This is the first episode of Mother-Daughter Chats which is the first series I will be starting on my podcast where I invite my mother, Kate Ruby Aroha, to have a chat about different topics.

We dived into this first episode talking about boundaries. Here's a sneak peak:

"It's so important that we are upfront with people from the beginning to see if we're a great match. And if, I think if we're not upfront with people from the beginning, in all respects, even like potential partners or friends or clients or employees, I just think with any human interactions and relating. I think we've got to be ourselves from the beginning and be where we're at, at the beginning rather than trying to shape shift and lower our standards and adapt or accommodate and over-manage other people's emotions.

Because then that just sets a precedence for how things are going to be ongoingly. And that has been my big learning lately. Like I is, you know, have just, you know, elevated so much lately and in that elevation, there's been just a new level of direct conversations with a lot of people around me. And some people Were okay with it, even though it was a bit jiggly or they jiggled through it. I totally get that sometimes when standards are raised it's going to be a jiggly period.

Great, that's fine.

But can people jiggle their way into it, into the new standard or are they gonna jiggle
their way out of the role? And, you know, a couple of people ended up leaving, but even that, like I just think when we establish new boundaries, that-- New standards we can kind of go hands off where other, what other people do with that, to be honest. Cause if they end up leaving or it just reveals that they're not a great fit, great, better to know now. Like let's reveal the stuff and then we can either move forward and part and go our separate ways and they can find something that's a great match for where they're at. And then we can bring someone who's a great match for the level, the new standards."

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