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Pretty Basic. Hey

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guys, what's up? Welcome

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back to your absolute favorite podcast

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on the internet, Pretty Basic. I'm your co-host,

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Alisha Marie. And I am your co-host, Remy

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Cruz. I love your set.

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Thank you so much. I found it from this like really annoying

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influencer. Have you

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seen the TikToks? Oh, I found it from Alisha, everyone.

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I am just kidding. Not

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annoying. But I did buy it as

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soon as we left because it

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just was so cute. And I'm

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so glad that I got it in pink because it's perfect for

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today. No, you know, what's funny is so I wore

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the blue set of this. Yes. Maybe

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like a month ago or something. And I remember saying the

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link would be in the description box. And

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we put the episode up and I forgot to

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send the link.

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I am the queen of that number one mistake. Oh,

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I am. I am too. I'll

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be linked and then there's like no links. But I always, I just always forget or it's like

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last minute. But

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y'all let us know. Everyone was like, where

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is the set? I got DMs being like, you

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said you DMed it. I was like, I'm so sorry.

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I'm so sorry. I'm the same way in my vlogs. Like

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I'll have to make a note while I'm watching them back. Like

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I make a note of things that I say that I'm going to

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link. And then I always forget. And at one point

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I was so bad. I've tried to get better now,

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but I got so bad at one point that the comments would

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be like, we all know she's not going to link it anyway.

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But I'm getting better at it, but I did buy this. It's so

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cute. And it's so perfect because if

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you guys watched

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last week's episode, we

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dressed up finally in Halloween

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costumes, which we'll get, obviously we got into that in the episode,

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but I'm so excited to be here today. I

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haven't talked to you in so long. I

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know. We obviously had some guests back to back and then

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we had our Halloween episode. So here

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we are. I think this is the first time Pretty

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Basic is seeing my dark hair.

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Wait, really? Yeah. No.

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You didn't have a brown with Bretman? No, it was

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red. Oh, my God. Well

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introduce yourself to the class. Hi guys. I'm

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the annoying influencer Alicia Marie I

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was kidding But have you seen

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this is my perfect segue the tick

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tock Trend right now where there's this one

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girl who's so good at it and she's like

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the bland influencer on her stories

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and she's like Perfectly annunciate

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and has like the the cadence of

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the rhythm influencers were like hi

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guys today. I'm Going

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to like it's so perfect Oh

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my god, I don't know until you know and then it's like

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really sad because there's this one girl's name Who's in

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the search of all of them like and

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it's pretty similar. I will say I don't think she's

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a bland influencer By any means I just think it she speaks

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of the same cadence. Oh my god. It's so crazy.

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Okay this morning I uploaded a tick-tock

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and When I went to New York, I had a whole

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bunch of random clips I was like, oh it'll be really cute to do a little

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like, you know a few days in my life in New York

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I'll show some restaurants some shopping

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put it all together in a few clips I do a voiceover and

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you know how tick-tock has

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the voice effects Yes, you

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know, there's the trick for us the good

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trickster one is so good

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But I've done that a lot everyone sees that

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a lot. So I was like, you know what? Let's try to find another one. So

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I'm trying different ones and I come across

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the beauty guru one. Okay There's

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a beauty guru voice. No, okay. I

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have to play it now All of the

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comments are like

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Alicia, we know this isn't your voice like who

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is it and I'm like, no I use the filter But

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does it sound like just like a normal girl? It sounds like

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it literally sounds like a youtuber Like it sounds

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like an influencer. Oh my god,

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it was intentional But all

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the all the comments are like

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hon. We know this isn't your voice Your

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vlog for you guys today I'm gonna show you places we shopped

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at eight and just take you on our

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day for some meeting I see what they're saying though.

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It's that it looks like you got someone to just do your

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voice over for you I get it. Where's

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like trickster? It's like oh, they obviously have a boy later

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on I was like, oh my god, the beauty guru

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one, but it sounds exactly like

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a like a yout like an influencer

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Have you seen the girl mocking the influencers

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the one about me can probably There's

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a few know this hilarious. I um, no this

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one I have to play it for you because

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it's so it's so real

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and I understand and I laugh But

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I understand it's real. I do know that's the

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thing you have to laugh at it because It's

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just funny. I get it. I like I

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really I laugh along to I have to find

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it you guys It's so funny. I just get tagged a lot and people

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being like love you Alicia, but I definitely

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thought of you Okay

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Okay, found it. I have to give a shout out to the creator. Her name

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is Natalia. Let's go. Oh, yeah,

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so funny Okay, this is I don't think I've

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seen these which makes me really happy 360,000 likes. Oh my god It's

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legit like this sounds like us living

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a more I will say it's us doing a morning routine Okay, so it's

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the cadence of every bland influencers morning routine

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Like I love

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it she came for us I really do oh No,

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wait, but it's true. Why does oh my

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god, like I hear okay. I hear

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it I hear we have the opposite problem though where we

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talk too fast But I do understand

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like some girlies talk slowly in the

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cadence and the break long words

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were funny Hey, God, like

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the like the breath

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and then the eye what my biggest pet pee I

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will well I try okay I'm sure

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this is I will try so hard to cut

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out every lip smack if I'm like like

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I hate that I understand that

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I don't like the breathing there are some vloggers had to stop watching

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because they would breathe like that Oh my

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god, I I mean, I'm like

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what kills me about myself But it's the

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here's the thing I do so much food content that I

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can't win because I know some people are

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is it Misophobic I think that's what Yeah,

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where they can't hear people chewing and like I don't have

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it, but I try to be aware of that when I'm doing

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it, but I'm eating so much on camera and things and there's some

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people where like I would cut it and they'd be like, you

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didn't need it or like, we want to see you eat it. I'm

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like, oh my God, I don't know. Where do

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I go? Because like sometimes I know it really bothers people.

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Okay. But I'm sorry, I

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have to like, if

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I really struggled with something like that, I wouldn't watch

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ASMR videos. Do you know what I mean? Or like eating

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video. Yeah. I mean, the majority

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of your audience wants that. They want the smack

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in. I do know that that is a thing and that is valid,

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but I just like, you

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can't please them all. I gotta eat.

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It's

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true. I mean, lip smacking. Sorry. No,

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no, no.

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It's a podcast. But when it's a vlog

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and you have full creative edit to edit

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out anything and you leave the.

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I'm like, just

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kidding. Just name

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them. Just name them.

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I'm just kidding. We're my favorite. We all do it. My favorite

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too is the just staring directly at the

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viewfinder the whole time. I do that.

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I do. There's some people that are really bad

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about it though. I think it's like camera

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you have too, because like some flip out to

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the side, which I feel like it's a little bit less obvious,

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but the flipping up means they're just looking up the whole

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side. We've all been there though. We have all

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done it. I do that a lot. Hey guys. No,

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my making it a whole thing. My other favorite part

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of that where she was like, I have to go get my

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nails done. I guess like I'm so

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busy. I have a really busy day. And

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like, here's the thing. I know I do it too. I know I

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do too. But it's like, I'm going to target a day of errands

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and it's like target Starbucks.

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I get it. I understand. It's really fucking annoying.

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No, no, it's hilarious. It's hilarious.

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It's really bad. How have you been girly? Oh my

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God. I've been really good. I did

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start my period yesterday. So if we

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are cycle sisters, let me know in the comments.

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Um,

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I'm cramping right now. I'm not gonna lie. I

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popped in my dog.

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I popped in my bed. You got to get those little,

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you get those things I told you to get

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a little hard one. Yes. Yes. Oh

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my God. Such a side note. Two things. I have

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to actually add. I was on TikTok and I got tagged in two

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TikToks recently, both of which had

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to do with PB and I just have to give a little shout out.

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First of all, a girlie got

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the Inkey List acne

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treatment that I talked about in our ad read and she said

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she bought it and loved it and I commented. I was like, I'm

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so glad. Wait, I didn't see that. I'm so glad someone's

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listening to the ad reads and buying it because

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it truly is so good. The Sysinic acne treatment.

