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Oh, Donna How are you?
0:05
Oh today Alaska, ain't it? Oh my god.
0:10
No, I didn't give me your paperwork.
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I'm just playing. Okay. Today your last day. Give
0:21
me a badge.
0:26
Thank you. All right. J now baby J is for
0:28
present dance. You ain't the
0:34
president no mo we got your
0:34
escalate outside.
0:38
Let me get your checks. Your
0:38
last check this everything we
0:42
owe you hurry up and gashing Now
0:42
before you go to prison, I mean
0:47
a Pensacola. Hold on Lee that jacket. That's
0:52
a presidential jacket. You're
0:56
not the president normally that jacket. Alright, millennia, or
1:00
millennia? millennia? Got it. No
1:05
matter what today your last day.
1:05
Y'all probably look sad.
1:10
Oh, yeah. You always look like
1:10
that. You right? Okay. Anyway,
1:13
girl. This is where your badge
1:13
your badge?
1:17
DANA Vega you want? Because you
1:17
wouldn't ever here.
1:21
Girl Give me your paperwork.
1:21
Give me your paperwork.
1:25
Yeah, get get your paperwork.
1:25
Yeah. Girl this ad. This is
1:31
Michelle Obama's paperwork. This
1:31
is not your paperwork. Where's
1:34
your paperwork? Yeah, where's
1:34
that?
1:39
Welcome. She's Not Doing
1:39
So Well. Comedy podcast
1:47
featuring Bobby. I don't want to
1:47
be viral. I want to be
1:50
inspirational and life changing?
1:50
Because Listen, I'm at GE gym at
1:55
the top.
1:56
What can I say? Finally
1:56
he's just like, you can unfollow
1:59
me if you don't like my body.
2:01
Oh my god. Tell me all
2:01
about it. You're right, but you
2:06
like it. Mushroom shape.
2:16
Well, hello, everybody.
2:17
Welcome to another episode of She's Not Doing So. Well. I'm Bobby.
2:20
I'm Jim.
2:21
I'm the man's
2:22
and we are here again on
2:22
another Wednesday for you. Hi.
2:29
Are we really there for them
2:29
every Wednesday? I mean, yeah,
2:31
God feels like a Wednesday. It
2:31
feels like Inauguration Day.
2:36
Happy Inauguration Day. No
2:36
one's allowed on the National
2:42
Mall. I can't wait to see who
2:42
sets up a bomb and a capital. I
2:47
mean, we all know
2:48
thing a good thing Jennifer Lopez will be lip synching of the inauguration.
2:50
Wow. Wow. I mean, I can't
2:55
remember when she climbed
2:55
like a pole. What was the other
2:59
stripper movie Dr. Dow. Now and
2:59
the football game, the game
3:06
and the Super Bowl. Super
3:06
Bowl Super Bowl. The football
3:09
game. God you're so gay.
3:12
God
3:15
like Bali game.
3:16
It's like you have a ball.
3:18
Man with the big muscles in
3:18
the tight jocks come out,
3:21
you know when the shower
3:25
didn't form
3:26
back performance. And she
3:26
climbed a pole and my mom was
3:29
like, I can't believe they play
3:29
this on the national TV. It's
3:35
like wow, some
3:36
cry hate the hip hop in
3:36
the rap.
3:41
My Christian values.
3:41
Oh, honey,
3:44
I went off today on my
3:44
own on a Word doc. And I
3:47
read it out loud actually
3:47
was good. Yeah. Well, well, it's
3:51
a lot.
3:52
It's a lot to do a live reading.
3:54
No, I don't really read
3:54
what. I don't really read write.
4:01
Read Well, I don't write.
4:08
READ WRITE READ WRITE.
4:09
READ WRITE. Wow. One
4:09
verb.
4:13
Guy, honey. Oh, honey.
4:17
I am in trouble this
4:17
week. Jim was in trouble last
4:19
week. I was but I love it.
4:23
I remember last week.
4:25
Well, everybody else
4:25
does. Thank you. I'm
4:27
getting fired. Oh no.
4:30
No, it's okay. We can
4:30
all be messy slots because
4:32
apparently that's what we are.
4:34
Yeah, apparently we are
4:34
because we've gotten some
4:36
feedback Jim.
4:38
I've heard that's a
4:38
verbally transmitted feedback.
4:41
Oh.
4:44
Oh, this is coming for a
4:44
throat
4:47
I knew what this faces Yeah, this
4:49
is the attitude right.
4:51
Like the B attitude girl
4:51
got a full glass of Pino and
4:56
she's not we're like
4:58
what's wrong Ms. Nothing
4:58
Nothing. Okay, and then all of a
5:02
sudden, we start drawing a
5:02
little Wow.
5:04
And this week on miserable
5:04
with me as we have them is
5:07
here's the thing.
5:08
I want we going there. Yeah,
5:09
we're going there.
5:10
Like we have to just I
5:10
feel like I want to fight on our
5:12
show. I really do
5:14
a family feud. I'm
5:15
afraid of the fight though, cuz I feel like it might get really ugly.
5:18
I mean, it can't really
5:18
get much uglier than what I've
5:20
seen.
5:25
Oh my god.
5:28
Yeah, honestly, though,
5:28
I've been thinking a lot about
5:31
like people saying canceled, and
5:31
the fact that people need to
5:35
like, censor what they say
5:35
because they're afraid of being
5:39
canceled. And I'm like, that's
5:39
like me saying I'm afraid of
5:42
getting my period without a
5:42
vagina. Like unless you're
5:44
influential or relevant at all.
5:44
You can't be fucking canceled.
5:48
Eggs. Oh, my.
5:50
I don't know what button
5:50
to press it. Yeah, like that's a
5:54
button pushed. I didn't know which one.
5:57
You're right.
5:58
So for that reason, I'm not afraid of being canceled cuz I'm nobody. No one's gonna
6:00
cancel me. You can't be canceled
6:04
on
6:04
me. You have to be
6:04
relevant. We can't have
6:07
a platform be relevant.
6:07
None of which I have I can have
6:10
which a lot of people have so
6:10
they should stop fucking saying
6:13
I like can't do that because I
6:13
am living up to some standard
6:16
and no one else holds me to you
6:16
delusional fuck. Okay. You know,
6:21
I
6:22
just I felt the tension.
6:22
We came in the race. I
6:24
was well, I knew something
6:24
was up. I was like, he's not
6:28
feeling his oats today.
6:28
Something's wrong. Well,
6:30
we all we did delay
6:32
before dealing my Oh,
6:34
tell us talk to us.
6:38
I feel like I just got
6:38
off my chest. Okay, well, that's
6:40
not it, though.
6:41
Because there's something
6:41
else. But I'll tell you what it
6:45
is. What is it, Jim? It's
6:45
something about you. And your
6:51
attitude. Be attitudes.
6:53
And what would that something be
6:55
towards suicide? Oh, yep.
6:55
She went there. Wow. Jim
7:01
is like Yeah. What
7:03
are you alleging?
7:05
Well,
7:05
we're alleging you're a
7:05
little Cavalier.
7:08
You're does the best way
7:08
I've ever heard my life.
7:11
Okay. Yeah.
7:13
The Cleveland Cavaliers.
7:14
Okay, so without, explain
7:14
to the people why, why are you
7:19
Cavalier? Like, why are you so
7:19
aloof about suicide? Is it a
7:26
coping mechanism?
7:27
I don't really find it
7:27
that subject like i think that i
7:34
don't really understand why
7:34
people view it as such a oh my
7:37
god off limits topic. Like it's
7:37
actually a selfish reasons that
7:41
happens, like, and I mean, I
7:41
know I've had friends that have
7:46
done it. So for me like being
7:46
able to laugh about it, because
7:50
I know that's what they would
7:50
have done then I don't really
7:53
feel that remorseful about
7:53
joking about it.
7:56
I like that because
7:56
honestly, that's one of our
7:58
like, mantras of the show is
7:58
let's make uncomfortable
8:02
situations comfortable by
8:02
laughing about it. Right? Or
8:05
like talking shit about it, like
8:05
making fun of something that is
8:08
really like wait, for example,
8:08
or you know, so I can't really
8:12
talk about my looks I'm too hot
8:12
for that. But
8:15
like if you're ugly like
8:15
me, and you just feel if you
8:19
have to hide your face, like
8:20
you can talk about
8:20
suicide is everyone thinks that
8:24
like they're the only people who
8:24
are sensitive to it. And they're
8:28
like, Oh my god, well, I've
8:28
almost done it and then it's
8:30
like, okay, yeah, so have
8:30
literally so many fucking people
8:35
and you don't know that you
8:35
don't know that so you know?
