2:00

or something. Just all different walks.

2:02

I mean, whatever float they vote

2:04

for, what they like, I'm not.

2:06

Yeah, that's what I was going to say. I feel

2:08

like you do a lot of philanthropy. Talk about that.

2:11

Good word. Now, go ahead. I'll be reading. I don't

2:13

really know. A lot of people label

2:16

it that, man, but I've been

2:18

getting awards for helping people since

2:20

97, 98. So, I

2:22

don't know.

2:25

I think that's just naturally my heart. I mean,

2:28

just being there for somebody in need, that's

2:30

just naturally what I do. Right.

2:33

But I want you to talk about how

2:35

important that is because I do feel like

2:38

sometimes people lose that. I feel

2:40

like a lot of times when people make it and

2:42

they start making money, they just start kind of like

2:44

filling themselves. And that goes into the topic we're going

2:46

to talk about later, but talk about like why it's

2:49

important for you to be like the face of that.

2:51

Because I think a lot of times when people see

2:53

rappers, they feel like they supposed to be a certain

2:55

type of way. Like you supposed to be hard. But

2:57

you actually, you be outside giving back and doing things

3:00

like be really in the field giving back to the

3:02

community. So talk about how important that is for

3:04

especially rappers. Well, I'm going to say important

3:06

for me because what I want to do

3:08

is say important for rappers because I

3:11

feel like, man, everybody has the mentality

3:13

that everybody

3:16

has to do different things. And what I came

3:18

to realize is I can't expect me out of

3:20

them. I can't necessarily even

3:22

fault them because they don't want to. That's

3:24

their business. But for

3:27

me, it's just important

3:29

to do that because I mean,

3:34

for me to get to where I am, I have to

3:36

have the support of the people. So

3:38

if they help grow

3:41

me and they support me through

3:43

my hiccups and everything that I've

3:45

had from wins or losses, I'm

3:48

not be there for them. And just trying,

3:50

I use everything

3:52

I do just to motivate others who similar

3:54

to me or plant that seed to show

3:56

them what can be done.

3:58

Right. I do it from a

4:01

genuine place. So the thing is when you

4:03

go to saying what

4:05

other entertainers, other rappers, other people

4:07

should do is like, is

4:11

for me, is it, am I telling them to do that

4:13

more for myself? Cause that's just what I would do. Cause

4:16

I don't think nobody necessarily required

4:18

to, to, to do

4:20

much for nobody. They don't make it right,

4:22

but that's just be real about the situation.

4:25

You know, let me ask

4:27

you this too. Cause I'm glad you brought that up

4:29

about like other rappers and doing

4:31

things and not making them do it because

4:34

this is something I know a lot

4:36

of things that you have done for people

4:38

that you never even posted. Like you never

4:41

even talked about. Like it's a lot, it's

4:43

a long list of things of like just

4:45

having conversations with people that are like, Oh

4:47

yeah, traded this traded that. So

4:49

how do you feel? 20% of what they

4:51

see. Oh, I already know. Look,

4:53

my ear be to the streets now. No,

4:55

no. So talk

4:58

about, cause there's some people, I will say

5:00

you're still doing good, but how do you

5:02

feel about like when people have to post

5:04

every good deed they do, they got to

5:06

record every good deed they do. So you have

5:09

to learn how to use it. Like myself,

5:11

um, Mr. Rogers,

5:14

you know, we figured out how

5:16

to use our platform for what has worked.

5:19

You know, you gotta think, man, social media

5:21

these days is strictly

5:23

about going viral and fuck shit,

5:25

some negative shit. And we

5:27

figured out a way, um, to

5:29

use our platform to show

5:31

the real world. Like think about

5:34

when you take Harvey, right? Yeah.

5:36

You seen the floods, the news people

5:38

came to get what they came left,

5:40

went wherever they, what

5:42

they knew this nation was and

5:45

people not going in these homes. They're not going in

5:47

the trenches to really see what's going on. So

5:50

when we use our platform and we showing

5:53

people sleeping in tents, People

5:56

sleeping in moldy houses with no walls, no

5:58

nothing.. We're.

6:01

Fine. And hill we motivate people who

6:03

could help people that a sister flew.

6:05

What? we don't. The. Even

6:07

make the situation much more big enough a

6:09

big a mean and been able to help

6:12

as opposed the me being able to help

6:14

them get a while back up. Now.

6:16

May be of help them get the feeling of

6:18

them. Didn't new flow rate than that though. The.

6:21

Danger that the ban on how you

6:23

saw it as a method. Of

6:26

and the dangers of you see me pose

6:28

a P Bomb prattle on a few people

6:30

they don't even look at like that like

6:32

baby weight mommy the poster they don't really

6:34

know what I don't know and they were

6:36

gonna fall to see what go right right

6:38

or they may not be in that area

6:40

way of one. All for they don't really

6:42

know and. News pick and choose

6:44

what they so you know and they want

6:47

a so it on the say the be

6:49

about what's going on in the lower class

6:51

for arrival. You. Have the beer with

6:53

third to expose that, Emma and a part of

6:55

the way but for me. Is

6:58

always worried that we're ja rule out for the

7:00

cars are made a cool the give back the

7:02

way I can agree with a whole life blake

7:05

thing about it into it with my khuda. Third,

7:07

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7:10

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7:12

of the Money daughter will

7:15

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7:17

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7:20

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7:22

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7:25

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7:27

fit a hundred dollar Me Why you got a

7:29

said the forwarded eve of Nazi gone on whether

7:31

been. How

7:34

he saw the people may now now

7:36

now being from. Used essentially me growing

7:38

up. he I mean on about Friday's.

7:41

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7:43

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7:45

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7:47

a fit seen as of path Now I.

7:50

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7:52

zones. I

7:55

remember being alive Haskell. He

7:57

was on Friday. The make me in

7:59

Sao. I didn't really wanted to elaborate.

8:01

Kind of likely that people know about or

8:03

day them would you do used in every

8:05

year with they. All. True.

8:09

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8:11

was awarded for me. Randomly to

8:13

like I have been door for

8:16

for the community isn't that are

8:18

on an. Hour that a

8:20

vamp com no more victim of them

8:22

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8:25

the tools and of incarcerate a path

8:27

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8:29

they pass on? their like the damn. Be

8:32

the of abuse molested Everything

8:34

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8:37

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8:39

family que vous graduate from the more victims

8:41

and I popped up the surprise them. And

8:44

we were papa those and oh. My.

8:46

God Mama! On Miss

8:49

Cappy C. C. I know forget

8:51

he came for me a favour those see was

8:53

like on. How. Would

8:55

you feel about getting a all day? A?

8:57

You know that farm. Days.

9:00

When being given especially not for know

9:02

rapper nobody cover were come from and

9:04

I have. A blue of

9:06

late with you mean de se le your

9:08

how them like you're right. Now

9:11

the kevin move and them. To.

9:13

Call me back Cover they latency like

9:15

on. These. Are awesome.

9:18

The days. Where do you

9:20

think about the they them later. After. The

9:22

day for worse. If they mess up planetary I

9:24

am. do you feel about to give a holiday.

9:27

So. You know I'm still not read

9:29

this time but arm was he gave

9:31

me the dates my son named Nico

9:33

with my to say with son whose

9:36

birthday is the on. The. Twenty

9:38

Third of July. Most you give me

9:40

they say anything. I do have to

9:42

have mean in mind that they're slowly

9:44

it'll be in. July. Second,

9:47

it was as. A day before

9:49

his birthday. But. They wanted

9:51

to make the holiday strictly for the whole

9:53

city the celebrate me. And. me

9:55

beam me up when against the grain

9:57

fed and about celebrating me at all

10:00

we gonna make it for the city.

10:02

Meaning whatever I can do for the

10:04

families and the kids, we gonna do it. And

10:07

I remember the first one we ever did was

10:09

at Shor's Time Mall. Little

10:12

Duval came out, I

10:14

think Rocco came out, Future came

10:16

out. Like that's how far

10:18

back people understand the history. And

10:20

I don't know what that was. And we

10:23

had a station wagon

10:25

full of school supplies and just

10:27

giveaways, but that was the biggest

10:29

thing for that moment. And every

10:32

year the shit just start getting bigger and

10:34

bigger and bigger, because I felt

10:36

like everything that I do, I

10:39

don't ever wanna take steps backwards. So when it wasn't

10:42

trading, I was doing just as much. So it's like,

10:44

if I'm doing this on a normal day

10:46

of me waking up, I gotta

10:48

make trade aid bigger. Right. Then

10:50

it got to the point where I start just

10:53

doing any and everything that

10:55

kids from the community

10:58

never get to see. I brought giraffes to the

11:00

hood. Never had they seen that. Brought

11:02

elephants to the hood.

11:05

Camels, kangaroos, snow

11:07

to the hood. Like I was doing so much

11:09

stuff that they never

11:11

experienced. And you know, for me,

11:13

it's important because that's lifelong memories

11:16

that they have. Then I

11:18

start bringing all the people

11:20

that they'll see on YouTube, because back then there

11:22

wasn't really no Instagram like that. So people

11:25

they'll see on social

11:27

media, Myspace TV, anything that

11:29

they can never get their hands

11:31

on or get close to, I brought them to put

11:34

it right in front of. That's

11:36

real. So we

11:38

gonna get into a little icebreaker. Now

11:41

you mentioned you

11:43

was at Papa Dose. What

11:45

you order from Papa Dose? That

11:47

day I didn't order nothing. Okay, but what do

11:49

you eat when you go to Papa Dose? Let's

11:52

see how Southern you are for real. It

11:54

depends if I'm moving fast, I have to

11:56

get a chicken, strews and shrimp.

