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Oh, by the a whole for refusing to
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let my neighbor's kid play with my daughter.
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Weird choice of words. Yes, this comes from
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low professional. Eighty two, Forty Four. Who says?
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My daughter has been friends with the daughter
0:11
of a coworker of mine since pre nursery.
0:13
Fine as long as the other kids around
0:16
the same age and not forty five. Direct.
0:20
Ah, but they were in the same playgroup,
0:22
same nursery and are now in the same
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primary school has Save it, Get Or This
0:26
girl has developmental issues and can't interact with
0:28
others her age. She clings to my daughter
0:30
and won't let her play with other children.
0:32
He has bitten and throw things that my
0:34
daughter in the past when she doesn't get
0:36
her full attention. The. School is trying to
0:39
set up a plan for but in the
0:41
meantime he has to attend regular school with
0:43
no assistant to give her the help she
0:45
needs as the previous assistant laughed. My.
0:49
Coworker lives on the same street as me and is
0:51
it a senior role? Which. Is why
0:53
I have generally try to make excuses
0:55
for her daughter to not come to
0:57
our place because she's a biter. Cause
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she's a biter. She's throwing thing we
1:01
got a biter, got a biter. I
1:04
have outright lied on a few occasions
1:06
saying that my daughter's ill and I
1:08
found out yesterday that she has kept
1:10
a log of all the times I
1:12
refuse to have her daughter over at
1:14
my play. That's crazy. That. It
1:17
reminds me of like that law that one
1:19
guy captive every time his wife rejected him
1:21
first. Oh.
1:23
I forgot to. I forgot about that.
1:25
Yeah that yeah I did they that
1:28
that this is feels like. Save.
1:30
Same energy. Also, it sucks because this
1:32
isn't just a neighbor. this is a
1:34
senior ranking official at. Your. Company
1:36
Now. So. I will
1:39
have fires you'd your current, don't hang
1:41
out with my daughter, your careers potentially
1:43
all the Lord Brahma like for real.
1:45
Oh if with his daughter grows up
1:47
it's like a like and the truth
1:49
comes out. As I got,
1:51
we only hang out with you because
1:53
your dad pays my dad. Ouch.
1:56
Which. You. Know. Teenage.
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Girl years. That could
2:00
be good enough for a world her. I could be
2:02
going world of her. So. She
2:05
came by knocking on my door to drop
2:07
her off after a few hours as she
2:09
had heard from her daughter that my daughter
2:11
was having a get together with her friends.
2:14
Morocco, And
2:16
you're not Vidal. Oh
2:19
wow. I tried
2:21
to nicely deny that telling her my
2:23
daughter was feeling poorly What? she actually
2:26
pulled a log saying she knew which
2:28
girl, that which girls had entered my
2:30
home and to let her daughter. I.
2:33
Was mad at that is
2:35
absolutely insane violation I feel
2:37
that could potentially. Or
2:39
is a fireball? but it's weird. Yeah, do
2:42
you do reports as the Hr. Who.
2:44
Yeah that feeling two and a know too
2:46
much or too much to like yeah my
2:48
face let's let's see maybe they're maybe was
2:50
even more like line crossing that we can
2:53
easier on. I was mad at her so
2:55
I lost her out and told her they
2:57
wouldn't be playing. Any. She
2:59
was talking through the door demanding to know
3:01
why I wouldn't let her play with her
3:03
best friend. I. Told her I
3:05
understood her desperation but that due to
3:07
pass incidence I thought it was no
3:09
longer safe for them to share the
3:12
same space and I would let the
3:14
school now that I was not okay
3:16
with them always pairing them up on
3:18
projects as my daughter has always been
3:20
the nice girl and done what the
3:22
teachers had holds or and made their
3:24
lives easier. By. Doing work for them,
3:27
So I guess maybe she's
3:29
also. The maybe they're a little
3:31
older than I thought I guess primary
3:33
school solo and like early elementary school
3:35
where he be in are little obstacle
3:37
may be. also the ah. The
3:40
the neighbor's daughter is like having her
3:42
do her school work and like other
3:44
things. it is generally way cause we
3:46
know the neighbor's daughter has had developmental
3:48
issues so maybe it's not keeping up
3:50
with all glassware and me Basically it's
3:52
like a big burden on oh peace
3:54
daughter Lp is I I kind of
3:56
behavior do in the work for to
3:58
you could excel the ladies the years
4:00
I the you make you make a
4:02
point hard argue they are. You make
4:04
a point aren't aren't as I go
4:06
running with sandbags so fast we take
4:08
those things off. That is true and
4:10
this daughter is like one bag and
4:12
Sam back. I understand that she was
4:14
angry and perhaps exhausted. Greer exhaustion is
4:16
a real thing but I felt in
4:18
that moment that watching her a few
4:20
times a week for years and making
4:22
my under age daughter her caretaker to
4:24
be highly unfair. My. Coworker as
4:26
two adult children that live close by
4:28
and she and she has children that
4:30
are older than this girl from her
4:33
second husband she lives with. Why can't
4:35
she arranged between them or find her
4:37
a support group? To this? she made
4:39
a mask threat that she's good friends
4:41
with. My. Senior Manager
4:44
Speak to your manager
4:46
she's I like spread
4:48
work friends. Who. They worked
4:50
at the same place so I mean
4:52
goes go speak to the man's or
4:54
see what happens. Go since
4:57
I feel like oh pleases me to the
4:59
manager. I think I think so. I am.
5:01
Now. We have both like
5:03
that the. The. Issue with
5:06
their children and a. The.
5:08
Rats and get some. Who gets him read
5:10
receipts? Get some, Get some recedes, Get some
5:12
he them some of this weird behavior caught
5:14
on tape. See you know. You.
5:16
Can go to the manager be like. I.
5:19
Don't like what's happening Yeah I would go
5:21
like get the door camera like get a
5:23
door camera to record our have sure and
5:26
then bring that may be to hr. Ooops
5:28
a manager and I read all that stuff. I
5:30
do regret it a little as this girl has
5:33
no other friends. Yeah that's the part of sucks
5:35
here is is like this poor girl. She's.
5:38
Probably going through a hard time. And.