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I'm not being paid for this right now. So good. And

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then side note, I got tagged in another TikTok

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where this guy had gone to like TJ

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Maxx Marshall or something and bought

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my little Coozy here. I

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need a Coozy. It's so good.

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I have my naked drink right there. I have quite a few. This

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one is from Broomie, but you can buy them from anywhere.

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But he went to TJ Maxx and he bought

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one of these. It's like a little Coozy

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for your like Celsius or like a

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tall skinny can. And he said he

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got it because he saw that I used it and he was like excited

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to use it. And he got like five bucks. It's

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light blue with cute. And then I

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commented back and I was like, oh my God, I'm so glad you got

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it. And he was like, I'm not going to lie for a long time.

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I thought you were just like smashing white clothes on

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the podcast until we put it together.

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He's like, oh, it's a Celsius in there. Like an energy

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drink. You could put in a lot of new. I mean, I bought them initially

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when white clothes were like a big thing because

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I was like, oh, like outside of the pool or something. But

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now that I don't really drink Celsius as much anymore

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and I'm crushing energy drinks, it's

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fantastic. I feel so dumb because

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I remember years ago, especially

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when the seltzers were like huge craze, I

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think I got a few of those in PR and

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I was like, I don't really drink seltzers like I do,

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especially at that time. I just like I wasn't

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really into white clothes and stuff. So I got

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rid of them. And then one day you walk

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your ass in with it with an energy drink. And I was

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like, it's so great. I was

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like, I'm so dumb that I only

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associated it with like a seltzer

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alcoholic drink. I understand. I

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just feel so naked looking at my drink next to yours.

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More than anything, it's just like thawing out right

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now. I know. Mine's so ice cold.

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Oh my God. Last night I had like the

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craziest dream. Do tell. I

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haven't had a dream like

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this in a long time. I know

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you dream too. I've had some crazy dreams

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lately but it's only when I eat right

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before bed. Like a big meal. Just in

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general if I eat like a morsel

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before bed, boom, crazy dreams. Do

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you get them when you have melatonin? Because that's...

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That I don't remember. It's usually just correlated with food.

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Oh my god, if you ever have weird dreams

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after having melatonin, it's so common.

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But those types of dreams are the best way I

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can describe my Zoloft dreams. Like

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they're so vivid and real and weird.

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Like they're not scary but they're intense. Do

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you wake up tired? I used to. I

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don't anymore. Okay. And when

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I have a really crazy dream, I wake up exhausted because I feel like I just... I didn't rest.

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I just lived another life. No, no. There

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was a... Oh my god, yeah. That happened

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all the time. But last night I had this dream

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that it was my wedding day. And I'm like, we're going to another

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wedding soon. We were just at a wedding. Like

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you're engaged. I'm like looking at the rock

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on your finger. I'm like, I keep forgetting you're engaged. I even

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introduced Cal to someone recently and I was like, oh, this

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is Remy's fiance.

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And I was like, that's so weird. Oh my

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god, that's so crazy. I was like,

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oh, this is Cal, Remy's fiance.

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I hate saying

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fiance. I just call

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my boyfriend still. Remy, you have... No,

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stop. I think it's so annoying. It just sounds so

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like pretentious. Cassie Ho

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blogilates messaged me and she was like, I

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hope that you guys like bask in the

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fiance life for so long because like husband

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is such an ugly word. Like fiance is just

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so much cuter. And I'm like, I think husband is so

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much less annoying than fiance. Like

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I know what you mean because the word fiance can sound very

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like, oh, my fiance. I'm engaged and

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you're not. I know it's not that. No, but

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I feel like there's only so

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long you can say it. You're right. It

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has, it's a ticking time bomb for sure. But I

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think it's just a, I don't know, I'm

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getting used to it still. But I love that you introduced him

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as my fiance. I did. In

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my dream, it was my wedding

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day. Okay. But it was a long day

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before like. I knew the wedding was happening, but

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this isn't saying I knew I was

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about to marry the wrong person. It

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was like weird. Maybe you were

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manifesting from that story where your

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friend on the beach. She

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was in my dream. Maybe that's what it was. Did

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you watch our TikToks recently? That one went really viral.

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One of my really good friends from

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high school was dating this guy.

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And this story has never left my

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mind because she was dating him for I want to say like three or

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four years. Like it was a long time. And she tells

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me she's like, yeah, so we broke up like randomly.

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I'm like, oh my God, are you okay? What happened? Like

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I truly thought they were getting married. And she

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did too. And she was saying she was like,

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I just like knew in my gut

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for a long time that like there

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was something off, right? Like just something. I didn't

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know exactly what all of these like feelings came

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at a flooding like moment because

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him and her were on the beach and they're walking. It was such

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a cute like trip. They're

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walking. It's like the sun setting. It's the perfect

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time for him to propose, right? He

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kneels down.

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And she said instantly her heart was

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like, no, like you're not my person. Please

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don't be like stop, stop, stop, stop. Like that

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was her initial reaction. This is

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a movie moment. Two seconds later, he comes

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up and he had just picked up a seashell. He

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wasn't even proposing. And she was like, in that moment,

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I knew I had to break it off. My

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same friend who

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almost got proposed to she now

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she's married and has a baby and is super

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happy. She was in the dream. And

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I remember her saying she's like, yeah, like marriage can

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be really hard. That it like all

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these things in my dream. And the whole time I'm thinking like,

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oh my God, like

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I, I just know in my gut, like this

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isn't my person. Like I know this isn't my

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person. And I want

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to follow through with it to not make it a big deal and

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just be like, oh, it's fine. Like we're already here.

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Yeah. Like we're already here. But

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my gut was like, you're just going to get divorced

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in the future. Like it was so it was so. And

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then everything was like ready. I remember

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being super early I was like, oh, I guess I should start getting ready

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for my wedding because it's my wedding day But

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I didn't want to because I just like this isn't

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This isn't it and then I remember

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there was like a few friends. Were you getting married to

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do I know them? No, I hadn't I didn't know

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them I didn't I didn't even seen them but I just

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like knew whoever oh the guy wasn't even

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in the dream No, the guy wasn't even in the room But

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I remember I was sitting with some other friends

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and they're like, hey, what's wrong? And I was like nothing

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like no, you're like you don't look okay Like what's up and

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I was like, I'm just gonna I was like, I don't think

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I should be marrying this person All

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these things all these things all these things. I just remember the

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feeling that I had I kept

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thinking Just

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like stuffy on this feeling and

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like just go through with it. Oh my

14:48

god And then Ashley had

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already posted like my like congrats

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you're married thing on Instagram fucking

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Ashley And what's weird is

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she loves her like murder documentary

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like Podcasts like those true

15:02

crime stuff and for there was it

15:04

was kind of scary I forget what it was but she

15:06

made this video and it was like kind of scary even in the beginning

15:08

or something I don't know, but that was her post

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but it already went up and it had like 80,000 likes

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and all these things I was like, okay. Well, I can't back out

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now Because the end I remember

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putting on my wedding dress which it was pretty but

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not what I would have worn It was like an office full

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of things and it had a button

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I don't know like in my head I see it and I

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know I'm not describing it Well, but it

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was like it was perfect, but I just remember

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thinking like, oh my gosh I'm about to marry the wrong

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person. I shouldn't go through

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with this but Everything

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in me like thinks it's easier just

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to like go through with it and pretend How

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do you feel now? No,

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then I woke up and I was like then I woke up

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In my first house.

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Oh Like

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I literally had

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it's been so long since I've had a dream where

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I woke up thinking Oh, thank God, like that was

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just a dream your relief. I feel like I've just

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all the wedding stuff going on in your life right now must

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just be at the forefront of your brain. I

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guess, but like I'm not the one engaged. I've

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been still, like we're just, we're talking

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about weddings, we're going to weddings, like it's just

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at the forefront of your brain. Well, then I

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remembered Ashley, my sister always had

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reoccurring dreams where she was, it was her wedding

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day. She's like going down the aisle,

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like everyone's there, everyone's either happy

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or sometimes people would be sad. Like she's had this

16:24

exact format of a dream multiple

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times over years, right? Where

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she like goes and like looks down at her dress

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and it's red. Like

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she doesn't know till she's like at the altar. And blood.

