or two , maybe

6:59

laugh . And you know , as

7:01

my pre-roll says , make your decisions

7:03

on the things that I repeated . Alright

7:06

, first one on the

7:08

list . Um , yeah , I

7:10

didn't like it , but anyway . It says

7:12

are you practicing the occult

7:14

and rich craft and don't even know it ? So

7:17

here are the things that I guess is considered

7:19

occult and witchcraft Horoscopes

7:22

, numerology , psychics

7:24

, spirit guides , yoga

7:26

crystals , sage

7:29

, manifesting

7:31

chakras , remasonry , reiki

7:33

, reincarnation , enneagram , terro

7:36

cards , evil eye , palm reading

7:38

, angel numbers and mediums

7:40

. What

7:43

the fuck ever ? And my thing

7:45

is like , even if you are a person

7:47

who is religious and part of the

7:49

Abrahamic religions , more specifically

7:52

Christian , um , what's

7:54

wrong with reading a freaking horoscope ? All you're doing

7:57

is reading and I thought reading was fundamental . So

7:59

anyway , some

8:02

of the things hopefully I haven't repeated

8:04

myself , but whatever , some of the things

8:07

that I find very interesting about this is

8:09

numerology , because I feel like numerologies

8:11

is all throughout the freaking

8:14

Bible , especially , if

8:16

I'm not mistaken , the Old

8:18

Testament , when they talked about the 12 Trials

8:20

of Israel , sounds

8:24

like numerology to me

8:26

. But whatever , I've already talked

8:28

about the whole psychics things and there's

8:30

somebody in the Bible who used to have dreams

8:32

or whatever like that . So that's not important . Spirit

8:35

gods . I mean , isn't Jesus

8:38

a spirit god ? Isn't there that picture

8:40

of Jesus walking in

8:42

the sand ? There's two feet and then carrying

8:44

somebody , and if he's a spirit

8:47

, isn't he guiding you ? So isn't that a

8:49

spirit god ? But again , what

8:51

do I know ? Crystals , we've already talked about

8:53

, is in the Bible . Sage . That's

8:55

more towards Native American within

8:58

their culture , but I mean there's

9:00

his up in the Bible . I talked about that before

9:02

manifesting , pretty sure I

9:04

talked about that before . To me that's

9:06

the same thing as

9:08

somebody praying and even if it's

9:11

not like people will always

9:13

say , especially whether well , I know

9:15

I'm a Southerner , but they will especially say

9:17

, hey , you know , words have meaning . Be

9:20

careful with what you say , don't speak

9:22

that into existence . So sounds

9:24

like manifesting to me Chakras

9:26

not in the Bible that I know of

9:28

, if I'm not mistaken . That's

9:30

more towards the religion of Hinduism

9:33

, and I don't like how , again

9:35

, a religion that has nothing to do with

9:37

Christianity , something that predates Christianity

9:40

, is called demonic , when , again

9:42

, as I've said so many times before , christianity

9:44

is a baby Jesus . I mean a baby religion

9:47

, because it's only 2020

9:49

, for years old , which Hinduism

9:51

, if I'm not mistaken , is the oldest religion

9:54

to be found in the

9:56

world . It's like 5,000 years ago , and

9:58

that was before we had to change

10:01

our timetable of life

10:04

or whatever , to before Christ , after

10:06

the death , whatever . So

10:09

blah , blah , blah , blah , blah , blah

10:11

. I really don't like it . And

10:13

, of course , some people were trying to be like oh , my

10:16

gosh , I do some of that stuff too . I

10:18

don't know if I'm going anywhere or whatever , because some

10:20

people were in the comments talking about , like

10:23

I said , the manifestation problem

10:25

of like how

10:27

they don't think that that manifestation

10:29

is bad . And some people are like oh , you know , you're supposed

10:31

to go to God , jesus , whomever , for everything

10:33

, and I

10:36

don't know . I just don't

10:39

like that . I just don't understand how you

10:41

mean to tell me , as a human having

10:43

a human experience , I still need people

10:45

to lean on and stuff like that , and I

10:47

can't go in this life by myself . But God

10:49

slash , jesus can . But at the

10:52

same time there's saints . Within

10:54

the religion of Catholicism

10:56

, there's some people who are Catholics

10:58

. They were prayed to for assistance and

11:01

then within other spiritualities

11:03

and or religions , they have help

11:05

with other deities and

11:07

it's just not just putting everything on

11:09

one God . But hey , you know whatever

11:11

. So Memphis , be

11:14

Memphis in . And so someone

11:16

has said you know , memphis does not have a crime

