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“Opened Dawes” Podcast – Ep 10: Public Speaking – A Skill Not Just for Presentations!

“Opened Dawes” Podcast – Ep 10: Public Speaking – A Skill Not Just for Presentations!

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“Opened Dawes” Podcast – Ep 10: Public Speaking – A Skill Not Just for Presentations!

“Opened Dawes” Podcast – Ep 10: Public Speaking – A Skill Not Just for Presentations!

“Opened Dawes” Podcast – Ep 10: Public Speaking – A Skill Not Just for Presentations!

“Opened Dawes” Podcast – Ep 10: Public Speaking – A Skill Not Just for Presentations!

Thursday, 26th August 2021
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1:16

Greetings. Welcome to Opened

1:16

Dawes Live. My name is Chris

1:20

Dawes, founder of Open Dawes

1:20

Training. And this is Episode

1:24

10. We're into double figures.

1:24

Fantastic. I hope you all had a

1:27

great weekend. And today's show

1:27

is almost what to put the title

1:33

is something like, you know, a

1:33

dog is for life, not just for

1:37

Christmas, but it's

1:37

presentation. It's a skill, not

1:40

just for presentations. So I've

1:40

always battled with what I

1:44

should be calling it, is it

1:44

public speaking? Is it

1:47

presentation skills? Is it

1:47

communication skills? And the

1:51

honest answer is it's all of the

1:51

above. And it really varies what

1:58

it is, that is the reason why

1:58

somebody wants to or needs to

2:03

work on this. What it is the

2:03

objectives that I work on with

2:07

people when we start the the

2:07

training or the mentoring. And

2:12

that's probably another reason

2:12

why absolutely, absolutely love

2:15

it. For me. It's It's where the

2:15

name Open, Dawes Training came

2:21

from and Yes, fine. It's my

2:21

surname, but it is about the

2:24

fact that it is a skill set that

2:24

is not only used in countless

2:30

areas that we'll cover some but

2:30

achieves countless things. And

2:34

it can open doors that you may

2:34

not even know exist yet. So

2:38

that's, that was the reason for

2:38

the name for that for my

2:42

company. And it's so genuinely

2:42

true for me, you know,

2:46

university, we had to present

2:46

but I struggled with it, that

2:49

whole idea of, of standing up

2:49

and speaking formally with a

2:54

structure and getting people's

2:54

attention getting the

2:58

information over in the correct

2:58

way, the best way. I had a real

3:03

issue. You know, it wasn't that

3:03

I was a shy person, because I'd

3:06

be holding court in the pubs.

3:06

But once it was, it was a

3:10

structure thing, I had an issue.

3:10

So I kind of went into myself to

3:14

work out what I was thinking,

3:14

what I was feeling, and how I

3:18

can trick my mind all of those

3:18

things and how I can give it

3:21

more structure. And then I've

3:21

worked on that over the years,

3:25

because after university I went

3:25

into into business into sales

3:28

and marketing, and I was

3:28

presenting it solutions, either

3:32

in meetings or massive, great

3:32

big presentations. And I was

3:37

able to take myself on a journey

3:37

of what I was trying to achieve.

