0:05

It's Reggie Natale , coming to you from Love City , atlanta

0:07

, georgia , here with Jason Harry in the

0:09

windy city of Chicago

0:11

. And you know what , jase , this is going to be the first

0:13

show I've done with somebody actually driving

0:15

like . I see these shows , but

0:17

I've never done one . You know what I mean . You

0:20

are my inaugural Jason in the whip

0:22

show . You know what I mean ? Well , I'm

0:24

about to park right now .

0:25

I don't know how much driving I'm going to be doing to go up on

0:27

the park right now .

0:32

So , jase , we had talked a while back

0:34

ago and we always talk

0:36

, we always do these shows , jase about

0:38

women

0:41

standards . We talked about

0:43

Kevin Samuel's stories . We've done a lot of these types

0:45

of shows and I wanted a few

0:47

more of them because I think that's it's always an interesting subject

0:50

to talk about . And you sent me a video

0:52

about this

0:54

woman who was going to the Cheesecake Factory . I

0:56

think I have the video . Okay

0:58

, I think I have the video . So I'm going

1:00

to play the video if this actually works

1:02

for me , because , well , that's another

1:05

story , but I'll play the video and

1:07

then we'll kind of react to

1:09

it on the end of it . Let me see if I can

1:11

get it on here and get it played for the audience

1:13

here . Boom , there we

1:15

go .

1:18

Let's see if I can play on here .

1:20

Let's see what's going on here , yes

1:28

, did

1:33

you want me to flip from the door for you

1:35

? Oh

1:39

no , she show his face . Oh my God

1:41

, yeah , right , yeah

1:44

, this is the Cheesecake Factory

1:46

. What's

1:48

the problem with that ? This

1:52

is a chain restaurant . Who

1:54

takes someone that looks like

1:56

this to a chain restaurant ? You

1:59

want to talk about it ?

2:02

I'm talking about it . You want to talk about it .

2:04

Oh , yeah , I want to talk about it . Yeah

2:06

, come on , get up , we're going to talk about

2:08

it , all

2:11

right . So let's

2:13

go ahead and get that back out of here , because

2:17

that was what we were reacting to . Now

2:20

you know it's interesting about this , jace , is I see

2:22

stuff like this . I

2:25

didn't even know if this was real . I

2:28

thought this was maybe a skit or something .

2:30

No , no Was it real .

2:33

So give me some background on this , because you don't want to put me on

2:35

to this . To begin with , I wasn't even aware of

2:38

this happening and I remember it happened a couple

2:40

of months ago , a few months ago and I haven't

2:42

had a chance to talk to you about it . So give me some background

2:45

on this .

2:45

Well , from I just , you know , pull

2:48

like anybody else . I pulled it up on social media

2:50

and I didn't

2:52

think it was a joke because and

2:54

here's the reason why what I've been

2:56

seeing a lot lately is , you

2:59

know , when I look at other I

3:01

don't know if they're podcast shows or whatever

3:03

like that but these shows where guys are pretty

3:06

much exposing , you

3:08

know , society I don't want to

3:10

just point out and just single out

3:12

women , but just how there's single

3:14

and outs . You know where our society is

3:16

at right now , with how

3:18

sensitive we are , how

3:21

how particular

3:23

we are , how entitled we are

3:25

, how you know just everything . And

3:28

now , when I'm starting

3:30

to see more and more , it's like this

3:32

running joke that's becoming a little bit

3:34

more , unfortunately

3:36

, a little realistic , where

3:39

women have a list . Now

3:41

, women have always had a list , is you know , even

3:43

if we all have a certain degree

3:45

.

3:46

Yeah , we all have a checklist , yeah , a checklist

3:48

.

