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Scarlet was the letter, and then it was a podcast.

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Let me tell you a story. Well, interesting thing.

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Um, through Facebook on my Scarlet Rose Blush site, I had one of my old customers

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from 2021 get a hold of me.

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And he was an interesting guy.

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He's actually a judge. And, you know, he had told me he was a judge and all that.

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But, you know, you can't check up on that stuff. But, you know, he'd had a nice little legal conversation about stuff that was going on.

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And then, of course, you know, I went to law school for, you know, less than two years.

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It wasn't the thing for me. So, yeah, he contacts me on Facebook and was a nice surprise.

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He wanted to say hi. I Facebook messaged him back and forth.

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Well, what the heck? I gave him my phone number, my regular phone number because I haven't turned on that work

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phone number. Gosh, a long time now.

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Maybe a couple of months, maybe. So we ended up meeting at this nice place in Santa monica, and I had really had a thing

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about this guy. I mean, he has Asperger's.

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Like, I sort of have Asperger's, too.

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And, you know, my son has Asperger's and their dad had Asperger's.

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So, you know, that sort of means I have some weird quirks, like being overly direct, being

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honest, only wearing soft clothing.

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I don't really like super bright, crazy lights or noises.

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I have a noise sensitivity.

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But anyway, so he has Asperger's and he is just brilliant.

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Absolutely brilliant. He uses his time and his Asperger's stuff to focus on studying and getting more education.

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So he's here in Los Angeles for like a few days, just like he was in 2021, getting this

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really intense degree from one of the local universities.

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That's what I'll say here in Los Angeles.

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And I guess you actually have to come out for a certain part of it and the rest of it

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you can do online. Well, you know, he had a great wiener and he was tall and.

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Attractive. Um, so when he had left that one time, gosh, that was I can't remember.

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I had started the I he had contacted me and I said something like, you know, here's this

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YouTube. He had listened to the YouTube episode about himself, where I was actually

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very bummed because he had a unique set of qualities that I think I would find.

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Difficult to locate. So I said, Hey, let's meet at the water Grill out in Santa monica.

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And I was sitting there, I was dressed very nice.

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And when I walked in the door, I looked at him and the first thing that came

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spontaneously out of my mouth was, Damn, you look good.

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Because he is a he is reasonably attractive and intelligent and all that stuff.

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So yeah, we sat down and we had an interesting conversation.

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He said that he had looked for my ads on Tryst and other sites and he couldn't find

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them, and then he decided to go back to that.

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He called it my blog, my Scarlet Rose Blush thing, and he saw that I was doing the Reiki

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healing and other things, but I said, So why did you contact me?

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He says, Well, I actually want to get your advice on my relationships.

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And I said, Is it because of I said, Let me ask you from a marketing standpoint is

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because of my website. And he says, No, it's because I've actually met you and the way we were together, I felt

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like I could tell you anything and I trust your advice.

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And I went, okay, what's going on?

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Well, of course, she's been married forever and ever.

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I won't say how many years. And of course, he's he's from a different state in this country.

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And I won't give any identifying information, but let's just say that he's in

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his mid 40 and he's holding up pretty darn well.

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So if he needs some teeth, work done. And I said to him, I said, you are too attractive to have those teeth.

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And he goes, Yeah, you said that to me last time. So yeah, he really needs dental work, but good looking guy.

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So yeah, he's been married forever and ever and ever.

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His wife stopped having sex with him years ago.

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I looked at him and I said, That's abuse.

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That's not what the marriage contract is supposed to be back.

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I did clarify, you. Know, is she sick?

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Is there illnesses? Anything going on? He said, no.

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She just said, I don't want to do it anymore. And he goes and he says, I'm not mean to her.

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I just spent thousands and thousands of dollars on a birthday present for her.

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And then it wasn't the very next day he she asked me for $7,000 and he said, What for?

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And she said, for some type of Birkin bag, which I guess is some type of, um, you know,

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designer bag, which designer clothes and stuff.

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That's not my thing. Um, and I looked at him and I said.

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You got to get out of that. You got to get all the way out.

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And he says, well, I'm concerned because, you know, my dad died at 55.

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And then I said, So you've been doing nothing.

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And he goes, Well, I have been seeing this, this, this younger woman, she's like eight

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years younger. And I said, Oh, how'd that how did that come about?

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Well, she came to me for a services and I went, Ooh.

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He goes, Yeah, I know. Believe me, I know I'm not supposed to be doing that.

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And he said, Then we just started having sex.

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And then we started talking all the time. And he said, But you know, she's got a couple of kids.

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And. Her ex-husband is just getting out of prison now because, you know, he stuck a gun in her

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head and then he showed up to her work with a gun.

