What should define you, at your core, is the quality of your focus. How you direct your potential, and your emotions is going to make a significant fibre to yor becoming a husband material. In this episode, I discuss the importance of focus in

#HusbandMaterial: Power dynamics

Nov 12th, 2020 6m 43s

There's a time to be assertive, and there's a time to defer to your wife's decision on issues. The opinions of your kids shouldn't be dismissive because you claim headship in the family. In this episode, I talk about why a man should develop

#HusbandMaterial: Extended family

Nov 12th, 2020 7m 55s

Family should always come first for a husband material. Since family, extends beyond one's home to his parents, siblings, and even inlaws, a man should be able to regulate the relations between his extended family, especially his own mother,

#HusbandMaterial

Nov 12th, 2020 10m 36s

What does it mean to be husband material? Simply, it's a man that understands what a 'good thing' is, and appreciates that good thing. I unpack all of this in this episode and more in the rest of the series. #husbandmaterial #marriage #rel

#WifeMaterial: Basic requirements

Nov 11th, 2020 8m 33s

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#WifeMaterial: Slay queens

Nov 11th, 2020 5m 50s

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#WifeMaterial: Trophy Wife

Nov 11th, 2020 7m 39s

In part 2 of the series, I talk about the 'Trophy wife'. What do you think, is a trophy wife the ideal wife material? Let's get right into the conversation

Wife Material

Nov 11th, 2020 7m 13s

Every man's unconscious dream is to marry that perfect model of what a wife should be. Women come in various assortments and fabric, and that's wonderful. However, you need to be conscious of two basic things in your desire for a wife mater

Playing HARD to get: The christian alpha female

Jun 25th, 2020 6m 19s

In this concluding episode in the series: Play hard to get, I talk about alpha personalities and submission, what is it and what it is not, in the christian context.

Playing HARD to get (Pt. 2): Is it good advice?

Jun 18th, 2020 12m 12s

Today, we get right into the meat of the matter. Is it good advice to play hard to get? In this episode, I provide insights on the question using the personalities I had talked about last episode.

Playing HARD to get: Alpha Personalities and more

Jun 10th, 2020 14m 37s

Is it good advice to play hard to get?My answer to this question has sparked the new series for the month of June, beginning with this episode - Alpha Personalities and more.Your personality is a major factor in the outcome of a potential rel

Making the BEST of things: TEEN-BONDING

Jun 4th, 2020 9m 40s

When was the last time your teenage child saw you as a relational human, and not as a demanding parent? This should be a time of bonding between parents and teenagers, w

MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS (Pt. 4): Spiritual Growth

May 28th, 2020 6m 31s

If you have a strong spiritual conviction, you'll find this episode of great value.

MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS: SELF-DEVELOPMENT OPTIONS (Pt 2)

May 22nd, 2020 8m 14s

This is a continuation from last episode in the series. Here I focus on the importance of making healthy options.

MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS: SELF-DEVELOPMENT OPTIONS

May 15th, 2020 9m 44s

By now you must have watched as much TV shows and movies this period has afforded.So what's next? There's no justification you can give to let this period in history go to waste.We continue the series: MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS, with recommen

MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS: MARRIAGE ARRANGEMENTS

May 7th, 2020 5m 36s

Life shouldn't be suspended because the world is on lock-down.You can MAKE THE BEST OF THINGS during this period.Lock-down is not hibernation! Life must go on.I start a new series with recommendations on how best to make your marriage arrang

REALITY CHECK (Pt 4): DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Apr 23rd, 2020 16m 47s

We conclude this series with a somber episode, but an empowering one nonetheless.There have been a spike in cases of domestic abuse during this pandemic-instigated lock-down? The sad reality is that the virus may do less harm than being coop

REALITY CHECK (Pt.3): SEXUAL DISPLEASURE

Apr 19th, 2020 13m 26s

"Will you be my 'quarantine'"? 😍🥰😆Make the most of this #lockdown, if you are married, spice up your intimacy with your spouse - rediscover your sensuality and explore their sexual fantasies or what gives them pleasure.On this episode I

Reality Check (Pt 2): Great Communication Tips

Apr 12th, 2020 9m 8s

Communication is so important for your relationship to thrive. Communication during this lock-down should be a no-brainer,, but I get it if you don't know where to begin. Now that everyone is at home, it's time to foster bonding, on a deep

Reality Check

Apr 5th, 2020 9m 2s

Let's be honest, we don't mind staying at home at our own convenience, however, when we are directed to do so, all of a sudden uneasiness sweeps away our sense of composure.Take a deep breath. Now is the time to access the quality of your

When People Unlove (Pt. 4): When divorce is inevitable

Mar 29th, 2020 13m 27s

Are there grounds for divorce from a scriptural standpoint?Surprisingly, yes!.It's a sensitive topic, I know, come close,

When People Unlove (Pt. 3): The decision to separate

Mar 22nd, 2020 16m 22s

Am I all in for divorce in a marriage situation? Not exactly.But I am all in for SEPARATION. In this episode I break it all down.

When People Unlove (Pt 2): What Next?

Mar 17th, 2020 11m 3s

So the relationship has gone stale, is it time to discard it or is there a way it can be salvaged?In this episode, I provide the next critical steps you should take when you unlove.Please like, share and reach out to me in the comment section

When People Unlove (Pt 1)

Mar 7th, 2020 8m 38s

Love is beautiful, it really is. BUT...Love is also a decision, you can choose to get into and when it seems unhealthy get the heck out of.We begin this series at the very start, why do people 'unlove'?You ready?

Your Money, My Money (pt 4): Financial Red Flags In A Relationship

Mar 1st, 2020 17m 50s

We are at the final leg of the trip guys.Today, I'll show you what you should pay attention to in terms of financial red flags.Are you ready? Let's go.