11:58

If I'm just that. Cooling then

12:01

I for so go for they can't cry. Do

12:03

you eat red beans rice? Yeah

12:08

Look I love beans. I

12:10

don't trust people who don't eat beans. Okay,

12:13

I mean Hey,

12:20

I'll be fucking some beans. I don't trust people who

12:22

don't eat beans so I had to make sure I could Try

12:24

all right. No, I'm not

12:26

crazy with the beans The

12:32

only one Around

12:34

yet No,

13:34

what you mean? Like strict like I feel like

13:37

if I make one mistake or two like

13:39

you should forgive me damn A

13:43

few I might not even be saying

13:45

that then they Know

13:48

because you gotta realize the reason why I

13:50

don't say as much because I'm

13:52

not I ain't like these other niggas I'm

13:54

not gonna be insecure Crying

13:57

and complain about everything Being

14:00

insecure complaining. I think that's more so communicating

14:02

like hey, I don't like when you do

14:04

this or hey I don't really fuck with

14:06

that you can communicate. Yeah. Yeah, but I think I'll

14:08

be to the point where it's like man some shit I'm just

14:10

gonna I'm overlooked this shit. Yeah, you

14:13

know I'm saying but I Think

14:15

the ultimate thing that somebody can

14:17

do is once I feel played and then even

14:19

about when I say played like

14:22

the mess with somebody just

14:25

played like Doing

14:27

some shit that you know I Ain't

14:30

gonna respect the some shit that you don't want done to you

14:32

You do some shit like that then at that

14:35

point. I feel played then I'm definitely I'm

14:37

off it Well at

14:39

D&D to get is gonna get addressed,

14:42

but what happened is you have

14:44

some people these days, right? You have some

14:46

people that's gonna value it

14:49

understand it and and try and Fix

14:52

the situation or you got some people that avoid and

14:54

then just keep moving like oh well fuck it Yeah, I

14:56

did some whole shit, but I'm gonna keep moving and

14:58

then I'll be mad at you for being mad at them

15:00

Right and at that point for me as fuck a

15:02

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15:04

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15:07

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15:11

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15:13

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15:15

last time I was in a relationship probably five

15:18

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15:22

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16:35

shit, my last real relationship, funny

16:38

bro. And I, you know, just being

16:40

real, I got cheat sheeted. So,

16:43

so for her to do that, that

16:46

damn that fucked it up for a lot. So now

16:48

I be, I'm, I'm the homie more than anything, but

16:51

it wasn't even on those. I was

16:53

about to ask. It wasn't even

16:56

cheating on the point of I

16:59

wasn't a solid nigga. What it is is I'm

17:02

a highly respected nigga. So when you go to

17:05

exposing people to a lifestyle that they're not

17:07

used to and they're not, and for one,

17:09

they ain't from the town and they

17:11

trying to fit in. So you

17:14

may be out and they may see a

17:16

group of girls that may be around most

17:18

of the time as I'm popping up, whether

17:20

I'm coming out to perform as a guest

17:22

or just be out with some of

17:24

my people and trying to

17:27

fit in with some of the girls and you let them

17:29

key you up to do some dumb shit. And

17:31

then you end up fucking yourself

17:33

in the process. You know, she went

17:35

on about her business and so many

17:38

niggas, a lot of niggas was chasing

17:40

her, you know, and she was a baddie.

17:42

Yeah. I ain't, you know,

17:44

the vibe. She ended up one of the

17:47

niggas who was chasing her like crazy. After

17:55

once I could obviously seen it, it wasn't no coming back.

17:58

She went ahead, a baby with him. I ain't gonna

18:00

do your thing. Damn, what if she

18:02

found true love? What's your

18:05

man? What the nigga? What's

18:07

she should've did that for? She was with me then, huh?

18:09

I feel you, I feel you. Dre, what's your pettiest

18:11

reason? Probably the pettiest thing

18:13

I ever did. This one I was like younger though. I

18:16

had stopped talking while you were there. I know

18:18

he's a little stupid. He is. So

18:21

I had stopped talking to this dude

18:23

because he had the little donut tired

18:25

for a long time. Like,

18:28

oh my God. Oh my God. It

18:30

was like months. It

18:32

was like why you ain't running and brought a new

18:34

tire yet? So you left him? Yeah, I

18:36

mean, he was never my man. Hey,

18:39

he was never like my boyfriend because he

18:41

ain't have a tire. So

18:43

I was just like, yeah, why

18:46

you ain't got a new tire yet? What's going on? Oh

18:49

wow. And I did stop talking to him

18:51

over there because why is you just riding

18:53

around with your car like this? Damn,

18:56

that sucks. He could have been a silent nigga for

18:58

you. Well, I mean, I

19:01

still kind of like keep up with him. We like

19:03

follow each other on social media. He, you know. So

19:05

he got a new tire? He

19:08

has a new tire yet. If you do have to show

19:10

him, she can go buy him a tire. No, he hasn't

19:12

paid. I know that's right. You said I should go buy

19:14

him. No, I said you could. I

19:16

mean, I could do a lot of things. I wasn't

19:18

about to do that though. You should definitely do

19:20

the rest. Well, he got the tire. Good

19:23

day. Good day. That ain't just giving back.

19:25

It's just, you never know. You

19:27

never know what you may actually need.

19:29

Like I was, I was looking right.

19:32

I seen on social media when they

19:34

were talking about all the

19:36

restaurants that you're not supposed to take a female,

19:38

right? But then I'm thinking my

19:40

head, but if you reverse it, what

19:42

if y'all would have tried to take us somewhere like that

19:45

and we should know y'all in

19:47

some type of way. But that's never happening. Maybe

19:50

we could talk about it on the first day. But just

19:52

say if you were. So if you say, Hey Trey, you

19:54

know what? I want to take you out and

19:57

you not taking me to a five star restaurant. Do I

19:59

got it? the right to just cut you off. You

20:02

do have that right, but you not going here. Yeah,

20:04

you should cut me off anyway since I was too thirsty.

20:07

Why am I taking you on a first aid? I'm

20:10

cool. You need to be where you need to be.

20:12

But I'm just saying, you're telling me you can't. Why

20:14

you want to take me on a first aid? So

20:16

you can't feel a nigga naturally on your own? Absolutely,

20:18

I can feel a nigga, but I'm not asking no

20:20

nigga or taking no nigga on no first date

20:22

ever. You're possibly trying to be shibberish

20:25

towards me. But guess what? That goes

20:27

to prove my point. The point

20:29

that I was making is y'all

20:32

won't accept, but y'all also, it's

20:34

a double-edged sword. You won't

20:36

accept it from us, but then if it comes from

20:38

you, it's like it's okay for

20:40

that. Well, I'm trying to think though. But

20:42

I said this because we actually talked about this topic

20:45

on tour. We haven't talked about it on the show,

20:47

but like I said, when I was younger, some of

20:49

those places that was on the list is acceptable to

20:51

me. It's a girl in their 20s. Yeah,

20:54

when I was younger, but also like even what I just

20:56

talked about with the tie, that was when I was younger.

20:58

Hold on, let's backtrack. If

21:01

y'all two is out by yourself right now and

21:04

you was hungry and it was a goddamn Applebee's up the

21:06

street, you mean to tell me you're going to be like,

21:08

I'm going to starve because it ain't nothing. Absolutely, I'm not

21:10

going to Applebee's. I don't like Applebee's. Now, we just fuck

21:12

with some Chili's. That's the kind of Applebee's. Chili's are the

21:14

names. We did eat Chili's at the airport today. That's the

21:16

same as Applebee's, but the point I'm making is it's okay

21:18

for y'all to go with it,

21:23

but nigga take y'all out there. It's a problem. So

21:25

this is what I felt about the list. I

21:28

just felt like, first of all, why is everything

21:30

food? I like creative dates. So I

21:32

like to have some thought in it. Like why are you

21:34

always trying to feed me? There are so many things to

21:36

do in the world. You do know that's what niggas hear

21:38

all the time. The worst thing you could do is starve

21:40

a girl. Well, I'm not that

21:42

girl. We not starving. And my

21:44

thing is you're not about to take me on a date somewhere

21:47

that I don't go eat on my own. I

21:49

would not go to Applebee's. Okay, so you said

21:51

Chili's. Me and you going on a date right now.

21:53

I'm just like, man, you know what? I'm moving

21:55

right now. I ain't got time to stop. Let's go eat a

21:57

Chili's real fast. You gonna be cool with it? Go

22:00

to if you gotta do something

22:02

real fast. No, I mean a date that's gonna

22:05

be Take

22:07

the fast Take

22:09

you to Chile though. You're gonna be like, you

22:11

know what? Yeah, let's go eat Like

22:15

I gotta do something real quick let's stop it she

22:17

fillet I'll be like, alright cool So you accept

22:20

it's a lay over Chile It's

22:22

not a date though. You just we just gonna get some

22:25

If I took you to Chile's one of us it's a

22:27

fuck the first date Right,

22:34

but I'm saying if me you you know what

22:36

man is long over do we supposed to go

22:38

out? Come on. I

22:41

know we don't have time to sit eat later. That's

22:43

the chilies right here Let's go eat before we get

22:45

to move now you have a problem with it

22:48

Yeah, I would be like no cuz if it was a long over

22:50

do do you have you Got

22:52

a body What

22:57

may cut date better to go to Chile than mine to

22:59

go to Chile Then

23:06

I ain't trying to be that cool that I

23:09

mean you need to put in some effort goddamn

23:13

I Feel

23:25

like a first day

23:27

is about effort things that

23:29

were on that list was waffle house Chipotle

23:32

church, that's not effort

23:34

to me. It's for like six for like no, that's

23:36

not effort. I'm saying that was on that though Yeah

23:40

It's that fast food chain I say you could take me

23:42

on your way to go where you gotta go

23:44

Get something real quick in the drive-through.

