No can become the sexiest word in your relationship.  In this episode of phat chats, Melissa and I discuss how, and why, our beloved no is something we can trust.  We address some of the cultural conditioning that often puts pressure on both genders to be wishy-washy about our 'no or our fuck yes' in order to please the other, which in fact ends up creating confusion and a lack of trust.    So how do we speak, maintain and request our boundaries in an elloquent, nonconflictual and safe way?  How do we begin to talk about the uncomfy things?  And why is that the key to erotic/kinky lovemaking?  We also have some funny and sexy stories to share about our week ... You'll get a good belly laugh!!   

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