8:38
Yeah, I don't really understand
8:38
where people like get off
8:42
formulating an opinion about my
8:42
discussion about the topic.
8:46
But no, I mean, but you're
8:46
gonna get it anyways because
8:49
when you bring it up the police
8:49
the PC police are coming for
8:54
you.
8:55
Come for me. The funny
8:55
thing about it is actually may
8:58
kill yours. There's no no I
8:58
really hope you don't I really
9:02
don't
9:02
know that you yet.
9:04
Not tonight.
9:06
Well, I don't think you ever should. I think you have a lot to offer it and I feel like
9:07
I've I think I believe in you
9:10
more than you believe in yourself.
9:13
Yes, yes. Lots. Lots
9:13
offer.
9:16
Oh, me. I think you have a
9:16
lot to offer you up here. Looks
9:24
really good. shoulders. Go
9:25
on. Go on.
9:26
Did you get broken up with
9:26
today? like something's off?
9:29
Never been in the relationship.
9:31
You may have been. I think you need one.
9:32
I think you need a new one.
9:32
I could come to New York for
9:36
you.
9:37
And do why
9:38
and only eight and a half
9:38
hours. Um, I like plants.
9:42
He's your wife.
9:44
Okay, that's it. You'll
9:44
sit here and come miseries
9:46
every and build. Why do you think he's gonna drop everything for you?
9:49
First of all, a be huka
9:49
like, why do you think I
9:54
wouldn't sit there and commiserate with you?
9:56
Alright, creaky?
9:59
See, I've seen that mouth
9:59
on film like yes, I want to
10:03
crickey you can come
10:03
Okay, Chris. Chris Rock sucked.
10:07
We don't crickey you Jimmy.
10:10
Honey, it's completely
10:10
Crikey it's not gonna cookie
10:13
you average cricket.
10:15
Oh, this little cricket.
10:15
That little con. Oh,
10:18
my cricket Jiminy Cricket.
10:21
Do you want to visit I just
10:21
want to like be in your bed?
10:23
No like you already have
10:23
more fans than us true. We've
10:26
been doing this for I don't
10:26
think that's no seriously people
10:30
writing go I Love New fans in
10:30
Peru like you are new or
10:34
trending in Peru.
10:35
Right. Right, right, right. Right.
10:37
All right. Well, I got something.
10:39
What do you got to say?
10:41
I've been writing down
10:41
some things. So you know,
10:43
there's policy
10:46
You know, there's policy.
10:50
Rudolph the Red Nosed marine.
10:54
Policy and
10:58
penises. What are nipples?
11:00
It's pussy Busey. And
11:00
what's the other one? Cause a
11:04
new one. There's a new see.
11:07
A way
11:08
to see clothes. What is
11:08
it? a threat See? Like this?
11:14
Fuck my throat see my throat
11:14
pissy.
11:18
So I learned her. So hit.
11:20
I'm like with the Gen Z.
11:20
Or Gen Z.
11:23
I'm the Gen Z reporter lingo.
11:25
Miss Gen Z.
11:27
He's borderline are you?
11:27
Well, yes.
11:31
borderline to know you're
11:31
still you're a millennial
11:33
borderline, but you're on the
11:33
you're on the cusp of BPD BPD. I
11:39
know about bt. BTP a tape I
11:39
guess I
11:43
should say 1997 and
11:43
2012? Yeah, no, no.
11:46
So you're not you're
11:46
wanting to well,
11:49
Ohio.
11:50
2012. Flash 2015 2012
11:50
when I came out as a sophomore
11:56
in college,
11:57
did you go to college
11:57
with a OC? Or college with AMC?
12:01
Yeah. I saw that. She went to
12:01
your college. Like the same age?
12:06
Yeah. No, but I'm just saying
12:06
you kind of like cross paths.
12:10
Yeah. probably saw on campus and like, who's this
12:12
guy who's this? Like,
12:12
she's at the gay bar like
12:14
cutting in line. You're like,
12:14
you bitch, and she's like, I'm
12:16
gonna stay one day. No, she's
12:16
like a big deal. Now she like
12:20
Actually, I love her. She could
12:20
be on the show. She would speak
12:23
her mind her eye.
12:23
She's, I love her. She's
12:26
making more waves. Like
12:26
when she makes a comment. Even
12:28
fox news will go. Oh, god, she's
12:28
commenting on Biden's plan. And
12:32
it's like,
12:33
everybody's obsessed
12:33
with her is that she speaks with
12:37
such conviction. I don't write.
12:37
You're not trying to what she's
12:40
saying. But I'm like, Okay,
12:40
yeah, yeah.
12:44
You're gonna fucking consider
12:45
it with such conviction and confidence. I
12:47
love it. Bobby. she's a
12:47
she's a real wedding. Like you
12:50
see, and he's sweating.
12:52
She's hot as hell. Like
12:52
I can go straight for your pitch
12:55
or shaved
12:56
mine. Yeah, they're
12:56
actually not I don't have a lot
12:58
of hair shaved. No, I don't have
12:58
a lot of hair in my armpits.
13:00
I don't know. It's like
13:00
complete. No, they're not. You
13:05
know, like, Harry.
13:06
Yeah, mine.
13:08
Like really?
13:11
He looks like preteen
13:13
high.
13:15
Grade right? So
13:17
you think it'd be like a
13:17
bear but Honey? Honey misled.
13:19
Oh, and I have no hair my asshole.
13:21
Oh, that's cuz you lasered it? That's
13:23
not I didn't have a lot before that.
13:24
Wait, you lasers your asshole. Yeah, I
13:26
got my my asshole laser.
13:26
I had a surgery like a couple
13:29
years ago for assist. It's not
13:29
it's a problem. But you have a
13:33
boil. Should I talk about it?
13:35
Maybe I shouldn't talk
13:35
about it. Because everyone has
13:37
said there
13:38
might be something somebody might be relating. It's called a pilonidal cyst. And
13:40
it's at the top of your butt
13:42
crack near like your tailbone
13:42
kinda. Yeah. And it starts as a
13:45
cyst. But really, it's an
13:45
abscess and it never goes away
13:48
unless you get it literally cut out
13:50
like he has a third hole.
13:52
I don't.
13:54
He does.
13:56
Michael Pachter So Michael had to pack my wound every day back in the hole,
13:57
penis Hole by asshole
14:01
pile and I wasn't
14:01
counting the penis hole. I
14:03
really wasn't either,
14:04
though. You can stick things in the pain.
14:06
I didn't really that
14:06
wasn't a point of entry for you.
14:08
Well, it is to be of a sounding rod.
14:10
So I had a cyst. And so
14:10
basically the it starts with
14:12
like an ingrown hair. But I don't have that many hair. But my hair is very thick. Like it's
14:14
not early. It can start with
14:18
like an ingrown hair. So they're
14:18
like we recommend you either
14:20
like shaved on the regular or
14:20
get like a permanent solution.
14:23
So I was like, I'll get my
14:23
asshole lasered.
14:25
Did you get a bleach to it?
14:27
That's next.
14:28
That's next. I used
14:28
this I shaved my asshole all the
14:31
time. Except one guy who lived
14:31
in wash heights. I used to sleep
14:34
with requested that I do not
14:34
shave it.
14:37
Are you Harry?
14:38
Oh, yeah,
14:39
yeah, my whole is covered right now.
14:40
Oh, yeah. I'm like
14:40
really hairy. Like,
14:43
Oh, yes. Oh my god. That's
14:43
like me. Oh, I love it.
14:46
You're heavier than me.
14:46
That's what's a funny fucking,
14:49
but I'm a bear.
14:50
I'm really quick.
14:50
You're my size
14:53
twink by hair.
14:55
So, Your Honor, Your Honor.
14:57
He's an honor to be an
14:57
honor.
15:00
I gotta get skinny. No, yeah, I'm not even in the I'm not even the hairy class. I'm in
15:02
the big class. I'm a job.
15:05
He's like one of those cats that doesn't have any hair on it. Yeah,
15:07
what is I was trying to think of that.
15:08
Like, hairless cat. I'm
15:10
a hairless bear.
15:12
Oh, wait, no, no, David. I
15:12
came up with this. He's a
15:14
manatee. Remember this?
15:18
So you're like, almost extinct.
15:20
So I literally just float
15:20
around and people carved Trump
15:22
into my back. Cool.
15:24
Cuz you're healthy
15:26
and healthy. Or you
15:26
know, you're about to be
15:29
a twink so it's fine. I'm
15:29
literally getting so sorry.
