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Exposing Unruly Parents with Little League President Don Bozzuffi

Exposing Unruly Parents with Little League President Don Bozzuffi

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Exposing Unruly Parents with Little League President Don Bozzuffi

Exposing Unruly Parents with Little League President Don Bozzuffi

Exposing Unruly Parents with Little League President Don Bozzuffi

Exposing Unruly Parents with Little League President Don Bozzuffi

Wednesday, 21st June 2023
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Hello again . Glad you're back with us here on Raising

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. All right , let's get right to it . I am thrilled

0:37

to have today's guest in studio

0:39

. He's been involved in youth sports for

0:42

nearly 50 years . In some aspect

0:44

, Not only does he run and manage

0:46

his own karate studio , but he

0:48

has served as the Deftford Little

0:50

League president since the 1980s

0:54

. Most recently , he has made national headlines

0:56

appearing on CNN , Fox

0:59

News , you name it

1:01

. His face has been out there . He

1:04

is reforming the way that parental

1:06

behavior should be at

1:09

Little League Baseball Games . Don

1:11

Bazzucci , welcome to raising a champion . How

1:13

are you , Don ?

1:14

Thank you , i'm fine . Good Thank

1:16

you for having me .

1:17

Yes , Little

1:19

League president , this is something that I think you said that you've been doing

1:21

since what ? 1985 ?

1:23

Well , I've been involved since 1985

1:26

with the Deftford Little League . I've been the president

1:29

there since 2010 .

1:30

Okay .

1:31

But I've been in other capacities

1:34

on the board for years .

1:35

Have you had kids that played Little League Baseball

1:37

?

1:37

I have . They went right up through the ranks

1:39

and I coached them all .

1:41

But you decided that you wanted to be involved

1:44

and continue

1:46

to be in the Little League arena

1:48

. I'm a lifer , Are you ? Yeah , Because

1:52

you just what you like the development You like to see

1:54

at the grassroots level

1:56

I do .

1:57

I enjoy watching the kids and watching them

2:00

develop and watching them enjoy

2:02

themselves and just having fun doing

2:04

what they love to do .

2:07

As I said off the top , you've been part

2:09

of the Little League Association for decades

2:11

. How

2:13

has it changed throughout

2:16

that time , from the time that your

2:18

kids , you know we're

2:20

eight , nine , 10 , 11 years old

2:22

, to where we are now ?

2:24

Okay , it's

2:26

changed dramatically

2:28

in some aspects and other aspects it hasn't

2:31

. The

2:35

majority of the people that come to these

2:37

games are awesome . It's

2:40

like anything else in life . It's always a small

2:42

fraction of the people , and

2:44

I'd say two to five percent , and

2:48

back in the 80s they were

2:50

loud and they were obnoxious , but

2:53

now they're bordering getting violent

2:56

and really nasty

2:58

and verbally abusive and

3:00

profane , and

3:03

it's upsetting because

3:05

those people seem

3:07

like they think they're entitled

3:09

. I don't know why . We're

3:12

a volunteer organization , little League's volunteer

3:14

. All these people that are out there

3:17

are doing this for free , for

3:19

their friends , for their children

3:22

. They're giving up time

3:24

that they could be spending at home with their

3:26

families and they're getting abused . And

3:28

I just had it , and so

3:30

we had to come up with something .

3:32

All right , so you started in 2010

3:34

. It had

3:36

been 12 , 13 years , and so you've

3:38

seen the abuse

3:41

and you've seen just the

3:43

belligerence really

3:45

escalate to a point to where

3:47

it's yeah , and

3:50

we'll get into the fact that Little

3:53

League and a lot of sports are really

3:55

suffering because people don't want

3:57

to have to endure this type of

3:59

abuse from parents Exactly , especially

4:01

if they're not earning anything And

4:05

what they do it could be at some level

4:08

20 or $30 or $50 a game . But

4:10

so talk about , before we kind

4:13

of get into the levels and what you've

4:15

seen from parents over the years , what

4:17

you finally decided to do to

4:20

sort of combat the

4:23

behavior that you see from parents and

4:25

spectators that go to these Little League games

4:27

.

4:28

Okay . So over the years we've tried different

4:31

things . Okay , little League

4:33

International has guidelines that managers

4:37

and coaches and fans

4:39

that are unruly they can get suspended

4:42

for that game and the next . So we do that

4:44

. We'd wind up telling them you have

4:46

to leave or we'll have you removed for this

4:48

game and the next . But it's temporary

4:50

fix .

4:51

They come back next week and sometimes

4:53

it doesn't curb their behavior , it does nothing .

4:55

Sometimes they're mad when they come back . Yeah

4:58

, they're even more insistent Yeah , they're backward

5:00

events . Okay , all right .

5:03

So you found out that didn't really work all that

5:06

.

5:06

Well , okay . So

5:08

my umpire and chief came to me

5:10

and said we just lost one of

5:12

our dedicated on-line umpires uh

5:15

, two unruly fans . He said he didn't

5:18

sign on for this . So I sent out

5:20

a letter to all the parents , a

5:22

mass email , telling them to just , you know , calm

5:24

down , you know these are volunteers

5:27

, We can't chase them away . And you know , just

5:29

just go out there and enjoy your children and give

5:31

them some positive reinforcement and everything

5:33

will be fine . The very next day calls me

5:35

again . He says we lost another one . He

5:37

says you got to be kidding me . He goes no , they were really nasty

5:39

with him . He just walked right off the field

5:42

, said I can't take this , didn't even finish

5:44

the game , didn't finish the game . So , um

5:46

, luckily we had two other umpires on

5:48

the field that night , so

5:51

I I was a little bit more , uh

5:54

, i was really upset .

5:55

So so it was a lot You had lost . You had

5:57

now lost two umpires , And how many

6:00

do you typically need to

6:02

successfully navigate a season ?