3:48

But this checklist for most

3:50

women it's like you know , what gives women

3:52

the it would give women . You know this , and

3:55

it's for me . From what I'm seeing , it's

3:57

a lot of it's based off of how they may

3:59

feel at that particular time

4:01

versus . You know , people's emotions

4:03

are changing all the time . So

4:05

right , but what has

4:07

been the running joke now on this list is

4:09

and I don't know if you've seen it , I'll send it to

4:11

you there's this list of where

4:14

not to take a woman on the first date , and

4:17

cheesecake factory is at it

4:19

. I don't want to say it's the number one , but it's

4:21

at the top of the top five Cheesecake

4:23

factory .

4:23

I love cheese .

4:24

I don't know , I don't know

4:26

, I do not know what

4:29

that's about . I don't like because

4:31

cheesecake look man , I like cheesecake

4:33

factory , me too .

4:35

Okay , I don't

4:37

know what that says about me , but I like cheesecake factory personally

4:39

.

4:39

I think it's all right you know it used to be

4:41

don't take them to McDonald's , don't

4:44

take them to Burger King , don't take

4:46

them , you know . Don't give them a happy meal , you know , or don't

4:48

give them that . You know that , that , that that two

4:50

, that $2 deal , you know , or something

4:52

like that , it or it .

4:53

look , I told her she could supersize it , you know

4:55

, or something like that , anything that you can order with

4:57

a number , so don't take her to a place where

5:00

you can choose a number . I

5:02

get way , I can get . Give me the number four , but it changes

5:04

all the time , that's no , what's confusing

5:06

is it changes all the time .

5:08

You can't take a bowling . You can't take

5:10

her to the pool hall . You can't take

5:12

her to you know . No , you can't take her to Dave

5:14

and Buster's .

5:16

You can't do all of them .

5:17

Good it's

5:21

so much out to the point where it's like

5:23

the , the stuff that's not , that's

5:26

not put on the list , of course , is state

5:28

48, . No boo , I'm in Chicago

5:31

, so there's RPM Ruth , Chris

5:33

. Um , you know the

5:35

top , the top

5:37

done places . You know , and it and

5:39

it's not a surprise to me , that this

5:42

is reserved for not necessarily

5:45

the 1% or the 0.01%

5:47

, but it's definitely reserved

5:50

for the top tier of

5:53

people that are within five

5:55

to 10% earners . It

5:57

takes time to get to that Cause

6:01

I'm always hearing about , especially

6:04

on these uncertain podcast shows

6:06

where the women are asked for what kind of man

6:08

you expect to get . And of course , it's the 666

6:12

deal where it's six pack

6:14

abs , six foot tall , six

6:16

figures . And we're not

6:18

talking about the low end of the six figures , we're not

6:20

talking even , we ain't even talking about 100,000

6:22

.

6:22

The low end of the six . We're

6:24

talking about cause , that's what they .

6:26

that's how they're looking at it now . It's like it's not even 100,000

6:28

. You know , minimum is half a

6:30

mil and it's like oh , stop it bro , stop

6:33

it man . And you know , I don't know if

6:35

you look at that they have that delusional

6:37

calculator now out for you know

6:39

, for women , where they pretty much calculate

6:41

the odds of them possibly

6:44

getting a certain

6:46

tier of man that makes that

6:48

certain money .

6:48

Where do you find that calculator at Jay ? Where

6:50

is that ? I found that . It's like I have no idea . I'm gonna

6:52

look it up . I'm gonna look it up . You can look

6:54

it up . You can look it up . We can do it on another show .

6:57

We can do it on another show . I know that

6:59

. I think shout

7:01

out to Russian Fit . I know that they had

7:03

. That was they were the first time I saw the delusional

7:05

counter calculator on their

7:07

on their podcast and

7:09

I saw it and I was like where'd they download

7:12

this ?

7:14

Where'd they get this ?

7:15

Cause I gotta get me one Period

7:17

.

7:17

You know what I mean . Well , every time

7:19

I have that conversation , let's go ahead and pull out the calculator

7:21

and check your , check your odds . You know

7:24

what I mean .

7:25

It's crazy because it's like , you

7:28

know for what ? A lot of these

7:30

women , the women that

7:32

were talking about , like this woman in the cheesecake factory

7:34

. You know , first off , you

7:37

know , I'm just going to say it she don't

7:39

look like much to me .