15:34
I honestly feel like
15:34
the shirts look more or more
15:36
baggy
15:37
and they are there. It's
15:37
legit happening. That actually
15:41
weighed myself. I think I told
15:41
you this last night and I know I
15:44
weighed myself with shoes on.
15:44
No. And from the last time I
15:47
weighed to like with my shoes on
15:47
at night. I never weigh at
15:49
night. I was like seven pounds
15:49
down from morning way.
15:54
I'm ready. Okay, that's
15:54
amazing. I'm so proud of that.
15:57
But you know, it's not about the scale.
15:58
No, not at all. And we've already established that.
16:01
Let me just let me say I
16:01
hope it's not about the looks
16:03
either cuz for me.
16:06
I mean, honestly, again,
16:06
I don't want to go either way,
16:09
but my face has always been the
16:09
hottest feature. It's true. It's
16:12
true. These eyes will fuck
16:12
anybody these lashes these
16:15
lashes right here.
16:17
If you know, you know,
16:18
I could gain 20 pounds.
16:18
And if I look better, am I
16:21
right? Literally?
16:22
What the fuck do I care
16:22
about number seven a scale
16:26
like this.
16:27
So back to what I was
16:27
actually saying is your threat.
16:29
See? Right here we go all the
16:29
way around. I
16:33
have no idea
16:35
where we land and gay. I
16:35
have one more thing I want to
16:38
say. Before we continue on this
16:38
journey. I just want to read
16:43
this. Okay, and I want you to
16:43
tell me if it's where it's from.
16:47
It's a movie. Okay? You just
16:47
live to obey me and be my slave.
16:51
I will own you. That's my soul.
16:51
My brain my spirit. My body.
16:55
Twilight, would you come and be
16:55
my property till you die? I need
16:59
to drink your blood. I crave it.
16:59
I need to eat your entire body.
17:03
I need to touch every part of
17:03
you inside and out. I want to
17:07
bite pieces of you.
17:08
Are these texts from
17:08
armie hammer army hammer hammer.
17:14
The best one to me is
17:14
this next one I want to break.
17:19
I was waiting for that one.
17:21
I want to take a bite out of you
17:22
as armie hammer.
17:26
I let him suck his toes.
17:26
Do you remember that? Well, I
17:28
don't care. Oh, let's grow. So
17:28
he's like, my toes. And now he's
17:32
like I'm eating women.
17:34
I'm sorry, but he could
17:34
walk down my hall. If armie
17:39
hammer wants to break my ribs
17:39
and eat me alive. All the power
17:42
to him. And honestly, that'd
17:44
be a win win for all of
17:44
us. Go ahead. You're gonna
17:47
murder me. I'm gonna get out of
17:47
this. I'm gonna get out of this
17:50
guilt free.
17:51
Right and people can
17:51
tell me I'm committing suicide.
17:54
I can just get eaten alive.
17:56
I love this. I can't wait
17:56
to the day that we're in New
17:58
York City or we're in Columbus
17:58
and Michigan's gonna fight and I
18:00
have to break it up. I can't wait. It's gonna happen it's gonna happen he's like a house
18:02
where like I'm like, bitch.
18:07
I'm usually very very
18:08
see but that's the thing
18:08
but when you're with me, you
18:11
won't be scared
18:12
I don't get in fight
18:12
like I will never pick a fight.
18:15
I will just respond to
18:15
you let your face say your
18:18
words.
18:19
No, I just I generally
18:19
don't give a fuck about anyone.
18:22
But when people take shots then
18:22
it's different. That's a sneaky
18:28
way.
18:29
Sneaky sneaky. This
18:29
episode is full of little like,
18:34
like if you're trying
18:34
to hide something that says it
18:36
all right. You can't put it in
18:36
text then. Oh,
18:43
could you see what we're
18:43
talking about now? Oh, do
18:46
you huh? My throat is
18:46
throbbing
18:49
I'm literally throbbing my
18:49
throat he is Oh my god. So he's
18:55
way is he?
19:05
It's not me.
19:06
No, it's both of us.
19:06
That the slides apparently.
19:11
This is where me and Ms
19:11
jump in and explain what's going
19:13
on a little. This is like a PSA
19:13
like,
19:17
literally a PSA Surgeon
19:17
General's warning.
19:19
Yeah, like this episode
19:19
is like, so do you want to like
19:24
paint the picture for
19:25
a picture? I'll paint
19:25
the picture the picture.
19:29
This picture is
19:29
definitely like a Picasso. It
19:32
was supposed to be the Mona Lisa but ended up
19:34
causing the style. We
19:34
were going for Mona Lisa. We
19:38
ended up like elementary school
19:38
fingerpaint like bad bad news.
19:43
So we were planning to have a
19:43
recording as usual. And the last
19:48
time we recorded a little tipsy
19:48
and it was a major success. We
19:54
loved it. We wanted to keep that
19:56
going. And we're just
19:56
tipsy like we weren't right
19:59
here.
20:00
lockout, the operative
20:00
word Ipsy. So then this weekend,
20:04
we're like, Okay, let's do it
20:04
again. And we just no load up on
20:08
booze and get together. And it
20:08
was a disaster.
20:13
Well, and we didn't eat
20:13
until late. And then we were
20:16
already drinking like crazy. And
20:16
we're like, Can we push the
20:18
recording back in is like, yeah,
20:18
it's fine. So we went from eight
20:21
o'clock to 930. Right? That's an
20:21
hour and a half more of alcohol.
20:25
Those 90 minutes. We're
20:25
catering to those 90 minutes or
20:29
I spent on the couch watching
20:29
housewives down in Pino.
20:33
So I mean, chugging,
20:34
it was a recipe for disaster because I was just like, filled with drama from
20:36
housewives and Pino so I was
20:41
just ready to come in hot.
20:43
And you came in hot,
20:43
like, there was no doubt about
20:45
it, like you came in, like,
20:45
ready to go. And you were kind
20:48
of like, Hey, this is and you're
20:48
like, so I think it's really
20:51
fun. So do you want to tell the
20:51
story of why Yeah,
20:54
yeah,
20:55
I tell us your
20:55
perspective before, like, in a
20:57
sober way, and then I'm gonna
20:57
try to like clip it together.
21:00
Okay. So my perspective
21:00
was the following. I didn't it's
21:06
not a big deal. Nothing about
21:06
this is a big deal. Let me
21:09
preface it with that. I knew
21:09
that there were certain feedback
21:14
had been received about the show
21:14
negatively towards me. And
21:20
that's okay, that's bound to
21:20
happen. That's what happens when
21:23
you put yourself out on a public
21:23
platform, right? Fine, whatever.
21:29
So I never really I never really
21:29
thought it was that big of a
21:31
deal. The subject had come up
21:31
earlier that day, somehow, in
21:35
our in a text between the three
21:35
of us, right? And I was like,
21:38
aha, bah, bah, bah. Then Then as
21:38
I'm watching housewives and
21:45
downing Beto, I'm like, I would
21:45
like love to actually see like,
21:49
verbatim what's been said. And
21:49
so it's like, I'm wonder where I
21:53
can find it. And I was like, Oh,
21:53
shit, like, I, I have the login
21:58
for this thing. And so I logged
21:58
in. And then it wasn't really
22:04
what was said that shocked me it
22:04
was the medium through which it
22:09
was said, which was a direct
22:09
voice recording. So it it looks
22:15
not one voice recording
22:15
submitted by someone to you guys
22:19
as feedback, but like a
22:19
discussion back and forth,
22:23
right? And so various little
22:23
like sound waves that I then had
22:27
to click on and listen to. And
22:27
I've never, I've never seen
22:30
anything like that. I had never
22:30
I'd never had this happen to me
22:33
before. So I was all sorts of
22:33
shuck. And I think it's two
22:37
things like one I just was not
22:37
expecting that. So I just like
22:41
kind of like had a more
22:41
heightened reaction than I
22:44
normally would have. I was just
22:44
like, and I was doubting Pino
22:47
watching housewives, right,
22:47
your blood boiling and
22:47
then you're like,
22:51
right. So I'm like, in
22:51
my mind, someone had just like,
22:55
like, stolen $500,000 for a bank
22:55
account, like, you know, like,
22:57
that's like, what, like, what,
22:57
Barack and I like to come in
23:02
here with like a machete like I
23:02
was just out of control. Yeah.
