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The following podcast is a dear media

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production. You guys mark your

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calendar because the 97th

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annual Macy's Thanksgiving Day

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Parade is

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here. It's happening. I

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am

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so excited. This

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has been one of my favorite traditions. I

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just remember being a little girl going

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over to my relative's house and on Thanksgiving

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watching the parade. And it's just such a core

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memory in my life. I cannot believe this

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is the 97th year. That

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is absolutely insane. I

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love how I've been able to grow up with the parade.

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And every year I get so excited to see how

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it gets even more elaborate than the last year

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and the floats and entertainment and celebrities

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that you see. It's seriously just such a fun,

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wholesome time. And I hope

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that it'll be around when I have kids so we can have the tradition

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of watching the annual Macy's Thanksgiving Day

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Parade together. Like literally, that's so weird

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to think about.

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I'm not ready to have kids anytime soon, but I do

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think that would be super, super special. I

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am so excited to have my whole family

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and plus like Lily's family and

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friends over for Thanksgiving this year. I'm so ready

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to cook everything and just like have a full

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feast. We can watch the parade together and all

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just hang out with the baby and

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just do cute little family things. It's

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his first parade. It's his first Macy's

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Thanksgiving Day Parade. And I'm going to make sure that he loves

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it because he's going to be a Macy's lover like his

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auntie. Oh, I expect nothing

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less.

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So get so excited and get ready to celebrate

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the start of the holiday season with giant

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balloons, elaborate floats, and loads

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of epic entertainment.

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The parade will be live from New York City on NBC

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and streaming on Peacock Thursday, November

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23rd, 9am to noon in all time

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zones. For all of the fun details,

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check out Macy's.com slash parade.

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Pretty basic. Hey guys, what's

1:47

up? Welcome to pretty basic. I'm

1:49

your co host, Alicia Marie and I'm your co host,

1:52

Remy Cruz.

1:59

And we are so excited.

2:02

We've owed you this for quite some time

2:04

now. I've been waiting for this moment No,

2:06

because I'm just so embarrassed

2:09

that you thought we didn't want you on Can

2:12

we talk about that? Well first? The

2:16

lovely glowing Kelsey

2:18

krapple Co. I'm not really

2:20

sure which way we're going You know legally

2:23

it's still Kelsey krapple. Okay? And

2:26

co is short for something isn't it? Yeah, what is this

2:28

word for college essek whoa? No,

2:32

I'm a Cody superfan I know It

2:35

is short yeah, it's

2:38

there's a lot of letters going on

2:40

in the in the whole name So he

2:42

shortened it like not like legally

2:44

or anything just for staging wait Yeah,

2:47

if you name or if you don't

2:49

take his last name would your

2:52

baby have a half to hyphen? No,

2:55

okay, cuz I was like you can't do that further No,

3:00

that would be so mean No,

3:03

I like I will be change. I'm in

3:05

the process of changing my last name. It's

3:07

just like And

3:10

it just is not like the number one priority.

3:12

So it's yeah, probably just pregnancy.

3:14

Yeah, yeah No,

3:16

I have absolutely I feel like I'm gonna learn a lot about

3:18

this episode especially because you're engaged You

3:21

obviously got married in our preregnant and

3:23

you're glowing

3:23

Honestly,

3:28

we always talk I'm pretty basic about like

3:30

like moms and things like all these things that

3:32

we're just like we have no idea About and I just like I'm gonna learn

3:35

so much. Well, um, I

3:37

don't even know Probably

3:40

but I can I can tell you what I do now. No,

3:42

I want to know everything I do I don't you we

3:44

do have to give some backstory. Do you want to let them know about?

3:47

When we when we went on your lovely podcast, they were

3:49

my first guests ever Okay, we went

3:52

on a podcast recently and we were

3:54

like sitting and recording and she's like, oh my god Like

3:56

is this your first time being like the first guest

3:59

of a podcast and we're like I was

4:01

honest and we just like yeah, I was like no I

4:05

was kind I was like, um, I just you

4:07

know

4:09

We

4:11

don't take that lightly it was an honor for me to have

4:14

you oh my god I'm like I

4:16

I guess I was gonna say I used to but I still get so

4:18

nervous asking people to come on the

4:21

podcast the same and So

4:23

I just remember like DMing you guys

4:25

and just being like just like staring at my phone

4:29

And I was just so nervous and you were like

4:32

so nice Yes, and

4:34

that was yeah, it was great. Oh my god So

4:36

I was genuinely so honored it was like I felt

4:38

badly though because I remember only got like Four

4:41

hours of sleep and so I was like while you

4:43

were talking while we were podcasting I was like, come

4:45

on bitch. You can do it. I was so mad at myself.

4:47

I was like, I know you were amazing

4:49

Thank you, but I'll bring it for the next episode because we

4:52

are doing a swap. Yeah

4:54

are go listen to the episode I forget

4:56

when that was probably a year ago. Honestly, it was

4:58

yeah like last August because that's when you launched

5:00

the plan Yeah, yeah. Oh my god. So over

5:03

a year ago We won Kelsey's for circle

5:05

time and we wanted to do

5:07

a swap with you Yes, but I

5:09

guess we made it seem like we didn't want to

5:11

actually have you on pretty basic which I know No,

5:14

sorry not what happened like you we

5:16

had a day and then I got sick So I couldn't

5:18

do it and then we were like never really rescheduled

5:22

Yes, and then like but I didn't want to be like

5:24

I'm ready now You

5:26

know what I mean? No On

5:29

my end I really wanted you to come on because I love you so

5:31

much and I love you I

5:34

love you and I remember we kept asking our producer

5:36

like, okay, we check in with Kelsey's team Can I check on with her team? Yeah,

5:38

and I something there's miscommunication where like either I obviously

5:40

you got married you got pregnant I

5:44

think they were just like, oh she's not doing anything Right

5:46

now, we're like, okay, and I was like

5:49

she fucking hates us. No, it doesn't

5:52

like a lot of life I

5:54

was like she's getting married. There's a lot going on. It's okay

5:56

because we had done then talked about it because

5:59

I was like Do you guys want to come back on?

6:01

You were like, do you want to come on our? And I was like, well,

6:03

yeah, I thought you didn't want me

6:05

out. Like we were both like, wait, you want me on

6:07

yours? I want you on mine. Like it was it was

6:09

very like aha moment. A chiseled moment.

6:12

Yeah. I remember at the wedding because I totally

6:14

I think she hates us. And she was like, no, I think she's

6:17

just busy. And I was like, OK, you're right. And at the wedding, she's

6:19

like, come over here. And

6:21

she like pulls me over and she's

6:23

like, she

6:23

does. I come on. I was like, yeah.

6:26

I was like, they hate me. Like

6:28

I saw you and I was like, they hate me. They

6:31

don't want to come on. I was in the elevator. Like,

6:33

yes.

6:33

I was both thinking that the other people

6:36

hate me. I really did. I'm not kidding. Me

6:38

too.

6:39

I was like, we were friends and now they hate

6:41

me. I'm crying.

6:44

But like it's so funny because I feel

6:46

like that's more common than you think. Like we get

6:49

so nervous to like hit up people to come on the pod too.

6:51

Like it's just it's such a weird thing. But that's

6:53

funny because we were at Matt and Patricia's wedding and

6:55

I didn't know you guys were going to be there. I was so excited to see you. Yeah,

6:58

it was amazing. Also, my favorite memory

7:00

was. I mean, I I was

7:03

definitely very tipsy at this point.

7:06

It was probably like almost midnight. I remember turning

7:08

around and seeing you eating a burger. And I was like, I

7:09

was like, you're still here.

7:11

I was like, damn, not going home. I

7:14

was like midnight. I know. With

7:16

your bump, it was so cute. I

7:18

feel like I like I really

7:20

don't like leaving. I've never

7:23

been one that wants to leave.