5:42
But Opie is like after years of the
5:44
burden kind of being placed on us it's
5:46
not our responsibility wish I years or years
5:48
which I do think is ultimately to it's
5:51
just kind of like it. If it sucks
5:53
for everyone it's subtle with the i think
5:55
it sucks even more after you is our
5:57
see sucks more that Opie was the. The
6:00
sky. Initially because now.
6:03
This. The Fisher, who
6:05
is a senior person's
6:07
daughter is attached. Dopey.
6:10
Daughter A any been he's been taken. it
6:12
really took advantage of an eye on to
6:14
present the days my daughter is. Nine schools
6:16
do to actual illness is no into play
6:19
with and often after an illness or absence
6:21
her teachers have told her that they are
6:23
glad she's back to play with this girl.
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And gentlemen, we. have a flurry
8:02
of relevant comments to read, but
8:04
before we do that, Sam,
8:07
we've kind of already hinted at this, but I'm
8:10
curious what you and everyone in the comments have to
8:12
suggest to OP. Is
8:14
OP the a-hole? Yes,
8:16
A is OP the a-hole, and
8:19
two, your suggestion as of right
8:21
now. My first question is, has
8:23
the daughter expressed that
8:26
she's uncomfortable with the friendship? That's
8:29
a good question. Because if
8:32
they're just hanging out and
8:34
the daughter hasn't said anything, and
8:38
this kid isn't just an occasional
8:40
biter, like
8:42
maybe for some people getting bitten isn't a
8:44
big thing. Yeah, no, I
8:46
mean, maybe some people even like biting. I think
8:48
it's a great point that he should sit down
8:50
with his daughter and be like, hey, are
8:53
you, yeah, like, oh, how was
8:56
the play date and kind of just try to
8:58
really like dig in and see how his daughter
9:00
actually, because maybe also I think the other issue
9:02
could be that she's too nice to say anything
9:04
bad and she's like a kid. It
9:06
could be she's too nice or it could be
9:08
maybe she genuinely likes hanging
9:11
out with this person and OP
9:13
is like taking that away. That
9:17
is such a great point. I
9:20
don't think I heard anything in this story
9:22
referencing what the daughter actually
9:24
felt. I 100% agree. And
9:27
I think that the OP needs to
9:29
like sit down multiple times because I
9:31
imagine it might take some, some
9:34
like patience and coaxing to get
9:37
how the daughter truly feels. But
9:40
it is whack for the
9:42
work friend of senior work person
9:45
to keep a log every time.
9:47
Yeah, they are doing way too
9:49
much and they like to OP's point and is
9:51
like empathetic, like, hey, they're probably desperate because it's
9:53
like, no one else will play with her. No
9:55
one else will play with her. No one else.
9:58
No One else has given her the time of day. The
10:00
assistant that was are there to help
10:02
is now gone to they have the
10:04
several months the gap where there's like.
10:06
No. One like really trained it
10:09
sounds like to help their daughter.
10:11
So like I, I very much
10:13
empathize with their situation and that
10:15
they are probably like really wanting.
10:18
Someone. To be there to support
10:20
their daughter? Yeah, but that also. The.
10:22
Also the same time doesn't mean that
10:25
ah oh oh pieces of it will
10:27
be daughter has to be saddled with
10:29
that the as possibility I think i
10:31
the other parent is the a whole.
10:34
For the list. Yeah, I
10:36
think oh pc a whole if they have
10:38
a good source of their own daughter about
10:40
the relationships. I've
10:42
only their of the daughters the whole because
10:44
get them, they're just been adorable and been
10:46
adorable. Give my possibly biting maybe maybe the
10:49
biting one is a little that the a
10:51
who for biting my honestly like depending on
10:53
the set we don't know the full scope
10:55
of the situation but. I.
10:57
Think to when or is it ok to bite another person?
11:00
When. They ask. Us. To. Thank.
11:03
You rarely fell. Mcdonalds you Dirty Dogs was
11:05
going to do a going to number one
11:07
document everything that happened, how she's keeping a
11:09
log what the after she is off the
11:11
rails, her threat and send it to each
11:13
are a cover your ass. Make sure you
11:15
include everything can think of. Keeping a black
11:17
and white and professional aka not emotional. Great
11:19
advice As for the school, call them and
11:21
tell them exactly what you told her that
11:23
at that's also a great point at the
11:25
school involved is not fair to your daughter
11:28
that she's Boyd into the does in his
11:30
position at all. She must be dreading seeing
11:32
this girl at this point. Opie
11:34
Response: The two main teachers they
11:36
have in her class praise my
11:38
daughter and keep putting her in
11:40
a position of carer. I.
11:43
Intend to talk to someone higher up as I
11:45
think it's about time she gets her own life
11:47
and they find someone with the my skills. look
11:49
after that girl. Agreed
11:51
Agreed: isolate those developmental
11:54
issues. Yes, Totally oleander
11:56
sense. I. Was your daughter that was
11:58
forced to partner up and play with the kid
12:00
for a year before I finally broke down to
12:02
my mom about how miserable I was. The.
12:05
Teacher didn't tell my mom I was being
12:07
used as an emotional support toy. My God
12:09
it's fun with this guy that are for
12:11
that kid and pushed back while my mom
12:13
put an end to it. It was hell
12:15
for me. Please do advocate for your daughter
12:17
with her school. You're doing the right things.
12:20
the mother being in a senior role at
12:22
your work. I would contact Hr if I
12:24
were you to Not a whole teachers are
12:26
harming your kid by allowing this and frankly
12:28
taking a lazy option over getting super in
12:30
place to help the other child and the
12:32
other mother is stalking a kid. That.
12:34
Is not okay. Opie replies i think
12:36
I have let it go on. Board
12:39
Bar. Too long did you ever forgive
12:41
your parents for not noticing the commenter
12:43
to? oh absolutely especially once they realize
12:45
they acted and you can act To
12:47
Opie, Thank you! I have already had
12:50
a conversation with her yesterday. I think
12:52
I need of I think I need
12:54
to have a follow conversation with her
12:56
and apologize again for not noticing her
12:58
discomfort earlier and putting a stop to
13:00
this. I still feel for my coworkers
13:02
child but need to prioritize my own.