23:47

Okay, then let's switch it if y'all

23:49

really like a nigga, would you be?

23:55

Top quality man, like, you

23:58

know slaughter my dance but until you have

24:00

time to take me on a proper date and

24:03

until you like had a conversation with me we

24:05

exchanged numbers we've had a phone conversation we've texted

24:07

so you kind of have an idea what I

24:09

like to do it ain't

24:11

about to be none of that it ain't no real quick with

24:13

me I got to talk to you now Trey I'm

24:15

a auntie I'm 34 you ain't gonna

24:18

just be like oh let's pull up a little

24:20

Applebee real quick I don't try to

24:22

do it I'm just I'm just I

24:24

don't eat Applebee but I'm just asking

24:26

me we all know but the point

24:28

is if a person is genuinely just

24:30

trying to take you to make sure

24:32

that you said you can't

24:34

sit on a product I'm not I'm not

24:36

shooting on it but like I said a first date

24:39

to me like going to dinner is cool but I

24:41

like I like creative and fun I get you said

24:43

that a couple times will give me example so one

24:45

thing that was on the list I didn't agree with

24:47

was sporting event I went to

24:49

girls that like sports and I don't

24:52

you know I ain't gonna lie I really don't even care for sports

24:54

but I'll be having a ball I went to the a few

24:56

months ago I went to the Astros game for the

24:59

first day I didn't know that

25:01

I didn't

25:07

even know it was the astronauts I didn't

25:09

know I thought I know it was short

25:12

for astronaut bitch it is

25:14

yes a throw to short for astronaut

25:16

bitch I never knew hey I was in there

25:18

having a ball and it was fun though cuz

25:20

I like like he was like okay let's go

25:22

do something different so we went to

25:24

the Astro games I was drunk we had

25:26

a ball like I like creative dates like

25:28

the second day we went on we went

25:30

to like this little rooftop and it was

25:32

like a cover band playing like old Motown

25:34

song like it was just real creative it

25:36

like that's the stuff I like to do

25:38

so I was like thoughtful and those tickets

25:40

were $20 to the rooftop thing so it's

25:42

not even about that led to my next point so

25:44

then if that's the case it's not even about the

25:47

cost or the situation that environment

25:53

that I want to be a black people know for you to

30:00

impress, she wants to do everything on her own.

30:03

If it's like, you know, they end up being

30:05

together, you're going to have to convince her to

30:07

move out of her house or sell her house

30:09

or do whatever to her house. And he was

30:11

just saying, it's just too much hassle. Like

30:13

women who are really on their shit basically

30:15

are too much hassle. I mean,

30:17

and like I said, go both ways because you do

30:19

have some women who mentality is fuck these niggas. I

30:21

don't need a nigga for nothing unless

30:24

it may be the fuck on whatever that may be. So

30:27

some of that energy definitely can

30:31

come off at times. But you have, I know

30:33

a lot of independent women who cool fuck. I don't

30:35

even think, cause I feel like in

30:37

two ways, if we in a real

30:40

relationship, are we really trying to rock

30:42

as a team? Both

30:44

of us got to be willing to sacrifice different stuff,

30:46

whether it may be me giving away my place to

30:49

where it depends on who got the...

30:51

The nicer home. Right. Exactly. You

30:54

get the point of what I'm saying. We can rent

30:56

out the other women. Yeah. Cause you

30:58

don't necessarily have to get rid of other women. You can keep

31:00

the other women. It's just

31:02

about understanding that point. Now

31:04

in my experience now being where I'm at

31:06

in life, I've noticed that there's literally like

31:08

two type of guys. I feel like at this

31:11

point in my life, I only attract successful men.

31:13

I think that's safe to say. But

31:15

it's like two types of successful men. It's

31:18

that successful man that they love the fact

31:20

that like I'm making money and I'm doing

31:22

what I'm doing and I'm very driven. And

31:24

then there's a successful man who like they

31:26

don't like that because they want a woman

31:28

that needs them. They want a woman that

31:30

depends on them. So you have a lot of niggas that

31:32

do that, right? Just being real. You have niggas

31:36

that move a woman into their house, make

31:39

them take

31:41

everything that that woman may have

31:44

knew how to do, strip them

31:46

of it. Not necessarily strip them like

31:48

you just... You

31:51

make it to where they're comfortable, but then they

31:53

become dependent on you, right? So then when a

31:55

nigga decide you want to go do something else,

31:57

you still got a damn sit your ass in that

31:59

house. You ain't really got you So

32:02

you have niggas who do whole shit like

32:05

that. That's the mentality of niggas It's that

32:07

or you to get them pregnant and try

32:09

and stop the next nigga from trauma Come

32:12

with niggas I

32:15

was just gonna say they still feel they're out

32:17

nigga still gonna try niggas go down to try

32:19

anything But

32:22

I'm saying that's the mentality of me giving you

32:24

a game right now just hot niggas is I

32:27

Feel like a lot of I know I don't baby

32:29

somebody like yeah, I just feel like a lot of

32:31

times though The

32:34

same men that try to control women

32:36

with their money are the same in

32:38

they get mad when women approach them

32:40

for that It's like if

32:42

you use your money for power to try to

32:44

control somebody like you approach somebody like oh I

32:46

can do this XYZ for you She

32:48

gets with you you start doing all this stuff for

32:50

her then you like hold it over her head or

32:53

make her feel like Oh if you leave me ain't

32:55

nobody gonna do XYZ for you I honestly feel

32:57

those used to be and I

32:59

can't speak for all but majority They used

33:01

to be the niggas who probably back in

33:04

the day of school probably used to didn't get no Attention

33:08

and What happened

33:10

they got they they hit they lick

33:12

whatever that situation may be they came across the money

33:14

and it's like Fuck that I

33:17

want to be him. I want to make motherfuckers

33:19

feel like they need me you know saying because

33:21

the natural in your any real solid nigga,

33:24

don't matter if If

33:26

we together not together like for me, right?

33:29

It's only one thing that'll make me not once

33:31

I feel like a motherfucker trying to use I

33:33

feel like they're trying to take it to that to

33:35

their advantage and it's like, okay

33:38

you doing it But you're not even trying on

33:40

your own right then that's gonna make me like

33:42

now. I'm not no sucker You're not gonna make

33:44

me do that right, but if I'm watching you

33:46

trash it it Make me

33:48

more happier just to Relieve

33:51

some of that stress. I got to tell

33:53

a woman right if which I'm

33:55

single now But if I was dating, you know,

33:58

a lot of people have women mentality I'm not

34:00

doing good right now.

34:04

I'm trying to figure myself out. For

34:06

me, that would be the time that I

34:09

would come in because I don't want to

34:11

be with you and everything good. I'd rather show you

34:13

I'm rocking with you when I

34:15

could have got my ass up and left, but I didn't.

34:17

You know what I'm saying? It just show more

34:19

how loyal and how much a nigga rocking with you.

34:22

You know what I'm saying? So that'd be my mentality.

34:24

I do think sometimes people go in the situations

34:26

though they're looking to be saved, but it's different

34:28

if you go into a situation and you're really

34:30

trying to get to know somebody and really fuck

34:32

with them for who they are. And

34:35

then you come up on a hard time or something

34:37

and then he wants to step up because one thing I can say,

34:39

one of my close guy friends just

34:41

recently went through this and he

34:43

was dealing with this girl and it was like,

34:46

she was just always asking him for stuff.

34:48

Like always. And I'm just like, bro, and

34:50

I fuck with him. And it's like, I

34:52

didn't want to sound like a hater. Like,

34:54

you know, cause I get it. I get

34:56

it girl. Get your coins. And if you really fuck

34:58

with him, you supposed to keep it. Yeah, I did. I

35:01

did. I had, I would be like, Hey, she is really trying to run it

35:03

up on your ass. Like I hate to be that

35:05

cause you know why I say I hate to say

35:07

that cause I care about him, but I also get

35:09

it from the other end. He's like, you out here,

35:11

you trying to make ends of me. You got to

35:14

get it how you live. So it's like, I'm not

35:16

trying to knock her hustle, but at the same time,

35:18

like this is a good guy. Like he's a good

35:20

guy. Some, some niggas deserve for

35:22

it to be rained up on on like

35:24

they deserve that shit. You gotta just, you

35:26

gotta be fed. Right. Cause

35:28

that's just like if me and you cool and I

35:31

look at you like this and I'm, I'm

35:33

watching you fuck with a goofy nigga. I'm never

35:35

going to hate on that man. Right. But

35:38

I'm also going to let you know like, Hey bro, like you need

35:40

to start being short paying attention. If

35:43

you, if you have a funny feelings

35:45

nigga, you need to be making sure you paying attention

35:47

to certain people. If I really rock with

35:49

you, I look goofy by

35:51

allowing you to look just as goofy. You know

35:53

what I'm saying? Of course now you

35:55

never, you never want to hate, but you know, it's

35:57

just that. And

36:00

another thing that people do on

36:02

both ends is they

36:04

make you feel guilty to where you damn they

36:06

have to do. So I don't like that. Yeah.

36:09

You know what I'm saying? Yeah. It was a,

36:11

it was a very strange situation because I actually,

36:13

you know, it was crazy cause I knew the

36:16

girl too. It's not like we were

36:18

friends or nothing. I always knew about the name. I'm gonna give it a two

36:20

later girl. Cause I gotta tell

36:22

you, it's a big end up talking

36:24

to the nigga. Yeah. I

36:26

had to tell him because this is not the

36:28

first time though. Cause he's told me about other

36:31

situations and I'm like, and he's such a good

36:33

guy, but he's so green. I was

36:35

gonna say, if you say it covers, it

36:37

ain't crazy that you can do it. And

36:39

it's crazy because me and him used to like,

36:41

we, we never like mess got physical, but we tried

36:43

to date and it didn't work out. But I'm like,

36:45

okay, but you the homie and it's crazy cause the

36:48

whole time me and him date, I never asked him

36:50

for nothing. I never was like, and I knew he

36:52

had money, but it was like, it wasn't about that.

