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Hello world, lo here.

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This is clearly incorrect, inna.

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No, fuck off.

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I just want peace. I'm not gonna lie, i did it on purpose.

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Who the fuck do you think you are?

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I get a call from the lieutenant Diaz The bitch.

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Do what did he did it down? did he do That?

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she was just walking down the street singing.

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Do what did he did it down?

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did he do? That was your part.

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Oh, hi, hi, hi. I'm here, i'm here.

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I'm paying attention now, i promise, i hope you're well.

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Remember to like, subscribe, rate review.

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Tell a friend Today I'm gonna bring you Adam.

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He's a good friend. Adam is one of the nicest people I have ever known.

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He really cares.

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He's always great, he's always nice.

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But this is not a story of niceness.

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This story is about anger and beef.

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I have been doing a lot of beef episodes There's at la la, there's X with beef And now this one.

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That's not bad.

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I mean, that's a trio. Is that a lot?

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I don't know. Whatever, i would like to encourage you all to leave me a tip.

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I know I didn't bring you food or anything, but it's still a lot of work.

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My cash app is Lauren G Evans L-O-R-E-N.

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My Venmo is cool hand low L-O.

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I've actually gotten three tips total throughout all of this, and they were.

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You know they were good. I appreciate them.

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It's weird In the year I've been doing this, i got two of the tips within an hour of each other On a day I didn't even post an episode.

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Anyways, thanks, i'd appreciate it.

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It's a lot of hard work. I'm looking for a job right now, like a regular one, and so this is my side gig that isn't paying off yet I am happy to bring you.

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Bitch next door. Sorry folks, the only booze I got right now is the bottle of moonshine and I'm not dipping into that right now It's not even noon.

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Yeah, it's pretty early.

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It's pretty early, especially for moonshine, for moon.

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Yeah, it's always early for moonshine, oh boy.

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So welcome back.

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Well, thank you for having me Again, everybody.

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I'm Adam Carpio.

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The again is because I had an accident that was personally tragic in that well, a few weeks ago I don't know when I'm going to drop this, but a few weeks from before now, like two weeks there was a power outage.

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It happened exactly when I was copying files from my recorder to my computer.

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in the hard blackout erased my SD card and the files that I copied were unusable.

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And then I did computer magic and I got parts of the audio back, but it would take a FBI forensic team to put that shit back together.

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So it's gone. It's gone And Adam's back to tell his story once again.

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Yeah, my wonderful, wonderful, wonderful story.

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Just a little bit about me.

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I'm Adam. I'm a disabled veteran.

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I've served in the Persian Gulf War.

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I recently just had one year in a relationship losing my dad after eight months of COVID battle fight that he had.

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So it's been a little bit emotional for me these last few days, since it was on May 1st.

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And I always get so emotional around my brother's anniversary of his death.

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It gets me.

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Well, and you were there when I was going through it. I mean, it was such an emotional time for me for those eight months.

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It was.

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So I'm glad I could be there for you And I appreciated that.

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Yeah, I think that's how it became close. Yeah, exactly So.

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But yeah, just trying to deal with some tragedies in my neighborhood.

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Oh, yes, move there about almost five years, october to be five years, About a year later some neighbors moved into the far back unit.

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So I live in a triplex and I have a whole front yard.

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So nobody even knows that I'm in part of a triplex because the next unit is behind me but faces south.

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I faced west, and then the third unit is all the way in the back and that one faces west as well, so it faces the same way as mine.

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And I met the people that came in and I'm the type of person that if I want peace and I want to be friendly with everybody, it starts with me.

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So anybody who's ever moved into the neighborhood, or that's already, was there.

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I've always brought them a cake and some wine. The kids that live next door I always buy them gifts for Christmas and whenever holidays comes by, because they're just all excited and I always buy a screen for them.

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Anyway, just to jump in real quick. I think that's the sweetest thing.

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I do that with the kids in my life too, because it's like, yeah, i don't have kids, i don't want kids, but I love kids.

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Yeah, and I just think that, and they're great, they always come over and they stay out in the yard and they play with the cats Children bring you life.

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And then I've got four cats. They're all named after X-Men My oldest is Storm, and then I've got Quicksilver, and then I've got McNeato and I've got Phoenix.

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So they're my babies. Yes, they are. I love it when Adam comes over He sees Frida and just the mama bear comes down Like, oh, I'm going to grab you and hold you.

