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Tammy What's

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up y'all? It's your girl Lex P.

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And it's your girl, Jordyn Nicole. And

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you are tuned in to another episode

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of Poor Mine. Where a drunk mind

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speaks sober thought. We got a guest

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today. We got

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a guest today. Let

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me tell y'all something. I am so excited

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because I love when we have

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guests on that y'all be waiting on. And

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when I tell you they have literally blown

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up our messages, our comments, and been asking

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you to come on. Yeah. Today

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we got Skilla Baby in a building.

1:05

Thank you for joining us. Thank y'all

1:08

for having me. Yay. So how

1:10

are you before we get started? I'm cool.

1:13

How y'all doing? We doing good. We

1:15

good. It's okay. I want

1:17

to start off, I like to hear people's like origin

1:19

story. Like, cause I'd be surprised to find

1:21

out like sometimes people have been rapping for

1:24

a very long time or sometimes it was

1:26

just like a hobby they picked up. How

1:28

long have you been like doing music? I've

1:31

been doing music for a long time. Yeah. I'm

1:33

25, probably been doing that since I was like 16. Okay.

1:36

Okay. So when did you

1:38

decide to start taking it serious? Probably

1:41

like a few years back, probably like three,

1:43

four years ago. And you felt like, okay, you

1:45

know what? I can do a little one too. I'm

1:47

kind of cold. Yeah. I

1:49

feel like then I feel

1:51

like I can make money off of it. Like it can

1:54

be like a career. Three

1:57

years ago. Yeah. So I feel like.

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Because you from Detroit, obviously. Just

2:02

talk about a Detroit nigga that just be a

2:04

little different. Detroit niggas be smooth. They be smooth.

2:07

Y'all got a little hustle about it. Don't talk

2:09

about that angle of it. Did you do it because it

2:11

was like, okay, I'm passionate about it? Or was it like, you

2:13

know what? I can make some money from this for real. No,

2:16

I was passionate about music at a young age, probably

2:18

like 15, 16. But

2:20

then, I was just

2:22

doing it because I liked it. Yeah. I

2:24

was going to work every day and just

2:26

spending my money going to the studio, doing

2:28

stuff like that. Where you used to work at? I

2:31

worked a lot of places. For real?

2:33

Mm-hmm. I worked more restaurant

2:36

stuff. You was a waiter?

2:39

I went in a waiter. I was like, cooked. Oh,

2:41

for real? Mm-hmm. That mean you can cook for

2:43

real? Yeah, I can cook. You know what you're

2:45

doing? You be cooking for your girls? No, I

2:47

don't be cooking like that. Oh, okay. I don't

2:50

do that. But you been cooking like a little

2:52

grilled cheese or something? No. I

2:54

think you could cook better than that if you was a cook. I

2:56

cooked once a year. Okay, I mean,

2:58

now. I cooked yesterday on Arie Show.

3:00

What you was cooking? We just made

3:03

burger stuff. I'm sorry. Hey,

3:05

it's the art to making a good burger though.

3:07

It is. I feel like sometimes the most simple stuff,

3:09

you could really elevate it. That's why you was laughing at

3:11

a grilled cheese. My grilled cheese is not to be fucked

3:13

with now. It's not a simple grilled cheese. It's not a

3:15

simple grilled cheese. You are crazy. Okay, so

3:18

what's your favorite thing to cook? I know you only cook

3:20

once a year, but what was the thing that you used

3:22

to like? Okay, I know if somebody

3:24

eats this, if they ask me to cook, it's

3:26

going to be good. I

3:28

don't know. I like cooking burgers though. I

3:31

cook my burgers differently. I bet you make

3:33

a mean Krabby Patty. Not a

3:35

Krabby Patty. You look like you can throw

3:37

down. No, I put my burgers

3:39

in the oven though. You put your patties in the oven?

3:41

Also, you don't grill it. I like grill it, and then

3:43

I don't like it cook all the way through. I don't

3:46

cook it all the way through. I put it in the

3:48

oven. See, that sounds like a skill to me. That's what

3:50

I was going to say. You can't be giving the sauce

3:52

away. No, you know, like the oven

3:54

ain't going to dry it out, so your burger ain't going

3:56

to be dry. See, I ain't

3:58

know that because I've never put it. Patty in

4:00

the oven. Yeah, I haven't ever did

4:02

that either. Okay, so speaking of Detroit

4:04

You just teams up with the Detroit

4:06

Police Department or something to do like

4:08

a gun by back Yeah, so can

4:10

you like elaborate on that a little

4:12

bit and feel us how they came

4:14

about? I

4:17

just be trying to look for ways to

4:19

give back to the city a lot of

4:21

gun violence, right? I'm a victim of gun

4:23

violence. Oh, no, I didn't know that.

4:25

Yeah, I got shot So I just be trying to

4:27

like little kids and stuff. I'll be trying

4:30

to keep them safe So, okay, I just

4:32

donated some money to get the guns off

4:34

the street. Okay Yeah,

4:37

I just feel like to me When

4:40

you live through something like that

4:42

that was like traumatizing I want

4:45

to talk about the after-effects of that So

4:47

cuz I know we we don't talk about mental health a

4:49

lot in our community So dealing with the

4:51

gun violence and stuff like after you got shot

4:53

Like how did you deal with that mentally and

4:55

like that trauma that you had to go through?

4:59

Mentally, it fucked you up first. Yeah, it

5:01

just it put me in a space where I was

5:03

a person. I really wasn't like No,

5:08

I was way a lot angry and stuff

5:10

like that And then I

5:12

just do lash out on certain stuff that

5:14

I wouldn't lash out it. Mm-hmm I

5:16

had to really grow out of it. It took me like

5:18

a year or two to grow out of that Yeah, it

5:21

was cool though Like it was I ain't

5:23

gonna say like I enjoyed the experience of

5:25

getting shot like I didn't enjoy it at

5:27

all But it taught me something. Yeah, right

5:31

Okay, so talk about You

5:33

being on tour with offset cuz I don't

5:35

you know, sometimes I'd be like, I don't

5:38

know how people be cool and linking up

5:40

So how did that link up happen? Um,

5:43

I've been talking to also like through DMS

5:45

and stuff like that. Mm-hmm And

5:47

then one day we just he just called me out

5:49

of nowhere and just asked me to be on tour

5:51

But that was cool. Like no, I kind of looked

5:53

up to the me goes That

5:57

was like cool as hell I think it's

5:59

so interesting to By we're doing something about

6:01

being that's how it is for us as

6:03

well. By you look at the people in

6:05

all the same you sit on a cast

6:07

of them you're opening up for man and

6:09

it is go to sell you like how

6:11

easy it is kinda to connect with how

6:13

social media Alpha saw his stuff is so

6:15

I who else having links that with on

6:17

social media this you know you are working

6:19

on something are being that we can expect.

6:24

Rules over Adam Right to make

6:26

that would allow people says. Oh

6:31

no as and do stuff for would. Make.

6:34

Me years to afford sir. May.

6:38

Blow really does the of glow

6:40

me some glow money. Bergio jeremiah

6:43

ago while I got a lot

6:45

of news of would allow the

6:47

people okay are you. Off all about

6:49

so how have on the floor we. Laugh

6:51

when I saw we actually I am on

6:54

a shower not a long ass off him

6:56

calling on in a you. I

6:59

see easily. I I'm a law law

7:01

out of the obvious, I'm a keep

7:03

up with the key. What's our meal

7:05

and now so let me ask you

7:07

is how I saw you do interview.

7:09

You said you was a your baby's

7:11

era una you make music for girls

7:13

for the baby. It's a very low.

7:16

Thought. About that a little bit silly

7:18

because I really think a lot of

7:20

times a lot of male rapper they

7:22

don't value their. Women are

7:25

I ne suis Lee has and I always say

7:27

that the women other tastemakers. the women are going

7:29

to be the one who buy your mart they

7:31

call me the one who buy your hearts are

7:33

it's a good thing be to was a really

7:35

solid they want me to want to sarkozy l

7:37

phone to make people like this all the Mumbai

7:39

you decided to go like that route of be

7:41

and like for the girls. Amuses

7:44

more of a surprise to senseless

7:46

I ruined Justify Windows is no

7:48

room for group or my bills

7:50

and or type. Type.

7:53

Who was different music but. surprisingly

7:56

i just moved from do

7:58

for with odds put it in my music.

