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Okay , so we're going to pick up where we left off
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last week on this
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list , which is
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10 tips to help
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you trust the process and , naturally
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, fall into your coaching niche 10
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tips to help you
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trust the process
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and naturally fall
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into your coaching niche .
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Yes , yeah , and
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we already covered numbers one through
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four last week .
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Yes , we did . And just maybe
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we could recap what those were
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. To recap , that was
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self-reflection , right
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? So reflecting on your own interests and
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what you love . Number two was
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gain experience , so really just
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get started . Number
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three was get curious , pay attention
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to the topics or issues that naturally
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pique your interest . And number four
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was listen to feedback
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, and not necessarily like feedback
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from coaches or other people in
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your life , but feedback from your community
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, the people that you want to be working with
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.
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Yes , correct , and
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we broke all of those down pretty nicely . Last
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week I had one or
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two people message me Is
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that episode ? That episode went live
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on Monday , the one that we recorded last week
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.
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Yeah , it's live .
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Yeah , and we had
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this morning Jen messaged me asking
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about niche and potentially
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one other person Anyways , so people
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are into this .
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I like it . Yeah Well
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, we had , I think , not a record number , but
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I always check in to see how the episode
1:41
is doing , and we had a big
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first day , which
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is always good to see in
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terms of downloads .
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So thanks for listening everybody .
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I'm glad you're enjoying this topic .
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Yeah , it's a cool topic .
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It's a fun topic . It's important too
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.
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I think a lot of people don't think niche is
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a fun topic because they're frustrated
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.
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Yeah .
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Well , that's where the self reflection comes in Right
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. They need to listen to this episode even more
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. Okay , let's just get back into the list , enough
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.
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Enough .
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Enough of that . Number
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five is continued
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learning . This
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is an important skill for coaches
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in general , for humans in general . You
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should strive to always
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be learning until
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you are dead at least , if not
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longer . And
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it says here attend workshops , seminars
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, conferences and engage
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in ongoing PED professional
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development , continuous
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learning , blah , blah , blah . If
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you're always in a context of learning
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, what's going to happen is you're
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going to activate your unconscious mind to
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move you in the direction of what your niche is
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. So as you go and learn additional modalities
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, you're surrounded by other people in
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your industry . You're part of the conversation
3:05
. You're only going to get more
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and more clarity on who you want to help
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and how you want to help them .
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Yeah , totally I'm with you on that . I
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don't know if there's really much more to say
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about that one . It's just like keep learning
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, keep growing , keep expanding
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. Yeah .
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Coaches are pretty good about this one . If anything , a lot
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of coaches err on the side of too much learning
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, and then it's procrastination
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by education , so don't fall
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into that trap .
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Yeah , don't fall into that . Take action but
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learn , and
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I think I don't remember . I know I
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was talking about this somewhere this week , but it's just
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like learn but then also
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take time to let it integrate .
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Yeah .
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So it's like you might go on a learning binge for like
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one quarter but then spend the next quarter
3:56
letting it integrate and
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taking what you want from all
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of the learning . Another thing I heard this
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morning actually , I was listening to something this morning and
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it was about you know the term breed
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between the lines .
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Yeah .
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Well , this person was talking about
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learning between the lines . So
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when you're in a coaching group
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or you're learning
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something and you're in a learning environment , learn
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between the lines , which means like
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Observe how
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they're teaching , observe how they
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are , like putting themselves out there
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. You know what I mean . Does that make sense
4:33
what I'm saying ? So
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it's like you don't necessarily have to take what they're
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teaching , but you're like
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sponging how they're teaching , how
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they're interacting with their community
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, like all that stuff . So I thought that was kind
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of a cool thing to think about . Learn
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between the lines .
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Learn between the lines . Yeah , great
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point . I liked that one too Cool
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. All right Number next .
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Next one , number six , it's experiment
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and evolve .
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Oh , my goodness , that almost
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sounds like . Take action and
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measure the results , experiment
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and evolve . Please go ahead . I interrupted
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you , ruthie .
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No , it's fine . Be
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open to trying different coaching approaches
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and techniques . Yeah
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, allow yourself the freedom to experiment . You'll
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gain clarity about what resonates with
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you the most . Yeah , I like that . You
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don't want to necessarily pigeonhole yourself
5:33
into doing it this specific way
5:35
or having a blueprint or having
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a specific way of doing things , because
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chances are you're
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going to want to make changes and iterate
5:45
and some things are going to work and other things aren't
5:48
, and then you're going to want to add something , you're going to learn
5:50
something . So be open
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. Isn't that like
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being flexible , or what's it called Behavioral
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flexibility ?
