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0:06
I've always had big dreams of being a superstar.
0:10
Fat Joe always comes out swinging.
0:12
I'm like this, Bruce Delicious to like,
0:15
wow, I come from nothing where
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you gotta be tough to survive. On my
0:19
side, here I got Fat Joe. The right Latinos
0:22
across the country, across the world loved the
0:24
authenticity of what Joe
0:27
brought hip hop a Latinos
0:29
to be like. He's not Rico suave. He's
0:32
the guy with the half moon with the medallion
0:34
on with fifty guys behind him,
0:37
and I knew it was just gonna shake the hip hop
0:39
world. Joe's personality and
0:41
confidence built this monster image
0:44
and it was about that time that I discovered
0:46
Big Pun. I brought him in the game. He
0:48
took us to the next level when he's
0:51
doing the arenas and making money getting
0:53
nominated for Grammys. I was
0:55
the Puerto Rican parv daddy and Pun
0:57
was the Latino biggie. They
0:59
were ex give me to sign any loptin or
1:01
that wrapped because they thought it was like the
1:04
time of all Latino on selling
1:06
millions of records. It was
1:08
your dream come true. And then
1:10
everything started to go bad upon
1:13
my grandfather and my
1:16
sister all died around the
1:18
same time. I went to a really
1:20
really dark place. He was just up
1:23
and then I had to go to jail. Man. How
1:26
the hell am I gonna come
1:28
back? And I've discovered that your
1:30
darkest moments bring your most clarity.
1:32
I always believed in myself, and my
1:34
dreams came true. It's really
1:37
like a hip hop fairy tale, rising
1:39
from nothing man to triumph. Let's
1:42
go behind the music. This
1:49
is my true own. That's where I
1:51
was born, the Bronx. The
1:53
Bronx created hip hop. It's the
1:55
ground zero is the birthplace, and
1:57
I was just brought up in the holy land
1:59
of hip hop music. My brother
2:02
Andrew used to be a great boy for grand
2:04
Master Flash, going to the block
2:06
parties carrying Grandmasster Flashes
2:08
records and said he would bring me all
2:11
these real original records,
2:13
the Zulu Nation, all these DJ
2:15
battles. That's how light went
2:18
off in my head, like so in love with hip
2:20
hop. I aspired to be like these guys.
2:22
That's the original origins of hip
2:24
hop, and that's what got me so addicted to music.
2:27
Uh, there would not be no Fat Joy if
2:29
it wasn't for this. I always wanted
2:32
to be like my brother and you. He started
2:34
rapping before me, so I started writing
2:36
raps to telling everybody my raps.
2:38
So that's how it came about. And so I'm
2:40
proud most of all to be
2:43
from the Bronx. If you know the projects,
2:46
we never knew what we didn't have. When
2:48
I was a kid. My family worked
2:50
very, very hard. My mother already had
2:53
three children, two sons and
2:55
a daughter with a prior husband, and
2:58
so she met my father. My
3:00
father was a baker from Cuba. My
3:02
father is real tough, real
3:05
hard. I mean, not
3:07
a bad person at all, but we
3:09
bumped heads a lot. Even now to this game.
3:12
My mom has had three jobs, never
3:14
made an excuse. We always had Christmas.
3:16
We obviously ate a lot. It
3:19
was a big, loving family environment.
3:21
My project's growing up at the time black
3:25
ten percent Latino. That's
3:27
being generous, you know, And that's all I
3:29
knew. They've been calling me fat Joey since
3:32
I'm to three years old. In my projects,
3:34
I've always been big. I've always owned up to
3:36
it. That's when my name is fat Joe. But I
3:39
got bullied in school. I
3:41
had to go to junior high school in my grandmother's
3:43
neighborhood, which might as well be
3:46
nine point nine percent
3:48
black. They have never seen
3:50
a Puerto Rican or Latino like
3:52
Fat Joe in that neighborhood in their
3:55
life. I was the eminem, the alien
3:57
over there. Every single day I got beat about
4:00
thirty guys. Never been a sucker.
4:02
I never laid down. Every day. I look
4:04
out the window of the school and I know thirty dudes are
4:06
waiting for me. I dropped my bag and punched
4:08
the biggest dude right in his face, and just get beat
4:11
up. I don't lay down. You go back
4:13
and you look at pictures of me twelve years
4:15
old, eleven years old with an
4:17
ice cold killer face. That's
4:20
because if you showed somebody's kindness, they
4:22
would definitely take it for weakness. And
4:25
the whole Bronx at that time was predator,
4:27
a prey. I refused to be prey.
4:30
At the time I met Joe, he was this
4:32
angry, you know, frustrated,
4:34
you know, a young man. We had something
4:37
in common. We loved trouble,
4:40
We loved the smoke with
4:43
everybody, anybody wherever,
4:46
but we just didn't care. Then as
4:48
you got a little bit older, knives came out,
4:50
the guns came out. I mean, I'm not gonna lie
4:52
to you. I would go outside every day for violence.
