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It's Reginald ATL , coming to you from the lovely city of

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Atlanta , georgia , going out to

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what I assume I guess is a sunny

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city of Los Angeles to know .

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How's it going ? Very , very safe assumption

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. I like that . Let's keep that going .

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We could just repeat that over , and over

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and over again . We survived the first , you

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know , the last show we did

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. We were talking about , like , I guess , like deal breakers

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and stuff like that , and we're kind of there too

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. We're going to talk about red flags here , which

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I'm pretty sure you have more of them than I do . I

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don't know if women in general have more red flags

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than men . The red flags are you like ? If

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so , if you're a straight man , the red

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flag is a lot of times just you not

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being a woman , and then , once you've cleared that

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hurdle , we're through most

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of our red flags there . You know what I mean . Like

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especially depending on how much interaction

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there's going to be , which I do have a question about

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too . So let's start on this . With

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red flags in general , they're

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very hard to prepare for because

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they are so subjective to know , right

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Like they are . So , depending on

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each individual , one person red flag , we're

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like he ate chicken wings with

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his hands , and I just don't like it . And

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then one might be like he ate chicken wings with a fork

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and I just can't take that . Like you know , it's

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like it's a different situation

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for different people . So how

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do you prepare for that ? Like , how does a person ? Because

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you know there's a lot of things that you can do better

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to get your dating life better

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or your romantic life better . Right

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, you can dress better . You can just practice . I

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tell people all the time with any kind of social

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situation , practice makes

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perfect . You know , if you're just practicing a lot and

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that will make you better

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at something , but this is not something that

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you can necessarily practice for right .

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No , and I feel like we have to tell the difference

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between yellow flag

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and red flag , because I feel like yellow flag

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, yellow flag .

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Interesting that you don't like .

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Red flag is like run away , I

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won't talk to you anymore , type stuff

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. That's what I see . I

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feel like , oh , like he choose with

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his mouth open , that's a yellow flag Like you

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could probably deal , or you guys didn't tell him to close his mouth

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, or ? maybe nobody

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told him his whole life . You know you're the one

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to let him know . Um , that's the yellow

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flag . Like a red flag is like you

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. He chooses an album . He told him to keep

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it closed and he just like spits the food

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at you or something . That's a red flag . Like

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yeah , that's a bit extreme there

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, or actually the anger

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that he has when you tell him to maybe

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close his mouth . That could be an issue . Um

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, I would look at it that way .

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So what's interesting here is the yellow flag versus red

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flag . I've never looked at

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it . So the green flag , I guess , is all good , the

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yellow flag is maybe you could

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work with it and the red

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flag is absolutely not .

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Basically , yeah , pretty much like . This

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is the no go . We don't need to talk anymore , we're done .

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So have you had it ? What

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are your ? What have you seen on the yellow flag

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situation from you that you've just like your

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real world experience ? You don't have to like call them

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out , but like your

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situation that you've seen , that you felt you could deal

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with , and then did it get better , like

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did it turn into a red flag later .

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Okay , so one instance would be he brushed

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his teeth with my toothbrush .

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Okay , well , no , no , no

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, no , no no no

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, no , that is a red flag off top . That is a red

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flag off top . I mean where

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you at Whose house were where . What was

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this ? How did this occur ?

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That's what I'm saying . He came over

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at my house I don't know if he

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didn't want to ask for one , or God is

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whatever but at first I was like , oh , let's use

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this one because you know , like you know , we're already

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getting it in , so that's not too far of a reach

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to use our toothbrush For me . I was like you

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are disgusting .

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And no , don't do that . Not

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the person I thought you were .

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Yeah , and I'm of course not going to use that after you

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like no good . For

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when I can , like I can get you another toothbrush

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, or like we have multiples , like we make this work

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for me , that I would say first time

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yellow flag , like hey , don't use my stuff

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like that , that's gross . But

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if you do it again , no , no

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nasty . I know

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we do other things , but I don't want your like your

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tooth , like your .

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That is gross , that is nasty .

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You're talking to me .

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Oh yeah . So how did you know he

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? Did you walk in ?

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I happened to walk in and I was like is

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that what we're saying ? We ?

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gotta have it right . Then , though we gotta have

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. We're not putting this conversation . What about that ? I just got to

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know . So did you say it right then

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, or did you like walk back out and compose yourself

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? What did you do ?

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It was a shock . I had to say something . Then I walked

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in and I like you know you look through , you

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have your stuff in a certain way , like I have my bathroom

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set up anyways , you know it's easy , quick , efficient , whatever

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. And I look over , I'm like it's

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not in its normal place and I see him brushing

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and I'm like oh , no , it's not

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really like a slow motion . We're like oh no

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, this is not real .

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Because that cannot be actually happening . It

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cannot be actually happening .

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So you have an inner monologue . And then it just came out like

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is that my toothbrush ? And he was like oh yeah

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, like I didn't have one .

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So I was like so

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that was your option , like that's

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, that's , that's

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where you , that's where you decided to go .

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And I was like oh , like , I hope you don't give

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you done that to other people , other people

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. Where did you learn this ? From who ?

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are you ?

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with before , Were

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they just like oh , now we're so close Like we'll

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share it .

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How long had y'all been like together

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? Or was it even a person that you were just

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maybe just smashing , or the person that you were actually like , dating

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and like ?

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we were , we were together . So I don't know

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, maybe that's why I thought I was like oh yeah , we're cool

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, we're together , we're never

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that together . I'll tell you that

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I don't like sharing my words . I don't even want you reaching

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over with your

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fork on my plate , damn near .

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You know what I mean . Like I feel a certain

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way . I don't I don't feel all the way about

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that , but I do feel away about it . You

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know what I mean . So what do you think I would feel about this

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? Like this is . This is horrible . Ladies

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and gentlemen , toothbrush is not toilet paper

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Like you're not going to be over here , like just

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sharing it . This is it's not communal Like

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with .

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now I have to share my toothpaste , but

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you can't can't share my toothbrush .