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Behavioral flexibility yeah , very
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important .
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Yeah
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, because , yeah , if you get stuck in your way
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, then it's
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not fun for you and it's not fun
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for the people working with you either
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.
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Yeah .
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And one way do you know how you can check that on
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your hand , on your palm ? Oh
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yeah
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, so your thumb , the
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flexibility of your thumb is the flexibility
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of your mind . So if
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you have a supple jointed thumb , which
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means like that the
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knuckle part of your thumb is
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like super flexible , like , see , mine
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is like super flexible , that
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means like flexibility of my mind . That means
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I'm really open to like other people's
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perspectives and stuff like that , other
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people's opinions open to like pivoting . If
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you have a stiff jointed thumb , then
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that means you're kind of like stuck in your ways , probably
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pretty stubborn . So that's
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like a little sidebar .
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Yeah , Mine
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is pretty stiff looking . I think let's see
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Like a straight line .
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No , you still got flexibility there .
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Yeah .
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When you press on it like this with your index
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finger , how yeah
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, you've got flex . I
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mean , you're not as flexible
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in your mind as I am , potentially
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.
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Yeah , well , that's because you're like tall grass
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on the wind to landmarks , yeah
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. To use the metaphor I'm
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like the scarecrow .
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Well , you're good because you're just like
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containment
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, right , Like
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no , no , no , we've got to get back to the list and
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I'm like off frolicking
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in the fields .
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Yeah .
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So it's good . It's like a good teamwork
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.
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There you go Cool .
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If we both had like extremely flexible thumbs
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, this podcast would sometimes be three
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hours .
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That's true . Everybody send Alana Banks
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pictures of your thumbs .
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Yes .
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I know she would be delighted to get them too .
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I would be Absolutely delighted . Please
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send them to me .
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If you really want to get her out of the way , send her pictures
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of your palms . She'll be busy for weeks , okay
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, Number
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next number seven Trust
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the process . There's
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little advice that people like receiving
8:30
less than trust the process . But
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it's true , folks , you got to trust
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the process . Trust that
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the right coaching niche will
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reveal itself over time . One of the things
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that I tell my students is you
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really need to be patient , but you also really
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need to be not patient .
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Yes , yeah , I like it
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.
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You got to make things happen , okay
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, but you also like you also got
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to like chill and let things
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happen at the right pace .
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Yeah , I think what I take from this is
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yes , I agree , you have to like make things
9:06
happen , you have to take action , but
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when you get into the like forcing
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, controlling energy , then
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that's where you're like , okay , I
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need to take a chill pill here , you know
9:17
, and like step back for a second and just
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like trust that it's going to evolve the
9:21
way I want to , because often it's not going to
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evolve the way you're expecting it to .
9:26
Yeah .
9:28
And sometimes things take time , right
9:30
, If people aren't getting back to
9:32
you fast enough or you know the thing isn't happening
9:35
like there's other things going on
9:37
and this is all part of the all
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part of the plan .
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Yeah , for sure , for
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sure . Okay , trust
9:46
the process . I mean that one's very
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important , but also it's pretty straightforward .
9:52
Yeah , yeah .
9:54
I mean yes .
9:55
I know it's kind of annoying to hear that , but
9:57
yeah . You
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know , I even have I have actually two
10:01
turtle stickers on
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my desk that I put there
10:06
because I have this problem
10:08
where I want to rush
10:10
things , I want like things to happen now
10:12
, like immediately , and
10:15
I have these little turtles to remind myself
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to chill , it's going to be okay
10:19
.
10:20
Yeah .
10:21
Don't need to rush it .
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Absolutely .
10:23
Yeah , and the other thing
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actually the same thing I was listening to this morning . It
10:28
was also bless you talking
10:31
about Thank
10:33
you . She
10:36
was also talking about how people
10:38
like coaches we'll use
10:40
that as an example they
10:42
decide okay , I want to be a coach , I want to do this
10:44
thing , and then they
10:47
think that they can just put themselves out there
10:49
on social
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media and get results
10:53
immediately . And that
10:55
really is coming from an energy of
10:57
entitlement where you just
10:59
think like , oh well
11:02
, I'm going to put myself out there , so the people
11:04
should just come . But it takes time
11:06
to build a community , build
11:08
that no-liking trust factor , build
11:11
up your expertise , all
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that stuff . You can't just expect
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that you're
11:18
going to rock up to social media and all
11:22
of a sudden you're going to be making like $10,000 months
11:24
, right , yeah , it takes time
11:26
Don't be entitled .