4:55
Unfortunately, I got into a life
4:58
of crime before music. Father
5:00
was very aggressive. He would hit you
5:03
and hit you like you a man. And
5:05
so one day I had an argument
5:07
with my father. We were at
5:10
the dinner table. My father went
5:12
to hit me, and I stopped
5:14
him, and his eyes opened up because
5:16
the first time I didn't let him hit me. And
5:19
from that point, you know, I knew
5:21
like I couldn't be here no more. And
5:23
I remember telling them, you know, you can't
5:25
funk with me no more. But I went
5:28
to the staircase and I just cried
5:30
for like a whole hour, like a baby. I
5:33
got up, I left my mother's home, and
5:36
the next day I was in the street. I
5:38
sold drugs for the first time when I was fourteen.
5:41
I started from the ground up.
5:44
I would go to Manhattan by
5:46
two grams. The grahams were twenty dollars
5:48
a graham, come back, cut
5:50
it up, make eight two. I
5:54
would take that trip to Manhattan
5:56
ten twenty times a day, just going
5:58
back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. When
6:01
I was there was when the Bronx looked like a war
6:03
zone, and I would live in this crackhead hotel
6:05
when you could pay thirty five dollars a day.
6:08
It was terrifying being a
6:10
fourteen year old kid living in something like
6:12
that. When I would open my door, there
6:14
were literally men and women shooting heroin
6:18
during the AIDS epidemic. And
6:20
so to not hear what's going on out there, I
6:22
would have this walkman and just
6:25
listen to hip hop all night, rappers
6:28
like Slick Red to give me courage
6:30
to make it through the night. I met
6:33
Diamond D through right and graffiti. We used
6:35
to go bombing together, is what they called
6:37
me. And one day he stops me
6:39
at this light pole and he says, yo, listen,
6:41
man, I'm gonna die
6:43
if you're gonna die out here, or go to
6:46
jail forever. Diamond D was a big
6:48
pot in Joe's removal
6:50
from the streets. He started giving
6:53
him beats. Told Shoe your feelings,
6:55
put them on paper. He said, why don't
6:57
you tell your life in music? Diamond
7:00
told me, let me pay for the studio, and
7:02
so we went in there and we cut three songs.
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I want to get on the radio. At
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the time, there wasn't hip hop music all
7:09
over. There was one radio station
7:11
playing it for two hours every
7:13
Friday, and it was DJ Better
7:15
Luck. So he was the king Almighty.
7:18
I was up DJ up in the Bronx
7:20
at nine point seven kiss at him in New
7:23
York City. Joel Diamond
7:25
drought me a promo song,
7:28
Flow Joe and his lyrics,
7:31
his flow, his presentation man
7:33
he believe rather alert. Used to
7:35
play it every week on the radio to hear
7:38
him on the radio. That was big, Like
7:40
that was really really big in the hood. Hood
7:43
was like Yo Fatjo, Fato Fatjo,
7:45
Fatjo. Everybody knows that Joe's
7:47
in town. Enough respect for
7:50
the buggie down. People
7:52
used to record it and then played in hawsm
7:55
box. We had something to claim
7:58
forget them. Just the bronze to New
8:00
York. You know, that was big. We
8:02
didn't know how big it was gonna get Latinos
8:05
across the country and across the world. Loved
8:07
the authenticity of what
8:09
Joe brought hip hop a Latinos
8:12
to be like, He's not Rico suave. He's
8:15
the guy with the half moon with the dying
8:17
on with fifty guys behind him,
8:20
And I knew it was just gonna shake the
8:22
hip Hop World. The promo
8:24
cut the attention of one of my
8:27
capadres, Chris Nide. I
8:29
was on the block hustling and Chris LDY
8:32
just pulled up and he was like, yo, you
8:34
know who I am. And I was like, yeah, I know. You are your
8:36
baby, Chris, and he was like, you fat Joe
8:38
right. I was like yeah. He said, I think you
8:40
could be a star. I wanted to sign you, and then
8:43
my whole life changed from that moment. I
8:45
signed the contract in the middle of the street.
8:47
Chris, you know, and he wanted
8:49
something he always got it from.
8:52
No. Joe turned out to be number one. I
8:55
really didn't leave the drug game alone
8:57
the second I got a record
9:00
deal. After Flow Joe came out, Joe
9:02
blew up because he painted
9:04
a clear picture for you about his block
9:06
in the Bronx, and he gave
9:09
you that aggressiveness. So I was doing like three
9:11
shows a night. I'd be in stat Nolan, Jersey,
9:14
Connecticut, you know, Virginia,
9:16
Baltimore, Philly, eventually
9:18
Miami. We were coming down to Miami
9:21
to do a promo show or something
9:24
and a friend of mine he's like, I got some girlfriends
9:27
down there. I'm like, yo, they're pretty. He was like, oh, they're
9:29
the baddest chicks. And I was like, yo,
9:31
So I got to meet them. He was like, bro, you're
9:33
broke, you're fat.
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We met in Miami, right outside
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Nikki's beach. We pulled
9:41
up and the light
9:43
of the van she was walking
9:46
away shined on her ass
9:49
and it was the biggest ass
9:51
I have ever seen. And I was like, what
9:53
the fuck is that? And
9:56
then when she turned around, I was like, oh my god.
