We talk about whether starting domestic discipline or D/s saved our relationship, and several other aspects while answering a long but interesting ask from another couple that started vanilla but transitioned to D/s together. We also talk about how public we are with our D/s, and update on our sadomasochism play. Blogs referenced where the Dom instigated D/s:dwpreturns.tumblr.comi-could-be-the-walrus.tumblr.comThe calibration technique we use for our sadomasochism play:instructor144.tumblr.com/post/158388695266/1-10Send us asks or episode ideas for future podcasts:amysubmits.tumblr.com/askcynicaldom.tumblr.com/ask