Director, editor and author Ernest Greene visits Emily to talk about his new novel Master of O, power play, and collars and cuffs. He’s here to give you his straightforward advice for getting your partner to participate in kink and just how to keep things interesting- whether you’re casually dating or in a long-term relationship.Greene has been a member of the BDSM community for 40 years. He’s talking bondage, flogging and what it’s like to be married to Nina Hartley, sex-positive pornstar, director and sex educator. Emily and Greene discuss whether or not “kink-dar” is an real thing. The pair get into plain, pleasure, safe words and what the first thing you need to know about BDSM is. Does Greene think Emily is submissive or dominate? Find out in the latest podcast!Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.