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No, like I don't know, like it's giving blood. I'm like,

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die light, you know what I mean? Ever since high

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school, she's had these dreams and she would be like, I don't

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know what they mean or whatever. So like, I've

16:45

always, I always say I want to get a dream

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expert on here or like dive into it. But

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she has had that and usually

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it's around when she's dating someone who she like ends

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up breaking up with or something. Oh my God, you

16:55

guys have some crazy dreams. Sometimes

16:57

I'm like, I think in another

16:58

life I would have been psychic. Well, maybe it's

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like her conscience, her

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subconscious telling her, get out. Yeah,

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maybe something's wrong. Isn't it crazy? That's

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so interesting. Are you a lucid dreamer at all? Oh,

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where you know you're dreaming. Yeah. Yes.

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But it's been a long time since I've had the conscious thought, oh, this

17:15

is a dream. I lucid dream like once

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a week, I would say. Really? It's

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usually like when I'm having a

17:22

not great dream, like either it's like something really bad

17:24

is going on or just like, yeah, it's usually

17:26

like when it's bad, like something bad is happening. And

17:28

in my dream, I'm like, oh, I know I'm dreaming. I should

17:31

wake up. And then I physically wake myself up. But

17:33

then sometimes I'll go back to sleep because it's

17:36

like really earlier in the middle of the night or something. And

17:38

then I'll fall back into that dream sometimes. And then

17:40

I have to tell myself again, like, oh, it's a dream. Let me wake

17:42

up. And then I'll wake myself up. Like I, it happens

17:44

very frequently for me. So okay. Like

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that used to happen to me. I feel like it doesn't happen to me anymore. I do

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remember this is so embarrassing that you can cut this. I

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remember one time I had this lucid dream and I realized

17:54

I was dreaming and I was like, oh my God, go hook up with that

17:56

guy because you're dreaming. Wait, what? I'm

17:59

confused. I was dreaming and I knew

18:01

I was dreaming so I remember being like, oh my god go

18:03

hook up with that guy In my dream.

18:06

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18:08

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25:05

Well all this talk about weddings we obviously just went to a

25:07

wedding and it was so

25:09

much fun I had such a wonderful time. I had

25:11

another dream I was pregnant. Oh my god. All

25:14

of the things. Didn't I say that the other day? All

25:16

of the life things. I feel like

25:19

out of everyone to have these dreams I'm the one

25:21

least like like I should like I'm the last

25:23

one to be having these things. Maybe you're yearning for a marriage

25:26

and a baby. Oh my god maybe I want kids.

25:28

Maybe it's your body telling you you're ready. Maybe

25:30

it was my body saying my period's coming. That

25:33

too. It really could be that. Maybe that's why I was emo.

25:35

Could be that.

25:36

Wow. Do you ever have dreams you're pregnant? I

25:38

don't think so. One time

25:41

I had a dream that I was

25:42

pregnant but like it

25:45

was rosy and you know how in dreams it

25:47

makes sense. Yeah. But it

25:49

does not make sense. Yeah yeah yeah. But in your dream

25:51

it makes complete sense. In your dream you're just living

25:53

through it. Yeah. I remember being pregnant

25:56

knowing it was rosy like at my stomach. Sorry.

25:59

My dog. dog my little dog and

26:01

then I remember like someone would be like oh

26:03

let me hold her and I'm like okay and then she'd like hop

26:05

out of my stomach and then like they would hold her. So

26:08

kangaroo view? A literal

26:10

kangaroo okay but then I remember

26:12

being like okay come back in and she'd go back in

26:14

my stomach and it was really weird but then I woke

26:17

up and I was sleeping on my side and she always

26:19

like is a little donut so I

26:21

think she was like kicking or something and I was like

26:23

oh the baby is kicking. That's so adorable.

26:26

I don't think I dream of having children especially

26:28

after having a nephew I no longer dream of having

26:30

children in general. Oh my god wait you guys went

26:32

to Disneyland for his first time? We did well

26:34

I so we went to the wedding and we'll

26:36

get into the wedding after but I also

26:39

was able to go see my best friends at oh my god

26:42

also new drama online people

26:44

say that I say I have too many best friends but

26:47

I can't help it I do have a lot of best friends

26:49

I just do I just collect

26:52

them all throughout my life obviously you're

26:54

my best friend too. I didn't say anything. Wait

26:57

what did people say? Well because I went dry shopping with

26:59

Kaylee when she visited and they were like and I was like this is my best

27:01

friend Kaylee and they're like she says she has a lot of best

27:03

friends. I'm like but she has my best friends. But I do.

27:06

You're my best friend. I have so many

27:08

best friends but I did get to visit my best friend

27:10

Steph from college and she

27:12

has two kids Grace and who's three and a half and

27:14

Aria who's one and a half and I got

27:17

to hang out with them which was so much fun. I went

27:19

to the zoo and I had so much fun

27:21

just like following them around and pushing a

27:23

stroller. Oh my god my maternal instinct kicked in

27:25

with that stroller. I had so much fun and then

27:28

at the zoo I told Cal I was like I'm ready to impregnate

27:31

me right now. Well you sent me a video

27:33

of Cal playing with Aria

27:36

and did you also get pregnant? No.

27:38

I did just watching

27:40

it. But I've never seen Cal interact

27:42

with like a toddler like that. He won't touch babies

27:45

like I begged him to hold Holden

27:47

and he won't even like touch Holden. So when it's like a newborn

27:49

baby he won't but like no he won't touch

27:51

kids like I think in general I've heard this is at

27:53

least within like my family and my friends

27:56

it's a universal thing where like guys feel so uncomfortable

27:59

if it's not their own. own child. I mean,

28:01

I see that. But I'm like a baby? Give

28:03

me. So we like went to the zoo and

28:06

they were so cute. We were chasing them and it like they

28:09

obviously they decide

28:11

where we go. Like we wanted

28:13

to see the baby girl and they didn't feel like seeing the baby girl.

28:15

So we didn't see the baby girl. You know what I mean? I learned that.

28:18

But I was told I looked at him. I was like impregnate me now.

28:20

I'm ready. This is so fun. It's so

28:22

fun. It's so

28:24

cute. They're just so cute.

28:25

And then we went to dinner and then

28:28

halfway through dinner, I turned him. I said, I am actually

28:30

OK because eating

28:32

at a restaurant while they're so cute, they

28:35

obviously were just their toddlers.

28:37

They were like running around and like having their fun.

28:39

And and stuff was like, you know, with Grayson and then

28:42

Jordan was with Aria and then like, you know, it was

28:44

just it was a whole thing. I was like, you know what, I think I'm actually good

28:46

right now. And then being withholding for a bit. He's so

28:48

cute. I'm good right now. And I just have to give

28:50

a shout out to all mothers, fathers,

28:53

parental figures. You guys

28:54

are rock stars

28:56

because I do not have

28:58

the patience. I simply don't. Also,

29:00

you can give them back to the parents. No,

29:03

I know. I still

29:05

can't believe like we're able just to have

29:07

children. And then you're like responsible for

29:09

them. Yeah. When I was leaving dinner with Steph

29:11

and the babies, I like looked at how I'm like,

29:14

how am I with how do I have friends who have

29:16

kids right now? Like I myself feel

29:18

like a child sometimes. Oh, no, a thousand

29:20

percent. It's so well. I mean, obviously, I know like if the

29:22

opportunity arose, I we would all be

29:24

able to step up and do it. And like, you

29:27

know, good parents do that.

29:29

But right now I'm good.

29:31

It was a lot. I'm taking we took a hold into Disneyland.

