What is an anxious attachment style? That is the question I'm answering today. We take a deep dive into the preoccupied anxious attachment style. I go over protest behaviors, activating strategies, some tips for dating as an anxious person, som

AITA: Boy or Girl and Bridesmaids drama

Jan 31st, 2024 7m 12s

Am I the asshole subreddit is the topic today. I go over a woman who doesn't want her husband to know the sex of their baby because he doesn't show up for any doctors appointments. The other story is a difficult bridesmaid who doesn't want to w

What are Attachment Styles?

Jan 24th, 2024 14m 48s

What are attachment styles? We will go over attachment styles which is also known as attachment theory. We will discuss the four attachment styles, the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant a

AITA: Living in sin and I don't want to be the babysitter

Jan 17th, 2024 12m 6s

We are going over two Am I the Asshole subreddits. We will discuss a few adult children having to deal with difficult situations with their parents.

New Year New attacNew Year New attachment styles goalshment styles goals

Jan 3rd, 2024 12m 47s

We are going over two subreddits about the attachment styles. Or attachment theory as some know it. We discuss every attachment style; the fearful avoidant attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the secure attachment style,

What are Attachment Styles?

Oct 25th, 2023 17m 52s

We are going over the four attachment styles. We are going over the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the disimissive avoidant attachment style, the fearful avoidant attachment style, and the secure attachment style. Attached Book: https://

Attachment Style and relaAttachment Style and relationships and minding your own businesstionships and minding your own business

Oct 18th, 2023 16m 19s

We are talking about questions from Reddit. The first subreddit talks about someone discussing relationships and attachment styles. And the second one is Am I The Asshole subreddit.

Attachment Styles and Dating Tips

Oct 11th, 2023 17m 57s

We are talking about attachment styles and dating. I'm going to give you some dating tips I've learned from experience to help you identify someone's attachment style quicker. This way you can figure out if they are a secure attachment style, a

Karen mom and an anxious attached man makes improvement

Oct 4th, 2023 15m 43s

Today we are talking about a guy who is improving his anxious attachment style when his girlfriend goes out with her friends. And we are asking if a woman who told another parent to fuck off, is she the asshole? Attachment Quiz Option 1: http

Attachment styles and the holidays

Sep 27th, 2023 10m 31s

I am discussing attachment styles during holidays or significant events. The main focus will be on the avoidant attachment style. They tend to not like significant events and their attachment system may become triggered. I will also discuss the

AITA: Naan drama and sloppy seconds

Sep 20th, 2023 8m 56s

Am I The Asshole today covers naan bread drama and sloppy seconds. A boyfriend has special rules for his girlfriend with them sharing naan bread. And two sisters having drama due to having dated the same guy. Who will be the asshole?

Managing my anxiety when they need space

Sep 13th, 2023 10m 20s

This episode covers two Reddit questions from the anxious attachment style subreddit. Attachment Style Quiz Option 1: https://pds.idevaffiliate.com/151.html Attachment Style Quiz Option 2: https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.p

An avoidant anxious relationship

Sep 6th, 2023 11m 52s

In this episode we discuss the anxious avoidant trap. This is a challenging relationship where you have an anxious attachmen style in a relationship with an avoidant attachment style. This relationship tends to be long and dysfunctional. The an

Anyone have experience becoming more secure?

Aug 30th, 2023 13m 14s

A subreddit asks if anyone has had success becoming more of a secure attachment style. I read the question and some comments of some who have had some success become more of a secure attachment style. One of the key things for single people is

Attachment Styles Strange Situation Test

Aug 9th, 2023 12m 16s

I am discussing the Strange Situation Text used to group peole into four attachment styles. The strange situation test is a widely used experimental procedure in developmental psychology to assess attachment patterns between infants or young ch

An anxious attachment style person overthinking texting

Aug 8th, 2023 8m 12s

A question from a anxoius attachment style subreddit. It says. I've just started seeing someone new. We're just a couple of dates in, but on the surface it's going great. We get on crazily well, I'm really attracted to her and things have alre

Can two avoidant attached people have a relationship?

Aug 7th, 2023 7m 39s

In this subreddit we have a couple who are a fearful avoidant and a dismissive avoidant originally but have been moving towards becoming a secure attachment style. But during a situation the dismissive avoidants responds how an avoidant would.

Attachment Style history

Aug 2nd, 2023 9m 32s

Today I'm going over the history of attachment styles. If you are like me you'd like to know about the history of the things you learn. I go over the beginnings of attachment theory and talk about the pioneers, John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth, and

A Fearful Avoidant asks “How much time is too much time with someone new?”

Aug 1st, 2023 3m 58s

In this question from the avoidant attachment subreddit a fearful avoidant, also known as a disorganized attachment style person, is wondering how much time is too much time when starting to date someone new. The person believes they are dating

No contact from a dismissive avoidant but I need my shoes back

Jul 31st, 2023 7m 35s

I am reading from a anxious attachment style subreddit in which a woman is breaking no contact because she needs her shoes back from her ex. Anytime you break no contact you risk more issues. If you don't know if your strongest attachment styl

Common Avoidant ACommon Avoidant Attachment Style Traitsttachment Style Traits

Jul 26th, 2023 10m 13s

I am discussing the common avoidant attachment style traits. This can help you in the dating world and also if you are already in a relationship with an avoidant. Or it can help the avoidant attachment style person identify the things they may

Avoidant attachment frustrations with lack of community

Jul 25th, 2023 4m 25s

We are discussing an avoidant subreddit today. The avoidant attachment style person is frustrated by the lack of community. I go into why that is. If you don't know if your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the dismissi

An avoidant attachment boyfriend needs a break

Jul 24th, 2023 9m 28s

I am discussing a question from an anxious attachment style subreddit. The anxious attachment style person is having issues with their avoidant attachment style leaning boyfriend wanting to have a long relationship break without communication.

Text from the Ex

Jul 19th, 2023 33m 57s

I got a text from an ex. And I'm sharing some of my story and throwing in some attachment styles knowledge in between.

My anxious attachment ways dictating my relationship

Jul 17th, 2023 7m 39s

Todays Reddit subreddit we discuss an anxious attachment person struggling wiht their anxious ways dictating their life. If you don't know your strongest attachment style is the secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style