8:02

I don't just make a song like, oh my God, the

8:04

girl's gonna love this. I just subconsciously,

8:06

when I go to the studio, I happen to

8:08

say something that a girl might like. Did

8:11

you grow up around a lot of women? Like, do

8:13

you have like a lot of sisters? Yeah, I got

8:15

like three sisters and a momma. I grew up in

8:17

the house with them. It was just us for real,

8:19

for real. Okay, that makes me, that makes a lot

8:21

of sense. Have you been in love before? I've

8:24

been in love before, like one

8:26

time it was cool. Was

8:29

it like, do you feel like it was like your first real

8:31

love or you feel like it was just kind of

8:33

like you had love for her? Cause

8:35

there's a difference. And you know, they say you

8:37

fall in love three times and you're like, like

8:39

real love. Yeah, it's like your first love. I've

8:41

been in love like, I don't think

8:43

like you can, like once you love a person,

8:45

you can't stop loving them for real, even if

8:48

you move on, I still think, maybe you'll fall

8:50

out of love, but I still love

8:52

the person. Yeah, it's like you not

8:54

in love with them no more, but you still got a

8:56

lot of love for you. Yeah. You

8:59

still love her. I love her. I know

9:01

that's right. That was real love. I like

9:03

that, I like that. Okay, so I

9:06

want to ask you this. Now I'm about

9:08

to get my little walk bag a little bit.

9:10

I'm not, I'm not really for real. So you,

9:12

Jack Harlow has the number one song with

9:16

loving on me and he shouted

9:18

you out. So are you,

9:20

do y'all have a relation? Like, are

9:22

y'all cool? Cause I'm not gonna lie, when I heard that song, I

9:24

was like, oh, how he know it's killer baby? I didn't know they

9:26

was cool like that. So when he shouted

9:28

you out, did you know that that was coming or

9:30

was it kind of a surprise to you? It

9:33

was a surprise when he started marketing

9:35

on TikTok, but if the song

9:37

wasn't out yet. But

9:40

me and Jack Harlow, like I've been

9:42

knowing of Jack Harlow, we,

9:44

before he right before he blew up, he was

9:46

coming to Detroit, he was on tour and stuff.

9:49

And then we, like

9:52

I knew Jack Harlow, but then now like

9:54

our relationship, not music, like me and Jack

9:56

Harlow talk about life. How's your day going?

9:58

Oh, yeah, for real. That's my

10:00

guy. How your day going,

10:02

how your mental going, how you feeling? We

10:04

don't really talk about music. If

10:07

we cross that bridge, we're gonna get there and

10:09

we'll do that. But most

10:11

of my, even like other

10:13

industry people, I don't really be talking to

10:15

them about music. I can rap, so I

10:17

don't really be trying to force a connection

10:20

like in the studio. I

10:22

be trying to get to know people. Because if

10:24

I don't really feel you as a person, I

10:27

don't really want to do music with you. I

10:30

feel that because we be doing the same way. So

10:32

how do you navigate that now that you

10:34

said that? Because it be

10:37

a lot of pressure to people want to link up

10:39

and collab. They feel like, oh my fan

10:41

base, your fan base. So do you be

10:43

feeling pressure to work with people? Because

10:47

let me say this, I feel like a lot of

10:49

times, especially when you're a newcomer in the

10:51

industry, it's kind of like you

10:54

have to make a decision. You know what

10:56

I'm saying? So it's like, either you're gonna fuck with this

10:58

person and make a song with them, but if you don't,

11:00

they're gonna feel some type of way. So how do you

11:02

kind of like stand ten toes on your own and do

11:04

your own thing without offending people? I

11:07

mean, I don't really be caring who offended. I don't want

11:09

to be around you. I don't want to be around you.

11:12

I'm not gonna make myself unhappy

11:15

just to make somebody else happy. I'm not doing that.

11:18

If somebody gets offended about me and I want

11:21

to work with them, I'm really not talking about

11:23

it. We don't really have to

11:25

be around each other. It ain't

11:27

no malice, no pressure. I

11:30

don't want to be for you. I might

11:33

not be your type of person though. You might

11:35

not be mine. So it's like, that

11:38

just might go like that. I

11:40

work with who I want to work with. Money

11:42

don't motivate me to work with nobody or nothing.

11:45

Okay. I'm not gonna lie, that's

11:47

a good point that you said too, because I feel like

11:49

a lot of times, I ain't gonna say no names, but

11:51

there was a lot of people working with a certain artist

11:53

and I just could not believe they kept working

11:55

with this person. But I was like, maybe because the checks

11:57

was clearing. You know what I'm saying? I

12:00

mean, I think when it kind of

12:02

comes to stuff like that though, everybody don't

12:04

have the same moral compass. You know, so

12:06

sometimes it is about like the money like

12:08

we, like he's just the same, you know, he's not

12:11

money motivated. So, but some people would be like, okay,

12:13

if you couldn't achieve, I'm gonna just do

12:15

what I have to do. You

12:17

ain't right, but this will be going on. So

12:19

before we get into these topics, I do want to

12:21

talk about Bay because that was like your first like

12:23

big. And it was huge. It was,

12:25

it was a song. That's why I mean, feel like

12:28

it's not like people not still listening to it. And

12:30

I, like I said, when I see here a phone that

12:32

she like, I said, hold on, what's up nephew? I

12:35

turned that up. I said, turn that up. I did like

12:37

that phone. You put it on one of y'all. You

12:39

put it on video. I said, hold on,

12:41

babe, you know, you fine. You know, once he

12:44

hit that little hip, I mean, I mean that

12:46

work. Well, you

12:48

were in the studio recording that phone. Like, did you

12:50

know it was gonna blow it? Like, cause I always

12:52

wonder when y'all hear a song for the first time

12:54

and it blows up, was you like, okay, this the

12:56

one I knew it was the one,

12:58

but I, um, I

13:01

ain't liked the song. I didn't

13:03

like it, but I knew like certain,

13:05

like certain songs I put out, I

13:07

know like it's more commercially and

13:10

more like leaning towards like,

13:13

like even though like I don't

13:15

be liking them. I know like I

13:18

got a good ear for like what, cause

13:20

when I do music, I don't

13:22

really be doing it for myself cause

13:25

it's like a business. So I'd be leaning

13:28

towards what like other

13:30

people want to hear from me. I like cause

13:33

if I make a song, I like, I just

13:35

play it myself. I could do that. Like, you

13:37

know, so I just be trying to be like,

13:40

like even certain words I'd be saying or

13:42

leaving cuss words out and stuff. Like I'd

13:44

be big on that now because like you

13:47

just gotta be like, so if you could make

13:49

the music

13:52

like, well, when you do make the music that

13:54

you want for yourself versus like what people want

13:56

to hear, like what would that sound like? If

14:00

you could name an artist that you would

14:02

be like, compared to sound to, like what you, the

14:05

music that you would make for yourself would sound like,

14:07

who would it be? I really wouldn't sound like nobody

14:09

else though, because I don't feel like people be going

14:12

through the same stuff I be going through. Yeah. I'd

14:15

be wanting to talk about all types of stuff though. I

14:17

got songs where I talk about all types of

14:19

stuff, it'd be wild. Yeah. I

14:22

feel like, and

14:25

like for musicians or like

14:27

rappers, I feel like studio

14:29

kind of like your diary. I

14:31

got like songs where I just say a lot of

14:34

crazy stuff. One time one of my

14:36

songs had leaked like in my city, and

14:38

like it was just bad. Why, you were

14:40

name dropping? I was saying it was crazy. Girl,

14:43

you was being messy, skiller baby. But I said,

14:45

I said something, it was crazy. Like. What you

14:47

saying? I want to know the tea house. I

14:49

said it was wild stuff, it wasn't like no

14:51

girls, and then it was just like. You were

14:54

talking that hot shit. I was like kind of

14:56

mad, and I sent it to somebody, they sent

14:58

it to somebody else. I don't even think they meant

15:00

to leak it like. The song was

15:02

just so sweet though. But

15:04

I told them I'd never drop it though. People

15:07

just got to playing it. It was wild.

15:10

Are you a person who like, do you write before

15:12

you go to the studio or do you just go

15:14

in the booth? I do both. You do both? Okay.

15:17

So I want to talk to you too,

15:19

since you're talking about like your city and stuff. Did you

15:21

notice, because we had a show in Detroit last year, it

15:24

was the first time I've ever been to Detroit. I

15:26

say this all the time. It was our best

15:29

show of the tour. It really was. Detroit showed

15:31

us so much love, and I was so shocked

15:33

because crazy enough as it is, I didn't want to

15:35

go to Detroit. Nobody wanted to come to Detroit. I did

15:37

not want to go to Detroit. I was like. Nobody wants

15:39

to come. I was, because you know what? until

15:42

you get there, because it's not a tour. Oh yeah.