13:05
The. Maybe were reading a little bit between the lines
13:07
with maybe there was some sort of. Communication
13:09
with the daughter. To get a
13:11
sense of how the solar is there anything we read of the
13:13
being. Nothing in what was
13:15
it? I
13:17
think I need it.o these as I think I need
13:20
to have a follow up conversation with her. Which.
13:22
Implies that there is was a congress, has some
13:24
sort of communication that seems that least. Someone
13:27
shares their own child. Similar
13:29
experience. Become. To says thank
13:32
you for sharing this. My daughter cried
13:34
last night in my arms and told
13:36
me how stressing it was for her
13:39
to hang out with only this girl.
13:41
Okay, okay so it sounds like Obe
13:43
actually does know their daughter and does
13:45
know that their daughter is not having
13:48
a tough yes this is a nother
13:50
Comments: the someone who's going through
13:52
a very close injury okay isis is not
13:54
as is not of yes yes ah but
13:56
she says that she has had a lot
13:58
of headaches and as them as what
14:01
I would know to be tension headaches. No
14:03
child her age should have tension headaches. That
14:05
is true. She told
14:07
me that most days she doesn't look forward
14:09
to going to school now and I understand
14:11
why her performance has dipped lately. She also
14:13
told me which teacher always pairs her up
14:16
with this girl. I am
14:18
blessed to have a well-behaved girl that cares
14:20
about others but she thought wrongly it was
14:22
her responsibility to look after this girl and
14:24
felt guilty for
14:26
having other friends. Ouch. I
14:29
wished I had noticed it before and put
14:31
a stop to it earlier. And
14:33
there's a note there was no
14:35
consensus on if
14:38
OP was the a-hole or not but the
14:41
comments generally said not the a-hole.
14:43
Does the comments agree with us
14:45
generally? Generally, generally that is
14:47
what it seems. But the robots
14:49
might not. Exactly. But,
14:52
John, you think this play date
14:54
is freaking over? It's not. You're
14:57
wrong! I'm wrong. We have so
14:59
much more. So
15:01
let's get into it. I'm ready. On to the
15:03
update which is the very next day. Whoa! I
15:06
know. I had a
15:08
meeting today with a school because I had to stay
15:11
behind for my sick child and
15:13
phoned the principal directly in the morning to get to
15:15
talk to him for an urgent matter. Your kid is
15:17
sick a lot. That is true. Like
15:20
better help. Between the fake sickness and the real
15:22
sickness and she'd have sick too much. How is
15:24
this going to have any time for school? Maybe
15:27
the boss person was just like,
15:29
oh I just want to keep
15:31
track of your kids health for
15:34
you. Yeah, like I'm concerned that you're... I'm concerned.
15:36
Your kids are not doing so great. The
15:38
principal asked me to come in for an informal
15:40
chat after school. I haven't had
15:42
a lot to do with him in the past but
15:44
he seemed civil back when we first enrolled our daughter
15:46
and he came to greet the class. He
15:49
invited her teachers too. After hearing out
15:51
my side and what had happened he
15:53
listened to the teachers. They Said
15:56
they understood that my daughter was overwhelmed but
15:58
thought it would be bullying. If
16:00
she refused to work with her. Both.
16:03
That bullying if someone is want to hang out
16:05
with you. Yeah. I I call
16:07
the social higher used to it.
16:09
I think that they're v at
16:11
the bottom to get used to
16:13
eating us. I. Think this is
16:16
the school. Swiping all
16:18
of the responsibility on the
16:20
child's. Stereo. And
16:22
a widow wanna. Give. Any aid
16:24
to this kid that obviously needs it
16:27
had. We don't want to get labeled
16:29
as. Bullying. So.
16:31
Let's just get a child
16:34
labor. And
16:40
like this this more girls like education
16:42
like maybe her greatest are slipping like
16:45
a commenters. Who knows, What?
16:47
Other not a balance. It. Has
16:49
found sense of amp are you
16:52
for would you have your child
16:54
to same same themes into the
16:57
into the real life immersion parenting
16:59
yeah he add. Your. Child instantly
17:01
has a child's like you give him like a
17:03
little like back in the old days For the
17:06
my dad was one to ten. You. Think
17:08
after for. The
17:11
parents are raising those kids Know it's
17:13
kids raising. that's that's true. It's kids.
17:15
Raising kids is raising kids and they
17:17
all you have enough kids. The kids
17:19
raised themselves. Food Ah good enough job
17:21
with the first one trickle down apparent
17:23
to upon him as older and I
17:26
thought of as children. did my brothers
17:28
do not beliefs instruments. Don't
17:30
know how play instruments. You know how to play instruments
17:32
because you. Know. Because me, but
17:34
it's my parenting trickle down. What
17:37
exactly? Would. have just said i
17:39
try to apply it to my own
17:41
lives didn't make sense of than a
17:43
year on it they make sense whatsoever
17:45
know what he did big sadness but
17:47
i just read about my larger the
17:49
didn't mixes these did your parents teach
17:51
you something that you'd taught you're you're
17:53
younger siblings yes that it did make
17:55
a you go because i'd use a
17:57
bad example knows what's up our i
17:59
ever Stop the pain and get back to the story,
18:01
okay? Stop the cycle. They
18:03
thought it would be bullying if she refused
18:06
to work with her, saying that they rather
18:08
my daughter does her best to include her
18:10
inactivity at school and then gets free time
18:12
from her when she goes home. Yeah, like
18:15
at nine to five. All right. Yeah,
18:18
when she glacks off, she's good to go. Your
18:20
time is your own after 5 p.m. Dude,
18:22
oh my God. But when you're here, you're
18:24
on the clock. You punch in, you punch
18:27
out. Oh, in other
18:29
words, I didn't even catch this, but in other
18:31
words, they wanted to put the blame on me
18:33
for allowing the other girl into our home
18:36
while wanting to continue to use my
18:39
daughter as her assistant. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
18:41
yeah. You put her on
18:43
the clock after school. Yeah, she's like, we
18:45
let her go. We give her
18:47
off time and then you let the kid in again and
18:50
made her go over time. Over
18:52
time, yeah. Over time, wow. So
18:54
you're the ADO. Ooh, wow, dude,
18:56
3D chess, 4D chess. So
18:58
they tried to praise her for her efforts to
19:01
include and guide this other girl. It got on
19:03
my nerves and I told them in no uncertain
19:05
terms that my daughter was not to be expected
19:07
to do their jobs for them. Luckily,
19:09
the principal intervened and agreed with me that
19:12
they needed another plan for this girl. Yes,
19:14
they need to hire this other person, honestly.