6:04

We need a lot more than we've got We had . We

6:06

have , right now , five

6:08

to now . Now , you have

6:10

to remember , we have 25 teams , so

6:13

in our league with five umpires . So it

6:15

takes some , it takes some shuffling

6:17

around and sometimes we only have

6:19

one . I've , i've had to me myself

6:22

and the , the vice president

6:24

, had to do many games this year because and I

6:26

don't like , i like , i like to monitor the fields

6:28

, i like to walk around and make sure everything's okay . I

6:30

couldn't do that . I had to umpire . Same

6:32

thing with the vice president . So I

6:35

said that's enough . So I sent out an

6:37

email and I said now

6:40

we've lost another dedicated volunteer

6:42

For fan abuse . And I'm going

6:45

to tell you what we're going to do now . The

6:47

next time someone abuses

6:49

, humiliates or otherwise

6:51

is disrespectful to one of our umpires

6:53

, you're going to be barred from our field

6:55

. Unless you decide

6:58

, and you're and you're , you're going to go

7:00

by what we want , and that is , you're

7:02

going to umpire three games to

7:04

completion And when

7:07

you , when you're done , then we'll let you

7:09

back on the fields . This

7:11

way I I'm figuring okay , there

7:14

, nobody's going to want to do this . So

7:16

let's put them on

7:18

the spot and let them go

7:20

out there and see what it's like . That it's not

7:23

. It's not all . All a better

7:25

rose is after Yeah , It's not , it's

7:27

.

7:27

It's always easier on the other side of the chain

7:29

.

7:29

Absolutely , absolutely .

7:31

So your season started in April . Yes

7:33

, sir , okay , early

7:36

April .

7:37

April 1st .

7:37

Okay . Season started

7:40

in April 1st . How long into the season before you had

7:42

to implement this new rule ?

7:44

Okay , so those phone calls were actually within

7:46

the first two weeks , so

7:48

it was , it was pretty early . So

7:51

, uh , you know , so we've , we've

7:53

, and I said effective

7:56

immediately . So I don't want to hear it from

7:58

anybody And , um , it's

8:00

been remarkably good

8:03

. I mean to the

8:05

point of some people were coming up to me

8:07

and saying everybody's scared to say anything . And

8:10

you know what ? I don't want people to be

8:12

scared to say something . I want them to

8:14

enjoy the game and cheer on the children

8:16

. But if that's what it takes , okay , then be scared

8:18

, let the kids play .

8:19

Well , look , i mean , this is not like

8:21

we're walking a very thin line

8:23

here , right , i

8:25

mean we can sit there and say let's go , johnny , all

8:28

right , you know , let's get a hit Ducks on the

8:30

pond , sort of thing

8:32

And then , as opposed to what

8:34

the hell was that ? I mean I think we , i

8:36

think we know it's a pretty

8:38

definitive line here . I don't understand

8:41

why you could be afraid to say anything .

8:43

And you know , i wouldn't even mind what the hell

8:45

was that . I wouldn't even mind , right .

8:47

You know .

8:48

I mean , they get vulgar , and

8:50

this is in front of seven , eight

8:52

, nine-year-old kids . It's like , really

8:54

. It's like I know

8:56

, when these parents are at home , they

8:59

demand respect I , and rightly

9:01

so , okay . And then they come here

9:03

And what are they showing their children ? Just

9:06

the opposite . And what do the kids

9:08

get out of it ? It's learned behavior , okay , so

9:10

I know . So all I got to do now

9:12

, if I don't like to call , start yelling

9:15

at the umpire and screaming and saying bad words

9:17

like that he did , and he's not going to do it

9:19

again . He's going to make sure he watches what he

9:21

calls , and that's , that's what goes through my mind

9:23

Is this is this what they're picking up ?

9:25

You know , so have you seen that bleed

9:27

down to the kids over the years

9:29

. Oh , absolutely , they think that they can kind

9:32

of jog because when

9:34

I played nobody

9:36

talked to the umpire , like that was off

9:38

limits . You do that , your coach

9:40

is going to sit you and you don't see the game . Yeah

9:42

, you're done .

9:44

Yeah , well , it's a , it's a . It's a whole

9:46

different ball game out there

9:48

now . Okay , and with

9:50

the , the , the landscape of

9:52

our culture right now , it's

9:55

a violent one . Watch

9:57

the news And that concerns

9:59

me . I don't know people's intentions

10:01

, especially when they start getting irate

10:04

and they , you know it starts escalating

10:06

. We've had

10:08

people go

10:11

out and onto the field

10:13

and we had to go out there and remove

10:15

them and have the police . We don't know their intentions . Why are

10:17

they going out on the field ? You know it's like they're

10:19

not supposed to be out there And

10:21

it just , it's just very concerning

10:24

And I said , you know , i got to do something

10:26

before this escalates

10:28

out of control . So , and

10:31

that's that's what we came up with

10:33

. And you know what , if that doesn't work

10:35

, we're going to figure something out .

10:37

Okay , so mid-April you put this , you

10:39

put this new rule into place . Here

10:41

we are , two months later . Have

10:43

have parents had to go out ? Have you

10:46

had an instance where a parent has broken the rule

10:48

and now they have to go out there and not

10:51

yet Really Not yet . So it's actually

10:53

so . It has completely changed their

10:55

behavior .

10:56

It has , and it's it's become a deterrent

10:58

, and that's what I was hoping it would be . You know , just

11:00

listen , it's simple

11:02

. Just come and enjoy the game , but

11:04

let other people enjoy it also . Watch

11:07

your children , you know , and , and you

11:09

know , make some memories , and not bad

11:11

ones . And , and you know , when

11:14

you're out there screaming , you might be okay for

11:16

your little boy or girl to

11:18

to hear what you're

11:20

saying . But how about the other children out there

11:22

that aren't used to hearing those words

11:25

at home , and and and and

11:27

teaching them the wrong way to have

11:29

and disrespect It's

11:31

? it's just not acceptable

11:33

.

11:34

Yeah , why

11:36

do you think that is Like take

11:38

, take us back , you know , from 80s

11:41

, 90s to where we are now . That's when

11:43

I I learned to play little league . You

11:45

know 19 , probably 81

11:47

, 82 , 83 . And

11:51

there's not one

11:54

instance that sticks out in my mind where

11:57

and maybe there was , maybe maybe

11:59

there was some

12:01

parents , that kind of , but I don't remember that

12:03

being to where , as

12:06

a player , i would go to a game of

12:08

one of my baseball games and think , oh geez , which

12:10

parent is going to get out of control

12:13

and have to be tossed out tonight ? I

12:15

don't , i don't recall that . So how , why

12:17

do you think it is over the years that

12:19

is . It is that the

12:23

complete disrespect towards authority

12:25

and just feeling that they can

12:27

, they have no filter and

12:30

and just behave the way that they do

12:32

in such a belligerent way . It is , it

12:34

is , it is taken off the way it has .