36:54

I'm trying to get to know you once I figured

36:56

out you weren't my person. Okay. I

36:58

was like, I'm friends. And then I see all

37:00

the stuff that these girls are doing. And it

37:02

was just like, damn man. Like I really felt

37:05

bad. It was, it was, it

37:07

was getting too bad cause I'm like, damn nigga. Okay.

37:10

Let me step in and say something. Cause

37:12

the dating scene in Atlanta is a mess.

37:14

It's a mess everywhere. But I feel like

37:16

in Atlanta, it's extremely bad. I think

37:18

the dating scene now is, I'll

37:23

say in a sense premeditated everybody

37:25

planning their future. Yeah. I

37:27

mean, and not planning their future. Like, Hey, I

37:29

probably want to get married. Like worst

37:32

case, worst. How's she going

37:34

to be working out for me if I went, if I

37:36

go ahead and fuck with this nigga, you know what I'm

37:38

saying? Like at least I'll be getting this. I got a

37:40

fallback plan. I

37:43

definitely feel like people be planning it out on the

37:45

first day. So you just never know if it's Jean

37:47

winning intentions or not. That's

37:49

time. And even in time, time

37:51

don't even always tell because this is

37:53

what I tell people. They're going to play their role if they know

37:55

what they can get too. Right. But

37:58

the thing is you can only play for so long. So

38:00

the thing I will what I tell somebody if

38:02

I'm doing them at the end of the day It doesn't matter if

38:05

I'm fucking on the first date or a year later If

38:07

that's all I wanted to do I know

38:09

nigga suit can wait that year and go to

38:11

the contest for the challenge Still

38:13

get done with you and talk to you On

38:17

the shovel for cuz I feel their way to Like

38:20

that member I'm waiting I made like

38:22

we waited like six months and

38:25

it wasn't not he was just a whore He

38:27

was a horrible as it was like

38:29

after that. It was like he just turned

38:32

And it was exactly he was waiting on But

38:35

the thing is I'll be I only say that to

38:37

say I'll be trying to let motherfucker know like but

38:39

you also can fuck with somebody On

38:42

your first date and then they can be with you for

38:44

a lifetime. Yeah, I like my own friendship. It go both

38:46

ways That's

38:48

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It's not either it's like a cream liquor, yeah,

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have you heard of Bailey's before I

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don't know nothing about nothing. You don't know nothing about

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nothing. Why are you doing out of curiosity? Have

39:46

you ever drink before drink never smoke? Man,

39:50

I'm not even ever right. No, so a

39:52

lot of people Now

39:55

and in these days a lot of do a lot of

39:57

people do it just for they turn up the figure But

40:00

coming up how we came up, they would do it

40:02

when they going through it. That's what would put them

40:04

at ease, you know, from whatever they was dealing with.

40:07

And I always like to deal whatever I'm dealing with, head

40:10

up, however I feel at that moment, it's

40:12

not gonna get no worse. Cause the thing is, if I

40:14

was to fuck with it and it went off, the

40:16

reality gonna sink in. Let's just still have

40:20

it happen. Really, really good advice. It's crazy.

40:22

I don't mean to get morbid and weird, but

40:24

last year when my mom passed, I made it

40:27

a point like not to drink because I wanted

40:29

to feel everything and I wanted to go

40:31

through it and I wanted to remember. And wing

40:33

yourself to be able to start making it through

40:35

it. Yeah, yeah. I mean, cause of course everybody

40:37

know, I be like, I smoke a little weed

40:40

now. I drank a little drink. I ain't gonna

40:42

have a little one too, now to wind

40:44

down. But like when I go through

40:46

things like traumatic, especially something like

40:48

that, I make sure to stay away from

40:50

all that stuff. So I'm glad that you

40:52

said that. Cause that's a very big

40:55

deal because I know when I used to go through

40:57

like a breakup or something or just be depressed or

40:59

sad, I would drink, I would smoke. And it was

41:01

just like spiral out of control. So it was like,

41:03

when I went through that, it was like, okay, let

41:06

me just step away from everything and just have a

41:08

clear mind. Yeah, that's why for a lot of people,

41:10

it kind of becomes like a codependency type

41:12

of thing. And like you were

41:14

saying, like being when you stop doing it, or

41:16

if you don't have access to it, then shit

41:18

is even worse because you've been using this to

41:21

cope and now you don't have access to it.

41:24

That's how people turn a crack. And

41:26

in stronger sheet, pay. Yeah.

41:28

You see somebody. That's what all people say.

41:31

You know you know. I ain't gonna say

41:33

crack these days, but. No, of course you

41:35

always go to crack for some reason. I

41:38

don't know why. They play both foods. I didn't say

41:40

crack, but I do say definitely some strong. Yeah, and

41:42

they be trying to find something stronger. You ain't really

41:44

seeing people out there on the pipe right now. You

41:46

don't smoke crack no more? I ain't seeing that, but

41:49

it ain't a lot of them. Not as much. I

41:52

don't feel like, I don't know if I'm wrong.

41:54

I don't feel like people our age do crack.

41:56

No, like I don't think people in our age

41:58

do crack. I've seen

42:00

homeless people do a lot of things. Yeah.

42:04

You know, um, see, I

42:06

don't know. I don't, honestly, I don't know what

42:08

people do. I feel like maybe it's like the

42:10

opioids, painkillers, stuff like that. It's probably more a

42:12

pill. Yeah, it's probably a pill. You know, it

42:14

take a little perch. Mm-hmm. I

42:19

have to say it. You. People

42:22

really go see. People really think you do perks

42:24

at these point. I'm sure. I was fucking with,

42:26

okay. You always making a joke about it. Now

42:28

we gonna move on. Okay. So shout out

42:30

to LS cream. Thank you for supplying

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the liquor part usual. So

42:35

I wanted to talk about this because I feel like, I

42:38

don't know. people mess

42:40

with you about this all the time, Drea. I feel

42:42

like I want to

42:44

talk about confidence versus cockiness because

42:47

I've always personally felt like Drea was a

42:49

very confident person, but I see, you know,

42:51

you know how people be saying crazy stuff

42:53

for you all the time. And I feel

42:56

like it's not Drea not comp

42:58

cocky. I

43:00

just think people like to attack me

43:02

at times. Cause I think my confidence me

43:04

or me overly feeling myself and fucking with myself

43:07

really bothers people who don't fuck with they feel

43:09

like that. But then it makes them want to

43:11

try to say things to you or tear you

43:13

down to make you feel like you're not what

43:15

you, you know, think you are. I think it

43:17

happened all the time on social media. I don't

43:19

see how I'm being told. Okay. I'll

43:21

give you an example cause obviously Drea is funny.

43:24

So she had tweeted something. She was like

43:26

the baddest bitches in Houston is Beyonce, the

43:28

big, the me. Now everybody

43:30

knows. I mean, if

43:33

you were like, who else, who else? Who you got?

43:35

No, it's obviously kitty, you know? But you

43:38

know, it was some people. Before you say

43:40

that you got on saying common

43:42

sense ain't common. These are

43:44

obviously you joking. They, that do not

43:46

mean they was going to be thinking

43:48

you was joking about. Right. Yeah. And

43:51

I think that's always the

43:53

case. Usually they take everything

43:55

personally. I mean, but at the end of the

43:57

day, even if she really did feel like that, what? She

44:00

probably did, right? Cause

44:03

they say when we, when people joke or say, sir,

44:05

they really, I mean, I

44:07

feel like, you know, I'd be like, you know, you

44:09

know, come

44:13

on. But I just feel

44:15

like, but what's wrong with that? So I

44:17

think somebody had responded. They were like, okay,

44:19

Drea, you just be taking shit too far.

44:21

Like you'd be doing too much. It was

44:23

like, but how are you doing too

44:26

much or taking shit too far by clapping

44:28

for yourself? So I wanted to talk about

44:30

like, what is the difference between being confident

44:32

and being cocky or conceited?

44:37

Cause you, would you say you're a confident person?

44:40

Definitely confident. But the difference is

44:43

I'm confident to where I can walk in the room and don't say

44:45

nothing to my presence. They're going to be felt probably

44:48

way more than the motherfucker coming here, yelling and

44:50

doing the most. And that's

44:52

how I feel too. Cause I feel like I

44:54

have that presence when I go places and when

44:56

I'm out, obviously outside of us talking on camera

44:58

and doing our show. But when we just be

45:00

out, I'm very quiet and

45:02

reserved in my, my business and I don't be

45:05

talking that much. I don't be trying to get no attention,

45:07

but for some reason, I just feel like people just still

45:09

always feel away. You

45:12

got to realize sometimes people be fighting

45:14

their own demons, their own, their own

45:16

insecurities. I'm confident and cocky.

