More and more, I tend to look at these people and try to restore what I know is their truth in spirit. ... It is easy to think that what someone did or didn’t do is the truth. ...Rather than looking at all the loss and wreckage, it is better to restore your mind to the wholeness of what was originally intended rather than what appeared to happen through your body’s senses. ...You might think that when you remember someone or something that they did as negative, you may think you are giving them the pain. ...One of the things that I do, is to remember to look at these relationships as souvenirs. ... Most of the time, there is always something good to be remembered, by just about everyone that was in your life. ...You might not get it completely right, but my guess is that you know much more about their Self than you would like to admit. I suggest you spend some time and collect souvenirs of these people from your past and hold them in the light of truth that they see in themselves....Even if they bad-mouthed you to the entire school district, stabbed or even raped you, they were just trying to fill something inside of them that was aching for some deeper need. ...fs=1&hl=en_US">