7:25

Do you give FOMO? Is that why? I guess

7:28

I'm more just like I'm here. Like I'm

7:30

going to stay and I'm going to have as much

7:32

fun as I possibly can. I love that. I

7:35

think like being pregnant and Cody loves to

7:37

leave. Oh, OK, that makes

7:39

sense. And so I think like but

7:42

when I got pregnant, I think he was like, oh,

7:44

we're going to get to leave now. But I'm still like, I'm not

7:46

going. I'm saying I love

7:48

it. And everybody was going to the bar after. And

7:50

I was like, should we go? And

7:53

he was like, no. And I was like, you're

7:56

actually right. Like you're right. We

7:58

stayed for the wedding and like we don't. have

8:00

to go to the bar after so like I will give

8:02

you that one but I was like maybe

8:04

we should be nice yeah I want to be there

8:07

at the after-party I'm just thinking

8:13

of all those like rom-coms with like the one

8:16

pregnant character who's just like at all the things

8:18

or something so

8:20

funny so energy is good I'm assuming the

8:23

energy is definitely good

8:25

like it's there are times when I'm

8:27

just like completely exhausted but

8:31

for the most part and like first time I serve is

8:33

kind of rough but like first like for the most part

8:35

I really feel pretty good oh

8:37

my god I mean you again you're

8:40

out till midnight you were chilling how could

8:43

you leave that band oh my god

8:45

I told her she should hire I'm gonna hire them I'm going

8:47

to hire them I need to get some

8:50

info but I will be hiring them like I that's

8:52

already in the budget it's worked itself in they were

8:54

amazing it has to be probably very expensive for

8:56

the quality I kept saying that was the Aeros tour they

8:59

went for three hours choreography

9:01

did not stop no I mean the choreography

9:03

was was insane I did love

9:05

our wedding bands if you're looking for other options I'll

9:07

give you them as well but

9:09

like they didn't have choreograph

9:12

dances so I don't I

9:14

don't I want to be

9:16

like Simon Callan sit there and like have them come into

9:18

like an auditorium and I run like audition

9:22

yes I know they like they actually like wedding

9:24

bands will send you like videos

9:27

like I've been like performing and you can like

9:29

sit and watch okay I'm pretty

9:31

pretty fun yeah I have

9:33

a lot of wedding questions for you but I'll get to that later

9:36

I'm into it okay we'll get into them now okay

9:38

what was like one thing that you regret doing

9:40

and what was one thing that you loved doing I don't

9:44

I really don't regret anything

9:50

oh good like there's nothing I just

9:54

don't I don't think there's something I would

9:56

change I thought it was

9:58

I loved every second of it I just

10:00

loved the fact that like Cody and I,

10:02

I think something that's like so important is the fact

10:04

that like we made sure

10:07

that like the number one thing that was being

10:09

taken care of was not like the

10:12

content or like picture,

10:14

like whatever it was, it was like just the fact that

10:16

like we were in it together. Like

10:19

we just wanted to like be together

10:21

and like experience everyone and see everyone being

10:23

there and like just be in the moment

10:26

because it's so easy to like get wrapped

10:28

up in everything going on. But

10:31

like just being in the moment and like enjoying

10:34

everything and everyone really does understand

10:36

that like you don't

10:38

have to talk to them. Like I think a misconception

10:41

is that like every you have

10:43

to talk to everyone and like you have to host

10:46

and blah, blah, blah. But like and you know, like

10:48

you'll say hi to a million

10:50

people, but the minute I'm like, oh, sorry,

10:52

I have to go like, oh, I gotta go run. People are like, oh

10:54

my God, go. I don't want to take up any of your time. No one actually

10:57

expects you to stand there and talk

10:59

to them. Okay. And so like don't

11:01

feel the pressure to do that. Like

11:04

just enjoy it however you want to enjoy it. Like

11:06

it is literally your day. You could do

11:08

anything. Okay. Enjoy it however you want

11:10

to. That makes me feel so good

11:12

because that's why I've been so nervous to

11:15

wedding plan like to start anything. I've been

11:17

so like procrastinating

11:19

with it because I'm normally a really crazy

11:22

planner and I thought as soon as it would happen, I'd be like, let's

11:24

tour things and where's your brochures, bring them out. And

11:27

I've been so nervous, but I think it's because I feel

11:29

so much pressure that I'm going to have

11:31

this big lavish day and spend all this money

11:33

and all these sorts of things. People are going to spend money to come

11:35

see you with us. And then I'm going to,

11:38

it's going to go by too quickly. I'm not going to have time to talk

11:40

to everyone. I'm going to spend a whole night mingling. Yeah.

11:42

I love that. I was like truly thinking I'll get on the

11:45

microphone and be like, have fun. Don't talk to me. Let's

11:47

just have a good night. I mean, you 100% could do that. Like

11:49

you could literally do anything. That's the other thing. Like

11:52

you think there are rules. Like you think that you have

11:54

to do something because it's your wedding, but like you

11:56

actually can literally do whatever you want because

11:58

it's your wedding. Whatever you

12:01

want. I pictured you grabbing the mic from the band.

12:03

I would. Before they start. I'm gonna do a full

12:05

choreography. I'm joining in with the choreography. I will be

12:08

learning. When Patricia got out there, I was like, I

12:10

felt like I was losing front row at Eris. I was

12:12

losing my goddamn mind. No, me too. I kept

12:14

trying to, wait, I kept trying to wave to the, like the dancers.

12:17

One thing that I don't know, I don't know

12:20

what it is. I don't know when this began

12:22

in my head. Since I've been a kid, if

12:25

there is someone, anyone, on

12:27

a stage, I will do whatever it

12:29

takes to get them to wave back to me. Like

12:32

I'm obsessed with it. Like I'm like, we

12:35

need to unpack this. When did this begin?

12:37

Couldn't tell you. What was your first concert?

12:39

Bruce Springsteen. Oh, I caught it. So

12:41

was Calv. I caught it. Really? Oh

12:44

my God, the best, I mean, I've been to like six now.

12:47

Amazing shows. I've heard any like

12:49

takes requests from

12:51

the audience, right, and just like does them on the fly? I

12:53

think so. I don't know, he's crazy. He's so

12:55

good. I mean, him and Taylor

12:57

Swift are up there for three and a

13:00

half hours giving it their all every single night.

13:02

And like it's amazing. It

13:04

really is. Anyway, I definitely

13:07

like, he wasn't gonna wave to me. I don't know where

13:10

this came from. I think what it

13:12

stemmed from is like, you know when you watch like, I

13:14

don't know, anything ever

13:16

and someone's on stage and they're like, you

13:19

see them wave. Like they're

13:21

like performing, you see like a celebrity performing

13:23

at like an award show. You see them wave to someone

13:25

in the crowd. I was always like, okay,

13:27

this is possible. Like that's what he

13:29

made. So like I've made it like my

13:32

life's mission to get whoever

13:34

is on stage to wave to me. It's

13:38

insane. And but I don't even realize I'm

13:40

doing it. Now I

13:42

have because Cody like makes jokes throughout

13:44

it all the time. And I'm like, oh my God, I do. I do. Did

13:47

he like call you out on it? He was like, why are you waving to

13:49

a DJ? You

13:51

at EBC? Literally,

13:53

we went to the like the opening of Winston

13:56

house in Venice. Like this was

13:58

a few years ago. Couple years ago

14:00

and like there's like a literal random

14:02

DJ that like I he

14:05

is he probably like I've probably

14:07

met him Like he's no He's

14:10

gonna get off stage and like go standing next to me

14:12

in line And

14:15

I am just at it The

14:18

whole time every time he looks up from the crowd And

14:21

I don't know why he's like what is

14:23

this deal what's to deal with it? So now I

14:26

now I'm like aware that I do it But like I

14:28

start doing it without even thinking so when these

14:30

people were performing at Matt and Patricia's wedding. I'm standing

14:33

there like

14:34

One

14:37

of the guys closed his eyes Like

14:41

he literally was like this

14:42

It's

14:46

like just pick up your

14:47

hand and fucking wait It's not that hard

14:49

You probably thought you were waving his tongue

14:52

No,

14:52

I made it quite crystal

14:54

clear that it was him Because they were doing

14:56

one of the moves where they like they looked at the crowd and

14:58

they looked away and they looked back And

15:00

so he was looking every time he would look I'd go And

15:04

then he just went just closed

15:06

his eyes and kept going and I was like wow that

15:09

that's really really discouraging Maybe

15:11

maybe he saw your husband

15:13

next to you and was like oh, I'm

15:16

not gonna wave back I would be my pregnant

15:18

ass No,

15:21

I just wanted this a little way

15:26

I'm just like imagining you like in

15:28

the 500 nosebleeds that Taylor said I'm like,

15:31

nope exactly You can

15:33

see me again. She can see every one of

15:35

okay next time We are anywhere

15:37

with a performer of any kind.

15:40

I will just be watching you look out for it Don't like

15:42

just look out for it. That's what's happening And

15:45

I can't I can't even control it I

15:48

like feel kind of similarly in the sense where

15:50

if anybody has is

15:52

in the point of Like

15:54

command or I don't know just like

15:56

a little bit above me like in a workout

15:59

class or like Like literally anywhere. I

16:01

think they're so famous. Like they are Taylor

16:04

Swift. Like they are, you know what I mean? Like I like, they

16:06

say something like, you're so fucking right. Like I'm obsessed

16:09

with them. I don't know what it is. No, it's so

16:11

true. It's like the teacher's pet in there. Like

16:13

it's really weird. Like I idolize workout

16:16

instructors for some weird reason.

16:18

Actually that's so true. Like I follow,

16:21

I know a girl. Like we have mutual

16:23

friends. We follow each other on Instagram. And

16:26

she became like a workout instructor

16:28

and now she'll be like, oh I'm teaching this class. I'm

16:30

like, oh my God, it's so cool. She's like a celebrity.

16:32

I know, it's exactly

16:35

how I feel. I don't know why. And it's

16:37

so bizarre. I don't know why. They

16:39

probably feel that way about you guys. Mm-hmm.

16:42

I know. I mean, I think, what

16:44

am I doing? She's literally teaching

16:46

a workout class. Like people have to listen, like line

16:48

leader in school. Like I'm listening. I'm

16:51

there, truly. It's true. Yeah.

16:54

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School circle time. Yeah.

23:00

I actually wanted to talk about more wedding stuff because

23:02

I feel like you have more questions. Um, I

23:04

do. But again, I've also like not thought about absolutely

23:07

anything at all. How many people did

23:09

you have at your wedding? We had about 150. Was

23:12

that a good sweet spot? Would you say? I think

23:14

so. I could easily like

23:16

see who was there and like I

23:19

feel like I like had a nice

23:21

little moment with mostly everyone. Okay,

23:23

I like that. I did sit down and write down

23:25

a list of like who we thought would come and

23:28

it was already at like almost like 220 230. Yeah.

23:32

And it was already so stressed. I got into a FaceTime

23:34

with Alicia to talk about blog miss plans and

23:37

I was like visibly upset already. It was just

23:39

it's so stressful. I was like, Remy,

23:41

don't invite the girl who cut your hair

23:43

when you were 12. That's

23:45

where it gets tricky. Like I first it was just every

23:48

single person I've ever met with. Yeah. You know, like 100% and then

23:50

we were like, okay, let's

23:53

actually like you. We kind of had to just be

23:55

like a little cutthroat about it. Yeah. Cause it's

23:57

like if you invite this person, then you have to invite this person. by

24:00

this person. And so we were like, let's

24:02

just like really actually not go

24:06

crazy. And like it's people understand.

24:09

Okay. No one was like mad

24:11

at, I mean, maybe they were, I don't know, but like no

24:13

one can't be. And I don't really,

24:15

and it's also just like, I don't care. Like, you're

24:17

mad at me that I didn't invite you to my wedding. Like you have no idea.

24:20

Some people don't even know how expensive weddings are like,

24:22

it's, it's a big thing.

24:25

And one day they'll understand, you know, it's

24:28

your day. You're not there to like make anybody

24:31

else happy. Cal was his

24:33

best friend. Cal also

24:35

is so chill. He's like, do whatever you want. I'm like, beautiful.

24:38

Perfect. His best friend from college was visiting

24:40

and while we were making the list. So he was like, Forrest,

24:43

what was that guy's name? I was like, no.

24:46

If you can't remember their name, if you haven't talked to them pre COVID,

24:48

they're not coming. I'm sorry. It's just not happening. And

24:50

like Cody and I also like, we had like one,

24:52

there was like, it was like kind of a rule

24:54

where it was like, okay, we each get like two

24:57

to three people where like you

25:00

say their name and I don't know who they are. Oh, I

25:02

like that. Because like there were some people who'd be like,

25:04

well, what about this person? I'm like, I've never spoken about

25:07

that person. I've never met that person. Okay. But

25:09

if he was like, no, this means a lot. And

25:11

I'm like, okay, I'll take your word for it. Okay.

25:13

A few vetoes kind of like, I like that. Okay.

25:15

Same with me, but like, for the most part, like we, we

25:18

both knew, mutually knew

25:21

everybody there and like

25:24

both equally wanted those people there. That's

25:26

perfect. Okay. This is all really good knowledge

25:29

to know. I'm thinking, I

25:31

like that because it's true. It's like, it's a day for both

25:33

of you too. I like that idea of like three people

25:35

or like two people. Yeah. Just a few.