3:39

And I still do it now when I'm

3:39

delivering training and

3:43

presentations and even things

3:43

like this. And the journey that

3:48

I've had with people of what it

3:48

is they're trying to achieve is

3:52

so enthralling, it's really

3:52

really impressive. And quite

3:55

often it It also has it where

3:55

that their original remit might

4:02

be one thing. But all of a

4:02

sudden, once they're working on,

4:07

they're going well actually,

4:07

this can help me with this, this

4:09

can help me with that. Or we

4:09

speak again, some weeks, months,

4:14

whatever further down the line,

4:14

they go, Wow, do you know what

4:17

it's actually helped us with

4:17

this as well, especially when I

4:21

work with groups of people

4:21

within an organization, and

4:24

they're all may be different

4:24

departments is to see the

4:28

variation of what they're going

4:28

to get out of it. So I just want

4:31

to delve a little bit because

4:31

even for yourself, you might

4:34

kind of go wow, okay, that would

4:34

really help me with with this if

4:39

I applied those skills that I

4:39

have, or that that I want to

4:44

work on, in presenting can

4:44

actually help me here, there or

4:49

anywhere. Now, yes, it's

4:49

obviously presentations standing

4:53

up for giving presentations, or

4:53

seminar presentations. Of course

4:58

it is. It does apply to that,

4:58

but not just that. What about in

5:02

meetings? Think about it, you've

5:02

got to speak up in a meeting. Or

5:08

how many times have you been in

5:08

a meeting? And I don't know,

5:13

let's say there's, there's 10

5:13

people in the meeting. And you

5:17

suddenly realize, and if you

5:17

haven't done this yet, do it in

5:20

future meetings realize that

5:20

actually, there's one or two

5:23

people that aren't really

5:23

participating, they aren't

5:26

saying anything or, or they

5:26

aren't saying a lot. And yet

5:29

Think about it. They're from a

5:29

particular department. They are

5:34

working on particular things,

5:34

they have particular experiences

5:38

and things like that. And if you

5:38

don't involve their experiences,

5:44

their their knowledge, their

5:44

opinions, your conclusion of

5:49

that meeting is going to be

5:49

slightly skewed. And I actually

5:52

work with people specifically on

5:52

that either to get people more

5:56

involved, to make the meetings

5:56

more productive, or to actually

6:00

get people less involved. I

6:00

think it's equally relevant to

6:04

be honest in some situations,

6:04

and trying to get people to get

6:08

the level right and encourage

6:08

others to get involved. It could

6:12

be that they're fearful of

6:12

conflict. tension

6:17

is a big one, they're fearful of

6:17

that they've got senior people

6:21

with them. They don't have the

6:21

confidence in what they're going

6:26

to share with everybody that's

6:26

there. Anything like that is

6:32

understandable. And we work on

6:32

that with people and try to get

6:36

people more involved in those

6:36

meetings and the organization's

6:40

want everybody involved in those

6:40

meetings, because it is actually

6:44

helping. So it is communication

6:44

skills for for meetings as well,

6:49

sales pitches, the last show was

6:49

specifically on sales

6:53

communications. Well, it is very

6:53

relevant in terms of sales

6:58

pitches, or idea pitches. I've

6:58

used an example that I had

7:04

someone telling me that they had

7:04

to almost pitch to the Board of

7:09

Directors when for their

7:09

department they needed, whether

7:13

it's it's as big as investment

7:13

or whether it's operational

7:17

changes, or, or reasons for why

7:17

something didn't go quite to

7:22

plan, whatever it might be, they

7:22

are pitching. And so you need to

7:27

still give it the structure, if

7:27

you have an objective to get at

7:30

the end of this request this

7:30

pitch, you need to give it the

7:37

the time and thought to make it

7:37

structured to make it punchy to

7:45

really communicate it in a

7:45

proper way. So all of the things

7:49

that we cover in our public

7:49

speaking training, is relevant

7:54

to pitches, whatever that pitch

7:54

happens to be. If that includes

7:59

motivational pitches, you know,

7:59

it could be that you, you know,

8:03

you need to really motivate the

8:03

troops, you know, the staff, the

8:09

team, the department, the whole

8:09

company, whatever it might be.

8:13

And you need to give it the same

8:13

structure as if you're giving a

8:17

sales pitch because you kind of

8:17

are selling to their money

8:20

you're trying to get them to buy

8:20

in. So even, you know,

8:24

motivational pitches, and you

8:24

might have somebody that is a

8:27

manager or a director, or even a

8:27

CEO, I've worked with CEOs that

8:32

are kind of like, Well, you

8:32

know, I'm an expert in this. And

8:35

that's really how the company

8:35

came into existence. But I'm not

8:40

great at really rallying the

8:40

troops or getting the

8:43

information across, or I go into

8:43

too much detail, I need to step

8:47

it back. And we work on

8:47

specifics like that. So it very

8:51

much is of a very thing in terms

8:51

of pitches. And that is

8:55

something that we do a lot on.

8:55

Even if it's via webcam. Now

9:00

obviously on via webcam. Now. I

9:00

think we all agree that we've

9:05

had almost death by webcam over

9:05

over the the lockdown period

9:10

that the pandemic forced out on

9:10

us. And I genuinely believe that

9:14

it's going to stay face to face

9:14

meetings has returned and will

9:19

increase. But I think there's

9:19

gonna be a huge appetite that

9:23

suddenly says, Well, we can save

9:23

money, we can save the

9:26

environment, we can save time,

9:26

we can increase productivity, by

9:31

instead of suddenly traveling

9:31

halfway up the country for a

9:34

meeting and then back again and

9:34

there's half a day or the whole

9:37

day is suddenly you're able to

9:37

have multiple meetings or you

9:41

have a meeting, you go away, you

9:41

do something, you can jump back

9:44

on to a meeting, even the same

9:44

day, potentially. It won't

9:49

replace the face to face

9:49

completely. But suddenly out of

9:52

those, I don't know, three

9:52

meetings for meetings or more.

9:56

Over the course of a pitch or a

9:56

project, whatever it might be,

10:03

is that you know, the first one

10:03

and the last one or something

10:07

like that might be face to face

10:07

and the rest of them via webcam.

