Since you were a child romantic love stories were painted for you that reassure you that love was enough to face any bad guys, hurdles, and problems. When you grow up and experience relationships of all kinds, you quickly find out it’s tough to love your way through certain disagreements. Being romantically involved with someone gets complicated. Tom and Lisa start here discussing when you move beyond the early days of physical attraction and the flood of chemicals that put you on cloud 9, what happens then? How do couples survive emotional outcries, insecurities, and arguments? If your goal is to make sure your relationship continues and is able to endure and sustain long term, this may be the most important advice you’ll receive. Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships. SHOW NOTES: Love Isn’t Enough | The controversy of love being necessary but not sufficient [0:27]Love Chasm | Why change during a relationship is what lies between love and divorce [1:53]Change | How change can cause big problems but communication is the solution [3:53] QUOTES: “It doesn’t get you over your insecurities, it doesn’t get you through arguments, it doesn’t get you through disagreements and problems and hurdles, you can’t just love your way out of it.” Lisa Bilyeu [1:36] “The bigger problem is that they never agreed on what it meant in the first place.” Tom Bilyeu [5:50]Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices