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This is a Global Player original
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podcast.
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Hello and welcome to the bonus
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episode of my therapist goes away with me, Bo
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Williams and Joanne McNally. Joanne McNally,
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your loss is always my gain. Oh,
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I lost my. Well, we don't really
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know what they are. I left the grotes
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that I wear at the end of my ankles in
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Vogue's room. They are like a furry slipper shoe
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from is it what are they called? Ninth level
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level nine tower nine tenth floor. Close
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tenth floor.
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Tower
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nine. Yeah. How
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did you get back to your room just in your little trotters?
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You're just your feet. You went up. You forgot your shoes.
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Just ran out my bare feet. It's
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amazing that she'd forget her shoes. It
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was only when I was standing in the lift barefoot
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and naked that I was like, where are my shoes? What
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have I done? What have I done? Where are my furry
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slipper shoes that I I wear around
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just to see people's reaction. I love them. It's
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like my
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clogs that everyone's likes that and that I didn't
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wear for a year because that woman through
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was such a filthy look and started laughing at me
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in a farmhouse, a random woman.
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So far, as I could see her face like curl
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up and then she just started laughing at
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my shoes. I thought I popped these away
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for a while.
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No, we don't. What?
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She's a key bag. It was like that times. Remember me
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and you and you and me and you,
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me and you and me and you and
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you.
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And yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And you
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and me and you and you were out for
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dinner and I was wearing. I'm not going to lie.
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It was it was a loud outfit. It was like
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a multi-colored leopard print
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jacket with matching. They weren't actually matching.
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There were a yellow leopard print flare.
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And like she literally I didn't know a
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nose could curl her nose, curled
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up in disgust. I
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know we're by women supporting women, but the second one of them
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curls their nose up, but it's like,
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no, no, no.
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No, no, no. It's Joe's birthday
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tomorrow. Happy birthday, Joe. I
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heard. It will have been in gone. He
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went on the absolute, the absolute
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piss last night. And I have to drive home with him tonight.
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We're driving home from Cardiff after the show. Perfectly
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legally and perfectly safely, can I say, because
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that was last night. That's tonight different. And
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Joe, when you drive with
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Joe, it's my second time driving with him now. His
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car is like, it's basically like sitting
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in business class. As he goes the full way back,
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Joe doesn't try to talk to you.
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He does play the worst
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music. And I just, I just put my
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headphones in. I said, you know what? It's his car. He
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can do what he likes. I'm not going to get involved, but like
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shocking. And I said to you, you can
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listen to whatever you want. And you said you're absolutely
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fine with your classic rock radio
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station. Is what you said. You insisted on
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the darkness album that you played on repeat.
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Is that what they're called? The darkness. Just
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read the two.
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Oh my God. Yes. I didn't even notice that.
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You're obsessed with the darkness. I'm
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upset about something. Go
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on. I've missed my chance with
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Harry Styles. Yeah. What is
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he banging now? Listen, I say this every
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time he's buying it. So many of his bangin says he's
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been buying a new people for the last 30 years. Joanne.
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Joanne. He is
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in Dublin tonight. I could have gone to Slaine
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casually bumped into him and been like,
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right. Harry,
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come on. Let's go. Come, come
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with mummy. Come to mama. You're
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a bit out for him, I think. No, no. He likes
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older women. I know. But you're a bit too old.
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That's what that was my point. Oh, too old.
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Yeah. Yeah. We're aging positively. Anyway,
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Harry likes the older lady. I
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hate that word lady. That just makes you sound
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old. Do you know what? Jennifer Aniston,
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one of my one of my fays was she's
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bringing out some sports thing or something. So she's all out of the
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place at the moment. And she was saying one of her
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pet peeves, one of her most irritating
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sayings is you look well for your
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age. Yeah. And I was
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like, Jennifer, I could not agree more.
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You just look well. You just say
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you look great. You don't say you look well for your age
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because it's like you're getting away with something It's like you're tricking
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people or there's an oh, there's an upstairs
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It just an assumption that once you hit 35 or
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whatever age it is. It always changes depending on what
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age you are
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That you're like, oh god, it's kind of shocking. You
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don't look like shit. I know. Do you know what? What
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you will? I know
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but where do you know what? I swear and I'm
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not just making this up I feel very
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comfortable in the age that I'm at now.