25:37

Cause like some, there are people where I'm

25:39

like, I know you've never met them, but like they're important

25:42

to me and they, it would mean a lot for them to invite

25:44

it. Yeah. But like we had to like draw

25:46

the line somewhere, but I

25:48

didn't want to be like meeting people at the wedding. Yeah.

25:51

And I did like I had to, like, there were a few that I

25:53

met because extended family or yeah,

25:55

for sure. Which is like totally fine, but I didn't

25:57

want to like spend my whole time like getting to Yeah,

26:00

someone okay. That's exactly how I feel like all

26:03

his family. I really haven't met a lot of his family Yeah,

26:05

so that's all kind of foreign to me, but obviously they're

26:07

coming no matter what right? I don't live here Yeah,

26:10

a little tricky. Yeah, but I feel like friend

26:13

wise cuz there's always like, you know It's

26:15

like what exactly you were saying like this that guy what

26:17

about that guy? Yeah, you spend so much time with and it's

26:19

like You don't know. I

26:21

don't know him. Yeah, you know, but like

26:24

a few of those just don't let it get Did

26:26

you have fried space I forget. Yeah. Okay, I had

26:29

ten. I love Nat. She's amazing.

26:31

I'm obsessed with her She's great. Your birthday

26:33

party was so fun. I made some nice friends of your birthday

26:35

party that I keep in touch with I know I love

26:38

it so much every time I see her she's like come to

26:40

my house I'm like we met once but I love you

26:44

I remember from that night was thinking we looked so

26:46

hot when we took a photo and then the next day

26:48

looking at them And I was like, oh shit.

26:50

That was my entire night And

26:53

I'm so happy that that cuz I like that was

26:55

I didn't drink like I that

26:57

was my last birthday Like

26:59

partying. Oh my god, you know, so It

27:03

was No,

27:07

it's true I think fondly back

27:09

to that 29th for it

27:11

was really fun. It was a good time Good spot,

27:13

too. Yeah, it was fun. I'm glad that you sent

27:16

it also one last thing about wedding stuff I remember on

27:18

your episode or circle time when we went on You

27:21

were saying that with Cody and wedding planning or

27:23

maybe I honestly just watched a video or to talk of you

27:25

me I might have not been there at some point You meant

27:28

that Cody was like really chill

27:30

with wedding planning until there was like one specific thing

27:32

that he felt very strongly about Yeah,

27:34

and that's exactly how Cal is going to be

27:36

and will be he's dying on very specific

27:38

Hills And I feel like it's like

27:40

that means like you gotta like run Things by

27:42

him because like there were there were things where I was like, oh,

27:44

he's not gonna care about Yeah, I could definitely make a decision

27:47

and then I would mention he does well, I was actually thinking And

27:50

I don't you do care about that Guy

27:53

way to talk about well, actually, yeah, it was great Like

27:56

he was so much more involved than I thought he was gonna be and

27:58

it actually was so nice to do so

28:00

many things with him because like the day of it was like

28:03

we got to see everything that we worked on together

28:05

and it wasn't so much like oh that's

28:07

cool and I'm like yeah I know I did it. It

28:10

only took 72 hours to make by hand but

28:12

it's okay. Like he

28:14

was like very much into it and it was

28:17

like it was a nice thing that wasn't

28:19

work and it wasn't like it was just like

28:21

this like fun little like thing

28:23

we got to do together. Yeah and

28:25

it was it was nice. Okay I enjoyed it. How long was the

28:27

engagement? It was a little over a year.

28:30

Okay. Okay I love that. Yeah we got

28:32

we got engaged in December 2021.

28:36

Okay. And married

28:39

February 2023. That's

28:41

actually kind of not quick that's like pretty

28:43

on timeline but with like wedding stuff now they're

28:45

booked out for so long. Yeah. That's crazy.

28:48

Yeah I think we did luck out because February

28:50

is not like a super busy

28:53

wedding time so a lot of things

28:55

were like available. That's nice. Okay and

28:57

so it did work out more like we didn't have

29:00

too much trouble booking things whereas like

29:02

I think if we were to have gotten married like during

29:04

a spring yeah spring or even

29:07

like fall it might

29:09

be a little bit trickier. I mean I've had so

29:11

many weddings this year. Yeah and

29:13

I feel like I mean obviously it's getting older too

29:16

but when I think of February I don't think of

29:18

many weddings happening. Yeah it was

29:20

it was a good time to do it. What

29:22

made you guys choose February? Honestly like I'm

29:25

not really even sure like because

29:27

we knew we wanted to get married in the desert. Okay.

29:30

And springtime is like Coachella. And

29:33

hottest spot. And hot. And then yeah like

29:36

summer obviously not it's way too hot

29:38

and then fall like depending on when in fall.

29:41

It can still be a hundred degrees in November.

29:44

Exactly. And that means like we would have just

29:46

gotten married like a

29:48

month or two ago. Oh wow.

29:51

Yeah okay. And like we knew we

29:53

wanted to like have babies

29:55

if we could like sooner than

29:57

later. And so like we yeah. So

30:00

we just were like let's just like I

30:02

wanted like a year a little bit over a year

30:04

engagement I didn't want to go too long because

30:06

then I would just start like overthinking everything. Oh my god

30:09

Yeah, and so okay baby

30:11

worked out. Yeah, baby Have

30:16

you guys picked a name obviously I know you're not gonna share it have

30:18

you picked we have one

30:20

name that we both really like That

30:23

we're probably not gonna make it like official

30:26

official until he's actually born Yeah,

30:28

I love that but like even when we

30:31

like talk about other names We're like, oh

30:33

maybe next baby. We'll do that Like there's like

30:35

this for this one like we're not

30:37

finding anything else that we would use Okay,

30:40

and people are like already like we like refer to him as

30:42

that name. Oh I can't

30:44

wait for the tiktoks where people like have you seen

30:46

they try and guess it putting it? Yes. Yes

30:49

Has anybody made one yet? I saw one But

30:52

it like wasn't like I just I

30:55

can see like my tagged video so

30:57

easily on TikTok that like I'll see one that

30:59

has like like I'm the only one that's viewed it But

31:18

so I saw one but it like truly

31:20

it was like I was the only one

31:22

who viewed it Little

31:24

secret. Yeah Didn't

31:28

get it right. Oh, okay.

31:30

I'll tell you guys but not on

31:33

like yeah

31:35

Okay, oh my god, how are you feeling

31:37

first-time after sick but like overall? How are you

31:40

feeling about being a mother? I'm feeling good

31:42

it like I think it's getting closer

31:44

and closer. So it's like the

31:46

giving birth Of

31:49

it all is becoming very real.

31:51

Okay And that's really scary.

31:53

Mm-hmm me like it's Just

31:56

like inevitable, you know, like it's gotta

31:58

come up And I'm

32:01

I'm definitely like nervous. Yeah,

32:04

but I'm excited for

32:06

him to like be home with us You

32:08

guys are gonna be be like best

32:11

coolest parent. Oh my god Yeah,

32:15

how has it been? I feel like with

32:17

the wedding you said you made it less about content

32:19

and such which which is like So refreshing how

32:21

do you even start to even think about do

32:24

we show the world our baby do it?

32:26

Like what do we yeah, I'm gonna be

32:28

family vlogger. Yeah, obviously co-family.

32:30

Yeah That's

32:33

in the cards but

32:36

I it's really tough

32:38

to think about because it's like it

32:40

is our career and like that this

32:42

is our job and It's really

32:45

hard to think of like a soft like a sweet

32:47

spot. Mm-hmm When it's like another human

32:49

involved that doesn't I

32:52

can't like make these decisions for himself Yeah,

32:55

but like when you really think about it like that it like

32:57

makes it like we're not gonna be putting

32:59

him online But like I will

33:01

be vlogging and like I don't know how my vlogs

33:04

will look like it's it might take a minute for me to like

33:06

get back into it because I Don't

33:08

know what it's gonna be like and like if I'm not showing

33:11

him, but all I'm doing is like

33:14

Making sure he's alive for the first It's

33:17

gonna be hard to vlog Yeah, like I'm

33:19

so open to talking about like my experience

33:21

as a mom but not so much like

33:24

his personal life Yeah

33:26

surrounding the content around him. Yeah, of course

33:28

Yeah, because it's just like he's not telling

33:31

me that like one day he will know That

33:34

we were posting these things like it like could be

33:36

really yeah, I think yeah and

33:38

like I you have to like respect Him

33:41

even though he's a baby like he's a human. Yeah.

33:44

Yeah, absolutely Yeah, also I feel like that there

33:46

was the wave of family vloggers and I

33:49

at least to me It felt like there was one

33:51

way to show your new baby.

33:53

Yeah, and then now that they're all growing up. I saw a tick-tock

33:57

This was a while ago, but it was saying how within the next

33:59

few years all those like OG family kids

34:01

are actually going to be old enough to share

34:03

their side of the story. Right. It's

34:06

going to be very interesting to hear that. Yeah. It's probably

34:08

going to be very similar to, you know, child actors in Hollywood,

34:10

honestly. Right. But

34:13

now there's this whole second wave of a lot

34:15

of, specifically, mom's, mom vloggers

34:17

being like, I want to share my life,

34:19

but I am going to, I'll show

34:22

their face up until they start looking like

34:24

a real person, or I'm going to like put emojis. I've

34:26

seen that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's nice knowing

34:28

that you can find what feels good to you because

34:31

obviously you know your baby better than anyone else. You

34:33

know, it's just tricky. It's like sometimes

34:36

I go back and forth because I'm like, if we're

34:39

so blatantly not showing him how

34:42

much like hungrier for that will

34:44

people be and like how

34:46

I don't want it

34:49

to be like a like

34:52

a situation where people are just dying to see

34:54

any glimpse of him that they're just like really

34:57

looking for it. So it's like if I give a picture,

35:00

then I'm in control of what's being

35:03

shown. Yeah. Yeah. But

35:05

at the same time, I'm like, I just don't want

35:07

to. Even getting stopped in

35:10

public, like you have

35:12

them with you. Right. But then I'm

35:14

like, okay, if you like if I meet you out, I'm not

35:16

going to be like, not like you can say hi to my

35:18

baby. Like,

35:21

fine. But like, I just I. I

35:24

don't know. The Internet is too big

35:26

and too scary and too unknown.

35:28

And I just like I it is like

35:30

my only job to keep him safe.

35:33

And I just like nothing

35:36

else matters. You know what I mean? Like

35:38

I don't. I'm sorry. But

35:40

like I love it. Like my blog like

35:43

I love vlogging and I love the people

35:45

who watch my videos and stuff. But like that's not my

35:47

priority anymore. Like my priorities

35:49

keeping my kid safe and like

35:51

comfortable and happy. Does any

35:53

part of you questioned

35:56

if you even want to continue doing social media?

