Inspired by all this extra thinking about relationships this week. One of the biggest things that you, me, most of us fear is getting rejected. "What if they say no? What if they don't like us? Enjoy us? Appreciate us? Want us? Desire us...?" But if we totally flip this thinking around... isn't getting rejected actually freeing? Isn't it the second (maybe even first) best possible answer we can hear from someone? Instead of thinking that "no" takes something away from us -- what does a "no" actually give us? And isn't this true of all relationships -- not just the romantic ones?