7:40

You know she's , she's not , she's not . J

7:42

out of one to 10 , what's the number For

7:45

her ? Minus

7:47

attitude because the attitude you might the the the Two

7:50

or three .

7:51

Two , two or three . Gracious Two

7:53

or three because and I'm , and you said attitude cause

7:55

, if I'm going , up just aesthetics . Aesthetics

7:58

three and a half .

8:00

Wow , I was up . I'm up to like six

8:02

, seven . I thought she looked all right until she said

8:05

stuff . Is this just talking about stuff ?

8:07

No , it's just you know what man , I'm just going to call it spade to

8:09

spade man , I ain't listen . First

8:11

of all , she . You know and

8:13

I'm going from shout out to rest

8:15

in peace my man , kevin Samuel's . She's

8:18

over , well over 20 . You

8:20

know , she's well over her 20s , so

8:23

her market value is down

8:25

. Second , even I , really

8:28

, if I was to even

8:30

see her in our prime years because

8:33

we look that she actually looks like she's not

8:35

too far from my age group

8:37

I'll probably wouldn't get with

8:39

her . Really , you

8:42

know , she , no , god no , because

8:44

I probably would , man , I can't lie to that .

8:46

I probably wouldn't myself , man .

8:47

She probably listened , she probably was

8:49

in her prime years . She probably was kind of cute

8:51

or even bored of line . Fine , I

8:54

don't know .

8:55

But we go to Cheesecake Factory and she would curve me and

8:57

so we , I would be getting curved like oh boy , cause I

8:59

would have thought Cheesecake Factory is all right . So clearly we

9:01

both would have been getting curved .

9:02

First of all , a man is taking you to

9:04

a respectable restaurant

9:06

to eat . He's feeding you , so

9:09

that should be a hands

9:11

down . That should be no issue

9:13

right there . If the man is respectfully

9:15

, you can tell that he wanted to go out with

9:17

her . I can just tell from the video

9:19

that he was , you know , very

9:21

happy to take her out . She didn't seem

9:24

as enthused , not even

9:26

from not even , not even the fact that they went

9:28

to Cheesecake Factory , but she just seemed like she

9:30

was just . You know what they call nowadays

9:33

foodie calls , where they'll just use a man

9:35

to get fed on a certain day .

9:37

You called it a foodie call . Is that what you said ?

9:39

No , I didn't come up with that I didn't come up with that

9:41

. That's actually been out there for a while .

9:42

There's a foodie call , though that's that's . That's

9:45

what it's called .