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Like I don't want to be in my 20s I've
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done my 20s. I enjoyed my
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20s and I actually feel very comfortable I
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never thought I would feel so comfortable at this
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age, but I do I
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I'm 40 now.
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What age are you vote? Are you 38? 37 38 in October? I'm
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happy about it though. I am I feel like I'm in a
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good spot Yeah,
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I think that was what I was saying.
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It was like That
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we don't like we don't lie about it. You don't
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fudge our age. We're proud And
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also we're fucking young like this at Jennifer's
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at a different stage because she's what is she Joe? Can you check
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I was doing I was doing a TV show
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with that with this different when you're with different when you're
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under 40 Like you're near like I feel good about my age
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or even 40
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I feel good about my age, but she feels like
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she's literally coming to the end of her Hollywood chapter 54
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She's 54. So I think she's hitting
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your 50s is a different beast again, then
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it's like Oh now you're really getting
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away with something Do you know what I mean? What
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I will say like I know when
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somebody very close to me turned 70 not my
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mom someone else They cried before
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the 70th but they only because they were there they're
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starting to get scared Like that that
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time is coming closer
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to an end and I can understand that
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But like I was I did a radio show Sorry today
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with them with a 90 year old
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woman who is on tour selling
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her fifth book. She's doing all these
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book talks She's an actress. She
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is like So intelligent
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she was she's so glamorous.
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She was really really cool Yeah,
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you see it's always up. It's always always tell you when you meet women
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like that, you're like, you can kind of look up to. Yeah.
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Or just look at and be like, wow, they're doing
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a really good job of just being alive.
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And yeah, she did say we
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were successful at being cool and just enjoying
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their fucking lives. You know, she was
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saying though, she was like, because we were talking
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about like best friends and so she was like, well, most
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of my friends are dead. I was like, Oh God,
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Oh no, please don't start this with
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me.
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There's a woman on Insta
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and I still to this day, I don't know if she's
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real or fake. Let me try and
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find her.
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Grandma Droniak. I'm probably not
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pronouncing that correctly. Grandma Droniak.
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She's, I'm a celebrity. This is her
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bio. She's 1.3 million
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followers. Her bio is I'm a celebrity and a 93 year
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old grandma. Yes, I can be her grandma too. Contact
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Kevin Droniak for business inquiries, but her
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videos are like,
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get ready with me for the grave.
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She's like, put on makeup
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and everything. Like I honestly, like
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Grandma Droniak, I don't mean to upset
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you, but I can't tell if she's, if
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she, if I don't, I don't know. I
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don't speak out of term, but I can't tell if she's,
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if she knows exactly what she's doing
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or not. Oh my God. I'm following
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her right now. I don't mean to insult her, but she's
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gas is all I would say. She's amazing. I
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just see a picture of, she's
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pulling a knife out of her bag and one of the things,
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what the hell? Oh yeah.
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Here's what's in my bag. Stop asking
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a calculator. She's like, I've
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been seeing it for decades. I think that's why it
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looks
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so good. So she takes Tik TOK trends
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and then she kind of acts them out on her own page. And
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she films herself dancing and just screaming,
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slay queen slay. She
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remember Irish Apple, like she's still
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alive, but like she did a collab with H&M. She
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has her own like rug range and she
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is so cool. Like
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I like, and I think she's in her nineties as well.
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She's amazing.
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See, she's actually, I would say she's cooler
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than us. We need more women like that. They're
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out there. I just need to find them. I was reading an article
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the other day about, it was talking about the importance of intergenerational
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friendships for women.
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women. So different women being friends
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with different generations was, which is what
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Vogue thinks me and her are, but genuinely,
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genuinely intergenerational friendships.
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I was like, I don't have any
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female friends in their sixties, like I've my mom
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and her sisters and stuff, but it's not the same thing.