19:16
That's when they need to prioritize. Before leaving.
19:21
Paid child labor, here we go. That's even better. Before
19:24
leaving, I told them that my solicitor would
19:26
send them a letter on what had happened
19:28
and what had been discussed and in the
19:30
future to not pair her up with this
19:33
girl. I much rather they move
19:35
this girl out of the class than my
19:37
daughter has, oh, Opie does wanna fire this
19:39
girl. Opie
19:42
wants the problem girl to
19:44
be removed from the classroom. Opie would
19:47
prefer that she is out
19:49
of the classroom over
19:52
Opie's daughter being the one that is like her
19:54
quote unquote caretaker. Well,
19:56
yeah, duh. Or quote unquote assistance. Yeah,
19:58
she doesn't care about this. I Asked
20:02
me a question I answer like yeah,
20:04
ah you freaking idiot. I'm like you
20:07
asked me the question Die
20:11
to you Now
20:24
apologize Hey
20:30
I Rebuke
20:36
your candy gift I
20:50
Said oh wow you just have to give me a
20:52
candy then he hands it to me. I Rebuke
20:56
your candy I Are
21:01
you no no yeah, right
21:03
dude that was so for you Yeah, why
21:05
would it be for me because you picked
21:07
it up on your way
21:09
you and only if I Pick
21:12
up flowers for my girlfriend on my way to
21:14
see her. No, is that
21:16
the worst thing for him? This is that
21:18
for me. I am being so gas lamps right now He
21:22
picked you up in Santa Flower
21:24
Riley Riley tell me I think you up flowers
21:26
and you just threw it in my face I've
21:29
kind of in the middle, but we're not you
21:31
guys you have her because I I literally went
21:33
down pick up candy and said for You it
21:35
was a little selfish, but then he called you
21:37
out on it. Then you said for you Because
21:40
I didn't have time to give it to him. I
21:42
don't know. I'm stopping there. It's up in
21:44
the air What do you guys see? What did you
21:46
guys see put a pole in the jet makes for
21:48
a great moment though? I don't even want it's candy
21:52
Now you don't for him Riley
21:55
How many times we've been seeing him popping the
21:57
candies that during his story after a story? You
22:01
have been doing it a few times. After or before
22:03
totally. I agree. After
22:05
or before. I've seen three today. Which makes sense, they're great candies.
22:08
This is for you. I will take it. Only
22:11
because I like the games so much. And I
22:13
knew that, which is why on my way to give you
22:15
a hug, I did a second
22:17
nice thing. I
22:19
stacked my nicenessness. Anyway,
22:22
the point is, I
22:25
can pick it up right here. I
22:27
forgive you. I forgive you. Would you start
22:29
stepping over again? If
22:31
anything, I forgive you. Oh,
22:36
baby. Look. Well,
22:39
now they're moved. Now actually,
22:41
now we have no way of knowing
22:43
whether or not you were within kdvc distance or
22:46
not. How do you think I tore it
22:48
and picked it up in the first place? How
22:51
do you think I did? How do you think I picked
22:53
it up? I moved out because
22:55
they were in reach. I think they were in the same
22:57
place they were in the beginning. Not
23:00
right now, obviously. So what you're saying, what you're saying,
23:02
this is what you're saying. By
23:05
me going up and giving you a hug and
23:07
then on my way getting
23:09
a lolly. That
23:12
was for me, even though I could
23:15
have gotten it right here. Yes. That's
23:17
what I'm saying. How? How
23:19
would that make sense? Because you're a brainer. How
23:21
would that make sense? As you were standing up, you were like, oh, I
23:24
should get one of these. You grabbed it and
23:26
you're like, damn it. Why did I grab it now? Instead
23:29
of grabbing it later. I could have grabbed it anytime.
23:32
And then you were like, all
23:34
you said is a peace offering. Boom.
23:36
Here you go. Peace. Peace
23:40
be upon you. Peace. We'll
23:42
go to you. I think that's
23:44
what happened. You are bastardizing a moment
23:49
of pure beauty. A moment we
23:51
could have shared. Now you're
23:53
eating the candy. Oh my gosh. I was
23:56
eating it while we were finishing our great banter moment. Take
23:59
another. Oh my
24:01
watch I will take another anyways anyways
24:03
I much rather they move this girl
24:05
out of the class than my daughter
24:07
as She made a few
24:09
friends in this class I also told them
24:11
that I was taking this issue to HR
24:14
as it was a combined issue in
24:16
both the public and private sphere Oh,
24:18
that's every sphere dude hitting all the
24:20
spheres here's like dude spheres these little
24:22
candies no I
24:25
text your mother and she takes me back She
24:29
stupidly confirmed the log and other
24:31
things including wanting to encourage my
24:33
daughter to hang with hers. Oh
24:37
Caught in 4k It
24:42
should be smooth sailing with HR
24:45
here we go Solicitor
24:47
was contacted before I went to the
24:49
school So let's sitter advised to write
24:51
a letter to the school as someone
24:53
else had advised in terms of my
24:55
child being bullied Into being
24:57
a carrier a letter was
24:59
drafted for HR 2 and the conversation
25:01
I had overtax with her mother for
25:03
evidence. I will be giving it
25:05
to HR Monday morning Dude, this is
25:08
open shut case open and
25:10
shut ankle and short Boom
25:12
I also sent my senior manager a heads up
25:14
about what was happening in case she tried to
25:17
shield for her friend Cuz she could go to
25:19
the senior manager and be like, oh Opie
25:21
so terrible and blah blah blah blah blah She's
25:24
about to tell you a lie Mentioned
25:27
solicitor and how the case was
25:29
going to progress with the school
25:31
admin. She seemed to come across
25:33
supportive I have told my daughter
25:35
to let the teacher know loud and clear that
25:37
she won't work with this girl if they pair
25:40
her up And she report back to me every
25:42
time they try to do it we
25:44
will see what comes of it now and if
25:47
the school will keep up their end of The
25:50
bargain I have a conspiracy
25:52
theory. What is your conspiracy theory?