12:36

Well , i think that people just think that they're

12:38

entitled . You know , we , we

12:41

, we charge barely anything and we have

12:43

a we , we have a program where , if you

12:45

sell raffle tickets , you could recoup all

12:47

your money . So I don't , i don't get it , if

12:49

that's what it is , but I've come up with the theory

12:51

that it's ignorance of

12:53

the rules . Number one . Number

12:55

two feeling that your child's been slated . And

12:58

you have to remember these

13:01

people that that do

13:04

escalate to

13:06

abuse . Their

13:08

child hits the ball , ground , ball . He's

13:10

not even halfway to first . In

13:12

their eyes , he's safe , already , already

13:15

safe . So when it , when

13:17

the call is , is different than what they

13:19

are expecting , they just lose it . And

13:22

and people

13:24

come to me and you know you've got to go

13:26

over there , so and so , acting like a loon in

13:28

the stands , screaming and cursing and like

13:30

, oh man , it's , it's

13:33

as I say , most of the people are wonderful

13:35

, but it's that , it's that small

13:37

percentage that ruined it for everybody

13:39

and and everything in life .

13:42

But you , you , you work with

13:44

kids , you not only in your karate studio to be seen

13:46

, but don't you think these kids look at this and

13:48

and they're embarrassed by their parents

13:50

? I mean , or or do

13:52

do they look at that and say , yeah

13:55

, that's the way it's supposed to be ? Because I would think that

13:57

that's the one thing that I wouldn't

13:59

want my kids to say it there

14:01

and say , oh my gosh , i'm . They won't say

14:03

it to you , but you , you know that they're

14:06

going to feel embarrassed .

14:07

Oh , absolutely . The

14:09

one good thing is it's usually the

14:12

kids that are close to the stands , the first

14:14

based pitch or the catcher . Everybody else

14:16

that's out a little bit more really

14:18

doesn't know what's going on . They just hear the cheering

14:20

and you know the screaming . but there

14:23

are , there are children that do hear it and get

14:25

very upset . I've had it over the years

14:27

. I've had children that I coached would would

14:29

, would be crying in the dugout Can

14:32

you please go tell my mom to tell my dad to go home

14:34

? Actually happen , really . And I had to stop

14:37

the game and go out and say can you please get so and

14:39

so out of here now ? And

14:41

she , she did . And I

14:43

mean these kids , they don't want

14:45

this . They want , they want to enjoy

14:47

themselves and play .

14:48

They really don't they're . they are not as settled

14:57

into wins or losses like these parents

14:59

are . I mean , they just don't . You know it's , it's , they

15:01

can walk off the field in

15:03

tomorrow's , another day . Yeah , they're just

15:06

not as invested in winning or losing

15:08

at that age .

15:08

They're not And and you know , they're

15:11

at the , at the point where they're learning , and they're learning

15:13

plays and they're learning situations , and

15:15

even though they might have thought , okay , that kid

15:18

, i thought he was out at first , but they're

15:20

not screaming , it's not the kids . The kids are getting

15:22

ready for the next play . Okay , so they called

15:24

him safe , so we got to force it second , so now I got to

15:26

do this and that , and this is what

15:28

I observe . It's not the kids . The kids

15:31

are there to play the game , it's . I

15:33

wish the parents would let the kids play

15:35

and just enjoy watching them

15:37

do that instead of trying

15:40

to throw a monkey wrench into gears and yeah

15:42

, you know , yeah , well , and , and , and , and

15:45

.

15:45

You sort of hit the nail on the head at this

15:47

level . It's all about development , it's all

15:49

about learning the skill set . Uh , situational

15:52

play , i mean that's the big thing about baseball is a

15:54

lot of it's so cerebral is to know

15:56

what you're going to do before

15:59

the ball is even put into play , and

16:01

, and , and , and , the little league

16:03

at the little league level . You know

16:05

this is , this is the time , this is

16:07

the age , this is the level of

16:09

play where you learn all of that stuff Absolutely

16:12

.

16:12

And , and John , you know what Little league is

16:15

recreational .

16:16

It's not like travel ball , where

16:18

you're , you're , you're expected to do

16:20

you know you expect to have a , to

16:22

not have the knowledge of the game , to know all of that

16:24

.

16:25

This goes beyond the realm

16:27

of baseball . What we're trying to teach

16:29

these kids are life lessons . It's those

16:32

, aren't baseball players out there to children . We're

16:34

trying to teach them more than just hitting the ball , although

16:37

we're doing that in the process of teaching them

16:39

camaraderie and sportsmanship

16:41

and respect . And when

16:44

these people come and they act like

16:46

that , what ? what ? it just

16:48

breaks down everything that we

16:50

try as an organization to teach these

16:52

children . And so you

16:55

know , if these people

16:57

are not happy with what we're coming up with

16:59

and they don't want to serve

17:03

the penalty , they can just go away . And

17:06

it's unfortunate because I know it's going to happen . They're

17:08

going to take their children with them and we don't want that

17:10

to happen . But we can't

17:12

have this happening at any cost . You

17:14

know there's other children out there that don't

17:16

need to see this , and if these people don't understand

17:19

that , then so be it .

17:21

Yeah , So , but it sounds like what

17:23

you've put into place , what you've implemented

17:26

, is having an impact And because

17:28

maybe parents look

17:30

at if I'm now being called on to

17:32

call a game and I take it it's not going to be a

17:34

game that their son's playing , right .

17:37

No , we know what those calls would be like . Yeah

17:40

, we know how that game would go .

17:42

So they don't get to umpire their kid's

17:44

game , which means that they got to make even

17:46

more time to be out at the field

17:48

. Absolutely Yeah , and at

17:50

the same time , oh , you know , then everybody's talking

17:52

. There's , hey , there's , you know , there's

17:55

Ralph over there , ralph , and

17:57

I'm sure that they become sort

17:59

of the pariah , the little pariah .