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Do you know what I mean? I'm not like best friends
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with, you see, women, significantly
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younger women, significantly older. And I feel like I'm lacking
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that a bit. I feel like I, uh, like auntie
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Jean is one of my best friends. She comes
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on all of our holidays with us. Uh,
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my auntie, yeah, you have Gina.
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Yeah, you do. Naomi is one of my really good friends.
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I would speak to her a lot. She's my auntie. Anyway, I just
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think, I think that that's why people have mentors in
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certain industries so they can enjoy
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the wisdom of people who've been around longer
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than them. And I'd love it in friendships. I'd
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actually love, I'd love, I'd love a female mentor.
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A female mentor. I
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have a male one. Des Bishop
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is kind of my male mentor. Really.
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Okay. I know what you're asking here. I would
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like to, I will
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be your female mentor.
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Thank you so much. Sorry.
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So Dame, it was Dame
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Sheila Hancock who was 90. She would be
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an amazing mentor if you got, do you
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know her job?
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Yeah, she's an icon. She can be yours.
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Yeah. I love, I would
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love, um, I mean, John Rivers of the ideal
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mentor, sadly, I know, sadly those
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days are gone, but
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an older female comedian would be
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amazing. Yeah. Like
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who? You know, I don't know. Like I want
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the, I want the comedian from hacks, but
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she's not, she's fictional sadly. That won't really
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work. I know, but she would be ideal.
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I think she's kind of based on John Rivers, but anyone
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like, you know, like so much,
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I just want, I'd love to be in the, in the
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bosom of an older female performer.
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So Joanne is beauty garland,
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that kind of thing. Okay. Yeah. You're going for all the dead ones
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though. Not helpful. Mother
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of God, I'm ahead of my time. No,
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I'm behind my time. Will
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we do some listener emails? Sure.
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Okay. Bat Middler. I'd
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have that. Oh, she, yeah. Yeah. That
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was a share. Share.
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Share. I can't even share. Folk,
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Joanne, please help. Of
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course. I've got a massive fear at the moment and
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it's eating me alive. I'm going
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between being absolutely certain and then doubting
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myself wondering why I'm like this.
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Sounds like somebody I know. For the last two
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weeks, I've been getting this feeling that my boyfriend
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has a thing for my best friend.
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Oh no. I've
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been with him for a year or so and he's kind,
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loving and attentive. But we went out with all
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my friends a couple of weeks ago and my
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boyfriend spent a lot of the evening talking
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to my best friend.
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I didn't mind and I was glad to chat to
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everyone else. Since then, a few comments
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he's made of having thinking that he's got
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her on his mind. He said that she's really
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clever and
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they chatted about loads of stuff that
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don't interest me at all. He asked how
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long ago her relationship ended. I
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don't think that she's leading him on at all. I'm just sure
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it's all in his own mind, but I keep going over
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it. And even when we have sex, it just keeps
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flashing in my mind. Oh dear.
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Is my boyfriend going to shag my best friend in my
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life? Hell, no. No.
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Benny is obsessed with you on.
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I was just about to say, I don't want to
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embarrass Alan, but if he mentions
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Vogue one more time, I'm like, Alan,
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like it's, it never
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stops. When you come on the phone. What does
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Vogue think about that? What does Vogue think about that one? We
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have a fight. I bet you Vogue would agree with me.
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It's just constant. And you know on Insta when there's
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like, you know, the most watched
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people. It's usually, I'm
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the first video on Vogue's always his second video.
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He is bad in
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Vogue. Well, when I
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call you or if you're on the phone or something and Spenny
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hears your voice. The whole face lights
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up and he just looks everywhere for you. It's like a little dog.
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Very cute. Yeah. I think,
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do you know what I, do you know what I
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think it is? And this is probably sexist
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and stereotypical, but fuck it. We're in it now. Go
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on. We've never, we've never been one.
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We've never been one to ignore your stereotype. Don't
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shy away from the obvious. Is that
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men from my experience,
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don't attack me, don't have a lot
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of female friends. Yeah. They,
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when they get a woman in their life by default, which
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is usually
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through their girlfriend who they spend a lot of time
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with and they get on with, they
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have it like what we would call it. It's
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platonic, but they just are very,
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they just are kind of drawn to them because it's something
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new for them. They're allowed to spend time
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with this other woman. It's not sexual.
