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[Trailer] CHANG Chihyun: You want to make the exception?
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You are going to suffer, mate.
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[Intro] OF: Welcome to Mosaic of China, a podcast
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about people who are making their mark in China.
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I’m your host, Oscar Fuchs.
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We’re already well into January, but since this is the first episode of 2022 let me wish
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you all a happy new year. We’re in that weird phase between the calendar new year and the lunar new year, where I feel
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like I can’t really be bothered to do anything.
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Maybe that’s just what January is, no matter where you are in the northern hemisphere.
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Anyway, I am here, and I did manage to put together today’s compilation from Season
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02 of the show, where we hear answers to the question “If you left China, what would
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you miss the most, and what would you miss the least?”
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If you listened to the special episode from the end of 2021, you’ve probably got some
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idea about how I would answer this question!
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But now it’s over to the 30 guests of Season 02 to share their answers.
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[Main] [Voiceover] OF: Zhao Huiling, the Africa travel vlogger from Episode 28.
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[Clip] ZH: What would I miss the most?
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Convenience, with Alipay, with 饿了么 [Èleme]…
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No. Can I change my mind?
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OF: You can. ZH: OK, what I would miss the most, the Chinese food.
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OF: OK, but that's too obvious. ZH: I know but there are certain characteristics to the food I like.
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So it's something soupy, hot, very flavourful, spicy, with coriander.
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OF: Oh, has to have coriander.
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ZH: Yes. I think the least will be the limited access to platforms like YouTube, Instagram.
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Wink, wink. OF: Wink, wink.
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We all know why we can't access these things in China.
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Unless there's a special magic fairy.
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ZH: Exactly. OF: Yeah.
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[Voiceover] OF: Ajay Jain, the car designer from Episode
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21. [Clip] AJ: The dynamism; the reinvention; the excitement;
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the convenience of everything; the actual efficiencies of how things, if they didn't
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work today, they are definitely working tomorrow.
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OF: And what about anything that you wouldn't miss
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AJ: ****ing around with my VPN.
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One of the biggest conveniences in China is to do with the internet.
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And one of the biggest frustrations in China is to do with the internet.
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OF: Yeah. AJ: You can't have both ways.
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You can't have only the convenience without some of the frustration.
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And currently they blocked WeChat in India.
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So now, people keep trying to contact me through WhatsApp.
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You know, I've got to fiddle around and try to get online, and they're trying to call
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me, and messaging me, wondering why I'm not responding to the messages.
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OF: Right. AJ: Yeah.
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[Voiceover] OF: Cassandra Chen, the heavy metal bar owner
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from Episode 16. [Clip] CC: I think I would miss the most is… this
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very convenient lifestyle.
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At 2 o’clock, if you want to buy some beer, you can get it delivered in China.
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Other countries, probably not. OF: And have you ever left China?
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Did you ever go overseas? CC: Yeah, I went to Germany.
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When I was in Germany, I really missed vegetables.
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OF: Because they have a lot of meat in Germany.
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CC: And I think, for them, potato is a salad.
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[Voiceover] OF: Jovana Zhang, the handicrafts designer
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from Episode 08. [Clip] JZ: I’d miss the vegetables, the range of
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vegetables, which we don’t have in Europe, and it's such a pity, it's really nice.
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Even some parts of the flowers, and the tree.
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You know that tree you can eat it, 香椿树 [Xiāngchūnshù], you see it nowhere else.
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It's just really nice. The least I would miss the summer here, and the wetness.
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Especially 杭州 [Hángzhōu], where we saw the air, how the air circulates.
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It comes from Beijing, the one wind; and from Shanghai, another wind; and they all finish
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in West Lake, and become a little swirl.
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And it’s just like a dumpling in here, steaming ourselves.
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[Voiceover] OF: Vladimir Djurovic, the brand naming expert
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from Episode 13. [Clip] VD: The spices of China, literally and in
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a metaphorical way, I think there is so much flavour, so many things to experiment.
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Of course the scale, also, of things, which means you can see things that you can't imagine
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in other places. And I will say the same thing that I won't miss is the scale.
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If one day I leave China it will be because I want to go into a smaller place.
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[Voiceover] OF: Björn Dahlman, the Swedish clown from
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Episode 17. [Clip] BD: My friends, the people.
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OF: Yeah. What would you miss the least?
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BD: Oh, the silence of Sweden, I love it.
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I am very sensitive to sound.
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Cars honking, drilling, people screaming, crowded restaurants, you know.