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Goodness gracious , that would be absolutely

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. You talked about disaster , disaster

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. You know what I mean , and I have some crazy

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yellow and red flags . Oh , tell

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me I do think this one is

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absolute red flags

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. That's because I don't like it . I don't like it I won't be able

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to look at . I won't be able to look at things the

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same way . So they're like the

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, the yellow flags , and

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this is going to sound . It's crazy because whenever we do these episodes

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here to know , I always come like , sounding

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like some kind of like . I

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don't want to say that I don't . I don't know if it's like . I'm

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not superficial , but at the same

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time , I just have my preferences and

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sometimes they come off as superficial when

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you say them and you just express them

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. Yeah superficial tendencies . Yeah

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, right , right , I have superficial

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leanings .

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I like that .

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It's kind of like but

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but I'm not all the way superficial

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. I understand that these things aren't okay , so

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for one here and it's going to sound crazy . But

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nails , okay

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Nails . I

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don't like when women

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and this has been something . I've not been able to shake

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this . I've been like this like all my life . Okay

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, I would like I call it

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like the island of nail polish .

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When you look at women nailed .

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When you look at a woman's nail and the nail

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polish is disintegrated off of her nails , like

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she has for some reason , refusing

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to take it off and

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fighting to keep it on , like , and it's

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just like getting smaller and smaller by the day

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and it's kind of like . So

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, basically , the nail polish is like the island

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in the middle of the nail and the nail is

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the ocean . And

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when you're looking at it and you're like why don't you

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just give it ? Just just you want it

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all three months . It's been 90 days

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. Please take it off , like , like

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, and I know it's so

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with me . I'm so much a live and let live

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person , didn't know . I've told you this before . We've had other conversations

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like , I'm not going to try to change a person , but

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these are things I would definitely look at for a person

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that , if I was you would hand her no polish remover

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and a cotton ball . Listen , listen

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, I . These are things that

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when people are dating and they're checking for certain things , this

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is one of the things I'm checking for , like , I'm checking

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for it on multiple , multiple dates . Like , if

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you're coming off this

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offer on , that's my , that's my pet

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peeve offer on

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, you know what I mean .

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Okay . So nail polish , okay . But what about like

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having fake nails or whatever your

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? If you have gel nails , acrylic or whatever

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, yo , if

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the joints is growing out if the growing out don't

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get to get your cuticle game together .

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Don't think I'm not hip to it . You know what I mean

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. I know I am hip to it and I see

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it . You know what I mean . And it's kind of

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like a little growth

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, okay , but I feel like you could have got ahead

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of that . Yeah , like half your nails showing . I

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got ahead of that .

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My nails grow fast .

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I'm just saying this is

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that's just a situation , that , and then like

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so and this is I'm not . You know , it's funny because

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I had a conversation with somebody about feet yesterday

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Because I

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was doing an event yesterday where

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a guy , one

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of my co workers , had said

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that one of the people that were at

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the event was an only fans person . And we were

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like and they asked a person like how

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do you know they're only fans person ? He's like , because I'm a subscriber

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and I and I

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know that's her and in which she specializes

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in is naked feet pics . And

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I said naked feet pics , what

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is a naked feet pic ? And

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I had another

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, so was a mixture , so it was me , it's a couple guys

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and a female coworker . We're kind of

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all just kind of talking . She's like yeah , man , like you know

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, there's a , there's a movement

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out there called no feet for free . It's going on out

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there on social media no free , no , no free

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feet pics . And they're like taking full body pics

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and like blur , like blurring out their feet or like

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cutting off the picture at the bottom

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, and I'm like is

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this really good ? money , I do

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not know , I mean I guess . So I mean you

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get your feet game together and you might change

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your life . And evidently

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that's what he said about . He's like

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you know , that's what

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she specializes in . I guess she's naked and then she's

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on her feet , which I feel like it's like an accessory of

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you being naked . Of course your feet are showing , your feet are showing

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when your clothes . A lot of times this goes like they're

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called like sandals , but but

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it's , it's . I guess some people

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are really have this fetish . So with me I don't have like a

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foot fetish , but I do like nice

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looking feet . They cannot be busted

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Like . There

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was a scene and this is going to like for pieces

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of all we back in the day is called Boomerang , eddie Murphy

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, great , great classic movie . If you're able

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, john Witherspoon , eddie Murphy

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, go back and watch it . It's a movie

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called Boomerang and there's a scene

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of remembering correctly the scene in the movie . I'm

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not , I'm kind of forgetting . I'm not sure if it was Eddie Murphy who

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was in the scene , but a

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guy , he sleeps with a woman and then

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he , I guess in middle of the night , like he like pulls the

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sheet up to like look

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at her feet and they were like busted , busted

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, looking , and that's the kind of

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stuff right there that I remember my life that's

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. That's a red flag . That was both of them

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. Both of them are kind of like

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red flags To be honest , they're like on you , they're a little

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no

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, if you look like you can like

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like climb a tree

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barefoot , no problem . I'm

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not the guy for you . You know you're not dating

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like a dancer . Valerie is high style

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Because they're going to have some like sports

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and stuff like that , and

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you're like athletes feet and I'm not talking about

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athletes feet , I mean an athlete's foot , like

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if you , if that's what you have and if you're all busted

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, I mean .

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I applaud your dedication to your job

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.

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You know what I mean . That's a very I mean

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maybe I'll come see you , you know play or

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something like that , but it's kind of like I don't know

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. We're not going to be together . No , and

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the socks is a no go . I'm going to need to see it , you're not

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.

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Oh , you won't .

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You're not bullying me , man

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. It happened with one person , but

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it's like it's . You're not . No , you're not

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fully me here . I'm going to need to at least

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see them every now and then you know what I mean

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. Just so I can know what I'm getting into

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. Because it's

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it , that's the situation , that it doesn't . It's

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not like I want to , because you know some people . Then

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they'll they have like foot fetishes , like they want to

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touch them , they want to massage them , they're

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all kinds of like . In that I'm not in it any that .

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So that would be perfect .

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It's gonna be like Visually

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okay , yeah , like right like

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just visually I okay , like they're not necessary

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, like I'm not like measuring inch , like hey , you're

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, your big toe was about

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an inch shorter than your other toes , like what it

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was going on here , like it's not , it's

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not like that , it's just a situation where

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I just want them like nice and in the same situation with

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them with the nail polish . It's the same situation

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, like either on or off , you know , I

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mean , that's not too crazy . I feel like that's like

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normal . You know . I mean , is that

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or does that sound wild ?