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Well, I love animals in general So I feed all the squirrels, and a couple of houses up There's a lady who has a squirrel what do you call it?

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It's like a reserved, like a little area for them, So in her front yard, So she feeds them as well and she feeds all the animals and they have bat feeder in the back of their house and stuff like that.

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So they take so pretty. Probably just get along with all my neighbors and the ones that pretty much lived in the far back unit.

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I thought they were pretty good friends. We used to go have lunch, hang out together and everything else.

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And then just within the last year and a half I've had to be dealing with some people that we've had.

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They bought out the middle units, So the people who originally lived there were not the nicest people on the planet, So they were really young.

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They ended up moving. I think they moved back home to Michigan where they were from.

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So that was the godsend.

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Yeah, sometimes.

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Then Patrick and Lauren bought the middle unit and made it an Airbnb.

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So I've always meet new people that come in and out from the Airbnb and stuff like that.

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They're really nice people. I had met some from Baltimore, a younger couple as well.

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He was a traveling nurse and his girlfriend was I don't know what she did, but she used to be able to work from home.

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We used to go have lunch and we hung out and they were always so nice to come over and pet with the cats, because they just love the cats, because they were cat people as well, even though they had a couple of dogs.

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They ended up leaving after five months And then a couple months later they came back in January of last year and then they just wouldn't talk to me anymore.

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So I couldn't figure out why they wouldn't talk to me.

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So when Patrick and Lauren's friends would come by and I'm always working out my yard, i'm this type of person who likes to work out in the yard and have fun.

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I like to be outdoors. On the summer, the cats like to be outdoors with me, so we're all out in the front yard.

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You're also a runner. I am a runner. I did my running already this morning because I got up early, it was so nice.

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Then every time I would say hi to their friends, they would look at me up and down and give me this nasty look in, a walk in and never say anything.

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So I'm like, oh, whatever, you know who cares?

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I'm the type who cares, yeah, yeah, but I try to be nice to everybody, you do.

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I really try to be nice to everybody.

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Just to throw this in there, adam is one of the only gay men that regularly comes to blush.

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We have about four or five, adam, why do you come to blush?

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I come to blush because I'm judged really bad by the gay community because I don't like dresses, i don't like to wear heels and into the grilly things I like more of plain sports.

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I'm just the more masculine one.

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So I like you know, i like a man for being a man.

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I guess is what I want to say.

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You're just chill. You're there to have a bar experience, not to be hit on.

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No no.

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I just want to have fun, yeah. So come on down, even if you don't think you might fit in, because if you just want a friendly place, Yeah, a bush and blues a place to be.

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Everybody's so friendly there. I'm, you know I love the owners, Jody and Tana's there Absolutely wonderful with me.

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So, yeah, I've gotten to know them very well.

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All right, i'm done painting your character.

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Oh, thank you, I like the painting part of my character, because it doesn't happen very often.

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So I'm at anyway.

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Sure, you know the people not saying hi and stuff like that.

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Our company takes us to the Rockies game every year in June.

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So in June I went to the Rockies game.

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I came back. One of my friends he's also a gay man, he was drunk and he lives way down in Parker and he has a brand new car that he had at the game.

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His roommates were like we don't know what to do with his car.

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You know, and I'm like you know what?

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I just live right by the course field. I can take it home to my house.

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He could pick it up tomorrow. I can just pick him up from the light rail right a couple of blocks down the street from me on 40th.

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So he brought his new car home, had it in my house.

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Next day he comes to pick it up. Me and him were talking out in the front yard.

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Lauren happens to be coming by with Bruce and Koda, which are her two dogs, and I'm like, oh, this is my neighbor Lauren and this is my friend Devon And that's Bruce and Koda and stuff, and he went down to go pet him.

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She yanked the dogs back, didn't say hi and went straight to her house.

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That's fucking rude. Yeah, it really was rude.

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He's like do I have AIDS? Is it because I'm black?

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Is it because I'm gay? What is it that?

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she's.

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Sometimes it's hard to peg it. Yeah, so she's like I don't know He goes.

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I probably won't come back over here if that's the way I'm going to be treated And I'm like I'm so sorry.

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It's probably towards me, if anything.

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So, please, you know I'm sorry, i don't know what else to say.