25:55
Is it that a simple
25:57
Pierce offering was used as
25:59
a mean? of self-aggrandizement and
26:01
pleasure? No, I think that...
26:03
Let me... I'll use a
26:05
physical example. A
26:07
line was crossed not only in the
26:09
private sphere, but also in
26:11
the public sphere. Two
26:13
spheres that have been crossed. But
26:16
what about the public-private sphere? I
26:19
forgot about that one. The privately public sphere. That
26:22
is one that I did not consider. Okay, it
26:24
probably doesn't matter, so we should just get rid
26:26
of it. I think that
26:28
the neighbor is going
26:30
to get fired from the job
26:33
and take out revenge on OP
26:35
and try to make OP's life
26:39
a living hell. How though? I
26:42
think... I hypothesize,
26:45
maybe they start going to like the HOA or
26:48
like parking their car in front of
26:50
their driveway or rolling their trash in
26:52
at night after they roll it out.
26:54
I don't know, like some means of
26:56
like advanced torture and then they're like...
26:59
Advanced torture. Advanced torture. This is what
27:01
they use in Guantanamo Bay. Exactly. Not
27:03
the trash cans going in and out
27:05
again. And they tell OP. They
27:08
tell OP, right? If you ever
27:10
want your trash cans to be left at peace again,
27:13
you march into that school in that
27:15
office and you tell them, I
27:18
was running a fake
27:20
campaign against my neighbor and you should
27:23
have the daughter back. You should hire
27:25
the neighbor back and
27:28
bring everything back as it were. I
27:31
honestly have a solution
27:33
for the problem,
27:35
daughter and the parent. Just
27:37
pay an actor to be your daughter's friend. Here
27:41
we go. Here we go. The
27:44
family that needs the most money in
27:47
the class, pay their
27:49
family to be your
27:51
daughter's friend. Then you're helping a family
27:54
and your daughter gets a friend. Win-win. I
27:57
might be able to get behind this idea. The
28:02
problem is if the daughter finds
28:04
out that the
28:07
kid was literally paid to be their friends. But
28:10
this is maybe a bad question. Yes. How
28:14
challenged is this daughter? Because
28:18
we don't know. Depending
28:20
on the amount of challenge, maybe it
28:23
would not be a thing that would be
28:25
understood. This
28:28
girl has developed mental
28:31
issues and can't interact with others
28:33
her age. She clings to
28:35
my daughter and won't let her play with
28:37
other children. She has bitten and thrown things
28:39
at my daughter in the past when she
28:42
doesn't get her full attention. Alright, let me
28:44
ask you this. Yes. I'm afraid
28:46
of this kid. I'm as terrified. You're in
28:48
middle school. Yes. Right.
28:52
How much would someone have to pay you? Oh, God. To
28:56
be friends with someone that bit you like once a
28:58
week. Yeah,
29:00
that wouldn't be very fun. Anywhere
29:02
except your private parts.
29:06
Uh... It doesn't draw
29:08
blood, but leave some work. If
29:11
we're talking, can we make this scenario, they just bite
29:13
me and that's it? They bite
29:15
you like once a week. Yeah. Yeah,
29:17
and you're not cool. You're weird. Well,
29:20
now I'm thrilled. Um...
29:24
Do I have to pay
29:26
him? Yeah, right. Yeah, whoa, geez, what
29:28
a deal. Okay, so, alright. The weirdest
29:30
kid in school. Yeah. They
29:32
bite you once a week. How
29:35
much... You're in middle school. I don't want to do this
29:37
exercise. How
29:39
much would you want? I don't know
29:41
if I take the deal. I
29:45
don't know if I take the deal. Young
29:48
entrepreneurial John wearing suits.
29:50
Yeah. In middle school.
29:54
Would... Well, you wore suits in high school and
29:56
middle school. Fair enough. You're point proven, point taken.
29:58
But... Than. You.
30:01
Would not take. A
30:04
about of money. At. Dude, when I
30:06
actually so here's what happened efforts what he
30:08
suggested your. Idea. I was like
30:11
oh that? Actually like maybe. Maybe.
30:13
Just could work with. then when I put myself
30:15
in the scenario I'm like dude this poor kid
30:18
is literally be and then and then there's a
30:20
kid being paid to hang out with them for
30:22
granted I think okay but that but the are
30:24
other opposite is know when hangs out with him.
30:27
Or know and hangs out with her. A. Paid
30:30
friend is better than that. No friends.
30:32
I think these need they just need
30:34
to get. Be. Ah
30:36
the new as they don't know that
30:39
I'll easier to help us are you
30:41
say do now after you know I
30:43
don't use mother had no deal modi
30:45
oh deal or say I'm not rated
30:47
as thousand dollars a week in middle
30:49
school pastor says you're with that take
30:52
as thousand dollar real about the of
30:54
and I know you're younger you wouldn't
30:56
know it's a week they bite once
30:58
a week as yeah I did or
31:00
I know about that. Zeal
31:02
you could do with that kind of money.
31:04
Another revenue can create another revenue stream. Basis
31:08
Tohmatsu Hundred Officers A
31:10
society grows as. He.
31:13
Put as as a d. Seven
31:15
percent easy at all. So you start
31:17
investing in the as it p. In
31:20
middle school when kitty kitty two billion are
31:22
by now though. So how long does this
31:24
last? Added l as long as a kid
31:26
bites which could be forever. Oh
31:28
kids. Did seven
31:30
years, seven years money a time,
31:32
timeout timeout. Some help. If.
31:34
It was that Sally As or
31:37
it's on Seven Thirty Three hundred.