15:44

It was so much fun. The food was

15:46

good. If you like appreciate the ghetto, and

15:48

like, if you appreciate like

15:51

the urban community, having

15:53

real fun, like not created fun,

15:55

like not something you've got

15:58

to, you could just. Like one day, 2005

16:01

we had a blackout. I think that was the

16:03

funnest day in Detroit like a blackout Yeah, like

16:05

all the power went out. Everybody was outside Hide

16:15

and seek barbecues. He's

16:17

pulling up with you put them buns in the oven I

16:21

swear they are names pulling up with BB guns.

16:23

We're going to water park everything. It was just

16:26

fun Yeah, like what like two summers ago I

16:30

think like the whole east

16:32

side came out with BB guns or

16:34

like paintball guns They had

16:36

like a BB gun war like this. It

16:39

was crazy off

16:41

your phone From in front of

16:43

the TV and it's the energy so like the

16:45

energy when we was in Detroit It was like

16:47

I never experienced it in another the CD not

16:50

even in Houston. That's our home Detroit

16:54

Surprised the hell out of me So I say all

16:56

that to say though because you weren't talking about like

16:58

the song that leads and stuff So when

17:00

you when when they blew up Did you feel

17:03

a lot of love from the rappers in your

17:05

city or was it kind of like they was

17:07

low-key like hating a little Big I

17:09

don't think I don't really be paying attention to

17:11

like who be hating on me Yeah,

17:14

I guess so much live. I don't really be

17:16

paying attention to who be hating like I

17:18

think Detroit doing is big one right now No,

17:21

so I support all the rappers in Detroit.

17:23

I like I listen to everybody music whatever

17:25

I can do for him I try to

17:27

do yeah Music

17:30

like I definitely want to ask you about show

17:32

a new single that's supposed to be coming out

17:34

soon on a boy April 19th Three

17:37

week meet. Okay, tell us a little bit

17:39

about your single. Oh, I just

17:41

I want to do

17:43

a song that was like representation

17:45

I like like

17:49

Cuz we got a lot of people that come

17:51

from Detroit and like like

17:54

I Feel

17:57

like big meets like just one of the

18:00

big niches that came from Detroit. Like there's

18:03

so many names like big niche in Detroit,

18:05

like he just liked the

18:07

well known one and we respect

18:09

him. They're like, no, so I really wanted

18:11

to show love little niches. One of my

18:13

good friends, I got him in

18:15

the video and then I just thought it

18:17

was a good concept because I think big

18:19

niches are representation of a

18:22

real Detroit nigga. Like you feel me? I

18:26

sometimes people get threw off

18:28

by some other representations of

18:30

Detroit names, but I think like for the

18:32

most part, we are like smooth. We

18:35

are not hard to get along

18:37

with. We all want to see each other win.

18:39

Like, and I think like he's just

18:41

a great representation of a Detroit like gangster, like

18:43

a thug like you see him. It's

18:46

crazy because I feel like every person

18:48

I've met from Detroit, they all, they all

18:50

do be having like great energy. Yeah. It's

18:52

like I go in thinking that it's going to

18:54

be one way and I end up being like, you

18:56

know what, he was really sweet. He was really, really

18:59

nice. I was imagining y'all having like the

19:01

furs and the buffs like, oh, you know,

19:03

like they do be having that shit on.

19:06

I think people think we arrogant like

19:08

and like I think people think like

19:10

we just super arrogant or super mean

19:13

or angry, but it could

19:15

be like the most like

19:17

gangster nigga, he's going to be smooth because

19:19

that's just how we are. Yeah. And it'd

19:22

be a lot of violence stuff going on

19:24

and stuff, but it'd be for a reason.

19:26

You know, people, we don't

19:28

be just having people coming outside just

19:31

trying to do terrorist attacks like, some

19:33

people be into it. You

19:35

know, money be involved, all types of stuff. So

19:38

it's really a good place to be like, and

19:41

we ain't just coming outside just trying to pick

19:43

on you. Like we ain't doing that. Like, like

19:46

Sandraia or no, we ain't about to pick on

19:48

y'all. They're all really going to be super famous.

19:50

Like then it's like y'all are

19:52

real beautiful or fine and shit. So y'all are

19:54

going to walk around and people going to embrace

19:56

that. No,

20:00

they're going to embrace that though. We

20:03

embrace beautiful women. Where we

20:05

from? You know, in your

20:07

city, I ain't going to say,

20:09

I love Detroit women. That's

20:11

why I always go back, but it's

20:13

like, once y'all come in,

20:16

it's going to be like, y'all the new kids on the

20:18

block. They're going to embrace y'all. They're

20:20

not going to be like, no, they're going to

20:23

be like, yes. We

20:26

had payroll pull up to the show. And

20:28

he was so nice. They were hospitable. His

20:30

girlfriend, I mean, not his girlfriend. I think

20:32

they're, I don't, I don't, I think they're

20:35

married. Yeah. Kendra, she had sent

20:37

us some bundles. You know, Detroit girls here be late. So

20:39

it was just like the hospitality. Like they

20:41

were so nice. And like I said, it

20:44

just really took me by surprise. Do you be watching BMS though?

20:47

Yeah. Is it a true representation?

20:51

Some of it would be a little far fit.

20:53

Yeah. Cause I'm like, damn, you

20:55

walking in the club, snuffing niggas. Every day.

20:57

Every day. I'm like, damn, bitch.

21:01

No, I need to get like that in Detroit

21:03

though. Baby, y'all be fighting. I

21:05

got into a couple of stuff. When was the last time you got

21:07

in a fight? Probably a couple of months

21:09

ago. For real? When did you

21:11

start the fight or did the other person start

21:14

the fight? I feel like they started it, but

21:16

I kind of started it too. You who swung

21:18

first? I swung first. So you started it. I

21:20

can tell you who swung first. It kind of

21:22

went viral. You started it? It went viral. Yeah.

21:25

See, Anci don't be on the internet. Tell me what happened.

21:27

Somebody walked up on me like 30 people

21:29

walked up on me. It was me by myself for

21:31

real and I smacked them. Stop

21:34

it. I believe it. You wasn't scared. You

21:36

seem like like a silent assassin. Yes, he do. Don't play

21:39

with him. So you, you going to get out

21:41

there so that nobody needs to. I

21:45

just protect myself and was mine

21:48

like my people. And stuff. I

21:50

just, I'm big on that. And

21:52

you're a very calm person. Cause

21:55

I had seen one time that she was on live with

21:57

this lady and she was like, I thought Within

22:00

a pop out of a here because he

22:02

was funny when a small may some about

22:04

not pneumonia thought that a user fi. Guy.

22:08

Marries his I'm Ali when all they're

22:10

all I am. I said you feel

22:12

like. Do. Ever really

22:14

like lose your temper low? Birth.

22:17

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22:19

oh guy be a year Only

22:22

had none the wiser both network

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those or of the sunlight are

22:26

gonna be an animator. Some like

22:28

the. Or devices I'm on

22:30

a dating profile said I didn't want

22:32

them to rio. And. Sometimes the

22:35

latter think people do stuff for like

22:37

money, as a nervous laugh and in

22:39

a situation which. She doesn't remove. Any

22:42

holiday a lot. Everly thought

22:44

to have among idea seem like four Swords is

22:46

what has he with you. We see new non

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22:51

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these are the river Male models are definitely or

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you I don't know like this you here

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25:54

let me say this before we close out. Y'all,

25:57

there is one Twitter account.

26:00

that is connected to poor minds.

26:02

It's P-O-U-R underscore

26:04

in my NDS. Y'all are tagging

26:06

the wrong poor minds page. If

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you see at poor minds with no underscore,

26:10

that is a fake page. Do not follow

26:12

that page, okay? They blocked

26:15

me, Andrea, and the poor minds

26:17

page on both. So we only have

26:19

one Instagram, one

26:21

Twitter, one TikTok. It

26:24

is P-O-U-R underscore in my NDS.

26:27

And we got hella fake Facebook page.

26:30

Oh, the Facebook page. Our

26:32

Facebook, the crazy thing is our Facebook page

26:34

actually has the least amount of followers. So

26:36

if you on Facebook. The one that's ours

26:39

got the least amount of followers. The one that's

26:41

not us got like 250,000 followers. at

26:45

the content, because the caption is like, whoever

26:47

it is, don't speak English. Because their captors

26:49

are like, mumba clod. Should men

26:52

pay bills? Should

26:54

men pay bills? Yes, no. Check

26:57

answer below. Block, block. Fuck

27:00

off, fuck off, fuck off. Like they're literally

27:02

with the caption. I'm like, what was that,

27:05

need you to use mumba clod. Mumba clod.

27:07

I love that video. Okay, so I'm

27:10

not gonna lie to you. I forgot what I was gonna

27:12

ask. You forgot the question. Because you distracted

27:14

me. Don't blame it on me. You can go about

27:16

the law. You asked all rappers this. Huh? You

27:18

said you asked every rapper. Oh, every, I do.