11:18

problem , it has a sin problem . We are

11:20

taking territory for the kingdom of God

11:22

. Hashtag Memphis will be saved

11:24

again . That's annoying as

11:26

hell to me Ha pun intended

11:29

, because not everybody

11:31

obviously is a Christian in the

11:34

great old city of Memphis . One

11:36

and number two Is

11:39

it really ? Is that really

11:41

the issue ? Because to me , if anything , having

11:44

that kind of thought process to me sounds

11:46

like colonizer mentality , because

11:48

isn't that what the white man did ? They

11:50

came over to West Africa

11:52

, took our ancestors because

11:54

they felt like they could save them and

11:56

that the way that they were living their life was shitty

11:59

, and that here they come to save

12:01

everybody whatever . And

12:03

I think that part of the reason Memphis is having the

12:06

issues that they have . I don't think it has anything

12:08

to do with religion , because I mean

12:10

one shouldn't religion be helping ? I

12:12

mean , there are tax free business

12:14

establishment and they're supposed to be getting

12:16

lots of money from people

12:19

donating their ties and offering

12:21

building fun and everything else , so why can't

12:23

y'all use that to help the community around

12:25

you ? But anyway , on

12:27

top of that , I think , obviously if you're

12:29

not making enough money to sustain

12:32

yourself and or the

12:34

constituents that you voted for or

12:36

didn't vote for aren't doing anything to help you

12:39

out , sometimes people have to get

12:42

how they live and it'd be like that . Sometimes

12:44

it sucks . And let's not forget about

12:47

systemic racism that exists and

12:49

everything . All that comes with all the

12:51

other isms . But I digress . Last

12:53

one See , I'm proud of myself . I'm being as brief

12:56

as I can with these things . This

12:58

one says okay , I can't

13:01

just sit back and watch God's people

13:03

perish due to lack

13:05

of knowledge . Many of you are engaged

13:07

in witchcraft , normally and unknowingly . It

13:10

is very dangerous and it's called Idolatry

13:14

. Yeah , I think I pronounced that right . If you

13:16

believe in the Lord , please take time to educate yourself

13:18

on the origin of things and do your own research . Many

13:21

of these things are rooted in spirituality

13:23

and which is called divination

13:25

. Spirituality without Christ is idolatry

13:28

and there are demons attached to these

13:30

practices . They are ancient rituals and

13:32

opens of portals of darkness

13:34

. Them , waste pieces , witchcraft , the

13:36

angel eye how can evil

13:38

cast out ? Protect evil ? Amulets

13:41

are sorcery , chakras is counterfeit

13:43

. Consciousness and enlightenment , terror , cars

13:46

, medium , psychics all idolatry

13:48

. God is our healer , deliverer , comforterer

13:51

and all we need . It's through Christ we

13:53

encounter the Spirit of God and what we need

13:55

. When you partake in these things rather

13:57

you believe , know it

13:59

or not you allow demons to come in and

14:01

attack you . Nothing can keep evil

14:04

spirits away but the Spirit of God . Please , you

14:06

guys , be careful . It may not seem

14:08

harmful , but it truly is to

14:10

your soul . I think

14:12

it only is true . It's only harmful

14:14

to your soul if you know you're a Christian and

14:17

I think also within that thing . She

14:19

has said that she has casted out demons

14:21

herself . So to me that sounds like

14:23

a demonologist , but I guess again

14:26

, it's okay when she does it , but if someone

14:28

else tries to be an exorcist it's

14:30

not cool . A thing that I thought was

14:32

pretty hilarious and stuff is that she

14:34

had a lot of Bible verses through it and

14:36

showed from like freaking just Google

14:38

, without even paying attention to it , like

14:41

was showing evil eyes and stuff like

14:43

that in the different colors . I heard

14:45

of evil . I know about it , but that's not something

14:47

that I really really practice on that one . And

14:50

then waste beads . Last

14:52

, that I've known about waste beads is just

14:54

a way for people to see the

14:56

shrinkage of their waste . I don't know

14:58

what she's referencing and

15:00

saying that all that stuff is dynamic

15:03

. Yeah , I don't like it , but

15:05

you know it is what it is . As per

15:07

usual , I honestly , for

15:10

real , for real , continue to say this

15:12

I have no issues with the things that

15:14

Christians do . I really don't but

15:16

