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QuaranScream

Oct 30th, 2020 43m 25s

We're not sure where this year has gone (or the world for that matter) but hi, hello, we're back! As we all know Halloween is cancelled this year, so we thought we'd sit and chat a bit instead. The topic was Halloween but we covered the scaries

Lean on Me (but don't)

Mar 17th, 2020 49m 29s

If you've ever felt like you may be a little codependent, this episode is for you. Sometimes we joke about being needy or reliant on others, but actually being codependent on another person can be detrimental to your mental health. Poor communi

Not So Well Traveled

Mar 10th, 2020 54m 35s

Oh, you like to travel? Well we did an episode about it and we’re obviously both very qualified to give you travel tips. We cover the novice stress of booking, packing, TSA, and a little bit of plane etiquette. We also discuss traveling with fr

!Twitch !Chat

Mar 3rd, 2020 1h 25m

With so many hobbies and side-hustles in the world, wouldn’t it be great if you could combine a few of your favorites? Heads up, we’re getting nerdy in this one as we deep-dive into the world of live-streaming video games. We discuss what got u

Toys for THOTs

Feb 18th, 2020 58m 32s

There's nothing wrong with a little self love (but toys are always fun with a partner too). From butt plugs to blow-up dolls, this episode is all about sex toys. Luis recaps his recent trip, Adam gives a PSA on poppers, and there's a bit of imp

Get a Room!

Feb 11th, 2020 43m 45s

Condragulations, you’ve made it to another round of Valentine’s Day. In this challenge you’ll be asked to justify your love of hand-holding, restaurant mounting, and general displays of public indecency. We’re diving into “Public Displays of Af

Body Language

Feb 4th, 2020 1h 3m

It’s easy to tell our friends to be more body positive, but always harder to say it in front of the mirror. Social media can play a huge part, but what about the issues that developed as we grew up? From locker rooms and gay twitter, to eating

Sunday Scaries

Jan 28th, 2020 39m 31s

Our lives are full of things that amp up our stress and anxiety levels, so why wouldn’t we want to remove some of those things if we can? Sunday Scaries are real, coming down from a weekend of binge drinking with the impending weight of the wor

When to Hit Reset

Jan 21st, 2020 41m 30s

Sometimes we have to take control of what we can and just hit the reset button. Starting a new job, moving to a new city, or simply purging some old clothes can help us feel like we’re getting a new start. But what comes along with starting ove

First Things First

Jan 14th, 2020 50m 20s

It's a new year, a new decade, and...we're still trying to get it together. When we're trying to do everything sometimes we end up with the paralysis of choice. How do you choose what's most important or where to begin? In order to cross things

Collector or Hoarder?

Nov 12th, 2019 51m 56s

There’s a line between having a hobby or being a collector and just flat out hoarding. It’s not a fine line, but it’s a pretty slippery slope if you have an addictive personality. From beanie babies to mounds of old newspapers, collections can

Mask 4 Mask

Oct 30th, 2019 33m 50s

It's Gay Christmas again! Halloween is our favorite time of year (although it's apparently not everyone's) and we're diving into our favorite spooky season. From costumes and parties to some of our favorite pop culture killers, light a candle a

Opposites Attract (?)

Oct 22nd, 2019 38m 16s

We’re probably all familiar with the classic “opposites attract” trope (Ross and Rachel, Cordelia and Xander) but what really makes our opposites appealing? Is it the constant push and pull or the passionate make ups? Is there longevity in the

F*cking Up

Oct 8th, 2019 42m 14s

As much as we try, nobody’s perfect. At some point or another we all fuckup, but how easy is it to admit when you’ve made a mistake? We’re discussing how we handle our own personal errors, as well as when those around us are anything less than

R E F L E C T I O N S

Oct 1st, 2019 48m 50s

IT'S OUR ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY! Neither Adam or Luis have made it to one year in their endeavors, so they're taking some time to reflect on the past year and see if they can find any areas of growth. Good luck, right? They discuss some of their

Gay Fear

Sep 24th, 2019 41m 11s

Ever thought about your biggest fear? How about the first time you felt afraid? With spooky season just around the corner, today we're talking about FEAR and some of the ways it manifests. What causes fear? Are there actually any "irrational fe

Running on "E"

Aug 13th, 2019 42m 8s

Having a social media presence today is basically a requirement and can literally be your money maker. Over the last year we’ve seen content creators and celebrities open up about mental health, and the burnout that comes with feeling like you

Somebody's Watching Me

Aug 8th, 2019 32m 46s

Has a partner ever left you alone in their room and the urge to snoop won? If you're like Adam you're probably just waiting for them to leave. Today we're talking about privacy and some of the ways it's changed over the years. From parent's ope

Compromise? I Don't Know Her

Jul 30th, 2019 35m 25s

It’s easy to say we’re good at compromising until we’re in the middle of Whole Foods fighting over what brand of toilet paper to buy. Sometimes a decision as simple as where to eat can turn into one of those huge “nothing fights” (life hack: ju

Is it Ever Really Over?

Jul 23rd, 2019 37m 4s

Why do we stay hooked on some past relationships instead of others? Is it possible some always have a chance of rekindling or are we just getting in our own way? Not all of us can shut our emotions down at the drop of a hat, but is that really

Wow Real Mature, Brad

Jul 16th, 2019 43m 20s

Would You Rather: date a liar or date someone that’s immature? We probably all have different answers, but when it comes to a relationship emotional maturity plays a pretty big role. It also ties closely with emotional intelligence, and when yo

Time for a U-Haul

Jul 9th, 2019 48m 6s

So you've decided to move in together...now what? Do you get a new place, or move in with them? Whose furniture do we use? Is there enough closet space? And what happens the first time you brush your teeth together?! A lot of things can change

Liar, Liar

Jul 2nd, 2019 41m 44s

Is there really such a thing as a “white lie” or do they always snowball into more? Are we lying to kids about Santa Clause or is that just fun make-believe? We’re talking about lying in this one, from calling in sick to those notorious “I’m on

James Dean or Chuck Bass?

Jun 25th, 2019 47m 14s

What makes "bad boys" seem so appealing? Is it their mysterious, alluring, sociopath behavior? Or just our need to fix them? We're discussing the attraction to the brooding and emotionally unavailable in this one, from leather jackets and jukeb