We dull our experiences and reduce our adventures in life by trying to fit everything into neat little categories.  What does it mean to be judgmental?  What is the difference between making judgments and being judgmental?  Critical Thinking vs. Thinking CriticallyReflective and Open-minded vs. Sound Bits and ClichesInsecure Arrogance vs. Confident Humility Grandiosity, Shame and NarcissimResponding with Judgments vs. Reacting with Judgmentalism Guilt vs. Shame How do we alleviate insecurity?Authoritative Judgments vs. Authoritarian Judgmentalism Acceptance is the birthplace of compassion and gratitude.