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No , it doesn't sound wild and I could see like you're

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just like you have to have this certain type of nail style

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or you know the length and only this color

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and touch up twice a week . You know that kind of stuff

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a little Little bit right but like you know

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, it's , it's whatever , like sort of the nail chipping . I

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can get that because that's it's really

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not too much to grab Some freaking nail polish

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and a cotton swab and just know real quick

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right across that month . So

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I can see that . But if you're doing like more , like acrylics

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and stuff , it could be pretty pricey to go and get

13:38

that feeling there every once in a while .

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You know what , man , I think I would have to put in on that

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? Let

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me know where the budget shortfall is and I'll throw

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something on it . I .

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Feel like you would , you would see it , and then

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you would send her like a cat or a freaking Venom and

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it's like Right

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, I just made an appointment for you .

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You need to stop by here at three . They're gonna

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take you to sugar . She's gonna hook you up , don't worry about it . You

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know , I like already knows what I'm looking

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for . So yeah , you just . So when we're

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talking about when

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we're talking about the red flags

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. We talked about a couple of Red and yellow flags

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on my side , and I'm pretty sure we might circle back to

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that at some point . What are your yellow flags ? Red

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flag situations ? Now

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, no one is it done ? That toothbrush situation is a black

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flag . By the way , I

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can give a oh .

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I got one more red flag . I got one more red flag . I got

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a , I gotta add .

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I gotta add this . This one I have to add because I have

14:37

a story to it and I have to add it and it's

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gonna . This one sounds crazy to a lot of people , but you would not believe how

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many every woman I've been with I've

14:45

just not been a problem . I do not like women passing

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gas in front of me . It's just gonna

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happen . It's

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not gonna happen like if that . If it happens

14:55

, things just won't be the same

14:57

, and I've tried to work

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it out . I've tried to work it out . I've

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actually been in this situation .

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What does she have to do ? Go to the whole restroom

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, leave you and then no , I don't know

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.

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I don't know what my exes have done , but you gotta do what they

15:12

did . I'm not sure what the hell they did . Now I'm like

15:14

like what I think when I have some really long relationships

15:16

. I'm not sure she didn't pass guys for 10 years around

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. I'm not sure . I'm

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not sure what she did . She

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did something and the thing is it

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happened to me and I was , um

15:29

, it happened to me and I

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think this is before , I'm not sure this is before

15:34

we were having sex Because it was happening , me and

15:36

she was like that kid and I was that kid and I'm trying to

15:38

, like , get her in the mood . I'm doing my thing , trying

15:41

to get her in the mood . And

15:43

, um , I remember

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like I don't know if it's just the way that we were laying

15:47

, but she farted like on my

15:49

left knee and I felt

15:51

it . And I remember going . I

15:54

remember going To

15:56

work the next day , right , because she was like , oh , my

15:58

bad , you know , I'm like all right , cool , I'm not listen

16:00

, I'm not gonna ruin the moment , we're here now . We're

16:03

here now . I'm not gonna ruin the moment . So

16:05

we're kind of doing our thing . You know , whatever , we did

16:07

our thing . And then I remember going to work the next day and

16:10

being like , huh , I don't think this

16:12

is gonna work out . And I worked with a lot

16:14

of women at that time and they were like what's going on ? What happened

16:16

? And I told them and they were like wow , that

16:18

was just like yo listen . Um

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, I told her it was all good

16:23

, but I know it's not all good

16:25

because I cannot unfeel that

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On my knee and

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even now that was 11

16:32

years ago I

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still feel it . You know what I mean . I

16:37

still know exactly where I was

16:39

. I know exactly how it felt

16:41

. You know what I mean . It's not like it smelled or anything

16:43

. It was like a little big type thing and

16:45

it was like , and I was , and she was like oops , my

16:47

bad .

16:51

I'm dead , I can't .

16:55

And I remember thinking like it's

16:58

all good , it's a human bodily

17:00

function , like it's all good , but

17:03

it's not all good .

17:04

Have you farted in front of your girlfriend ?

17:07

I try not to . I'm

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not over here like burping my name out and shit

17:16

and like doing all kinds of crazy stuff

17:18

like and like Inspecting her to be all prim

17:20

and prist , like I try to like

17:23

reciprocate that to a certain

17:25

degree , um , but

17:27

the thing is , if

17:30

so , if it's a happening I was to hear it Maybe

17:32

we get over it . If

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it's like silent , one .

17:37

What if you smell something ? It's

17:39

over .

17:40

It is F and over , and

17:43

I'm just telling you right now , like there , there is a

17:45

problem , right there there's a problem right

17:47

there . I can't unsmell that shit

17:49

, and the thing is just like you can't touch

17:51

up on you and you're like no . Nope

17:53

, because every time we smash or

17:55

something , we think I'm gonna think

17:57

about it and I'm gonna lose it . I'm gonna lose

17:59

it . Like you know , I'm not gonna be able to Maintain

18:03

a consistent situation If

18:05

that was , if that was to happen , because you know

18:07

, sometimes , especially

18:09

if you're like Having a lot

18:11

of sex with you in your relationship- yeah , like

18:13

you're part of something like that , yeah . I mean , wow

18:16

, sometimes , sometimes your mind wanders

18:18

and you

18:20

know I might just be thinking about hey , well , you know , I'm

18:23

not the game . You

18:25

know what I mean , and if I cannot

18:27

have that be one of the things in the rotation

18:29

of mind , it will mess you up . It

18:31

will mess me up because then it's instantly over

18:33

, like it's over , like some things . I can catch it if

18:35

I'm just thinking about hey , you know what I , I'm

18:38

smashing into my hey , what I gotta do at work tomorrow

18:40

and I kind of lose like no red .

18:41

You're really crazy , like you're in a moment .

18:43

Let's come back , let's turn back . I can get back on the road

18:45

. I'm good to go , something

18:47

like that . I'm off the road . I'm off road , not

18:49

busted attire . I'm not gonna get back on the

18:51

road .

