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All right, shall we get on with the episode? Yeah

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boy. Yeah girl, here we go. We're

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having a wedding planner, aren't we? Yes,

1:34

absolutely. And that was a tricky process. Yeah,

1:37

that's been actually the most challenging process

1:40

so far. Well actually, that's the beginning

1:42

process. We

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would love to go with you guys. This

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is going to be so far. I'm so

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excited. And we would love... We are so

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excited. This is going to be

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amazing and it's going to be the best wedding ever. Well.

2:01

Basically. A guy

2:03

maddin spell and honeys until my

2:06

friends are and jamie and out

2:08

sit on his for catholics guess

2:10

that have any somehow guy feed

2:12

us as as i bother. Them.

2:15

That sees as little as he let me know.

2:18

Her. so she suffered. So either way, It's

2:21

a sudden through also I when i got one

2:23

of agree with be abs about this was a

2:25

from Seville every dose of i got. Loose again

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some legal been like what time of year you

2:30

get married in Seville? I'm going to be that

2:32

this time of year next year like whoa you

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know com ng. I

2:36

was a vaccine. A this at

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times daily was like i am might have

2:40

some to supposed to admit. We. Supposedly

2:43

visibility say why we're having

2:45

in Seville. Ah on

2:47

it sees as same as impediment to.

2:49

Dot has either nervous I'm seasons

2:51

of our once and I was

2:53

twenty one and knees know that

2:56

before how ago and has a

2:58

greater danger anglers his anger in

3:00

politics A sangria. stayed in the

3:02

hostel. Blaze. Kids given as

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cold as I get I understand what

3:06

so that is like they his as

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app that he says and how awful

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still horseshoe connection My dad listened say

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okay we're up. Always gave Spain and

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pulled muscle. All of us are. All

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of Eternity. all of your twenties as

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his. Own of my twenty seven.

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Years In a little you either twenty seven years gas

3:24

and says you a baby. Is as

3:26

they my granted lives out. Last year

3:28

I always had as gains get married

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in the Old Town and more Bass

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Sea and this cathedral spit on a

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Jamie's like that stings of insensitivity. Storyline

3:38

Explain. Lot navy com get

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married and maponya. Know I

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never said that as I all

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right maybe. He'll let civil far. I

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never said that. Once I never said

3:49

that one's actually would wish that was

3:51

not said. The I did snow skiing

3:53

as I use. until

3:56

we don't have any you can't send

3:58

the say to say because we don't

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have a week. Like one of the

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venues that you love, they're not free

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on X and Y. We

4:08

would have already have let you know that because

4:10

we'll continue the venue research. Anyway,

4:15

we then came to the decision. The

4:18

decision? The decision that we get

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married in

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Cape Town got pretty far down the line and

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then Jamie Lastman was like, do you know what,

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Seville seems really close to both of the hearts.

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I was like, definitely doesn't. It's yours.

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This is not how I remember this, Soph. Go

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on, tell your friends. This is not how I

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remember it this way. Okay. You and

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I first fell in love in South

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Africa. Right? Yeah.

4:42

No. You fell in love

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with me in South Africa. Okay.

4:46

All right. Okay. You wanted to kiss

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me in South Africa. Wrong again. Can

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I tell you a little bit of a story? Do you remember the time

4:53

I got drunk and dragged back in that thing? What happened? Oh

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my God. Fastly, fastly. Just to paint you a bit

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of... Can't drink a glass of water. Just to paint

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you a bit of background. So Jamie and

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I were just mates, like platonic mates, nada

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going on. I saw no attraction. A bit like

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you see now. I can see you looking at me,

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just honestly, just hating me. No,

5:12

I'm joking. Anyway,

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we get to this like villa. We're out there,

5:17

whatever. And Jamie decides like he has to sleep

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in my room. I was like, okay, if you

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want to, like this is pretty weird. He got

5:24

so wasted. He like headlocked me in the bed.

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I was like, what the fuck is going on?

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I just went with it because I was actually

5:30

quite scared. And then he passed out

5:32

with me

5:35

in the headlock guys. And then middle of the

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night, you know, when you're sleeping with a boy, you're a bit like,

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this is a bit weird. I woke up, but like I was wide

5:41

awake. So was he. And then I saw

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him gasping around for water. Because he was so

5:46

drunk. He was like, I'm going

5:48

to get a sample over. He took the

5:51

plants out and drank the plant water and

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then got back into the patch. I was

5:55

like, I didn't say a peep. Didn't even

5:57

tell him I didn't want the conversation. Because

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it was pretty weird he was even staying in my bed. I was

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like, fuck, just pretend you're asleep. See,

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that's what he fell in love. I was gasping for water. Gasping.