11:29
Yeah , but also , on the other hand , make
11:32
things happen .
11:33
Yeah , take action .
11:34
Yeah , that's what I mean when I say you
11:36
got to be patient , but you also got to be not patient . Yeah
11:40
, you got to find the balance .
11:42
Exactly . Well , yeah , make stuff happen , do
11:45
stuff , put stuff out there , create right
11:47
.
11:48
Yeah .
11:49
It's part of the process .
11:51
Yeah
11:53
, cool , all right , okay , let's
11:56
go on to the next one .
11:58
Oh , this is a good one , yes
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.
12:01
This is an awesome
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one . What's
12:06
the next one ?
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Oh , I thought you were going to say it . The
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next one , number eight , is
12:12
find a supportive community .
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That was supposed to be a joke , by the way , because I was like
12:16
this is going to be an awesome one and then I was like when is the next
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one ? As if I didn't know . Now
12:21
, do you get it ? Yeah , I missed that
12:24
. Yeah , yeah
12:27
. Find a supportive community . Join the simple
12:29
social sanctuary or
12:33
the Ascension Circle .
12:35
Yes .
12:37
Two totally different types of communities , both
12:39
highly supportive . Actually
12:43
, there are a few people that are in both
12:45
.
12:45
Yeah , they are .
12:46
Everybody who's listening should join both . You should join Lana
12:48
Banks and Banks's Ascension
12:50
Circle and you should join Ryan
12:53
Montes's Simple Social Sanctuary . Yeah
12:55
, all your dreams
12:57
will come true , guaranteed .
12:59
Yeah , two business besties
13:01
right here for you and
13:03
the podcast Right
13:05
. Find yourself some business
13:08
besties , do
13:10
you like that ?
13:13
I do not like that expression business besties
13:15
. I knew you would . I
13:17
would never say that , but
13:23
I don't mind if you do . I don't mind if other people
13:25
want to use that ridiculous
13:27
term .
13:29
Yeah , it is kind of a silly term .
13:31
No , no , it's not that bad Business , besties .
13:34
That's what came up to mind . For me was just like find yourself
13:36
some business besties , yeah , or
13:39
a podcast pal .
13:41
Yeah , does it have to be
13:44
in alliteration ?
13:47
No , it doesn't . Find yourself a supportive community
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Okay .
13:51
Find yourself a supportive stew
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or two .
13:55
Just connect with other coaches right .
13:57
Yeah .
13:58
Connect with other people who are doing what you're doing
14:00
. Connect with like-minded people who
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are also doing what you're doing , because
14:04
then you encourage each other
14:07
, you can bounce ideas around
14:09
, you can ask questions , you can find
14:11
out what they're up to , you can celebrate
14:14
each other's wins
14:17
, weather the storm together , and
14:19
it makes it so much more fun .
14:22
Yeah .
14:24
Because at the end of the day and we've totally
14:26
talked about this on the podcast , but no one is
14:29
your competition .
14:32
Yeah , exactly , and
14:34
it only benefits you to be surrounded by like-minded
14:36
individuals . It really does .
14:39
Yeah .
14:39
I watched this video today on the internet . Imagine that
14:42
Fancy that .
14:44
Did you really ? Was it on YouTube ?
14:46
It was on YouTube . So one of my members
14:49
, actually from the Simple Social Social Sanctuary
14:51
, the same fellow that sent me
14:54
a lovely gift a book
14:56
.
14:57
Oh yeah , I saw that . The Alex Hormozzi
14:59
book yeah , he sent me a hard copy . That's so cool . Have
15:01
you read it ?
15:03
So after he sent me the hard copy version
15:06
, I got the audiobook version . I'm kind of going through
15:08
both , and so I've gone through maybe
15:10
a quarter of it so far . It's very good .
15:12
Cool .
