"The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say "No" to almost everything.” – Warren Buffett

Everybody has an issue with saying, “No”, but when you become successful, you have to learn how to say it. In fact, you only become successful because you say “No”.

Being successful in love is the same thing – you have to know how to say “No”. That’s why, when it comes to relationships, one of the first steps you have to look at is who YOU are, what it is that YOU desire and what is right for YOU.

You can’t read about your boundaries in a book. You have to allow yourself to experience every love connection as a journey to get to know yourself and know what you want.

In this episode, Susan and I discuss boundaries and how they can help us create a meaningful relationship with our significant other based on the truth about who we really are and what we are willing to offer.

Nearly 25 years ago, Susan Hum started her journey of self-exploration to fully understand what Life Purpose means. She believes that we are all born with a road-map that, if we are aligned with its purpose, brings pure fulfillment and joy to our lives. Today she is fulfilling her dream as a Success & Love Coach. Her results-oriented coaching practice is based on both Eastern and Western methodologies. As an accomplished career woman, coupled with her broad life and diverse work experiences, she has the unique insight and wisdom to perceive each person’s distinct brilliance.

So, listen to Episode 24 of My Fitness Ride, to learn how you can get the self-control you need in order to achieve your greatest success in love.

Questions I ask:

• Why is it so important to know when to say "No" and when to say "Yes"? (07:13)
• What's a good example of somebody feeling controlled? (08:56)
• Can you give us a few examples of what healthy boundaries are? (13:17)
• How is the heart irrational? What's a good example of that? (20:53)
• Do you believe people should marry their best friends? Is that a good thing? (38:58)

In this episode, you will learn:

• New vs old relationships – performance as a differentiation factor. (11:33)
• The five love languages. (15:06)
• Boundaries build bridges, not walls. (18:22)
• The similarities between love and GPS. (20:00)
• The significance of “The one”. (29:23)

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