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They get to know each other, have a laugh. They
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get on, they
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have good conversations, but it's
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not, they're not going to ride. It's just
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a mutual appreciation. Yeah.
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Because like I say, they don't, men,
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well, the men that I know anyway,
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their friendships will be
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predominantly with other men. Yeah.
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That's all it is. I'm telling you now, that's all it is. Yeah.
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I would not be worried about that at all. And I kind of love that's Fenny
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likes you so much as a nice thing to have
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your boyfriend like your friends. It is. Because
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it's nice that Alan likes you too. I do. I do
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think it is nice. I tease him about it.
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Tell him I said I miss him. I
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will. Yeah. It's like,
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and sometimes- I can't
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get out of Alex Insta's store. She's just a good
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friend. I just really
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admire her. Well sometimes- Okay.
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When I'm tired, Joanne takes the reins with Speno and she's
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talking to me. I do. That's what
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friends do. Yes. And
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also you're like, A,
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it's not, it's not sexual
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on his part. Like I say, it's just a
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kind of a respect
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or it's a new interest. She's a bit of, she's
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got, there's a bit of novelty there because it's a new woman
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in his life, but it's not sexual. I
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would put my-
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well not my life, not my life. life
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realistic here I do
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think what you're saying is true because even spending with Amber
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like he's very close with her ambers a lesbian
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she's definitely not gonna go there and yeah
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it's not an amber ever I
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don't ever get on like a bloody house on
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fire oh my god he's like it's I'm gonna be there
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is I'm gonna do she's
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dead he's gonna is he gonna shoot me
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or amber he has to choose one he'd shoot amber wouldn't he
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he'd shoot amber yeah yeah okay that's okay one
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sata yeah that's cuz at least he can maybe
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hook up with you do you know what I mean you know
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you know what I mean so don't worry we
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don't don't think your best friend and
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your boyfriend are gonna get together I just be happy
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that they're friends
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exactly it's nice they get on yeah
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yeah cuz it's because it'd be worse if
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you one of those boyfriends who thinks all your friends are yeah
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and then you won't go anywhere and blah blah blah you
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know we've all had them yeah they're actually
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way worse they are rather
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Alan Road folk than wouldn't be a name to be honest
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it would make socializing way easier if they just did it behind
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my back and I didn't know and he was always just pleased to see
15:04
her like what
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I'm sad and be like I'm not going to folks they're like
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fuck's sake
15:09
folks everywhere with me come on come on
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we're joined that we have started morphing into each
15:14
other we were going through the airport through the day same sunglasses
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same handbag yeah I know
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that's cute and
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I'm cutting my hair into a blonde bob next week I'm
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not even joking yeah it's getting single
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white female no vote and who also
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to to top it all off someone
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lost their password and it wasn't me oh
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wow
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wow it's tell tells on me there I
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was like oh I was like oh my god she's
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like oh my god my password we were on the way to the airport to
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fly from Edinburgh to Carter oh my god I've got
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a password and I was like I'm so proud of you hi
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I was there look I
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was looking
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up trains it's gonna take me seven
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hours to get there on a train and then luckily
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I had four bank cards I'm out of kite
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I counted 19 she whacked and she whipped
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at 19 Bank cards
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in the cage Even your man of the hive is,
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was like, whoa. It was just like, all
16:04
these bank cards. I was like, please,
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it's me, it's me. Yeah, six
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grand in cash to say it over the wall. She's like, fuck.
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They later on. So I got on. I got on. I
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did get on, thankfully. I don't know how that happened,
16:16
to be fair. I did have a copy of my driver's license
16:18
and a copy of my passport, so. But
16:21
because it was domestic. Mm, I don't
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think it matters. Let's not name the airline, just in case it
16:25
was illegal. But they were very kind to us, and 12-0, and
16:28
they later on, yeah.
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That's it for the bonus episode this week. We shall see
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you Friday. Yes. Thanks
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for watching. See you next week. Bye. Bye.
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