29:35

And first trip, he's only five months. And

29:37

it's so funny because every time I look at people with like infants

29:40

at Disneyland, I'm like,

29:41

why are you bringing your infant to

29:42

Disneyland? Like they can't remember. It just looks like a lot of work. And

29:45

it was so cute.

29:47

It was so like, granted, I didn't really do much. I

29:49

just like was helping Lily when I could. But

29:51

like Lily's a rock star, like feeding,

29:54

changing stroller, all the things

29:56

at Disneyland. And I'm just like, I'm good for a while.

29:59

I remember going to Disneyland. with some family friends and

30:02

the girl actually used to babysit me when we were younger,

30:04

but she's older and she had two kids and it was her first time

30:06

going to Disneyland to have other people

30:09

help her like watch the kids. So

30:11

she was so excited to go on like the

30:13

adult ride. Oh, because you can ride me

30:15

ride. She was like, can I like please like anything other than Little

30:17

Mermaid? She was like, so late. She's like, I've

30:19

been here so many times, but I've only

30:22

been in like, Bugs Land or like all the baby

30:25

rides. So we were like, oh my God, of course. But

30:27

then for the next hour, I was like, I'm in

30:29

charge of this living being.

30:31

How old

30:34

was the baby? Oh my God, how old were they?

30:38

No, it was

30:40

me. My mom was there too, but I still felt

30:42

responsible. No, I completely feel that every time. She

30:45

went to the bathroom and I was like, here I go. Here

30:48

I am mothering a child now. It's

30:50

just you and me. Wait, imagine a fan

30:52

came up to you and like didn't know that

30:54

was your nephew and you're just, he's miss from Ashton.

30:57

Well, true. The baby, also he looks like me because

30:59

he looks exactly like Shane and Shane and I look decently

31:02

alike. So when she went to the bathroom, it was like, this

31:04

looks like my child right now. It looks like my baby. You

31:06

know what I've been fighting? Remember when he went to Disneyland with that fake

31:09

pregnant belly?

31:09

Oh my God. Yeah. Why did I do that? But yes,

31:11

wouldn't it be funny if someone saw you then and then

31:14

saw you again? Did you know

31:16

when I did that? Like a lot, because a lot of people from

31:18

my high school work at Disneyland because it's like the feet,

31:20

like you go to school in Orange

31:22

County and then you go work at Disneyland. It's like a feeder thing that everyone

31:24

does. And when I went with the pregnant bush, again,

31:27

dumb idea, this was a stupid trend

31:29

on YouTube where people like pretended to

31:32

be pregnant for a day, which it didn't obviously even

31:34

somewhat compare considering

31:36

the pain and all the symptoms of actually

31:39

being pregnant. But I wore a pregnant belly to Disneyland

31:41

and there were so many people from my high school that were working

31:43

and they were like, Hey, Ravi. And I was like,

31:46

Hey, I remember I got on Thunder Mountain and this guy named

31:48

drew Lopez shout out. He was working. What is

31:50

that? Frontier land? Huh? He was working there and he was

31:52

like, Hey, Ravi. And I was like, Hey, as I'm stepping into the roller

31:54

coaster, like, man, you

31:57

can't do that. They didn't care. Drew

31:59

Lopez. Lopez didn't seem to mind. I'm good on children

32:02

for a bit. Hey, but they're so cute

32:05

They are really they're so cute. Shout out to Steph. She

32:07

watches every episode. Love you. We

32:09

love and miss you stuff Sorry, I couldn't come over. I know

32:12

she's because we were in Alabama. Yeah

32:14

wedding. Yes, we did go ahead Congratulations,

32:17

mr. And mrs. King

32:19

mr. Mrs. Matt King. I think

32:22

that's so interesting or was it miss

32:25

Yeah, cuz they always feel like mr. And mrs. And then the husband.

32:27

Yeah, I think that's so interesting the King Shout

32:30

out to the King's my favorite part was at the

32:32

end of the night. They had little like crown Oh

32:34

my god, everyone's away much fun. It

32:37

was such an amazing wedding It was in Birmingham,

32:39

Alabama and there were like 400 people that went

32:42

there. Everyone flew out. It was such a good

32:44

time I was so excited to try all of the

32:46

southern cuisine, which we did get into so

32:49

so good so good and

32:52

Cal was super excited because he's from the south and

32:54

for our whole relationship He's talked about cookout and Bojangles

32:56

and all these southern establishments I'm

32:59

sad. I didn't get Bojangles when I watched your review.

33:02

You didn't miss Not much.

33:04

I will say you were like, this is the best chicken tender. I've ever

33:06

had in my life. Oh the chicken dinner Yeah,

33:08

I forgot about the chicken tender. Yeah, I'm about to be like,

33:10

I know that wasn't you actually I was thinking about the

33:13

chicken It was it was all really good. I did

33:15

like cookout, but I did forget about the chicken under

33:17

it was delicious And you know what when

33:19

you said it was real meat, I was like, oh, no,

33:21

it was Succulent it was

33:24

so delicious

33:24

Succulent is such a good word

33:27

Yes, it was amazing

33:30

and the wedding was so much fun. Wait, this

33:32

was like your real first wedding Yeah, like first

33:34

real real wedding Weddings

33:37

are so fun. I'm like obsessed with this era

33:39

of our lives where all of our friends are getting married

33:41

and Getting to be a part of that

33:44

and seeing everything I I've been very

33:46

stressed at the idea of wedding planning

33:49

and I like talked to Lauren about it all the time But

33:51

she she clarified this for me like a while

33:53

ago And so I've been now going in with this mindset, which

33:55

has been very helpful where she's like it's the one

33:58

day in your life for

33:59

everybody

33:59

who loves you and that means

34:02

so much to you come together for you

34:04

like people from all walks of life that like would never

34:06

have another chance to come together and so

34:09

I was like that because they're truly there were times where I was

34:11

like I don't even think I want a wedding and I meant

34:13

it and I know you think I didn't mean it no I know you

34:15

meant but I did mean it where I was just like it just feels like

34:17

a lot and it feels I just knew

34:19

it wouldn't happen but she

34:23

when she explained it to me like that I was like that to me that

34:25

means a lot and I feel like that is worth

34:28

keeping that in mind that's worth throwing a wedding versus like

34:30

all the things that go into it that are very stressful

34:33

I was in a wedding for my best

34:35

friend and I remember after doing you know all

34:37

the the showers and the bachelorette you

34:40

start getting closer to the other girls in the

34:42

bridal party and it was it was so

34:44

weird so fun new

34:46

best friend exactly but what's weird

34:48

is like I remember the last time I actually

34:51

like normally it's like okay I'll see you at the shower okay I'll see

34:53

you at the bachelorette okay I'll see you at the wedding and

34:55

the night of the wedding I was saying bye to

34:57

everyone I was like

34:59

I

35:01

knew we wouldn't like that but

35:04

like you probably didn't take some back

35:22

anyway

35:24

what I was trying to

35:25

say before I sounded like a bitch no no

35:27

funny no but you're being real I know there's so

35:29

many I get it though everyone comes from

35:33

all parts

35:43

yes the world and things and we already

35:45

live really far another one of them was moving to Tennessee

35:48

and I was like I just know like our lives probably aren't

35:50

gonna pass until a baby shower you know

35:52

they mean but it was like it was so weird

35:54

because it was a really cool feeling thinking wow

35:57

I only know you guys because

35:59

of the bride And like we've all come here together

36:02

and now we have memories and bonding and obviously like

36:04

if they ever texted me out Like it needed something. I obviously

36:06

would like hit them up Yeah, but it's just there's

36:08

like two that I actually do keep in touch with a little bit Okay,

36:11

I don't think you think you did it But my

36:13

point being is it is really cool because you're like wow we're all here

36:15

for the same person Yeah, and me and

36:18

my friend who was the bride like there was a few years

36:20

We didn't really like see each other really often

36:22

and it's cool seeing who came into

36:24

her life at that point and then like you

36:27

know Yeah, we even went

36:29

to dinner with a friend recently and she was saying she's talking

36:31

to us about her wedding and how she was like at The

36:33

time you know I only had like so many

36:35

bridesmaids and she was feeling a little

36:37

bit bad because I guess like Her high school

36:39

best friend and her had drifted by

36:42

the time that the wedding came around and so she didn't have

36:44

her in the bridal Party, but then now like a couple

36:46

years later. They're super close again So she's like probably

36:48

feels kind of bad, but like I think it's beautiful your brows look

36:50

amazing right now You look oh my god, you

36:53

look amazing Just like her having you know like

36:55

people come in and out I think it's just a really

36:57

beautiful moment for everyone to come together and also

36:59

something I'd like to add After this wedding

37:02

and being so happy for Matt and Patricia

37:04

and just especially so happy for Patricia

37:06

and like how gorgeous she looked And how much time

37:08

and like effort that her whole family and her put into

37:10

everything How does someone

37:13

go to a wedding as a guest

37:15

or I feel like sometimes it happens like the

37:18

the mother of the

37:20

Bride or maybe more so mother

37:22

of the groom.