9:46

Right . There's certain women now where

9:49

they'll go out with the guy

9:51

, or multiple guys throughout

9:53

the week so they save up

9:55

on groceries . They just go out with

9:57

them . They're like , okay , I got him for Monday , I

9:59

got him for Wednesday , all right , I'll space

10:02

this guy out for Thursday . I definitely gonna need to

10:04

get something to eat on Saturday . Don't like

10:06

none of these dudes . They

10:08

ain't got no intention on dating

10:10

these dudes long term . They just using them for a

10:12

meal . And then , of course , after the meal

10:14

is over , hey , kiss on the cheek , maybe

10:17

, or kiss on the forehead , tap on the

10:19

shoulder . All right , you so sweet , I

10:21

gotta go . My girl's calling me , whether they calling

10:23

them or not . They in the Uber , they

10:25

in the cab , they going home . I got fed

10:27

, all right , cool , I ain't gotta fill up my fridge for

10:29

the next week . It's already good , I'm stocked up . It's

10:32

crazy . It's crazy , but

10:35

that's what it is , man . So

10:38

, fellas , be on the lookout . Man , beware , man

10:41

, beware . If the woman isn't

10:43

showing you too

10:45

much interest in the beginning

10:47

and then , all of a sudden , she won't give you a

10:50

shot . I hate to say it , because

10:52

some women might change them , genuinely

10:56

, change their mind , but do not be a second thought for

10:58

someone . Do

11:01

not be , oh , I'll reconsider , or whatever like that , because some women

11:03

just do stuff sometimes . Just

11:06

I just want to keep my options open , or whatever like that

11:08

when , as in fact , and I'm just gonna say it there's

11:11

average looking women that are not looking

11:15

, women that are thinking

11:17

like they're top tier and

11:19

I'm not trying to degrade women when I say

11:21

this , they look , I know where I lie

11:23

on the spectrum as far as looks on men . I

11:26

am not in my 20s anymore Now . Do

11:28

I consider myself an ugly person ? No , but

11:31

do I consider myself top tier ? Hell

11:34

, no , I don't . You know what I mean . It's

11:36

like I know where I lie and then if you want to

11:38

get in , that's just on aesthetics . But if

11:40

we're just talking about earning potential

11:42

on that value Richter

11:44

scale , I say I'm maybe

11:47

six and a half right

11:49

now Because I have

11:51

good credit . You see me in a

11:53

car . I'm obviously making

11:55

my payments . I ain't got repo yet . So

11:57

you know , I'm just keeping it honest

12:00

, I'm just keeping it on . Honey . I do

12:02

have , you know , credit cards and

12:04

stuff like that . I have good stand , I pay on time

12:06

, I take care of my bills , I'm responsible

12:08

. Now am I top tier ? Am I

12:10

0.01% ? No , am

12:13

I ?

12:13

It's hard to get in there , man , it's hard to get in there

12:15

.

12:16

Not everybody's going to be Jeff Bezos

12:18

or Elon Musk .

12:20

Not everybody's going to be you know

12:22

Bill Gates or

12:24

you know Jay let

12:27

me tell you a quick story here on what you were just saying

12:29

right there . Quick story it really happened . So

12:31

I was doing an event over . This is years ago

12:33

. I don't know if you know who Boris Kujo

12:36

is .

12:37

Okay , yes , yes , yes , boris .

12:39

Kujo . Okay , so I'm doing a show , an

12:42

event , and it was for the

12:44

mayor of Atlanta . I think it was like a birthday

12:46

party , andrew Young , and there was a lot of stars there

12:48

. My highlight was seeing

12:50

Julius Irving there , dr

12:52

Jay , I must force . That's what

12:54

my highlight was . Your camera's going

12:56

in and out , but I'm just going to keep going .

12:58

And as I'm sorry about that , yeah .

13:01

So my highlight was seeing Julius Irving . So

13:03

Boris Kujo is there , Okay

13:06

. And when I tell you this

13:09

guy had like professional

13:11

good looks , that it's like

13:13

all the other dudes in there , inclusive of

13:15

myself , Jay that disappeared Like

13:17

we're not even around , no more , we're not even all

13:19

. I saw a guy come

13:22

up with the Boris Kujo and tell him how attractive

13:24

he was . From another , from another grown man . He

13:26

went to him and said hey bro , you're an attractive

13:29

dude and he's killing us , he's destroying

13:31

everybody else in this room . So I understand where

13:33

you're coming from . You know what I mean . Sometimes you're

13:35

here , sometimes you're there . You know it . Just it depends

13:37

, you know .

13:38

You got to know where you lie on

13:40

the spectrum as far as where you're at , and

13:43

to be honest with yourself , to

13:45

be brutally honest , and that's I mean

13:47

I think that's more definitely in the

13:49

man culture but when we're honest

13:51

with it , when we're brutally honest with ourselves , it

13:55

gives us an idea on

13:57

you know what you can and

13:59

can't do or what you can possibly improve

14:02

upon . For sure . It's

14:05

not a put down . I

14:07

think that's the problem . A lot of people look at it

14:10

like it's a letdown or it's like You're

14:13

degrading yourself or whatever , and it's

14:15

like it's not . It's a reality

14:17

check . Now , does

14:19

this mean that Boris Kojo knows

14:21

all is all is God

14:24

? No , it just listen

14:26

. He's a man blessed

14:28

with some good aesthetics , with some great

14:30

aesthetics . You know , and I

14:33

remember him from when he used to

14:35

be on the soul food TV series

14:37

or whatever like that . You know when he was on

14:39

that and he played that and he was . He's

14:41

been married to his wife , or God knows

14:43

.