9:58
My friend said to me when he introduced
10:01
us, Joe said, that's my
10:03
wife, and my friend said, no
10:06
way, she's now. She'll never be your
10:08
wife. Look, I've
10:10
been with Joe for twenty five years.
10:12
He was that guy. I thought he was
10:14
really handsome, and I thought he was a
10:17
little bit of an asshole. He was very streaked.
10:19
He was rough around the edges and
10:22
he said come back to the hotel
10:24
and hang out. And I was like, all right,
10:26
I'll come on, come. But I never showed up, and
10:28
I just kept chasing and chasing him,
10:30
and Uh, I had a show in
10:34
writer and when she comes to the show, I said, sit
10:36
on stage. So I
10:38
do the show. I'm trying to show what I'm the man
10:41
and I remember leaving after
10:44
the show and one of his friends came up to
10:46
him and he said, hey, let's
10:48
hang out with all these girls. Want to go back to the hotel
10:51
and party and listen to Now. I was like, yo,
10:54
I got the chicks. They want to hang out with
10:56
you, but I'm with and I
10:58
said you should go with them because I'm not going.
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She's like, you ain't getting none of this, you might as
11:03
well go with them. So I look at
11:05
the six girls, and I look at her,
11:08
and I look at the sister. Yeah, he
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wouldn't. He
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chose me, So you know, I
11:17
was happy. You know, that was definitely
11:19
something that made me feel very
11:21
special because if I was
11:24
him, I would have definitely went with the girls
11:26
that were having the party. The rest
11:28
is history. You meet someone and you just say,
11:30
oh, this is gonna be my wife, you
11:33
know, when you know, you know, three months
11:35
into the relationship, he was like, you should move in
11:37
with me, and I said, okay.
11:39
We lived in a one bedroom apartment with
11:42
no curtains and t
11:45
shirts as towels. We were broke,
11:47
but we loved each other. In this business,
11:50
the hardest thing to do is
11:53
to have a successful relationship.
11:55
All these years later. My wife's
11:57
Lorenda. She supported me all the way.
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After some time, it was like
12:02
PAYANDEMONI and it was like I couldn't walk down
12:05
the street no more. You know. I was finally
12:07
successful, making all kind of money.
12:10
Even though I lived in Jersey on the water,
12:13
I would be in the projects every day,
12:16
and everybody knew. Fat Joe would go
12:18
to this boat dagg and hang out in front of it.
12:20
Walking outside of a boat Dagg
12:23
and you bump into the phenom Big
12:25
Punt. I didn't know at the time,
12:27
but he would eventually be one of the biggest
12:30
grappers of all time. That moment,
12:32
that store, it didn't just change me,
12:35
it changed the world forever. Punt
12:37
is out there rapping, and I was like, what is
12:39
the fat reporto Rican kid gonna do? And
12:42
he was like, gotta the data, the data, and
12:44
he just He's going like a car hunting miles
12:46
for hour, and he just blew my mind.
12:48
I was like, oh my god,
12:52
I knew nobody was better than him. You
12:54
know, he was born to rap. He made sure he was
12:56
ever where the fat was and if he had
12:58
new show, he was there whever he was. You
13:00
know, he had to be in a club or brought me was rounding
13:02
from around him, and so when I heard him,
13:05
I was like, that is it. This is gonna
13:07
be the Latin no biggie. Together we
13:09
formed the Terror Squad. The Terror
13:11
Squad rap group consisted
13:13
of guys I brought in the crew and
13:15
guys Punt brought in the crew. So
13:18
we cracked one love baby, you know the deal.
13:20
Terror Squad collect Boy ninety six
13:23
cities. He told me, you're
13:26
gonna be my big brother I never had. I'm
13:28
gonna hold you down. You hold me down, you beat
13:30
my big brother. They were brothers, and you know, they
13:32
might have had different fathers, but there was nothing
13:34
else they were. They were brothers, and we just jelled
13:37
together and formed this dynamic
13:39
duo. We call each other twins. So here's
13:41
a real quick you know before you know what looks like best
13:43
friends. I just knew that the
13:46
world had to hear him. So I was
13:48
like, let me focus all my energy on
13:50
this guy and he will take us
13:52
to the promised Land. So I took
13:54
a back seat and
13:56
just was pushing Punt. You know, I was in
13:58
the streets putting up posters
14:01
myself. I'm handing out flyers,
14:03
Big pund Big Punt. What he
14:05
would do for punt was bigger
14:08
than what he did for himself. Joe believed
14:10
in put but I think he was totally okay
14:12
putting punt front and
14:14
center. I was the Puerto Rican pump Daddy.
14:17
You know, pump Daddy discovered notorious
14:19
b I G Fat, Joe discovered Big
14:21
Punty, went double platinum. We signed the
14:24
deal for ten million dollars with Atlantic.
14:26
It was a dream come true to
14:28
see him elevate getting nominated
14:31
for Grammys. Yeah. I brought him in the game,
14:33
but I had never been nominated for Grammy.
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I had never been around these type of people.