10:11

But people aren't fully

10:11

comfortable with that whole idea

10:14

because all we've got is this

10:14

lens. And it's about changing

10:18

the psyche to suddenly go well

10:18

that's the eye contact. This

10:22

right here, sorry if I'm poking

10:22

you in the eye. But that is the

10:26

eye contact and you almost have

10:26

to have this change of way of

10:31

thinking I have to do it when

10:31

I'm doing any pieces to camera

10:35

is that you just imagine that

10:35

those people I can't imagine

10:39

that I can see you watching me

10:39

put that down you out there.

10:43

Geez. But via webcam. It's still

10:43

giving presentations. And we

10:52

also work with people in terms

10:52

of using the video conferencing

10:55

solutions to the best way so I

10:55

suddenly want to share a

10:59

document of video and audio file

10:59

I want to show my software or

11:05

whatever it is that you need to

11:05

demonstrate. And thankfully I've

11:09

been doing that for all Crikey

11:09

decade and a half probably

11:14

because our software In my

11:14

previous role, we had

11:19

international clients and

11:19

partners. And so I would be

11:23

demonstrating via webcam. So

11:23

thankfully, this was just a kind

11:27

of, Oh, I need to do more of it

11:27

that way rather than that way,

11:31

but to be able to help people to

11:31

feel a lot more comfortable via

11:36

webcam and video conferencing

11:36

solutions, it really helps a lot

11:40

presentations, meetings, even

11:40

providing training, and I this

11:45

that was a new one for me this

11:45

time, because I had to suddenly

11:49

be providing my training last

11:49

year via webcam. And I used to

11:55

make a joke that actually other

11:55

than the fact that you can't

11:57

throw things at me, it's the

11:57

same, you are able to make it

12:03

the same. If you convince

12:03

yourself No, it's not got the

12:06

same on the same connection. And

12:06

you kind of just downplay it a

12:10

little bit, even

12:10

unintentionally. Well, guess

12:13

what, that's how it comes

12:13

across. So by actually giving it

12:17

that maximum, and really

12:17

engaging with your audience,

12:22

really exaggerate the

12:22

enthusiasm, you're still going

12:25

to connect with that training as

12:25

well. Of course, you know, we

12:30

talk about I said at the

12:30

beginning presentations and

12:32

seminars, of course, being the

12:32

biggest presentations that we

12:36

tend to do. Well, of course,

12:36

webinars is an even bigger word

12:40

these days, isn't it a buzz

12:40

phrase, and to be able to do

12:44

webinars is a big thing as well.

12:44

So we work with people to be

12:48

able to deliver a presentation,

12:48

as they would be comfortable

12:53

doing face to face via webcam as

12:53

well. It's important. I've

12:57

always said that seminars and

12:57

webinars are your best way of

13:01

sharing your knowledge. With an

13:01

awful lot of people at a time,

13:06

people will go to seminars,

13:06

because they're interested, I'm

13:10

not in the marketplace. I'm not

13:10

letting you into my business as

13:15

a meeting to try and sell to me,

13:15

but I want to go and listen to

13:18

this and be educated, get up to

13:18

speed be updated, whatever it

13:23

is. And that is your opportunity

13:23

to have this wide array of

13:28

people from different

13:28

organizations, different

13:31

industries, to share your

13:31

knowledge to share your

13:34

expertise to share your latest

13:34

information. And even if it's

13:40

not something right then and

13:40

there that they go, I have to

13:44

have that they have been

13:44

informed they go back to their

13:49

daily operations. And something

13:49

happens a day later a week

13:54

later, or a month, a year,

13:54

whatever it might be later. And

13:58

they'll go Do you remember that

13:58

seminar we went to that would

14:02

have been really helpful here,

14:02

this would have stopped that

14:05

from happening here. always had

14:05

a phrase that my old man taught

14:10

me was if you don't tell you

14:10

can't sell and seminars are a

14:13

fabulous opportunities,

14:13

opportunity to impart that

14:18

information. Now webinars to

14:18

some extent, you could say,

14:21

well, Surely it's not going to

14:21

be quite the same. Why not?