14:44

She was there as well , to a beautiful woman .

14:45

She was a beautiful woman , beautiful woman

14:47

now For a guy . I

14:50

I say it like this much respect to him , for

14:52

a guy who's a good-looking man

14:55

, you know , he

14:57

realized that this woman I

15:00

forgive me , I forget her name , but because

15:02

she's a well-known actress as well but

15:04

for him to recognize that , okay

15:07

, this woman loves me , for me it's not

15:09

just when I'm bringing to the table , is not just my aesthetics

15:11

, it's not just , you know , the money and everything

15:13

like that and they clearly is

15:16

the testament to their

15:18

relationship and how strong it's been

15:20

. So he just , you know , regardless

15:22

of all the women in the world and

15:25

I mean I'm sure it's some of the baddest

15:27

and finest , top-tier-

15:29

Nicole Parker .

15:30

Nicole Parker .

15:31

Nicole Ari Parker .

15:33

Nicole Ari Parker . Correct , yeah , correct .

15:35

Yeah , all the baddest and finest women . I've

15:37

heard stories , I've read articles on this dude

15:40

where certain people were interviewing

15:42

them . Women would just coming up to the interview like yo

15:44

, you got to get me in there . Yeah

15:48

, you know that . That's , that's

15:50

just how good-looking

15:52

he was , or whatever like

15:54

that . But it , but , but going out . Let's reverse

15:57

it to the women . The

16:00

the issue with

16:03

this is is that when it comes

16:05

to men , we're brutally honest . We

16:07

don't lie to each other , we don't

16:09

. We don't sit in the room the night we

16:11

the night we about to go out and get dressed up

16:13

, and stuff like that . You look yo fam , yo

16:16

bomb man .

16:17

You you got it no .

16:19

Like Eddie Murphy said in the movie boomerang you

16:21

know we'll . We'll say yo , that

16:23

bro look cool . You

16:26

know Sam , but we ain't going as far . Yo look at the shoulders

16:28

like no , we

16:31

don't go that far . You know

16:33

we'll . It will be on it , brutally honest

16:35

with each other to be like yo , you look like a hot mess

16:37

dog . You look like right , you

16:40

know I'm saying , or whatever like that . Or or

16:42

if let's say , some dude in our group is like

16:44

man , I can't seem to get the females or whatever like

16:47

that . Now let's say our homie

16:49

is not too tall , so you

16:51

like yo , man , you need to work on your mouthpiece . Fam

16:53

Need to work on that , need to work on that

16:55

mouthpiece . On your game , you ain't as tall as

16:57

the rest of us . So she looking

16:59

for tall dudes . You gotta , you gotta find

17:02

a way to count it for us . We got to figure it

17:04

out . Right gotta

17:06

gotta , we gotta figure it out because we gotta

17:08

stay real with ourselves , with women

17:10

. They lie to each other . They

17:13

lie each other all the time , right before they about to go

17:15

. Girl , you look like a teen , you

17:18

might be a size 10 . No , not

17:20

, no , not , no

17:23

offense , but see , women don't

17:25

? You might be a 13 , you

17:28

might . You don't say I'm talking about size wise , but

17:30

women will sit up there and be like girl , you

17:32

were nine , you were ten , you was seven point eight

17:34

, you're seven point five . Right now , as soon as you put that

17:36

dress on , you gonna double up . You're

17:39

gonna be a nine or whatever like that

17:41

. And they lie , they

17:44

lie hard .

17:45

Do you feel like man contributed that a little bit with

17:48

like us , cuz you know a guy like guys , man Go hit

17:50

on anything anyway and they're saying

17:52

anything . You know what I mean ? And it's

17:54

like either Jay Z's , a lot of women

17:56

stuck up from too many sexual advances , right

17:58

? It gives you a

18:00

false sense of where that really lies

18:03

when some guys are just horn dogs and they hitting

18:05

that they're shooting at anything .