37:22

How do people come in

37:24

a white dress did someone no

37:26

no no no I'm just like after And

37:30

feeling so excited for them and like that that you

37:32

are so happy for this couple like that is why you

37:34

go That's why you you spend money on travel

37:36

or you drive there or you get a gift or like

37:38

everything all these things How does someone

37:40

show up at a white dress? I

37:42

saw this tick-tock recently see I'm

37:44

like it happens I think it happens

37:47

decently frequently to like that's

37:49

what I just can't understand I know maybe I'm

37:51

really missing something. Well. I saw this tick-tock

37:53

if it was a mom I believe it was like

37:56

I think it was though the wife of

37:58

the groom boss. And

38:01

so she was like dancing on the floor and she had like it

38:03

literally looked like a wedding gown like it was a like

38:05

a mermaid style white dress with like sequins like

38:08

it was very nice. And all the

38:10

comments were like, Oh, this is the time

38:12

that the maid of honor happens to fill some red wine

38:14

like that's the thing for me just literally

38:17

we need a code. If you need me to do

38:19

that, I will do it. I don't I don't even think we need a code.

38:21

I think that you're just like, okay. Oh, yeah.

38:24

I give you a green light.

38:26

I give you a full green light. No, I would do

38:28

it. I would do it. I would do it. And I'd

38:30

be like, Oh, that's so funny. I have an

38:32

extra jacket I didn't wear. Or you could just go home. All

38:34

right. Or

38:37

your Uber. Yeah, your Uber's actually

38:40

on the drive. That's so mean. Honestly,

38:42

even even like an off white or

38:44

a champagne in anything that looks too close

38:46

to white, like just don't know but also

38:49

that's my personality. I'm like any event

38:51

ever like I never want to be super overdressed or

38:53

super under dress. Yeah. So I feel like my

38:56

thought process is like, okay, even if it's close

38:59

to white, I'm not even going to go there for sure. And

39:01

I feel like that is how you should think about

39:03

it. I also saw someone commented on our

39:06

episode with unfiltered which by the way we didn't even

39:08

address that episode so fun. The Bretman episode

39:10

was so fun. Oh my god, both were great. Such amazing

39:12

guests. I guess I missed this episode of unfiltered

39:14

but I guess Matt had talked about how

39:17

the he or maybe him Patricia I didn't

39:19

look further into this but I just saw a comment on our episode

39:22

that someone said that Matt thought that

39:24

black tie meant we all were supposed to wear black.

39:27

And he didn't know until on an unfiltered episode when

39:29

they were talking about it like oh wait like we thought it was like

39:32

colors or you know just like a nice Oh my

39:34

god. So I'm not sure if they wanted us to wear black.

39:37

No, so I text Patricia because I

39:39

feel like there are certain things like that where it's like

39:41

well what do you want you know so I said hey as a black

39:43

tie does it have to be a long dress? Can it

39:45

be any color? Like what do you want? And that's when she's like

39:47

no no any color but long you know the perfect. Okay,

39:50

so technically I think it could go either way. Well

39:52

I know like Karen I love Sada'i they did

39:54

bears like I think it was like neutrals black

39:56

and white I think or something or no no white I think

39:58

black and yeah in sequence or something. But

40:00

yeah, I guess I love the I love all the fun like

40:03

dress codes and I love yeah, I love it all. I

40:05

think it's amazing. A lot of the weddings we're going

40:07

to are black tie is

40:09

the one is the one next month. But also like,

40:11

I love it because it's when else are

40:17

you going to dress up like crazy? I mean, obviously,

40:20

if people don't want that for their wedding, that's fine. But

40:22

it's like, okay, if it's your if it's not your wedding

40:25

day, like when else are people gonna? Well, you

40:27

know, like that. And also, like I went dress

40:29

shopping with Kay and she came out here. And

40:31

it was so fun. And that bitch looked amazing in every

40:34

dress. And I was so happy for

40:36

her. But I was like, how do you look incredible

40:38

and every like model like

40:40

every single dress like she just looked stunning. Did

40:43

you pick one? She did. Okay, actually, I

40:45

don't know if she wants me to say but we shouldn't pick anyone

40:47

that we tried on together. We

40:49

had two big contenders, but we shouldn't

40:51

have gone with neither. Do you think you're gonna try out a lot of

40:53

dresses? I can't wait to go. I

40:55

don't I don't know. Okay, so with

40:58

the Kaylee of it all, though, I when

41:00

we were trying, where she was trying on dresses, the

41:03

like dress consultant lady was so, so

41:05

nice, because Kaylee kind of wanted something a little bit more simple.

41:07

But like, she was also kind of like open to doing something

41:09

different. And obviously, every bride should wear whatever

41:12

they want on their wedding day, whichever makes them feel the

41:14

most comfortable and confident and sexy

41:16

and beautiful. The dress consultant was saying like,

41:18

Oh, obviously, you can go simple. But like, there

41:21

was one dress that she tried where she looked stunning in. But it

41:23

also looked like if it was blue or pink

41:25

or green, like a like a dress,

41:28

dress, you know, like anyone could wear

41:30

it to like a black tie wedding or to like a gala

41:32

or something like a little too simple. It was

41:34

just it just look it was stunning. It just like

41:36

could be in any other color,

41:38

a normal dress. And so she was like, that's just something

41:40

to take into account. She wasn't telling her like, you need to take the

41:43

stress or don't take the stress. But she was like, this

41:45

is the one day where you it's all about you.

41:47

Like if if it were me, I would want to do

41:49

like something where it's unequivocally, you can't

41:52

even tell that it's not a wedding dress.

41:54

So it's like, Keeling's like, no, that's good to know. And so she

41:56

ended up deciding on something different.

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hub. The

45:25

dress lady also did tell me because I just was sitting there,

45:27

obviously, as a friend. With

45:29

the campaign? No, literally with my mimosa

45:31

just kicking my foot. Just like, you look amazing

45:33

and everything. But she

45:35

was saying how so many brides will

45:37

go in and try on like 60 dresses and it

45:40

makes it actually so much worse because

45:42

then you're like absolutely

45:44

unsure where to go and what to do. But

45:46

Kaylee is customizing hers, I'll say that. So

45:49

it's going to be amazing. I truly

45:51

can't wait. Like, I really, I cannot

45:53

wait. I can wait, actually. No, I

45:56

can't not wait. I

45:58

hate trying shit on so I can't wait to sit. there with my

46:00

mimosa and just wait for you to come out and then

46:02

I'm gonna cry every single time and then I'm

46:04

gonna cry every single

46:06

dress you

46:07

come out on. I've

46:09

been trying to think of like whenever I start

46:12

doing that next year I'm like okay

46:14

I'm gonna have to do like multiple

46:18

boutiques because I've got to bring everybody

46:20

like I have to make sure everybody feels included in my

46:22

dress triangle. I mean this is about you and your dress.