14:26

Think about it, you might get

14:26

more people going to a webinar

14:29

because they don't actually have

14:29

to go anywhere. They can do it

14:33

in between their bits and pieces

14:33

that they're doing. Fine. We

14:37

work with people to overcome

14:37

that. Yes, but I can't see that

14:40

they're nodding their laughing

14:40

as much. I tried to encourage

14:43

people to enable that so they

14:43

can see their audience but some

14:47

instances you can't find we

14:47

switch the the psychology of it

14:52

around a little bit. But it's a

14:52

great opportunity for them to

14:56

see. you're offering your

14:56

product, your service, your

15:00

expertise, your latest

15:00

information. So webinars and

15:05

seminars are absolutely

15:05

priceless in terms of public

15:08

speaking skills. I've the the

15:08

the the slogan with Open Dawes

15:15

Training is actually

15:15

communication skills that remove

15:19

limits. And that's what we

15:19

really set out to do about

15:24

removing limits. For me, it was

15:24

very much that it removed

15:28

limits, I was able to do these

15:28

presentations and get great

15:31

success with our software at

15:31

meetings and web seminars and an

15:36

online demonstrations as well as

15:36

face to face. And then progress

15:40

to me that the next thing I'm

15:40

getting paid to commentate on

15:43

motorsport around Europe, as

15:43

well as in the UK. Then from

15:49

that I've suddenly I'm hosting

15:49

awards nights and live events

15:54

and still do all of that kind of

15:54

stuff. So if anybody's watching

15:57

they need, you know, even

15:57

business events hosted I do

16:01

those kinds of services for

16:01

people and presenting on TV,

16:06

radio, podcasts, other people's

16:06

podcast guests in on those

16:13

Master 74 different things. You

16:13

know the The things that I've

16:17

managed to get into doing has

16:17

been quite incredible. And I

16:19

still pinch myself and I feel

16:19

very, very lucky. It removed

16:24

limits that my nervousness, my

16:24

lack of understanding, standing

16:29

of the preparation that was

16:29

required and structures and

16:33

engagement levels and all of

16:33

that sort of stuff. Well, that

16:38

is what happened there. But the

16:38

communication skills can be as

16:41

simple as having conversations

16:41

with people. Now, I've had

16:47

people use it, you know, the

16:47

training, even in their personal

16:50

life. And that's great, I feel

16:50

very touched. And I've had some

16:53

lovely, lovely emails that were

16:53

really quite emotional, where

16:57

they fed back the the difference

16:57

that it is made to their day to

17:01

day life has been significant.

17:01

And I absolutely adore that.

17:03

Because it did start as a

17:03

project of passion, best for me,

17:07

because I wanted to help people.

17:07

And it still resonates with me

17:11

when people are able to help

17:11

their life in general, not just

17:14

in terms of career progression,

17:14

but just their personal life as

17:17

well. But bringing those

17:17

together is one that comes up

17:21

very often is about when you've

17:21

got to have that difficult

17:25

conversation. And it becomes a

17:25

real struggle on how am I

17:29

supposed to deal with this I've

17:29

got to have, whether it's I

17:33

don't know whether it's a

17:33

disciplinary, whether it's

17:35

somebody who's come with a

17:35

request, and you've got to knock

17:38

it back, but you need to knock

17:38

it back in a positive way,

17:42

whether there's decisions are

17:42

being made with the organization

17:45

that people could misinterpret.

17:45

Because it's not just about

17:48

having that difficult

17:48

conversation. It's making sure

17:53

you're having the right

17:53

conversation. You know, you are

17:56

sharing the correct information

17:56

in the correct way. etc.

18:03

Jonathan Tennant, were you down

18:03

at Brands Hatch at the Italian

18:06

day? Absolutely. That was me,

18:06

sir. I'll take it. That means

18:09

you were done there. Great

18:09

event. I absolutely adore doing

18:12

that one. And I'm down at brands

18:12

actually Saturday and Sunday as

18:15

well. And Encarta Kumar Monday,

18:15

commentating so thank you for

18:18

your comment there. You see, you

18:18

can put your comments in, and

18:23

they can come up on screen. So

18:23

thank you for that, Jonathan.

18:27

And another one is taken it

18:27

further from from meetings and

18:32

presentations is conferences.

18:32

And often, thank you very much,

18:40

Jonathan. Hugely appreciated. I

18:40

love that one. Because it's

18:43

entertainment as well as

18:43

commentating isn't it, we have a

18:46

real giggle with everybody. So

18:46

thank you, Jonathan. Much

18:49

appreciated, I do enjoy myself

18:49

when I'm doing that. Sorry,

18:53

conferences, the now that could

18:53

be you know, conferences for

19:00

your industry with with

19:00

potential prospects, that stupid

19:05

phrase potential prospects, I

19:05

think they're just prospects or

19:08

potential customers, aren't

19:08

they? So we'll go with that

19:11

prospects that are listening to

19:11

information at conferences. But

19:16

I've done an awful lot with

19:16

people high up in organizations,

19:21

where their internal conferences

19:21

like their big annual

19:26

International Conference, or

19:26

whatever, or even National

19:29

Conference of everybody within

19:29

their organization gets

19:32

together, updates on everything

19:32

that has happened over the last

19:36

year is going to happen over the

19:36

next year and a bit of training

19:40

done on certain elements,

19:40

whatever it might be, I work

19:43

with people on those. And in

19:43

fact, one thing that I did, as

19:47

well, last year, was that I

19:47

worked with a lovely lady for an

19:54

organization up in Manchester,

19:54

who she was going to be training

20:00

her people that had to give

20:00

presentations, both by a webcam

20:05

and at these conferences in face

20:05

to face as well. And she needed

20:11

to have some top up training for

20:11

herself on doing all of this.