18:07

Look , okay , you know what I'm gonna put myself in the pot . We've

18:09

all fallen short . Look

18:12

, and I thought look , and there's times where

18:14

I don't want to say I've gone to the

18:17

bottom of the barrel . I'm gonna say like I

18:19

haven't gone that low . But

18:21

there's been times where it's just like , look , I'm

18:23

just this , ain't even taking one for

18:25

the team . This is just just how I'm

18:27

feeling right now .

18:31

Word and I . It's happened . All the best of us . Let me

18:33

just go ahead and throw that out there , Look

18:36

.

18:36

I think what it is is we're

18:39

, of course , we're not gonna stay with that

18:41

person forever , but what happens

18:43

is is , let's say , the

18:45

person you get with isn't used

18:47

to getting someone of your caliber , because

18:50

that's happened to all of us at times

18:52

, yeah , but when ? But when it ? But when it happens

18:54

to women , because this is this happens

18:57

a lot . There's a lot of top tier guys

18:59

, right , that will get with

19:01

an average chick every now and again just for

19:03

the sake of like I , it's available , right

19:06

. What this does to the average

19:09

woman and I'm just

19:11

talking based off aesthetics what this does

19:13

to the average looking woman is it makes

19:15

them believe that

19:17

they have a shot with a guy

19:19

like that . So now they're

19:22

aiming for that , and that only

19:24

.

19:25

I wouldn't be saying that it's a new standard , basically what you're saying . That's

19:27

a new standard , it's a delusional standard

19:30

, oh , very delusional standard .

19:32

Because now , because , look , going back

19:34

to the Cheesecake Factory video , I

19:36

wouldn't be surprised that shorty

19:39

in that pic in that video , probably

19:41

in her prime years , probably got with maybe

19:43

some top tier dudes in her prime years , but

19:46

they weren't trying to keep her . They weren't

19:48

trying to retain her , but in her

19:50

head she was thinking well , I got them at

19:52

one point in time , so I

19:55

deserve top tier treatment

19:57

, pre-princess privilege

19:59

to the utmost for the rest

20:02

of my days . Now I'm

20:04

looking at the dude in the car . First

20:06

of all , you're rolling in a Tesla . I

20:09

don't know what he's pulling annually

20:11

, neither do you , but you're

20:14

pushing a Tesla . That

20:16

ain't no chump change .

20:18

No , it's not a cheap car . I'll tell you that it's not a cheap

20:21

ride .

20:22

So whatever this dude is doing for a living

20:24

, working an honest job

20:26

, kudos

20:28

to him for that . But however

20:31

, he probably wanted

20:33

to date her more than she wanted to

20:35

date him . Only reason why I think

20:37

she's .

20:39

I think that's how it looks , at least outside . Looking

20:41

in , that's how it looks .

20:42

No , look , this dude

20:46

got out the car to get the door

20:48

for her .

20:48

She's putting him on camera , he looking kind of like On that

20:50

gentleman's stuff right there , yeah , he looking like a deer

20:53

in headlights man .

20:54

He looking like well , you video with me

20:56

, what's the issue here ? What's going on

20:59

? And he was like you want to talk about it

21:01

and he's listen . I've seen the

21:03

whole video . He was very calm , he

21:05

was very patient and

21:07

extremely respectful . I

21:09

don't know if I would have had the same patience as my

21:11

man . Same right right , but

21:14

at the same time , I salute him for

21:16

the fact that he stayed

21:18

truly calm and stayed

21:20

poised throughout the entire time , or whatever like

21:22

that Got back in his ride

21:25

that she locked him , out of which

21:28

Baffled her . His

21:31

car .

21:32

She locked him out of his car .

21:33

Locked him out of his ride .

21:34

Funny video . Man , that was a funny video , I

21:36

did enjoy . You're right , that was very

21:38

funny .