it's just be people who are practicing

15:19

, minding their own business and next thing

15:21

you know , everything is wrong

15:23

and it's full

15:26

of demons . They've done this many , many

15:28

times with the religion

15:30

of Islam , which is so annoying because they're

15:32

all under the umbrella of Abrahamic

15:34

religions and they'll say , like

15:36

, how , if a woman covers

15:39

how ? That is just

15:41

weird and wrong . But they have no problem

15:43

with trying to have this modest type

15:46

of where when it comes

15:48

to women with this whole purity

15:50

culture . But most of that stuff you've

15:52

heard me say before . So it's not a big deal , but

15:55

I don't know , it just brings me laughter

15:57

to read all this stuff and everything . When

15:59

you know me personally , I

16:01

don't try my . I don't

16:04

try to like force people to

16:06

believe in my spirituality . I'm

16:09

more out the closet in my regular life

16:11

than just being on social media . For

16:14

example , at my job they had asked

16:16

me because I forgot what it was . I think one

16:18

of my classmates was talking about Ramadan

16:21

. No , it was talking about they don't

16:23

eat pork . So somebody had assumed

16:25

that he was

16:27

practicing Islam . So

16:29

I just rolled with it , which is no big deal . I was like

16:31

, oh my gosh , are you practicing Ramadan right now

16:33

and stuff . And he was like , uh

16:36

, no , I'm not Muslim , I'm Muslim sometimes

16:38

, or whatever . He just meant that because of the

16:40

fact that he doesn't eat pork . Okay

16:42

, cool . So then they had asked me

16:44

was was I Muslim or whatever ? I was

16:47

like no , I said I practice Huda and

16:49

for the first time in forever

16:51

, nobody judged me or anything

16:53

about it and stuff . And there's been

16:55

times that people know that I practice

16:57

or whatever , and they'll ask me

16:59

questions about it and again I

17:01

tell them the good , the bad of it so that

17:03

they can make sound decisions . But as always

17:06

, when you hear , when I talked about my Buddha

17:08

, I love all my Mike Foxtrot life . I

17:10

do not try to convert anybody at

17:12

all and I have had some

17:14

people in my family who

17:16

are big on Christianity and

17:19

had no problem with asking me to

17:21

put a little bit of extra some , some

17:24

on their um porch

17:27

or with my prayers

17:29

, reiki etc and things like

17:31

that . So it's like what

17:33

I feel is that there's a lot of

17:35

people who fake it , obviously on social media

17:37

, where they'll do a little something

17:40

as far as saying what they shouldn't do , but if things

17:42

get too crazy , I would not be surprised

17:45

if they try to go to somebody

17:47

who is a spiritualist to try to

17:49

get some help . But that's neither

17:51

here nor there . Let's talk about something

17:53

that's cooler . I want to talk about

17:55

the Queen's Sugar book . All right . So

17:58

when the Queen's Sugar show was on air

18:00

, I looked at it . When it ended

18:02

I was a few seasons behind the last

18:04

season . I remember I don't know what season it was

18:06

, but the aunt and uncle got married . If you

18:09

know , you know . If you don't , don't worry about it . All

18:11

right , I do a video plan on finishing

18:13

out the series , albeit I'm late

18:15

as hell . Somehow way , somehow

18:17

, I learned that the series was based

18:19

off a book , and here is

18:21

the description of the book

18:23

. All right , it's called Queen's

18:26

Sugar . Duh , I know y'all know

18:28

that , according to Goodreads , all right , queen's

18:30

Sugar by Natalia Beth

18:33

Sile , a mother daughter

18:35

story of reinvention about an African American

18:37

woman who unexpectedly inherits

18:40

a sugar cane farm in Louisiana

18:42

. Why exactly Charlie

18:44

Borderline's late father left her

18:46

800 sprawling acres of sugar

18:49

cane land in rural Louisiana

18:51

is as mysterious as

18:53

it was generous . Recognizing

18:56

this is a chance to start over . Charlie

18:58

and her 11-year-old daughter , micah

19:00

, say goodbye to Los Angeles

19:02

. They arrive just in time

19:04

for growing season , but no amount of planning

19:07

can prepare Charlie for Louisiana . That's

19:09

mirrored in the past . As her judgmental

19:12

but big hearted grandmother tells her

19:14

, cane farming is always going

19:16

to be a white man's business . As the

19:18

swirtering summer unfolds , charlie

19:20

must place the overwhelming challenges

19:23

of her farm with the demands of a

19:25