23:05
And the number two, I'm just
23:05
like, and what I realized for
23:08
myself is I'm just like, really
23:08
sensitive, which is weird,
23:12
because I try to put on the
23:12
front like, I'm not right, but
23:15
I'm, like, really sensitive to
23:15
criticism. And especially,
23:21
especially, especially sensitive
23:21
to criticism, when like, I'm the
23:27
newer one, right? This brain
23:27
production sounds like our shit
23:32
like,
23:32
and that's where I get
23:32
interesting. And like, we're
23:35
trying like, this is new, like,
23:35
this is new territory, right?
23:38
Like, She's Not Doing So Well.
23:38
Like you kept saying in the
23:40
drunken you're like, it's you
23:40
too. And then I'm just like a
23:43
fun chariot. I'm like, No, like,
23:43
going forward. This is like a,
23:46
we need to just it's a solid new
23:46
start. Yeah, some people are
23:50
gonna love it that used to
23:50
listen to the show, and some
23:52
people are gonna fucking hate it and to be honest with you, right? I don't care. Exactly
23:54
right. And I can't care and it's
23:57
not that I don't care about you,
23:57
or your feelings or whatever.
24:01
But like, I've got to do me
24:01
right you got to do us exactly.
24:04
I think message to
24:04
myself I need to like, stop
24:08
being a little bitch like so. Do
24:08
you? Think about what I would do
24:11
stand up people wouldn't laugh
24:11
at some stuff. I bet in their
24:14
mind thinking wow, this kid
24:14
sucks. While fuck him. I just
24:16
never heard directly. So I was
24:16
like, I don't care what people
24:20
think. then fast forward when
24:20
there's dmws of literal voices
24:25
saying how or I am it's just a
24:25
little different.
24:31
And let's get back to the
24:31
trunk episode, where after this
24:35
segment we have a whole
24:35
explanation for like 10 minutes
24:38
at the end so thank you for
24:38
listening. Oh, guess what time
24:42
it is it
24:43
the more you know
24:46
Am I supposed to have a
24:46
fucking topic? The more you know
24:51
with Jim
24:57
I can't wait to hear the more you know this week because guess what you will Often,
24:59
people will have commented on
25:02
how they're like that
25:02
motherfucker went off to him. I
25:05
didn't know so much about the
25:05
First Amendment.
25:08
That was so much.
25:11
I'm glad that just sharing
25:11
the basics of the First
25:14
Amendment,
25:14
or you know, rarely so
25:14
famous.
25:17
Wow, the more you know,
25:17
it's been around for hundreds of
25:21
years. You're chock full of
25:21
knowledge just drop something on
25:24
us He is just bring
25:26
up any word or thing and I'll think of a
25:28
thing you know, I can
25:32
ask about like something
25:32
interesting.
25:34
Like, what's the worst
25:34
thing that you wrote this week
25:37
thing?
25:38
You know, so much I
25:39
want to hear you do?
25:39
Okay, I got something. Okay.
25:43
I got something like a real
25:43
question you want answered and
25:45
you've never asked. I don't
25:47
know if you even know
25:47
anything about it. The pyramids
25:49
in Antarctica.
25:53
I think this topics not
25:53
gonna go well on this program.
26:00
Someone has been reading
26:00
their dad's text message. queue
26:06
and on. I don't think there are
26:06
any pyramids in Antarctica.
26:10
Maybe
26:11
Mr. Just interview you
26:11
right now. Furthermore, you
26:13
know,
26:14
okay, Jim. There's been
26:14
a lot of chatter lately about
26:19
Joe Biden in his transition. And
26:19
what it means for the Equality
26:26
Act that he promised would be
26:26
passed in the first 100 days.
26:32
And apparently, on January 5 14.
26:32
They said to a group of LGBTQ
26:39
plus leaders, that that's no
26:39
longer going to happen. What is
26:43
your take?
26:45
Oh, Lord. So what is the
26:45
Equality Act?
26:49
It's Oh, wow. You don't
26:49
know what that is? How do you
26:53
not know what that is? Don't
26:53
you're, you have boggle my
26:57
fucking mind. Is this the era is
26:57
this. This is like what we're
27:00
trying to get like a nationwide
27:00
federal law that it's
27:03
everybody's equal under like the
27:03
law and protected. The job
27:08
really does is it
27:08
offers explicit prohibition of
27:12
discrimination against LGBT
27:12
people like before. Yes, there
27:19
is a precedent.
27:20
We're trying to get here,
27:20
their congressional
27:22
writing. They've been
27:22
trying to pass this is Obama
27:25
there. I thought Obama
27:25
interpreted like title
27:29
up to interpretation.
27:29
Now it's explained. Now
27:32
we went to law pretty
27:32
explicitly say XYZ.
27:35
Congress will be busy
27:35
convicting Trump. Well, that was
27:38
exactly
27:39
what they said was there and that's the
27:40
problem is, I mean, right
27:40
now we have zero people in the
27:43
cabinet confirmed we have a
27:43
senate trial underway on January
27:48
19. We're full fledge is we
27:48
don't have time to pass the
27:52
Equality Act and the first 100 days? Well,
27:54
that's what they're
27:54
saying. And I take a seat.
27:57
Take a seat, you little
27:57
queers stand that what the
28:00
counter argument that I've been
28:00
reading about is, it's really
28:04
too bad that our government can
28:04
be so single focus, like it
28:07
should be able to, like multiple
28:07
priorities are being elevated
28:12
and progress is happening. So
28:12
like, is that on purpose,
28:17
though? Based on the constitution? Like our forefathers decided to do that
28:18
on purpose, though? No, yeah.
28:22
Because there's things that
28:22
happen that they like, I don't
28:24
know if they knew, but like,
28:24
there's a process for
28:27
everything. So you just can't
28:27
rush things through, it has to
28:30
be thought out. So they don't want to rush. Like,
28:32
why can't these
28:32
processes be happening
28:35
simultaneously? Like, why can't
28:35
there be like a subset of people
28:38
who are really spearheading the
28:38
impeachment? Why can't there be
28:42
some subset of people who was
28:42
actually heading the Equality
28:45
Act? And then whatever else
28:45
we're also faced with, you know,
28:48
why do they have to be all in on
28:48
one issue going forward? And
28:52
then all issues take it back
28:52
burner?
28:55
Good question. It doesn't
28:55
need to be. It doesn't. And does
28:58
it make you feel like we're
28:58
always just pushed to the side?
29:02
Like, oh, the gays are fine,
29:02
like, Fuck, I'm like, whatever.
29:06
We're just, we're just something
29:06
that they can just push to the
29:08
side, they can just
29:09
play with it. And we're like, cool. So
29:11
later act verb of
29:11
marginalized communities. This
29:15
is what this exactly means is
29:15
that it's right, a marginalized
29:19
group of people, you know, it's
29:19
important until something's more
29:21
important. That's what
29:21
marginalize me.
29:24
We got to get everybody else on their feet.
29:26
Okay, I get it, there
29:26
are pressing issues. But someone
29:30
in some group of people needs to
29:30
also view our rights as a
29:34
pressing issue at some point and
29:34
it's pressing and it's never
29:38
gonna be that there's nothing
29:38
else to deal with. So let's deal
29:40
with the gays and the lesbians
29:40
and the trans and everyone. So
29:44
when are we gonna do that
29:44
simultaneously with other issues
29:47
like people just aren't raising
29:47
it to the same isand as theirs?
29:54
Honey, I hear you like I
29:54
hear you. I see your eyes and
29:58
A's over I'm sorry.
30:02
acronym.
30:11
What is a demigod to?
30:13
Me? I have no idea.
30:19
I came out demisexual and
30:19
they don't accept me and I'm
30:24
like
30:27
they don't know what it is. Because we don't know what it
30:32
is at me as a white
30:32
upper middle class gay. My plus
30:39
sign covers me you know what I
30:39
mean? know everything and I own
30:46
it. I know I'm not well versed
30:46
in every single difference. And
30:53
it means every time the sign
30:53
LGBTQIA d p
31:00
plus lmnop. Okay, what
31:04
are you gonna call me
31:04
like not PC like, is that news?
31:06
Like,
31:07
fuck it? I don't.
31:07
Obviously I'm not honestly I
31:09
really don't.
31:10
Since a ton of people think I'm
31:14
in the capital like strong the capitals that politically correct.
31:19
Exactly. I said
31:20
there is no PC anymore.
31:20
It's gone. PCs go.
31:23
Correct is only a
31:23
construct when there is a
31:26
standard and there's no standard
31:26
anymore.
31:29
Are you no more you know,
31:29
Jim. Thank you, Jim. Again, for
31:34
some more, you know, with
31:34
Jim. I just wish you guys would
31:38
ask the real question.
31:40
I wish
31:42
that was a good question.