15:14
So same fellow that sent me that book sent me
15:16
a link to a video today from
15:18
this like coach guru
15:20
dude who had never heard of , but
15:22
it was like how to be a
15:25
rich coach or something , something
15:27
like that . I watched it and he gave
15:29
all these tips and he had written this guy
15:31
in the video , he had written a book about coaching
15:33
. He gave all
15:35
these tips and his last tip was like and this is the most
15:37
important one be in a community
15:40
of other coaches who are also success
15:42
or oriented paraphrase , but
15:45
that's what he said . He said this is like
15:47
by far the most important tip I didn't give you is to surround
15:49
yourself with other people who are
15:51
doing the same thing . Yeah , if
15:54
it comes to finding your niche . Yeah , I mean
15:56
, finding your niche is one step on the path to
15:59
success , and the path to success
16:01
is catalyzed by your
16:03
peers 100%
16:06
, because then they're going to also see
16:08
in you what you don't see
16:11
, what you may not see in yourself
16:13
.
16:13
To help
16:17
you develop your niche
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or , like , fall into more of a niche .
16:22
Yeah , exactly
16:25
. So , there you go yeah
16:27
. Yeah , yeah , we have two of them . We
16:30
have two of them available for you listeners . Yeah
16:34
, okay , so that was
16:36
number eight . Oh my God for a minute .
16:38
I just had this moment where I was like , do we not have a number
16:41
10 ? But we do , we
16:43
do . It's just this .
16:45
The formatting is weird . Yeah
16:48
, number nine , this is a good one . This
16:51
is a really good one , I think . I think
16:53
when you embodied
16:55
this one in
16:57
my opinion and observation
16:59
, things started to really shift for
17:01
an app I did For you . Yes , I'm
17:04
using .
17:04
Oh yes .
17:05
Yeah . So number nine is embrace your
17:07
uniqueness . Remember
17:10
that your unique combination of skills , experiences
17:12
and perspectives is what sets you
17:14
apart as a coach . Embrace your
17:16
individuality , et cetera , et cetera . It
17:18
goes on like that . You get the idea , do you not
17:21
agree , that when you , you
17:23
know I remember you talking about like this
17:27
and like , well , I've got these different modalities
17:30
and I'm going to , you know , lean into this and that , and
17:32
then , like all of a sudden , you were like reading poems
17:35
and then , like business exploded
17:37
.
17:37
Yeah , it's true , yeah , and
17:40
that's where I'm at these days
17:42
, where I'm feeling like I'm embodied
17:45
in what is truly
17:47
me , because and
17:50
the palm reading allowed me to do that Like
17:52
it allowed me to kind of come out of the closet , so
17:54
to speak you know when , with
17:56
my coaching .
17:58
Yeah , yeah . You came wandering
18:00
out of the closet big fog
18:02
, misty fog around you , holding a
18:04
severed hand and pointing at the palm
18:07
and being like look at this Ryan
18:10
.
18:11
Yeah , it's true , and now true , that
18:13
is what happens ?
18:15
Yeah , it's exactly what happens .
18:19
But I feel like now it's allowed
18:21
me to recognize , like how
18:23
I want to help people , which is
18:25
to find their uniqueness
18:27
right Through
18:30
like divination
18:32
tools specifically . So like , if you're like
18:34
a mystical kind of person and you're
18:37
multi-dimensional , like you
18:39
kind of have like a thing for everything
18:41
, then use
18:43
that for your coaching . I've
18:46
actually created a free group on
18:48
not on Instagram , on Facebook called
18:51
the Intuition . What's
18:55
it called ? Let ?
18:56
me look it up . Intuitive Session Circle . Yeah
19:00
, I know these names are hard . They
19:03
really are .
19:04
Yeah , the Intuitive Session Circle is
19:07
where I'm going to help you enhance
19:09
your client experience
19:11
, enhance your sessions with
19:13
people using divination tools or
19:16
using what really is unique to you .
19:19
It is free . It's a free group .
19:21
It's totally free .
19:23
Yeah , and that folks get off your keysters and
19:25
get into Alanna's free group . The Intuition
19:28
, something , something .
19:31
Intuitive Session Circle ISC .
19:34
Oh , that sounds so serious . Yeah
19:36
.
19:38
Yeah , anyway . So yeah , back to that , and
19:40
same kind of thing with you , ryan . Right Like
19:42
you embraced your uniqueness
19:44
in your way of doing social
19:46
media .
19:48
Exactly .