35:58

Yeah. I think.

35:59

I go back and forth with it just because,

36:02

yeah, I

36:04

mean, it's just like a crazy world, especially

36:07

than just like being a mom. But I

36:09

think like, I would miss

36:11

it if I wasn't doing it. And I just,

36:14

it's more so that I just need to find what

36:16

works for like us as a family and putting our

36:18

family first and then figuring

36:21

out my path and my

36:23

how my career will look. And it might like take

36:25

a bit like, I don't know when I'll just like, jump

36:28

back into it. But like,

36:30

I can't see it

36:33

like me not doing this

36:35

anymore. Would you ever have the circle time

36:37

set at your place? So you don't have to like drive

36:39

in this? I would. I mean, I like

36:42

I'll do solo episodes from home. Okay.

36:45

And stuff. It's just like when I have guests,

36:48

it's easier to just go to the studio because it's

36:50

more central, you know? Oh my God, totally.

36:52

So I just like, you're like, I have

36:54

a set. Big man. I don't.

36:57

I don't. Thank God. I

37:00

sit in my pajamas like on

37:02

like a random bed. Like it's not a set. I'll

37:05

do it from home when I can. Yeah. Well,

37:07

I was thinking like that would help with balance and stuff. But I

37:11

think you're going to figure it out. I love how you're giving yourself a lot of grace

37:13

of it's going to take time to figure out the exact

37:15

content or whatever, because obviously it's your life. Yeah.

37:18

And this clearly is going to be a huge part of your life. Right. But

37:21

also wanting to keep it private

37:23

and safe and just your guys's, you know? Right.

37:26

Exactly. And it'll take a minute,

37:29

but I think we'll figure it out. I've really enjoyed

37:31

Lauren Giraldo's videos. I'm sure you've watched them

37:34

because she's not her kid. Like, I think the

37:36

content's been so interesting seeing

37:38

it because it's all about her experience. It's really not about

37:41

the kid where again, those OG vloggers were all

37:43

just like all him, his face, like

37:45

everything. And I've

37:47

learned so much just watching, you know, I'm like,

37:50

I didn't know you had to do you had to wear diapers. Like,

37:52

I didn't know that. Like, little set like that. But I'm like, oh my

37:54

God, I have no idea. It's wild.

37:57

There is there's really a lot. But yeah,

37:59

we even. because you know we like use

38:02

cameras every single day like I'm

38:04

we're always like filming yeah yeah

38:07

and we got like a camcorder

38:09

that like we're gonna just for like

38:12

actual like home videos I'm

38:14

like I don't want him to think that like I

38:17

want him to know like when I'm working and like

38:20

that it's not like for him yeah wait

38:23

I like I want to keep it so separate

38:25

and like let him know that like if there's a camera

38:27

in his face it's not because it's like work yeah

38:30

I love that I love that

38:33

also knowing cuz you know how no

38:35

matter what whenever there's a camera you're somewhat on

38:37

but if it's a camera that you know actually

38:40

the internet's not seeing it's gonna be completely different

38:43

my parents like I have so many home videos but I was

38:45

never like what was this gonna go

38:47

or like are you working or like are you who's

38:49

gonna see this and like cuz like he'll grasp the

38:52

concepts that like yeah you know yeah

38:55

but like I don't want him to honestly

38:57

and like I don't want him to know that like camera

39:00

that means you are on and that means that everyone

39:03

is gonna see this and that means that there's an internet

39:05

and I just want him to be like these

39:08

are home videos we'll watch him one day when you're older

39:10

you and Cody are gonna have some crazy like documentary

39:12

about yourself in like 20 years and like these videos

39:14

are gonna be in it I'm seeing a Netflix

39:17

yeah I think that's so sweet

39:19

so I really do I think like also the mental

39:22

shift that you'll have from just

39:24

holding a different camera and knowing where that's going like

39:26

it'll I feel like that'll really help you a lot

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It's the greatest time of year.

41:16

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41:19

the... Okay guys, it's the holiday season.

41:22

Every day I wake up with the biggest smile on my face

41:24

because the weather is getting chillier and

41:26

it means it's time for me to gift give. And

41:28

as you know, that is my love language.

41:31

And I think I'm going to be using Drizzly

41:33

this year. I love Drizzly so

41:35

much. I mean, whether I'm going to your house and

41:37

you don't have any vodka and I need some vodka,

41:40

or if I'm gift giving to Cal or I'm giving

41:42

it to, you know, uh, my aunt and

41:44

uncle, you can get on the app. It's super

41:46

easy to use. You type in the address and

41:49

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41:51

around the area that are carrying whatever you want from like

41:53

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41:56

whatever, and it'll deliver it to

41:58

them

41:59

so quickly.

41:59

And it's a great way to give a gift this holiday

42:02

season. Drizzly is the go-to app

42:04

for drink delivery. And if you are like

42:06

me, on the other hand, and you just procrastinate

42:08

and always forget things, it's perfect

42:11

when you are going over to someone's

42:13

house, you know, they're hosting, maybe your best friend

42:15

loves hosting. Nothing's worse

42:17

than showing up empty handed. I mean,

42:19

Thanksgiving is right around the corner. And

42:21

it seems as though we have all the food covered,

42:24

but drinks are always something that I forget.

42:26

So, you know, this Thanksgiving season, if you

42:28

do come, you know, it's the perfect place to

42:30

grab a gift for, you know, me

42:33

who's hosting or a friend's giving

42:35

party, bring the party. Especially

42:38

with Drizzly, I think it's super cool because every

42:40

time I get on there to find a gift for someone,

42:43

I find all these craft alcohols

42:45

that I didn't even know existed. So if you guys

42:47

are interested, download the Drizzly app or go to drizzly.com.

42:50

That's D-R-I-Z-L-Y.com. It must

42:52

be 21 plus, not available in all locations. Your

42:57

community is so, they love you. Everybody loves you. I

42:59

feel like everyone's going to respect whatever you and Cody decide to do. I

43:01

think so too. I really like,

43:04

I feel so lucky

43:06

that like the people who watch our

43:09

stuff, like respect our

43:11

wishes and it's been great. And

43:16

so I trust that like it will be totally

43:18

fine. I believe that. Even we had Bretman on

43:20

and we were saying like he has a similar

43:23

audience where they just like adore him. And

43:25

when he was dating somebody back in Hawaii,

43:27

he would go, he asked like, please, I don't want to

43:29

show my boyfriend or anything like that. And

43:31

people on the island would like obviously run into Bretman and

43:33

the boyfriend when they were out and about. And there

43:36

was never a photo of the boyfriend ever taken.

43:38

See, that's amazing. Yeah. Like,

43:40

and I, and I really do think like, I

43:43

think that people will totally respect it.

43:45

I think so too. And I'm very

43:48

lucky that it's not like paparazzi

43:51

and stuff that we have to deal with. It's

43:53

just like people who know us, you know,

43:56

and I think like it's, it'll be, it'll

43:58

be fine. I'm not like worried about like. I

44:00

would be excited if like we saw someone

44:03

who watches our videos in public and they like got to

44:05

see him like I Would go it's like you get to see

44:07

him, you know, don't make a picture of him. No post it. Yeah It's

44:10

nice that you can see him Take

44:13

a little mental picture. Yeah. Yeah, and it's not

44:15

like I would never like hide him from like I Wouldn't

44:18

put him in a picture like a fan like someone asked

44:21

us for a picture. I would like I

44:24

do that with chili like I'll

44:26

be walking chili and someone asked for friction like once

44:28

again But

44:31

but the child will not be

44:33

in any of the way I have chili been obsessed with

44:35

the bomb Not really

44:38

he's like he loves he's always

44:40

been like very much laying on

44:42

me Like he's he's always been just my

44:45

little man, you know So

44:48

cute perfect in every single

44:50

way. Uh-huh but like so

44:53

that hasn't changed but it's not like he doesn't

44:55

like Notice that there's

44:57

I think he's just like, okay now she's

44:59

round now You

45:02

know, how do you think he'll be

45:04

and the cats will be with the baby? Well,

45:07

we just had our best friends

45:09

just had a baby in end of

45:11

August and they literally left

45:13

this morning they so they were staying with us over

45:16

the weekend and So

45:19

there was like a she's like two months old.

45:21

I love seeing how they interact. Yeah,

45:23

I was like How is this gonna

45:25

go and he was so sweet He

45:28

like every time she cried he'd stand

45:30

up and like just like look at her and like

45:32

he was like He was so

45:35

sweet. It was a day. No, they definitely

45:37

like he can tell like this is a human

45:40

little shoe Yeah, oh my god. Yeah, I

45:42

bring I'll have baby friends. I'm burped.

45:44

I cannot control though. You're so good I'm

45:47

burping and throwing up in my mouth 24 I

45:54

really do this morning. Um, I Always

45:57

love having babies around with the dogs because I'm curious like what's

45:59

gonna what it's gonna to be like and one of them who

46:01

is my my first born she is

46:04

I was the most nervous for her and she does not

46:06

love babies because she's like

46:08

yeah they'd like I think they themselves like think

46:10

to a certain degree they're a baby. Yeah, they're like so

46:12

cute. So I'm like, okay, noted. Such

46:15

a random tip and I'm obviously not a mother but if

46:17

you want to listen to me, I do.

46:20

Cal's parents when he was born, they were so

46:22

nervous. They had a corgi and they were so nervous

46:25

that the corgi wasn't gonna like Cal so they

46:27

kept them separated for a long time. And

46:29

then after I think like maybe a couple months, they

46:32

finally like let them kind of meet and the corgi

46:34

hated Cal. I think because they put that

46:36

divide up. So when I was talking to Cal's mom, she was like if because

46:39

my brother just had a baby and so she was like if they've learned

46:41

anything like have them interact right off

46:43

the bat because it kind of formed this like resentment.

46:45

And so the dog started to like started

46:48

by like pushing Cal over initially

46:50

and then he started to kind of like nip at him. So they had

46:52

to rehome the doggy. Yeah.

46:55

I also heard if you when you

46:57

come with the room, I also heard if you have some of the

47:02

babies clothes before meeting them, bringing that

47:04

to the dog. Yeah, yeah, I've seen, I've seen. You're like

47:06

I've read all of them. Yeah, sorry, sorry. No, I love

47:09

it. Are you kidding me? No way. I

47:11

need all of this but I've seen that

47:13

and I think we'll probably do something similar because like you'll

47:15

probably be like staying with my parents like when we're in the hospital.