31:44
Yeah. Like we're all
31:44
doing work here. You didn't know
31:46
I didn't
31:47
know that. We had to do a
31:47
topic every week.
31:49
Oh, you just want me to
31:49
write the script every week.
31:52
week I ranted about a first
31:52
and what a
31:54
diva. Like this is what's
31:54
gonna ruin our barstool fucking
31:58
our box still contract has been
31:58
ruined by Eugene be like, nobody
32:02
told me that I had to actually
32:02
like do something as well.
32:05
Portnoy would fuck me. Well,
32:05
portney would fuck you
32:09
or noise one by everybody?
32:09
No. Boy. Oh, yeah.
32:14
I can't think of his first name. And
32:18
David.
32:20
Yeah. Dave. Look at him.
32:20
He's from Boston. Yeah, he does.
32:27
And I think he prays like a
32:27
thick mushroom had.
32:29
Yeah, it's it's short. But
32:29
like, sure. But yeah,
32:33
he wrote me. He owns
32:33
all of it. And he
32:35
just started, he
32:35
literally started this thing was
32:37
like, let's be on ESPN. And then
32:37
it became this whole huge
32:40
empire. That's like XM Radio.
32:40
It's like bigger than that.
32:43
Like, and here we are. And here
32:43
we are on the show. And he won't
32:47
even fucking respond by email. So
32:49
pick up our phone calls because it sounds like we're in a tunnel.
32:52
So I just thought of
32:52
something about the Moreno.
32:54
Okay, Jim. He just
32:57
woke up. I think the alcohol
32:59
jam, tell us what's happening.
33:02
This is something deep,
33:02
though. Oh, you're quitting gym?
33:06
If I can. If I'm allowed? Are
33:06
you What do you want to quit?
33:10
Well, if
33:10
you need me to. So this was
33:10
something I was thinking about
33:13
earlier, when I was kind of
33:13
like, probably like, feeling
33:17
worried. Feeling here? No, it
33:17
wasn't actually this is
33:21
something totally unprepared as
33:21
usual. But I was downstairs
33:25
reading. And I was like, What is
33:25
reading? Oh, my God, Bobby is
33:31
deepthroating. Pineapple lip
33:31
gloss.
33:33
If you have YouTube, you
33:33
can watch me just totally suck
33:36
this.
33:36
He sucked off a pineapple.
33:38
So you were asking
33:38
yourself what is reading? I was
33:40
like, What is reading? And
33:40
what are words? And what is the
33:44
meaning behind words and
33:44
letters? Because you think about
33:47
writing, it's just like, you
33:47
take something and you make a
33:50
shape, and then someone else
33:50
recognizes that shape? Okay,
33:54
what does it does that shape
33:54
have a meaning? Or did we give
33:57
the shape a meaning?
33:58
Honestly, this is exactly what we were talking about last night with currency.
34:00
And yeah, as long as you are
34:03
willing to accept it, then you
34:03
have a platform.
34:06
Everything is a social period.
34:08
So I'm thinking about like
34:08
archaeologists, they dig up some
34:11
ancient texts or some stone
34:11
tablet cuneiform something where
34:14
it's like, what are the words on
34:14
this text? And they have to
34:18
interpret How often do they see
34:18
something? How often do they see
34:20
this symbol or that symbol? And
34:20
what could it mean? And what
34:23
were they trying to communicate?
34:23
And how do they come up with
34:25
something? Because if you don't
34:25
have an A person who spoke that
34:29
original language or wrote that
34:29
allege original language, what
34:32
does it mean? And I just think,
34:32
to me, it's crazy. All how we
34:39
have over 6000 languages and all
34:39
these different writing systems.
34:42
And we can communicate in all
34:42
these different ways. And then
34:45
you have someone who goes, Oh, I
34:45
can't understand that. I would
34:48
never be able to understand
34:48
that. Because I have family
34:51
members who hear Chinese being
34:51
spoken on a movie or some other
34:54
language on a movie like
34:56
oh my God, we have to
34:56
read the subtitles to read the
34:59
subtitles. Right now like,
35:01
what the fuck? No, like
35:01
the rap music in the hip hop,
35:04
whenever someone says like,
35:04
I could never understand that
35:06
like, you could though because
35:06
another human child learned that
35:11
language Think about that. a two
35:11
year old learn Chinese and you
35:15
never learn Chinese. Isn't it
35:15
crazy to like all these words
35:19
and languages? And what does
35:19
this mean and how grammar and
35:21
all of this, we've created an
35:21
entire system just to
35:24
communicate, like other animals
35:24
or just like, let's eat Let's
35:27
fuck, let's sleep. And we're
35:27
like, I want to talk about the,
35:31
the pronouns he she and they,
35:31
let's go
35:33
interpersonal,
35:33
interpersonal. In typical human
35:38
being fashion, we've completely
35:38
over engineered the entire
35:41
concept of a method of
35:41
communication, right? Like we
35:44
could have, we could have sat
35:44
there and and like that meant
35:48
something, you know, but we
35:48
didn't we said we could all help
35:51
each other
35:51
to survive. We have
35:54
to have these
35:54
sophisticated languages. Yes. 10
35:57
says no one's fault but
36:00
no one and and and then the
36:00
Oh my god, the grammar police
36:04
are coming out. Like look at
36:04
Bobby. I have to police him all
36:06
the time. I'm the worst at writing.
36:08
You can't even write once
36:08
these guys start stepping up and
36:10
start writing just like little
36:10
bit of show nuts. There'll be
36:13
better
36:13
than a bit of show nuts.
36:14
Yes. Do you want us to
36:14
handle that? Do you want us to
36:18
get in trouble? Or do you want
36:18
Yeah, just
36:23
No, I don't write well, I
36:23
could write it but I need you to
36:25
like fit. I
36:26
read right.
36:27
I need you to I don't
36:27
know. Right. Right earlier.
36:30
You're like I don't read right.
36:30
That's getting
36:33
I don't read right.
36:34
I don't read right. Look
36:34
at me. I'm a corporate Whoa,
36:37
once I get Mr. Bae on. And so
36:37
it's better. It's better get the
36:41
fucking on the roller coaster, honey.
36:42
I mean, MS is in the
36:42
corporate world. Tell the truth.
36:45
Right.
36:45
So my MS is not. He is Oh
36:45
my God. He's deep in the
36:49
corporate world.
36:50
I am deep in the corporate world. I'll never leave frankly. But
36:55
oh my god. Now this is what
36:55
I needed. But that's
36:59
Yeah. You've known this
36:59
this life
37:03
force?
37:04
I'm not giving up. I'm
37:04
never.
37:08
Jim. Look at me. We can't. I
37:08
know. That's you. I think I
37:14
vaguely remember is that you
37:14
said something about crying
37:18
every night.
37:20
When When did you
37:20
vaguely remember? Yes, he
37:23
did. He did say this,
37:23
that you've cried every night in
37:27
your apartment since you moved
37:27
there. And I want to know why.
37:30
What's going on?
37:32
Why are you there? What do
37:32
you miss? Lower East Side?
37:35
What do you what do you
37:35
miss about the Hudson? The
37:38
Hudson is
37:39
the Hudson near me now.
37:42
What do you miss about the other rivers?
37:44
The East River. Now I
37:44
think that's me crying on a
37:50
nightly basis happens whenever I
37:50
go through a large change. So
37:54
when I moved to New York, I
37:54
happened when I quit my job and
37:58
worked. We work I happened. When
37:58
I went back to my current job I
38:02
happened I just don't do well
38:02
with large scale changes. I you
38:08
know, I just don't because I get
38:08
so comfortable in my current
38:10
life. So whenever something's
38:10
new, and I'm not used to the
38:15
impacts of that I get really
38:15
thrown for a loop. It just does
38:20
not sit well with me. But it's
38:20
interesting because I crave
38:23
change all the time. Like I
38:23
apply for jobs. I'm always
38:28
looking for my next thing.
38:29
And there we go.
38:30
But when it comes I'm
38:30
like, wait, no, no, no, no, I'm
38:34
gonna go back to what I'm used
38:34
to write.
38:37
So it's easier.
38:39
I think it's I think
38:39
it's a fad, some product of meat
38:41
is not being grown up. Like I'm
38:41
just want to have my little
38:45
comfort zone all the time. And
38:45
that's not how you need to live,
38:49
but you need to be if you want
38:49
change and you are seeking it
38:52
out. You need to be okay with
38:52
your boundaries being pushed and
38:56
blurred a little bit. Not so
38:56
deep.
