My name is Kim Wagner. I was a radio announcer at various radio stations for over 25 years. I am a mother of 3, and sadly recently separated from my husband (his choice) after 25 years. I'm pretty sure he's having an affair. After celebrating our 25 year anniversary where he put up banners all over the backyard, and we had a wonderful day listening to our favourite music, and singing along, he started not coming home at night. He's stayed out all night many many times in the last 3 months, and I have been truly heartbroken. I am desperately trying to move on, but he still comes home now and again, whenever he feels like it, and never tells me when, or if he's coming home. He says, "I don't have to tell you anything." He has taken all our money, and I have actually had to go to the foodbank a number of times, because he's left me no money for food, and nowhere near enough to pay the bills, and the kids and I still need to eat and live in the home, so it's been an incredibly painful time. I have volunteered for the food bank many times over the years along with volunteering with the S.P.C.A. newcomers to the country, the Y etc. I have felt like giving up on life, because of his betrayal, and the pain I've been in, and actually thought about how I would do it, but then I thought of my kids, and realized that no matter how much pain I've been in, and wanting to give up on life to stop the pain, it would hurt my kids too much, so I couldn't do that to them. I am currently just trying to move forward with my life, and stop crying. The tears just flow sometimes, when I'm alone. I try not to let the kids see my pain. If you have any advice, or have had a familiar experience, I hope you will share, and/or contact me, and let me know how you made it through.Kim [email protected]