14:39
Punt looks so beautiful. We threw curls
14:41
on his head, l a finger waves
14:43
joints when we was fronting at the sky
14:45
Blue suit on with the yellow pin stripe.
14:48
It was nothing like that time. Bro to
14:50
come from the Bronx, come from nothing and
14:53
be at the Grammys deal. It was like a Cinderella
14:55
story. I mean, this was really
14:58
a different level of success. They
15:00
were asking me to sign any one of my cousins,
15:03
any latino they wrapped because they
15:05
thought it was like the time of all latinos
15:08
selling millions of records, and you
15:10
know I was at the forefront of that. But at
15:12
the same time, I was Fat Joe the rapper
15:14
too, so uh and
15:17
went to work or don card
15:19
of Gina. You know that video is my favorite
15:21
video I ever shot in my life. Of
15:23
course, you seemed punk all in there and
15:25
then we had puffed through the hook.
15:28
Happiest time in my life. You
15:30
guys are really the stars of the show this year.
15:33
How does it feel? I
15:35
mean, it feels great. I'm
15:37
just happy. We're real happy today. Today
15:39
is a great thing. Everybody
15:53
has some sort of addiction. I
15:55
was really overweight. The
15:57
first celebrity name sandwich of the millennium,
16:00
the name of the Fat Joe. I'm extremely
16:02
hungry right now. I
16:04
wish we were educated
16:07
as we are now in
16:10
food and nutrition and we just ain't
16:12
no no better. Sounds
16:14
good
16:15
to me and
16:20
punished. Performing with Lopez on
16:22
Saturday Night Live. This Saturday,
16:25
we honor this very big you
16:27
know, not too many rappers get to do
16:30
that type of thing. J No put
16:32
out this ten time platinum
16:34
album. We got a huge hit
16:36
with her song Caught Feeling So Good,
16:39
and it just opened so many doors for us
16:41
to be on that s now stage, so
16:43
many eyes on us, so many people talking
16:46
about us. Taken schedule, high
16:48
profile appearance on Saturday Night Live
16:50
had to be canceled. You didn't want to show up.
16:53
I guess he didn't feel good. I was trying
16:55
to push him to go perform. I
16:57
kept bothering him the whole week, every day, Yo,
17:00
more and come on, come on, come on. And
17:02
I know it bothered him that he didn't come, So
17:04
I didn't you know, the show must still go
17:06
on. He was telling me his legs was hurting
17:08
him so he couldn't do it. We
17:11
were all worried about Punt's health. I
17:13
don't think anybody who could have really been in Punt's
17:15
presence didn't at some point feels
17:17
some concerned. I mean, the struggles with breathing,
17:19
and we all knew it wasn't healthy. He
17:22
said, nah, you go do it by yourself,
17:24
and that much I heard him
17:26
because he knew how important it was as
17:28
well. I guess these were the warning
17:31
signs of what was to
17:33
come. The next day, Punt had an heart
17:35
attack, but we got the phone call and
17:37
I remember just seeing Joe's
17:40
face, like his whole vibe,
17:42
his whole energy had just like
17:44
come down. He was really hurt and
17:46
destroyed and he just you know, it
17:49
was it was a bad day. It
17:51
was a bad day. He's gone. Remember
17:54
breaking down at UM
17:56
and we flew to New York. I remember just going straight to Joe's
17:58
house in the morning. Second we landed,
18:01
and then we had to do a whole bunch of press, which
18:04
was the worst thing. But
18:06
they've shown a lot of love, and you
18:08
know that was important to him because a lot of times
18:10
we worked harder. We thought a lot of
18:12
efforts he was doing was going unnoticed.
18:15
But you know, now our guess he knows,
18:17
and I definitely know that he would be missed.
18:20
He was loved, and you know he's acknowledged
18:22
for everything he did in life. And then you
18:24
you have a sense of guilt, like was
18:26
there anything we could have did to make
18:29
sure he didn't pass away? So
18:31
it was it was just a terrible time.
18:33
Man. He probably lads behind a wife
18:35
and three children, all under the age of the time.
18:38
He didn't deserve to die twenty
18:41
eight years old and leave his family, leave
18:43
his kids. He bent so much to
18:45
everybody, the whole community at
18:47
the time that it was just like unbelievable
18:51
when when he died, it was just it felt
18:53
like wow, it was like the world ended. It
18:55
was it was a hard
18:57
time, even a big bad that
19:00
Joe couldn't deal with it. He means me
19:03
very proud, you know, and
19:07
where he's done for me. I could never, you know,
19:09
replace that. I mean there's no
19:11
question. Almost too young and ago like
19:13
that. Everything it's just so overwhelming.
19:17
After Punt passed, it was really hard on
19:19
him. He lost like somebody
19:21
that he loved and somebody
19:23
that he really wanted so much for.
19:26
Everything started to throw bad. My
19:28
grandfather and my sister
19:31
all died around the same time,
19:34
and it was just really really painful. I
19:36
was really really tight with my sister growing up
19:38
since we was kids, and so that's
19:40
when depression and all
19:42
that started to sink him because it was just
19:44
so much pressure on me. He
19:47
wasn't able to deal with all of that. He
19:49
wasn't ready for it. I mean, nobody is. He
19:52
was crushed. He was just funked up.