39:00
But a lot of 23 year olds
39:00
are going through this like
39:02
they're 20 their hearts. Oh,
39:02
well. No. Oh shit. When I went
39:09
from my new job, I was like,
39:09
pretty much every night for
39:13
months was like, I feel like I
39:13
need to cry and I
39:17
want to die, which is a
39:17
thing that's like you crave the
39:20
change. You want to go for it
39:20
and you go and it happens. And
39:24
you're like, No, no, I hate it.
39:24
It's gonna fall. Ms. This
39:28
is what I was trying to
39:28
ask you like four episodes ago?
39:30
Yeah. How do you feel? And
39:30
you're like, Oh, fuck, yeah,
39:32
it's fine. But then I'm like,
39:32
how do you really feel like how
39:36
do you feel? You're upset. You
39:36
miss your old place, but you you
39:39
don't miss your old place. You
39:39
miss your comfort zone? Yes. And
39:42
then of course your key broke and then it was like this whole thing and then you're like, Oh
39:44
my god, I'm spiraling down and
39:46
you've got your super and then
39:46
now you hate your
39:48
superintendent. And now you just
39:48
like fight him. And so now
39:51
you're sitting in this apartment
39:51
going I hate everybody here
39:53
already. This electronic like
39:53
door thing like I don't know.
39:57
Yeah. And then today,
39:57
the water Heat went out. And
40:02
people were like running all
40:02
around arms up in the air. Some
40:04
girl knocked my door and she's
40:04
like, is your heat element? Yes,
40:07
obviously my fucking heat out
40:07
the building T is out get away
40:10
from my door. Get out of here. I
40:10
don't want to talk to you
40:12
know mine works.
40:15
Like No, you're the only one.
40:17
I'm the only one who has
40:17
working heat
40:19
just kill my face. I'm
40:19
trying to I'm trying to just my
40:23
own apartment. No one ever
40:23
spoke. So I feel like
40:26
God, Jim, tell us
40:28
Jim, can you go off
40:28
please?
40:31
Let me go give me something
40:31
to be mad about. And I'll go
40:34
off.
40:34
You can show your face
40:34
it needs to come from within. I
40:37
think No, I want to know why the fuck you can't show your face.
40:40
I want to know that too.
40:41
That's not something I
40:41
get mad about. You should know
40:45
why you talk Jim.
40:48
You're gonna have to show
40:48
your face we're gonna go live
40:51
now we're not. So he doesn't
40:51
believe in that. Ms. I believe
40:54
in it. No, you don't you don't
40:54
even I believe in to see things
40:58
as a faith.
40:58
I believe in a certain type
40:58
of it. I feel like I believe I
41:02
feel like you spend a lot of time believing.
41:05
But if I don't have
41:05
people on the same ship with me
41:08
that believe then it's never
41:08
gonna happen.
41:12
What do you believe will
41:12
happen? Oh, this is so sad. I
41:18
just need to know what you
41:18
believe is happening know what's
41:20
gonna happen.
41:21
The question will try
41:21
to see what you believe is
41:23
happening. Yeah,
41:24
what do you believe is happening?
41:26
I believe personally,
41:26
America I personally believe
41:31
that maps and such what and what
41:31
believe in what this?
41:35
What is the goal? What's
41:35
your goal here?
41:39
I think that this can reach
41:39
a lot of people and bring them
41:41
into the fold of the gay
41:41
community and such.
41:49
And such an ad and as
41:49
such, so in such a
41:52
way that you and you when
41:52
Jim asked, like, what did you
41:56
want for this podcast to start
41:56
and you listen to Bobby's
41:58
answers, they're not exactly
41:58
groundbreaking. Like what are
42:02
you? You're like, I just want to
42:02
reach a bunch of people same.
42:05
That's what I'm just trying to
42:05
talk to people right but here's
42:07
the thing I want to interview
42:07
them at some
42:09
point though.
42:10
I try to find out what that
42:10
point is honey, cuz like
42:16
when you die when you
42:16
have an obituary, what is your
42:20
legacy? is a being I kind of,
42:23
I don't really want an obituary.
42:25
Okay, well, that's
42:25
because you're gonna fucking get
42:28
one obituary. I want to know
42:28
that like, what I wanted to get
42:32
out there got out there
42:33
was true. The craziest
42:34
part is that doesn't
42:34
matter. Because in like, 100
42:37
years, maybe less for most
42:37
people. No one remembers you
42:40
like that.
42:40
We don't know anything about all you know, when you're on your deathbed. You're gonna
42:42
have a lot of thoughts. I
42:45
will have thoughts but they
42:45
won't matter. Hopefully. They
42:48
won't
42:48
matter. It's gonna be
42:51
fine. If everyone has last
42:51
moments, or Jim.
42:55
Do you want your last
42:55
moment to be just like everyone
42:58
else's or so you're okay with being
43:01
Hi, and I want I do want
43:01
Adam in a morphine and then I'll
43:04
be fine.
43:05
I think that's where I
43:05
can't I can't. Normal.
43:09
I went, I did everything I could,
43:11
like my mom was the guy
43:11
raise a family we lived to get
43:15
laid or
43:15
barely walk up the stairs.
43:17
Like Cantor. I gotta
43:17
have something better. I want to
43:20
do everything I
43:20
can. Well, you didn't climb
43:20
Mount Everest.
43:23
Well, that's never a
43:23
metric that I'm setting myself
43:25
up again. So I really No, I'm
43:25
just saying like,
43:27
it doesn't really matter.
43:27
None of what we do matters. Like
43:30
ultimately, in about we don't
43:30
know anything about anyone from
43:33
12,000 years ago.
43:33
I agree with that.
43:33
Fact, but we don't really think
43:37
oh, man, if if I asked you
43:37
to know like, Who are the people
43:40
lived in Columbus in 1904. You
43:40
don't zero names? Zero names?
43:44
zeros. The fair. You're like
43:47
they made a name for
43:47
themselves. You wouldn't know
43:50
them.
43:50
But there's about 10 of
43:50
them. We only know like if I saw
43:53
that. And I put
43:54
the pressure on us to
43:54
name for Jesse. Oh,
43:56
Teddy Roosevelt. And no, he
43:56
was much later it was important.
43:59
So 20s
44:00
that's where the
44:00
pressure coming from. It's very
44:03
hard
44:06
to make it okay, that's
44:06
fine. But here's the thing.
44:09
Like about zero people.
44:11
I'm just not really
44:11
keen on just sitting down and
44:13
succumbing to being an average.
44:15
Thank you.
44:17
Kill yourself at any moment. So
44:19
you got me. I
44:22
lost right now. I feel like we're
44:24
at a loss. I think you're blacked out.
44:26
No, we're at a standstill. Well, I
44:27
just think we are
44:30
Why would we Okay,
44:30
okay. So let me ask you this jam
44:34
is when you look at your life
44:34
retrospectively. What do you
44:37
want yourself to be remembered as?
44:40
I don't want to be remembered.
44:43
So you don't want a legacy?
44:44
I don't know I don't want
44:44
to be remembered. I want to
44:46
desire the billions of others
44:46
humans that have not been
44:50
remembered.
44:51
So you want to be even
44:51
though the status quo running
44:54
the mill?
44:55
Yeah, like I just want to
44:55
be like every other billions of
44:58
humans who no one knows their
44:58
name, and they lived, they had
45:01
fun. Why do
45:01
you think you want
45:01
their life? Why is that your
45:03
view?
45:04
Because I feel like that
45:04
makes me equal to them like I'm
45:06
not trying to be something
45:06
special. You just want to be
45:08
them.
45:09
You're not you don't have
45:09
to try to be special.
45:11
You have no and you are special
45:13
to be remembered. You have
45:13
to do something very, very, very
45:15
special, like super super spaces
45:18
that you don't think
45:18
you're capable of doing that or
45:20
what right?
45:20
I think most people aren't
45:20
No, I don't think I am. I don't
45:23
think anyone I know is.
45:25
So you are, are just
45:25
willing to succumb to the to
45:30
that I
45:31
just want to be brought
45:31
into all of these other humans
45:33
your aura, I want to be equal to
45:33
all of the other humans. Weird
45:37
that you don't remember, you
45:37
don't remember billions of
45:39
people that remembers anything.
45:39
People have lived and you don't
45:42
remember their names.
45:43
I don't dispute.
45:47
You remembered.
45:49
What I disagree with?
45:49
Is the aspiration to be that.
45:53
I don't know why is it bad
45:53
to just want to be normal?
45:55
is really bad. What?
46:00
Do you want to stand out?
46:00
What is your What is wrong with
46:02
your ego that you need to stand
46:02
out and be something that's the
46:04
thing
46:05
though, what you don't
46:05
understand is without it trying?