31:40
Sixty. Four say for seven dude
31:42
seven years, I don't know where
31:44
know how bizarre, but I trust
31:47
the blindly every week late dizzy
31:49
of weeks. Though. He thought
31:51
no weeks of urgency to down and see
31:53
what to take a step. I would take
31:55
a thousand whatever numbers you would get a
31:58
year that's a full footing.up for job, pretty
32:00
bit more the middle school do you know
32:02
I? Come on dude. now I'm getting bullied.
32:05
Judge Judge. But get him disaffected morals. That's
32:07
what I'm saying. Is
32:09
just a bar and rather take a
32:11
job and co rise they the help
32:13
of ports I'll that need spreads. Pay.
32:16
Me to hire another versatile for this
32:18
guy who should be not resuscitate him
32:20
Know arsenal I'm a i'm you as
32:22
up for our me as Remember any
32:25
longer I have a child with powdered
32:27
Some would start being a professor or
32:29
they start early start young. Justin.
32:32
Bieber became professionals at like,
32:34
what? fifteen? Oh my gosh
32:36
dude. Okay, Animal
32:38
Control. this paid less
32:41
allows edible to draw
32:43
the line and rose
32:45
by human. Often
32:48
as not even draw blood cells
32:50
about oil was thousand bucks a
32:52
week. That would be
32:54
no feel your ohio, no desire Allies:
32:57
we now live in middle school. You're
32:59
not taking a thousand bucks a week
33:01
of like G. I know what he
33:03
said. he sees coins the to deal
33:05
with that lot of a high dose
33:07
as you could get audited. So really
33:10
good. As big of a Legos but
33:12
I guess he's Gabi. Like.
33:14
Aziz Gabi. It was him. Was
33:17
he deaths? In
33:19
middle school down but we're not met Abbey's
33:21
I would have one friend. So
33:28
because and that the more similar stories
33:30
from parents. This is exactly what
33:32
they said. They said She is kind and
33:34
praised for being understanding and putting up with
33:37
her. They also praised her for helping her
33:39
to learn to read. I know that girl
33:41
is made progress of reading and math because
33:43
her mother mentioned a to yet the teachers
33:45
that people more qualified and paid a teacher
33:48
or avoiding this girl. She has
33:50
been violent on more than one occasion and
33:52
even though we are living in the Greater
33:54
London area, my solicitor said we can move
33:56
on that issue as she is being put
33:58
in danger. To. Source: Me: I'm
34:00
like lawyer in. The. Uk.
34:03
I'm guessing that I think so to avoid
34:05
got rights. Responded to the question why no
34:07
assistance they hadn't This isn't for her but
34:10
she left the job. that is what my
34:12
fact my daughter more I mentioned this in
34:14
the original. Post. The.
34:16
Principal didn't mention that they would look
34:18
for other avenues, but their budget is
34:21
bursting. I know because in the past
34:23
few years the school has suffered a
34:25
bits. The teaching assistant was paid less
34:27
than what a qualified as he and
34:30
would have been, but she left. Verification.
34:33
On timeline, Opie clarifies that the
34:35
event itself happened the week before.
34:37
I'm writing it on Friday and got distracted
34:40
and then ah and finished it then posted
34:42
at. The language used we are in
34:44
the Uk. All. The maybe we
34:46
don't have. we don't have elementary
34:48
schools, we call it primary schools
34:51
and lawyers are solicitors. Ah, or
34:53
Foresters Barristers barristers. Thank you depending
34:55
on what you use them for
34:57
and their qualifications. We have
34:59
some clarification or in the Uk. Ah,
35:02
It seems like they had a person
35:04
but now they're trying to find some
35:06
on the budget. Is your sounds like
35:09
a bug raising? the are saw mob
35:11
an. Suv. Like is
35:13
not my problem around. Like it's not
35:15
my problem you either pay my get
35:18
a thousand dollars a week. Or.
35:20
We're not budget. There. You go. Bring.
35:23
Up the budget or were not budget. Bring
35:25
Up the budget or we're not button think
35:27
so bus. But there's a final. To
35:31
the sock, let's get into it. Let's
35:33
talk about it. Yesterday I had a
35:35
meeting with Hr in the mother of
35:37
the child was called them. We both
35:39
had the option to have someone else
35:41
sit on the meeting for support or
35:43
rap but we both the quite a
35:45
bit raw dog meat or meeting. Risky
35:49
business. Risky move. My manager on the other
35:51
hand was made to sit and. i
35:53
don't think she was very happy about it
35:55
do to her workload h r tried to
35:57
make it comfortable for all but getting a
35:59
solicitor was the best thing I could have
36:01
done. HR made notes and put it on
36:04
official record that despite this taking place outside
36:06
of work, they could and would deal with
36:08
her at work if she tried to leverage
36:10
her, if she tried to
36:12
leverage her friendship over my job security,
36:15
which W move
36:17
for the company. Yeah, I would say
36:19
my manager said she isn't very friendly
36:21
with her outside work, but that she
36:24
would like to keep a good professional
36:26
relationship with her going forward. If she
36:28
remains. She backtracked on the masked threat
36:31
and tried to emotionally manipulate the room
36:33
by bringing up her daughter's struggles.
36:36
HR stated that part of it had nothing
36:38
to do with me or the company and they
36:40
expected her to stay professional at work. They
36:43
advised her to put pressure on the right school
36:45
to provide her and to write, to provide
36:47
her with the right tools to make it
36:49
through. They offered her one week unpaid. Damn,
36:53
to spend time with her daughter if
36:55
she needed it and encouraged her to
36:57
use that week, take her daughter to
36:59
various clubs for children with special needs,
37:01
so she could form bonds with children
37:03
similar to her. What one week unpaid?
37:05
What, what does that do? Just
37:07
give, just give the one week paid. Like,
37:10
yeah, your big company has HR. Come on.
37:13
I was not given an apology by HR,
37:17
but they made her give me a
37:19
written apology and a verbal one, which honestly,
37:21
in my
37:23
opinion, an apology. No, if someone,
37:25
if someone's forced to apologize, it might
37:28
as well. I would, I would rather you not. Yeah.