27:21

Thank you. I don't like you. I'm

27:23

gonna bring you to my family reunion. I'm gonna say

27:25

nephew. I got another nephew. So

27:27

I asked all the rappers this because I feel

27:29

like a lot of y'all do the 20 girls versus

27:32

the rappers, right? So I watched

27:34

a few clips from yours. And

27:37

I just wanna know, because I

27:39

always feel like, I

27:41

don't like to shade people's content or whatever

27:43

they do. Because I feel like there's a

27:45

line for everybody when it comes to creating

27:47

content, creating music, whatever you wanna do. But

27:50

I'm not gonna lie, when I watched it, it

27:53

was giving like you didn't wanna be there. Because

27:56

the girl, it was one girl. I guess y'all were

27:58

at a video shoot or something. And she

28:00

was trying to ride with you from the video

28:02

set to the next set, but she was like,

28:05

I don't know you like that. And then she

28:07

was kind of like lying on camera about like

28:09

what happened because she was like, Oh, you was up on me and

28:12

things like that. He was like, Nick. So

28:14

talk about like that experience of like the

28:16

20 girls versus rappers. Like was

28:18

it fun for you or was it kind of like,

28:21

you know, I don't be liking

28:23

to do too much where I ain't really

28:25

a person that's trying to embarrass nobody. So

28:27

I ain't really trying to next

28:30

nobody or do nothing like for no, I

28:32

don't like cameras for real, for real anyway.

28:34

And then like, I don't even want that

28:36

type of engagement with a

28:38

woman like short, like next and all that.

28:40

I ain't really into that. They paid me

28:42

though. So I did it. But

28:45

I don't really, I ain't really into that.

28:48

Like going too much on camera, like trying

28:50

to embarrass the person. You were kind of like,

28:52

I'm not picking on who to give this money

28:54

to. Like you can give it to whoever. So

28:57

would you do it again? For the money? I'm

29:00

not sure for that check too.

29:02

I always wondered though, like shows

29:04

like they like, I wonder do they like tell

29:06

the girls though, like all you need to do these

29:08

or all you need to do a little bit more

29:10

just to make it interesting. Or do I be

29:12

wondering if they really be there thirsty for you? Cause

29:16

every time I be watching the clips of a show, it'd be

29:18

very cringy. Well that I'm glad that you

29:20

said that. Cause that's going to bring me into the first time. Yeah.

29:23

I was like, I'm going to talk about groupie culture because

29:26

I feel like the

29:28

groupie culture is always going to be a groupie culture, man or

29:31

woman. Right. So

29:34

I, I wanted to talk about this cause like I said, the

29:37

first girl that you were talking to, it was like her energy

29:39

was kind of weird. And it was like, you

29:41

was really being nice to her and then she was trying a lot like,

29:43

but she was all up on me. And you were like,

29:45

see now you lying. And you said you don't

29:47

like a liar. Me, me, you ain't

29:49

going to get along too much. But that's another

29:51

topic. But

29:54

I do want to talk about groupie culture. Cause I feel

29:56

like back in the day, I feel like

29:58

the groupies like. in the

30:00

90s, they were a little more smooth. They

30:03

were a little more subtle. Yes, I feel like

30:05

they would show up to the club. You

30:07

know, they see a rapper in the section

30:09

or whatever. They would probably walk up, say,

30:11

hey, speak, smelling good, looking good,

30:13

polished. They get invited to the section. They leave

30:15

and do what they think. Who said that? I

30:18

just feel like that's how he used to be.

30:20

My momma said it wasn't like this. It wasn't

30:22

like this? My momma said Tupac had lines outside

30:24

his hotel. Like his room, like down the road.

30:26

I did hear that about Chris Brown one time.

30:29

He used to be having lines outside his hotel.

30:31

I watched a documentary about Aerosnip like a long

30:33

time ago. And like they

30:35

don't, especially those rock group, groupies,

30:38

they used to be chasing

30:40

the tour buses down. Like

30:42

all types of sneaking on the tour bus lines

30:44

about who they was sneaking on the tour bus, being on

30:46

the tour bus. They didn't even know, they didn't even pop

30:48

out the bathroom. So they didn't have no coop either? No. What

30:51

does your mom tell you about the old school groupies? They

30:54

was like, my eyes all tied to the hotel.

30:56

I ain't really asked like what they was doing.

31:00

She told me like it was lined up. Like

31:02

they was lined up to see these people. I

31:05

don't know. I guess now. I just feel

31:08

like fandom always going to be fandom. Right.

31:10

I can agree with that. But I guess, you know what?

31:13

I'll say this. Maybe I'm coming from the angle of

31:15

it's just put on blast so much. It's

31:17

social media era. That's why. Because I feel

31:19

like if it's skill a baby, like

31:22

if you slid into my DMs, I

31:24

would just have a conversation with you. I'm

31:27

not screenshotting it. I'm not being like, oh,

31:29

Shay room. Yeah. Nowadays, I feel like

31:31

you slide into a girl's DMs, especially

31:33

like the younger girls. That's how

31:35

mommy. So ready to put

31:38

something on blast. And it's like, why? I

31:40

feel like back in the day now, you

31:43

really couldn't do that. Because who you going

31:45

to contact, Star Magazine? But they were though.

31:47

They were. I feel like people being

31:50

trying to get on. I feel like it was bigger back then

31:52

though. Like it was a bigger

31:54

since it wasn't social media. Yeah. Somebody get caught with

31:56

somebody. I feel like it was bigger. It was like

31:58

a big. Like, nah, it's just like. like dog

32:00

got caught with her. Who? No,

32:03

I'm just saying. With like another groupie? Oh yeah, yeah,

32:05

yeah. Yeah. So how do you deal

32:07

with like groupies? Cause I know sometimes you got

32:09

to slide. Sometimes a girl comes to the club,

32:11

come to your section and she looking good. You

32:14

gonna bring her back to that hotel nephew. I don't

32:16

do that. You don't ever do that? You can ask

32:18

them, I don't do that. Ever?

32:21

No. I ain't leaving with

32:24

nobody in the front row, like I ain't doing that. Being

32:26

on tour real quick. Why not? Wait, why

32:28

not the front row? I ain't,

32:31

I done tried that before and it just don't work

32:33

out like, damn, you gotta think like, after

32:35

you had this certain experience with a girl, like

32:37

she ain't no fan no more. Not

32:40

she a home girl. Like, not she don't want

32:42

to pay to get in. Like that's really taking

32:44

food out your mouth. Do

32:47

you feel like the front row, they making like

32:49

you too big of a fan. You want a

32:51

conda fan. No, I'm just saying. Like 50th row.

32:53

No, I ain't even, I'm not leaving, I'm not

32:55

leaving with nobody out the crowd though. Okay.

32:57

I ain't doing that like. Even if she in a

32:59

balcony. I'm not leaving with nobody out the

33:01

crowd. I

33:04

let my fans be my fans like. Okay,

33:06

that's fair though. That's

33:08

actually smart. That is smart. We say

33:10

that though. Wait, I'm not about to

33:12

book with nobody who is a fan

33:14

of poor minds. I'm not gonna lie

33:16

because I think, I've

33:19

seen a lot of podcasters. Book

33:21

their fans. Book their fans, yes. I've seen

33:23

that. I don't know a lot of like

33:25

rappers person to be like on tour with.

33:27

I've been on a lot of live shows

33:29

with these podcast. And I've seen it. So

33:32

I understand your point of view just because like I

33:35

said, I know I would never do that. So

33:38

I do understand, but that's why I was

33:40

asking. Cause it's like. No, I just be

33:42

like, I imagine a

33:44

man being a fan of poor minds.

33:47

He fanned out about you and stuff like that. It's

33:50

not like a fantasy. And

33:53

like, let's just say like,

33:55

he just a fan and then he meet you. Now

33:58

he like. He

34:00

not amazed by you like how you

34:02

was amazed by you. Cause he experienced

34:05

you. Yeah, well I also too feel like

34:07

sometimes people have an expectation of you and

34:09

so if you don't meet that, they're

34:11

kind of like, Oh, well, it's like, Even

34:14

if you meet that expectation though, like even

34:16

if you meet every expectation of them, like

34:20

you can meet like a girl could come to the show. She

34:23

had her same experience. You

34:25

meet her expectation. You

34:28

go home, fuck her. Now she feel like she don't

34:30

bitch or bitch or something. Like you feel me? I'm

34:32

not sure if she's sending them home. No,

34:35

I'm just saying like she just feel like she,

34:38

it's an attachment. You gotta think like once

34:40

you fuck somebody or do something like that,

34:42

you swap an energy. Like, so

34:44

it's like, that's a big energy

34:46

swap. That is. It's a certain

34:48

attachment that girls specifically gonna have

34:50

off that. Okay. That's

34:52

all I'll say. You're very mature for your age.