18:02

Absolutely , and we're

18:04

not going to put them behind home plate . Number

18:07

one , that's a liability , because if they don't know what they're doing

18:09

they can get injured . Okay , so we're going to put them

18:11

on a base to begin with . They're going to be on a base

18:13

with a certified umpire out

18:15

there with them And what we , what I

18:17

have told the umpiring staff when

18:20

this happens and you're out there with them , if

18:22

their call is incorrect , you

18:24

override it . You call

18:27

time and you override it . I want

18:29

them to know this is not easy . No

18:31

, yeah , this is . This is not just out

18:34

or safe , it's positioning

18:36

yourself . Okay , the balls hit to the right side of the

18:38

first baseline . You have to know how to go

18:40

out and turn And there's a certain way

18:42

you do it . And now you have to look at a certain

18:44

base . You have to know when to stop so you can see

18:46

the play . There's so much to

18:49

know . And just because

18:51

they

18:53

see that their son or whoever was

18:55

safe and the

18:57

umpire was incorrect , they're

18:59

going to be vocal about it until I guess they

19:01

think they're going to change the call .

19:03

I don't , i don't get it you know Well , but

19:06

don't you think in , in , in . We've

19:09

seen such a huge uptick

19:12

in travel teams . And

19:15

parents . Don't just look at

19:17

this as recreational . They

19:19

are trying to curate

19:22

the next Derek Jeter . They're trying to , you

19:24

know , develop the next Bryce Harper

19:26

out there . Yeah , You get , as you , as

19:29

you show me your Yankees tattoo . Uh

19:31

, that they've already . Uh

19:34

, from the time these kids are nine

19:36

, 10 , 11 , they've already , in their mind

19:38

, set the wheels in motion that I'm

19:41

, I'm creating the next baseball

19:43

superstar .

19:44

Well , well , that that's basically what

19:47

it is . They're , you know , their , their dreams

19:49

. when they played little league in high school

19:51

, their dreams didn't pan out . So

19:53

now they , they want their children's

19:55

too , and you know , and that's great to do

19:57

that , but they've got to . they've got to

19:59

come down to earth and understand

20:02

the percentage of

20:05

kids that that go

20:07

to , that excel and

20:09

make all South Jersey or all Delaware

20:12

, and the percentage of them that make it

20:14

to a D1 college program

20:16

. it's very low , it's , it's

20:18

absolutely low , let alone make

20:21

it to the pro level . So , you

20:23

know , have a . they should have the backup plan and start worrying

20:25

about that quite a bit more than

20:27

their , their , their children playing .

20:29

Well , take it , you know , this is the way that I look

20:32

at it is kids at that age

20:34

, you , you're , you're not developing

20:36

a college baseball player at

20:38

that age , but you're certainly going to burn them out

20:41

of the game before they even get there . Absolutely

20:43

, the chances of that happening are significantly

20:46

greater of burning them out before

20:49

they even get there . But to your point , i think I

20:51

think the number is two to 5% somewhere

20:53

in there that even play high school baseball will

20:55

then take it to the next level , and

20:57

then , of those people to take it to the next

21:00

level , maybe that number is

21:02

5 to 10% that they get a full ride

21:04

scholarship . So you

21:06

can see how the funnel gets so narrow

21:09

from the time that you know and

21:11

if you're playing varsity baseball , you're pretty good , pretty

21:13

good ball player at that point .

21:17

And that's what it is . You

21:19

know you want to know the truth At

21:21

this level where , where

21:23

a lot of these problems are happening , these

21:27

kids aren't thinking about high school ball . They're

21:29

not thinking about anything else except having

21:31

fun and let's play , let's play right now . And

21:34

they're just learning the game

21:36

And at

21:38

some point the parents have

21:40

to leave . leave

21:43

the game to the coaches . And what I tell the

21:45

parents when there's in

21:47

the past , when there's been instances in the stand

21:49

, i says listen , enjoy

21:51

the game , stop yelling out there . If

21:54

you have questions about what happened after the game

21:56

, go to your coach . Don't follow the umpire

21:58

out into the parking lot . Go ask your coach

22:00

. Your coach might give you some insight . He

22:02

might even say no , no , you're wrong , he was

22:05

out . Hey , you know . go talk to him and

22:07

he , you know .

22:08

But here's a here's a good lesson to teach your kids

22:10

. Guess what ? You're not always going to get the call .

22:12

Absolutely .

22:13

Now , failure is a part of life , mm , hmm

22:15

, yeah , you , you , you , you , you , you . By

22:17

failing , you know , you learn to pick yourself

22:20

up , you learn to realize , guess what

22:22

, you know , just like life's

22:24

not fair , yeah , you , you , you're going

22:26

to get , you may get a call . Third strike , that didn't

22:28

cross the plate , it happens , you

22:30

know it's . It's all part of the learning

22:33

process . If you're going to play sports , you're

22:35

going to realize things aren't always

22:37

going to work out in your favor .

22:39

We teach our coaches don't

22:43

work the umpires . read

22:45

the umpires and teach that to the kids . If he's calling

22:47

them high , teach the kids .

22:49

Yeah , That's a great point .

22:50

You got to be swinging .

22:51

Great point , yeah , no , that's that's

22:53

, that's perfect . So what do you have before

22:56

the season ? Do you have a meeting

22:58

with the coaches and sort of set , lay

23:00

out the expectations ? Or , because you've been

23:02

doing this a long time , you bring a wealth of experience

23:05

and to youth baseball . So

23:07

how do you , how have you incorporated

23:09

that into the way that

23:11

you run your particular league ?

23:13

Okay , each league has their own

23:15

player agent and that player

23:18

agent is a coach from

23:20

the past that's

23:22

well versed in in the sport

23:24

and they'll , they'll , they'll

23:26

give some tips , they'll give some , uh

23:29

, they'll go to their practices and show them . They'll

23:31

get them all together and say , okay , this is what we're going to do

23:33

. You're not going to do this And you know , and that

23:35

helps . And then they'll do some mechanics

23:37

on the field with them and show them what

23:39

they're supposed to be doing out there and where

23:42

they're supposed to stand when they're coaching and everything

23:44

. Um , you know super nuts , everything

23:46

that they could teach them . And , um , you know

23:48

, that helps a lot . And , uh

23:51

, our coaches aren't the problem . Our

23:53

coaches are when , when there's when there's

23:55

a problem , they call us up , say yo , i

23:57

don't get this , what do I ? you know this

24:00

happened and this happened . How do I ? how do I fix

24:02

that ? And we'll , and we'll tell them and they'll

24:04

say I'm sorry to call you . Listen , i want

24:07

you to call me , i want you when

24:09

you have a question , because we want the program

24:11

to run smoothly . And they do , they call

24:13

us up , we explain it to them and they're fine

24:15

, they're not the problem .