home , sick daughter , a bitter and troubled

19:27

brother and the startling desires

19:29

of her own heart . Then

19:31

it talks about penguin

19:33

and stuff like that . Penguin is the publishing

19:36

company . The

19:40

mention of a cane cutter statue

19:42

that reminded me of an African

19:44

deity and that was in the

19:46

book , which I thought was pretty

19:48

cool . I tried to go

19:51

through the book quickly when I was

19:53

making my notes to see if I ever

19:55

got the name of the cane cutter

19:57

and stuff , and I did not . I'm

20:01

just going to say it just reminds me of an African

20:04

deity , because I'm not very versed on

20:06

a lot of the African deities

20:08

that exist because especially

20:11

in the Orisha tradition there are a

20:14

lot of them and stuff . But

20:16

within the book the cane cutter

20:18

was a very important

20:20

piece within it

20:22

. That was like an inspiration to

20:24

Charlie and her family and stuff . So

20:26

that's that . And then I'm going to talk about

20:29

some more little snippets

20:31

of the book that I have read

20:33

. Well , actually it was an autobiography . I listened to

20:35

it , but whatever , whatever , whatever

20:38

, same old thing , little snippets of spirituality

20:40

that I found within it . So

20:43

of course , it being said in NOLA , the

20:45

book mentioned of Odun . In

20:48

the book one of the characters not going to tell

20:50

you because I want to spoil it for you was desperate

20:52

but felt too desperate to

20:54

see someone that practices

20:56

voodoo . The name used

20:58

to describe was trait , trait

21:01

to yours . According to the Daily

21:03

Advertiser in Lafayette , louisiana

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, traitors are healers

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. They are part of the French Creole

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culture and I don't speak

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French so I'm pretty sure I'm not

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pronouncing it correctly . Yeah

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, but the traitor lays

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hands on the affected person , praising French

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and heals the person . That's a brief

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description , but I wanted to mention that because you

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can read and research the article on your own and

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to tell you about the scene in the book . The

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desperate character received a necklace in

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non-space , perfect knots and

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did in . The person who gave

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the knots to the character did

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not accept any money . This

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traitor was an elderly man , not a woman

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like you might assume

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, but traitors can be any

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gender . The last portion of the book

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I want to talk about is a character that used the

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Bible verse . That sounded like a curse to

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me . The person said when

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thou tiltest the ground

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, it shall not henceforth yield unto

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thee . Her strength of fugitive

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and a vagabond shall doubt be

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in the earth . And

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so when the character received that was like

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did you curse me ? And I thought

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that was pretty interesting because of course

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I've remembered many times when people

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use Bible verses , be

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it they use Bible verses for encouragement