34:55

Cause a lot of times they don't even look

34:57

at it like that. They be like, I don't

34:59

care. They just be wonderful. I'm the girl. You

35:01

know, so how, how is your

35:03

dating life? Are you single? I'm

35:06

dating. You're dating. Okay. So

35:08

how does, cause the girls is watching because they

35:10

don't want to know like, how does a girl,

35:12

you know, approach you or you

35:14

don't like to be approached? That's

35:17

a little bit too much for me. Like I, I

35:20

enjoy your chase. Okay. So what

35:22

did you show us in chain? It

35:24

just be something about like, it

35:27

just gotta be something about you. It just

35:29

gotta be like, there's nothing like you do.

35:31

It's just like some girls, it just, you

35:33

know, like say if a certain man walk

35:36

in, it just own him. Like

35:38

the aura. Yeah. Like certain

35:40

females just walking out. I don't like, I'd

35:43

be one of the girls that I can't get somebody

35:46

feel I can't get them. I feel like I can.

35:49

So that makes sense. That's my type

35:51

of female. Like, oh, I

35:54

don't really, I want the leader, but

35:56

a bunch. I don't really want like. You don't want the

35:58

friend. Like I ain't. Has

36:01

that ever happened to you? Like you met a girl, you thought

36:03

she was cool. And then you met her friend, you was like,

36:05

damn, I chose the wrong one. No, I

36:07

didn't, that didn't happen. So what'd you do? Nothing

36:12

for real. Cause I

36:14

was a bitch in a minute. Hey, I'm like, oh,

36:16

my bad. I'm gonna take my L. You gonna take

36:18

your L, see me? I'm gonna lie my way out

36:21

of it. I'll wait a few months. You gonna be

36:23

like, I didn't even know that was your plot twist.

36:25

Whole time. You is crazy. I love

36:27

a little plot twist. Oh

36:32

Lord, I'm sorry that few, I be

36:34

cut. The next one be lying. Why

36:36

can't you? Hey, one thing about, I'ma

36:38

say, oh my God. You know Skittle

36:40

Baby, I ain't know that. I ain't

36:42

even know that was your friend. I know y'all, come on.

36:44

I ain't even got a picture standing next to him. Ooh,

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so I'm gonna bring in the next topic. I

39:35

do wanna talk about like, because I feel like

39:37

in dating, a lot of times,

39:40

men are like, when

39:42

it comes to the girl that they settle down with, they're like,

39:45

oh, I want a good girl. I want

39:47

a girl that likes to be at home. She likes to cook

39:49

and she likes to clean. But it's like, when y'all turn up

39:51

and be having fun and be going outside, y'all always wanna be

39:53

with the bad girls. So

39:55

I feel like why not just date a bad girl

39:57

and be with a bad girl? Because if you're the

39:59

right- Right, person, the bad girl will still be

40:01

the fun turn up girl, but she'll still be that

40:03

fun turn up girl for you. That's

40:06

not realistic. Why

40:08

you say that? I don't want my girl to be

40:10

outside. Why? You

40:12

don't want to be outside? I don't really want

40:15

to be outside, but I don't want my girl to be a

40:17

street nigga like. Street nigga is crazy.

40:19

Yeah. But

40:23

I guess I feel like a lot of times when

40:25

men are in relationships, it's like

40:27

they'll have a good girl that do be at

40:29

home, that like to be inside, then they be

40:31

outside with the bad girl. With the girl that's

40:34

outside. Of course I'm going outside with the girls

40:36

that's outside. Why would I want my girl to

40:38

be outside? I'm going

40:40

to have fun with the fun girl. But

40:42

why you can't have fun with your girl? Why

40:44

would you have a threesome with your nigga? I'm

40:48

not having threesome here. Hell no. I

40:50

know girls that won't have a threesome with they nigga, but

40:52

they'll go have a threesome with another man. Because

40:55

you're not doing that with your nigga. I

40:58

guess I just feel like it

41:01

should be, I like to have a

41:04

complex relationship. So I feel like if

41:06

I want to be inside, I want to be inside with my nigga. But

41:08

if we want to turn up and have a good time, I'm

41:10

going to have me a fun nigga that likes to go outside

41:13

and we can be outside together. All right, let's go outside in

41:15

Jamaica. Not America. We ain't

41:17

going outside in America. I

41:19

mean, I'm not. You're a street killer baby. You're

41:22

a street. I don't think that's strict. I think that's lit. Like

41:24

I want a nigga that's going to be like, let's go

41:26

to Jamaica. We felt going to the club and nobody want

41:28

to go to, it's opium still. But I don't

41:30

know. I don't be going out. I don't know.

41:33

I don't know where everybody's going. But I think life

41:35

needs a balance. We can't go to Jamaica every time

41:37

or every day. Yes we can. Why we

41:39

got to go to Lourdes? I mean, I'm

41:41

not okay. Exactly. Well, I'm not gonna lie.

41:44

I don't like the club personally, but to

41:46

me, like being outside. What's outside to you

41:48

though? Like outside to me is just like

41:50

going out and having fun. Like where? Well,

41:53

I'm in Atlanta. So like things I like to

41:55

do is like, I like to go try different

41:57

foods. So I'm going to go to like

41:59

a happy hour. or somebody that has a

42:01

live band, that's outside to me. I

42:03

don't necessarily mean the club, but I

42:05

just mean having fun. So I feel

42:07

like if you can't go outside and

42:09

have fun with your girl, and you

42:11

always wanna be around other women to kind

42:14

of fulfill some kind of hole that you're

42:16

missing, you should have a person that can

42:18

meet all those things, right? I

42:20

mean, last time I was in Atlanta, I went outside

42:22

with some girls. I went to

42:24

toast, so you was like fool. I went to toast

42:26

with me and my homeboys and some girls. And

42:29

I ended up on the blog. Ended

42:31

up on the what? On the blog. I don't

42:33

want my girl to have to deal with it. Now

42:35

that's fair, that's fair, because your life is

42:38

a little different. So you can't just go.

42:40

But that's just like, even if I was

42:42

a regular guy, like it's

42:44

some girl that's somewhere, say multiple

42:47

girls like the regular guy, it's some girl that's

42:49

gonna take a picture of you and go send

42:51

it to her group chat and try to be

42:53

messy about some shit. Make a fake

42:55

page. I read, did you take my girls

42:57

somewhere where nobody had? Like

42:59

a little low key spot? Yeah, like we ain't gotta

43:02

be where everybody at. I don't really

43:04

like everybody anyway. Okay, that's fair.

43:06

I ain't really like, I'm a nice

43:09

guy, but I ain't really friendly. Like I

43:11

don't really want everybody, like when I'm on

43:13

personal time, I don't want everybody in my

43:15

face. You can go do that on

43:18

Skill of Baby time. But, and it is gonna be

43:20

like that, because you probably can't really go nowhere without

43:22

somebody stepping a beat at this point. Right,

43:24

but what I'm saying is, but at least you

43:26

wanna go do something, because

43:29

there's a lot of men, there's a lot of things that you can do that's low key

43:31

that nobody gonna take pictures of you. But what

43:33

I'm saying is, there's a difference, because it'd be

43:35

some men who'd literally just, they keep their

43:37

girl at home, and then they go outside and

43:39

they don't wanna bring her nowhere. She be at home.

43:41

Well, that's way, because who the fuck about to stay

43:44

at home, my buddy? What you mean though? Like what

43:46

type of stuff do they be doing? What

43:48

you mean? What type of, like

43:50

this man, where is he going? He

43:52

outside going where? He

43:55

at the club. I mean, it could be to the

43:57

club, or he could be outside with his homeboys. It

43:59

doesn't even gotta. I don't want to be with my

44:01

niggas. I don't either. But I'm saying I don't

44:03

like it when a man is always outside and

44:05

he's always doing things. And he act like he

44:07

can't bring his girl to have fun. He don't

44:09

bring her no hair. That's

44:12

for protection. I don't take my

44:14

mama outside. I don't take my girls outside. I

44:16

don't take my sisters outside. That's

44:18

understandable. But you don't take them from me. I grew

44:21

up in the streets, though. I

44:23

don't even go to my mama house. I

44:25

don't go to my mama house because somebody

44:27

might follow skill or baby, see skill or baby,

44:29

get a car, go to my mama house. For

44:32

what? My mama could come see me at my house or something

44:34

like that. I get that. I feel like

44:36

they do all know this about me. Why would I take

44:38

something that I live outside? I don't. I grew up in

44:40

the country, baby. You fucking street niggas, though? Hell no. That's

44:42

what I'm saying. She don't know nothing about me. I can't

44:44

speak for nothing. I like my niggas to wake up at

44:46

8.30. They got to be at work at 9. They

44:49

get off at 5. They got a lunch

44:52

break. They call me at 9. I can't

44:54

really speak for that type of man, though.