18:53

Okay . So she's sweet and lets one . She

18:56

doesn't know she's unconscious . So it's

18:58

like can you , can you let that

19:00

go ?

19:00

or she's just like I feel like I have

19:03

to to a certain degree , but it better not smell like

19:05

, like , because here's

19:07

the thing about smells have you ever went someplace

19:09

and then like a smell reminds you of a place

19:12

like that ? Or a smell like

19:14

a certain kind of perfume or cologne

19:16

that reminds you of a person

19:18

says smells a very powerful sense . It's one of

19:20

the five senses , danelle . It's very powerful and

19:23

it's kind of like it

19:25

reminds you , like you can smell something like

19:27

you maybe go on vacation , something you remember how it smells

19:29

like , or an X , and you smell

19:32

that Perfume or cologne later

19:34

on in life . You know I can remind you instantly

19:36

of that person . But that's the same thing for a , I

19:39

guess , gonna remind you instantly of the

19:41

situation . It's gonna remind you of it

19:43

. Lasting thing to remind

19:45

you , um so , no , no , I can't use the

19:47

restroom in your like she got to go .

19:49

Bad number two you gonna make her hold it

19:51

.

19:51

You can't go on your way if you think that first

19:53

it's a red flag , this is a burgundy

19:55

flag . You know what I mean . You better not

19:57

like . You better find a situation where you better listen

20:00

. I , I

20:02

told and and I and this is true story I

20:04

told my because we had a situation

20:06

where we're at these one restroom because we're at have

20:09

other restroom was getting like worked on . So we had one

20:11

restroom , we had to use it . And

20:13

I told my girl said listen , if

20:16

you go , I , there's

20:18

a few things you need to do . You need

20:20

to make sure that the runway is clear

20:22

, like I cannot . The runway , yeah

20:24

, I got to know Give

20:27

me , give me , give me some range

20:29

. Like you got to know give me 20

20:31

to 30 minutes . I need to know that this

20:34

is your window of time . You got to go . I can know

20:36

you're doing it , but I can't .

20:38

You don't want to , you want to get you done it . No

20:40

evidence whatsoever , Right ?

20:42

So I was like yo , you need to get your spray together . Put

20:45

a window . If you got to get your courtesy flush

20:47

on , do whatever you got to do .

20:49

You're there , bested and poopery . I can

20:51

see you , I don't . It

20:53

is absolutely there .

20:55

It is absolutely there . Pupri is in the restroom , by

20:58

the way , ladies and gentlemen , it's not a game .

21:00

What if it's accident ? Or like no , say she's , she

21:03

might have ideas . So you're not going to date a girl

21:05

.

21:09

I cannot know , like I can't have you

21:11

go into restroom and making all kinds of noises in

21:13

there and then thinking like it's all , like

21:16

it's all good , because it is not . It's

21:18

not going to be all good , I don't want you coming to blow . I remember

21:20

one time I did that to somebody's restroom

21:22

and I felt horrible , like I went in there

21:24

and I destroyed it and I remember thinking

21:26

like yo , I was trying to like make sure didn't stop up the

21:29

toilet . I'm trying to make sure like everything's good , because

21:31

I didn't really . We weren't really dating like that , it was

21:33

more of like a fling , so I didn't really want it to be

21:35

like that . And

21:37

this is the kind of situations I just can't have . Like I

21:39

can't have , I can't have , lord forbid

21:41

. Like I told her like listen , I

21:44

want to just let you shoot the last and I'm doing

21:46

everything I can to ensure

21:49

that it will last a long time . And

21:51

so I'm just telling you right ahead Now , this

21:53

is just a thing that I that's like a super

21:55

sub burgundy flag . It's more

21:57

than the red sub burgundy red .

22:02

Oh , that's hilarious that I

22:06

can't say that . I've said they're a rip one in front of a duke's

22:08

note . Like who ? I don't . Personally , I don't want

22:10

to be doing that anyway .

22:12

Right . First and foremost , I don't think I'm a

22:14

tyrant . I feel like , first , what kind of human being

22:17

just wants to be doing that in general , like

22:19

, what are you doing ?

22:22

But I'm like you use the restroom and it's . I don't want to

22:24

like leave streets behind , but that's regardless of anybody

22:26

. I just don't want them like oh hey , look what you did

22:28

, like no , so

22:30

I will little . There's a scrubber there and

22:32

I see something . I will scrub the toilet .

22:36

Yo , so how big . I mean , it's not every

22:38

guy is like this , like , and I'm telling you right , this

22:41

is one of the things that , where there are just preferences

22:43

in life , like there are just preferences , and

22:46

one of the worst things about

22:48

this particular one ending with the nail

22:50

one , whether it's a nail one or whether it's the

22:52

passing gas going to the restroom . Like

22:55

the women that I've dated in the past

22:57

, it's not been an issue , except the one that farted

22:59

on my knee and that didn't last long . And

23:01

the women in general , like it hasn't

23:04

been an issue . So they're making it hard for

23:06

you . You know what I mean . Like if you

23:08

have what we dated and they've been you're

23:10

, you've been with and it's never happened

23:12

, it's kind of like I know it's possible

23:14

and that's you know . Know

23:19

it's possible .

23:21

It's , one day could happen , and I don't know man

23:26

, I would say one of my red flags

23:28

. I personally , I mean I don't

23:30

, I'm not into weed and I don't

23:33

really want someone else around me , I

23:36

know it is so hard .

23:39

It was hard , but I

23:41

just don't know . I don't want this .

23:43

Well , I think it's more so , like a lot of people

23:45

that are around , like the reliance on

23:47

weed itself , except like you're avoiding

23:50

dealing with what the really issue is or whatever

23:52

it's causing you to want to have to need to relax

23:54

, type mentality . So I think that's

23:56

what my main problem with that

23:58

would be is that , like you're using as a

24:00

crutch it's instead of dealing with the

24:02

problems that's

24:06

interesting .

24:06

That's interesting . And is that isolated to just weed

24:09

Like it ? Can't that be like a lot of different ?