20:16

But also how to then train the

20:16

others. And I know everybody

20:20

else she spoke to was like,

20:20

nope, we provide that training,

20:24

we will do it. We're not

20:24

training you to be able to do

20:26

that. And she's like, Well,

20:26

then, fine, we're not coming to

20:30

you. We can't it's not up for

20:30

debate. You can't convince me

20:32

that is not happening. And on an

20:32

ongoing basis. big company would

20:36

be lovely, of course. But that

20:36

it was clear, it was a condition

20:40

not an objection. It was not

20:40

changing. It was an absolute

20:43

condition. And I said, Well, why

20:43

Why can I not going to take my

20:50

IP or anything like that, I'm

20:50

going to give her a bit more

20:53

training on presenting on

20:53

delivering training. And

20:59

then she's able to go and take

20:59

something that I'm very

21:01

passionate about, that people

21:01

can really grow and learn from,

21:06

and she's going to help people

21:06

and, you know, we still stay in

21:09

contact now and do some little

21:09

bits and pieces here and there.

21:11

And it's really, really nice

21:11

that she's been able to do that.

21:14

So I've tried a trainer Lot of

21:14

trainers, in fact trainings, one

21:18

that comes up somewhere and I

21:18

think I've flipped over that.

21:21

But training delivery internal

21:21

for your products or services or

21:26

training that you can sell. It's

21:26

another area of this. So that

21:33

kind of spun on from conferences

21:33

to training, because there was a

21:37

link up for a customer last year

21:37

where it was training people to

21:41

present at conferences, and I do

21:41

a lot of that. And she did that

21:44

with her people. similar vein,

21:44

but sometimes a lot more

21:48

specific is exhibitions and, and

21:48

trade shows. And I worked with

21:55

an insurance property insurance

21:55

organization that would do a lot

21:58

of industry specific trade

21:58

shows. But I don't know if any

22:03

of you have, if you'd like manda

22:03

stand where you have, you know,

22:12

an exhibition stand, and you've

22:12

got all these people that are

22:16

coming past the stand. And

22:16

you've actually got to try and

22:20

engage them to get them to come

22:20

and speak to you. It's great if

22:24

you've got something that's just

22:24

automatically pulling them in.

22:27

But so often people kind of

22:27

like, No, I'll just look or you

22:31

got the freebie hunters, all

22:31

that kind of stuff. I worked

22:35

with them, they were the first

22:35

one that I did this and created

22:37

a whole new module as a result

22:37

of, of of the work with them at

22:41

their request for being able to

22:41

start conversations at trade

22:47

shows and exhibitions, how to

22:47

take it in a good direction, and

22:51

how to then get a conclusion at

22:51

the end, you know, probably at

22:55

that stage is more likely to be

22:55

a you know, excuse me secure a

22:58

follow up meeting that kind of

22:58

thing. So that becomes another

23:01

area that suddenly public

23:01

speaking or presentation skills

23:06

gives us advantages in other

23:06

areas. Networking. I don't know

23:11

if any of you may be done.