45:20

I'm always going to be, shall I say,

45:22

confident, right? Because I've

45:24

always went against the grain and did what I wanted to

45:26

do. Even when you

45:28

go to talk about giving back, that's not shit that was

45:31

written in the blueprint for me to do. I

45:34

did what I wanted to do. Cocky,

45:36

I don't believe, I just

45:38

don't believe in being cocky. You know what I'm

45:40

saying? I feel like I don't

45:43

care to try

45:45

and make you fuck with me. If you don't fuck with me, you're

45:48

going to fuck with me regardless. And it's

45:50

not to say what she's doing is wrong. You know, like,

45:52

definitely. If I'd have seen that, I'd

45:54

have probably randomly shot up to like, boy,

45:56

you a bullshit nigga. Because,

45:58

you know, it's not that. that she's not cute

46:00

and nothing like that. It's just, I'm

46:03

playful like that. You know what I'm saying? So I

46:05

wouldn't take that no tight way. Like she's minted. But

46:07

you do have some people that, now when you go

46:09

to saying cocky, you got some people that walk

46:11

in the room and they just demand, hey, I want everybody

46:13

to look at me. I'm going, I want

46:16

to show y'all. I'm somebody

46:18

that I don't fuck with. You know what

46:20

I'm saying? For me, I feel like

46:22

confidence is like how you feel about

46:25

yourself. Like that's the, that's

46:27

how you feel about yourself. To me,

46:29

cockiness is, this is

46:31

how I take cockiness. When I see

46:33

somebody that's cocky and I be like,

46:35

what the fuck? It's somebody how they

46:37

feel about theirself, but it's not necessarily

46:39

true. You know what

46:41

I'm saying? Like you, no, no, no, no, no. Let me say

46:43

this. Let me say this though. You supposed

46:45

to believe in yourself. You supposed

46:48

to talk highly about yourself, but

46:50

sometimes it's like, now you know you pushing.

46:52

Like you see somebody and they be, when

46:54

they get on the beat, they really not

46:56

rapping about shit. They can make a good

46:58

song, but how dare you be like, I'm

47:00

the best rapper alive. So it's two things

47:02

with that. And I hate Keith saying it's two

47:04

things. Two things that because in their

47:06

mind, they made a pump they self up to really

47:08

believe. That's what the fuck that is. And

47:11

the second part is niggas be trolling. That's

47:14

what people be trolling. Yeah, that's true.

47:17

People really do like, right? If

47:19

you take a, I

47:22

gotta watch what I say because everybody and- Oh,

47:25

they gonna be watching. They gonna be

47:27

watching. It could be a certain type of

47:30

male or female that they

47:32

may have been pushed

47:34

around, poked at as whatever

47:37

throughout their whole life. And they start building,

47:40

they self build and they confidence up

47:42

and they

47:44

feel like, man, fuck it, I am

47:46

who I am unapologetic. And I

47:48

want to let it be known. That's how I feel.

47:50

So mentally they may feel that now

47:53

what they see may not be what we

47:55

see. Everybody in this room may see totally

47:57

opposite of what the fuck they see.

48:00

But in their mind, that's what they see. So

48:04

I just don't do the

48:06

loud mob doing too much shit. You know what I'm

48:08

saying? And that's what I feel the dirt. And what's

48:10

shitting on somebody when you're doing it in the process.

48:12

Yeah, like when you try to overcompet, say, like, you

48:15

really don't believe what you're saying. And

48:17

that's what I was going to say, too. I feel like it's the difference between,

48:19

like, believing in yourself and having confidence

48:21

in yourself and feeling yourself. But that's just

48:23

how you feel about you. Right. And nothing

48:25

is wrong with how you feel about you. You should feel that way

48:27

about you. It's for me when people try

48:29

to tear down other people or make other people

48:32

feel less than. That's being too

48:34

cocky. Right. That's what being cocky

48:36

is. You know, I ain't gonna lie. Yeah, that's what you got

48:38

on it's Cuba. You know, my shit way better. Right.

48:41

Yeah. That's being cocky. You

48:43

didn't have to say that last part. You know? But

48:45

you definitely have people out here that are like that. They

48:47

try to big theyself up based off of what they have

48:50

and what another person don't have versus it's people who just

48:52

they fuck with theyself and they love theyself and

48:54

they feel like they're the same. But genuinely, some of the people

48:56

see through that. We don't think people

48:58

don't see through it. People see through that shit

49:00

like, okay, they got to do whatever they

49:03

got to do to make this feel for the fuck with them

49:05

right now. And that's you said it right

49:07

on the head because I think I mean,

49:10

we've talked about this on the show before

49:12

because it was like when I first met

49:14

Drea, I was like the

49:17

person where it was like I always felt

49:19

like my personality was a lot. So I would

49:21

try to I didn't know who I was for a

49:23

long time. So I kept trying to

49:25

like mold myself into what I thought people wanted

49:27

to see or what my man thought at the

49:29

time when I was in a relationship, I was

49:31

in a terrible relation when I first moved out

49:34

here. I was always trying to mold myself and

49:36

I was like, you know what? The people around

49:38

me who really, really love me, they know the

49:40

real me and they love it. So I was like,

49:42

you know what? Fuck it. Let me just

49:44

be my natural, authentic self. And if they're going to accept

49:46

you, they're going to accept you. And honestly, I

49:48

feel like that's when the show got better because you

49:50

really got to see me and Drea's friendship. Somebody put

49:52

you all together. You all knew each other. No, we

49:54

always, we live in France since we lived in

49:56

Houston. We both used to remember prom songs.

50:00

It was like off of South Main. Definitely

50:02

remember, oh yeah. Right

50:04

by Shipley's? Is that what it was about? It's

50:06

like down the street. It's down the street. Right

50:09

by Caro's. Yeah, it's down the street from Caro's.

50:11

So that's what we made. We both used to

50:13

bartend up there. And this was like 2015's when

50:15

you... Shout out

50:17

to Caro's. I used to be having a

50:19

time. I'm saying y'all randomly wanted to do

50:21

it so together. No, so I moved here

50:23

first. I moved here in 2016 with

50:26

somebody that I was co-winning Houston in. It

50:28

didn't end up like working out. We moved

50:30

apart. I was living on my

50:32

own in my own apartment and me and her were still cool.

50:34

And I was like, oh, you know, you should move to Atlanta because she

50:36

was telling me she really wanted to get into media

50:38

and stuff because we both have degrees in mass

50:40

communications. So I thank you. So I

50:43

knew she always wanted to kind of like get into

50:45

media and stuff. And at the time Houston wasn't really

50:47

a place where I feel like you could

50:49

excel in it at the time. So she

50:51

moved out here and she wanted to start

50:53

a YouTube channel. We started a YouTube

50:55

channel, kind of took off a little bit.

50:57

And then we had a segment called Wind Down

50:59

Wednesday, which was kind of like a shorter

51:02

version of what we do right now. It was

51:04

only like 20 minutes though. And so

51:06

we ended up changing the name and turning it into

51:08

a podcast. And this is what happened. But what was

51:10

the same part? So it was like an after, but I felt

51:12

like I was always trying to like, I didn't

51:14

know. I was like, oh, I think I need to do this because

51:17

this is what people want to see. And Dre was like, bro, you

51:19

are funny. Like just relax and be yourself. And I

51:21

think that was the first time I really got to sit

51:23

in that because like growing up,

51:25

you know, I grew up in orange. I went

51:27

to all white school. I was always like, then

51:30

it's like when I got to college, I was

51:32

around all black people. So I was like, I'm

51:34

kind of like still like I'm different because it's

51:36

like this and that. She was like, girl, like

51:38

you're beautiful. You funny. Just do you.

51:40

And you're right about that. People can see through everything.

51:43

And I felt like once we really, we both kind

51:45

of sat back and was just like, because she was

51:47

more so like not wanting

51:49

to talk and show her personality because everybody was

51:51

just like, okay, she's just pretty. She's just a

51:54

face, whatever. And it was like,

51:56

no, she's actually fucking hilarious. You know what

51:58

I'm saying? I think being

52:01

your authentic self, people don't see

52:03

that regardless. And we say that all

52:06

the time. That's so true. Shout

52:12

out to the people that keep it

52:14

100 girl. You know what I'm saying?

52:18

Hey, Ty is not here today. Thank you.

52:25

I got some more stuff coming. What

52:30

a gift now. I'm

52:32

going to have to do some specific. Thank

52:35

you. This

52:39

is a little, it's a speaker. And

52:41

you know what? Me and Drea literally

52:43

always forget our speakers at home. Because

52:47

we, you know, we need to mirror doing

52:49

our makeup, getting ready for our shows. We

52:51

actually really need these. Yeah. And we

52:53

going, I was just going to y'all walk

52:55

in the workout, whatever y'all doing, you kind

52:57

of steps, but I would say, I'm

53:00

fine. Bump boxes for real.

53:02

I like these. You

53:06

know, people don't really be bringing us gifts. So

53:10

thank you. Try it. Her. And

53:12

his water was easy. Okay. I

53:15

like these. Got a flash. Yeah. And

53:17

you know, the chocolate helped me, right?

53:19

Cause y'all females, y'all

53:21

give me a perspective. Let

53:25

me see that over there.

53:27

So, you know, they finna release my, um, my

53:30

glasses. Oh, I

53:33

love a female. So y'all can't,

53:35

okay. Okay. Let me see. Let

53:37

me see them now. Now you know, I'm be honest. You

53:39

supposed to now, first of all, is the boxing going

53:41

to come in? Yeah. Fucking

53:44

with the box already. Yeah. It's

53:46

giving casket sharp. I'm

53:49

just saying it's giving like, you know,

53:51

I like it. I like it. So

53:53

the presentation is five. Okay. So

53:56

we going to open them up and see what they look like. So

53:59

this is, what is this? Say hi BB. Hi

54:01

BB and AVN Okay,

54:04

let me pull them out. Oh, that's

54:06

a nice. Oh, I'm fucking with

54:08

these already I was just saying this

54:10

today But

54:15

I need some glasses where you can still see my baby That

54:19

was good I

54:23

guess the University Are

54:25

they supposed to be more like gear

54:27

for me? No, I look good I

54:29

was just trying to do my thing.