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, which is great , or to

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remind people of things to

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do or not to do , but there are

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, in my opinion , the Bible is a book of

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spells and sometimes you

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can read the curses well

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, not the curses , but you can read the Bible verses

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out loud and possibly use

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it for vengeful reasons and curse somebody

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and or the family in the bloodline , because

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you know , per usual we know that there are powers

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in the words . When

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I listened to the audible for this book , I

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wasn't expecting for spirituality to show

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up seriously . I just wanted to listen

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to the difference between the show and the book and I

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was pleasantly surprised . I don't

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remember seeing any type of workings or

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conjuring in the

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TV show like I saw on P Valley . But

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you know , like kink I enjoy seeing my

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lifestyle or variations of it in

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the media . I know it's

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Christians in a tizzy , but the representation

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sparks conversation , sometimes

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arguments , but most definitely curiosity

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and something to learn more . Hopefully you're

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on the latter end and want to know

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more about Treyor Tours . Are

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you kinky or not ? I'm a proud kinkster

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at the BDSM community . Let me tell

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you about this lifestyle to see if you want to come over

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to the dark side . We got candles . According

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to Scotland's website , yeah , the

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country . St Andrews is

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the patron saint of Scotland and also

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the saint of fishmongers , gout

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singers , sore throats

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, spinsters , spinsters

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maidens , old maids and

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women wishing to become mothers . The

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flag of Scotland is the South Tire

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, also known as St Andrews

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Cross , and the ancient town of St Andrews

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was named due to its claim of

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being the final resting place of St Andrew

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. Georgetown Library

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said , several decades after Christ was

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crucified , apostle Andrew

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endured the same thing . The Romans tilted

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the X . Now , what does this have to

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do with kink ? Well , as you know

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, adult heathens we prefer anything

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with other consenting adult heathens

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. People in BDSM use the cross

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to get their punishment for their sins . The

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cross is multifunctional for kinksters

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. You could be tied to it , cuffed , banged

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and my favorite tortured . Very

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versatile . Before you play on kinky

24:38

equipment , ensure you clean before

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and definitely after , because some

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people get turned on by pain . You

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know I'm a sucker for

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pain . You heard of that song . Anyway , song

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crosses have handlebars to

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put your hands on . Others may have

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D-rings , and I'm not talking about cock rings

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. I'm talking about the rings that you can use

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to put your mittens

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on and or

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your rope stuff like that . Or you

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are just out of luck and must be creative

25:07

. If it doesn't have that , I

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prefer to have the bottoms ass

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towards me because I need the fatty parts of

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their body exposed . It's a bit safer . Don't

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hear near the kidneys , though . We never

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want to break or injure our precious , our

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precious , precious . Just

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give them a little sum sum to remember

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you , that's all . If you're going to have the

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bottom tied up , do not put a gag

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in their mouth because remember you got to

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be able to notice when they want a safe word with

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you . Always leave options to

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a safe word . I've been tied up with

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my mittens , which is fine , and my mittens

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. They are like this leather kind

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of mitten , but not the

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mittens from like back in the days . It's like a

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pleather kind of thing , shaped

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like a triangle , and it has

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strings in them , laced or whatever

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, and it would have a ring on the bottom of

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it or the top of it , depending on how you view

25:58

it and stuff . You hook it up to

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a D-ring or you bring your own . What

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are those things called ? Oh , it escapes

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me , fuck . What's the name of it ? I

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can't think of it . I think it's called a lanyard

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. No , that's not it . I don't

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know , but either way it's a clip . There we

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go and you hook that up to

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it and then there you go , you're just bonding

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and I just mean bondage , not bonding , bonding

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or whatever . So you do

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that and try not to have your bottom

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on the cross for too long , because if

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their legs are straight up they can faint , you

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know , especially if it's locked Again

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. We don't want no problems . We don't want no

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problems . Per usual

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, vet and negotiate before you play

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, clean up before and after

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play , do your aftercare and have fun

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. Happy Easter and enjoy

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crucifying your bottom . All right

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, I've talked long enough . Queue out

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.