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That's the one thing. I feel it in my body, there’s a higher level of tension when all this noise is going on.
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[Voiceover] OF: Jo McFarland, the product sourcing leader
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from Episode 18. [Clip] JM: Well, I know this is gonna be a really
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obvious answer, but I would absolutely miss the people the most.
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So I mean, in the office, it's like, I am the office foreigner.
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And I would miss the colleagues in the office because they tell me all the time I'm their
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Chinese family. You know, we've been on a journey.
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And then there's other ladies, like down in the noodle bar that I go to, that don't speak
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any English - and my Chinese is very limited - and somehow we can communicate, and they're
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very very sweet to me. And there are so many people from all walks of life around Shanghai, that I see in my
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daily life that are incredibly kind to me.
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That's what I would miss the most if I left China.
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Because this is my second time in China.
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And when I left the first time, that is what I missed.
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But the thing that I would miss the least is the sniffing.
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[Sniffing sounds] Like that, right?
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OF: Mmm hmm. JM: Honestly, it's like grating.
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It’s like, I can't bear it. I have to put on headphones, or get up and walk away.
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I don't know how it doesn't drive them crazy.
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Because I find it totally unbearable.
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OF: They would say the same about us, when they hear us going to the bathroom, blowing
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our noses, and coming back. They’re like “Eurgh, you blow your nose”.
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Because this is the whole thing about wearing masks. It's all about keeping your exhalations to yourself.
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And so when you're sniffing, in a sense, you're sniffing in your own runny nose, because it's
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rude to blow them out. JM: I prefer the nose-blowings.
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[Voiceover] OF: Salome Chen, the investor and developer
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from Episode 24. [Clip] SC: My parents.
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For me, people are always the most important thing.
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And of course, then I wouldn't miss those populists.
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OF: Oh what do you mean? Oh, populists.
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SC: Yeah, you know what I mean. OF: I do.
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And it's the same wherever you go, right? If we were in the UK, I would say the same thing about people there, right?
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SC: Yeah. [Voiceover] OF: Crystyl Mo, the fine dining expert from
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Episode 26. [Clip] CM: The people and the people.
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So, Chinese are not great as strangers.
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Americans are very friendly and have a warmth to them, that you can have some kind of friendly
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interaction with a stranger, which I think makes just walking around the city feel like
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more of a community. And yet, Chinese - while they can be quite cold and selfish to strangers - they are so
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warm and generous as soon as you are on any kind of friendly terms with them.
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You go to their house, and they will cook you a banquet and take care of you.
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That kind of warmth and generosity is something that struck me as a student when I first went
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to China and lived in 南京 [Nánjīng].
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And so I would say that I don't miss being a stranger in China.
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But I do miss being a friend.
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OF: Lovely. [Voiceover] OF: Alex Shoer, the clean energy entrepreneur
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from Episode 11. [Clip] AS: Random conversations with strangers.
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About the simplest and most mundane things.
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You know, in the U.S., everyone asks “How are you?”
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But they don't actually want to know. In China, they want to know, they're like “Tell me everything.
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Where are you from? What colour hair does your mother have?”
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You know they wanna go more and more. The simple conversations that you have with strangers.
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OF: And what about the things that you would miss the least?
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AS: Yeah, it's very simple.
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It's air pollution. I really, really, really disliked it.
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The AQI was over 900 one time.
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[Voiceover] OF: Douglon Tse, the island businessman from
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Episode 15. [Clip] DT: I’ll miss the energy.
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Because you can tell that people are still hopeful and optimistic, and not jealous and
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full of hatred. I won't miss the pollution.
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[Voiceover] OF: Sean Harmon, the beer company CEO from
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Episode 09. [Clip] SH: What I would miss the most is the energy.
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It's just so powerful here. If you push, and you have a great product and a great plan, and you put it to action,
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things can happen. And people work hard.
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And it's fun, it’s addicting, that sort of energy where you feel like anything's possible.
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Then the other side of that question is, it's got to be the pollution.
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And it's not only the air pollution.
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For me, it's also the noise pollution.
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You know the power drill, my boss used to call that ‘the birds of Shanghai’, because
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you don't hear birds that often but you do hear that power drill frequently.
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OF: But those two things that you've said… you don't get this energy, this growth, this
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movement, without the sound of a growing city, right?
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SH: Exactly, and that’s why I'm still here. It evens itself out.
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[Voiceover] OF: Seth Harvey, the education coach from
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Episode 19. [Clip] SH: What would I miss?