47:19

And so I feel like we'll give them something to like take home to

47:21

him. I have faith in Chile. I

47:23

really do. I think he'll be great. He

47:26

surprises me but for the most part I like I know

47:28

what's coming. What were the cats names again? Ham

47:30

and brisket. Ham and brisket. Yeah.

47:33

Cats are pretty chill, right? I feel like they'll just kind of be around.

47:35

They're chill. Our cats I will

47:37

say like they are very cuddly

47:40

and very like like

47:43

everybody's laying on me a lot. 20 percent?

47:45

Yeah. So I think they'll

47:48

be a little bit more involved than like a normal

47:50

cat but in a good way.

47:52

Good. They're sweet. They have

47:54

to learn how to clip their nails better because. Oh

47:57

I'm sure they hate it. They hate it and like I.

48:00

tried before the baby came to

48:02

stay with us this weekend. And like, I got like a total

48:04

of like six out of the two of them.

48:06

And I was like, this is as good

48:08

as it's gonna get. Oh my God. We'll comment

48:10

below if you know anything. I don't have any tips

48:13

and tricks on cutting. I think there's like a board that

48:15

they have to use. Yeah. There's like scratchers

48:17

and stuff. But you knew. They don't fully

48:20

like file them. So

48:23

I think I'm going to, my cats are very,

48:25

they love human food. So

48:28

I think I'm going to... Yeah. But hands

48:30

are easy when brisket is good. Brisket

48:34

like sees, we call him cocaine bear.

48:37

Because like, like truly that is him

48:39

with, with food. Like

48:41

he like cannot see anything. Puddle vision.

48:44

Yes. Oh my God. And it's so funny when we watched that

48:46

movie, he sat and watched the

48:48

entire thing. Dab. Like he was just staring

48:51

at the screen. And we were like, he

48:53

sees himself in that bed. Like a black mirror

48:55

of the sun. Yeah. Yeah. It's

48:57

wild. So cute. Do you think

49:00

you'll be getting an epidural? Yeah.

49:02

I agree. She's so against them. I'm not

49:04

against them. Not against them at all. For herself. Yeah.

49:07

I just, I'm so competitive. And I know

49:09

I should not compare pregnancies. My

49:11

mother never had them. And I'm like, if my

49:13

mother, if you met her, you'd get it. And she's

49:16

like, no, I just wanted to experience it naturally.

49:18

And I'm like, if you did

49:20

it, like I can do this. I totally

49:22

understand. But I think like more power to

49:24

you. I really do. I think it's amazing. I

49:27

just like, I'm okay.

49:29

You know, it's funny

49:31

if for whatever reason you don't. And then I'm

49:33

like, give it to me. Oh, I'll be getting it. I

49:36

will be. Because sometimes like if things like progress

49:39

enough, they can't give it to you. Like sometimes I've had that

49:41

happen. Truly, like this is what I've

49:43

learned is that like you can plan

49:45

all you want. You can think you know exactly what you

49:48

want to happen when you get into the hospital, how it's

49:50

going to go. You can have a whole birth plan, but like you

49:53

have no idea what's going to happen. I already

49:56

said this one pretty basic, but you'll scream. My

49:58

mom when she was pregnant with me. It's like,

50:00

hmm, I'm thinking of having some cramps.

50:02

Like I should go, she drove herself

50:04

to the hospital. They check her, she's 10 centimeters

50:07

dilated. And duh. She had no fucking

50:09

idea. Okay, I don't know what you're saying. She's

50:12

my mom, you did. She's like, she

50:14

sounds like, she's like really fast. She's like,

50:16

really fast. Yeah. I literally,

50:18

she's like, they're freaking the fuck out. That's

50:21

crazy. But that was her second. So insane,

50:23

insane. Also, we had three people. She's like Courtney

50:25

when Courtney pulled the baby out of her

50:27

vagina. No. She just had

50:29

hers. She did, she did. Oh my God. Yeah.

50:33

My Pilates instructor was like, I can

50:35

see

50:36

you

50:37

bending over and like pulling the baby out.

50:40

And I was like, you do not know me. I

50:43

literally said, or I said, I will absolutely not be doing that.

50:47

I don't want to see that. I'll be having Cal like

50:49

waist up. Like you're not going down, like you're

50:52

behind me the whole time. That is one thing that I'm

50:54

pretty fed on.

50:56

She's like kind of just keeping

50:58

some of the mystery there.

51:01

Like some alert. Like

51:05

I just, it is, we watched a birthing

51:07

video when I was, I think must

51:10

have been in like seventh grade. Were you

51:12

scarred? I can still see it. Like I can see

51:14

it in my head right now. Like I will

51:17

never be the same. I

51:19

never had to watch one. Like

51:22

I mean, I saw like the full baby coming out

51:24

of the vagina. There was, and it was

51:26

just head on first. Like

51:30

not like a, there was an artsy shot

51:32

and all. Like they were like, this is what it looks

51:35

like. And I'll never forget

51:37

it. Mine was ninth grade health. I wonder if they just sent like

51:39

showed the same videos to everybody. You probably watched the same one.

51:41

I remember a lot of red. That's like a reddish

51:44

pinkish color. That's all I remember. I

51:46

just, I just remember being like, that

51:48

is a really, that is

51:50

a big hole. And

51:55

so, and I'm like, if I like,

51:58

if I still haven't forgotten about that. Like

52:00

there's no way that Cody's get a free

52:03

I think I'm like I'm so scared of pooping

52:06

myself That's what I'm the more I'm sure that

52:08

too. But like they're the doctors are so

52:10

chill. They've seen everything Yeah, it'll

52:12

be fine. But yeah, that's what I'm but I've

52:15

talked to like my friends like who have given birth recently

52:17

I've been like did you poop and like one of my friends like I

52:19

have no idea didn't want anyone to tell me I Love

52:22

that. I'll never I'll never know.

52:24

Yeah, I love that idea. He was like, I don't think so

52:27

But I wouldn't know I'm I couldn't

52:29

tell you I kind of love that Yeah, but like

52:32

and then one of my friends just had like air freshener

52:34

like right guy like there

52:37

in case But I didn't even think about

52:39

the smell I've just only thought about like but is

52:41

that it because you can feel it like well Yeah, never

52:43

durl like you don't even really know. Are you

52:46

allowed to spray that or is that like contaminating

52:48

the air? I think probably it's like

52:50

it probably depends. Yeah, like her doula

52:52

brought it. Yeah I think it's prop. There's probably

52:55

some sort of one that's fine. That's like natural.

52:58

I think I don't know I don't really know a little

53:00

essential oil Exactly a little

53:02

pooper. I think you can probably use like an essential

53:04

oil diffuser and yeah, we're natural Yeah, do

53:06

you have your bag packed up? It's not till January,

53:08

correct? Yes. Have we packed anything

53:11

yet? I've not packed anything yet.

53:13

It is a little early. Yeah You gotta

53:15

be here. We would have it packed like before

53:17

I know I was pregnant. It's packed I mean, it's like

53:20

I'm 32 weeks right now I'm 38

53:23

weeks today. Are you gonna do the sound? I have to

53:25

I think it's 34 34. Okay. Yeah, don't miss it Don't

53:28

miss it. No, I know. I know and my friend miss

53:30

and she was like She literally

53:32

texted me was like we fucking forgot to do that Kylie

53:34

Jenner Pregnant just

53:36

to make that tiktok. I'm not even so

53:38

I'm 34 weeks today. Wait, it's actually

53:41

coming up Yeah, we have you make two weeks,

53:43

which is crazy like

53:45

time actually live by for the moon. Yeah.

53:48

Oh my god Yeah, it's like

53:50

it's because it's also one of those things where it's

53:52

like January doesn't seem far But

53:55

yeah, like when you say 30 like I'm 32 weeks

53:57

like full term is 40 And

54:00

like he could come at 37 like

54:03

that's like oh, that's five weeks from now like that's

54:05

nothing Is it is he due for early

54:07

january or late january? He's early january

54:09

a capricorn. Love it Yeah,

54:12

unless he's super early then he'll be a that's

54:14

a good luck. But cody's a Sagittarius.

54:16

Love it. I love I

54:20

mean, what are you an aquarius? That's

54:22

what I was hoping he'd be an aquarius and aries

54:25

What are you Libra love

54:28

my moon and my rising are both Libra

54:30

Wow

54:34

What are you I'm an Aries,

54:37

okay. Yeah, which is why cuz cows and areas

54:39

I feel like But he does not give me

54:41

Sagittarius Real I

54:43

see I don't know I've I've always just thought they

54:45

were amazing. Yes, and they are and they absolutely

54:48

are Absolutely. Oh, I

54:50

think good luck. I know no, I'm

54:52

so now I'm curious But I feel like it depends

54:55

like I like

54:57

a cancer man I'm

54:59

like, absolutely not. I've been some people

55:02

are probably like they're great And

55:05

that's on compatibility That's

55:08

very true. Honestly, you could tell me anything

55:10

and I'd say good luck Honestly, like it just

55:12

if it fits if it fits exactly, I don't

55:15

know. He's a good Sagittarius. Yes. Yes Yes,

55:17

that's all that matters. Yes, so I'm

55:20

sure people like someone out there But I said I was

55:22

a Libra would be like, oh I shit on Sagittarius

55:24

all the time and all the comments like wait Hey,

55:26

just personal experience. Yeah,

55:29

which I understand but I also have realized

55:31

that like girls Like I

55:34

like a lot of my best friends are cancer girls But

55:37

cancer boys and I don't

55:39

mesh

55:39

What's your brother?

55:41

Um Leo,

55:45

oh Okay, interesting. Yeah So

55:48

I don't know what that means. No, no me.

55:51

I don't know my I've got a lot of thoughts of

55:53

no And I would love to know that I

55:55

love it Leo Leo's are like very like center of attention

55:58

Like Bretman is Leo and he's a Leo the ruin through.

56:00

Okay. Very much so. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Kevin's

56:02

a little, like my brother's a kind of shy. Yes,

56:06

I've noticed that. Oh, I thought his, um, didn't,

56:08

everyone went to lunch and you're saying he just

56:10

like, he had just completed some tests and we

56:12

were celebrating him. How's he doing? He's great.

56:17

Thank you for asking. I

56:19

don't know. He's like a licensed insurance.

56:24

Um, he like works in insurance. And so I

56:26

don't remember that. I do. For some reason I really

56:28

remember that. I don't remember sharing

56:30

it, but like, I'm happy that we got to celebrate

56:33

him and I'm happy that it stuck with me. I'm

56:35

so proud of you every single day.

56:39

If it wasn't lunch, it was a TikTok. I've

56:42

never spoken about my brother's career.

56:45

So this

56:47

is the exclusive. The

56:49

way that I remember the most random things. No,

56:51

same. Anyways, so, okay. So bag

56:54

is not packed. The bag is not packed. Okay.