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He also ran over and opened the windows and

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I whizzed the window open because he was so

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hot and I got chewed to pieces by the

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heat. I guess when we woke

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up the next day and you had mosquito

6:18

bites all over your face. Open the window

6:20

and escape town. I was like, what are

6:22

you doing? Sometimes

6:25

until you're standing in that venue and looking all

6:27

the way around you and you're like, oh my

6:29

God, this is it. Yeah, yeah,

6:32

yeah. Like you feel when you go

6:34

and look around the house and it's like you can

6:36

sometimes walk in and out straight away. We always describe

6:38

it. It's very similar. So

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we fell in love in Cape Town and

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we thought it'd be a great idea to then get married

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in Cape Town on New Year's Eve. And

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then what happened was is we

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started the planet and typical me is

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I then circled back on the idea and I said, no,

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this is not a good idea. It's New Year's Eve. It's

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complicated. It's all these different things. And actually

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probably what is a good thing is if we don't

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go so far away, 11 hour flight in Cape Town

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and have to ask all our guests to get out

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there and for New Year's Eve, we

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do it closer to home in Seville where

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you grew up. I did not grow up in Seville.

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You did? You grew up in Seville. I

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haven't been there many times. See, I

7:20

can't even speak Spanish. You can speak Spanish. No,

7:22

I can't. You can. You tell this to

7:25

everyone just because I have a

7:27

good accent. You think I'm a linguist.

7:29

You think I'm bilingual. I am not.

7:31

And he goes to Spanish people.

7:33

She's fluent. And I'm like, no, no, I'm really

7:35

not. Sophie's first kiss when

7:38

she was in Spain from a guy called God who

7:40

was 40 and drove an Audi TT. Oh, God, you've

7:42

got it wrong again. His name was Gonzalo and he

7:44

was 13 and so was I. He was 14. He

7:47

drove an Audi TT. That was when I

7:49

was 17. Gell-O-Ryan. Motherfucker. So

7:54

basically, in principle, what we want

7:56

to do is I mean, we

7:59

want to just get on to the show. the venues and

8:01

also kind of behind that

8:04

to potentially start thinking about

8:07

say the dates for the styles and things

8:09

like that. Every

8:13

single wedding panel seems to say the same thing which I

8:15

think is in that saying which is probably true I have

8:17

no idea. They say we only do a few weddings a

8:19

year and so we got to

8:22

play close attention to... You don't think that's

8:24

true? I believed it. No, I

8:26

think it is true. I think it is

8:28

true. But I think... How would

8:30

a wedding panel... Do you think sometimes wedding panelists say, do

8:32

you know what? I don't want to do your wedding. And

8:35

they're like, really? You don't want to... Oh my

8:37

god, yeah that's true. That must happen, right? Wedding panelists

8:39

must reject. We couldn't be rejected. No. Do you think

8:41

they do? So

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we want to bring it back as to about

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our proposal and how that happened. I

8:52

got all the diamond sorted and huge silver and

8:54

gold balloons they put into the room. They're massive.

8:57

But when I got little tea like candles, I thought I

8:59

looked really smart. I wear a suit. You did look very

9:01

soft. I then light... You did a

9:03

facial before doing it. Don't forget that. I did a facial

9:05

before doing it. Anna, you got your hair done. I got

9:07

my hair done as well. Did you think that I would

9:09

have thought, oh his skin looks a bit rough so he

9:11

might say no. I got my hair done. All right fine.

9:14

I then light all the tea lights. I put all the balloons

9:16

in the room and I just sit there and wait. I phone

9:19

you and what happens? I get there for about

9:21

four hours. I was like, you won't wrap until about 5.30. So

9:24

I was like, I'll get there for 5.30.

9:26

Get in the car. It's standstill traffic. And

9:28

I've got wet hair and then trackies. My

9:30

nails aren't done. I look pretty atrocious. And

9:33

James said, how far are you? I was like, oh

9:35

it's standstill traffic. This is death. I won't get

9:37

there till 5.30. So I'm

9:39

sitting in the hotel room. It's boiling.

9:41

The tea lights are

9:44

blazing in this room. There's no air conch. I'm

9:46

like, oh my God. I go and touch one

9:48

of the tea lights because you're 45 minutes away.

9:50

And I've got you on finder friends. I'm tracking

9:52

you. And they're roasting hot and

9:54

they're burning the floor. So I go to blow

9:56

them. Because they've just melted. The whole candle's just

9:58

gone. It's just melting. I didn't realise

10:00

that happened with the tea light! Tea light just becomes wax. It

10:03

just becomes wax covered in like a metal foil that

10:05

starts to crinkle. So the whole ground

10:08

is hot. So I go to blow out the tea lights,

10:10

wax goes everywhere. The room's boiling. I go, God, go back

10:12

into the room, turn the air con on. All the blue's

10:14

going, brrrr. To the side.

10:16

So like, this is a complete disaster. I look

10:18

at my phone, you're arriving. I'm like, oh my

10:20

God. So I quickly light all the tea lights,

10:22

getting in the right, turn off the air con,

10:25

get the balloons back into the middle. And I'm

10:27

like, oh my God, I'm really freaking out at

10:29

this point. How

10:31

nervous? Shitting myself. Like actually. Shitting

10:33

myself. For what reason though? Because did you think I'd

10:35

say no? I knew you'd say

10:38

yes. Well why would you say no other,

10:40

son? Because this is for the rest of

10:42

my life. Yeah, it's really intense. It's really

10:44

intense. It is forever. Yeah,

10:46

it was a big moment. And I don't think

10:49

it still sinks in when you get proposed. No.