37:32
Um, my manager said she was happy with my
37:34
work and would continue to support me in her
37:37
capacity as a man. I had
37:39
a phone call from the school this morning. There was
37:41
a small incident between this girl and my
37:43
daughter, but they dealt with it and they,
37:45
and didn't want me to pick up my
37:47
daughter so the other girl could see changes
37:49
happening. For now, that girl won't be in
37:51
class for the rest of the day. And
37:53
at break time, the dinner ladies were making
37:55
sure they were not playing. The
37:58
dinner ladies. ladies
38:00
but the UK version? Very
38:02
true. Good point. My heart hurts for
38:04
this girl because she is basically alone
38:07
now but I have to think of
38:09
my daughter first. If only someone would
38:11
step up if they were being paid
38:13
a hefty sum of a thousand
38:15
dollars a week. Listen if they
38:17
want to offer that fair
38:19
game. So you would take it.
38:22
It's fair game. Why would
38:24
you take it? Is it a thousand too little for
38:26
you? Yeah. No! Mr.
38:28
Richie Richie? No! No!
38:30
Why would you take it then? How about
38:32
some silver coins? Would
38:35
that help? Gold
38:37
to blue. Darn it. Well now
38:39
you're talking. That might get
38:42
me out of the coal mines. I can
38:44
breathe my lungs again! The school has a
38:46
schedule that my husband and I and her
38:48
parents for a meeting together with the principal,
38:50
my solicitor, the lawyer, their teachers, and
38:52
a school rep. You know what I
38:55
just love about this? What? Unlike
38:57
you this joke never gets old. You
39:02
know what? I'll give respect for respect to the
39:04
dude. That was good. That was good. Dude
39:08
the day Riley turns
39:11
27 I am
39:13
raining hell down
39:15
on him. But you'll be like 103
39:17
by the way. His life will be
39:19
torture. His life will be
39:22
torture dude. His life will be terrible.
39:26
Just you wait buddy. We will see how
39:28
quickly things change as they are technically still
39:30
in the same class. Thank
39:32
you to all that shared your own
39:34
similar experiences and helping me navigate this.
39:36
I hope that things will
39:38
be better going forward. Dude once you guys
39:41
get in a laughing pit you
39:43
can't answer it all. You can't open it
39:45
all. Oh and final relevant
39:47
comment thank god
39:50
someone shares their own experience.
39:54
This is how she fell too. She
39:57
was forced to she she was forced to sit with this
39:59
girl. at lunch in addition
40:01
to classes. She
40:04
had very few friends. In the last
40:06
few months, some of the other girls reached out to
40:08
her and she is approaching the
40:10
preteen years so fast, so it's important
40:12
for her to socialize with peers. I
40:15
am so sorry to hear you had
40:17
to go through this. Whoo!
40:22
What do you think, boys? What are you
40:24
thinking? Right move, right move. Right move. I
40:27
think it washed out as it should. He
40:29
shouldn't have to put that on him
40:31
and it's really sad that going
40:34
through all the necessary steps to keep his daughter
40:36
safe and protected, he still feels that way. Yeah,
40:39
yeah, I agree. I
40:42
agree. But you know what I agree with?
40:44
What? Me
40:46
reading this next story. Let's
40:48
do it! Am
40:51
I the a-hole for telling my daughter she
40:53
needs to move out after she had her
40:55
fare with our married neighbor? Ouch.
40:57
This comes from Stressed Out Dad 3.
41:00
I can understand why you're stressed out. You're just
41:02
accurate. Last week I caught my daughter, 21, leaving
41:05
our neighbor's house early in the morning.
41:07
I was getting a drink around three
41:09
in the morning and watched her leave
41:11
their house and she snuck across the
41:13
yard. Whoa. And
41:16
went through our basement door. Our
41:18
neighbor is married and
41:20
probably 30. I assume
41:22
his wife was gone for the night as her
41:24
car wasn't there. The next morning I went down
41:26
to my daughter's room and confronted her. At
41:29
first, he denied it. But then
41:31
she eventually said that she had
41:33
been sleeping with him for a
41:35
couple of months. Ooh. A
41:39
30 with a 21 year old. Big
41:42
yikes. I lost it at that
41:44
point and yelled at her, telling her he is
41:46
married and she is helping ruin a marriage. I
41:48
told her that she needs to tell the wife
41:50
or she needs to move out. Honestly,
41:54
not a bad, not a bad
41:56
ultimatum. Not A bad
41:58
ultimatum. I Like that ultimatum. Though parenting depth
42:01
is clearly upset in thinks I'm
42:03
overreacting, my wife is also thinking
42:05
I'm going too far. Words.
42:09
Wife. Your weight is probably cheating on you.
42:12
Have. A wife
42:14
is also sleeping with the die. No.
42:17
No No No No No No no. the apple
42:19
doesn't fall far from the tree heart disease either.
42:22
Or. It. Ah, It.
42:25
Wasn't thought it wasn't a thirty year old
42:27
that she's sitting on. Why was a thirty
42:29
year olds was gone? Open Marriage. As
42:31
he was with the one. That
42:33
obese once. Oh you're saying
42:36
you say Opie his wife is cheating with
42:38
the wife of a neighbor? I. Hope
42:41
he. Viewed. As easy to
42:43
they are with our waters the up at three
42:45
o'clock in the morning. He. Also was
42:47
getting a drink of water or like a like a
42:49
drink drink like do a good byes of data rate
42:52
of after we talked about would drink means is probably
42:54
a drink drink. Any
42:56
way they the I get the the neighbor
42:58
is the main issue but I'm really disappointed.
43:01
My daughter she knows his wife and has
43:03
even babysat for them. Ah,
43:05
class dude. classic like is
43:07
a baby sitter is telling
43:09
her. To. Confess or move
43:12
out. Too. Far. And
43:15
he just twenty one, twenty
43:17
one years in college. He
43:21
me think about this. Ah my
43:23
do think it's very important that
43:25
he. The. Right thing to do is tell
43:27
the way. Absolutely the right
43:29
thing to do sell the wife And it's
43:31
like what leverage. For. Go Do
43:33
you have? Yeah, but maybe it's not like I
43:35
don't think I would kick my daughter out. Yeah.