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Man, have you ever tried to take a taxi in New York City?
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OF: Ah. SH: It's like $30 to put your hand on the handle.
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This is such a well planned out city.
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It seems so big, but I find that getting around it from one side to the other is amazing.
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Like I said, you can take the bus, you can take the metro, and you can call a cab for
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like two bucks to go anywhere.
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The thing I will miss the least would be, ah man, like the construction.
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That hammer drill. TA-TA-TA-TA-TA-TA-TA-TA-TA-TA!
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Like, everyone knows that, and I think everyone's had an apartment where somebody's been renovating
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next door. So that's a trade-off for the amount of change and development that we enjoy, and we love.
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Sometimes that comes back, and it’s a huge negative.
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[Voiceover] OF: Zhang Yuan, the performance art exhibitor
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from Episode 07. [Clip] ZY: Traditional Chinese breakfast, particularly
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Shanghai breakfast. 大饼油条 [Dàbǐng yóutiáo], how do you call it in English?
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You know? OF: Yeah, it’s those oily sort of sticks, right?
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ZY: Yeah. OF: It’s made of dough.
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ZY: Dough, yeah. For the fat one, there is sweet and salty.
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For the longer one it’s only salty, I think.
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OF: And anything that you would not miss if you left?
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ZY: The noise, in the construction site.
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Wherever you go, there’s this noise.
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Something being demolished. Something being constructed.
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You move to a new house, and your neighbour is renovating…
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ach! In China, I really don’t think I could hear myself.
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[Voiceover] OF: Jiyoung, the transgender teacher from
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Episode 30. [Clip] J: I would miss all of the advocates, who
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always inspire me, day to day.
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I will not miss having to hide my identity at work.
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So, yeah… [Voiceover] OF: Noxolo Bhengu, the African community organiser
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from Episode 14. [Clip] NB: WeChat Pay, I would miss the most.
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OF: Oh yeah. NB: I love not like carrying money.
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There’s these conveniences here that I believe are five years, 10 years ahead of other parts
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in the world. The one thing I will not miss is not being able to see the sky.
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It never gets old, whenever I get home, I’m like a little kid just lost in wonder.
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I’m like “Oh my goodness, the sky is so blue.
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I can actually see stars”.
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And I can taste the air when I land in Durban.
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You land by the ocean. You can just taste the sea salt.
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And the air just hits you differently, man.
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So that's the one thing I will not miss, is walking outside and not seeing the sky.
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[Voiceover] OF: Cocosanti, the drag performer from Episode
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05. [Clip] C: Same answer for both.
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It's a combination of three things Taobao, 美团 [Měituán], and 嘀嘀[Dídí].
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Once I go back home to the U.S., I'm going to be so sad that I have to start using Amazon,
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or I can't order food randomly in the middle of the night, without paying a surcharge of
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like 500元 [Yuán], you know, or getting a taxi for the price of a cup of coffee.
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And I get it, I understand why.
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But my god, it's so convenient.
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And I hate that I've adapted to it so well.
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OF: Oh, this is why it's also the thing you won't miss.
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C: Oh, it makes me a monster.
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Yeah. I’m coming home from the club, “Oh, I have this in my cart”.
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It's been in my cart for maybe like five weeks.
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It's time to buy it. I'll message the seller and tell them “Hey, can you send this tomorrow, because I really
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need it now”. But I don’t.
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I don't, I don't ever need it. I never need it.
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I just want it. [Voiceover] OF: Louise Roy, the childbirth and lactation
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specialist from Episode 06.
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[Clip] LR: Taobao. I love Taobao, I've bought so much on Taobao over the years.
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I love, just the concept of you can get anything.
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OF: Yeah LR: Anything.
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What would I miss the least?
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Actually, I think what I would miss the least is when people, kind of like, ‘Chinasplain’
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to me. OF: Oh god.
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LR: You know, like the ‘Chinasplaining.’ And then if I have a difference of opinion - that's, you know, gleaned from 15 years
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of experience - I've been brainwashed.
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[Voiceover] OF: Katherine Wong, the Peruvian healer from
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Episode 04. [Clip] KW: Online shopping.
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It's mostly for groceries. It is so easy.
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So efficient. You get your groceries within one hour.
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In Peru, there are no such things.
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So my mother had to call the lady from the little shop to ask “Do you have this?
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Do you have that?”
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And if she would say “Yes, I have this bread”.
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“Okay, which brand?” “I have this brand, this brand”.