54:32

I'm fucking with these I

54:35

was I swear on everything today I was like I

54:37

need some glasses so, you know, you had them glasses

54:40

that you had on in New Orleans Yeah, and I

54:42

was like I need like I look like them. Yeah

54:44

I was like I need some glasses that can actually

54:46

cuz I'd be doing my makeup And

54:48

I'd be wanting, you know be like, you know incognito

54:50

a little bit when I say some I need a

54:52

nigga to fill it I need a nigga

54:55

you fit you feel me, right? Alright,

54:58

so when I put some glasses down I

55:01

need to know you need to hear what I'm

55:03

saying, but I need them to still see this

55:05

face You can see the

55:07

face. This is it right face. See you did

55:09

your big Y'all

55:12

like those those are nice. All right. All right.

55:14

I'm gonna keep it flowers. Let me let

55:24

You go get one out the truck Go

55:27

ahead. Give me one Yeah,

55:34

number whole five thank you That's

55:40

what I'm saying look cute it

55:42

looks good on you you look fresh to

55:44

death I like that.

55:47

I'm feeling myself. I'm fucking with it. Trey. I

55:49

like it. Sorry You

55:57

know, it could be a look it could be a poor mind They

56:01

buying me get five percent off of them. You

56:04

know what? We gonna talk about that. We can

56:06

talk about it. Hey, I got, hey. I'm all

56:08

for trying to make sure everybody able to eat.

56:10

Hey, you know me. One thing about me, I'm

56:13

solid with it. Well, not even that. We do

56:15

one better. I hold a conversation. We are trying

56:17

to design a pair for y'all. Ooh. Ooh. That

56:19

looks a little pink one. You

56:21

know, that's our color. We like a little pink, a little purple.

56:24

Pinky is our color. Okay, so we gonna move on. So

56:27

now it's time to get into

56:29

the B. Wow. The B. Bow.

56:33

Bow. Bow. Bow.

56:36

Bow. Okay. So for the bad

56:38

topic today, this actually goes into what we were talking

56:40

about earlier because

56:42

I want to, I always say this.

56:44

I feel like for a man, the

56:47

only thing that's better than good sex

56:49

is new sex. So

56:52

why do men get

56:54

bored after sex? Like why is

56:56

curiosity? Curiosity is something that gets

56:59

men in trouble because they just want to know.

57:02

They just, they're curious. That's

57:04

a hard question, right? Because truthfully

57:08

that is the curiosity is

57:11

the main goal, right? Like the

57:13

main form of,

57:17

um, I think

57:19

naturally they just curious, you know,

57:21

and it don't even, so

57:24

I can understand when from a male standpoint, they'd

57:26

be like, she don't mean shit to me. They

57:30

were just more so curious. They don't make it right. You

57:33

know, um, that end, you got to think they get bored

57:35

too, because

57:39

they used to, when we

57:41

first start, when we first started,

57:43

you got

57:45

motherfuckers going all in because

57:47

they both trying to really impress each other. And

57:50

once they get content, it's like, yeah, nigga, I'm going to give you

57:52

this 15% out of 100. gonna

58:00

leave it and then it makes but

58:02

they go both ways though. Okay. The

58:04

thing with y'all is females are way

58:06

sneaky. They're very much more

58:08

sharper and they can get away with a

58:11

lot more and they will go to the grave without

58:13

telling you the whole time you have no

58:15

idea. So it go both ways because

58:17

when a nigga not doing right

58:20

by them physically it make

58:22

them get tired and frustrated to

58:24

where they want to go do something different too.

58:27

I mean see I don't know. I feel like niggas will

58:29

take you to the grave too. Y'all just be getting

58:31

cold. Niggas are not gonna tell

58:33

you what a catch is. You

58:37

right. But the thing is y'all don't

58:39

even leave enough room for a nigga

58:42

to catch y'all. Damn y'all.

58:44

You feel like every time a girl

58:46

cheat or every time she do something she don't

58:48

have no business doing is well thought out. I

58:50

promise you she is on her A

58:52

game. She is gonna and will probably

58:54

be in the same room and you

58:57

have no fucking idea. That's why

58:59

I hurt niggas pride way more when

59:01

they find out like you motherfucker. I'm

59:06

not speaking for all women. I can just speak

59:08

for women that I know and I can

59:10

speak for a situation I was in.

59:13

When women cheat a lot of times

59:15

they've been telling you hey this is

59:17

going on now. Women

59:20

never like oh this a fine ass nigga

59:22

I want to give him some pussy. Never.

59:24

Now it probably can for

59:26

some women. I can honestly say every

59:28

time I've been in a relationship I ain't never been

59:31

like oh damn this nigga fine. I'm gonna go cheat

59:33

on my nigga. Niggas will see a bad bitch and

59:35

be like I just want to see what she hit

59:37

but if she going. But you can say hey a

59:39

nigga fine. You may not move right there in

59:41

the middle but if that thought crossed your mind

59:43

a couple more times it may

59:45

take and y'all can go longer before

59:48

but you definitely can. But the thing is that nigga

59:50

can only wear you down because I'm

59:53

telling my man hey this is what

59:55

I'm missing because one thing about women

59:57

we love consistency. We are consistent. I

1:00:00

would not be outside. Look, you didn't hear what I said? The thing

1:00:02

is when you're only getting 15% out of a hundred and it's like,

1:00:04

hey, take it Right.

1:00:08

You know what I'm saying? I agree. try

1:00:11

it. do

1:00:14

this. I'm not going to do this. I'm not going

1:00:16

to do this. I'm not going to do this. I'm not

1:00:18

going to do this. I'm not going to do this. That

1:00:50

nigga plus was stood up and be 999. No,

1:00:58

niggas wall, Louis amor, niggas

1:01:00

have died behind That

1:01:07

is a fake literally. It gets, it gets crazy out

1:01:09

here. Okay. But I feel like

1:01:11

it's because of what's expected of men. Like

1:01:13

we just expected it, okay. You know what,

1:01:15

this is when I knew I was crazy.

1:01:17

This was in my twenties. I

1:01:20

was one of them girls. I

1:01:22

felt like, okay, what was that song? He's mine.

1:01:25

You made a hatter once, but I got them

1:01:27

all the time. Oh, you thought if he cheated

1:01:29

once, he had high on me. He

1:01:32

mine. No, yeah, that's crazy. That's crazy

1:01:34

as a fuck, but it's like they

1:01:36

made it normal. I know. I don't

1:01:39

be a twisty. I don't play this

1:01:41

shit. It's strict over here. Okay. So

1:01:43

if a nigga did, but before

1:01:46

that a nigga was like fucking

1:01:49

would be cheap. But did you would be ready to fight

1:01:51

at the end of the day? We're

1:01:53

not fighting over no nigga ever. I ain't

1:01:55

never in my life. Don't say never because

1:01:57

you never, it depends on what nigga get

1:02:00

crazy about it. Let me tell you the craziest

1:02:02

that I was was in my 20s. I don't

1:02:04

think I can get more crazy than that. And

1:02:06

if I didn't fight over no niggas then I

1:02:08

do not see it happening now. I'm gonna just walk

1:02:10

away. Like nobody can make me that crazy. My

1:02:12

piece is not worth. My

1:02:15

piece is not worth somebody that was that would

1:02:17

disturb because like if you would do some shit

1:02:19

to disturb my piece, like, why I'm gonna fight

1:02:22

over you? Because if you knew that

1:02:24

you only wanted to fuck with this girl one

1:02:26

time or two times or whatever the case

1:02:28

might be, why is that worth jeopardizing what

1:02:30

we got? I always say

1:02:32

that niggas get too comfortable with

1:02:35

risking me. Yeah. If you want to

1:02:37

risk me, I'm not a perfect woman. I'm

1:02:40

not a perfect woman, but I do feel like

1:02:43

I really give my all and I really, and

1:02:45

it's like, I like to work through things. I

1:02:48

like to communicate. So if you're okay with risking

1:02:50

that that's on you. So

1:02:52

if you want to risk that I'm gone. Now

1:02:54

Ovi would have been like, he love

1:02:56

me girl. But now it's tricking this

1:02:59

motherfucker. Yeah. I've been in the

1:03:01

eyes crazy man. I ain't telling

1:03:03

y'all what you're saying is wrong. Get out.

1:03:05

I got you. All right. Now. So

1:03:08

y'all single or taken? I

1:03:11

am single. I'm single. I'm

1:03:13

speaking. You outside.

1:03:16

You said it's crazy. What

1:03:19

the fuck is that? It's

1:03:21

crazy. What is that?

1:03:23

A situation? Single and

1:03:25

taking it to say, I don't

1:03:28

know. It's wild. I thought I

1:03:30

just, I thought that's not like

1:03:35

an S instead of a T, but go ahead. Forgive

1:03:37

me whatever. What they do. Because I mean, it

1:03:42

does. It does perfectly explain it.

1:03:44

Okay. So like, you know, I'm in a situation

1:03:46

where like

1:03:52

me is about me and it's not

1:03:54

really like together right now. We

1:03:57

was, but now we not. but

1:04:00

he still kinda like, you know,

1:04:03

take care of me, like he

1:04:05

do everything. And so I feel like

1:04:07

I don't deal with other

1:04:10

niggas for real because I'm still

1:04:12

dating him or we still spend time and stuff together,

1:04:14

but I think we're just trying to figure out whether

1:04:16

or not we think he could work as a relationship between

1:04:18

us or what it is. And from what

1:04:20

he tells me, he

1:04:23

ain't dating no other girl, so I don't know,

1:04:25

I don't know how niggas speak. I

1:04:28

don't necessarily believe that. This

1:04:30

nigga says faking. Yeah, I'm faking.