19:55
I gained a lot of weight, started
19:57
drinking liquor, medicating
19:59
myself, started losing grip of
20:02
my friends, my artists.
20:05
I remembered whispers saying like
20:07
there's no pun there's no terrorist guard. You know,
20:09
people just thought, you know, the whole
20:12
terrorist guard identity,
20:14
would you would crumble. I think the combination
20:16
of Joe and Pun holding the terrorist squad
20:18
together, and then they slowly started to
20:21
fall apart. It's a down period, and Pun
20:23
died and everything is looking slow. Everybody
20:26
jumped ship on me. I knew I needed help.
20:28
I had never felt like this before.
20:30
It was just too much, unbearable.
20:33
The only thing that helped me is that I was going to
20:35
therapy, and I would go every Tuesday.
20:38
My wife, Lorena took me to every single
20:40
appointment, and no one else
20:42
in the world knew I was getting therapy, so
20:44
she would support me and take me in. You
20:47
know, I put it through a lot. You know, I always
20:49
say, let your darkest moments bring your most
20:51
clarity. You know. I knew I had to fight his
20:54
depression for my family, my
20:56
wife and my two sons. She was a great
20:58
father. For him to be
21:00
this amazing dad, he had to experience
21:03
what he went through. We take care of each other
21:05
in this family. It's just simple as that.
21:07
The depression went on for two years.
21:10
I just said to myself, yo, you
21:12
gotta wake up. Stop
21:14
feeling guilty and that at that moment
21:17
I snapped out of the depression. It
21:19
was loving life and loving his
21:21
music and loving, you know, to
21:23
do what he does. And he was working
21:26
in the studio again, focused
21:28
on the new head. It was back
21:31
before upon died. All I wanted
21:33
to be was the street that when he passed
21:35
away, I realized I had
21:38
to take it from there and go to
21:40
the next level. I met IRV Gotti
21:42
and told him I wanted to make music for everybody,
21:45
women, commercial hit
21:47
records, and he just woke me
21:49
up one night. I'm laying next to my
21:52
wife and got the house phone and
21:54
Joe, what's up deserved. I
21:56
was like, Yo, what's up? Come down
21:58
the hit Factory with on It was street for in
22:00
the morning and HERB said, y'all made this
22:03
for you, and he breast playing and I was like,
22:05
holy wow, they gave me
22:07
a hit. They made me a hit back.
22:09
Joe has gone from being hip hop's most
22:12
infamous Puerto Rican to music's
22:14
most popular big man. And
22:16
it all it took was a song
22:18
called What's Love featuring a Shanty. I've
22:20
been in this business nine years. It's finally my time
22:22
to shine, you know, man, So
22:25
what's the difference with this album from your prior albums?
22:28
Just I was just way more focused. Man, I had
22:30
no choice. I felt like this album was like all or
22:32
nothing. After Punch Deaf, you
22:34
know, cats was rumoring and it was people were
22:36
sleeping on me, and it was like, you think, Joco, hold
22:39
it down. So I had to lock myself in the grimy
22:41
studio and just get all this frustration
22:44
out and on this music. It's just made
22:46
it happens. No, man. There was a lot of moments
22:48
where I knew he is blowing up, Like we
22:50
wanted the tour bus and they said, you
22:52
know, we want you to perform at MTV spring
22:55
Break and I was like, wow,
22:57
Joe, this is big. I was like, this
22:59
is really big. And I was like, man, we gotta do
23:01
something to make people talk. We gotta do something.
23:04
And she was like, yo, man, you should go there
23:07
topless, take the showed
23:09
off. And he did. He fucking
23:11
did. She got him this. I
23:13
think it was like affended red towel
23:15
and I was like, that's the outfit. She was like, that's
23:18
it. Oh yeah, she was right. She's usually
23:20
right. It explodes. It's
23:22
a mainstream thing. Everybody
23:25
was talking about fat Joe and Joey crack,
23:27
the cracking of his ass, showing they just
23:30
fell in love with this big guy. It's great
23:32
to be that confident and be a
23:34
big man and be sexy and
23:36
be fly and carry
23:39
us off the way he carried himself. He was
23:41
always the flyest bat guy. Ever.
23:44
After that one performance, our
23:46
salves went from fifteen thousand a week
23:48
to twenty thousand a week to five
23:50
thousand a week. I never forget my
23:53
phone. Rang and the reserve guy
23:55
he said, Joe Platinum,
23:58
and I'm like stopping. He go Platformum.
24:01
It feels good. It feels like, you know, we're having
24:04
this little victory parade.
24:06
And I don't know how radio is embracing
24:08
me out of nowhere like that, but I
24:10
mean, I guess you know that was my destiny.