10:51

We keep saying like, oh, you owe me money for

10:53

that and I owe you money for that. We're together

10:56

forever. Our money's aren't each other's money. It's quite scary,

10:58

isn't it? Yeah, yeah. Oh, it's

11:00

terrifying. Did you just ask that? What

11:02

have we done? What on earth have we done?

11:04

It was such a surreal moment. I

11:06

can't actually put it into words. I just

11:09

burst into tears. I knocked over the candle.

11:12

Myself, wax went everywhere as well.

11:14

All over my bags, everything. I dumped my bags

11:16

and I was like, what's happening? And then I

11:18

got done on one knee. Yeah, but

11:20

you opened the ring the wrong way around. And also it

11:22

had a light in it. So when

11:24

he opened like the ring box, and obviously I

11:27

was thinking, show me the ring, show me the

11:29

ring. That's what you're going on. Show

11:31

me the ring, show me the

11:33

ring. And it like lit up and I honestly thought

11:35

the light was the diamond. I

11:37

was like, holy fuck. Spoiler,

11:40

it wasn't. It was just a little like torch

11:43

in there. Can I just ask, I wanna

11:45

know, everyone else who's been proposed to or gone

11:47

through this, do you have mind blank? Cause I

11:49

honestly, the whole thing's a blur. I can't picture

11:51

it. It's like I was drunk from it. I

11:53

don't remember you going down on one knee. I just

11:55

remember feeling very blurry. I

11:58

think it must mean severe anxiety. I don't remember. Huge

12:00

amounts of adrenaline maybe adrenaline Listen

12:02

whether or not you are gonna get proposed

12:05

or not gonna get proposed or gonna get

12:07

married or whatever that proposal moment you can't

12:10

Replicate it anywhere and that was what was so

12:12

euphoric Biggest

12:18

surprise of getting engaged

12:21

for me how stressful

12:23

wedding planning is oh My

12:26

god it is that it is To

12:29

anyone who listen if you if

12:31

you if you want to get engaged at

12:33

all your and you're humming and aring about

12:35

it Don't do it. No point. There is

12:37

no point to it. Well, there is if you

12:39

want a nice ring on your finger That's

12:43

the reason that you like it and what

12:45

I think from your side The

12:48

brilliant thing that you should be doing in

12:50

the background is getting your list, you know,

12:52

they have all the names Do you have

12:54

everyone's emails? Do you have their

12:56

addresses because I presume That

13:00

you may want to send out for your

13:02

invite pass copy. Yeah. Yeah, that's what we

13:04

would like to do something fun Yeah, do

13:06

something fun with it. I mean possibly

13:09

put you know sweets as I know something

13:11

to do It can't I'm gonna say can't

13:13

you make a shape of you and Sophie

13:15

like in your candy kissing? Yeah something like

13:17

that It's something like a little pop in

13:19

in in the invite I

13:22

think I think something like that. I just need to work out

13:24

what it is They say

13:27

yeah So biggest thing for me is people

13:29

don't realize how stressful all of

13:31

this process is right? It is incredibly stressful

13:34

Getting married organizing it that I didn't know

13:36

like you were saying this thing like you

13:38

have to think about lighting Jamie

13:41

honestly, oh, yeah, can I tell them more

13:43

the fit the two inputs you've had? Yeah And

13:47

everyone everyone listening to this I'm gonna write

13:49

it down and go that is a frickin

13:51

good idea Jamie got really excited have

13:53

a fabulous idea that he wanted

13:55

to have light

13:58

up electric neon No,

14:00

you've already got it wrong. Oh, sorry. He

14:02

wanted to have golf a golf ball on

14:05

everyone's feet. No table Sorry,

14:07

get it right on their table up their

14:10

seat plate And

14:17

he was gonna get everyone to T

14:20

off into the nighttime sky Like

14:23

12 o'clock midnight. Sorry

14:26

low fuzzy hazard You've

14:28

explained this so badly. We've described

14:30

as the last one. I wanted a golf

14:32

one everyone's place So when the speeches

14:34

are done we take out the glow in the dark golf

14:36

one everyone teared off into the night It was low in

14:38

the dark. Yeah, that was a great one. What was the

14:41

second one? I wanted? Oh the second

14:43

was dodgems. Sorry Sorry,

14:45

grandma grandma grandma. You can't go in

14:47

there. You sit on your own on

14:49

the dodgems. It's just awful It's

14:51

a fair fair I'm Doing

14:55

the entertainment side of things. Yeah,

14:58

so I mean we can go Big

15:00

or how small I feel how flush I am

15:06

Right, I might I might do a solo dance Just

15:12

gonna just small cha-cha that's what I do I Guys

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