1:04:32

Faking, I like that. I

1:04:35

like that. That's a little complicated, but. Okay,

1:04:37

so now it's time to get into the

1:04:39

box. Yeah, that's

1:04:41

what it is. When somebody asks you, I'm

1:04:43

faking. The box, ow, ow, about,

1:04:45

about. I'm sorry, I'm enjoying my glasses. She

1:04:48

always in her own world. I do, I ain't got

1:04:50

my glasses on. I'm a little

1:04:52

tipsy, I'm feeling myself. Y'all

1:04:56

feel me? Y'all feel me? Okay,

1:04:58

fuck y'all, this. So

1:05:00

what's your bop, Leaks? My bop of the week,

1:05:02

this song came out, you know, a

1:05:04

little second ago. It's still technically new

1:05:06

though, but Megan came out with Cobra.

1:05:08

And you know what? I love it

1:05:10

because I feel like everybody wants to

1:05:12

complain about the girls, they only

1:05:15

doing pussy raps, they only doing XYZ.

1:05:17

And she was really honest and real. She

1:05:19

talked about her depression. She talked about wanting

1:05:21

to commit suicide and how she, you know,

1:05:24

made it through that. And it was so crazy

1:05:26

because the song is called Cobra. In the video,

1:05:29

she was like shedding, you know,

1:05:31

her skin and it was a beautiful visual,

1:05:33

but people were still in the comments not

1:05:35

getting it. I've seen somebody

1:05:37

was like, how are you rapping about you

1:05:39

miss your parents and you're naked? I'm like,

1:05:41

are y'all stupid? I really think people, I

1:05:43

hate to say this because I don't like

1:05:45

calling people stupid. But I was like, I

1:05:48

really feel like the comments I

1:05:50

saw, it was just so disheartening because it's

1:05:52

like, damn, how can a person really bear

1:05:54

their soul in this song

1:05:56

and really giving you themselves and y'all

1:05:58

still are choosing. to miss

1:06:01

the point. But shout out to

1:06:03

Megan, you know, dealing

1:06:06

with depression and feeling the way she felt and

1:06:08

then making it on the other side because there's

1:06:10

lots of people who didn't make it to the other side. There's

1:06:13

a lot of people who are not

1:06:15

here with us today. And so I'm

1:06:17

glad that she is fighting and she's

1:06:19

still working and, you know, that

1:06:22

we still have her here to enjoy

1:06:24

her artistry. She's an amazing artist.

1:06:26

So yeah, I fuck with it.

1:06:28

Meg, The Stallion, Cobra, that's my bop of

1:06:30

the week. Okay.

1:06:35

My bop of the week is Tim's, Me and

1:06:37

You. I love that song. It

1:06:39

makes me want to be on a beach somewhere on

1:06:41

the little island vacation. She really do make vacation

1:06:44

music and it's just like a feel good song.

1:06:46

I feel like it's one of those songs you

1:06:48

wake up in the morning, you could play it while

1:06:50

you're getting ready, while you're taking your shower, getting

1:06:52

ready to go to the gym doing your

1:06:55

makeup. Yeah. A feel good, nice little song.

1:06:58

Make you want to be in love. Tim's is

1:07:00

beautiful too. She is, she is very beautiful.

1:07:03

Try what you been listening to. No,

1:07:08

honestly, probably stuck in motion

1:07:10

right now. That's why I was talking, I

1:07:12

get to here cause from the time I

1:07:15

wake up to go to sleep, I'm doing

1:07:17

press and if it ain't that

1:07:19

video, it's performing so right now,

1:07:21

I'm stuck on stuck in motion right now.

1:07:23

But I love all type of

1:07:25

music, man. I think

1:07:27

my favorite, well, my

1:07:29

favorite type of music is

1:07:32

when I'm just rolling and I'm listening to the 80s

1:07:36

and 90s, O and B. Okay.

1:07:39

Like the high fives, the different stuff

1:07:41

like that. Teddy Penderger? Yeah,

1:07:44

I'll say Gap Band for Teddy. Okay, all

1:07:46

right, all right, all right. We

1:07:50

love the 80s and 90s, all right. We do.

1:07:52

We love, okay, so. I definitely feel like I want

1:07:55

a coldest playlist. You

1:07:57

gonna have to share what it is. Yeah, you gotta share

1:07:59

it with us. I gotta figure out a shit a

1:08:01

playlist. Okay,

1:08:04

so who

1:08:06

is an artist out like right

1:08:09

now, like a new artist that you would like

1:08:11

to work with that you like haven't worked with?

1:08:13

I've damn never worked with everybody.

1:08:15

I knew you was gonna say that. I

1:08:17

really have. Man, that's a hard

1:08:20

one. Like

1:08:24

I got over 2,000 unreleased records. I have

1:08:27

records with everybody. So like

1:08:29

of the new kids? Everybody.

1:08:33

It ain't really much. It's probably a handful

1:08:35

of them. So what

1:08:38

I tell people is I have real relationships with

1:08:40

people so it doesn't, a

1:08:43

lot of the times it don't even really be about

1:08:45

music. The music is the bonus. So

1:08:48

even if it's a handful

1:08:50

that I haven't physically laid a

1:08:52

track with, it's probably already

1:08:54

there anyway just based on our relationship.

1:08:58

But I

1:09:01

don't think, unless it's some youngsters that

1:09:04

I'm just not familiar with yet. And

1:09:07

I'm one of the few of our

1:09:09

time that embrace everybody. It's

1:09:12

like damn, I'm a gateway because

1:09:15

even with the young as they first thing is

1:09:17

man, I gotta get some with OG. You

1:09:20

see what I'm saying? And then every time

1:09:22

I watch them start to elevate. And it's been that

1:09:24

way for the test of time.

1:09:26

Right. That's fair. I'll

1:09:29

let you slide with that one. It's the truth. Okay,

1:09:31

so now

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we're going to get into our favorite

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segment of the week. If you want

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So go to patreon.com backslash poormind. Yup.

1:10:38

Tune in. Y'all both holding paragraphs. Well,

1:10:41

mine, no. Mine is actually short. Oh,

1:10:43

you want to switch? Which I'm surprised.

1:10:46

Us it is. I seen hers. It's actually

1:10:48

not bad compared to the other stuff we've gotten.

1:10:50

No, sometimes they be longer than that. Yeah.

1:10:53

We always ask, you know, that y'all keep

1:10:55

it short. Keep that in

1:10:57

mind. Question number one.

1:10:59

Hey, Lexandrea. I love y'all so much,

1:11:01

but straight to my question. I'm

1:11:04

planning to visit Houston for my birthday in

1:11:06

February. I'm going with my me and my

1:11:08

me and my men. And I wanted to

1:11:10

know what are some food spots that are

1:11:12

a must for my first time in Houston?

1:11:15

Clubs, brunch, or day activities. Anything

1:11:17

would be appreciative. Love y'all and keep

1:11:19

going up. Thank you in

1:11:21

advance. Well, I would tell y'all to go

1:11:23

to Turkey Leg Hut. Okay. You don't know what's

1:11:26

going to happen. All right. But y'all ain't

1:11:28

hear that from me. Turkey Leg Hut is

1:11:30

going to be there. Okay, now. See, y'all

1:11:32

know it. Y'all in Houston. Y'all know it's

1:11:34

getting messy. Now,

1:11:36

brunch spots that I like to go

1:11:39

to. Grace's is good. Grace's. Y'all

1:11:41

like Grace's? It's good. It's cool if you want

1:11:43

like a chill vibe. Yeah. Like if

1:11:45

you want something chill. Okay. What

1:11:48

else? The Honey Hole. Y'all been there yet?

1:11:50

No. I ain't been there. I feel like

1:11:52

Prospect. Definitely can go there. Prospect, you

1:11:55

are so good at it. And y'all got to get

1:11:57

the truth truck. You know, my truck is not for

1:11:59

you. We gotta come

1:12:01

to the troops. What kind of food they

1:12:03

got? You got the truth chicken sandwich Chicken

1:12:07

food your tacos steak tacos Elote

1:12:10

corn. Oh Like

1:12:13

you've been okay Chicken

1:12:16

sandwich itself is gonna fuck the game. Okay

1:12:18

now what's in the club now? Cuz

1:12:21

I don't I don't be going out and you know, we're going to

1:12:23

like the address As

1:12:26

many you know, I just have on Wednesday they

1:12:28

have probably one of their biggest nights they do

1:12:31

the R&B nights Well now they bring

1:12:33

the R&B artists every Wednesday

1:12:37

classic R&B artists not just Yeah,

1:12:41

I like the old-school ones I feel

1:12:43

like Sunday Sunday people be going to

1:12:45

Sakai Yes, the car that's on Saturdays

1:12:47

or Fridays a Friday Saturday Okay

1:12:53

Yeah Sunday Chapman

1:12:56

and Kirby 50-15, but you know what?

1:12:58

Let me shout out this influencer This

1:13:00

is actually the perfect because she creates

1:13:02

content in Houston and she always shows

1:13:05

you the best places to go in

1:13:07

Houston Um, I thought her

1:13:09

following her. I love her content. It's

1:13:11

searching high with low She's

1:13:13

in Houston and she will show you

1:13:15

everywhere all the nice Restaurants

1:13:18

to eat it. So go on Instagram

1:13:20

follow searching high with low and

1:13:23

she gonna put you on all the good spots in

1:13:25

Houston for real I'm

1:13:27

sorry I'll

1:13:30

be feeling bad when I could be good So

1:13:37

it's also this build that I follow on Twitter

1:13:39

his name is Eric eat hta Oh,

1:13:41

yeah Oh In

1:13:46

Houston to go eat it like food.