24:10

No , it's same . Yeah , it would be all of it . So mostly weeks

24:13

I can't tell . I hate smell , but it's

24:15

the same thing with alcohol or anything else . If something's

24:17

becoming more of like , this is what I do

24:19

in order to relieve stress instead of actually

24:21

dealing with whatever problem that's going on . Or it's

24:23

more of like a trigger no , that's the red flag for me , like

24:26

because I'd rather somebody who at least communicate

24:28

or or let me know like hey , I'm going through something . Like

24:30

I need some help with this , you know , especially

24:32

if you want a long lasting relationship . I don't

24:34

want them to be their first thoughts , like I'm going to just know self

24:37

medicate this way instead of actually

24:39

working things out .

24:42

So what ? What do you ? Because me , I

24:44

don't think that's really unfair because

24:46

I don't like smokers in general . I don't date

24:48

smokers in general

24:50

. If I was a day smoker , maybe I would date it . If

24:53

we spoke before , I would date a cigarette

24:57

smokers , but I think

24:59

that I would prefer . Like

25:01

your vape .

25:01

You need to get your vape game together , like I

25:04

could do with that Water vapor pneumonia and

25:07

it's like like the same with hookah or you know

25:10

, I think they're almost all

25:12

the same to me , where I'm just like , nah , I'm good .

25:15

So then , where ? Where is that ? That's on your , your

25:17

red flags , and that's not like a yellow flag

25:19

.

25:20

No , that's more of a , that's definitely red flags . I

25:22

just can't . I literally can't stand it and

25:25

I was like it's no , you do it , cool on you and

25:27

do your thing or whatever , Just won't be with me .

25:30

So then you never dated a smoker

25:33

, a person that's not I have , and that's why I

25:35

don't like it .

25:36

No , that's the red smoker no , but

25:38

a weed smoker , yeah , and I'm like , no , I'm good .

25:42

So then , what are your your ? Is that your

25:44

biggest red ? Do you think that's your biggest red flag

25:46

that you have ?

25:48

Yeah , because that literally eliminates

25:50

a whole half of people Cause

25:53

you were , I'm in California , it is , it is . Everybody

25:56

does it out here .

25:57

Yes .

25:57

So just finding somebody who is not about

25:59

that life , I'm like , uh , one

26:02

day so

26:07

what about the yellow flags then ?

26:08

Like , if that's your massive cause , cause

26:10

, because I don't want this show to

26:12

be like seven hours . I don't want to go through all

26:15

the flags here . I'm not sure how many flags you have

26:17

on your list there to know . Well , I would go for

26:19

definitely your biggest flag , you said earlier , I've got

26:21

a list .

26:23

No , I would say I'm being honest

26:25

, it is . But uh , I would say yellow

26:27

is somebody who drinks excessively , um

26:29

, who doesn't know how to come like an alcoholic . Uh

26:32

, I didn't even be staying like a step below that where it's

26:34

like I don't want you to know alcoholic

26:36

yeah .

26:37

First , that's not necessarily like hiding liquor

26:39

and bottles or books and stuff like that , but people

26:42

don't read books anymore , so people are running out of place

26:44

to hide .

26:44

If they had one , that I'd be considered like . You have alcohol on there

26:46

, don't you Right ?

26:47

I have a single book . That is the only book

26:49

I've ever had .

26:52

I'm just saying what I carry on every time . I just love

26:54

reading it all the time . Um

26:56

, I would be yeah , definitely somebody who really can't have fun without

26:59

drinking alcohol . Like , if there's anything and they're going to be

27:01

out in this , even like remotely

27:03

social , they're going to drink . And I'm

27:05

like , if you don't know how to have fun without that , then why

27:08

are we together ? Like cause you have to be

27:10

tipsy every single time ?

27:12

No , that's interesting Cause

27:14

I would think that myself a social drinker

27:16

, but um cause , I can drink

27:18

, but I'm not A

27:21

person that is like waking

27:23

up hitting a bottle , not the person that feels

27:25

like every interaction with my , my

27:28

girl , needs to be . I need to go take a shot or something

27:30

.

27:31

So you're going into a vent and they're like we don't

27:33

have alcohol , you , but I'm gonna leave . Nah

27:36

, nah , I'm not that Somebody

27:39

who's like can't be there , than no . What's

27:41

wrong with you , bro ?

27:42

Like you , you don't have a personality outside I do

27:44

agree kind of with that , like you , you , if

27:46

you go to a place like it depends to because

27:48

sometimes I think that it

27:50

would depend , dennell on On

27:53

that person preference , like , let's say that you set it up and

27:55

it's like they're going out for the week

27:57

and they haven't drank all week , and it's a

27:59

Friday and they want to go out , and they want to go out and and

28:01

they want to go to a place that has drinks . I

28:04

don't know if , if choosing another place

28:06

that does have drinks is indicative

28:09

of an issue , you know , because they

28:11

haven't drank up to that point , you know .

28:13

I would say it's more of like literally , if only

28:15

time where for every time we go out you have to drink

28:17

, than no Like if we , you can't

28:19

enjoy yourself without that , then no

28:22

, I'm good because I'm like , then you're , then

28:24

you like . Your alcohol is your personality

28:26

. The only way that I can feel loose

28:28

and have fun or enjoy myself or be outgoing

28:30

or anything like that is alcohol than not .

28:34

That's interesting because I I

28:37

don't think I've ever been with anybody like

28:39

that . I'm trying to think

28:41

in my head . I don't think I've ever been . I'm a big

28:44

social I don't say big social drinker because I'm

28:46

not . I'm a lightweight drinker , so I'm not like I can't

28:48

like throw them back . You know what I mean . Um , but

28:52

I do like to drink in social settings . I've

28:55

always felt like If

28:57

you're waking up in the morning and there's like a glass of wine

29:00

next to your bed , yeah

29:07

, it's a little like , it's

29:09

a bit much . I call that like your . If you're chronic

29:11

daytime drinking is how and I know that maybe

29:13

even that sounds judgment , I don't know but if you're

29:15

Constant daytime drinking , it

29:18

makes me wonder like that's just a different

29:20

way of life in the sense of like I don't know why

29:22

you don't have things you have to do . You

29:31

got nothing else going on , sir . Like I'm

29:34

just saying like , don't

29:36

you go to like the store or something . So

29:45

if you're like banging it back , 930

29:49

am . You know what I mean and it's like

29:51

yo , you started your day like this . It's

29:53

usually Maybe that's indicative

29:55

of an issue , I don't know . You know it's

29:57

. I haven't really done anything like

29:59

that , would be kind of on my teetering

30:02

on my . No , that's an absolute red flag . It's

30:04

not even . I would say no

30:08

, you're not gonna be like just waking up , drinking

30:10

and stuff like that . Now Do you

30:12

consider like so ? So what's the difference ? That

30:14

a red flag basically is like a deal breaker , right

30:16

?