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So I tried to play it off for her because she was my friend.

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So there was a lot of other little instances where she would do a lot of other things.

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She's a little bit of an instigator, i guess you would say.

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Because she is a narcissist, i will say that A shit stirrer.

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Yes, she wants all the attention focused around her.

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So when she comes out and she, oh, everybody's looking at me, look at me, i'm gorgeous, and like I need to go buy that mirror that you look into every day, because I want to have that same type of confidence you do, because you're not all that great.

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But anyway.

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But I'm a nice person, So I'm still trying to be nice because you know, like I said, I like to work out in the yard and stuff like that as well.

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So I've always pulled their weeds.

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I shoveled the snow when it snows.

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You know, because they're really lazy people. They're younger than me.

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You know, I don't mind doing things like that. I did it for the neighbors.

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You know I try to help everybody. Yeah, It's good exercise for me, So that's why I don't care.

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Yeah.

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Good for you. So I like to pull weeds.

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I like to keep my lawn nice And I don't have much of a lawn, but my little bit of lawn that I have.

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I like to keep it nice because the cats enjoy it, And I pull the weeds and then they have a lot of weeds, So they have a lot of chokeweed, So they blow that shit over when they cut the, when they consider their grass.

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So you know, I pulled the weeds and her husband to come out and he'd make comments every once in a while Like oh, you should be used to that, you know, because I'm Mexican and I'm 80% Mexican and a little bit of Italian and Irish in there.

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Honestly, I think you're stunningly handsome. It's a good combination.

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Oh, thank you very much.

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I appreciate that And I never said anything about it.

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I'm like you know, just blow it off, don't let it bother.

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You, just blow it off. You know, and that's what I did.

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I never said anything about it or anything like that.

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And she would even tell him don't say those things, you know so they knew it wasn't she Yes, yes, they knew it wasn't, but that was their way of taking digs at me.

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I guess, and I don't know why, they must have not really liked me in the long run.

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I don't, for whatever reason, i don't know.

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I was always nice to them. The only time that they would really, after a while, they would want me to do anything for them was like they would go on vacation, like they went on their honeymoon, and they ordered all this bedding, stuff like the frame and the mattresses, and they all came into the house.

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And then they called me Can you put those in the house? Trying to move that shit into a house with mattresses and the headboard frame in a big old box.

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It was not easy, so I just left them off front of the front door.

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I mean, i wasn't going to take them anywhere else, but anyway, finally, she wouldn't say hi to me anymore or anything like that.

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Oh, whatever. So I just did my thing.

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I'm not going to bother anybody. I'm not going to go beg anybody for their friendship or anything like that.

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That's not who I am. I'm just like whatever. If you don't want to say hi, i'll just do my thing.

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I was coming back from my run and she was coming up because one of the neighbors up at the street lost their dog And they lost it quite often and we just didn't want to go and mark him with their king to get hit by a car.

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I didn't say anything to her and then she texted me.

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Well, you didn't say hi to me because that was rude.

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You need to be nice to me.

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I said next time you text me it better not be that way.

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But if you want to talk about it, you're more than welcome to come to my house.

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So she came to my house. We had a big long talk on the porch.

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The lesbians across the street came over and they're like hey.

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And we're like hey. We had literally just finished our conversation And they're like how's it going?

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What are you guys talking about? You know stuff like that. And I'm like oh nothing, we were just talking about what we're going to do this summer for a grass And we don't want to tell them it's none of their business.

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Well, a couple of months goes by.

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Then her friend I guess it was a shooting or something or another So their house had a grace bullet that hit their house on the outside, or something or another.

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Sounds like the times.

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Yeah, pretty much. So they came and stayed in the Airbnb unit.

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Well, they came there, i guess at two or three o'clock in the morning and there was a lot of noise.

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And my bedroom wall is the only wall that is attached to the middle unit because it's in the middle, and I kept hearing all the noises and my phone was charging in the living room but I didn't want to go get it And I didn't want to get up because I was tired And so I go.

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Well, well, i didn't get very much sleep, so it was really bitchy the next day.

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So I happened to see them walking out and hey, patrick, is there somebody staying in the middle unit?

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And she looks at me and she always wants me to think like I love all her friends, my friend, and I'm like okay, well, you know, and I'm not the type to just go off the handle yelling or stuff like that, because this is what I've worked out with my PTSD And I just like hey, you know, you need to be cognizant, there's people on the other side of that wall and you need to be very, very quiet.