23:11

Excuse me, maybe done. Like

23:18

networking, breakfasts, you get

23:18

these organizations, or

23:23

networking breakout sessions at,

23:23

you know, conferences,

23:27

exhibitions, and trade shows,

23:27

and you have all these different

23:30

people from different

23:30

organizations. And you get to

23:35

have conversations with them. So

23:35

they're straightaway having

23:37

those conversations instead of

23:37

hiding in the corner, I find it

23:41

hard to start with. But you get

23:41

to meet some wonderful people,

23:45

and they can introduce you to

23:45

even more wonderful people. And

23:50

you invariably get the

23:50

opportunity to pitch your

23:54

organization yourself your

23:54

product, your service. in quite

24:00

a short period of time, you

24:00

know, it could be a short 60

24:03

seconds, you might get five

24:03

minutes, and I'll tell you what

24:05

I struggle more with, than

24:05

having a free rein to be able to

24:09

talk. So I work with people on

24:09

networking opportunities, or

24:12

should I say, people take the

24:12

skills that we work on to use in

24:16

those environments as well. It's

24:16

a great environment,

24:19

negotiations, that could be

24:19

sales negotiations, it could be

24:23

job negotiations, it could, you

24:23

know, the list goes endless. But

24:28

you need to have those

24:28

conversations in a proper way,

24:30

including listening, and

24:30

thinking at the same time buying

24:34

yourself time. You know, having

24:34

the conversation steadily

24:38

without emotion. Again, the

24:38

difficult conversations is about

24:42

you know, try not to have, you

24:42

know, let the emotion run you

24:46

but have that conversation in a

24:46

nice chilled out way. Sales

24:52

discussions, we've covered

24:52

interviews. Now, that could be

24:56

job interviews, it could be

24:56

promotion interviews, it could

25:00

be extended contract interviews,

25:00

it could be media interviews,

25:05

and I do a whole point on you

25:05

know, media is another key area

25:09

interviews, live shows, recorded

25:09

videos, you know, marketing does

25:13

a lot of this, where you do

25:13

things to camera, podcasts, or

25:17

maybe it's just audio rather

25:17

than audio, visual, all these

25:22

different things. Now, they

25:22

could be interviews. Or it could

25:25

be more, you know, job type

25:25

interviews, whatever, all about

25:30

having those conversations. You

25:30

know, I've worked with people

25:33

that they're suddenly like,

25:33

going, I'm so nervous. I'm so

25:35

terrified, and they speak at 100

25:35

miles an hour when they're in an

25:39

interview. And he's like, just

25:39

slow down and have a

25:43

conversation with the person

25:43

interviewing you. Hopefully,

25:47

that person interviewing you is

25:47

good enough to also be having a

25:50

conversation, which

25:50

incidentally, I also train

25:54

interviewers, as well as

25:54

interviewees.

25:58

Because you're going to get more

25:58

out of it. If you make your

26:03

interview we feel more relaxed

26:03

and take it into that

26:07

conversation space rather than

26:07

right I need to tell you this,

26:10

this this isn't this I've done

26:10

and I know that and I've done

26:12

this. Just come down, slow down

26:12

chat about it. Speeches a little

26:21

bit different to presentations

26:21

because they tend to have more

26:24

of a script. You know, I'm very

26:24

much about encouraging when you

26:27

do presentations or step away

26:27

from a script, have key bullet

26:30

points that you want to cover,

26:30

and then wrap it in the signal

26:35

that comes to mind that time,

26:35

but with a speech, more often

26:39

than not, it's going to be a bit

26:39

more scripted. So we might work

26:43

on how to read a script, or how

26:43

to maybe not fully, you know,

26:48

word for word habit, but to

26:48

remind you, you're going to talk

26:51

about this, but a bit more than

26:51

just bullet points, or read

26:55

ahead and speak rather than read

26:55

speak. And that could be I've

27:00

worked with people on like, best

27:00

man and what have you speeches,

27:04

father of the bride, and groom

27:04

speeches as well. But

27:10

professional speeches, you know,

27:10

they stand up at things such as

27:13

conferences, or whatever, and

27:13

it's more of a speech than a

27:17

presentation. And it might even

27:17

just be a short one, but they

27:20

needed to be punchy crisis

27:20

management, communication was an

27:26

interesting one. And that came

27:26

to me with someone saying, look,

27:30

we have situations where the

27:30

proverbial hits the fan, we need

27:35

to communicate that with

27:35

internal and external people as

27:40

quickly as efficiently and with

27:40

the right tone. Whilst we're

27:46

potentially inside, you know,

27:46

like the swan serenely across

27:49

the top, but their feet go and

27:49

tend to doesn't, doesn't. So

27:53

they're not quite relaxed, but

27:53

they've got to portray

27:55

themselves as relaxed. So I

27:55

ended up having a whole other

27:59

area that I worked with people

27:59

on crisis management

28:02

communication as well. And able

28:02

to team up with a PR lady as

28:09

well that so that we can not

28:09

just have my experience from the

28:13

communication, the the actual

28:13

communication side, but from the

28:17

delivery, the the the outsource

28:17

in terms of a PR message and PR

28:21

sources and things like that. So

28:21

that just added a really

28:25

interesting additional element

28:25

to it as well. In terms of the

28:30

where we've also got the why

28:30

what could you achieve

28:35

motivation, justification,

28:35

explanation, there's a lot of

28:40

shins there isn't. recognition,

28:40

you know, is about people being

28:46

able to recognize how much you

28:46

know, how passionate you are

28:50

about things, how enthusiastic

28:50

you are about things, how well

28:55

you present, what you know, etc,

28:55

as well how well you can train

29:00

people and engage with people,

29:00

you know, if the only way you're

29:04

going to get recognition is

29:04

being heard, if you're silent,

29:07

you can get overlooked,

29:07

unfairly. So recognition is a

29:11

big one for me, that could lead

29:11

on to things like promotion,

29:16

more sales, bigger sales, it

29:16

helps teamwork. It helps

29:23

innovation, you know, both of

29:23

those for me, in teamwork and

29:28

innovation. If you don't

29:28

communicate with each other, it

29:33

isn't going to you're not going

29:33

to get the results you deserve.