1:13:48

I'm talking food trucks holding the walls

1:13:50

in the clothes in the big restaurant

1:13:52

So he'd like to do that. So

1:13:54

I just learned about the dudes I

1:13:56

got out here and

1:14:00

I've seen him from the

1:14:02

skits that everybody's been making

1:14:04

lately. Yeah. Well, Keith

1:14:06

Lee is from Vegas, but he came out here

1:14:08

and he came out here. Yep. Oh,

1:14:11

clearly. Oh my God, it was so great. With no expression

1:14:13

on his face. He came out here and he tried all

1:14:15

the restaurants and he had a lot to say. I mean,

1:14:17

he wouldn't lie. He wouldn't lie. He'd

1:14:19

tell a lot. The food out here

1:14:21

is great. We have good food. I

1:14:23

feel like nobody got better food than

1:14:25

Houston. Yeah. In New Orleans.

1:14:27

In New Orleans, yeah. Yeah, my bro, Lee

1:14:29

and Moroga. Ooh, that we

1:14:32

ate at up, yo. Look, I called

1:14:34

him Big Larry. I called him Big

1:14:36

Larry on Long Bar. We

1:14:38

ate at all his restaurants. Oh, I

1:14:40

was talking about them gumbo pot stickers. Them

1:14:43

little dumplings. We

1:14:45

went to his little tairies from, we went

1:14:47

to Moro's. What's it called? Monday something. Man,

1:14:50

I had a time. Shout

1:14:52

out to him. I don't know how Larry on the

1:14:54

show. Okay. I hope we gave

1:14:56

you enough information. Question number two. Hi ladies. I've

1:14:59

been listening for years now. Love, love, love your content. I

1:15:02

have a dilemma and I want to make sure this isn't

1:15:04

all in my head. I'm turning 36

1:15:06

this year and I feel like I'm too sexually inexperienced.

1:15:09

I'm a single mom. I was with my son's

1:15:11

dad from age 17 to 27. He

1:15:14

was super vanilla. So

1:15:16

we didn't do very much exploring in the

1:15:18

bedroom after our relationship. I ended after relationship

1:15:20

ended. I

1:15:23

didn't get much support from my family

1:15:25

or his with my child. And

1:15:27

since he had behavior problems, I

1:15:29

couldn't keep consistent childcare for anything

1:15:31

other than work. I was

1:15:34

very depressed for years because of this. Only

1:15:36

one of my friends has children. So my

1:15:38

friends were listening ears, but I never wanted

1:15:40

to burden them with my childcare issues. Now

1:15:42

that my son is older, we're both in

1:15:44

therapy. His behavior is better and he's a

1:15:46

teen now. So I can leave him home

1:15:48

for short periods. If I want to get

1:15:50

out, I would like to date and find

1:15:52

love again. But now I worry

1:15:54

that my lack of experience will be a

1:15:56

deterrent. Is this all in my head or

1:15:58

do men really want to be in therapy? not want

1:16:00

an inexperienced partner. Thanks for your help.

1:16:05

Um, y'all want answers? Cause I got a good

1:16:07

answer. I ain't answering that shit. I'm listening to

1:16:09

y'all. Okay. Well, I'll go

1:16:11

first man. I'll say this. I

1:16:14

feel like when you are really dating

1:16:16

somebody, it doesn't matter if you're extremely

1:16:18

sexually experienced or not, everybody has their

1:16:20

different wants and needs in the bedroom.

1:16:22

So whether you're experienced or not,

1:16:24

a man that wants this and you want that

1:16:26

y'all are going to have to teach each other

1:16:28

in the bedroom just because you know,

1:16:30

he likes it bent over that way and your

1:16:32

leg up that way. That's not how he wants

1:16:34

it. So no matter what, if

1:16:37

you're experienced or not, you're always going to

1:16:39

have to learn in the bedroom with your

1:16:41

partner. Period. I feel like everybody should be

1:16:43

open-minded when it comes to sex. So

1:16:45

you being sexually inexperienced shouldn't be a

1:16:47

problem for a man who really fuck

1:16:50

with you because as experienced as the

1:16:52

next girl, maybe she has

1:16:54

to be open to learning what that man

1:16:56

likes. Cause there's people like, sometimes people

1:16:58

feel like you can't teach an old dog new

1:17:01

tricks. The best thing you can do in the bedroom is

1:17:03

be open-minded. That's how I personally feel

1:17:05

and you don't need experience to be open-minded.

1:17:09

That open mind, whereas I definitely

1:17:11

I'm debating on that cause some

1:17:13

people might be doing too motherfucking

1:17:15

much. I mean, they might be,

1:17:17

but that's for you. That's for you to know. That

1:17:19

open mind is a strong word. I

1:17:21

know you were strict. Try anything. I'm

1:17:24

not strict at all. You ever had

1:17:26

a little towel sucked? No, hell not.

1:17:28

You don't want your little towel sucked?

1:17:31

You're like a nipper. Fuck no, my nipper

1:17:33

played with it. What a little nipper? Man,

1:17:35

come on. You got, you got, what is

1:17:37

he painting? Hey, hey, hey, come and play

1:17:39

with my nipper. You're going to be looking

1:17:42

like, bro, what the fuck? No, I'm not.

1:17:44

I'm like, I'm going to like,

1:17:46

some people like that. They like a

1:17:48

little nipper play. Don't do that. Cause you might be

1:17:51

telling them, no, second right now. Okay.

1:17:55

So let's start it. No, nipple

1:17:57

play. No, nipple play. Okay,

1:18:00

so you like vanilla sex? No,

1:18:03

no, I am good at what I

1:18:05

do. I know that's right. I ain't get you. I said

1:18:07

I ain't get this the truth. I'm good at what I

1:18:09

do. I'm not doing none of that extra shit though. It's

1:18:12

just not going to happen. I know that's

1:18:14

right. Okay, do y'all have any advice

1:18:16

for her? I feel like you

1:18:18

guys did advice. I definitely think you have

1:18:20

to be open minded. Everybody doesn't like the

1:18:22

same thing. So, what she would, one person

1:18:24

might consider sexually inexperienced, another person might not

1:18:26

even be into that. I was

1:18:28

just going to say that because my thing

1:18:30

is who gave the term and what that

1:18:32

is. Because even if what if you were

1:18:34

super experienced, but the person you're dealing with

1:18:36

is overextremed. They want you. No, what if

1:18:39

they overextremed, so even the choice being, since

1:18:41

you feel it. They like plain, moisty. Yeah.

1:18:43

Yeah. Or you could be, it's

1:18:45

a little nipple sucking and you might get in the bedroom

1:18:47

and they don't like that. They might pop you on the

1:18:49

air. It's a wrap right now. You're cutting right now. Poor

1:18:51

mind. All

1:18:53

right, try and let us know everything you got going on

1:18:56

and show where they can find you at, all that good

1:18:58

stuff. The album is stuck in motion

1:19:00

out now. Instagram is the only thing

1:19:02

that I really deal with hands on, which

1:19:04

is at Trey ABN, T-R-A-E

1:19:06

ABN Facebook. I don't

1:19:09

know shit about, so whatever I post on

1:19:11

Instagram, it finds a way

1:19:13

to Facebook. TikTok,

1:19:16

my kid is showing me that. Okay. We

1:19:18

still be able to TikTok too, don't feel

1:19:20

the same. X, it gets

1:19:22

whatever I post on Instagram. But now you got

1:19:24

to realize I had Twitter so long and you

1:19:27

know, you'll go to following some of

1:19:29

the baddest women back then. Now I'd be scared

1:19:31

to open it because it down there look like

1:19:33

a porn. Twitter is crazy. Crazy.

1:19:36

I still be calling it X. I still be calling

1:19:38

it Twitter. Yeah, it's crazy. It should be called X

1:19:40

for real though. Yeah, for real.

1:19:42

Because it's three. You open that shit at

1:19:44

the wrong time. Oh my God. Every time

1:19:47

he's right be at the bar like this.

1:19:49

You be having a hurry up and start

1:19:51

scrolling it. Yeah.

1:19:53

It's crazy. Well, I had a

1:19:56

ball today, Trey. Thank you

1:19:58

so much for pulling up. on

1:20:00

us. Thank you. By

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this time, I think we got one show left, the

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1:21:39

Cause we finna eat this up. We ready, Javi.

1:21:42

Let's go. I'm ready. On

1:21:46

a perfect day. I

1:21:49

know that I can't count on you.

1:21:52

Ooh, when

1:21:55

that's not possible. Tell

1:21:59

me, can you. with the

1:22:01

song. Cause I need

1:22:04

somebody who would stand by. Come

1:22:07

on. Through the good times and

1:22:09

bad times she will always

1:22:11

always be right there. Give

1:22:15

it to her. Sunny days

1:22:18

everybody loves them tell

1:22:21

them baby can you

1:22:23

stand by. Can you stand by. Tell

1:22:26

them baby can you

1:22:28

stand by. Can you stand by.

1:22:33

She don't care. The songs will

1:22:35

come. This we know

1:22:37

for sure. This we

1:22:39

know for sure. Can you

1:22:42

stand by. Oh.

1:22:47

Your love unconditional.

1:22:51

I'm not asking much of

1:22:53

you. Ooooo. And

1:22:57

girl to make it last I'll

1:23:01

do whatever needs to be

1:23:03

done. Cause

1:23:06

I need somebody

1:23:09

who would stand by me. Fingers

1:23:12

raised. She won't

1:23:15

run. She will always

1:23:18

always be right there. Give it

1:23:20

to her. Come on. Sunny days

1:23:26

everybody. Deep

1:23:29

like a mother. Can you stand by. Ooooo.

1:23:36

I know I know. That

1:23:40

was a damn good karaoke.

1:23:44

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1:23:46

you holla at them. The

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truth and the truth no. We

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