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And so he is recently out and he has been cruel and ruthless and stalking her

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relentlessly on social media.

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And I said, haven't you done anything about this?

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You know, you being a judge and all? And he says, I've offered this, but she has told me she doesn't want to aggravate the

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situation. She doesn't want to put a restraining order against him.

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And I said, okay, here's I said, okay, She's a few years younger than you.

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Okay, fine. I said, But a bunch of kids with a crazy ex who's waving guns all over the place and

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won't stop with the social media.

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I said, If people find out about this, you're going to be ruined.

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He goes, Yeah, I know. I've just hired.

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I've just spoken to another attorney that's going to take her case for half the rate.

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And he goes, But she doesn't know it yet. Good grief, guys.

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And sex. That's a that's a crazy thing.

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So we had a very nice time.

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We talked about a lot of stuff.

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I finally said, So have I.

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If I answered all your questions. And he goes, Yeah, you did.

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And so I said, Well, I guess that's my cue.

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I stood up right there. I grabbed my coat in my purse, but I leaned over and gave him a wonderful kiss on the

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lips. And I looked very, very nice.

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So when I stood up, people were looking at us.

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I don't look like everyone else.

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I may. I'm just different looking.

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So anyway. I. I left.

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I drove home. He sent me multiple messages about how grateful he was that I spent the time talking

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to him at length about his life and what was going on, because I had said, Hey, you're

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fully qualified at this age to say you're having a midlife crisis.

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Plus, he's getting out of the the criminal prosecution.

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He's he's he works he he's a litigator.

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He works in the courtroom.

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And I said, you're not doing. Things like, you know, rapists and child molesters.

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He goes, yeah, I've had a few of those. And I went, ooh.

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And he goes, Yeah, it's killing me. I got to get out of it.

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Yikes. So that was interesting.

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That was very interesting. Um, I did finish that course that I had to for my renewal.

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Holy crap. Was that went on forever.

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You know, it's like 45, 47 hours.

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So I got that done last night and.

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And I'm thrilled.

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Absolutely thrilled. Then I sat there and called up several companies in the Los Angeles area cause I'm

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going to go ahead and start doing that job, which I may end up telling you guys about

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anyway. I mean, eventually everything's going to come out.

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And one of the most interesting things that the guy, the lawyer guy told me is that when

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he was attending one of the classes out here at one of the prestigious universities, there

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was a young girl that he said, what's part of the country he was from?

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She goes, Well, I'm interested in buying a piece of real estate possibly out there.

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And she was very nice to him.

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She's going to go ahead and get her law degree. He looked her up.

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He said she's she is a porn star, but she quit.

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And he said her social media profile for the one where she talks about law school and.

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The. Porn star actress, Twitters and all that.

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She goes he says, it's the exact same photo.

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And I said to him, I was very honest with this guy about, well, this is what I've been

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doing. This is what I did with the training. I was really successful at it.

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I'm going to try and do it again. I said, Is anyone going to care?

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He goes, I don't think people are going to care. And then I did contact one of my previous clients who we had a really, really close

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relationship. I really, really, really liked this guy.

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I don't know what it was. There's just a few people, you know, like Sugar Daddy guy who walk into your life and

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you have a connection with this was one of those guys.

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So I called him up to ask him what was going on in the world in that industry.

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And then I said I was thinking about I'd like to possibly work for that company he's

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with. And oh, he was just peeing his pants.

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He was so happy. He had he had asked me many, many times through the pandemic that he wanted me to

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work for him as an assistant, kept offering me jobs, but I was afraid.

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And this guy. When I say successful, when he was doing this specific job, he was in the top 1 or 4%

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in the nation. He said people just wanted to touch him.

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He was so successful.

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But yeah, so believe it or not, I'm I guess that's what I'm going to be doing.

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I'm going to be getting a job with him and I'm going to be starting that.

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I have to do some paperwork and crap. But you know, I'm going to be doing that next week.

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And. Uh, because I finished all that other stuff.

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I'm going to go ahead and build my Reiki and hypnotherapy website.

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I've been hesitant to do the Tiktoks because I didn't have anything really to send people

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to. Um, you know, I've listened to these psychic tapes that I record over and over

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again, and, um, and I had even asked about this profession that I am going to join.

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Uh, the last time I had spoken to someone, he was the guy that was the most accurate.

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He said, I that is not going to be your thing.

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You are welcome to go ahead and do that.

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But that's not going to be your thing, he said.

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Your thing is going to be healing, energy work and hypnotherapy.

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Well, gosh darn, that's exactly what I'm doing. So, uh, we'll see how things work out with that.

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So I'm excited about that. And also, um.

