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The new countries 96.3 second second second second date

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update Adam gave us a call He went out

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with Marla had a great first date Unfortunately, there

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was no second date and we're gonna try to

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help him out this morning So first of all

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Adam tell everybody how you met Marla. Yeah,

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we just met on the dating app Okay,

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and that led to a date obviously Yeah,

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well today we got a drink but you

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know, I never heard back from her after

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that So I'm just curious why cuz like

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usually I don't care if it goes

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radio silent But like Marla was a

0:29

smoke show like hot and you guys

0:31

have this radio show. So why not

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right? Yeah, I guess Yes,

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give us a call All right So did anything at

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all go on unusual on the date that might have

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caused her not to contact you after it? No,

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we had a drink. She was laughing said

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let's talk again. She's like, yeah, and that was it All

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right. Well, let's have us give her a call so we

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can figure out what's going on. So you get your second

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Well he gave us a call, said you guys had a great

2:04

first date, went out for a drink, and then he said he

2:06

never heard for you after that and asked us to give you

2:08

a call on his behalf. Oh. Is there

2:11

a reason you didn't contact him after the date?

2:13

It was quite late.

2:15

He was about 30 minutes late and

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he didn't, you know, apologize

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or let me know who's going

2:22

to be late. He just showed up and it was

2:24

like nothing was wrong. 30

2:26

minutes is a long time. Yeah, yeah.

2:28

My sister works there so I was just

2:30

hanging out with her and catching up. I

2:32

would have left, right, if my sister hadn't

2:34

worked at the restaurant. But then, yeah, he

2:36

didn't. It was like nothing

2:38

was wrong and nothing happened.

2:41

There was no acknowledgment that he was late and like

2:43

you said, he didn't even apologize or more give an

2:46

excuse like he had a flat tire or something. Yeah,

2:48

none of that. And because of

2:50

that, that's why you didn't contact him after the date? Yeah. Well,

2:53

here's the deal. Adam didn't tell us that he was

2:56

late. Maybe he got the time mixed up or something.

2:58

Maybe that could explain it. Maybe there's an explanation. He

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is on the other line. Can we

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bring him in on this conversation just to kind of hear his side of

3:04

that night? Sure. Okay.

3:06

Adam, are you there? Yeah, yeah. What's up?

3:09

Did you hear what Marla said that you were late by

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30 minutes? Yeah, I heard

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that. First of all, you should know

3:16

I subscribed to the attendance of an

3:18

alpha male and an alpha never apologizes.

3:20

That is a sign of weakness. And an

3:22

alpha like me is assertive and doesn't

3:25

bow down. Are

3:27

you serious? Totally.

3:30

You don't need to know where I was

3:32

or what I was doing. That's not your

3:34

business on a first date. You're obviously there

3:37

because I'm attractive, desirable. At that point, stop

3:39

the whining and start the date. I

3:42

don't think that it's bowing down

3:44

to explain to someone why you're

3:47

late. That's just common courtesy. No,

3:50

I'm not late. When I arrive, that's when

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the dates start, so I'm on time. What

3:55

time was the date supposed to start, Adam? What

3:57

time did you guys plan to meet? Look, you're getting ready.

4:00

The details that so matter to me. I

4:02

got there that they started his are you

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how. Are you talking like that? The Hot: A

4:06

Nasty. I honestly can't tell if you're

4:08

doing a joke here. Army: are you

4:10

serious? Become thirty minutes late and you

4:12

don't bother to explain or apologize. And

4:14

what what a joke! You gotta realize

4:16

that says the rules of dating an

4:18

alpha. You're You're. Not the reason that

4:20

I stayed. I was there because my

4:22

sister was there. Are So I was catching

4:25

up with my sister. they've seen warfare I

4:27

wouldn't had stayed, he would have shown up

4:29

to no one beings and you caught a

4:31

break cause I showed up while you're sober

4:33

and then you got to go on a

4:36

date with me so you're to walk you

4:38

on Marla. Was he likes his on

4:40

the D? I

4:42

mean he was assertive. We didn't really

4:44

get fully and top this alpha male

4:46

says this is what's wrong with women

4:48

based. Sit here and talk about you

4:51

like you're not even here. He

4:55

did you. Have a he'll call

4:58

me. Yeah, that's right Martin make a

5:00

good point you ask for our help in

5:02

getting a second date and to be honest,

5:04

kind of embarrassing for an alpha male. the

5:06

have to reach out to get help from

5:08

other people. To. Get a second date

5:11

And Alpha is a leader of men

5:13

and women. There's nothing embarrassing himself. This

5:15

guy so was his semen. Adam

5:17

Beard Really serious about all this.

5:20

Yeah, I'm totally serious. This isn't just

5:22

some philosophy, it's a lifestyle and I

5:24

live at all day everyday. Can we?

5:26

As would you do for a living

5:28

down and landscaper. I'll

5:30

go. Marla was to see if you want

5:32

a second day with Adam. We would pick

5:34

up the tab know that we should ask

5:37

you know of the Lima Ride. That's.

5:39

Fine, There's lovers out there that will appreciate

5:41

the alpha male. plus the Alp always picks

5:43

up the tab himself. And ten more

5:45

at will look a than you would have wanted

5:48

are often. But you know if you've listened to

5:50

the show me the new obscene over joke is

5:52

yes for your help you know we always asks

5:54

with a nevermind never months or marla. Thank you

5:56

so much for being part of the so do

5:58

appreciated sir and I'm going to be on. I

6:01

really can't tell if you're doing a bit or

6:03

this is how you normally are. I mean I

6:05

don't see how of your attitude wouldn't endearing yourself

6:07

to anybody. Very. A feeder and

6:10

so many women up at so now

6:12

and they're get into yes. And

6:16

getting to me I assume once again, I

6:18

can't tell if that guy was doing the

6:20

marla. I. Mean seventy one out that guy

6:23

but I don't know if you call and like that

6:25

or is com is so as a job. You. Know

6:27

lite mer. I seen these people online.

6:29

Okay, you know you see their comments

6:31

on Twitter. I. Have my people online.

6:33

You. See that I wonder if he was much more

6:36

com or with her in person? Allow time bolden

6:38

by the fact that he was on the radio.

6:40

And for. For mean for her for others

6:42

and it without a when I sound like

6:44

a show up for yeah of swords. I

6:46

know you're talking about this. Of. These

6:48

people are And Twitter the alpha male thing.

6:50

Yeah, I see, I got on. Read the

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comic. Yancey. Will have to be like out of

6:54

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