21:40

I would have been like , and then

21:42

let's push fast forward Offer

21:46

. You know , after she pretty much expressed

21:49

that she didn't want to go there , here's

21:53

the other , here's the other . Kicker Got to bag it up

21:55

a little bit . That wasn't the first place

21:57

they were that he was trying to take her . The

22:00

reason , the reason why they ended up at

22:02

the cheese cake factory was because the first place

22:04

he was trying to take her was a spot

22:06

called I believe they called it Aria which

22:08

was a fan .

22:09

Yeah , I've heard it . Yeah , no doubt , no doubt

22:11

it was a fan .

22:14

Yeah , it was a very so . It's like right up there

22:16

with like no boo steak 48 , master

22:18

O's like one of those . I

22:22

say thank God he didn't take her there

22:24

, because what happened to that Like like ?

22:26

did it fall through ? Did it have reservations ?

22:28

No , she was late getting ready

22:30

. She took

22:32

a round of time . They were supposed to head out

22:35

Because if you look at the rest of the video

22:37

at the time that they was opposed to head out , she

22:39

purposely stalled and Was

22:42

an hour late . He was downstairs

22:44

or I don't know how the apartment

22:46

was set up , how her complex was set up , but

22:48

wherever he was waiting , whether

22:50

he was waiting downstairs , in the lobby or in his

22:52

car outside in the parking lot , she

22:55

took a whole hour before she decided

22:58

to come out . She didn't want to invite him in his house , okay

23:00

wait the hour .

23:01

He waited the hour . Oh no

23:03

, no , he know , here's my time

23:05

.

23:06

Oh she , she didn't want

23:08

to invite him in his place . You know , maybe take a seat

23:10

. Hey , do you want to drink water ? Anything like that , she

23:13

. Her response was I'll give it semi-valid

23:15

. I'll say it's valid because she said I didn't know

23:17

you . You know , I don't want you in my place , I

23:19

don't know you that . Well , Okay , fine , cool .

23:22

Is there a call when you get ready kind of situation

23:24

that you can just be like Yo just call when

23:27

you get there is there .