46:24

Yes but I have to make sure everyone feels included. I'm the one who

46:26

doesn't. I'm the one

46:29

who's gonna be so fun though. I

46:33

do have a question though for the audience because

46:35

obviously I feel like we have a lot of brides or engaged

46:38

ladies or whoever, married people.

46:41

If you're over like a size six how

46:43

does that work? Because every showroom

46:45

that I go to the dresses are like I

46:48

feel like probably like a size like six or eight

46:50

and then they or make me like a four or six and

46:52

then they can like cinch it in but I've only ever gone with Kaylee and

46:54

Lauren who are like obviously very thin

46:56

so I'm like

46:57

how does that work? Because

46:58

it doesn't seem like anything is gonna fit me and I

47:00

think I'm already that's what I'm

47:03

already like nervous about. I think actually

47:05

that's the thing I'm most nervous about with

47:07

all wedding things. I just don't want to feel

47:09

like I've in my life I've been in so many dressing rooms

47:11

or like things just don't fit. I'm

47:14

okay I'm like but I that was the main thing

47:16

I had in my head when I was going and granted maybe these are just

47:18

because they're like LA showrooms and maybe like

47:20

oh they should have it doesn't seem like that.

47:23

So I'm just curious if anybody anyone would like to like to

47:25

give me some information. No please comment below.

47:27

Maybe I'll have to call before me like what sizes do you

47:30

guys have but it's just that's like how does

47:32

anybody over truly like Kay is like

47:34

probably like a size four and like they

47:36

some of them wouldn't even go over her hip she's fantastic

47:38

an hour an hour glass figure but I'm like it

47:40

has not been her it's happening most of us but

47:43

also I get it so like like

47:45

even the idea of like what if you walk in there's all these

47:47

dresses but like there's only five that like none would

47:49

exactly so I mean I'm just curious

47:51

I'm sure sure sure I could call around and ask

47:53

like what size range do you guys have or anything like

47:56

that it's just too bad that like well we should

47:58

we should research designers. who

48:02

have a broad range and that way

48:05

and see ones you like before wasting time

48:07

going into random ones. I just don't want to feel bad

48:09

about myself. No, that's the last thing

48:11

you're going to feel. That is the literal

48:14

last thing you're going to feel. I love you. But yeah,

48:16

I just was wondering that and I didn't

48:19

feel comfortable asking the girls. They were so nice but I didn't

48:21

want to ask them questions. No, I get it.

48:23

Also it's about her finding a job. I'm

48:26

sure a lot of people watching have had similar

48:29

feelings to what I'm feeling. So please feel free

48:31

to give me some insight into everything because

48:34

that's a day where you should feel incredible and

48:36

it makes me sad that... I know it's going to happen though.

48:38

We're going to find the perfect one. It's going to be amazing.

48:40

It's going to be so fun. Even if I'm there with a singer and I'm

48:42

just like throwing away and I'm going

48:45

to have a little Cinderella moment. No,

48:47

it's going to happen, bitch. I have no fear.

48:49

We'll just have to do a little bit more research. It just makes

48:52

me sad that... And I really think maybe this

48:54

is just an LA thing. But also,

48:56

fuck that. There should be more... I agree.

48:59

I feel like when I lived in Riverside, we would

49:01

drive out to LA for prom dresses

49:03

and stuff. Yes. You know what I mean? Yes.

49:05

The dress district. Me too. I never did it but all

49:07

the girlies would come out here. Wait, wait. I didn't do

49:09

it either. Wait, where did you get your prom dress? I

49:11

had Yuka help me custom order them from Japan.

49:14

Wait, that's amazing. Because I was so

49:16

scared of matching someone. Oh my

49:19

god. That's

49:20

incredible. It was like a hundred

49:22

bucks too which was nice because it was like way cheaper. Wait,

49:24

that's amazing. I've shown you the pink

49:27

one. Yeah, but I didn't realize it was like a custom

49:29

make. Wow, and they shipped it over here for

49:31

you? Yeah, but I mean she helped. She did

49:33

it for me. I did match someone and I've already talked about

49:35

that. My Sherry Hill or whatever the dress was. Isn't

49:37

it crazy that now you can get a prom dress

49:40

anywhere and back

49:42

in the day for us, you just went to like the

49:44

three stores. I mean...

49:45

At the mall. Ontario Mills Outlet

49:48

Mall. I bought mine from promgirl.com. Do you remember

49:50

promgirl? Yes. And I had to beg my

49:52

dad because it was so expensive on there but I was

49:55

like, I need this dress. Which

49:57

influencer had a collab with them? Probably. Bethany

50:00

Moda right? Was it Juicy Star?

50:04

Oh. I have a

50:06

distant memory. I mean that's

50:09

probably where I learned it. Probably on YouTube.

50:11

The things that I learned on YouTube that I like carried throughout

50:13

my life. Promgirl.com, Slugbooks.com

50:16

Wait, Slugbooks was my first brand deal.

50:20

I probably learned about it from you. It saved me so much money

50:22

in college. It was my first brand deal. Oh

50:24

my god. And I was so excited. After

50:26

I just signed with the

50:28

management, I didn't get any deals for the longest

50:31

time. And I remember my first

50:33

deal was like $1,000 and I was

50:36

like, this is

50:38

game changing. Like what in the... Because

50:42

I wasn't even really making money on my adsense right? So I was

50:44

like, oh my gosh this is amazing. I mean that is a lot of money. No,

50:46

it's a lot of money. Once they took the cut it was like

50:48

the 20% so now I'm at $800 and I purposely...

50:52

Or 7 something. And then taxes. And then

50:54

taxes and all that stuff. And then you're like, oh okay. I don't

50:56

know if I've ever told you this. I went to

50:58

the bank and I like pulled out the cash that

51:01

I got and then I pulled out an extra couple

51:03

hundred dollars and I put

51:06

it in an envelope and I gave it to my parents.

51:08

Oh, a dishwasher. I didn't

51:10

know that the dishwasher didn't

51:11

make you get any cash though. I

51:14

just wanted to say thank you because they helped

51:16

me so much. They just supported everything and

51:18

it was like so cool because I was like this is my first brand

51:20

deal and I want to give it to you guys. And also,

51:23

love my parents. I love them so

51:25

much. So much.

51:28

And this is a huge testament to their character but

51:30

I think because both of them didn't have that much growing up,

51:33

to them the couch

51:36

could have a hole in it and they're like, we have a couch. We don't

51:38

need a new one. And I'm like, mom, you need a new

51:40

couch. I feel like that's a generational

51:42

parenting. It is. They're like, well we don't need it. And

51:45

I'm like, no, you need it. Their dishwasher

51:48

when I was living, it was breaky. It was it

51:50

wouldn't do anything. And they're like, we

51:52

don't need one. I'm like, no, you needed one. So that's why I

51:54

had them buy the dishwasher. They were doing the

51:56

Asian drying rack thing. Yes, yes. I love it. I

51:58

do. Actually using

52:01

my dishwasher because for so long in my life.

52:03

I just used it as a dish rack Yeah,

52:05

like a drying rack now my life has

52:07

changed I feel like I get a little giddy every time

52:10

I put a little tide pod thing in there

52:12

when I skate pod What do you watch

52:14

the um the GoPro videos in

52:17

a dishwasher? Yes, so satisfying

52:19

Do you see some people cook in the dishwasher too? What

52:22

yeah some people are like here's how to cook salmon

52:24

in the dish Why the fuck would you do that? I don't know,

52:26

but we should try it. No, it'll smell disgusting

52:29

We would get sick also probably but I love

52:31

slug books that saved me so much money

52:33

in college if you guys I hope that it's still

52:35

up and running if you're a college

52:37

student and You have to buy

52:39

so we saved it by so many stupid textbooks

52:42

for class You're taking for one quarter or one semester and

52:44

it's beyond but if you go on slug books,

52:46

you can buy it Oh, look at all this free promo We're

52:48

doing today I should do it in the the

52:50

cadence of the influencer but if you need

52:53

to buy a textbook and you obviously are like only taking

52:55

a course for a certain amount of time you can go on

52:58

and a lot of people have the exact textbook

53:00

selling it used for like a Fourth

53:03

of what the price would have been and I loved it. So

53:05

big shout out to slug books Thanks for saving me money so I could

53:07

spend my money on just fab calm instead

53:09

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53:12

Wait, yes, wait, why does it still look

53:14

I think it is a thing. Oh my god, Forbes

53:17

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53:19

good No I'm just glad it still is because

53:21

the second biggest scam of college besides

53:24

the tuition is the fact that you stopped to buy

53:27

$5,000 worth of books. Yeah, you need it.