24:12
So now I'm gonna just continue to bring
24:14
you hits. This is what I'm in it for, man,
24:16
I'm not in it to be an underground wrapper. I'm
24:18
in it to be a superstar sell
24:20
millions of records. It was a different
24:22
audience time it went by, and you
24:25
know, it wasn't Flow Joe's crowd. There
24:27
was a whole new crowd. How was he gonna keep
24:29
it going that there's millions of people trying
24:31
to make music. A hit record
24:33
is a miracle, but to keep doing
24:36
it over and over again, that lets you
24:38
know these guys ain't going nowhere then boom
24:40
here because lean that lean back is
24:42
actually the only beat that I was
24:45
afraid to wrap on because
24:47
I had so much success off of What's Love. You
24:50
know, as an artist, you start thinking that's
24:52
your lane. You gotta make songs for girls.
24:55
And so I lived with it for like a month, and
24:57
I remember I was driving on the west side of highways.
24:59
I pulled dover, I played to be and
25:01
started going. I was new to Terror
25:04
Squad and I was in the studio and I'm
25:06
like playing for me what they were doing yesterday.
25:08
Like I'm
25:10
like, what is this? And it's Joe
25:13
with all three verses. I'm like, is he serious?
25:16
Take that second verse out, turn
25:18
on the mic, and I'm going in there and I'm
25:20
recording. Next day when everyone
25:23
comes in, that song comes on and he's
25:25
like, hype, We're like this. Then
25:28
the second verse comes on and looks at me and
25:30
I'm like, Hi, I'm like,
25:32
what the They totally erased
25:35
my second verse and Remy forced them
25:37
to recorder or when I heard it, I was like,
25:39
Wow, she killed
25:42
that. It was just a huge record,
25:44
Like not just here around the world, every
25:46
DJ was playing Leaning Back. It just was
25:49
over. It was over. He
25:51
always comes out swinging at
25:53
the TV Awards and it was like Bruce Willis
25:57
and Lativa and all these people like laying
25:59
Back, like it was Bruce Wilicious,
26:02
like like Mr die Hard himself. Lean
26:05
Back was the return of Joe. Was
26:07
an anthem and when you heard it, you were like, Joe's
26:10
back. That was a home run. Man.
26:12
We ran the game with this. Go to a
26:14
nightclub and they would play just lean
26:17
Back for an hour straight,
26:19
fifty times in a row. They just
26:21
wouldn't get tired of it. It was a phenomenon.
26:24
I won't always be known as a guy who
26:26
made lean Back. Remy became
26:28
a superstar with that song. Remy
26:31
wanted to do it so album, and I wanted to do a
26:33
solo album with her. We get the deal done. She
26:35
made an amazing album, but it didn't do what
26:37
it should have done. I was dealing with the record label
26:39
and they kept telling me that they were going to blow up
26:41
the album. But they didn't. I was mad
26:44
about how many units of my album
26:46
was shipped out. No one anywhere who
26:49
wanted to my my album, they couldn't find it because they didn't
26:51
have it. Unfortunately, she
26:53
thought it was because of me, and I'm like, you should
26:55
have been here with me. If he was here,
26:58
this wouldn't happen. No one's listening to me.
27:00
And so she went at me and she was talking
27:02
crazy. She was talking about I
27:05
don't mind signing to fifty cents
27:07
g unit. You know, Remy's family
27:09
man, and I know it since she's a kid. So
27:12
that was the most painful former
27:14
betrayal I ever felt.
27:17
It was like an invisible lightning rod
27:19
just piercing through my heart.
27:22
You know, she's a very emotional person and
27:24
Joe really tried to do right
27:26
for her. What is it that exactly went wrong?
27:28
What was the like the final breaks always
27:32
her own boss when she started
27:34
disrespecting me to the public, and a
27:37
lot of stuff is coming, man, you know
27:40
when you will out and all that that should be coming
27:42
right back, you know, So I
27:44
wish it well. Three years later she
27:46
got arrested, and you know, I've been
27:48
dealing with crime my whole life, so
27:51
I knew what she had to do to get less
27:53
time and then, and nobody was advising
27:55
of the right way. I we
27:58
didn't speak for years, and in that
28:00
time, like I used to be so devastated
28:02
because I missed my brother. I was sad,
28:04
even though I was trying to act like, you know, it
28:06
is what it is, but it was like really really sad
28:09
for her. But I've always been on gold
28:11
time no matter what, and fighting for
28:13
what we we are or what
28:15
we represent, and so I keep
28:17
going and I keep pushing forward. At
28:20
the time we build a new house, it's
28:22
beautiful. Were in Miami with the whole family,
28:25
my mother, my wife, my daughter,
28:27
and my two sons. We were all together.
28:29
It was an amazing time. And I had to
28:31
hit One
28:44
day. I went to buy a car and they were like, you
28:46
haven't paid for your mortgages. You haven't
28:48
paid your cars. I'm like, what. I
28:51
had an accountant, I hired him. I'm
28:54
sending them wire transfers to pay my taxes.
28:57
The man ain't paying my taxes. I didn't know.
29:00
We stepped to the government and we tell them,
29:02
look, this guy was taking advantage of me. I
29:04
actually went to court and paid
29:06
the money. Back, thinking that maybe because I don't
29:09
have no previous criminal history, I'll
29:11
get house arrass or get probation,
29:13
which they give to people every day.