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So it would take a long time.
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OF: A great example.
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And what about the thing that you miss the least? KW: The fast pace of life.
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You're sucked into this energy of going fast.
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[Voiceover] OF: Murray King, the public affairs leader
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from Episode 29. [Clip] MK: The most is the excitement of every day.
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Every day, something is happening, I learn something, I'm challenged in some way, I also
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feel like it can contribute in some way.
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I just feel like it's where everything's happening.
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So that's what I would miss the most.
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What I would miss the least is the fast pace.
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I don't know if that makes any sense.
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But when I do get out of the country - and when I go to my comfort zone, to France or
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somewhere else - you know, it's really nice to not have a fast pace.
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And every so often you need to kind of recharge your batteries, I think that's obvious.
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And the problem is, when I'm there I miss the fast pace after a couple of weeks; when
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I'm here after a few months, I need a break from the fast pace.
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So I'm never going to be completely happy in either.
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[Voiceover] OF: Jamie Barys, the street food expert from
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Episode 02. [Clip] JB: Food.
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Food, food, food… Sichuan noodles, that would be so hard.
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OF: What about anything that you wouldn't miss?
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JB: That’s tough because I feel like that's a coin that has two sides, whenever it happens.
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You know, a lot of times, I’ll take the subway and get pushed around and jostled around
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a little bit, and it's really annoying. But then I go to a wet market, and an 85 year old woman shoves me out of the way because
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I'm standing in front of the daikon radish that she really wants, and that just tickles
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me. So there are things that annoy me in the moment.
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But then on the flip side, if you understand why it's happening, it just… you can get
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over it really easily. OF: Yeah.
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[Voiceover] OF: Michelle Qu, the improvisational comedian
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from Episode 20. [Clip] MQ: Oh, if I left China, of course I would
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miss my theatre, and my partners.
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OF: Right. MQ: Yeah.
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OF: And what about the thing that you will miss the least?
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MQ: When you get off a metro, or when you get off an elevator, somebody just stands
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in the middle of the gate. You're face to face.
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You want to kiss me?
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OF: Yeah! Why did they do that?
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MQ: Yeah, I really hate that.
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[Voiceover] OF: Danma Jyid, the Tibetan social enterprise
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leader from Episode 10. [Clip] DJ: I’d really miss Tibetan food.
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Momo. Momo is similar to dumplings, but we also have, like, steamed momo.
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Inside you have fillings. OF: Like what?
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Like… DJ: Yak meat.
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OF: Oh, I knew it! I knew it.
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DJ: Yeah, yak meat and herbs sometimes, yeah.
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OF: Nice. DJ: Yeah.
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OF: What about, what would you miss the least?
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DJ: Snow. OF: Snow.
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DJ: Yeah, we get heavy snow, and the road is all blocked.
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[Voiceover] OF: DJ BO, the DJ from Episode 23.
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[Clip] BO: OK. Shanghai is such an international city.
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And it's a place where I've met Dutch people, and Belgian people, and Italian people, and
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Japanese people. I'm able to engage with so many different cultures and people here.
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You can find some of that in New York and in London, but in Shanghai it just manifests
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itself so much into the legacy and the history of what Shanghai is.
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Least interesting, it’s that sort of policy of not engaging with things that you find
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in China. The idea that when there's a conflict, everyone stands back and watches.
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When there's a problem, you just kind of move away from things, and you don't engage with
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things. [Voiceover] OF: Stéphane Wilmet, the head of consumer
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insights at L'Oreal from Episode 01.
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[Clip] SW: I think I would miss the ‘ding ding
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ding’, you know, those tricyclers, the peddlers on their tricycles.
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I would miss this music.
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They’re recyclers on tricycles.
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And in this modern city, with so many millions of people that is so tech-advanced, this little
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music, it comes from another time.
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But I will remember that music.
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I actually followed one day, with my youngest son, I mean with his consent, we followed
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one such person in his day.
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And they have a very tough day.
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So this music is also bittersweet, in a way.
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What I would miss the least?
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Everybody knows everything about you.
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Everything. You know, what time you went out, what time you came back, what time your kids, what did
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they do, why you're this, why you’re that…
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And so at some point, it becomes too much.
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[Voiceover] OF: Chang Chihyun, the humanities professor
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from Episode 03. [Clip] CC: I would miss the culture.
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That's an abstract thing. You can see I'm quite westernised.
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The way I think, the wine, the scotch, whatsoever.