30:17

Yeah .

30:18

So when a person's making their list , let's go , let's

30:21

go through your list Person that's making

30:23

your list there to know is your list

30:25

like a deal breaker list or is it a Yellow red

30:27

flag list , or is it just deal

30:29

breaker list ?

30:30

It's impends what stage we are , because

30:33

, like my beginning ones , definitely

30:35

I would look more for the red flags , is I'm like why am

30:37

I gonna waste my time ?

30:39

be here three time Eliminate basically .

30:41

Yeah , yeah . So , and then after that

30:43

, then I give them more grace and have the

30:45

yellow flags . You know things we can kind of

30:47

work on together . I'm sure they'll have stuff about me

30:49

that they don't particularly care for . Whatever , I understand

30:51

that I'm , you know , everybody's human . They got their preferences for

30:53

stuff for sure . I would

30:55

start with red flags first and then turn into the

30:57

goal with the yellow flags .

30:59

How many are you tolerating on the yellow place ? How many

31:01

yellow flags become a red flag ? Is it like three

31:03

yellow flags equals a red flag ? As I

31:05

get older , you get .

31:07

You're getting the first one and Like

31:10

nope , nope , sir , no , you

31:12

know , I mean as a younger

31:15

, yeah , I would give you more chances . I'm just like oh

31:17

, I mean Flexibility . You know they're

31:19

learning , we're learning together , but I feel

31:21

like when you get to certain ages , like you should know better for some of these

31:23

things , especially if I'm able to communicate . That

31:25

was an issue for me . Not

31:27

being able to communicate .

31:28

I think communicate is very important , so that

31:31

would be a hundred percent at the top

31:33

of Any situations . As

31:36

much as I talk about the physical situations , that's

31:38

like number one

31:40

, right , because I Don't

31:42

like non people who are being nonverbal

31:44

in relationships . Kind of , if you earn a

31:46

relationship with somebody , you're sleeping with them , you're living

31:49

with them and all this other stuff . You can't like say

31:51

stuff to them , but then you're going to work and you're you're

31:53

running it all your mouth to everybody .

31:54

Yeah , especially

31:57

at a grown age , like you two were on to be doing on it

31:59

, I like why are you not letting a

32:01

person know who was actually like in your

32:03

household with you like ? I

32:05

would say that would be one of my red flags right there

32:07

too , because you

32:10

have the people who are just like you're having a conversation with them

32:12

and I can't bring something up Okay , you know , this was an issue for me

32:14

and then they dump on you everything that they've had

32:16

an issue with . I was like , okay , right

32:19

, like right . Why are you holding all of that in

32:21

, waiting till now to let go and

32:23

then be like , oh , you know you were doing it , so I'm gonna do it too . I

32:25

was like you could have done that before and we could have nipped these little

32:27

things in a button , yes , piling it

32:29

to one big dump . Now I don't know what to do with all

32:31

that . How can we even go go fix all that

32:34

and stuff ? So I don't like that one

32:36

when people just kind of complaint dump on you .

32:39

So what do you ? What do you do then with the

32:41

yellow ? How much time are you giving on those yellow pads

32:43

you are you having conversations about them immediately

32:45

? Are you kind of like , all right , well , we'll

32:47

just see if this gets better ? And then , because

32:49

People maybe just we wanted to see

32:52

if things can get better before they like really

32:54

go in about it , you know .

32:56

Yeah , I would say even Almost

32:58

. I want to say , like my yellow flags are reserved for me

33:00

being in a relationship with this person , like , yes

33:03

, we had the conversation , I want to be with you or

33:05

you know , we're gonna see , see things out

33:07

further . I think those right yellow flags are reserved

33:09

for them , like they would get more grace than anybody else . Somebody's

33:12

been on the street yesterday and

33:14

it's definitely one of those like hey , we talked

33:17

about it , maybe , you know , maybe something that I could

33:19

work on . It's not that big a deal and

33:21

something we kind of push past or work through , or

33:24

if it , if they continue to ignore

33:26

a boundary that I said , then yeah

33:28

, it's gonna be a red flag and we're not talking

33:30

about that . So if you're gonna do that now , at this young

33:33

stage of our relationship , then what I'm gonna do later on

33:35

we actually get through the advice of the standard

33:37

of you ignoring me or not considering

33:39

my feelings

33:41

in in our relationship

33:43

, then it's only gonna grow from there . So

33:46

like , why would I tolerate that and begin with .

33:49

I think that's fair . That's fair . That's there's nothing

33:52

. There's nothing . There's there's

33:54

a . I don't think anything irrational

33:57

in that . They sound way more rational

33:59

than than mine . Like you're mine , mine's

34:01

very straight

34:08

forward . Compared to mine , they're absolute

34:10

deal breakers . Yeah , even still

34:13

, I can't , I can't . That's just me being honest

34:15

with myself and honest with them . That's my communication

34:17

part , right there .

34:21

Well then now I have to think of a funny red flag where , just like

34:23

people will be like really , that's one . Yeah , it is , I

34:26

need another one for you . What's another

34:28

deal breaker for you besides

34:30

parting and feet ?