53:29

But like it's so crazy stupid

53:31

is Then because

53:33

my sister's three years older So I would always be so

53:35

excited because I could use her books Wrong because

53:37

they make a new edition and then they're like, sorry,

53:40

you need the newer edition. I'm like For

53:43

for some footnotes like real come on.

53:45

It makes no sense when you were in middle

53:48

school Would you have to have your own textbook?

53:50

Mm-hmm, and you'd carry them around in your remember we had like five

53:53

Giant textbooks in our backpack and one time like our jam

53:55

sport was like 12 feet long. Why

53:57

do we think we all have back problems? Oh

54:00

my God. Think about it. It was so cool

54:02

to have like your backpack low or like the side

54:04

one. And it wasn't cool to have a rolly

54:07

backpack even though that was the most orthopedically

54:10

friendly. Exactly. My elementary school

54:13

banned rolling backpacks because the teachers

54:15

would always trip on them. And a lot of the teachers were older.

54:17

Watch where you're going. That's what

54:19

I'm saying. Why are they walking so close to you? No, they

54:21

banned them after like two weeks because too many of

54:23

the teachers like were tripping. I loved a rolly

54:25

backpack. I never had one. I had

54:27

like the Jansport with like them gel

54:30

in the pads because

54:31

like our shoulders were way depth. No

54:33

way. Let's think about this. Why

54:36

were we like

54:37

a hundred pounds carrying like 30

54:39

pounds of books at a time? Like that's

54:41

actually so sad. Also like

54:44

why is the government not funding schools enough

54:46

where they can have double textbooks or we can have one

54:48

at home and one in the classroom. Also

54:50

maybe hope to God things are better now

54:52

but like in 2008 it wasn't like that. I feel like now

54:54

with iPads and e-readers and stuff like

54:57

most of the books are like that. So I don't know. I

54:59

could be wrong. Do you think they let kids bring iPads to

55:01

school though? I think so, especially post COVID

55:03

probably. What if they're like texting in class? Well, no,

55:05

I don't think that's a thing anymore because it's like- They

55:07

don't care because they have their phones. My God. But

55:10

it's just so crazy to think about. But like

55:13

why couldn't we just have a book

55:15

in class and then use the book

55:17

while in class instead of carrying five books at

55:20

once? I saw that a school district said

55:23

that there's not going to be any more snow days. And instead

55:25

it'll just be online. And

55:27

people were saying like we had

55:29

it at the best time because I mean, we never grew

55:32

up with snow days. They wanted, they want snow days.

55:34

Just think of how fun it was to have a snow day growing

55:36

up. I was like go out. Like I did it at off school. I

55:38

always thought growing up, yeah, it was so envious of

55:41

the idea of snow days but then at

55:43

one point in my life, I heard that actually they

55:45

just tack it on, right? So heck,

55:48

I guess I get that. But then you get a little less summer. Were

55:50

you on a year round schedule growing up? Yeah, it was year

55:52

round. And like no schedule. So you only got like five weeks

55:54

of summer too. Wait, what's the other one? Like

55:57

a three month summer. Oh no, we had a long summer.

55:59

We had a long summer. year of my life until I

56:01

got to college. I was

56:03

on a year-round so I only had five weeks of summer. Why?

56:06

Because then we got like two weeks in the fall,

56:08

yeah like two weeks or three weeks in December, something

56:11

along those lines. Oh my gosh. I had

56:13

no summer. I blinked and it was over. Really? So we had

56:15

long summers and

56:18

I remember there was one year where

56:21

they changed up the schooling but

56:23

it we used to go back to school

56:25

in August and then we'd get out

56:27

in May. It was like early so it was all

56:29

shifted. Oh yeah. But then one year they

56:32

changed it so we still got out in May but we didn't

56:34

have to go to school till September Wow. After

56:36

the holiday. So long. It was the best summer

56:38

ever. Like it was the best summer.

56:40

I we would get out in like June and we'd

56:43

go back late July like

56:45

first couple days of August. Like it was really short

56:47

but when I went from high school to college

56:50

I got the first long summer of my life and

56:52

then also UCR pushed it so I didn't I got

56:54

out in June and I didn't go back till October.

56:56

I was so bored. How did

56:58

you do it for that long? I feel like it's different

57:01

high school versus college because college like you're out of

57:03

your parents house. I feel like that's different because

57:05

your home like it was still home to me. Yeah. Yeah.

57:08

And my mom is a music teacher so

57:10

other than having private students like at the house

57:13

she like we I felt like we did a lot of fun stuff. You

57:16

know like it felt like vacation. My mom was making

57:18

me do like school packets at home. Oh I

57:20

never did my summer reading. Summer

57:23

reading? Did you ever have summer homework? I don't

57:26

think so but my mom would literally take me to the school

57:28

spy store and buy me like prep books

57:30

and make me do it during the summer. Oh my god.

57:32

Sweet Suzanne. Love you girl. Are

57:35

there a lot of people who you went to high school who

57:37

are married now? But you like to with each other? Everybody

57:41

and everybody lives at home for the

57:43

most part still because I was just with Shane recently

57:45

and he was withholding all day while Lily

57:47

was at work so I went in like hung out with them all day long and

57:50

I was just talking to him about how he like

57:52

he has all his guy friends obviously and I was like

57:54

are they like planning on getting married? He's like he's

57:56

a little bit earlier than them with wanting kids but he

57:59

was like it's just crazy. see everybody at home

58:01

in my grade at least now or like my year is

58:04

like married on their second kid

58:06

already. Oh my God. Like everybody.

58:09

That's so exciting though. So I actually really

58:11

enjoy going through Facebook because so many people

58:13

will pop up they forgot about and

58:15

I'm like, Oh my God, they just got married or they're

58:17

engaged or maybe like we're in that time

58:19

of our lives, which is really crazy. It's really

58:21

cool. There's a few couples I'm thinking

58:24

of who were together in high

58:26

school and were like high school sweethearts and

58:28

then they broke up dated

58:31

other people for a while and like randomly got back

58:33

together. I love when that happened. And one

58:35

of them just had another kid and it's so cute

58:37

because I did cheer with her and I just remember like

58:39

always being like, Oh my God, like, like

58:42

just all that stupid stuff and they seem really happy

58:44

together, which is really cool. I totally Instagram

58:46

stalked and Facebook stalked this girl that I

58:48

grew up with who was like a really good friend of mine. She lived across

58:50

the street from me and we were super close and

58:52

then we just drifted in high school because we didn't

58:54

have like similar friend groups. But I like went

58:57

on a deep dive on Facebook and I found

58:59

that she just got married and she married her

59:01

high school boyfriend and they

59:04

moved away just recently and I was like, I'm so happy

59:06

for, Oh, I wonder if she let me follow her back. I went on Instagram.

59:08

I was like, I want to follow her now. Oh my God, I love it. Let

59:11

me see. Oh my God. Imagine she rejected my

59:13

request. She's like, who is this? Are we even friends on Facebook?

59:15

Probably not. You and me. Yeah,

59:18

I think so. Hey, oh, wrong girl. It's like she

59:20

blocked me.

59:22

Oh, wrong girl. Like she

59:23

blocked me. I was like, oh, wait, she

59:26

probably changed her last name. I'm still requested.

