At dinner with the besties the other night, in the midst of catching up, laughing, and venting, one of them said “We need to be more unbothered.” 

She had recently read a post on Facebook by a girl named Kristen Joy Martin about becoming an “unbothered” person, and she sent it to us. 

While I think I need this tattooed on my forearm to remind myself to be unbothered in the MANY moments I find myself bothered, such as at a red light, a messy house, an unanswered text, etc., it’s a great point and reminder nonetheless. 

I think we’d all be a little happier if we were all just a little more “unbothered”.