44:57

Things I grew up with, like my friends

44:59

at home, boys, we do shit

45:01

for safety precautions. We don't

45:04

take the same route home. We don't take our

45:06

family that we love outside. We

45:09

ain't doing that. Nigga see what you love, and now

45:11

he know how to hurt you. Yeah.

45:13

I don't do that. See, I ain't never had a thing about that.

45:15

You take a love. Where we going, babe? You

45:18

taking a different route home? We finna

45:20

argue. Because I'm sleepy. You taking

45:22

a long route home. You got

45:24

to tell me, see our home. But that just

45:26

like, say if you had a regular guy, and

45:28

he just make a certain amount of money, it's

45:30

a target on his back from that. It

45:33

might be somebody at his job jealous of him. You

45:35

all never know. Like, there's just safety precautions in

45:38

my head. But

45:40

like I said, I think it's about balance,

45:42

too. Because if that's the lifestyle

45:44

that you live, though, you can't expect

45:47

to just never be outside.

45:50

When I say outside, just doing anything. Because no

45:52

woman wants to just stay at home. That's

45:56

why you're playing trips and stuff like that. OK,

45:58

that's fair. Now, I'm going to do it. I

46:00

feel like if you make a certain amount, you

46:03

could take a trip a month. You could do

46:05

things. Y'all could date, like you could date at

46:07

home though. Like you could go to certain restaurants,

46:09

stuff like that. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. To

46:11

the movies, you can do all types of stuff.

46:14

Yeah. You could go to

46:16

an arcade, you could do anything. There's a lot

46:18

of stuff you could do, bowling, anything, but just

46:21

go to the places that nobody's at, that's what I'm

46:23

feeling. Yeah, I don't like to go, I don't even

46:25

like to do that. And I'm not even on your

46:27

level of notoriety, but I don't even like to go

46:30

places that are super. But I just feel like,

46:32

you know, I think there needs to be

46:34

a balance back to the good girl versus bad girl.

46:36

I feel like you can have a girl who has both.

46:38

And when I say bad girl, I just mean like

46:40

somebody who is fun. And it's

46:42

just, I think men should look for more of a

46:44

balance. But you know what I think too? I think

46:47

a lot of the time, some

46:49

of the girls like that you're talking

46:51

about, they don't even be wanting to be outside

46:53

though. You gotta think about

46:55

that. Like some people really be home

46:57

by these streets. And I feel

46:59

like sometimes the niggas be finding in my home body who

47:01

really don't care about going to

47:03

the club and going to, like

47:05

maybe going out to eat and stuff like that. But

47:08

like just being outside with a nigga, they don't really

47:10

care about that. Yeah, that is true. If

47:12

a man is just outside all the time,

47:14

I don't see how he can do that.

47:17

Because I don't even want to be outside outside. What time do

47:20

he go to work? You say your man

47:22

is going to work at eight o'clock. My man don't go

47:24

to work. My man don't, he work for himself, but I

47:26

would have given him a chance. Outside, he's probably still not

47:28

outside. Outside

47:30

just sounds sassy. Well,

47:33

okay. And that's why I said, I was

47:35

like, I was like, you like, yeah,

47:37

we outside tonight. I just been like

47:40

going out period. So I think for me,

47:42

what I mean is like, I just think

47:44

it deserves a little balance. So it's like,

47:46

if you're a man who is

47:48

going out with your friends, and you going out to

47:50

the club and partying, I think that it should be

47:53

a balance of, make sure you take your lady out

47:55

too, when you're having fun with your lady. How

47:57

often is this man that you talking about going

47:59

outside? I'm not talking about me personally. You saying

48:01

like, you don't like when a

48:03

man doing it, this average man

48:06

that's going outside, how often is he

48:08

going outside? I mean, you gotta realize

48:10

though, just from like letters that we've

48:12

received and advice, like I said, I

48:14

personally don't have that problem because me and my man

48:16

be everywhere together. But I do feel

48:18

like there are men, I see women complaining all

48:20

the time. I can't stand a nigga who always

48:22

want to be up under his homeboys and shit

48:25

like that. So you do have men out here

48:27

who go out three, four times a week with

48:29

they homeboys it's

48:31

late night, Netflix and chill or, oh, I'm tired today

48:34

and I can't go out. You probably looking for a

48:36

way to make some money though. Yeah.

48:38

And he's homeboys, you just want to go out.

48:40

Like you gotta think like that, like the average

48:43

man that's getting tour, they

48:45

ain't really trying to go out three, four times

48:47

a week. I go out, yeah, I go out

48:49

that much because I get paid to do it.

48:52

But like all my homeboys, like they

48:55

ain't going out every state I'm going to. That's

48:57

what he got to go do

49:00

something. He got to go mail something. He got

49:02

to go do something else. He

49:04

got a camera he use and like, he

49:07

got other clients like this. Everybody

49:09

ain't, so if that man just going out three,

49:11

four times a week, he probably ain't doing, he

49:14

don't want to be around. That ain't a good

49:16

nigga. He don't want to be around that lady

49:18

anyway. He don't want that lady to be paid.

49:20

Now that's what we getting to. It's up to you to

49:22

leave. That's getting to the peak. Because when you gonna be

49:24

ready to just leave, because why is he out four times

49:27

a week and then the other maybe two days, three days

49:29

he's spending with you. And y'all in the house, that's what

49:31

I said. I really want to get to the, you mean

49:33

you got to get. He probably need help from her. Like

49:36

not even like, he probably need to go home

49:38

anyway. Yeah, he might need, he might just need

49:41

her to help him though. Like sometimes a man

49:43

just need that help. Like, you know.

49:46

Are you a 50-50 man when it comes to bills? No,

49:48

I ain't really like that. I know that's

49:50

right. I pay my whole family bills though.

49:53

Yeah, you a good man. You

49:55

will, wise burn yo, I like you.

49:57

With Ray's Ray. Okay,

50:00

so we gonna move on. Good

50:02

girl versus bad girl, but let me ask that. You

50:04

like good girls, you like bad girls. It depends. For

50:08

what part of peace? Like, well you

50:10

are settled down. You want a good girl, you want a

50:12

bad girl. Of course. Huh? Of

50:14

course I want a good girl to settle down with. But

50:17

she got a little sprinkler bad. Everybody

50:20

got a little sprinkler bad though. What's your definition

50:22

of a good girl though? A

50:24

good girl? Yeah. I just

50:26

like real women. Like, I don't, like I

50:28

said, I don't want no street nigga. I don't

50:30

want nobody to feel like. A street nigga? Why

50:32

you keep calling? A street nigga

50:34

is crazy. What

50:36

you mean? A woman.

50:39

A girl. A street nigga. There's

50:41

a lot of girls being in the street though. A

50:44

lot of girls being in the street though. I

50:47

just like real women though. I want

50:49

full, I like to be baby. I'm

50:52

a lover boy. Like, all the

50:54

gangster stuff I got going on, I like to

50:56

leave that outside. When I get home, I want

50:58

to be soft. Like I want a real

51:00

woman. Like I want to play

51:03

in my hair, cook me food. Mario.

51:05

All the bills paid, like, so it's cool.

51:10

Okay, that's fair enough. So

51:12

ladies, y'all better be a good

51:14

woman now. Cause they coming for you now. Thanks,

51:17

thank you. Okay. So now,

51:19

it's time to get. I thought it was me and

51:21

Mr. Desicco's heartbeat. We already did it.

51:23

We did good versus bad and we did the groupie

51:25

culture. No, we didn't, did we? Yeah. Oh,

51:28

we did, you right. Now, if I was to say

51:30

anything. Wait, wait, wait, wait. What you got in that

51:32

bag? We

51:34

cutting up, huh? What?

51:38

I'll take it. Oh, let's go. You

51:41

know what's a tequila? You wanna listen to

51:43

tequila? Yeah. Okay. Okay.

51:46

Just a little, you know, it's gonna get you to hell. Just

51:49

a little one too. Now see, I thought you didn't lie. You

51:51

lied to Untie. What? You told Untie

51:53

you ain't drank. I don't drink. My man

51:55

Libra, Libra be lying. I don't drink. My

51:57

man Libra. I don't drink. My man Libra. I

52:01

really don't drink though. Okay, you just you just have

52:03

a little bit here like that I really don't drink

52:05

this cuz they made me drink on the last show

52:07

to Yesterday, okay.

