Bully bag

Psychology Today defines bullying as "a distinctive pattern of harming and humiliating others, specifically those who are in some way smaller, weaker, younger or in any way more vulnerable than the bully."

Research into bullying has shown that the majority of bullies are antisocial and either unaware or indifferent towards the emotions and feelings of others.

Children who experience bullying are considerably more likely to suffer from anxiety, sadness, depression, loneliness, eating disorders, trouble with sleeping, and other health problems.

Witnesses of bullying suffer almost as much as the victims..., individuals who witness bullying are considerably more likely to abuse alcohol, drugs or tobacco, engage in truancy, and experience anxiety and depression.

bullies are much more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol, destroy public property, wind up in physical altercations, and become academic dropouts. Studies furthermore affirm that bullies are more prone to having criminal records and abusing their significant others and children in their adult lives.

Do bullies grow out of it?

Some bullies do leave the behavior behind. But many do not; aggression is a very stable social interaction style. Many who were bullies as children turn into antisocial adults

How do you deal with a bully?

Studies show that the most effective way of stopping a bully is to activate bystanders;

Q1) what’s the best way to beat bullies?

Q2) tell me one time you were a bully and what made you do it?

link:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/bullying

0:00-5:00 bully definition

5:00 Bobby’s take on beating bullies

6:00 separating behaviors and person

7:00 Bobby’s Bullying lessons (social accountability)

8:00 standing up for those who’ve been bullied

9:00-13:00 adrian’s bully testimony

15:00 bobby’s bully story (trailer park files)

16:00 healthy boundaries

18:00 have you ever been a bully? (bully bullyer- Mr. P)

23:00 embrace confrontation / embrace softness

28:00 cyberbullying/harassment preview

31:00 what is the cyberbullying equivalent of physical form

34:00 audience questions

35:00 hurt ppl = hurt ppl

38:00 streets v adjacent to the streets

39:00 streets are the foundation of civilization