34:32

Yeah , it's probably like all like this

34:34

is stuff like that , like it's stuff like bad

34:37

breath . I can't unsmell it , like it's

34:39

, it's , it's . I can't like you're

34:42

, you're , I guess , like hygiene in general , like

34:44

your hygiene game has to be together , because

34:46

I keep buying together your hygiene games

34:48

to be together and I think that's one

34:50

that's more like substantial . It's not really just crazy

34:54

, is settling , don't

34:56

, do not settle , because I feel like when

34:58

you mean by that , though I

35:00

? mean like . So sometimes we get

35:02

into relationships and we're

35:04

in them for a very long time and then we just

35:06

feel like the person , like the we've talked about this

35:08

before . In a certain sense , the love will keep them .

35:10

There are the level here , except

35:12

whatever I give you type stuff .

35:14

Yeah , and it feel like , hey , when you first

35:16

met me , I was , I was hit , jim , I was doing

35:18

everything . And then now that we've been together

35:20

for a few years , I'm on the couch , let

35:22

myself go a little bit because

35:24

, hey , she loves me now and I got her , got

35:27

her down , so I'm gonna kind

35:29

of just lean

35:31

on that and I feel like that's complacency . It's

35:34

a certain degree , and I do not

35:36

like that because I am not like that

35:38

myself and and a lot of these things

35:40

too , all these things I'm not walking around like dirty

35:42

busted nails that you're not like .

35:45

All these things that I know you're like

35:47

, you're like , clear absolutely do not

35:49

there .

35:50

There , everything is together . Over here it's all the

35:52

way off all the time and the thing is is

35:54

like I'm the kind of person is like

35:56

I am definitely reciprocating what

35:58

I want from people . You know what

36:00

I mean . So I'm not that guy is going to be . I'm

36:02

not taking a person for granted . You

36:05

know what I mean . I'm not going to take a person . I believe

36:07

time is precious . Anybody just decided

36:09

they want to spend any amount of time with you . It

36:11

should be respected . It shouldn't be looked at and you get to

36:13

the point where somebody's just where they're

36:15

treating strangers better than they're treating you . Yeah

36:18

, and once that gets to that , once

36:20

it gets to that level , right there where

36:22

and I remember a friend who's dating

36:25

somebody like man , whatever somebody

36:27

new comes around , she's like a different person . That person I

36:29

first met , like you know to be just , but

36:31

then when they leave it's kind of like , well , you know , back to just

36:34

, it's just you know

36:36

, it's just you energy and I hate

36:38

that it's just you energy because I like

36:41

that we put that ?

36:42

yeah , that's hard . I never even thought about that

36:44

. Just you energy . Yeah , I could , yeah

36:47

it's .

36:48

That's a massive deal breaker for me

36:50

, because that's my time

36:52

, is still my time . Like I don't , because

36:54

we're in a relationship and been relationship for four

36:56

or five , six , seven years doesn't mean

36:58

that now I have 30 hours in my

37:00

day , or now I'm going to live to be 130

37:03

now because we've extended . We've extended on my life

37:05

and my time doesn't matter no more . No

37:07

, I believe , like your time always matters , that

37:09

24 hours a day always matters , and

37:12

who you're choosing to spend your life with always matters

37:14

. So it's kind of like I

37:17

want that to be reciprocated . You know what I mean . Like

37:19

I don't want , if you the things

37:21

that attracted me or the same things I want

37:23

you to be doing , I'm not going to have it where , years

37:25

down the line , you're just not

37:27

doing it because you've gotten so used to me being around

37:30

so comfortable yeah , I can write with that

37:32

.

37:32

Yeah , cuz I'm like I , especially somebody that I truly care

37:35

about , I would want to keep impressing you . I want

37:37

you to be like this is my girl . I don't know where

37:39

ever we go , so , of course , like I want to , I

37:41

want to keep myself up and all kind of stuff and then you know

37:43

whatever it is , but whatever that means for our relationship

37:45

pretty much , and I definitely wanted

37:48

to be like impress every time I come through . Like dang

37:50

, that's her . I got that like who

37:52

wouldn't wouldn't want that feeling . I'm not going to

37:55

be like that all the time .

37:56

So , even as you guys go by , and know , like with people

37:58

, like saying that you got

38:00

to walk around and high heels and lingerie

38:02

all day , type things . It's not that

38:04

. It's not that , it's just a sense of like the

38:06

same things that brought you

38:08

to the table would be the same things that keep you at the table

38:11

. You know what I mean . And a lot of times people's behavior

38:13

changes with time because

38:15

the comfort sets in and then you start to

38:17

think that this person will never leave me . And I've seen

38:19

this . I've seen this and then I've

38:21

seen massive hurt in

38:23

relationships when the person does leave . Our

38:25

friend that's going through that now . She

38:28

left for us and her husband her ex

38:30

husband thought she would never leave me . He

38:32

literally told her that I just didn't

38:34

think you were ever leaving , so

38:36

he was never the hell he wanted to do .

38:38

Yeah , that's easy to me they think that , like you know , being

38:40

married to somebody or

38:43

in a long term relationship is like a lock , like

38:45

you in , like you done . I was like no , I

38:49

still get out . Freedom is freedom . That is what it is , and

38:51

people are only going to tolerate so much , especially

38:53

when you , when you have always been with this

38:56

person or even put this person so long , and then , like you said , with your

38:58

friend , they're around somebody different or new

39:00

and you see a whole new side . I think that would be the

39:02

red flag to like when you go meet the

39:04

family for the first time and they act totally different

39:06

, like in your shock , like who is this person

39:09

like ? Especially if it's a guy , like you've been dating

39:11

for a while , you're expected to do certain things from

39:13

, like some of the traditional people , whatever could clean all

39:15

that stuff . And then you get to like go see his family

39:17

and you have been hanging around them for a little bit . You see him

39:19

doing things that he don't even do at your house . You

39:22

like , well , you done , put your plate up . What the

39:24

hell right , you never want to dish in your life over

39:27

here or

39:31

you know big one , like if you want to go

39:33

back to the little housewives or what knows

39:35

it , love and hit power , something like that . I

39:37

guess like somebody you

39:40

had taken so much from within the

39:42

relationship we've been over backwards , you know , accepted

39:44

things or whatever , and you see him around another woman

39:46

and he shows her a level of

39:48

care and consideration that

39:50

you didn't think was possible . Yes that

39:53

was like a stab , you

39:56

know .