24:18

Yeah , Yeah , yeah

24:20

. Do the coaches work with these parents

24:23

at all , or to try to approach them

24:25

? I mean , you shouldn't have to be

24:27

the authoritarian

24:29

figure to have to go in and intervene

24:32

every single time , like the policing should

24:34

be done , i think , with the parents

24:36

who have already met with some of the I mean the coaches

24:38

who have met with some of these parents .

24:39

Yeah Well , i suggest to all

24:41

the coaches beginning of the year , you have a

24:43

sit down with the parents , tell them what's expected

24:46

of the children , what's expected of

24:48

the parents in the stand , and let them

24:50

know that there are boundaries and

24:52

don't cross it . And I

24:55

don't expect the managers

24:57

and coaches during a game , when people

25:00

are acting up , to stop the game and go

25:02

out there . That's our job . That's

25:04

why we monitor the fields And

25:08

we tell them you concentrate on that And

25:10

, even though they'll listen to you before

25:13

us , let us handle it And

25:15

you just take care of the children and

25:17

we'll take care of the parents .

25:19

Okay , Well , I mean that makes sense

25:21

. I know that there's other sports

25:23

leagues , other leagues and other sports

25:25

that they make you sign a code

25:27

of conduct policy , And is little

25:29

league thought about that in terms of putting

25:31

a code of conduct in there , or is that just they

25:34

sign it and boom ? that still doesn't really

25:36

deter them one way or the other .

25:39

Our town , deppford , new Jersey . We

25:41

were the first town in the state to enact a code

25:43

of conduct And

25:47

it's worked fine in the past . We've only had

25:49

to use that against a

25:51

spectator I

25:54

guess in 15 years , maybe a handful

25:56

of times . But

25:59

, that being said , you're always going to

26:01

get somebody that's going to push the envelope . They

26:03

don't care what you put into place . People

26:06

have been asking me oh , do you think that you're not going to have any

26:08

problems ? now I said , oh , we'll have problems , it's

26:10

a matter of time . There's people out there

26:12

don't care what we do , what you do

26:15

, they're going to test the waters . So

26:19

I'm prepared And

26:22

a lot of people have been asking me And

26:26

I've seen a lot of different articles

26:30

and stuff . I've seen things on Facebook

26:33

groups and they're saying this

26:35

will never work . You're going to have lawsuits

26:38

and you're going to have this And you're well

26:40

, i hope they understand that we thought

26:42

this out . We just didn't say , hey , this is what we're going

26:44

to do . So there's a process

26:47

for it and it's actually going to be more

26:49

work for us than it is for that person going

26:51

out to the umpire . So

26:54

first of all , we have to do background checks on them . They've

26:56

got to fill out a volunteer application . We

26:58

do two background checks on them . We do

27:01

the JDP background check and

27:03

I do a 50-state sexual offenders

27:05

registry background check . That's number

27:07

one . Then we have

27:09

to have the umpire a certified umpire go out

27:11

there and teach them field mechanics , go

27:13

over the rules with them . Then

27:15

we have to give them . In New

27:18

Jersey we have what's

27:20

called Rutgers Youth Sports Research Council

27:22

, which myself and the town mayor in Deppford

27:24

we give this course . We're

27:26

clinicians through Rutgers . It's a three-hour

27:29

course that's set up through the governor's

27:31

council . When

27:33

these coaches and volunteers sit there

27:35

for the three hours that we're going to speak to

27:38

them about the content

27:40

, they will be immune

27:42

from lawsuits . So now we're

27:44

protecting them that way also . So

27:46

it's not like this wasn't thought

27:48

out And Yeah , you

27:50

had to , we had to .

27:52

You can't just say , hey , we held a

27:54

30-minute emergency meetings , like , let's do

27:56

this . Yeah , you have to have steps

27:59

in place , absolutely . You can't

28:01

just , it can't just be a knee-jerk reaction , no , no , yes

28:04

. So

28:07

that's . What's pretty impressive about the whole thing is

28:09

that you have , like I said , and every coach

28:11

in any sport has to

28:13

undergo all those

28:15

background checks Sure , yeah

28:18

, and it has to fill out all the paperwork . I mean , that's

28:20

otherwise , then you

28:22

are open for liability Sure .

28:25

So we also make all of our volunteers and we're going

28:27

to make any of these people that have

28:29

to umpire . we also make them

28:31

go through an online concussion course so

28:33

that they could recognize the symptoms of the concussion

28:35

Yeah , even in baseball , right , yeah , exactly . So

28:38

it's been thought out . Could

28:41

there be bumps in the road ? Could there be things we have to tweak

28:43

? Of course , of course . Well

28:46

, you don't know until you test it and you see okay , all

28:48

right , this happened out there , that happened . We'll

28:50

do this now to protect us for that and to protect

28:52

them from this , and we'll figure it out . Yeah

28:55

, but I think we're on the right path And

28:57

the same .

28:58

Well , you better be on the right path , because

29:00

before you got

29:03

here today I was

29:05

sort of scouring the internet and the story

29:07

that popped up right away is that

29:09

in this area alone and

29:12

it's probably the same no matter where you

29:14

go is we're hurting for officials

29:16

. There's an extreme need for new officials in

29:18

all sports , all ages , all games , all

29:21

locations , he

29:24

says . The person that they talked

29:26

to in this article said his

29:28

first year he did 15 games

29:30

in a season . Now he's doing 40 games . He's

29:34

now doing almost triple because you got

29:36

less manpower And

29:40

what people don't really , i think . Oh

29:43

, they go on to say that they've probably lost 30%

29:45

of their officials . They

29:48

says we'll lose two or three a year and only

29:50

get one . So your turnover

29:52

is you're not filling

29:54

that need And

29:57

the problem is that

29:59

if you don't have them at the grassroots level

30:01

, there's probably

30:04

a trickle up effect That means they're

30:06

not becoming equipped

30:08

. You start at that level so that

30:10

you can work your way into

30:13

whatever the next level High

30:15

school baseball , junior high , middle school , high school

30:17

, and then , if they do minor

30:20

league baseball , whatever their aspirations

30:22

of doing it the bottom line is

30:24

as though you start at the bottom If you've got

30:26

nobody starting at the bottom . Nobody's ever

30:28

going to work their way to the very top .