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It's two, three o'clock in the morning and I'm very, very not happy right now.

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Then Lauren started piping Well, she had a good.

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I said, bitch, i am not talking to you, i'm talking to her.

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And then she shut up. I'm just asking you in a nice way.

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And then Patrick was like, well, you know, she had a gun graze her house and stuff like that.

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And I'm like I'm glad you weren't hurt, i'm glad you're here, i'm glad you're safe.

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But just please be cognizant that there's just people on the other side of the house Normal Yeah, normal shit Yeah.

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So I didn't like yell at her or anything like that.

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I just kind of just told her to be aware I've never seen you angry.

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Oh, it's not a good pretty thing, cause.

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I imagine that would be.

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Yeah. So they drove off in cause they had just bought a new car.

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Lauren and Patrick. I get a text because she was already blocked on all my social media.

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She was blocked on my phone. I didn't have her on anything anymore.

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I just couldn't deal with her anymore. She texted me from his phone and said you need to apologize to my friend.

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She feels really bad. And I replied back don't ever text me that again, lauren, cause I knew it was her coming from her husband's phone, because I am not going to put up with your bullshit.

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I went and took a shower because I had been working outside. Like I said, my doorbell rings, couldn't answer it.

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So I hear my phone beep And so I get out of the shower, check my phone and it's Patrick And he texts me And he's like hey, i came over to talk.

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And I'm like, well, give me 15 minutes.

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I just got out of the shower. So like 20, 30 minutes goes by, he goes.

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Well, has it been 15 minutes? I go, i don't know. Can you tell time?

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So then he came over to my house And he rang the doorbell And he's shaking because he's so scared, because he knows I'm not afraid of anything And I'm not afraid of anyone And I speak my mind.

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I do speak my mind, yes you do. So he came into the house and he goes hey, i just wanted to let you know that text can come off wrong And I'm like I don't know why you are here apologizing to me.

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The wrong person's here that should be apologizing.

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Yes, texts can be misread and taking the wrong texts and stuff, not when somebody's demanding me to apologize to their friend.

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The bitch. Your wife couldn't be nice to my friends, but she never came and apologized to them, so don't ask me to apologize.

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I did nothing wrong. I said I told her in a nice way If you can't handle that, and she goes, well, we were in there with her And I go oh so what kind of friends are you to let her just take the blame?

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And you didn't say you guys were in there. I was like and your door faces that front door, that middle unit that you own on the Airbnb, why didn't you take the damn people to your house?

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if you're going to make all that fucking noise, they would have just had to take a little walk outside the door to the next one when they needed to go to sleep.

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And he goes oh I'm sorry. He goes in and I go. Don't come over here and the thinking that I need to apologize to anybody because you're not going to get an apology.

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I can admit when I am wrong and I'm not wrong in this place, so let's just leave it at that.

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Couple things. They kept instigating a couple other things.

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Finally, one day He was trying to be nice And I'm just fed up at this point with him And he's like hey, adam.

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And he goes, hi, adam again. And I just threw my hand in there and just to make it look like I waved, and that was it.

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And then I get a text from her again. Sorry, i get a text from her again from his phone And she's like that was rude.

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You can even take the time to say hi when I was trying to say hi, and blah, blah, blah.

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You know, fuck off. That's what I said, lauren, just fuck off.

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Again. He comes knocking on my door And then he's like hey, have we done something wrong?

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I said I'm fine with you, i don't have a problem with you.

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I said it's your wife that I'm having the issues with, because she's an instigator And she's really irritating me at this point.

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Yeah, please just leave Then.

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just stupid little things.

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I'm telling you. They just picked the little things.

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So then we have a party wall agreement because of our water, because it's a triplex.

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Yeah.

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So their unit is considered the main unit because it's a bigger unit, so the bills used to always go there.

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So when he first moved in there he was like I'll just Venmo you the water bill, that's fine.

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So I gave him my Venmo, never got a Venmo request.

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Three months goes by, i still hadn't gotten a Venmo request.

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I called the water company. I said, hey, is there a way I can get a copy of the bill?

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And I'm the one who needs to know how much I need to pay.

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And she's like, absolutely, and I go, can I do it online as well?