29:38

And so it's critical to take

29:38

innovation as an example is

29:42

something I love the the notion

29:42

of things are not invented

29:47

invariably by someone, you know,

29:47

we see the cartoons of someone

29:51

waking up with the lightbulb

29:51

above their head and that Eureka

29:55

doesn't often fully happen like

29:55

that they might have a Eureka

30:00

nucleus of an idea. But it's

30:00

then got to be expanded and

30:03

everything else. And more often

30:03

than not true innovation. And I

30:08

don't just mean the, the thank

30:08

you to Paul, need to drop out,

30:14

we'll catch the last bit on your

30:14

uploads. Great talk again, loads

30:18

of food for thought. Thank you,

30:18

mate. Look forward to seeing you

30:20

in a couple of weeks and see if

30:20

I can stay at your house on the

30:23

Friday as well, actually. But

30:23

the you can watch this back,

30:29

because it was the recorded

30:29

version. And there's podcasts

30:32

available as well. So jump on to

30:32

Open Dawes Training dot code at

30:36

UK forward slash Connect if you

30:36

just want the easy bit and

30:39

you'll see that they're uploaded

30:39

as podcasts as well. Sorry, say

30:44

so innovation is that somebody

30:44

will have an idea. And if you

30:48

share it with somebody, then

30:48

they could suddenly

30:56

have someone else they'll go

30:56

well, I was thinking about this,

30:59

but it wouldn't work because of

30:59

what you're now so hang on. If

31:03

we team together. We could

31:03

actually make this work. And

31:09

it's the two ideas coming

31:09

together. Now what happens sadly

31:11

and many of you may suddenly go

31:11

Yep, I can understand that. I

31:16

have that issue where you won't

31:16

share your idea. Because you're

31:22

like, well, in principle, surely

31:22

that's a good idea. But there's

31:28

something missing, that's really

31:28

going to make it work. And

31:31

that's something missing, by the

31:31

way, could be just that

31:33

confirmation that yes, it will,

31:33

if you share it, and you don't

31:38

need to do it all gung ho that,

31:38

look at this, this will work.

31:41

This is amazing. You kind of go,

31:41

this is what I was worth

31:44

thinking of working on, I

31:44

believe this will happen. And

31:48

somebody else goes, yes, it

31:48

will, because of x, y, and Zed,

31:52

but I was thinking and if we've

31:52

I think my ABC with your x, y

31:57

Zed, this is going to work. So

31:57

sharing it is what enables

32:02

innovation. I missed out a

32:02

group, another area, by the way,

32:07

but it's groups. We talked about

32:07

motivation and things like that.

32:11

And I've had people in weight

32:11

loss or waste management groups.

32:17

I've had I've trained personal

32:17

trainers or exercise class

32:24

trainers, they know they're

32:24

good. They're very passionate

32:28

about it. But they're really

32:28

nervous about being at the front

32:30

and being miked up. I've heard

32:30

that several times now. And you

32:34

know, all sorts of groups,

32:34

there's a whole load of areas

32:37

where to have that confidence,

32:37

to manage your nerves, to know

32:45

how to prepare for it, how to

32:45

have your information, how to

32:50

structure it, how to deliver it,

32:50

how to have that connection, how

32:54

to manage questions and answers,

32:54

you know, all these different

32:58

bits and pieces that come

32:58

together as part of the public

33:02

speaking training. It helps so

33:02

many areas, and all you need to

33:08

do is go away. And, you know,

33:08

think, right, I don't actually

33:11

give presentations. But

33:11

actually, that that and that

33:17

would really be beneficial to

33:17

me, or I do do presentations,

33:22

but hadn't thought about those

33:22

other areas. It's the same as I

33:25

work with people that do

33:25

presentations, are perfectly

33:29

happy giving presentations. But

33:29

they want to now take it to a

33:33

whole other level. And that is

33:33

the beauty of public speaking.

33:38

It's such a multi faceted thing.