43:38
I wasn't ready. He. Was a out
43:40
a bad thing? Yeah. Yeah
43:43
but it was a like make decisions
43:45
have adult consequences when if it's a
43:47
week. We. Don't know if. She.
43:50
Has a car paid for provide what if
43:52
your life or job. or
43:55
she's don't score scrub the has one where your school
43:57
left yeah maybe i was gonna say take the car
43:59
away but That's what it's one thing to
44:01
take a car away for like a high school It's
44:03
like bust a school, but but it's like she can
44:06
just walk to the cheating It's
44:08
across the dude. Yeah, you're right. I was
44:10
I was saying as just a general punishment
44:12
of like, okay You can't drive around to
44:14
see your friends. Like I mean, yeah, like
44:17
even if she's grounded Sneak
44:22
out like she can escape from the
44:24
basement door. She's very she's Home
44:27
free. Yeah Dude,
44:29
this is really I would love to know
44:31
what y'all would do put your answers to the comments what if okay, what
44:33
if what if what if the husband
44:36
says tell him or I will
44:38
and Honestly,
44:40
you could totally be bluffing at first Or
44:44
tell her or I will tell the wife. Oh,
44:47
I'm sorry. Yeah, tell it tell the wife or I
44:49
will Yeah, and then you you don't even have to
44:51
be serious. You could be bluffing at first. That's better
44:54
Yeah, that's probably better at her. At least the
44:56
information gets out because what if what otherwise where
44:58
I won't yeah, what if she She
45:02
gets on the streets and then she's got
45:04
a starter only fans The
45:06
living and then where are we at?
45:08
There are other ways to make a living. No, they're not
45:12
Others not sexist. Yes, there is no.
45:14
Hey, I made an only fans too.
45:17
Okay, where's the link? Just kidding Exactly
45:20
I was totally lying also, I
45:23
mean if she's on only fans doing it, right? She's not
45:25
on the streets Like
45:27
people that people aren't we're watching a video
45:30
this only fence creator like 35 million dollar
45:32
net worth insane insane Absolutely.
45:34
How'd you find her on YouTube?
45:37
You're finally a video It's
45:40
true There is an
45:42
edit Wow. Thank you all for responding. I'm sorry.
45:44
I couldn't respond to more of you some context
45:46
I failed to put in here. My wife is
45:48
very upset. She isn't siding with the affair In
45:50
fact, she was cheated on by an ex. She
45:52
understands is better than I do I think that
45:54
is I think that is a big part of
45:56
why I'm so angry My
45:58
wife is also a better person than I do I am. She
46:00
is the only reason I am the man I
46:02
am today. I have too much
46:04
respect to let people even anonymously insinuate that
46:07
she is a problem here. I should have
46:09
done a better job in explaining her side.
46:11
Any comments saying anything bad about my wife
46:13
will be met with an F you. Hah!
46:15
Writing all this out and reading the comments
46:17
has been incredibly helpful. I
46:19
haven't changed my mind but
46:21
it's made me think about the situation more
46:24
especially looking at the future and my relationship
46:26
with my daughter. I just shot
46:28
a text to my daughter and apologized for
46:30
my anger and asked her to go get
46:32
a drink with me tonight and talk. I
46:35
told her I am sorry I didn't
46:37
ask her how she was feeling. I
46:39
need to get my composure back before my next work
46:42
call here in a few minutes but will continue to
46:44
read and reply to comments as I have time today.
46:46
Edit 2. Just going to put my thoughts here
46:49
instead of commenting, wow so many comments. While yes
46:51
I may be seeming to backtrack a bit with
46:53
reaching out to my daughter, I don't see how
46:55
that is bad. She is my daughter and I
46:57
love her so much. For those who think she
46:59
would stop talking to us if we kicked her
47:02
out, I raised her to
47:04
be independent and accept consequences for her actions.
47:07
It's hard to explain her relationship but I
47:10
know she wouldn't stop talking to us if
47:12
we did force her to move. She also
47:14
would figure it out as she is a
47:16
smart woman. She would love out of our
47:18
house not our life. I'm always her dad.
47:21
On that note, this is the dad writing,
47:23
not the mom as some of you have
47:25
thought. Also, not worried about violence
47:27
from the neighbor's wife. Unfortunately, she is a
47:30
very sweet woman which makes everything worse. But
47:32
I wouldn't put my daughter in danger. I
47:34
can affirm my daughter hasn't told the husband
47:36
we know. I will be
47:39
watching his behavior as I'm not sure how he
47:41
will react. Last thing, as I
47:43
find it funny, I was drinking water not
47:45
alcohol when I saw her. I woke up
47:47
and went to the kitchen and saw from
47:49
the window but I appreciate the links to
47:52
AA. I really should have made my original
47:54
post longer. Sorry for all the edits. I'll
47:56
update after I talk with my daughter. There
47:58
is no update. There is no
48:00
update. Did he ever talk with the daughter? We will never
48:03
know, maybe. We'll never know, unless there's an update. But
48:05
I like our solution better. I think our solution
48:08
is like a happy medium. Yeah, I think so.
48:10
I think, yeah, like after thinking about it for
48:12
a second, it's like, okay, yeah, maybe not like
48:15
threatening to kick out the daughter. It's too extreme and kind
48:17
of like maybe the
48:19
daughter is, who knows
48:21
what's going on? Is she looking for validation? Yeah,
48:24
why did she feel the need to go to
48:26
this neighbor? And I think that is a good
48:28
thing. If you're able to like sit down with
48:30
your child, like, what's going on? What's
48:32
going on? Like, let me hear you. I'm
48:34
your friend. You know, I'm, I'm, I'm the baby.
48:36
So I liked, I really liked O.P.'s pivot and
48:38
adjustment there from like, like walking
48:40
it back from being like out of my
48:42
house. And this does not at
48:44
all in any way, in any shape
48:47
or form, excuse this because she should
48:49
know better, but she is 21, baking
48:52
stupid young people mistakes. So
48:55
it's like, all right, let me, let me
48:57
help guide you as your parent through
48:59
this. But I'm very curious what all of you
49:01
would do. I would love to know your answers
49:04
in the comments below, but if you love us,
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