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She goes, yes, you can, we'll give you your own account. So I did it.

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I started paying my own thing on there, been doing that for a year and a half And never got a Venmo request from him.

20:44

I get a Venmo request from him right after he left my house And it was like three months of a water bill And I blocked him.

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I'm like I'm not going to pay it. It shows on the water thing.

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It shows everything that I've paid. And it's her, because she's the one who's listed on the water bill.

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Gotcha, he comes over and he comes in.

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He goes. Why did you block my Venmo request. I told him don't come to my house and start yelling at me.

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I'm going to tell you this now. I threw my finger in his face.

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The next time you fucking come to my house and you come and do that kind of shit and I'm giving you this as your last warning I will knock your ass right into that damn sidewalk of mine, i'm going to call the police and I'm going to get you for harassment.

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Do you fucking understand? You are not allowed on my property anymore.

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And he goes have a good day.

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And he walked off.

21:33

It strikes me that these people are somewhat conservative.

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And what a conservative principle is it that you can knock the shit out of somebody who comes to your house to give you shit?

21:43

I've never gone to their yard. I go through the yard to go through my trash, but do you know what I do?

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I walk through the side, walk out to the front gate, i walk all the way down by the church, then I go through the alley and throw my trash.

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I never use their yard Because I have a gate that takes me through the yard to go straight to the back, to the alley.

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But I don't do it Because I feel like I'm invading their privacy, because they're big windows right there And I don't want to do that.

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Even now I don't do it. I mean, i could do it to piss them off, but I don't do that because I'm not that type of person.

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I just want peace. Yeah, you're not the shitster.

22:14

No, i don't want to be the shitster. And so then he was taking pictures the other day of my car because he said it was part two close And she never parks her car in the front.

22:24

First of all, she's never not once ever parked her car in the front because they have a garage in the back unit And she saw me leave.

22:30

So I know that she came around because I saw through my ring that she came and parked her car right in front of my house And then she left a big gap in between hers so nobody could park between her husband and her.

22:41

So I parked really close to her because she had all that room to get out And I did it.

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I'm not going to lie, i did it on purpose.

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I want my ring to catch my car if somebody tries to vandalize it, because I had it vandalized once.

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Yeah, so he's taking pictures of it And I go.

22:59

Really, patrick, is this all?

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is this what you got to just instigate?

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I'm like, grow up, it's a public street.

23:07

She can park wherever she wants, whatever, i can park as close as I want to everybody, as you said, because it's a public street.

23:15

Ok, and I walked into the house.

23:17

She's been avoiding me this whole time.

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I never had to see her. She comes walking out five minutes later with her husband And that's it.

23:26

I, my temper just flared. I walked out that door and I started yelling at her.

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I'm like, bitch, do you got fucking something to say?

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because I want you to say it now, right here in front of me, and I never left my yard And she's still in her.

23:38

Well, she's not in the yard, she's not in the city park but you're not in the thing And she's like I don't know what you're talking about.

23:44

I'm like, oh, you're such a narcissistic, hypocritical, egotistical fucking cunt.

23:49

I was like, oh, so you're going to call me names.

23:51

I says, yes, i am going to call you names because you fucking called me a fucking pedophile.

23:54

Who the fuck do you think you are to just sit there and judge my fucking character?

23:59

We had not gotten to that yet.

24:02

No, oh, we hadn't gotten to the pedophile part.

24:05

No, no, oh, sorry. Well, she was telling everybody that I was a pedophile.

24:09

That's why these people were not saying hi back to me When those people from Baltimore you're right, i missed it, those people from Baltimore.

24:16

When I called him after her friend thing incident.

24:19

I called him from Baltimore because I had his phone number, because we used to be friends, and I said, hey, tyler, i was like it's Adam, he goes.

24:26

I'm glad you called me, he goes. I kind of feel about the way we left things when we left.

24:30

That was the day that my dad left, the day that they left the unit I go.

24:35

Well, i got a question to ask you. I heard what you were saying from your window, from the middle unit, because I was washing my dishes and you had the thing.

24:42

I could see your face blankly right there on the corner sitting on that chair.

24:46

Can you back up for a second and start from where you hear the story through the wall?

24:51

I didn't hear it through the wall Or whatever. It was in the summer, like now, oh gotcha.