30:31

Correct And the ones

30:33

that are quitting and walking

30:35

away . The number one I've

30:38

read a lot of articles . The

30:40

number one reason is fan abuse . They

30:43

, a lot of them , don't want to deal with it , and

30:45

I don't blame them . I wouldn't want to deal with it .

30:47

Yeah , i mean hockey , which I'm

30:50

at a lot of hockey games .

30:55

See , i'm sure , football All the context is worse .

30:57

Yeah Right , because you're

30:59

expected certain penalties to be called , and

31:02

I mean everybody's got rose-colored

31:04

glasses on for their particular team , exactly

31:06

.

31:10

And I guess if people would

31:12

think on their way to that game

31:14

, hey , things might happen

31:16

today that I'm not going to agree with . Okay

31:19

, well , get it in your head now that you're

31:21

not the one that makes that decision . If you

31:23

want to make those decisions , we'll

31:25

teach you how to do it . You could come out

31:27

and help us . Otherwise , if

31:29

you're going to stand on that side of the fence , you've

31:31

got to be quiet , and

31:34

if you can't just give positive reinforcement

31:36

to these kids , don't say a word .

31:38

Don't say a word . That's it . So

31:40

, since you've put this into play , tell

31:42

me some of the immediate attention that you've received

31:45

, because you certainly didn't expect that

31:47

a little Deppford , New

31:49

Jersey , was going to be

31:51

, you know , was going to

31:53

garner this much attention from

31:55

so many different media outlets .

31:57

It's unbelievable . I

32:00

sent an e-mail , a mass e-mail

32:03

out to the parents . The second

32:05

e-mail , and then I wrestled

32:07

with the idea of putting it on Facebook And

32:09

I said I just want to make this

32:12

local , i don't want this to get out of hand

32:14

in other towns around us calling me

32:16

up and saying what are you doing ? I said

32:18

heck with it And I put it up on Facebook

32:20

. And it wasn't long after

32:22

that that the media

32:24

started calling And

32:26

I didn't even know how they got my

32:28

phone number Until one of them said I

32:30

said how did you get my phone number ? It's

32:33

on your info on your Facebook

32:36

. I just said what .

32:37

I didn't even know I had my phone number .

32:38

Right , so but and

32:42

it went , when

32:44

I was at Fox and Friends , they

32:47

sent a car down to pick me up and drive me there And

32:50

I befriended this guy . I said , yeah , let

32:52

me sit in the front . We were just talking .

32:54

They sent a car down to drive you from South

32:56

Jersey up to New York City .

32:57

Yes , CNN did it too . But

33:00

when I was going with him , he

33:02

, on the way back , he said to me you

33:05

don't know what you did . I says

33:07

, yeah , i do , we're trying to solve a problem . He goes no

33:09

, you don't realize what you did . He

33:12

said I , i'm inside

33:14

in the green room , in and out of there all day long

33:16

. He goes . I was listening to the

33:18

reporters in there yesterday and they're talking and

33:21

the one woman I forget the name said to the

33:23

other guys is this has

33:25

gone viral across the country so

33:27

quick . And he said to her . he

33:29

said what is it , tell me ? he said to her this

33:31

is going to go global . And

33:34

it wasn't long after that I got

33:36

calls from Australia , cbs

33:38

News in Australia . They

33:41

called me on a phone conversation and

33:44

it went throughout the whole continent

33:46

. Canada same thing

33:48

. I think it was sun something . The

33:50

same thing , throughout throughout Canada . It

33:53

was like crazy This was . and

33:55

you know what it made me realize . The

33:57

reason is is not because it's

34:00

a novelty , because people realize

34:02

this is a big problem And

34:04

we've got to do something about

34:07

it . Mine , my solution

34:09

, might not be the answer , but what

34:11

I ? I ask

34:13

every coach that has contacted

34:15

me do something . You don't

34:18

have to do what we're doing . Do

34:20

something . Let's let the people know

34:22

we're not going to put up with this . We're going

34:24

to let the kids play , if you like it or not . And

34:27

if we keep doing this and keep that line of communication

34:29

open , somebody's going to have the

34:31

great idea

34:34

and we can all follow that . But

34:36

we're not going to know unless everybody does it . And

34:38

all those people out there were saying oh

34:40

, he's crazy , this will never work . What's wrong with him

34:42

? He's an ass . I said I really don't

34:44

care what they think . We're trying

34:47

and you have to try somewhere .

34:49

You have to try .

34:49

You have to try .

34:50

You have to try something at some point And

34:53

, like I said , you've been president now for

34:55

12 , 13 years You

34:58

can only stand pads for so long

35:00

and kick people out And cause at

35:03

some as you've said off , you know , at

35:05

the top of this episode is that

35:07

doesn't work anymore .

35:09

It doesn't . And you know what , john ? I'm

35:12

a true believer of this . Somebody brought

35:14

this to my attention years ago . Some of these

35:17

people don't even know that they're

35:19

acting like this . They're just so

35:21

. They're just so into

35:23

this game and the excitement of it , and

35:26

I'm going to tell you why . Recently

35:28

, since I did this , i got a

35:30

text sent to me from

35:33

somebody in my town , and this is how the text

35:35

went . This is after we initiated this . Kudos

35:38

to you , congratulations . This needed to be

35:40

done a while ago . I

35:43

applaud you for bringing this to everybody's

35:45

attention and having the guts to start it . You're

35:47

the man That came

35:49

from somebody . That's one of the problems , one

35:52

of the problems in our league , yeah , in the stands

35:54

And I was like I don't believe

35:57

this , it's unbelievable

35:59

, and it just made me

36:01

think they're right . Sometimes they don't

36:03

even realize what they're doing . They

36:05

got you know . Sometimes you got to .

36:07

My father told me It's like they step out of body

36:09

. It's an out of body experience

36:11

, exactly , and it's almost

36:14

as if you need to have a . And obviously

36:16

, with social media and everybody has a camera phone and

36:18

this , it's so easy that when

36:21

these episodes happen

36:23

, it usually goes

36:25

onto Facebook or it goes onto Twitter and

36:27

, you see it , it starts to circulate and these things

36:29

go viral And

36:33

you would think people would start to catch

36:35

on , say I don't want to be the guy that , but

36:38

it doesn't . And then you see more and more of it . I

36:40

see I've seen parents try

36:43

to climb the glass in a hockey game . I've

36:45

seen , I've seen parents walk out on

36:47

the field of a football game , you know , during

36:50

the game , and confront the ref

36:52

and punch them , so , but

36:54

it doesn't . It does it , does it , does it . They just

36:56

don't they

36:59

, they . It's no self-consciousness

37:01

and no self-awareness of what's what's

37:03

taking place in the heat of the moment .

