Your perspective is your reality.  That doesn't make it reality, though.  Seeking a more positive outlook will enhance your life and the lives of those you date and fall in love with.

How does perspective affect your dating life?
1) How you approach anything has great bearing on how successful you are at it.

2) The perspective you have as you face anything plays into how quickly you give up when the going gets tough. And a spoiler alert here. Dating is tough.  

3)People are naturally drawn to others with a positive outlook!