23:28

I do . If I said a time

23:31

with the lady , if I said a time with a

23:33

woman and you

23:35

know we , you know , I know what time the movie starts

23:37

or I know what time we made our , I made the reservations

23:40

for us , whatever like that . Me personally , I

23:42

try to leave out Hour

23:45

and some change ahead of time because I always factor

23:47

in traffic and just unforeseen

23:49

stuff that I know I don't know what's gonna happen

23:51

if I get there a little early , or

23:54

if I , you know I tell them , I'll text

23:56

them or call them hey look , I'm halfway here . I

23:58

know you're probably still getting ready or whatever like that

24:00

. Or I know that I'm a little bit earlier than I Anticipated

24:03

. I'll call them or text them and let them know

24:05

. That's my thing , that's what I'll do

24:07

. If I know that I'm running a little

24:09

bit late and I know I'm gonna be late , what I

24:12

try to always do is

24:14

hit them up and say , hey look , I didn't anticipate

24:16

traffic to be this bad . This

24:18

is bad time management on my part , but

24:21

I am on my way , or something like that . That's what

24:23

I'll do For

24:25

the most part on the woman's end and

24:27

because I'm only receiving it , I'm not the woman

24:30

. If

24:32

they're respectable . Nine

24:34

times out of ten I'll get a response

24:36

from saying either hey , are we

24:38

still on for tonight ? Right , I'm

24:40

getting ready , or something like that , if

24:43

they are running a little bit behind . I definitely

24:46

respected when they say hey

24:48

, I'm running a little bit behind , could you

24:50

, you know , do you mind ? Or something like

24:52

not a problem . Whatever like that if we have

24:54

, if they happen to tell me that around

24:56

the same time that Maybe

25:00

we might miss the movie or hell , we might miss

25:02

the previews or something like that , I'm not

25:04

gonna get upset about that

25:06

. If we have to rearrange , you

25:10

know , the movie times or the Reservate

25:12

dinner , reservations or whatever it is that we're doing

25:14

, you know , as long as she

25:16

calls and is respect or

25:19

text and it's respectable , I

25:21

have no problem working around that . What

25:23

I have an issue with is

25:25

when the just

25:28

how her whole attitude was in the

25:30

video where it was just like well , I

25:32

should be Pretty privileged

25:34

princess , treated regardless of yeah

25:37

, I got the car and show no voice , face

25:40

disrespectful . Well , when

25:42

he gets back in the car and

25:44

he goes through the whole spiel about her being

25:46

deliberately late , you know , when

25:49

they were supposed to be on time for the , you

25:51

know for the for the dinner

25:53

at the first spot , she

25:56

is very nonchalant

25:59

, she's very , she disregards it , she tries to actually

26:01

disregard it without accountability

26:03

. And that's another thing that turns me off

26:06

when you know you're in

26:08

the wrong but you don't want to acknowledge it

26:10

. You know , you

26:12

know you're wrong for that , you

26:14

know you did wrong for that , but

26:16

you don't want to acknowledge it now . Because , because

26:19

, see , now , because when , as soon as if you watch the rest of

26:21

the video he said , he tells her , he

26:24

says to her Well , look , I came to

26:26

your apartment . You weren't ready yet

26:28

. You took a whole hour before you came down

26:31

. That was around the time that our reservation was . And

26:33

she was like , well , I understand that

26:35

. And then she just talked over it . She

26:37

didn't want to acknowledge her part , her part

26:39

in the , you know , in the situation

26:41

where it was her fault . And

26:43

that's why I'm seeing where a lot of not just

26:46

her , but I'm seeing that with a lot of these

26:48

modern day women nowadays , where , when

26:51

it's their time , modern day , women .

26:53

I hear modern day women can explain what we got

26:55

to go here in a second , but what's ? Maybe

26:58

we'll do a whole show on modern day women

27:00

. Don't explain it , jason . I need more subject

27:02

. We'll do a whole show on that . Well

27:04

, not a problem , not a problem .

27:06

No , but well , I mean , I was wrapping it up

27:08

anyway , but it was just what I'll see

27:10

. A lot is is , when they're caught on

27:13

their , in their own lie , or they're

27:15

caught on their own BS , they

27:18

instantly try to , you

27:20

know , renavigate . You know

27:22

the storyline . They try

27:25

to . You know they try to push

27:27

. You know put , push the goalpost

27:29

a little bit more . They try

27:31

to . You know there's always this but

27:33

and although . However , there's

27:35

always a reason . There's always a reason . Now

27:38

, what I find funny about that is , if

27:41

we're in trouble , if we have to hold

27:43

ourselves accountable , then that's

27:45

it . It is what it is . It's like no , you

27:48

did wrong , you have to fess

27:50

up , you have to do this . But if you do wrong

27:52

, it's there's always a reason behind

27:54

it . Oh you , poor baby , you

27:57

have to understand what I'm going through . And

28:00

it's that in the third . And I'm just not the one

28:02

, I ain't the one Right , I

28:04

can't do it . You know they say be the bigger man and

28:06

turn the other cheek . Look , they did that

28:08

in the Bible . I ain't say none about me doing

28:10

it . So I

28:13

ain't going that route . You know I ain't gonna turn

28:15

the other cheek . You know it

28:17

ain't happening .

28:18

You know , we've done a lot of these

28:21

shows , man , and I feel like we're going to have some

28:23

more do . I've come up with like two more just in this show and

28:25

we'll do a whole whole series of these things

28:27

, Jase , once again , I appreciate you

28:29

bringing the A game here today , man

28:32

, especially you know , because we did a lot of shows J on

28:34

just audio shows , no

28:36

the video is still relatively new in

28:39

the process for me and I appreciate you taking some time out to

28:41

join me here , man .

28:42

Not a problem , I appreciate you , as always , brother

28:44

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28:45

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