37:06

You know they need to . They need to stop

37:08

, calm down , stop

37:10

breathe , count to 10

37:12

and then see if you're still that mad .

37:14

Well , yeah , and and and . Look , a

37:16

lot of sports have that what they call the 24

37:19

hour policy , which

37:21

is more directed towards a parent

37:24

and coach , where you don't like the fact that they

37:26

pulled Johnny after the fifth inning , or

37:28

pinch , hit him , or

37:31

he didn't get enough playing time , or

37:33

or , or you know he only

37:35

pitched one . Whatever the case , whatever it is And

37:37

there's , it happens in hockey , i'm sure it happens in every sport

37:39

But there's a 24 hour cooling

37:41

down period . You almost , you almost

37:44

need that in this board . There's a 24 hour cooling down . And , first off , you

37:46

should never talk to the officials . No

37:48

parent official interaction

37:51

at all . No , it shouldn't be , but but

37:53

it's the whole cooling

37:55

down period . You're right , that's a good point . Count to 10 . Do

37:57

whatever you need to do . Maybe walk

37:59

away , go to your car for an inning or two

38:01

, but you got to . Just , you got to breathe , you

38:04

got to .

38:06

I tell , i tell my own powers . When

38:08

, especially during the game

38:11

, when you're confronted in the stand , they're asking you

38:13

what was that call and how come you

38:15

do not turn around and answer them . I

38:17

said , well , all you're going to do , it's , it's . It's just going to escalate

38:19

. You're not going to change their mind

38:22

. So I do not turn

38:24

around and tell them why . Okay , let

38:26

the coach take care of it after the game . So

38:30

it's I've . I've seen them follow the umpire

38:32

out to the parking lot and I have walked

38:34

out there and you know , and , and we've

38:38

had , i guess about six years ago one of

38:40

our board members was punched in the face

38:42

. The , the

38:45

, the , the the irate fan

38:47

followed . um

38:49

well , came up to the stand to to confront

38:52

the board members about this umpire that

38:54

they didn't believe , like this call . And

38:57

when one of my board members tried to deescalate

39:00

it and tried to calm him down , he grabbed

39:02

my board members' phone , threw

39:04

it over the concession stand , punched him in

39:06

the face , took his hot dog , threw it in his face It

39:09

we , we pressed charges .

39:11

Yeah .

39:11

He's , he's this . This person is banned for life

39:13

. Yeah , so you know it's , it's

39:16

happened , it's , and it just

39:18

boggles the mind . It's like

39:21

over , over , and that was

39:23

over seven and eight year olds , over seven

39:25

and eight year olds children

39:27

.

39:27

It's astonishing , isn't it ? There's

39:31

Little League , uh

39:33

, up in Williamsport called and said hey

39:35

, we hear what you're doing . Oh

39:37

, how , how is it working ? What did

39:40

you ? what have you had to do in order to implement

39:42

it ? Uh , and you know , have they brought

39:44

you a board to , to , to help with

39:46

the sportsmanship , the gamesmanship

39:48

of , of Little League baseball ? They have not .

39:50

Okay , well , what the ? the um , the president

39:53

of Little League International came , came

39:55

on one of the uh , uh

39:57

, the the networks where I did a

40:00

um an interview and and gave

40:02

us kudos and said we , we

40:04

applaud Deferent Little League for uh , trying

40:07

to implement a a fun and positive way

40:09

. You know , and I , i appreciated that

40:11

, but they didn't reach out to us . I'm , i'm kind of disappointed

40:13

that they didn't , because I would have liked to to

40:15

discuss it with them . But , um , i'm

40:18

, I'm okay as long as , as long

40:20

as we , we have control of it . You know

40:22

, uh , in our town . That that's what

40:24

I'm concerned about , right , now ?

40:26

Well , i I would think that there's a lot

40:28

of Little League programs , a lot of sports leagues

40:30

that are going through this . How , what

40:32

can we do ? Uh , how can

40:35

we combat the issue ? How can we control

40:37

the environment ? Um , and

40:40

so , as you said , it's , it's probably

40:43

something that where you're going to have to put it

40:45

into your charter or into your

40:47

books , and this is what we're going to do And

40:49

that's what you figured out .

40:50

Exactly , and we're , we're right

40:53

now we're . it hasn't been tested

40:55

yet , but , um , it's been

40:57

a deterrent which is great , and people

40:59

are . uh , there was a an

41:02

article in one of the local papers just came out

41:04

last week in New Jersey

41:06

and they , they asked one of the parents

41:08

and she said I don't like , i

41:10

don't like that they call us obnoxious

41:12

parents , which I don't remember ever at

41:15

one of my players Referring as obnoxious . Um

41:18

, obnoxious as I guess they're , they're uh

41:20

, uh , their actions in the stands Right

41:22

. And , and she , um

41:24

, uh , she continued . They asked

41:26

her okay , have you ever been one of those parents

41:29

in the stands that have yelled ? And she

41:31

said , yes , i have , because

41:33

they make some bad calls sometimes and it makes

41:35

us lose the game . And he says he

41:37

said something to the effect of I think you're one

41:40

of the ones that don't get it . So

41:42

, so that's absolutely true .

41:44

So Yeah , so

41:46

you've done a lot at this interview process , right

41:48

? Yeah , i've done a lot . You've

41:50

done a lot right .

41:52

You kind of like it . I do , i like it , i

41:54

enjoy it . You know more

41:56

than just me liking it . I'm , i'm getting

41:58

the word out , and you know what ? I have a chance

42:01

to make a difference and

42:03

I want to . I want to take

42:05

that chance and run with it . So that's

42:07

why , uh , i , i haven't

42:09

turned down any , any , any interviews . So

42:12

I want to get the word out .

42:13

Yeah , Why I appreciate you coming on here

42:15

. You've done this a week

42:17

ago , uh , but

42:19

you were honored as the citizen

42:21

of the week and in , in , in , in , in

42:23

, in in in your town which is

42:25

a great honor .