33:38

I think that's the phrase I'm

33:43

looking for, that can help so

33:43

many areas, it can open doors,

33:47

you probably don't even know

33:47

exist yet. I never dreamt that I

33:52

would be a Motorsports

33:52

commentator, and a host of live

33:56

events and award shows, you

33:56

know, the front in my Dicky bow

33:59

and all of that sort of stuff on

33:59

TV, radio, podcasts, all that

34:03

never crossed my mind. In fact,

34:03

people that knew me of old would

34:07

go, No chance. Not the kind of

34:07

confidence that I had. I've

34:12

learned how to embrace it, how

34:12

to, to nurture it. And anybody

34:18

can I genuinely believe that

34:18

doesn't mean that we're creating

34:21

a blueprint, what we are doing

34:21

is unlocking you, your

34:26

personality, your passions, your

34:26

delivery styles, your tone of

34:30

voice, it's not about changing

34:30

accents or anything like this,

34:34

it is about unlocking you, so

34:34

that you will share your

34:39

information, your knowledge,

34:39

your passions, your experiences

34:42

with other people, it will help

34:42

you grow. And it will help those

34:47

around you grow as well. Think

34:47

about things that you've been

34:52

able to listen to, to watch to

34:52

attend. And it's helped you to

34:57

this day, it's stayed with you,

34:57

it's it's helped you grow in

35:01

knowledge, etc. There's

35:01

countless things that you've got

35:07

that can also help others to

35:07

empower others. And it empowers

35:11

you at the same time. It's it's

35:11

like the opposite to a vicious

35:14

circle. It's a lovely circle,

35:14

where everybody's benefiting

35:18

everybody. But if you stay

35:18

silent, no one will know you

35:22

have those. And you won't be

35:22

able to help others with that

35:26

information. So that's me that

35:26

is Episode 10. of Opened Dawes

35:32

Live. I hope it was useful. I

35:32

hope it is sort of opened up the

35:36

possibilities. Many of you will

35:36

think of others you know, and do

35:39

drop them. If you've got more

35:39

examples. Drop them in comments,

35:42

all of the above. Go to let me

35:42

just put it up on the screen.

35:47

Obviously, if you're listening

35:47

back on the I forgot to put the

35:50

overview on overlay. Sorry, if

35:50

you're listening back on the

35:54

podcast, then you won't see this but I

35:55

will read it out is that if you

35:58

go to open doors, that's da w e

35:58

s training.co.uk. forward slash

36:04

Connect. You don't need to put

36:04

the connector on that will take

36:07

you straight to our website. But

36:07

this one just is a very simple

36:10

landing page with a whole list

36:10

of ways that you can connect

36:13

with us. You can listen to

36:13

things you can watch the You can

36:16

read things, you can download

36:16

some free things, all of that

36:21

plus, you know, have a look at

36:21

our cost, whether that's one to

36:24

one for yourself, or whether

36:24

it's for groups of people within

36:28

your organization. All doable,

36:28

whether it's face to face, you

36:32

know, in person, whether it's

36:32

via webcam. And we've also got

36:37

this blended learning now,

36:37

hybrid learning face to face and

36:43

online, where over six hours and

36:43

growing even more of training

36:48

videos, audio lessons, practical

36:48

exercises, then mentoring direct

36:54

with myself, and we have

36:54

recorded bits that we're able to

36:58

analyze with you so that you

36:58

truly take it as development

37:01

rather than just training. And

37:01

that means where you know this,

37:05

where we've identified all these

37:05

different areas is that you

37:07

suddenly try to implement it in

37:07

something else, and it throws up

37:12

new questions or new thoughts.

37:12

Totally accessible, that we have

37:16

that ongoing, you've got 12

37:16

months access to all of the

37:18

training videos and exercises

37:18

and downloads and everything

37:21

else. But also that there's a

37:21

members only group where you can

37:27

be asking questions, you can be

37:27

feedback to other people, we get

37:32

peer review opportunities, where

37:32

you've got a presentation coming

37:35

up, you can give that

37:35

presentation to other members of

37:39

the Open Dawes Training Academy.

37:39

And they will be able to

37:43

feedback as well as myself and

37:43

the team. You can get it from

37:47

other members. So it's all about

37:47

trying to help you unlock those

37:51

doors, open those doors that you

37:51

might not know exist. That's it

37:55

for me. Thank you so much for

37:55

your time being much

37:57

appreciated. And I look forward

37:57

to seeing you again. Next week.

38:03

Just realize I haven't sussed

38:03

out what next week's shows going

38:06

to involve but we'll check it

38:06

out. And I will see you in just

38:11

under a week now since we're

38:11

past that at that time. Have a

38:14

good week. Cheers. Oh,

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"Opened Dawes" Podcast

Open Dawes Training is a public speaking, presentation and communication skills coaching company, with the key motivation of the company being to help people open doors that they may not even know exist yet, with increased confidence, willingness, and skills to present and speak in front of/with others. The podcast is taken from the live weekly "Opened Dawes" Live video show, where founder Chris Dawes dives into the key areas that make the difference with "public speaking", whether that is for those who are too nervous to do it or those who want to "up their game", whether that is for presentations, presence and participation in meetings, delivery of training, sales pitches, demonstrations, or even just communication with others in the best possible way. Chris Dawes: "My key ethos when I formed the business is that we are not, and should not be trying to create the mythical blueprint of the "perfect presenter", but unlocking each person's own personality, growing their confidence, helping them to be in control, organised, and of a quality that will make them become asked to do it more often, and no hesitation in their acceptance to do so. Apparently, public speaking is a soft skill, but it is a soft skill that gives your core skills a voice! Everyone owes it to themselves, and it is priceless to all of us that get to listen to them share their knowledge, experiences, passions, enthusiasm, and opinions. It gets them, their organisation, and their product/service recognised and appreciated, and helps us to grow and become more empowered from what they have to share."

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