56:56

Are you going to do like a cute little like TikTok, like your

56:58

base weekender? I actually do have a

57:00

base weekender for the occasion.

57:03

I thought I've always wanted one and I thought

57:05

this is a perfect opportunity. Yeah.

57:08

They're the best bags. They were, they seem like it. Yes.

57:11

And I was listening to Jackie Schimel's podcast,

57:13

which I feel like you should do like a crossover because

57:15

we should, I guess hold that Austin. He's

57:18

so good. And she just had a baby boy. I know. And she

57:20

brought like, um, candles,

57:22

like, um, battery operated candles and like

57:24

a diffused or she like, she made like a spa.

57:26

Okay. So I do, I do kind of love the diffuser

57:29

idea.

57:31

I would do sorry.

57:36

I do like the diffuser idea. I haven't thought

57:38

too much about it, but I, it's like

57:40

the time has come, you know, the time has come

57:42

where I need to start thinking about it. It's true. And then

57:44

Thanksgiving's going to go by fast and Christmas. And then,

57:47

oh yeah, no, you were just in New York for

57:49

the marathon, right? Yeah. That was our last flight.

57:52

Oh my God. I was going to say you were on a plane. The doctor

57:54

said like she recommended

57:58

like not flying after 32 weeks. So

58:01

yeah. Out with a bang though. Yeah,

58:04

my cousin's getting married in beginning

58:06

of December in New York and so we couldn't

58:08

go unfortunately. So we

58:11

wanted to see her celebrate with her and then Cody's

58:13

doing the marathon. So it was a fun little casual. So

58:15

you're here for until the birth. Here

58:18

until the birth. Yeah. Oh

58:20

my God. Is he like, is he running every

58:22

day? Is that also a dumb question? He runs all

58:24

the time. Well, he's doing a trip. He's

58:28

running from LA to San

58:30

Diego. What the fuck? Yeah,

58:33

next week. I mean, it's

58:35

insane. How many miles is that? Next week.

58:37

Yeah, next week. Is he okay from the marathon still?

58:39

Oh my God, never been better. Are you kidding me?

58:42

I just don't get it. How many miles is that?

58:44

I don't know, it's 33 miles a day for four days.

58:47

Oh, it's like overnight. Duh, Alicia.

58:49

Yeah. That's what he said. He's

58:52

gonna do it in like four hours probably. I was like,

58:54

it takes four hours just to drive it. What

58:57

was the one he did in Canada that was like insanely

58:59

long? He did like

59:01

an ultra marathon in Canada. That

59:04

was like a hike mixed with like a

59:06

run type of thing. And then he did the Ironman

59:08

also in Australia. Oh my God. When

59:11

you first met him, was he always into like

59:13

that kind of stuff? He would like run,

59:16

like he would like go on runs and stuff. And I know

59:18

he did a marathon like a month into

59:20

our relationship. Cause I was gonna say,

59:22

have you like had to learn a lot

59:24

about everything? I know more about

59:26

it than I ever thought I would. Like truly

59:29

it's kind of crazy. Like, and I had

59:31

like a moment like this when we were in

59:33

New York for the marathon cause like you go

59:36

for marathons. I mean, I don't know

59:38

if you guys know this. You might have like an expo

59:40

before. So you go and you pick up your

59:42

number and then they have like all of these little

59:44

stations set up where you can get

59:48

like food and stuff for

59:50

like during the run, like little gels. The

59:52

goo gels, I was gonna ask if you like the goo gels. Yeah,

59:54

and I was looking for

59:57

like this specific one that I know that he likes. Like I'm

59:59

like. And I was like, I never thought that I would

1:00:01

know so much about. That's so sweet. I didn't even

1:00:03

know that like goo, gel,

1:00:06

like I didn't know people ate those things

1:00:08

when they ran. Yeah. Have you tried one? No,

1:00:11

they scare me. I'm so intrigued to try one, but I

1:00:13

would love to try one. Just come over. I have

1:00:15

so many. Come with us. I'm sure you're like, these

1:00:17

are the, this kind if you want this, the endurance

1:00:20

tactics if you want that. There's

1:00:22

so many gels in our home. So like, please.

1:00:25

I would love to try one. I'm on that side of TikTok

1:00:27

for some reason. I'm on marathon and like bicycle

1:00:30

TikTok for some reason. Really? Yeah. I couldn't even

1:00:32

tell you how far 5k is. Neither.

1:00:35

Clearly, which is why I saw it. A 5k is like...

1:00:37

A 5k is like three miles? No, I think, I

1:00:39

think what's 10? What's a 10k? I

1:00:42

had no idea. That's why I was like,

1:00:44

oh, she's running to San Diego.

1:00:47

A 5k is three miles. Oh, 3.1. That

1:00:50

makes sense. Okay.

1:00:53

I tried to do the couch to 5k,

1:00:55

like the app. Oh, yeah. The 5k and

1:00:57

the minute that it transitioned from like,

1:00:59

because it starts you off like

1:01:02

running and walking intermittently.

1:01:05

But the minute that it changed

1:01:07

to just

1:01:10

running, I stopped. I'm out. I

1:01:12

completely stopped. And I was

1:01:14

like, I hate this. At least you tried

1:01:16

though. I wouldn't even try that. Yeah.

1:01:18

And I think I'll try again. I think like, I

1:01:21

think I'll just keep trying. I can't run

1:01:23

right now, obviously.

1:01:26

But like a little piece of me is getting the itch

1:01:28

again. And I know that shortly

1:01:31

after I'll stop. It's

1:01:33

nice to have the itch. Do you think it's the

1:01:35

itch because you can't do it? And then as soon as

1:01:37

you can... Yeah, that's what

1:01:38

I would do too.

1:01:39

Yeah. You always don't want to

1:01:41

get it. Like totally. That goo's looking great. Yeah.

1:01:45

I could go for a little goo right now. No,

1:01:48

can you imagine if I needed a goo for like the

1:01:51

one mile I'm running? It's like a pre-workout. Yeah.

1:01:53

Have you had any like weird pregnancy cravings? Not

1:01:56

like anything crazy. Okay. Really?

1:01:59

It's been... It's I've had cravings

1:02:01

for things and then I have it and then it usually goes away.

1:02:04

Okay, but there there

1:02:06

have been certain things that I've like fixated on Like

1:02:08

right now I'm on this like very big matcha

1:02:12

But you can't have like you can't you can only have a certain amount

1:02:14

of caffeine. Mm-hmm And starbucks

1:02:17

is the only place where I can kind

1:02:19

of get the info on how much caffeine

1:02:22

is in each string Because they

1:02:24

have all those nutritional facts and they make

1:02:26

a little like note that like it's kind of estimated But

1:02:29

they have like the estimated amount of caffeine. Yeah,

1:02:31

whereas like other places

1:02:34

Unfortunately don't and so it's just it's just

1:02:36

easier to go in the Starbucks app and it says it like

1:02:38

I I wish I could Just like grab a coffee from

1:02:40

like a really good spot But like I don't

1:02:43

know what I'm working with then so

1:02:45

I've been like matcha.

1:02:47

I know generally how much is in it I've

1:02:50

been just absolutely fixated

1:02:53

like matcha One pump

1:02:55

of peppermint. Oh And

1:02:58

vanilla foam. Oh my god,

1:03:00

that's amazing So

1:03:03

good and like it's a it's a little sweet,

1:03:06

but I'm like, I don't give a shit like

1:03:08

it's delicious So I've

1:03:11

been having one of those every morning. Oh, and that will change

1:03:14

but like that kind of stuff is Has

1:03:18

like I have like a lot of things that I just like

1:03:20

have been doing but then they just

1:03:22

eventually go away Like tomorrow you're like I'm over matcha

1:03:28

Actually right now in this moment any like food

1:03:30

things specifically Not

1:03:32

really like there there are things that

1:03:34

I see and I'm like that sounds good I have it and

1:03:37

then I felt like I made a list like if

1:03:39

I'm scrolling on tik-tok and I'm like, oh

1:03:42

That sounds good. Like I have like right now. It's

1:03:44

like apple pie. Oh Like

1:03:47

something like an apple crumble situation,

1:03:50

but I just saw a tik-tok of one and it looks so

1:03:52

good Yeah, it might have been the same one. I thought

1:03:54

like and but then I forget and like Cody will be like What

1:03:56

do you want? I'm like, I don't know. But then

1:03:58

if I look at my list, I'm like Oh, but

1:04:00

a lot of things have been knocked off. Like

1:04:03

I really wanted like fried rice. I

1:04:06

had it once and then I was like, okay. Oh wow.

1:04:09

Okay, so not like a fixation, just like a single one time.

1:04:11

But I have noticed that a lot of the things that like

1:04:14

sound really good to me have some sort

1:04:16

of cinnamon, Oh. Have

1:04:18

like a cinnamon thing going on. Interesting.

1:04:21

Okay, yeah. Very fall. I'm so curious.

1:04:23

I want to make you an apple crumble now. I

1:04:25

want you to. Can I make you one and deliver

1:04:27

it to you? Yes, but you

1:04:29

don't have to do that. That's all I do

1:04:32

like every day. That just doesn't, that sounds

1:04:34

like inconvenient for you. That's like my dream.

1:04:36

I'm not even kidding. Please let me. I'm not

1:04:38

gonna not let you. Okay. Like we

1:04:40

won't speak about it again. I'm

1:04:42

gonna text you and I'm gonna bring it over. I always

1:04:44

tell people invite yourself to my house because

1:04:47

I will not invite you. I'm gonna say I never invite you. I'll feel

1:04:49

like I'm like inconveniencing you. Like

1:04:51

I don't want anyone to be like, sure.

1:04:55

That's my Libra. I, well,

1:04:57

maybe that is a thing. I will be making you

1:04:59

one and I'll be driving it over. Perfect. And

1:05:01

then I'll give brisket a little pat and I'll leave. He'll

1:05:04

love it. Cody seems like you made her drive

1:05:06

out here. I'm like, no, I don't even know if she

1:05:08

came here. Cody would be like, fuck yeah,

1:05:10

apple crumble. Like he doesn't care.

1:05:13

It's just me. But he's actually a really good baker

1:05:16

as well. Oh. And

1:05:18

so for a while I was really craving like

1:05:21

strawberry shortcake. Oh, yuck.

1:05:23

But like just, okay. I actually

1:05:26

watched, you know how Sydney Carlson does like baking

1:05:28

videos. She made this like

1:05:31

strawberry cake. I thought that one that looked good. And

1:05:33

it was just like white cake frosting

1:05:36

and like fresh strawberries. There was no like syrup.