24:54

So they had their window prop open. I had my window open in the kitchen And this is still in the spring, so it was still kind of cooler outside, so it was nice to have the windows open And I happened to be doing dishes.

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It was about, i want to say about 3 PM. Around 3 PM, and they were talking to some of her friends.

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She said that I was a pedophile, that I was a fucking fat ass bastard who likes to sit outside and listen to everybody's conversations, because I go out in the yard and I always have a headset on.

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So if I was trying to listen to anybody's conversations, i'm not doing a very good job by having a headset on And then, I sit there, cut my lawn, I would cut their lawn for them on top of it.

25:30

So for her to say that kind of stuff really upset me.

25:32

That's why I was really pissed and that right away I blocked her from everything, Because my first instance was to go over there and just punch her in the fucking face To be fair.

25:40

what she did was a crime. You cannot accuse people of that.

25:45

say they are unless they have been convicted of it, Because it is such a damage to your reputation.

25:51

Absolutely, You broke the law. You cannot do that.

25:54

I've talked about pedophiles on this podcast.

25:57

at times You have to say alleged unless they have been convicted, or I believe they're dead.

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Well, I heard it from somebody else.

26:04

I'll just say it. It's not a little thing.

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And he goes. We felt bad the way we left things because we didn't say bye to you or anything like that.

26:11

And is there any reason why you would just say something like that?

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Because I just want you to know that I'm going to end up losing some friends.

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And he's like I have no reason to lie.

26:23

I mean he goes. We had barbecue with him in the back because their units share a backyard.

26:28

I was really pissed, so she was the one that I really needed to just say my piece to.

26:32

Okay. Now back to where I was at.

26:36

So I was going off on her and she's like I didn't call you pedophile And I'm like you know.

26:42

I called Tyler and I talked to him and I asked him after the whole incident with your friend whatever, don't sit here and lie to me.

26:51

I asked you this before I said we had the conversation when I asked you face to face.

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If you could have told me that you did say it, i could have forgiven you then.

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But for you to lie to me to my face and then me to ask him and I had to call him to get the answer to figure out why you were not talking to me, why your friends would be nasty to me all the fucking time, like your friend who was just at the house that had the grazed bullet When you came back from Greece just a couple of months ago, just before she came to stay in that middle unit, she was fucking pissed off because she had to bring your dogs back and she had to bring the dog food back And I stole her high and she gave me that look.

27:28

So don't want me to feel sympathy for you or for your fucking friends And then she goes.

27:33

All you do is call me names and I'm like I have never even seen you And I'm calling you names now And I says it looks like a goose on your head and took a nasty ass shit on your fried ass hair that looks green and black.

27:46

Her husband goes you can't say that to her.

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I'm like, oh, bitch, i was like put your little whatever you want to call those little, teeny little marbles that you have that she's put up into a fucking closet and that she controls you because you sit there and allow the bitch to fucking say shit like that.

27:59

I was like you know better than that.

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Tell her it's not right for you to say something like that.

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But no, you just sit there and egg her on because you're afraid of her.

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I was like get a comb and run it through your hair every once in a while so you don't look like some kind of mess.

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And then she's like oh, is you going to call him names too?

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And I said absolutely. By the way, she had pulled out her phone and was recording this whole thing the whole time.

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And you are standing in your log.

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I was standing in my lawn and never left my house.

28:29

Is there anything more conservative than expressing your first amendment rights from your own property Right.

28:36

So hey, and then they were in the car for a while because she's still parked in front of the house.

28:40

They were there for a good 10 minutes. I guess she was watching the whole video And I know she was crying because she doesn't like people to call her names.

28:46

So that was my thing. I wanted to hurt her with my words and calling her a cunt, which is the word that I don't like to use and I don't ever call anybody that But I knew it would hurt her being a woman, and that was my way of attacking her back, and I hope nobody thinks that I'm just I use that word as a common vocabulary because I don't But I was really upset, you were mad, i'm upset.

29:11

Yeah, the relief that I felt for myself after saying all that stuff to her.

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I felt like just something just lifted off of me and I just felt so much better I let it go.

29:21

After that, i just let it go. I just needed to say what I had.

29:26

Next day I get a call from the Lieutenant Diaz.

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I didn't answer it because it went straight to spam.

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She did leave a voicemail, so I called her back. I said hi, lieutenant Diaz, and she said hi, and she goes.