59:28

She didn't accept it. Damn.

59:29

She

59:30

must not go on Instagram. She must have a real job.

59:33

Well, anyways,

59:37

okay, I know you're, you're over talking about wedding stuff, but

59:39

we have to tell them the story of the girly. Yeah.

59:43

Okay. Okay. Um, this is actually

59:45

perfect because I wanted to, I needed to talk about it at some

59:47

point, but I don't want to be annoying. But long

59:49

story short, I wanted to wait for our

59:52

wedding until for a while. Like I have

59:54

no desire to get married very quickly. Um,

59:56

I was like at least like a year and a half, maybe two years

59:58

until the wedding because which I know. It's

1:00:01

also like relative for everyone. I know some people are like

1:00:03

years I talked to Arden at the wedding

1:00:05

and she waited a couple years and she's like she's so glad that

1:00:08

she waited a couple years It's all depends on the

1:00:10

couple. Yes, and so I was like, I definitely

1:00:12

know I don't want to get married at all for

1:00:14

You know the next like year and a half or so but

1:00:17

I'm Let me know how you feel about this

1:00:19

I'm very traditional in my thinking of I wanted

1:00:21

to be I wanted to date Get engaged to

1:00:23

get married and then have a kid like I

1:00:26

I wanted timeline wise I'm very traditional in that sense

1:00:28

There's nothing wrong with doing it out of that order, but I just

1:00:30

personally have always wanted that for myself So

1:00:32

I know I want a kid in the next few

1:00:34

years I was like, okay, then I need to get married before

1:00:37

then Happen that way. It's fine.

1:00:39

I agree. I would say overall I would like that

1:00:42

I'm like, everyone has their ideal plan life never

1:00:44

goes for our ideal plan You know, I could

1:00:47

be pregnant like a mom. It sounds like you might

1:00:49

be honestly at this rate Maybe

1:00:52

we're on track for our schedule Kaylee

1:00:54

and I have a very strict schedule that we're trying

1:00:56

to stick to of similar timelines

1:00:59

You can join in on that if you'd like I'd love to join

1:01:01

in on the best But

1:01:05

I would be really fun But I knew I wanted to wait

1:01:08

for the wedding planning of it all but I

1:01:10

I know exactly what I want the

1:01:12

wedding to Look like I didn't even

1:01:14

know where to begin. I don't understand anything I'm calling

1:01:16

Lauren all the time being like what what do

1:01:18

I do? I haven't even talked to any planners, right? No,

1:01:21

no, no, I haven't I have actually started absolutely nothing

1:01:23

except for this one thing that I'm gonna talk about but

1:01:25

I I know exactly what I visually

1:01:28

want it to look like and so then I was just kind of looking

1:01:30

online of like pictures of wedding venues

1:01:32

and I saw this one that was Exactly

1:01:36

what I had imagined. It's as if I painted it

1:01:38

myself. So like oh my god, this is amazing I

1:01:40

was like, I'll call and just ask for like a

1:01:43

general Budget number

1:01:45

because I was like I don't want to wait, you know

1:01:47

a year To start planning

1:01:49

and then in the first day that I

1:01:51

decide this like idea that I've had in my head

1:01:54

for so long Get shot down within like a millisecond. So

1:01:56

let me just shoot it down now versus way. I truly

1:01:58

I don't know anything regarding

1:02:00

a wedding from budget to like, I don't know

1:02:03

anything. So I do think it would, I

1:02:05

would like to at least get a gauge. Like what's normal.

1:02:07

Exactly. What's not normal. Exactly. LA,

1:02:10

I feel like, I mean, I know people who have

1:02:12

spent money on weddings

1:02:14

and I'm like, that's not normal. It's like,

1:02:17

what's normal? Yeah. I just knew there was going to be like

1:02:19

a base price where it starts out. So I was like, I would rather

1:02:21

get shot down now than shot down in a year when I'm like

1:02:23

really excited to start. And so I,

1:02:25

I called this venue. They were like closed

1:02:28

for the weekend and they said they'd call me back on Monday

1:02:30

and I was like, amazing. I was looking forward to hearing, you

1:02:32

know, any information. And I

1:02:34

missed the call on Monday and I look at my voicemail

1:02:37

and you know how like the voicemail transcribes like what

1:02:39

they say. And the girl had

1:02:41

called me and said, hi, Remy, just

1:02:43

give me a call back. This is Alicia McDonald

1:02:45

calling to go over

1:02:48

all the wedding things. And for

1:02:50

anyone that doesn't know that's Alicia's name, Alicia

1:02:52

McDonald. You sent

1:02:54

me a voicemail and you go, listen now

1:02:57

I had no, I, I will say sometimes

1:02:59

I'm like, I don't know which way this is. I'm like, it

1:03:02

could literally be like you meeting my

1:03:05

biggest celebrity crush or like someone like that

1:03:08

or it could be like you just sending a funny meme.

1:03:10

Like I never know. So I'm

1:03:12

like, oh my God, listen now I'm like, okay.

1:03:15

So I listed in my faces that are like, like,

1:03:17

hi, my name is Alicia. I

1:03:19

know. Well, I've

1:03:21

never in my life met

1:03:24

another Alicia McDonald. It was fate. I'm

1:03:26

sure it was spelled different, but it doesn't matter. It was spelled

1:03:29

differently. It was names just felt differently because I got

1:03:31

an email. I was waiting for the email after so she

1:03:33

could like write like a signature and it was, it was

1:03:35

wrong. But like still, no, that's a

1:03:37

glitch in

1:03:39

the universe sign or is that a sign

1:03:42

to not, I mean, I took it as a sign until I got

1:03:44

the number and then I was like, not as high,

1:03:46

but I called back and I, I talked to her about

1:03:49

the budget of everything. And it was, it was a lot,

1:03:51

but more than that, she was like, what date are you looking

1:03:54

for? And I told her how I'm like, in my head, I was

1:03:56

like, 2025, I'm going to have the pic

1:03:58

of the litter girl. I am. so ahead

1:04:00

right now. She did tell me that they had

1:04:02

one day in April and one day in May and

1:04:05

that was simply it for all of 2025

1:04:07

in the range of which I was looking which was like a range

1:04:10

of like five months. So all to say

1:04:12

I was like oh that one's not gonna

1:04:14

work for me but thank you so much. Would you prefer a Friday

1:04:16

or Saturday or Sunday? A Saturday I

1:04:18

think is what I would like. That's the only thing that

1:04:20

I've done and all

1:04:23

that I know is that that told

1:04:25

me that I need to actually plan

1:04:27

much sooner than I thought considering that and

1:04:29

I told her I was like oh my god I thought you guys were gonna have like dates

1:04:32

booked out or like you're gonna have like a slew

1:04:34

of dates open and the girl had told me that because

1:04:36

of COVID brides everything got

1:04:38

pushed and on top of that like

1:04:40

every year the price of weddings

1:04:43

just goes up and up and up exponentially. So

1:04:45

all to say it sounds as though I'm gonna have to plan

1:04:47

sooner than I thought sooner than I wanted to

1:04:50

but I also don't want

1:04:52

to like push my timeline too much. So that's

1:04:54

all my update but I just can't believe the girl has the same

1:04:57

name as you. The world is a glitch.

1:04:59

Like is she mean a multiverse? I think.

1:05:02

Do you know what I mean? Imagine you guys looked alike

1:05:04

too. I should have asked her for a photo. We should look

1:05:06

her up. Okay look her up on LinkedIn. Okay here

1:05:09

I go. I found her. Already? Yeah

1:05:12

there's no photo up. Oh damn it. You

1:05:14

know what those memes being like oh yeah you probably

1:05:16

can't find them but this is my crush and then it's

1:05:18

like it's like give me one second. Oh

1:05:21

you look nothing alike. Oh

1:05:23

it's okay. She was very nice though. Ah loves

1:05:25

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1:05:41

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1:05:43

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1:05:44

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1:05:46

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1:05:48

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