1:05:38

There was no, I don't like the syrup. I don't like like

1:05:41

mashed fruit. It

1:05:43

was just like fresh strawberries frosting

1:05:45

and cake. And he made that. And

1:05:48

I, that one I'm thinking about often.

1:05:51

Oh, I would love to get that one

1:05:53

again. Like fresh. Yes it. You'll

1:05:56

ever, you'll ever. Went up for me. Yeah. Every week

1:05:58

or like every day of the week. to have someone new bringing

1:06:00

something over. It seems

1:06:03

like my dream just making people make

1:06:05

me something and then drive it to me. I

1:06:07

would not feel guilty about that at all.

1:06:11

You, just like a postman, like, hey, just leave

1:06:13

it on the door. It was like, yeah. Strawberry

1:06:16

shortcake sounds really good right now. We're

1:06:19

talking about food. I wanted to ask, how's

1:06:21

Cody been as a new found

1:06:24

almost father?

1:06:25

He's great.

1:06:27

He is just so

1:06:29

supportive and patient. And

1:06:32

all of the things that I've always really loved about him

1:06:34

have just amplified.

1:06:37

It's also nice because he has

1:06:39

a pretty, his

1:06:43

head is on straight. And

1:06:46

he's very even keel. And he is

1:06:48

very logical. And so that helps

1:06:50

when I'm feeling a little bit crazy and

1:06:53

emotional, which has just

1:06:55

been amplified ever since I've gone pregnant,

1:06:58

I feel like. So he's been

1:07:00

wonderful. I'm glad. He's

1:07:03

just so excited. We're both just really, really excited.

1:07:07

I feel like you guys have always made a good team. It

1:07:09

makes sense that. I

1:07:12

could never fake something for the internet.

1:07:14

And so what you see, I'll also

1:07:17

be honest if we get in an argument

1:07:20

about it. I'm not one to,

1:07:22

no relationship is perfect ever.

1:07:25

And I really want

1:07:28

people to know that it's

1:07:30

not always perfect because I don't think

1:07:33

people should strive for that. But

1:07:37

the communication and the love we have for each

1:07:39

other and the team that we've created

1:07:41

is very, very much real. Have

1:07:43

you guys done birthing classes yet? We

1:07:47

have one coming up in a few

1:07:49

weeks. But we did one breastfeeding

1:07:52

class where we learned more about

1:07:54

breastfeeding because there's actually so much more to learn

1:07:57

than I realized. It's not just like.

1:08:00

It's not easy. Also, I again,

1:08:02

I feel like I just sound so dumb. I always

1:08:05

I always thought it was like a one stream

1:08:07

situation, but it's like a shower. Like,

1:08:10

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, it's not

1:08:12

just like an utter with like one stream

1:08:14

of milk. It's there's like multiple.

1:08:16

Yeah, there's a shot. Yeah,

1:08:18

no, I know. It's crazy.

1:08:21

It's like, also, where do you learn this? You

1:08:23

know, I yeah, I mean, it's that's

1:08:25

why we took the class because I was like, I feel

1:08:28

like it isn't something I should go into blindly. Yeah,

1:08:31

I get that. And there's a lot to learn.

1:08:34

And it's like a it is like a full time job breastfeeding.

1:08:37

There's yeah. I honestly,

1:08:39

I just feel like the whole subject

1:08:43

and the idea and the stereotype that like, if you

1:08:45

don't breastfeed or like, you know, that the conversation,

1:08:48

if you don't breastfeed, then like, you're not a good mom. I just think

1:08:50

that's so fucked up. But I think that

1:08:52

it needs to change personally. I

1:08:54

think that there is just a lot of there's

1:08:58

just a lot of factors that go into it that are out

1:09:00

of your control. Yeah. And it's

1:09:02

not just a walk in the park.

1:09:04

And so I think that like nobody,

1:09:08

I think like a fed

1:09:09

baby is

1:09:11

the best way to have

1:09:13

a baby. And

1:09:16

so I like I don't want people to like I

1:09:18

don't I don't like the fact that if someone

1:09:21

can't breastfeed, they're like automatically

1:09:24

shame the shame. Yeah. I

1:09:26

don't I plan on breastfeeding, but I don't know what

1:09:28

it's going to be like when he's here. Like you really have no

1:09:30

idea. I don't know how much I'm going to be

1:09:32

able to produce and and how he's

1:09:35

going to laugh like wherever it is. You

1:09:37

don't know. And it's OK

1:09:40

that your journey

1:09:42

is not like everyone else's. I just think there's so many opinions

1:09:44

online. Yeah. And especially

1:09:47

when it comes to babies and kids, like

1:09:50

there isn't there is not

1:09:52

one experience that's universal. Everybody

1:09:55

experiences these things differently and like every

1:09:58

child is different. And so. to

1:10:00

tell someone like that what

1:10:02

worked for you is the right thing is

1:10:04

really tricky because that just not there's

1:10:07

not that doesn't go for one right thing yeah

1:10:10

yeah also I feel like you having background

1:10:12

as being a teacher like that also just tracks

1:10:14

because it's like you see 20 different kids

1:10:17

with 20 different personalities in 20 different ways and you're

1:10:19

like there's not one way that they all even learn

1:10:21

let alone I mean yeah yeah and

1:10:23

that starts it like first like yeah it's

1:10:26

it's not it's not like okay you have a newborn

1:10:28

now they're gonna sleep from this time

1:10:30

to this time and then they're gonna wake up and then you're gonna feed them

1:10:32

like yeah you have no idea

1:10:35

what what their schedule is gonna be like you have

1:10:37

to like it's really hard to plan

1:10:40

yeah I just commend mothers

1:10:42

I commend parents in general I have

1:10:45

two more things that I want to talk to you about

1:10:47

yeah one of which I would like to talk about what

1:10:49

hot people eat because it's my favorite

1:10:52

and then I want to talk about Taylor and Travis but we'll get into

1:10:54

what hot people eat first of my favorite

1:10:57

time I figured okay big

1:10:59

fan of the account in general I've

1:11:01

been an OG follower since truly

1:11:03

the beginning I love the

1:11:05

lasagna soup one if you guys don't follow

1:11:08

my favorite so no it was so good

1:11:10

I didn't make it it looks delicious I mean we didn't

1:11:12

create the recipe you know but it's like the way that

1:11:14

you just snap the noodles and so good Kelsey

1:11:17

and Cody have a I feel like it's like not

1:11:19

a secret TikTok but kind of a secret TikTok that you guys

1:11:21

just we don't really like promote it

1:11:23

and recently

1:11:27

I told you about the chicken salad chick thing where I

1:11:30

also had this love for the podcast

1:11:33

how I built this and like there was one they

1:11:35

always do like you know they had

1:11:37

like SoulCycle Whole Foods like really

1:11:39

big right corporations right

1:11:42

and then they had that one episode called chicken salad chick

1:11:44

yep in the depths of 2019 that I forget

1:11:47

I didn't think anyone else loved it as much as I

1:11:49

did oh it is ingrained ingrained

1:11:52

in my mind forever did you listen to that episode

1:11:55

oh but I saw the tick-tock

1:11:57

yeah oh no and when we are talking it when we

1:11:59

are scheduled I was doing this, Remy brought it up, and I literally was like, I

1:12:01

feel like I'm missing a huge episode. I wish I had waited

1:12:04

to tell you. Like the sadness I felt. So

1:12:06

obviously when we went to Alabama, even when the

1:12:08

episode came out, I was like, where can I get to one in California?

1:12:11

Right. I mean, you can't. You can't.

1:12:14

That's the trickiest part of the whole. Wait, so the

1:12:16

whole premise is eating what hot people

1:12:19

eat? Um, it's the whole premise.

1:12:21

Thank you for asking. The whole

1:12:24

context. A lot of thought came from

1:12:26

this. Like we sat for hours

1:12:28

thinking. What should we create

1:12:31

here? Um, but the premise

1:12:33

is that we are the hot people. Oh, yes.

1:12:35

How'd you not put that together? It's going to be confusing. Sorry.

1:12:39

Sorry. It's okay. You're like, so

1:12:41

you just, you uggos go

1:12:43

and you try. You try like what

1:12:45

pretty people eat, right? I

1:12:49

thought it went without saying because I didn't even describe

1:12:51

it, but okay. No. No,

1:12:53

so we have declared ourselves the

1:12:56

hot people. Obviously. And it's

1:12:58

what we're eating. Yes. Yes.

1:13:01

Yes. Yes. Easy

1:13:03

to misconstrue the two. We

1:13:06

would just be an arrow on all the time. Yeah.

1:13:09

Yeah. No, it's, I

1:13:11

know I understand the confusion there. I

1:13:13

didn't think it was someone like Sydney or, you know, okay.

1:13:15

I'm

1:13:18

sorry.

1:13:18

Sydney, I'm going to come for you as soon

1:13:21

as this baby is out. I'm going

1:13:23

to be just as hot as you. Okay.

1:13:26

I'm going to subscribe. No, it's so good. Okay. Back

1:13:29

to chicken

1:13:30

salad chick. So it was completely knit. I

1:13:32

was so upset that I forgot about

1:13:34

it while we were in Alabama till I saw what hot

1:13:36

people eat. And I was delighted

1:13:38

to see it was just okay. Well, I do

1:13:41

think it had a lot to do with how we ordered. Like

1:13:43

I, we ordered so poorly that

1:13:46

like it's almost a bummer because it's

1:13:48

like, we're not going to get back out there to get chicken salad

1:13:50

chick any time soon. Yeah. But

1:13:53

like the comments were like, you guys are so stupid.

1:13:55

Like how could you go in

1:13:56

order the

1:13:57

two things you ordered and then say that it's made

1:13:59

like We were wrong because I

1:14:02

did have the buffalo one on the side. Oh,

1:14:04

it was good. It was good. Okay. Yeah.

1:14:08

It's simply a chicken salad restaurant and Cody owed it a

1:14:10

like a, what did he get? Like a cheese sandwich or something? Yeah, he

1:14:12

didn't even get any chicken salad. But I love like the

1:14:14

genuine disappointment when like he realized when you were

1:14:16

like, no, I tried to say it and he was like,

1:14:19

wait, he was like, I got

1:14:21

a pimento cheese and chicken salad. And

1:14:24

I was like, no, you got pimento cheese.

1:14:26

And he was like, what do you mean there's no chicken? And I was like,

1:14:28

I tried to tell you that while you were ordering,

1:14:30

but you just, you went for

1:14:33

it anyway. Got it. I mean, I

1:14:35

guess I'd be equivalent to in and out and someone

1:14:37

getting like grilled cheese or even

1:14:39

though I get it, I do like their grilled cheese.