19:49
Right and like that's how you're setting yourself
19:51
apart , where you're taking like
19:53
your NLP training skills , like
19:55
hypnosis and
19:58
combining that with
20:00
social media , and like
20:02
how you like your own approach to it
20:04
, which is super cool . I love it .
20:06
Yeah Cool , all
20:09
right , yeah , so embrace your uniqueness
20:11
. Everybody , don't be shy , get
20:14
out there .
20:14
Yeah , do it .
20:15
Let your , let your freak flag fly
20:18
, as the
20:20
expression goes . I didn't make that up . You look
20:22
impressed , but I did not make that up .
20:23
No , I know , I , it was another little alliteration
20:26
though .
20:27
Oh , it wasn't , alliteration .
20:29
It was , it is , it is , still
20:31
is Right now it's
20:34
happening .
20:36
All right , number last , which is number
20:38
10 .
20:40
I'm just going to go on to number 10 for
20:42
one second .
20:43
Yeah , I'm not going to read it , we're going to do something
20:45
else .
20:46
Yeah , I forgot
20:48
that last week and
20:50
I'm just hoping that I think we have done
20:52
this . But I just want to make sure we
20:55
said that we wanted to kind
20:57
of like pepper in our story
20:59
about like how we fell
21:01
into our niche . Do you think we've done
21:03
enough of that , because we did say we were going
21:06
to do that .
21:07
Oh , I have no idea . I don't . I don't remember
21:09
what we said last week .
21:11
Yeah , I do , because I edit . I
21:14
edit the episodes .
21:15
Yes , yeah , I
21:17
am , but in there , I am but
21:19
a , you know , meek co-host
21:22
in this endeavor . Lana Banks
21:24
is the editor , the producer , the
21:26
muscle , you know .
21:29
Yeah , so I'm the CEO , I'm the CEO
21:31
of the , I manage the social media
21:34
.
21:34
Everything . Social media manager . Yeah
21:37
, I just yeah
21:39
, I'm just up to the zoom call
21:41
. I'm just a mindless talent , just
21:44
a voice , a
21:46
tinny voice , as a
21:48
one of our listeners .
21:50
What ? Who said that ?
21:53
I was talking to another , another hypnotherapist
21:55
on Facebook . We
21:57
were talking about podcasts and she was like , oh , what's your
21:59
podcast ? And I , like gave her the link and she went and listened
22:02
to like a minute or two of it and
22:04
she was like you record your podcast in like
22:06
an office with a lot of hard surfaces
22:08
, don't you ? And she's
22:10
correct , I'm surrounded 100% by
22:12
hard surfaces . And she's like you know , you're echoey
22:15
. She wasn't like pooping
22:17
on us , she was giving , you know , constructive
22:21
, correct feedback .
22:22
Yeah Well we've already had
22:24
this conversation before .
22:26
Like , yeah , I need to lay . I need to like
22:28
buy some used Oriental rugs and
22:30
just like hammer them to the wall
22:32
all around me .
22:34
Or just get a different mic .
22:36
It's not the microphone , it's the room .
22:38
You think ?
22:39
Yeah , because I have these tall ceilings
22:42
and their wood , exposed
22:44
wood , and yeah
22:47
, it's like it's an echoey room . Ok
22:50
, all right , I could get those like
22:52
sound deadening foam
22:54
panels for the walls .
22:56
Oh yeah , you could do that .
22:58
Or I could do nothing .
22:59
Anyways , anyway
23:01
, I think we've kind of shared enough of our story
23:04
, right Like throughout these points , for
23:07
people to understand , like how
23:09
we yeah , it's been , it's been .
23:13
Peppered , and we'll just leave it up to the audience . You want to
23:15
know more about our stories ? Send us your questions
23:17
.
23:18
Oh yeah , good idea .
23:19
Your questions and we will answer them .
23:21
Yeah , send them to Ryan , though , so he can do some
23:23
work .
23:24
Yeah , send them to me so I can forward them to Atlanta
23:26
Banks . What content
23:28
planner for the no Excuses coaching
23:30
bucket ?
23:32
OK , all right , number 10 , we let them wait long
23:34
enough .
