When we’re struggling with a decision it means we’re filtering it through our core values, which sometimes are not clearly obvious to us.  They are subconscious for the most part.   So, when we’re really thinking about a decision, and we can’t come up with a good answer – we know deep inside that it’s not for us.

So, as we go forward, when faced with a difficult choice, if we can’t decide – the answer is no.   Don’t dwell on it.  Just accept it’s a 'no' decision and move on to more opportunities that will surely come our way.