39:57

I've been doing all this . You know to be like

40:00

I'm the person that's actually going to be here for you . These

40:02

are complete strangers . You know people and that

40:04

can be the same way with social media , like paying

40:07

so much more attention to

40:09

your virtual friends . When

40:11

you need money , you're not going to ask your virtual

40:13

friends , you're asking the person with you all

40:16

the communication skills in the world online

40:19

with your friends , your Mr , mr

40:21

or Mrs bubbly online , but

40:23

you can't be that same person for the human

40:25

being that's actually caring for you in your

40:27

house , right like it . You

40:29

kind of like devalue that . So I

40:32

would say that that's probably that in

40:34

communication are like massive

40:36

, massive red flags for me .

40:39

I would , yeah , I same , I would have to agree . I

40:42

was gonna say , if there's gonna be like a oh , a funny

40:44

red flag for me personally , oh

40:47

, we'll be . I , oh , I'm

40:50

a teeth person meaning . Clean

40:54

teeth period if you forget to brush your

40:56

teeth just once You're

40:58

done . Sir , I want you know plaque , I don't .

41:03

Get that dinner plan . Nails

41:05

said you better like for the dental plan if you don't take

41:08

nothing else .

41:11

You know , at least If

41:15

you're missing a couple of them . But

41:19

I like , I like a good smile .

41:22

Have a very teethy smile like my . My

41:24

smile is like all teeth man .

41:27

They're clean teeth and that's the thing

41:29

, and I guess it goes back to having the clean like

41:31

the fresh breath . You got a rotten tooth in the back

41:33

. Oh , dentist , I have great

41:35

health care .

41:39

Let's collaborate . I'm getting that fix for you .

41:44

Yeah , they don't have to be fantastic , but

41:46

at least like if you roll through a couple

41:48

mornings and it's like hey , what's up ? And I'm like bro

41:50

, you don't see that , you

41:55

know , you know it's gracious . Oh

41:57

.

41:58

What if it's just like I'm too picked ? Promise go , just go

42:00

. Go go to the bathroom and handle that go .

42:05

Yeah , that's fine if I'm able to tell

42:07

you that . But if you're just like , oh , it's fine , no

42:09

, it's not fine , tell

42:12

me to have . I got something , my tea , let me know . Or

42:15

or you know what people have like little the

42:17

corner mouth bitties , oh , Goodness

42:21

gracious . My

42:23

pet peeves don't , if people don't tell you that you have

42:25

something on your face like you're gonna be red , like

42:27

would it be yellow flag , because

42:31

some people like the firmware they like .

42:32

With some people there that's a

42:34

not . Sometimes they think it's being rude

42:37

actually say that

42:43

needs to be happening instantaneously , like

42:45

that is Before you even

42:47

leave the crib like , don't even let the person

42:49

walk out the door , like that . If you see it , why

42:52

and why would you hold that in ? I don't want to look at that shit .

42:56

Notting my downfall . Aren't you like

42:59

, cuz ? I've seen people do it and like they're like a dude

43:01

I like ? No , I know you didn't tell her as

43:03

she got some of a face and you let her go around talking to people

43:05

. I know you see it , but you're not gonna

43:07

tell her anyway , cuz I feel like it's a slow key , it's

43:10

manipulative , you trying to humble her a little bit because

43:12

when she finally figures out and you're like you , let me walk around

43:14

all this time with the stuff on my face . You like he had

43:16

fire . I didn't know . You didn't know what you mean

43:18

, I didn't know the problem . Yeah

43:20

, you did , sir , like you playing and that's

43:22

that kind of little things that are so manipulative

43:25

. I can't stand that . I'm like I had

43:27

a couple instances . People do that to a woman

43:29

or anybody around them , not and not say

43:31

anything . I was like you got they got the most crusty as

43:33

boogers up in there .

43:37

Goodness , my

43:40

red flag . Just you having them , I might be out of here . Just

43:42

on that , goodness gracious , we

43:45

went full circle Back

43:47

to my red play . Listen , that's what a

43:49

bed is for you . Better get in it . Go

43:52

, get in that bed . Me

43:55

work that out like a little nose crusty . No

43:57

, no , not red .

43:59

What about I booger ?

44:01

Nope , I Can take that

44:03

purse , but no , work it out

44:05

. Work it out , man , work

44:07

it out . Let me taste . The women are better , I'm

44:09

gonna better human beings . There's a

44:11

higher level expectation because women are just better

44:14

like man . I , if I was like a woman

44:16

, I'd be such be a lesbian . You kidding me

44:18

, I would not be fucking these dudes , what

44:20

so ever . Women are better , smell

44:23

better , they're smarter , they're

44:25

just better . So it's kind of like I

44:27

Just

44:29

couldn't , I can't , I can't go with any bro

44:31

type stuff . You know what I mean . And

44:33

you being crusty , you like

44:35

Burpin , farting and stuff , that's all

44:37

dude stuff to me and I can't , I

44:40

can't have it , people

44:42

are comfortable .

44:43

There's this thing it's like a level of closeness that I

44:45

I don't think I'll ever achieve , or nor

44:47

do I Right

44:50

like like somebody use your toothbrush right ?

44:52

I never , would ever be that close to you .

44:56

And like , with the advent of social media , people are

44:58

sharing stuff . It's like , like I said , like please

45:00

bring back shame .

45:02

Yes , absolutely Absolutely

45:05

, and he's lucky like it

45:07

. You didn't really put him out there because you could be warning

45:09

everybody else . Like listen , hide

45:11

your toothbrush if just dudes around like because

45:13

he sees no problems with it . You know

45:15

me , he sees no problems with grabbing your stuff . You

45:18

know what I mean , and it's not just lotion he's grabbing

45:20

on . So it's kind of like no , no , I'm

45:23

with that and I appreciate you taking some time out

45:25

because we want to talk more . We do a lot of these subjects , would

45:27

do some more research or fun subjects to do . Appreciate you taking

45:29

some time here to know .

45:31

No , thank you . I mean I have time to like really think about

45:33

some of these things and definitely upgrade

45:35

it to my yellows to red . So thank you , I appreciate

45:37

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