52:10

I go out every day on drink. And

52:12

he's not driving. Oh, yeah, that's all admitted But

52:14

I'll probably take one sip on it. Okay, I'm

52:17

gonna watch it now It

52:23

was crazy So

52:31

now it's time to get into

52:33

the big bow Bow

52:36

bow bow bow bow bow

52:40

Okay, all right. It's all for the big

52:43

this our little six technique So I wanted

52:45

to talk about cuz I was having a conversation

52:47

with somebody a few

52:49

like weeks ago and he was

52:51

basically telling me that he feel

52:54

like Me and should not

52:56

be able to have six until they 30 And

52:59

I know They

53:12

feel like me and shouldn't be able to have six Until

53:15

they're 30 because you would have

53:18

accomplished more you would have probably reached

53:20

more Elgos on the strike its

53:22

list of distractions and Once

53:25

you hit 30 you have a

53:27

certain level of like emotional maturity

53:29

emotional intelligence. That was fast All

53:41

right, so Imagine

53:43

your nigga, right? Mm-hmm. You

53:46

like just going home. Uh-huh you

53:48

horny you feel But

53:51

now that's why I feel like I'm saying imagine

53:53

you mean him at 20, right 25 He's

53:56

telling you he can't touch you to eat 30 You're

53:59

gonna be looking at him Now my Google search or.

54:03

Maybe. If that I'm twenty

54:05

five you, they are my weight.

54:07

Five years. So crazy. Now

54:10

if you believe I'll just tell me. They.

54:13

Were years. As

54:15

we're would allow I live with I still a

54:17

maybe. Army. On that I'm

54:19

religious bow believe our our beliefs

54:21

and stood there move will say

54:23

says those the press as a

54:25

so I really. Enjoy

54:28

it! Also why I guess I forgot by

54:30

I do an indo like taoists as. Now

54:34

in a like. This.

54:37

Allows as a man and will. Say.

54:39

These animals as if they i

54:41

don't say or negative fair cia

54:43

the last name i have a

54:46

beard really am loyal to my

54:48

be a good man so then

54:50

let's say washed it's easier than

54:52

us easy Easy for you to

54:55

say they now the society play

54:57

but realistically speaking light. Weight.

54:59

So you're thirty for have think this plays. Those

55:02

ironically was with us, as is

55:04

those murders and freedom. Is

55:06

my Lord dangers Somoza. He says

55:09

he added some yoga love right

55:11

now referred to as others it's

55:13

users The as says. Oh

55:17

uses. This. Is

55:19

crazy. Man who

55:21

say there are many sexual partners didier

55:23

before bird. And

55:26

as I wasn't a good at asking a

55:28

lot, I would he would. We have islands

55:30

in our thirties because we realize. You. Know

55:32

why I wouldn't have been in this situation.

55:34

This situation. As situation if I had

55:36

my head on stronger thinks will resign

55:39

rights As on I honestly can say

55:41

thank god I made it out my

55:43

ponies without you know was how if

55:46

I had a tall for than. The

55:48

me I was dating for the most part my twenties. I

55:50

will be miserable. Right now, you don't. Fans.

55:53

Saw think a lot of homs we can look back

55:55

and be like you know why It. Was.

55:58

There am I The last you. I

56:00

really don't feel like I started having mind blowing

56:02

great sex. I got in my 30s anyway.

56:04

I agree. Honestly, if I fucked you before I

56:06

was 30, that shit could be erased. And

56:09

that's true tea. Honestly, pussy

56:12

was the best thing that ever happened. I'm

56:14

cool on that. Okay. But

56:17

I'm telling you, you have to. When did you lose opportunity?

56:19

I was like, later though, like I was 16. Some

56:22

of these niggas be saying they was 12. Oh,

56:24

you were 16 at war. I know

56:26

that's right. So let me, but let

56:29

me tell you this though. You're right. What

56:31

would you say? I remember that song, 16

56:33

at war. I do remember that song,

56:35

but I don't understand why you said it. We should

56:38

not have been fucking at 16. We

56:40

shouldn't have been. We were 16 at war. You

56:42

were at war with the mind. You

56:44

was at war with your mind. Hold

56:46

on, follow me now. Then clearly you would

56:49

say G's too. I

56:51

had no business. What? Listen,

56:54

follow me now, Skillabag, but follow me. You

56:56

were doing it at 16. When

56:58

you lose your shit. When I was 15,

57:01

I lost my virginity. Yeah, I was

57:03

14. And like I said. Oh, y'all

57:05

it's freaky. Yeah. What? You

57:07

gonna talk to your auntie. Don't talk to your

57:10

auntie like that. You was freaky young, T.T. Yeah,

57:12

I was, man. You ain't told a lie yet,

57:14

Skillabag. Freaky young auntie.

57:19

Wait now, damn it. So I

57:21

say, you're 25. I

57:24

can, let me not say I promise

57:26

you, but sex is going to get

57:28

better for you. You know what I'm saying? As

57:30

you get older. I don't think so. It is

57:32

though. Sex is like crazy for me right now.

57:34

You become up. My sexual partners though, like 34,

57:37

33, 33. Ooh,

57:39

now you're gonna say it something. Now, the lady

57:41

I live. You'll be messing with the one

57:44

that's already. The lady I live, like she 33, so. Oh,

57:47

okay. Oh, she gonna turn you up. So you like

57:49

a little, you like somebody to be with. I'm a

57:51

cougar lover. I'm a cougar lover. You know what's crazy?

57:53

I've noticed though. Nowadays, the

57:55

younger guys, 90%. Other

58:00

men am ideas are in their twenties.

58:03

I. Don't know what it is they love

58:05

older women but I can understand why you

58:07

feel that way about light your sex life

58:09

because you're not having sex with women raises

58:11

his know say to the women their twenties

58:13

but I know. Like the sex

58:15

I was having a month my twenty five.

58:17

Years old versus the sex. I'm have a

58:19

now like. If mommy and came

58:22

with I mean less V is the as

58:24

see a big the one of whom I

58:26

made last sexual now forty five I mean

58:28

where do you way you way more Spoons

58:30

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58:34

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58:37

know what to do, you know you, those bruises

58:39

zoom and you know where they like, knows how

58:41

to a mere would he know like ones coolant.

58:44

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though like. The. Conversation be different

58:48

like oh really my. I can

58:50

really relate to Buy Ice Out

58:53

every young girl like Bourbon. Young

58:55

girls on uncommon for them famous.

58:57

I'm a rapper so I'm encounters

58:59

certain type of females. I really

59:01

at law school where I'm you

59:03

know, whereas a cabaret I'm really

59:06

encounter in the same type of

59:08

noom. Sounds like. Maybe.

59:10

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59:13

girls a really be more superficial

59:15

and to see dinner. For.

59:17

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59:19

for you can help move so by as

59:21

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59:23

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59:25

when i sometimes you disney help you really

59:27

emotional support oh think like a lot of

59:29

young girls and be there like a mostly

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you're you're cool. We

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see that party. We do their part lot.

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weighs like I would say we only have a set

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of a of our oh quit you you said you

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like. Older women is and always they might

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have seen for you. I do like

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today. older women. Yeah. Yeah. So

1:02:01

you don't mind like bonnet sex,

1:02:04

things like that. Certain things just don't bother

1:02:06

you because you're, I'm not gonna lie, you're

1:02:09

very mature for your age. It's very hard

1:02:11

for me to have conversations a lot of

1:02:13

times with like men in their twenties just

1:02:15

because I feel like it's a lot of

1:02:18

things that they don't understand yet because that

1:02:20

just comes with experience. But you saying that

1:02:22

you date, you know, older

1:02:24

women, that makes sense. So do you

1:02:26

feel like though, when you get

1:02:28

older, will

1:02:31

it, will you kind of like, you

1:02:33

think expand your horizons of like maybe

1:02:35

dating women your age or younger? I don't

1:02:38

know. Hopefully

1:02:41

when I'm older, I'll be off the market

1:02:43

for real for like put up. You

1:02:46

want to be married? Yeah, I don't

1:02:48

want to just be out here my whole life.

1:02:52

I really like my dream thing is to have a

1:02:54

family for real. And

1:02:57

you know what's surprising, I feel like a lot

1:02:59

of the guys that are rappers and the

1:03:01

ones that the women love, like you're, you're

1:03:03

like a sex symbol. The girls love you.