23:36
Number last yeah
23:38
, stay open and adaptable as
23:41
you progress . Remain open to
23:43
refining and expanding your niche . Your
23:46
coaching niche may , I would say will
23:48
, evolve over time as you
23:50
gain more experience and insights . Be
23:52
flexible . This really is
23:55
the like , the definition of just allow your niche
23:57
to develop , and part
23:59
of this is like remembering that you
24:01
know you're not married to your niche . If you choose your
24:03
niche , you start working in it , you start serving people
24:05
, it can , will and
24:07
is going to develop organically
24:11
, and that's fine 100
24:13
percent . Yeah .
24:15
I think you know , you
24:18
have to remember that you're a multi dimensional
24:20
being too .
24:23
Yeah .
24:25
And like there's a lot more that goes into your coaching
24:27
than just like your niche right
24:29
. It's like your life experience , your
24:32
training , your personality
24:35
, your interests , all that stuff
24:37
.
24:39
Yeah .
24:40
So it's going to evolve and change
24:42
, as you do , because we all do . Hopefully
24:45
, as a coach , you're growing and changing , because
24:47
if you're not , then maybe you shouldn't be coaching
24:49
. I don't know .
24:50
Yeah , yeah , cool
24:53
. Are there any things to
24:55
add that work in terms of finding your niche or
24:58
refining your niche ? That we're not on the list ?
25:01
I don't think so . I
25:03
mean , I'm sure there are many . Yeah
25:06
Right , I'm
25:09
sure there are many things . Someone
25:12
is in their car right now being like you missed
25:14
the football
25:16
point .
25:17
Whatever we missed , blah , blah , blah point . I
25:20
think the message will add it
25:22
.
25:22
But I think overall , the
25:25
message here is just
25:28
let it happen , let it evolve
25:31
. And when we say trust
25:33
the process , it's also like enjoy the journey
25:35
. You
25:37
know it's not a race to get to
25:39
your niche or your purpose
25:41
. It's like every evolving it's
25:44
going to change . It's going you know
25:46
. So , like , what are you really into right now
25:48
? Do that ?
25:50
Yeah , yeah , agreed
25:52
, agreed .
25:53
If you try to force something like we said , it's just not
25:55
going to resonate . People aren't going to
25:57
feel it . Just like you said , once you found palm
26:00
reading , you know for
26:02
me specifically like that's where
26:05
I felt like I was
26:07
home almost , or something Like I
26:09
was just like this is it ? And that's what I've
26:11
been telling a lot of people is like this is the missing
26:13
link to my coaching . So it's not
26:15
to say that I'm now only going to be a palm
26:17
reader . Not at all . I'm using
26:19
palm reading as a gateway
26:21
into my coaching
26:25
.
26:26
Yeah .
26:27
And it's , it is really working . You
26:29
know , like a lot of people , that
26:31
I am like , I do
26:34
palm reading with . They're like oh , what else do you
26:36
have to offer ? You know , how else can I work with
26:38
you ? Yeah
26:40
, that's , true , and so you
26:44
know , and now I've created this whole free group about
26:46
how to use your gifts , your magical
26:48
gifts , to deepen rapport
26:51
and build community and no like and trust
26:53
factor . Yeah , so it's every
26:55
evolving . If someone had told me I was
26:57
doing this last year at this time , I would have been like
26:59
what ? Yeah , that's
27:01
crazy , Because
27:03
last year at this time I was focused on something
27:06
completely different .
27:08
Yeah , yeah .
27:08
Okay , and same thing with you .
27:11
Yeah , last year at this time I'd
27:14
just gotten back from being away . Yeah , I
27:18
don't even remember what exactly
27:20
my offers were at that time . I was kind of like winding down
27:23
the NLP and
27:25
no training and winding up the social media .
27:28
Well , I think you were in . You were on step one . You
27:31
were like reflecting . You were in the self
27:33
reflection phase . You were like what am I going to do now
27:35
?
27:35
That's true , that's true .
27:38
And look who . It's happened in one year . It's
27:40
amazing .
27:42
Yeah , all right .
27:44
All right .
27:45
I guess that's it .
27:45
Let's wrap it up . Wrap it up , folks
27:48
, join the simple social sanctuary .
27:52
You can find info at RyanMontuscom
27:54
, but just message me on
27:56
Instagram at RyanMontusNLP and
27:59
we'll chat .
28:00
Yeah , and join the Ascension Circle
28:02
. That's my group and
28:04
you can find me on Instagram at AlanaBatesCoaching
28:07
.
28:08
Cool , there we go .
28:10
That's it , thanks everyone .
28:12
Bye .
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