29:38

Hey, i wanted to talk to you. She goes.

29:40

I am the Lieutenant for the community of the police department, for the thing.

29:45

And I said absolutely, and she goes. And I got the video Your neighbor sent me And I said great, so then you know why I'm upset.

29:50

And she goes, yes, but she goes and I want to know your whole story because there's a side to every story.

29:55

So I told her the whole story and everything else And then she goes.

29:59

Well, i watched the video and I thought you handled that very well.

30:03

Most people would probably went over there and beat the shit out of them or probably pulled out a gun, and you just sat there and just yelled at her And I said I wanted to hurt her with my words And there was no other way to hurt her, because I'm not going to hurt her physically in any way, shape or form.

30:23

I'm not that type of person. I've worked hard on not thinking of things like that.

30:27

Having PTSD, i says I feel so proud of myself And I said, first of all, i was proud of myself for not doing anything worse than that.

30:34

Second, i felt such a burden just saying my peace to her because she's the one I needed to say it to, because she's been avoiding me, because she didn't want to have that confrontation And for me to go out and have it to her.

30:46

And I said she can record all she wants.

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I said I don't really care because I'm never going to hurt her.

30:50

You're not doing anything wrong now. And, like me and Melissa, wednesday we went to my kickball game.

30:54

So Melissa's like I'm going to park in your spot so she doesn't park her car on purpose.

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So I was like okay, so I pulled up my car next to his, because he's parked down the front And she's standing there with her hands on her hips looking.

31:05

And then Melissa saw her and Melissa flipped her off and we got into the car and drove off.

31:09

So then I come back home It was about 8.39 o'clock at night She comes out the door and she doesn't think that I could see her.

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It's dark back there because they don't have a light back there in front of her house.

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So it was really dark and I saw her And I know her husband's not home.

31:24

He's probably on some kind of trip because he hasn't moved his car for the whole week.

31:27

They make it pretty easy to know when they're home and when they're not home, and who's home and when who's not home.

31:32

And I know it's her And I just say, hey, you fucking cop, i'm not touching your fucking car, i'm not anything like you, so fuck off.

31:38

And then I walked into my house And she said something, but I don't know what she said.

31:41

So that was it. So I really haven't had to see him.

31:44

They don't come out the front door anymore. They come out the front door, they go straight to the back through the alley and they do their walk to take their dogs.

31:50

They don't come anywhere near me anymore.

31:52

So good Yeah, fuck them. So that was my story.

31:59

I wanted to say that and I want to let people know Please do not use violence.

32:03

If you got something to say, just say it and let them have it with their words, and words that you probably would never use, like me, but it hurts them And you know what That's it.

32:16

Sometimes, if people refuse to talk, that's what you have to do.

32:19

And if you're going to do that, yeah, make sure you're somewhere neutral or your house, and don't approach them when you yell at them.

32:35

Keep your distance, don't get violent.

32:38

Don't get violent. You can scream and yell all you want, but just I know there's people out there that just drive everybody nuts And our first thing is nowadays it seems like everybody has a gun.

32:50

Seriously, What was the officer's name?

32:52

Lieutenant Diaz. Lieutenant Diaz, I want to shout out to you Thanks for being rational and reasonable And so often, yeah, the thing that gets the police called is I had to blow off some steam and now I'm done.

33:05

Yeah, And that's what I told her. I'm done, I don't you know.

33:08

And she's like well, they wanted to have a mediation so we can have you know, they wanted to be friends with you again And I'm like that's not going to happen.

33:14

That's yeah. No, I'm sorry They blew that when they called me a name that is attacking my character, And she let them know they went on vacation for two weeks.

33:23

I don't know where they went, but they were gone So I didn't have to see them.

33:26

Then I know she was torn up about it. Wow, And I'm like good, I'm glad you took a video of that so you can listen to it every day.

33:33

Seriously, Yeah, Just to remind yourself of who you are.

33:37

Yeah, And you know, I like this story because it's so common And I think it's the opposite of what people like you are.

33:45

A nice dude just trying to live his life.

33:48

Yeah, You're outside and working your lawn.

33:51

You hang out with good people, you go to work.

33:54

That's your fucking life. You were trying to be nice to your neighbors and they couldn't stop it being dicks to you.

34:00

I don't fucking like my neighbor And you know what?