46:08
You stand out?
46:10
That's true. That's probably true. Here's
46:13
your conversation is
46:13
because you don't have to try to
46:16
stand out you stand out without
46:16
trying which means it's true.
46:20
You
46:20
also okay with being
46:20
normal and being elevated. I
46:24
think that people who live a
46:24
life with history of being
46:30
downgraded makes you want to
46:30
keep diluting yourself more. So
46:36
I don't like I'm very confused
46:36
by that by your stance because I
46:40
don't think I would want to be
46:40
something more if I'd hadn't had
46:44
the history of being completely
46:44
downgraded by all my peers all
46:47
the time. That's true. That's true.
46:49
I was definitely downgraded
46:49
by all my peers. So
46:51
I'm shocked to hear you
46:51
say you want to be normal,
46:53
because you're coming because
46:53
he's not calling you. I know
46:57
you're not but you're telling me
46:57
you want to be right. And so
47:00
people your whole life, like
47:00
you're some certain type of way,
47:06
who's not normal, and yet you
47:06
just aspire to be normal.
47:10
Whereas I am like, I want to be
47:10
at a whole different level,
47:14
because people are telling me I
47:14
can't be anything good. Correct.
47:16
I'm not saying anyone's
47:16
viewpoint or thought process is
47:19
right or wrong. I'm just trying
47:19
to reconcile at all. It's very
47:22
interesting that we all can
47:22
think a certain way. I really
47:25
feel like this episodes gone so
47:25
deep. It has
47:32
started,
47:33
I started I have to say
47:33
I feel like I love it. I feel
47:36
like
47:40
we need to talk about like,
47:40
what do we want out of our lives
47:42
and what is life to us, right?
47:42
What is living? Everything is
47:46
digital content. What is dying?
47:46
What is dying? Because everyone
47:49
wants to be remembered.
47:49
Released? Everyone wants to be
47:52
remembered. Do you realize like,
47:52
you look around, everyone's
47:55
trying to do something to be
47:55
remembered. And that's how he's
47:59
doing a podcast to be
47:59
remembered. He wants to be
48:02
remembered.
48:03
I want to be
48:07
absolutely like cannibal we're
48:09
gonna remember you, honey, you could die
48:11
forever. No, but here's what I
48:13
but my kids might not. And
48:13
no one else might better if I
48:16
can remember me, honey, you
48:16
better fucking remember. No, but
48:19
I just think of
48:19
it as a team. Yeah. And
48:19
not having resources. Yeah. And
48:24
not having somebody to listen to
48:24
I had to listen to love line,
48:26
which was straight people. So I
48:26
never had rush limbaugh.
48:30
Alright, so like the perspective
48:30
was never there. So my thing is,
48:33
I want to be a voice for people
48:33
who are scared to say fuck that.
48:37
I want to be that voice. I want
48:37
to be the voice for somebody
48:39
who's like scared to come out. I
48:39
want them to see like, Yay.
48:43
These are three guys that are
48:43
like, literally, we're all kind
48:45
of the same in our story. Like
48:45
we were scared to come out. It
48:48
was like, so awkward for us.
48:48
It's so awkward for us like
48:51
beer. No, that's the thing
48:51
is that you've had all of it.
48:54
Here we go. All right,
48:54
we're recording.
48:57
We're on. We're alive.
48:59
Hi, mez. Hi, Jim. How's
48:59
everybody doing today? Let's
49:02
just tell everybody what's happening. Now we're cutting into the episode because we need
49:04
to not only address things, but
49:10
also this episode never ended.
49:10
In fact, the next morning when I
49:14
woke up after a blackout, I was
49:14
still recording by the way. So
49:17
I'd like 20 hour 20 that's good
49:17
math. 10 hours of like, non stop
49:22
recording.
49:26
Recording for 20 for a
49:26
whole hour.
49:31
So blacked out, I went to
49:31
my room and I crawled in and I
49:34
said
49:35
24 hours. I mean
49:37
we didn't i didn't realize how long it wasn't. And I was like I have three and a
49:38
half hours of fucking content to
49:42
try to know content
49:43
we had. We had a lot of
49:43
quote unquote content.
49:47
It went south so we're
49:47
all sober. Right? Wow. I mean
49:51
very well. You guys have your
49:51
you have a beer. You're not in
49:54
your. Yeah, no, we're not eight
49:54
D okay. We're like 2d eight. It
50:00
wasn't a Oh, for me, it was like
50:00
12.
50:04
And I was like, for me,
50:04
it was two bottles of wine.
50:09
And for Bobby, it was like
50:09
13 I kept
50:11
Oh, yeah. And then I got
50:11
super fucking, I had to go to
50:15
bed like I don't even you.
50:15
Here's how I know it's a bad
50:17
night when I wake up and I don't
50:17
have my earplugs or my mouth
50:20
guard or anything in. That's how
50:20
I fucking know.
50:23
When you're not at the
50:23
community nursing home. Like,
50:26
why no, like, I
50:27
wake up and I'm like, Oh,
50:27
god, my earplugs aren't in. That
50:30
means I blacked out and fell
50:30
asleep. But that's
50:32
what that means. I can't do
50:32
it. I don't have my teeth brush.
50:35
And I'm like, No, I didn't brush my teeth.
50:37
I can tell I didn't go
50:37
to my veneers and like my
50:42
grind.
50:44
I didn't have a fresh diaper. I'm
50:46
funny. I didn't bring
50:46
my cane over to my bed so I
50:48
could rock
50:49
motherfuckers I can't
50:49
wait for you to get my age. Like
50:52
I was hung over till now. And I
50:52
think I'm still slightly hung
50:54
over.
50:55
Oh, my God is later No,
50:55
like, I'm
50:58
getting sweats. It's bad
50:58
when you get to my age,
51:02
especially when you drink. beers
51:02
like, yeah,
51:06
I mean, it gets worse as
51:06
you age hangovers lasts forever.
51:10
All right, well, I'll
51:10
take your word for it. So
51:10
we got into a heated discussion
51:13
about life and reading and
51:13
language, which was good. We
51:20
did. But then we get
51:22
it remove all the noise
51:22
from our blackout. And like
51:26
rambunctiousness, there were
51:26
actually some good things said,
51:31
I agree. And there was
51:31
like truth told, but like,
51:34
obviously a slur and like,
51:36
I think it's really
51:36
translated to you should take
51:41
this.
51:41
I'm like, Where's all
51:41
ours? And Jim's like, You ate
51:44
them all. or drink them all?
51:46
It was like milk in
51:46
your cow. Yeah, it was.
51:49
Jim. Jim likes to milk
51:49
the cow in a bucket and then
51:52
dump it out. That was my, I
51:52
meant to say stir hot, but
51:57
that's stirring the
51:57
pot. That's how you say it in
51:59
Colombia?
51:59
Yeah, that's the Midwest
51:59
way, honey. Milk that cow. And
52:03
then you dumped that milk. Okay,
52:03
that makes sense. I
52:08
love it. I love it. Shall
52:09
we tell them? I mean, do
52:09
you think we're wrapped up on
52:12
that subject? What do you think?
52:13
We are wrapped up on that? Okay.
52:16
We just actually present
52:16
ourselves as we're not like
52:18
really mad at each other. And in
52:18
fact, like, it was actually a
52:21
really positive conversation
52:21
that continued on for a long
52:24
time after this.
52:25
It did continue on
52:27
and it kept going. And
52:27
Ms. What happened? Like, so we
52:30
kept recording, and we were
52:30
drinking more? And what
52:33
happened? Like towards the end?
52:33
Yeah. So
52:37
I thought it would be
52:37
fun for us all to partake in a
52:41
team building exercise of having
52:41
a circle jerk. Like, yeah, that
52:46
would be a really good way for
52:46
us all to move past any sort of
52:51
boundaries that had come between
52:51
us. And I don't think I had
52:56
everyone's buy in.
52:58
Well, it was a little
52:58
First of all, I was blackouts. I
53:00
didn't know how to get hired at that point. I mean, to be honest with you, 36 blackout like it's
53:02
not happening.
53:05
Yeah, but you know
53:05
what? I was accepting of a hard
53:07
penis, a flaccid penis. I
53:09
am not about to flash.
53:09
No, I mean, that's just it was
53:14
just a photo. Well, so yeah, so
53:14
so miss his main line was I
53:20
think we really need to do like
53:20
a corporate retreat kind of
53:22
jerk. And I was like, What like,
53:22
I
53:25
don't even remember. I
53:25
thought you all this time had
53:29
just been like saying that as a funny
53:31
Oh, no, no, you legit
53:31
quote unquote, retreat.