1:03:05

I mean, they are always talking

1:03:08

about how fine you are, how you put

1:03:10

this shit on this and that. So it's

1:03:12

crazy to me that a lot of the guys that are

1:03:14

so lusted after those be the

1:03:16

main ones that want to get married. I feel like everybody

1:03:18

that sat on this couch are the ones that are lusted

1:03:20

after. They'd be the main ones that'd be like, nah, I

1:03:23

really wanted to be with one person. Right. Yeah. Do

1:03:25

you think it's because you just, you don't like

1:03:27

people throwing themselves at you? Do you feel like a objectified

1:03:30

sometimes? I feel like that

1:03:32

sometimes. Yeah. I feel

1:03:34

like me, I feel like me and

1:03:37

had go through the same problems women go

1:03:39

through, but we can't voice that. I feel

1:03:41

like if a girl touch you and you

1:03:43

say, you don't like that, then they

1:03:45

feel like you take a little sash. Like,

1:03:48

wow. Like same things. If I did some

1:03:50

of the stuff girls do to me, so

1:03:52

somebody, while they was on stage, it'd be

1:03:54

like, you hear me? They had,

1:03:56

they'd think like I'm a homosexual man or something.

1:03:58

If I said something, But you know,

1:04:01

yeah, no, he ain't lying now cuz it

1:04:03

is true Like it's like people look at it differently

1:04:05

when he's for me. But one of our friends thought is

1:04:07

to give you a key Don't

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put home like that I

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know but I like she was like kissing

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me It's

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crazy, you know wash the jail be

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gentle cuz she Is

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1:04:29

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if you ain't gonna touch You

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okay, okay, so we gonna move on we gonna move

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be doing in the gym? I got to train.

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to do? We be up in

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the house. You got out. You got out like three times a

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week. No, I ain't got out. You ain't there yet. It's all

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right. It's all right. I'm on the way. You

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eating enough protein? Yeah. OK.

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OK, so now we're going to get into our

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favorite segment of the week. It's

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called Pour Your Heart Out. Yes. So

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So I'm going to read question number one. Do you get good advice? I'm

1:06:52

a great advisor. OK. I'm not that right. OK, we're

1:06:54

going to get into these questions and see what you

1:06:56

got to tell them, Skillababy. Hey, ladies.

1:06:58

So I need to hear you guys' point of

1:07:00

view on this. I've been dealing with this guy

1:07:02

for two years now. We've been

1:07:04

on and off a lot because of issues with

1:07:07

him not meeting my standards, really. I've given him

1:07:09

multiple chances because he's never done anything to hurt

1:07:11

me. But he can be inconsistent

1:07:13

and closed off at times. Anyways, he got

1:07:15

mad at me because I was doing a

1:07:18

Q&A video on my YouTube, and

1:07:20

someone asked me, are you dating anyone?

1:07:22

I said I am dating, but I

1:07:24

didn't say I have someone. We go

1:07:26

out to eat together. He comes over,

1:07:28

and we chill and smoke. We kiss

1:07:30

and get sexual sometimes. Nothing we

1:07:32

do every time. I

1:07:35

still would go and grab food with another guy

1:07:37

if I was asked because I'm keeping my options

1:07:39

open until I feel he's all in. So

1:07:42

he got mad at my response, and I

1:07:44

kind of feel bad. But do you guys

1:07:46

think we are dating? I'm not sure if

1:07:48

dating is something exclusive or if dating is

1:07:50

something you do when weighing options. I want

1:07:52

to be faithful, and it'd only be him,

1:07:54

but he hasn't created the space and circumstances

1:07:56

for me to do so. He'll. What

1:08:00

you gotta say? I don't

1:08:02

know she communicated with that like with him

1:08:04

about that though I

1:08:08

think like a lot of stuff like even

1:08:10

like not just relationship stuff like Problems

1:08:13

with Joe anybody like your homeboy anything

1:08:15

I think a lot of things time

1:08:17

people like communication and yeah, some people

1:08:20

don't know how to communicate So be

1:08:22

like it just turned into a

1:08:24

big thing So I feel like

1:08:26

she should just communicate that with a person if

1:08:28

you're trying to do it and trying to do

1:08:30

it Yeah, I always feel

1:08:32

like for some reason We are

1:08:34

always scared to say what we want and how we

1:08:37

feel to me because we scared we're gonna scare them

1:08:39

off Hey, if I tell you what I want and

1:08:41

I scare you off good cuz you're not the person for

1:08:43

me, right? You want to be exclusive with him say, you

1:08:45

know what? Hey, I'm looking for something a little more serious

1:08:48

Literally when I was on the first day with my man, I told

1:08:50

him yeah, I'm looking for something serious. Like I Want

1:08:53

to get married? I want to I'm

1:08:55

not out here just trying to like they fucking have

1:08:57

fun already did that So I feel like if that's

1:08:59

what you want be vocal about it. The right man

1:09:01

is not gonna be afraid. I agree I

1:09:03

think it's always a conversation to be had like people

1:09:05

be scared to communicate with people But

1:09:07

if you're looking for exclusivity, you need

1:09:10

to have that conversation because you can

1:09:12

stop wasting your time He

1:09:14

could stop wasting his time if y'all not on the same

1:09:16

thing I Like

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that Question

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number two, I love you guys

1:09:25

as a young 20 year old y'all give

1:09:27

amazing advice to me If only

1:09:30

I could stand on business lol. So anyways

1:09:34

I'm 23 years old and I'm talking to this guy that

1:09:36

has a four-year-old He

1:09:38

worked long hours when he is free. He's spending time

1:09:40

with his child or his friends now. Don't get me

1:09:42

wrong I would never become between him and his child,

1:09:45

but I just want more time for me That's crazy.

1:09:47

We were just talking about this. We

1:09:49

only text and FaceTime every day We

1:09:51

never see each other and sadly I

1:09:53

like to be in my man's skin.

1:09:55

Like what do I do? Please help?

1:09:58

See I told y'all You know

1:10:00

what y'all them niggas, he should be outside with his

1:10:02

friends. He outside with his friends, that's

1:10:04

what he said? She said he is spending time with

1:10:06

his child or friends. Yeah,

1:10:09

I can't really speak on the child stuff

1:10:11

because like, if a man spent

1:10:14

a lot of time with his child, you just

1:10:16

gotta let him do that. Yeah, that's a little

1:10:18

different. But friends, like, I don't

1:10:21

understand. I really wanna be around

1:10:23

my friends more than I wanna be around my

1:10:25

girl, so I can't relate to it. Yeah.

1:10:29

I'm not gonna lie. I think some top niggas don't really like

1:10:31

girls for real. Well, I don't even think it's

1:10:33

that they don't like girls. They just like he said earlier, they

1:10:35

don't like you. And I hate to

1:10:37

say this, it sounds like you're kinda giving a placeholder

1:10:39

a little bit. You talking about he can call. You

1:10:42

may send him a little nude or two every now

1:10:44

and then. When he bored at work, he probably texting

1:10:46

you. A man who has his,

1:10:48

he gonna make time for you. If

1:10:51

you're in a gray area with a man, it

1:10:53

needs to be black. Cause that mean

1:10:55

he not silly you. You can make

1:10:57

it black and white if you want to. Y'all

1:10:59

be okay with staying in limbo with these niggas

1:11:01

off of hope. I'm not staying in limbo with

1:11:03

nobody. I mean, but if it was just a

1:11:06

child, I would say like, yeah, let him spend

1:11:08

time with his child. He got, he being a

1:11:10

great father, but like when she say her, his

1:11:12

friends. That's kinda different,

1:11:14

unless he making money with his friends.

1:11:17

But if he just spending time with his friends,

1:11:19

like I can't, we grown. Yeah, and I agree.

1:11:21

I feel like, don't get me wrong, I have

1:11:24

a very close relationship with all my friends.

1:11:26

I make sure I spend time with my friends

1:11:28

and I spend time with my man. But sometimes

1:11:30

if I don't have enough time, we often

1:11:32

hang out together. But how old is this guy

1:11:34

though? Like she says she 20, right? 21,

1:11:38

so how old is this guy? Well, she

1:11:40

said, she

1:11:42

said I'm as a young 20 year old, but in

1:11:44

later in the letter, she says I'm 23 years old.

1:11:47

Oh. And he's talking, and the guy she's

1:11:50

talking to has

1:11:52

a four year old, but she didn't say how old

1:11:54

he was. Yeah, cause I was, I was heard 20

1:11:56

and all of that, so I'm quite...

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he might grow up and be different Light

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see it at in his life. Don't have

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enough. Yeah. I know it call

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it said the people that you days they saying

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the phone, laying at the slide,

1:16:43

no matter what we do, you

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know they can't stop that. Young

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love, young love, young love. Come

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on, ladies. You

1:16:52

all better look on. The

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compost bill. I'm

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so happy to move. I'm

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going to be on next week. Bye. Bye.

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Bye. Bye.