34:03

I just don't talk to them. Yeah, Even if I see them.

34:06

Neither of us text each other. You didn't say hi, Like we get it.

34:11

I don't fucking like you, You don't fucking like me.

34:13

We live next to each other, and if you don't like me, just fucking tell me.

34:16

I'll leave you alone. Yeah, i'll say hi to you.

34:21

Well, and it was funny because after I yelled at her and stuff like that, jordan, she lives across the street.

34:26

She's a lesbian And her and her wife live in the unit across.

34:30

They have their big house California house across the street from me.

34:34

She came over and she sat on my porch with me and I said, do you want something to drink?

34:37

And she's like no, she goes. Um, no, i'm good, she goes.

34:40

I just want to come and check on you. She goes. I know you and I've heard some of the conversation.

34:43

I've had the door open and I've seen a profit open so she could hear, listen to the conversation.

34:48

She goes. I'm sorry that you're going through this.

34:50

I said I feel much better now. I said what I had to say.

34:53

I'm tired of having to fight with them.

34:56

I've told them and asked them many, many times to just leave me alone and they keep instigating shit to try to get me in.

35:03

My last nerve She used the one that I needed to say something to.

35:07

I said it to her. I feel so much better. I'm done Now.

35:11

I'm done. I just don't. I won't even say anything. I see her.

35:13

I don't even need to say anything to her, but I did yesterday or Wednesday because I'm not going to do anything to hurt their property or I'm not that type of person.

35:20

Well, that's juvenile life. Oh, everybody has cameras across street in my house, hello.

35:27

I find the best revenge is moving on with your fucking life.

35:32

It is, and I think that's why they don't want to let go.

35:34

That's why they keep instigating shit, because they need me in their life and it's like it's not going to happen, because I'm not going to do their grass anymore, for them anymore, because they're lazy ass people and I'm not pulling their wings anymore.

35:44

So they needed a yard Mexican.

35:46

Yes, they needed a Mexican to do other yard work for them And again, i didn't mind doing it and I love doing stuff outdoors.

35:55

That's what I do. I just, you know I grew up learning to do that as a kid.

35:59

You don't enjoy doing that. I didn't enjoy that doing that.

36:02

But as an adult, now I like it because I it's my property.

36:06

Now I understand where my parents are. Like you take care of the yard.

36:09

You know I want you to cut the grass. I can do this or what it makes sense It does.

36:13

So we don't understand that as kids, but as you get older you're like okay, well, it's money you're putting towards down.

36:19

You want your place to look nice? Yeah, and I do.

36:22

It's nice to be nice. Yeah, try to be nice.

36:26

Even when I meet people at the bar, i mean, and new people in there are nice and talking to me, let's buy them a drink.

36:29

Yeah, did I not You?

36:31

do that all the time, all the time. So, anyway, this has been lovely.

36:37

It's always lovely talking to you, so Do you have anything else?

36:42

you'd like to say Well, let's just keep the peace, let's just, we need more love in this world.

36:46

If we just had more love in this world, it'd be such a better place and it wouldn't be so sad with losing people that we love.

36:52

Let's just love each other. That's all we need.

36:55

If somebody's not nice to you, and it, just show them love back.

36:58

And I've been doing that for such a long time and I've lost my my way a little bit and I said some mean things.

37:04

But you know what? I've moved on again.

37:06

I'm going to start all over and I'm going. It's just almost like you're not a drinker anymore and then you take a drink and, okay, i got to start all over again.

37:13

So the same thing.

37:14

It's the same thing for me. So let's just learn to love each other.

37:16

Doesn't matter what we are, what color, it doesn't matter what our sexual orientation is, it doesn't matter, just as long as we love each other.

37:24

I'll tell you what. You will see a change in this world. So and I try to start that with me, and that's why I try to be nice to everybody, so it doesn't always work.

37:33

Change starts with you.

37:35

Yep, that's right. Being nice to people.

37:38

I like it. I love you, adam.

37:40

Thank you for having me. Of course It was fun.

37:42

Let's go out to the bar. Okay, let's go.

37:45

All right, bye, everybody Bye. Can you relate?

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Someone talking shit, doing you dirty?

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You got beef?

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I'll take it.

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I'm a red meat kind of girl.

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Send me an email, queery incorrect, at gmailcom.

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We'll get you on the show.

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