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But I still like to live this sort of cultural context.
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I wouldn't miss the bureaucracy.
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It can be extremely efficient, and it can be extremely outdated and slow.
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OF: Yeah. CC: You want to make the first case, the exception, you are going to suffer, mate.
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[Voiceover] OF: Casey Hall, the fashion journalist from
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Episode 22. [Clip] OF: Next question, if you left China, what
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would you miss the most, and what would you miss the least? CH: 煎饼 [Jiānbing].
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I’ve said for so many years that people should be exporting 煎饼 [jiānbing] into
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the West, because we foreigners all love that stuff.
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And it's a wonderful hangover cure.
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I think I would not miss… If I never had to go to a Chinese bank again, I would be a happy chappy.
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OF: You have to take a whole file of paperwork, don’t you?
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CH: You have to take a whole file of paperwork, and half a day, and even then I'll probably
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have to go home and get more paperwork. OF: Yep.
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[Voiceover] OF: Wendy Saunders, the architect from Episode
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12. [Clip] WS: I have to say the spontaneity of living
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in China, and the way things go so fast.
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OK, on the one hand it makes you very tired, and it has a lot of other things to it.
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But I will miss that. It’s so lively, and it's so flexible.
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And I remember when I first arrived, I thought that was so amazing, that you don't have to
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make appointments weeks ahead with people.
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You don't have to… Your work environment, it’s not so planned out.
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That, I think, is something quite special.
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OF: That's well said. What about anything you'd miss the least?
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WS: Yeah, the fact of being misunderstood, and the frustration of it, I think.
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You're always the foreigner, right? You're always a little bit, the one on the outside.
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That also gives a certain freedom, and a pleasure to it.
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I'm not gonna lie about that. But there's also sometimes something alienating about it.
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[Voiceover] OF: Michael Kinsey, the fire engineer from
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Episode 25. [Clip] MK: I think I would miss the convenience of
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living here. You can find almost anyone to do anything.
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Like fix things almost at any time of the day, or any day of the week.
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Actually, last night, I forgot my keys.
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And I know a guy who will come at any time. And it was slightly late at night, and he would just get up, come, and then he would
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come and open the door, and that was it.
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OF: Wow. MK: I think one of the things I would miss the least is the language barrier, and certainly
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being able to connect with certain people on certain levels.
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Conversely, it motivates me to want to learn more.
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[Voiceover] OF: Vittorio Franzese, the lawyer from Episode
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27. [Clip] VF: It's something that I have always thought
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about China. By living here, you realise how easy life is.
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Sometimes you have a problem, and it gets solved just by knowing someone that has dealt
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with it before. Suddenly, it's not any more a problem.
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I feel like I do a lot of things in one day, which I wouldn't be able to do back home where
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life is so chill, and you need to take your time for every single thing you want to complete.
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On the other side, something that could look super straightforward and super easy to get
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would become impossible for reasons that are unknown to you.
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Because you have to pass through some authorisation or procedure that suddenly becomes slow and
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you cannot explain why. And you just find yourself in front of a problem that you didn't expect to encounter.
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China’s not a compromise. So you can get everything fast, or… impossible.
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[Outro] OF: And there you have it, the 阴 [yīn]
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and 阳 [yáng] episode. China is so liveable, so welcoming.
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And it’s the exact opposite of those things too.
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There’s a rough and a smooth in every country and in every culture, and indeed in every
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person. So let’s make it our job in 2022 to spread this message of nuance, balance and equanimity
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to as many people as possible.
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Mosaic of China is me, Oscar Fuchs, with artwork by Denny Newell.
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And we’ll be back with the next compilation episode in two weeks, see you then.
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[Clips] SW: Thank you very much.
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JB: Thank you, it’s been a pleasure. CC: My pleasure.
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KW: Thank you so much. C: Oh hey, thanks.
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LR: Thank you very much. ZY: Thank you.
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JZ: Thank you. SH: It’s been a pleasure.
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DJ: Thank you. AS: Thank you.
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WS: Thank you. VD: Thanks.
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NB: Thank you. DT: Thank you.
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CC: Thank you. BD: Hehe, thank you.
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JM: Thank you very much. SH: My pleasure, thanks.
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MQ: Thank you. AJ: Thanks a lot.
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CH: Thank you. BO: Thank you very much.
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SC: Thank you. MK: Thank you.
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CM: Thank you. VF: Thank you so much.
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ZH: Thank you for having me. MK: It was my pleasure.
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J: Thank you so much.
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