53:34
Okay, so we got
53:37
like, your job. I could
53:37
chop probably I probably
53:39
wouldn't get full but like, I
53:39
was ready to try. Jim was ready.
53:43
college try. I felt
53:45
like kids were pressuring
53:45
me like that was like the joke.
53:51
pitch. Okay, God, I
53:51
will take full responsibility
53:56
for applying the pressure. I
53:56
absolutely was all up in
54:00
everyone's face trying to get
54:00
him to whip out their pie. And
54:03
clearly it was not well
54:03
received. And that's okay. You
54:06
win some you lose some. Yeah,
54:06
not everything can be my
54:09
corporate retreat. It's okay. I
54:09
know I love
54:11
you start making these
54:11
like all male bonding retreats
54:14
and like sell them to like
54:14
companies like come out to the
54:17
Central Park and we're gonna all
54:17
spread eagle onto the grass and
54:21
have a jerk just in public.
54:23
Yeah. And But yeah, I
54:23
thought that would be a fun
54:27
thing for us to do. I fully
54:27
intended on coming right in
54:30
front of both of you on this
54:30
webcam.
54:33
How you would have felt if you really did that, though. like would you be
54:36
up and be like, but that would have been like, whatever. Yeah. Like I like I
54:38
know you guys are well aware of
54:42
like, how I do like to do sex in
54:42
public, so I probably wouldn't
54:46
have actually given two shots
54:46
and I would have had it later.
54:51
Well, somehow, after you
54:51
flashed your cock mez which
54:54
we're gonna met, and I guess
54:54
Jim's Wellesley did too. I
54:56
didn't see it. I decided to feel
54:56
I felt a little Guilty. So
55:01
for that, what's the
55:01
point? That was the purpose?
55:04
So in a full rage
55:04
blackout, I was like, I have
55:08
dick pics on the internet. And I
55:08
told Jim then decided to have my
55:12
cock on the screen and then I
55:12
sent me a picture
55:14
and what via email,
55:17
and I sent it into the group chat two
55:19
via Gmail, that's
55:19
entitled ruing dick.
55:23
He just sent it. I've watched you send the email, I was like, why are you sending an
55:25
email, you can send a text
55:27
message while he puts
55:28
on his glasses. He's
55:29
like, email. My fucking talk and
55:33
then so then Jim found like,
55:34
attach image like
55:34
that's what you were doing. So
55:37
I didn't realize that I
55:37
like really did that until the
55:39
next day. And I was like, Oh,
55:39
fuck. And then Jim was like,
55:42
showing like, he quoted text
55:42
from 3am. He was like reading
55:46
like my old like, I'm a bear and
55:46
did a East queens that got so
55:51
pissed at him when he advertised
55:51
his podcast on that website
55:54
after like seven years of not
55:54
posting, okay, or queens were
55:57
pissed
55:58
not to continue to
55:58
derail this episode. That's just
56:01
Can we just chalk this episode
56:01
up to being complete? ass? Fine.
56:06
What was that? The people being
56:06
mad at you on Reddit? I missed
56:11
that entire thing. So
56:13
basically, Bobby came back
56:13
and was like, Okay, guys, I
56:16
really found myself on this
56:16
website. I appreciated all the
56:18
help you gave me the advice. And
56:18
so I just wanted to let you know
56:21
that I now have a podcast. It's
56:21
called She's Not Doing So Well
56:24
click the link. And I was like,
56:24
Huh, I haven't been here for
56:29
seven years and haven't posted
56:29
in that time. And now you come
56:32
on here for clickbait.
56:35
Yeah, and then they can.
56:35
Then some guys were like, it's
56:38
fine. Like Leave him alone to do
56:38
that. And then other guys were
56:41
like, it's not right. But nice
56:41
caulk. He posted cockpits back
56:45
in the day. I'm like, Oh, my
56:45
God, like the past really can
56:49
get you on the internet. So
56:49
fuck, to be honest, lucky. Yeah.
56:54
That's why we had to
56:54
stop abruptly.
56:57
Listen, things got weird.
56:57
Things got wacky things were
56:59
fine. Things got funky.
57:01
But we did end on
57:01
before the circle jerk at
57:05
relatively serious note.
57:07
Did we did I think it was
57:07
it was needed.
57:10
I think it was needed.
57:10
It was like a little existential
57:14
discussion that we all had. And
57:14
it's not necessarily even about
57:19
the podcast. It's just how do
57:19
you view your time on earth and
57:25
the time thereafter, and a lot
57:25
of people have a lot of varying
57:29
opinions on it. So I love that
57:29
we were able to unpack a couple.
57:32
It's okay to be unclear as to
57:32
what you think your life means.
57:37
Because clearly three people who
57:37
are a lot in a lot of ways alike
57:42
have starkly different views on
57:42
what their life means and what
57:48
they're here for. So it's okay
57:48
to have even an internal battle
57:52
about it. Because it does change
57:52
for you even all the time. One
57:58
day, you could feel some way one
57:58
day you can filter for why one
58:03
hour you can feel some way one
58:03
hour you feel that way. And
58:06
that's just part of being a
58:06
human being.
58:09
Being a frickin being a human being.
58:12
You know,
58:13
I like beings. A human
58:13
being.
58:18
I like beans.
58:20
How do you want us to end the show? I want you to end us on a note.
58:23
Yeah, Jim, take us out.
58:25
My mind is blank right now.
58:29
Which that's acceptable.
58:31
We'll fill it with something.
58:32
Do you want us to fill your mind?
58:35
Thinking back over the
58:35
entire episode? What is your
58:39
parting thought?
58:41
Thinking about the episode,
58:41
one thing that really stood out
58:44
to me. Besides, Bobby needs a
58:44
bigger fridge in the little
58:50
office to hold more beer. I
58:50
would say don't let your friends
58:55
look at your messages with other
58:55
people because it only causes
58:59
drama.
59:01
I actually would fully
59:01
agree. See, you had something in
59:09
your mind.
59:10
Wow. Yeah, I agree. And
59:10
I also
59:13
like to throw in I'm also
59:13
if you get a friend's dick pic,
59:17
maybe just keep it to yourself.
59:20
Unless you want to share it
59:20
with a very close friend who
59:22
should be able to see it. I sent
59:22
it to everyone I know.
59:31
No, you did not. Oh my
59:31
god, he probably seems like
59:35
I did not. I only sent it
59:35
to Dave.
59:38
Okay, well, whatever. I
59:38
don't even care to be honest.
59:41
Hopefully you enjoy the
59:41
inauguration today or you've
59:44
watched it or your while you
59:44
listen to our very educational
59:49
hopefully
59:49
there wasn't a bomb as
59:49
predicted by the beginning of
59:52
the episode. I'm seriously
59:52
concerned but that's fine.
59:58
I know. I'm actually
59:58
really concerned too, but also
1:00:00
there is a lot of security.
1:00:00
There is what I mean that's
1:00:04
true. There's also a lot of
1:00:04
fuckin hell jack. So
1:00:08
they're also like current
1:00:08
Lee employed firemen and cops
1:00:12
who were in the riots. Yeah, at
1:00:12
the Capitol. So that's what I'm
1:00:16
worried about.
1:00:18
This is a disaster. This
1:00:18
episode is a disaster.
1:00:23
That's fine.
1:00:24
We just need you know
1:00:24
what, this episode where I even
1:00:27
tried to salvage it. No, it just
1:00:27
stuck.
1:00:30
And that's okay. It's
1:00:30
just we just hope you find
1:00:32
something out of it. And we'll
1:00:32
be back next week with a way
1:00:35
better representation. stronger
1:00:35
than ever going to have a
1:00:39
retreat this week. And we're
1:00:39
gonna bond jerky. And after all,
1:00:44
yeah. Make sure you subscribe. And
1:00:50
actually, if you don't want to
1:00:53
subscribe, that's fine. But share with your friends. I'd rather you do that. Just share
1:00:55
us with your friends. Anything
1:00:59
else?
1:01:00
Yes. You know, just share.
1:01:01
No, just change the
1:01:01
password on your Instagram page.
1:01:04
Yeah. This fucking guy
1:01:04
and he has no self control
1:01:09
nearly. Well, hey, Joe. This has
1:01:09
been another episode of She's
1:01:14
Not Doing So. Well. I'm Bobby.
1:01:17
I'm Jim.
1:01:19
Thank you so much for
1:01:19
joining us and we'll see you
1:01:22
next week. Bye.
1:01:26
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1:01:36
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