1:14:41

No, it's so good. It is really good. Oh

1:14:43

my God. That's funny. And that makes

1:14:46

so much more. Yeah. It's

1:14:48

my favorite account. What like, where do you guys draw inspiration from

1:14:51

other than Sydney Carlson? Yeah,

1:14:53

being as hot as said,

1:14:56

we really like, I don't know, like

1:14:58

we just like eating. Yeah. And

1:15:01

I love

1:15:02

watching videos of people eating. Same

1:15:05

so much. And I, oh my God.

1:15:08

Yes. Anyone. Like

1:15:10

literally anyone. If I, if someone's like, like

1:15:13

when, when you do cooking with Remy, I

1:15:15

am like honed in. Really?

1:15:18

Thank you so much. Even with the jelly

1:15:20

and the egg, I could watch

1:15:23

you eat that. I'm never going to eat it myself.

1:15:26

But like, if someone's like, this is

1:15:28

what I'm eating right now, I'm like, okay, let me see. I

1:15:31

do love watching people eat. There's just something about it. I just

1:15:33

love it because it gives me

1:15:35

ideas about stuff that I could eat. But also like,

1:15:37

I'm like, I don't know. I just love it. I'm

1:15:40

a nosy bitch too. I just want to know. Yeah.

1:15:42

I feel that way. Oh my God. Okay.

1:15:45

This is great to know. Yeah. You

1:15:48

got to follow it. I just get like so excited about food.

1:15:50

I don't know why we decided to do it. Like we were literally

1:15:52

just like, we should post this and

1:15:54

then we just made a separate account and did it.

1:15:57

And it's been, it's been fun. We need to like get back

1:15:59

into it. it like we're starting to get back

1:16:01

into it again. You guys kind of get to the point

1:16:03

where like you get free meals and things. Do

1:16:06

your matcha. We could be food

1:16:08

reviewers. You could be. Do your matcha.

1:16:11

Oh I could I guess. And then make Cody get it with you.

1:16:13

He does. He gets it with you. See?

1:16:16

Drive for the morning. So sweet. Oh

1:16:19

my god you're so right. And then you can stitch it and try it. I'll

1:16:21

try it. Yes. Yes. I

1:16:24

mean I will too. See that's the thing like I think like that

1:16:26

part of my brain like I don't

1:16:29

I sometimes like I forget that I can just like post

1:16:31

things that people would want to actually see it like I'm

1:16:33

like nobody would want to watch

1:16:36

that. And then I'm like no I think maybe a couple

1:16:38

people might. And

1:16:40

so I just like forget to post so often

1:16:43

because I'm like I don't know I just

1:16:45

like and it's such an issue because

1:16:47

I could be doing so much more. Oh my

1:16:49

god I would love to see a vlog. It could

1:16:51

be filmed over the next eight weeks or

1:16:54

until baby is here. Yes. But

1:16:56

like your maternity like fixation certain food and

1:16:58

then you eating it and being like yes that's what I wanted.

1:17:00

Like you're craving and you'd be like that's what

1:17:03

I wanted. Yeah. Yeah. Okay.

1:17:06

I'll take note of that. I love it. I'd love

1:17:08

it. I appreciate that. I would watch

1:17:10

it and be like I need the. Also when he gets older I'm sure he'll be like what did you crave

1:17:13

when you had me and then he could watch it.

1:17:15

That's true then he could watch it. That could be really sweet. Yeah.

1:17:18

It's a great idea. Ideas to take home. Last

1:17:20

but not least Taylor and Travis. Yeah. How do

1:17:23

you feel? So good. So good. I

1:17:25

feel just like on top of the world. It

1:17:27

just feels like everything's right

1:17:30

in the world. You know. Do

1:17:32

you really actually feel that way? Well I'm obsessed with that. Okay.

1:17:35

It's like it's so deep in my subconscious

1:17:37

like there I dream about him often.

1:17:41

I had a dream about him too the other night. I

1:17:43

did. No I think it's happening to a lot

1:17:45

of people out there. I guarantee

1:17:48

Peter there will be comments on this. Like it's he's

1:17:50

like infiltrating my dream. Yeah.

1:17:53

And it's crazy. He's so

1:17:54

hot. I know.

1:17:56

I'm so happy for our girl. I wonder what he eats.

1:17:58

I know what he eats. We have a line at Walmart

1:18:00

now. Oh, what? Of what? Of

1:18:03

barbecue foods. What? Pre-made

1:18:05

barbecue foods. Oh my God. Baking,

1:18:26

so like the two of them just

1:18:29

coming together really was like,

1:18:31

like, cause I had watched his podcast

1:18:33

with his brother. Yeah. Since

1:18:36

they did the Superbowl together, did

1:18:38

the Superbowls, like they collabed. But like they

1:18:40

did. And you,

1:18:42

and they went to believe that. I just said that

1:18:44

like that. Since their teams

1:18:46

play each other in the Superbowl, I've been like, these

1:18:49

brothers, they're phenomenal. Yeah. I've

1:18:51

always thought he was like cute, both of

1:18:53

them. Yeah, they're so cute. And so

1:18:56

I've just like, I've always, like I've followed their

1:18:58

podcast for like a year now and

1:19:02

seeing, and then when he's talked about like wanting

1:19:04

to give Taylor such his phone number, I like, I

1:19:07

thought to myself like, that

1:19:09

would just, that would make your life, cause

1:19:11

it's like, I was like, if that happened,

1:19:14

like I literally like remember watching that TikTok

1:19:16

and being like, that's crazy.

1:19:18

Like your two favorite people

1:19:21

coming together. And then it's now it's

1:19:23

happening. And I like can't wrap

1:19:26

my head around how excited I am. And

1:19:29

this is insane, but like his

1:19:31

last name is my name. I was thinking about

1:19:34

that when you were talking. I didn't even put that together till right

1:19:36

now. Like she says my name

1:19:39

all the time. She's like

1:19:41

crazy. She's obsessed with you. I

1:19:43

know. And like, if they did

1:19:45

get married, I don't know. Like people are like,

1:19:47

they're gonna get engaged, whatever. I

1:19:49

don't know if she want even like would want, I don't know. I

1:19:52

don't know if they're gonna get married. I do think that this is end

1:19:54

game. You do think that. I do.

1:19:56

In one form or another. And she could be Taylor Kelsey.

1:20:00

I mean,

1:20:02

she'd be Taylor Swift forever, but like, yeah, she'd

1:20:06

be here like Kelsey and like in your heart metaphorical.

1:20:08

So Kelsey. No, I'm sure. Yeah.

1:20:11

Wow. I'm really happy

1:20:13

for you. Thank you. Congratulations.

1:20:17

I feel very similarly that I

1:20:20

sobbed during the Kelsey Bowl solely for his mom.

1:20:22

And like, I actually cried around and getting

1:20:24

yesterday because I was watching TikToks. And you know, like when

1:20:27

the mom, when Donna saw Travis

1:20:29

and he was like, mom, this is the best week of my life. And

1:20:31

then she sees Jason. No, I know. I

1:20:33

can't even. It makes me cry every single night. I've

1:20:37

watched that video in like so many different

1:20:39

forms because like so many people have posted it.

1:20:42

It is like, and he's like, when

1:20:44

he says it was so fun watching you this

1:20:46

week. And he's like, insane.

1:20:48

He's like, go celebrate with traps.

1:20:51

And I'm like, I just,

1:20:53

it's so,

1:20:55

it's perfect. It's so good. Yeah.

1:20:58

It's it's so good. I saw this

1:21:00

conspiracy. Your smile. I love it.

1:21:04

I saw this conspiracy that you know how

1:21:06

when he went on new heights and was like, I tried to give her the friendship

1:21:08

bracelet. Allegedly, they've already been

1:21:10

together. And that was like his way of like dropping

1:21:12

to the world. Like maybe I okay. I

1:21:16

don't love that. Okay. It's

1:21:18

not not working for you. No, that's not really

1:21:20

working for me because then I'm like, don't bamboozle.

1:21:23

Okay. Don't lie to us. Like

1:21:26

if you want to like, I don't think you need

1:21:28

to be like open if you want to protect

1:21:30

your relationship, not talk about it. Like that's totally

1:21:33

fine. Yeah. I don't consider

1:21:35

that a lie. Like if they didn't mention something. Yeah. But

1:21:37

like, don't be like, she didn't want to talk to anyone

1:21:40

and I wanted to meet her. But like you already

1:21:42

knew her. Okay. I see that. Then

1:21:45

I'm like, okay, well, that's a lie now. And now now

1:21:47

you're making me out to seem like it's like an idiot.

1:21:50

And you know, and I'm not is an idiot. You

1:21:52

know, one thing I'm not an idiot. So don't

1:21:54

pretend like we're all

1:21:57

just stupid. You are very emotionally. I'm

1:22:00

also just emotionally invested in everything

1:22:03

because of being pregnant. Yeah. So

1:22:05

this is a good place to put it all, I feel. I

1:22:08

think it's a really good place. I do. I

1:22:10

can't wait to tell my son about this

1:22:12

one day. I'm like, when I was pregnant

1:22:15

with you, the biggest story was Uncle

1:22:18

Travis. We didn't know

1:22:20

them then, but it was Uncle

1:22:22

Travis and Aunt Taylor. And

1:22:24

now they're just your Uncle and Aunt. But back

1:22:27

then... He literally grows up

1:22:29

to be sexy, like, what am I gonna meet Uncle

1:22:31

Travis? Like, they're

1:22:33

touring, babe. They're

1:22:36

doing the Super Bowl again. Oh

1:22:40

my god, well, we've talked a lot.

1:22:42

I'm so excited to talk on your pod. We're

1:22:44

doing a swap. So if you don't know

1:22:46

what that means, go listen to

1:22:49

Circle Time, which is Kelsey's podcast.

1:22:51

And we will obviously have it linked or

1:22:53

whatever, so you guys can easily find it. And

1:22:56

we're gonna take a lunch break and then record the next

1:22:59

one. Yay. But

1:23:01

thank you guys so much for listening. Where can they find you? You

1:23:05

can find me. My Instagram is

1:23:07

just my name at Kelsey Krepel or

1:23:09

my YouTube channel is the same. And

1:23:11

Circle Time is the name of my podcast.

1:23:14

Circle Time pod on Instagram,

1:23:16

whatever. Wherever you find your podcast, go listen

1:23:18

to Circle Time. And if you think... Oh,

1:23:21

and what hot people it is. I

1:23:24

was like, did I forget? That way you

1:23:26

were referencing. And go

1:23:28

follow our famous food TikTok

1:23:30

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1:23:33

At what hot

1:23:34

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1:23:36

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