29:16
And so they said, sorry, you
29:18
have to go to jail. That was a horrible
29:20
day. I got up. My mother in law
29:22
made me breakfast and she was crying the whole
29:25
time. Lorena was in the in
29:27
the living room, just crying like
29:29
crazy. And
29:32
you know, I kissed on the foret. I said, mine stopped.
29:35
You can't be doing this. The actual day
29:37
of me, Joe's son took
29:39
the drive with him to drop him
29:42
off. You can hear a pin drop. I've
29:44
done many crimes. I've done many things
29:46
in my life. I was not guilty
29:48
of this, like you know, so
29:51
I got my all. I guess I got what was
29:53
coming to me. We get to in front
29:55
of the prison. We don't get out, you
29:57
know, we hug him. What's going to
29:59
jail? Like this ship crazy. When I was walking
30:01
into the jail, I looked back at the
30:04
truck and uh, maybe I shouldn't
30:06
have had run my son there. You know,
30:08
he looked so devastated watching his father
30:11
walk in there. You know. Uh,
30:14
and that hurt, that really really hurt.
30:16
Jail gave me a lot of time to strategize,
30:19
go over my priorities, and
30:21
get really really serious about life.
30:24
You know, it's sad for me. Man. I was making money
30:26
since I was twenty two. I had been
30:28
rich for the last fifteen sixteen
30:31
years. Private planes, mansions,
30:34
diamonds, whatever you name it, cars,
30:37
whatever we wanted we had. When
30:39
I got out of jail, I had to start
30:41
completely over. The hardest
30:43
thing was that they basically had absorbed
30:46
of my money millions and millions of dollars.
30:49
And so I would get up and I would look at my daughter
30:51
sleep at night, and that
30:53
hurt me the most because I would be like, she
30:56
doesn't deserve to live
30:58
a broke life. She
31:00
deserves a better life. Now you
31:02
have to figure out a way to
31:05
make your money back, to make a hit record
31:08
one time, it's a miracle. To
31:10
do it over and over and over
31:12
again, it's even harder.
31:15
And I was. I was a forty year old rapper.
31:18
Nobody had ever done that. I pulled
31:20
up to his crib. It's a huge crib
31:22
he had. You know. I knocked on the door and his
31:24
wife lordly opened the door. She's like, get in here
31:26
and talk to this man. He's tripping, and
31:28
I can remember sitting down with him and he was just like,
31:30
it's over for me. Man, rap,
31:33
it's a young man's game. You know what I'm saying,
31:35
It's over. And I've never seen
31:37
Joe like that, you know what I'm saying. You know, I just
31:39
turned forty years old and they took
31:41
away all my money. How
31:44
the hell am I gonna
31:46
come back? And I can remember just looking at
31:48
him and telling him, nah
31:50
no, Uh, Tina tournament
31:52
a hit record and fifty years old, so uh.
31:55
I went to work back in the studio, ready,
31:58
ready to do what I had to do. Joe
32:00
felt like, I need something to get that
32:03
uh fired. At the same
32:05
time, you know, Remy, she was trying to get her
32:07
thing going. I'm in prison and
32:09
I've been there for four years going
32:11
on five, and I'm just like, guy,
32:14
I need to speak something. And I had to go
32:16
through so much, had to put the number on my phone list,
32:18
all this stuff, so I'm like, all right, I'm just gonna call it.
32:20
It was at that point where I didn't even care who's
32:22
right or who's wrong. I was like, I'm saying sorry, I'm
32:24
gonna apologize. She called me out
32:27
of nowhere. She's just like yo,
32:29
and I'm like yo, and then
32:32
there's an awkward silence for like a minute,
32:35
and then she was like, well talk. I was like, well, Remy,
32:37
you call me, like what do you want?
32:39
And He's like, ramp, what
32:41
do you want to say? And I'm just like all right,
32:44
I was
32:48
and it was just a love fest. It
32:51
took one second. So when
32:53
Remy got out of jail, when we met
32:55
in Miami and I had a big plan.
32:58
This was like the first time that I had off
33:00
at Joe at seven years. He's
33:03
like, you're ready to get back in the big leagues now,
33:05
Like I have this idea and I'm like, okay,
33:08
what your idea is? Like, smell you what I
33:11
said, Yo, Remy. There's a chance
33:14
that if we worked together and we
33:16
make a song, it's like a
33:18
thread going through a needle to say,
33:20
as people like Fat Joe and people
33:23
like Remy Mam, people
33:26
love Fed Joe and Remy
33:28
ma together, if we hit
33:30
it on there, it might explode
33:32
and be the biggest record in the world. After
33:34
the reconciliation, Fat
33:37
Joe, Remy Martin, they were all the way up.
33:40
I remember going shopping with Remy
33:42
for this video. Joe wanted my wardrobe
33:45
to be crazy, but we
33:47
didn't have a budget. She might have spent fifteen
33:49
thousand dollars. She's like, yo, Joe, I don't
33:52
spend money like this no more. I was like,
33:54
funk that we need Chanelle, we need
33:57
Louis Vattm, we need the first
34:00
It is like, I promise you you
34:02
got to get it back times a hundred.