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The sugar daddy guy. I was talking to my kids and I and by the way, I told Sugar Daddy Guy I was going to go

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out to dinner with. This attorney.

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Guy. I don't lead people on.

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I don't I don't I'm not a liar.

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I don't hide things from guys.

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So I was just very honest with him. Hey, I'm going to go see this old client.

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And I actually had another old client.

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And when I say old, I mean old. I It's wonderful, man.

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Contact me. Yeah, What the heck?

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I'll go out. I'll go out to dinner with him, too. I have no problem going out to, you know, if if I'm, if I'm I don't know if it's not some

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20 year old that just wants to bang me. I'm not. Why am I going to go out to dinner with that?

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I like stimulating conversation.

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I have a history of going out with Mensa members, which are guys with really high

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intelligence. I just love stimulating conversation.

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Yeah. Do I like some guy that's going to be muscular and be able to, you know?

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You know. Lay me down. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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You know how hard it is to find that whole package crap.

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So, anyway, yeah, I told Sugar Daddy Guy that I was going to go out to dinner with that

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guy, and, um. And then I'm doing this other thing.

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He's super happy, he's super supportive.

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And. But I had said to him, I'm starting to feel weird about you or weird around you.

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And he goes, What do you mean? I said, I'm starting to feel like I'm some kind of sexual

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airline stewardess. And he laughed and he goes, What do you mean?

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I said, You know, you come on over.

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And it's like I sit there and I say, Here, let me let me put up the recliner legs for

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you, which I do. Oh, here, let me serve you your food on your lap.

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Let me put that that napkin on on your shirt.

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Oh, here, let me put that pillow behind you in bed.

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Oh, you want me on my hands and knees in front of the mirror naked?

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Sure, No problem. Oh, you want me bent over?

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Yeah, that's okay. Oh, you want me to type up these reports for you?

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Yeah, sure. I said everything I do with you, the word that comes out of my mouth is.

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Yeah, sure. Okay. And he's laughing, and he goes, Yeah.

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That's why all the guys, you know, loved you, because everything.

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Everything was always. Yes.

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Not to say that that is my personality type all the time because, you know, I'm.

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Sort of an ass. Kicker, but yeah.

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I told him about that. I said. I said, you know, I'm here to support you emotionally and.

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Vaginally at all times. Uh, but it's just weird.

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It's just sort of weird. I do have that sort of caretaker type personality.

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And of course, there was an awkward moment.

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And of course, she's going to listen to this tape. We were laying in bed the other night because he's mixing and matching the days.

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He spends the nights. And he looked at me and he goes, Where is our relationship going?

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And I went. And I just sort of froze and didn't say anything again.

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Mm. He's a wonderful man.

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Every day I pray and say how lucky I am that he has been sent here to help me to.

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You know, complete all this stuff so I can focus on the healing and the Reiki and all

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the other stuff. And yeah, you know, I've been so focused on this freaking school.

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I haven't gone to the gym once in like a week and a half. I'm going to go right now as soon as I'm done and then I'm going to start building my

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Reiki hypnotherapy website. Of course, you know, I had a friend sit there and say, Why would you even do that?

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There's really not that much money in it. You should be focusing on this other career.

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Yeah, but I don't think that's what I'm here for.

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I think I'm here for the. The healing of some type.

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That's what I'm supposed to be doing. You know, I do that thing where I pray to the angels and spirit guides, and I welcome

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everyone who's here from the divine.

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And I ask for an increase in my psychic abilities to expand my awareness so I can

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see, hear and feel what people need from me and and also to increase the power in my

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hands for healing and.

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I have noticed in the last couple of weeks.

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I don't know what it is. I think it's wherever I go.

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I just when I look at people, I really focus on them and smile.

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I almost mentally feel like I'm sending them a beam of light and people.

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Whenever I meet people, people just generally their faces open up and they smile.

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I almost feel like in a way, like I'm radiating this energy of goodness and, you

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know, security because I'm not going to hurt you.

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Um, it makes me feel really good inside.

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So anyway, that's. That's what's going on this week.

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Um, yeah, as soon as that hypnotherapy Reiki website is going to go up, then I'm going to

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go ahead and start doing more of that TikTok stuff, more focused stuff.

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I probably should be doing some more little stories on there.

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But you know, like I said, my my daughter and her boyfriend are not doing the social

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media. That lasted for about one week. But, you know, when they're young, they have these tiny attention spans.

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And of course, she is on her own thing.

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Anyway, I'm very grateful for everyone that listens.

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And let's hope things go well for me.

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And, well, I'm pretty sure anyone that I went and told them my previous history at

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this job, they're going to want to hire me, but yeah, cross my fingers.

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All right. God bless you. I'll talk to you later.