42:26

That's good .

42:27

They they're recognizing you for the work that you're doing

42:29

in the little league which they made us . They

42:31

probably didn't even know your name , but what

42:33

you did for you know the last 13 years as as

42:36

little league president they do .

42:37

They know me and you know of

42:39

all all this thing that it went international

42:41

. That really hit

42:44

my heart because I love my town . You

42:47

couldn't pay me to go live anywhere

42:49

else And that was so

42:51

wonderful and important to me

42:53

. I'll never forget it . And they , they , they

42:55

treat me like , like royalty in town and

42:57

and I appreciate that And I'll do anything

43:00

for the , for the , for the people and the kids

43:02

in our town And I think they recognize

43:04

that and they honored me with this And

43:06

it was quite humbling .

43:08

Well , working with kids is is been in

43:10

your , i think it's just it's in your blood and

43:12

something that you enjoy because you're

43:15

wearing a shirt little t-shirt the Bizzuffie

43:17

Karate and Achievement Center

43:19

, which is right there in Defford . So

43:23

if you're talking about implementing

43:25

structure and discipline and

43:27

and a sort of a regimen attitude

43:30

, that's where it all starts And that's

43:32

what a lot of parents do is is they ? they

43:34

get them into karate to to

43:36

learn all of that . you know , authoritative

43:39

figure , discipline , and

43:42

I think if you have a child at

43:45

any age , especially at the young age

43:47

, you know they call them they're different names

43:49

little dragons , whatever they are but karate

43:52

. karate is such a good place to start

43:54

before they decide to branch

43:56

off and to do any sport .

43:58

Sure , i

44:00

, every now and then I'll sit the kids down and I'll make

44:02

them understand . I'll say what , why

44:04

do you come to martial arts

44:07

? What do you want that of it ? And most of them

44:09

will say , oh , i want to learn how to fight , oh , i

44:11

want to learn how to protect myself . I

44:13

said , okay , i says how about

44:15

the discipline and the respect that

44:18

that that could improve your life

44:20

? I said how many fights have you

44:22

been in ? Everybody raise your hand if you've been in five

44:24

fights . Nobody raised Four , three , two

44:27

, one . And very

44:29

few kids have been in a fight . But

44:31

how many times in your

44:33

life have you had to have respect

44:35

or discipline ? That's the important

44:37

things here , not the fighting . They'll teach you

44:39

how to protect yourself , but it goes far beyond

44:42

that and it's all up here in your head

44:44

. And they ? you'd

44:46

be surprised how these young kids

44:48

understand everything you're telling

44:50

them and they just soak it up like a sponge .

44:54

But that's the age in which they're

44:56

very susceptible to learning . Those are the very , those

44:58

are the very key years and

45:00

their development , where they are learning

45:03

, they are understanding , they're hearing

45:05

what you're saying and

45:07

as adults , you know it's probably in one

45:09

ear out the other . With them , it stays and it sticks

45:11

with them . Right , it does .

45:14

And you know I'll teach them , okay

45:17

, what I want

45:19

you to do . Instead of going home tonight and

45:22

saying , dad or mom , i want

45:24

you to call them sir or ma'am . And they're

45:26

like huh , and the someone the parents

45:28

will come to me and says It's really weird , he calls

45:30

me sir . Now I'm like , well , that's good , that's

45:32

, that's the respect , yeah , you know . And

45:34

so they get it . And and

45:37

those that do get it and want

45:39

to And want

45:41

to advance , oh , they get so good at it and

45:43

that could be part of their life . That's the

45:45

path that they're gonna follow and have

45:48

respect and discipline .

45:49

Yeah , how long have you had the karate studio

45:51

now ?

45:52

This karate studio I opened in 2017

45:55

, but I've been doing it most my life tongue

45:57

pseudo About 30 years

45:59

, but I started in judo when I was 12

46:01

.

46:01

Yeah , what keeps you going

46:04

between little league president and karate

46:06

studio ? I

46:09

take it that's not even your full-time job . You probably

46:12

do something else , right ? Yes , i

46:14

mean , that's what people don't understand

46:16

about officiating is that until

46:18

recently and when I say recently , like 15 , 20

46:21

years ago even NFL officials

46:23

had full-time jobs

46:25

because There

46:29

was , they didn't get paid enough Until

46:31

they redid their collective bargaining agreement in

46:33

a fell , they had separate full-time

46:36

jobs . Officiating was not a

46:38

full-time job in the national football

46:40

league exactly . So you can't expect that

46:42

at any level that this is a full-time

46:45

gig . They , they have to . They

46:47

love it . They're doing it because they love it , but they also

46:49

have to have a job to supplement what

46:51

they're doing .

46:52

That's , that's what you almost have to remember

46:54

yes , you do , and and

46:56

I Do it because

46:59

I love the kids . I love seeing

47:01

the impact that I could have

47:03

on a child and and it's

47:05

very rewarding and I have

47:07

kids that'll come up to me after class and

47:10

just hug me and it's like It

47:12

just melts me and it's like that's

47:14

what it's all about , that these kids Understand

47:17

we're trying to help them to

47:19

improve their life . And it

47:21

be a baseball , be its soccer , be

47:23

a karate They

47:25

look up to you and I tell my coaches

47:28

, when we give the Rutgers course , i say these

47:30

kids are hanging on every word

47:32

. You say don't think they're not and

47:35

you're special Because you

47:37

could say nothing wrong to them . So make

47:39

sure that what you're telling is the right thing , right thing

47:41

to do .

47:42

Yeah , they'll take it to heart , don

47:44

Bazzotti , president of The

47:47

Defford little league and as his own karate

47:49

of studio . Thank you so much for coming in . This has been

47:51

great been a lightning Educational

47:54

. I think that a lot of parents will

47:57

certainly take a lot of this to heart , and

47:59

maybe there's some little leagues out there that'll adopt

48:01

what you're doing , since it seems to be

48:03

working . It's , it's . It seems to be a deterrent

48:06

.

48:06

So far , so far , and

48:08

if not , like I said , do something . Doesn't

48:11

have to be what I'm doing , but be proactive

48:14

and do something be proactive .

48:15

Yeah , absolutely All right , don . Thanks so much . We're gonna

48:17

end our this episode , as we

48:19

always do every single week , with

48:21

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48:24

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48:26

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48:28

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48:31

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