34:04
Trust me. I said, you know what, if
34:06
we don't make money back with this song, I'll
34:08
give you the money back for the clothes. But by
34:11
the cold, Not only was all the way up
34:13
big for Joe and the squad, but
34:15
it was big for hip hop and for the culture,
34:18
and come back was real for Fat
34:20
Joe. We just kept winning the wards. The
34:22
Beefy Hip Hop Award goes to all
34:25
that that y'all hanging up. We're
34:29
getting that money. We
34:31
getting that money. I
34:33
could have thought of a lot of better things to
34:35
say that we're getting that money, but
34:38
I guess it was built in. It
34:40
took all my money that That was the first
34:43
thing I thought of saying up there was were getting
34:45
that money. Boy, Like if y'all thought
34:47
I was gonna be broke. You are very
34:49
confused, right. There's nothing
34:53
like having something and have it taken
34:55
away from you with for you to come
34:57
back. It was just like the
35:00
top of the world again. He always says
35:02
I'm going to get a number one, and he does. He fucking
35:04
works hard and he fucking makes it happen.
35:06
To this day, I fight for my family's future.
35:09
I want to leave and leave my kids.
35:12
You know all set up. I needed
35:15
the music to blow up on another level
35:17
so I could do the business. The
35:19
only way to succeed in life is
35:21
to empowering yourself. It's
35:24
all about being an entrepreneur. I
35:26
want my wikipedia to start
35:29
off by saying, Joseph Antonio
35:31
card to Gina, American
35:33
businessman. You know, there's so much more
35:36
up than being a gangster rapper. We
35:38
have a great brand that we're all proud
35:40
of. Fat Joe started opening up
35:42
sneaker stores in the city and
35:44
he created what we called the up end
35:47
Y c and Sneaker Initiative to
35:49
reward kids with sneakers
35:51
from impoverished neighborhoods
35:54
that do good in school. When I opened
35:56
the store, it was to give back to the
35:58
people. Philanthropy as
36:00
as big as in my heart, I've always given
36:02
back and that's what I'm gonna keep
36:04
doing. With the thought back in the days,
36:07
mom,
36:09
we would live good like this Huh started
36:12
with nothing. Huh. Damn
36:14
man, I'm so
36:17
let's do what chose. Thank God that we're here
36:19
and we're eating and pray
36:21
for everybody. Wow. You
36:24
know, I'm very lucky to have them, My wife,
36:27
Rich, my daughter, little Joey.
36:29
He's the Donny, always sits at the top
36:31
of the table. He's autistic, but he realizes
36:34
that he plays a powerful role
36:36
in this family. I'm proud of him. I
36:38
love him. I feel like all my blessings come
36:40
from him. I think having a child with special
36:42
needs is something that
36:44
he always tried to protect. But now he's
36:47
definitely um comfortable. My
36:49
kids, they are living up
36:52
tremendously different childhood
36:54
than me, and thank God, man, that's what we
36:56
all want for our kids. I love everybody
36:58
here, and everybody at this table very
37:01
very important to me in my life, and
37:03
I'm just happy that I still have my mother
37:05
father here with me. When my mother went
37:08
through cancer, my father never left up.
37:10
He's still by the side. A lot of people they run
37:12
away, and so I've been blessed to have
37:15
my parents, so I try to enjoy
37:17
it every second I can
37:20
with them. He's in a happy place
37:22
right now where he's able to express
37:24
and he doesn't give a fuck. He just knows
37:27
that he loves and he wants to show
37:29
love back. You know, he's a positive
37:31
guy and he's given out that positive
37:34
energy and he's the sunshine.
37:37
Wow. I have some very good
37:39
friends. This was like the first
37:41
song I ever made in my life based
37:44
on positivity and uplifting
37:47
the people. I'm gonna cheer him up. We're
37:49
gonna have fun. It's just the growth
37:51
of Joe. It's like he's lighter.
37:54
My brother Joe Crack still
37:57
knocking him out the park at fifty years
37:59
old. Joe has found a sense of balance.
38:02
I think he found a sense of peace. A lot
38:04
of people recording Joe the Elder Statesman and hip
38:06
hop because you think of when he came out,
38:08
what in early nineties, and now we're
38:10
in one. He have
38:12
revision after putting in so
38:14
much pain, after coming from where we
38:17
come from, beating the odds a
38:19
gazillion times, he
38:21
deserves to be happy. I think what Joe
38:23
did and what he gave to the
38:25
music business, two people,
38:28
marginalized people from tough neighborhoods.
38:31
Hope you understood that
38:33
he came from nothing and turned it into
38:36
something, and that's what Joe gave two People's really nice
38:38
to see the evolution of where he started to where
38:40
he is now. It's really like
38:42
a hip hop fairy tale. More to
38:44
the story is courage
38:48
that I have been through everything you could think of. I
38:50
was in the streets, jail you
38:52
know, we know its family, friends,
38:55
and been tested to where I had to step
38:57
up, always saying that your darkest moments
38:59
bring your most clarity. H
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