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So, you open Google Chrome on your phone, you're
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rushing to buy tickets to a concert that all your friends
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stage, backstage the world tour, and
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before you know it, you're dancing in Tokyo.
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Three tickets left? It's
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auto-fill quickly and securely. There's
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no place like Chrome. Download Google
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Chrome on your phone.
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Hey, what's happening? It's Ben Bailey-Smith and Sasha
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Bates. And we're about to launch into more episodes
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of STB. So, while we do some intense
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and detailed TV watching, I
0:43
know it's a hard job, someone's got to do it. We
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thought it only right and fair
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to answer some of your emails, because we've had such an
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incredible response. You know, I'm always saying, oh,
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post-bag is bulging. We've got
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all these things and you probably think it's nonsense,
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but we do. And we started
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whittling it down. And here's the
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proof. So, we're going to get into your thoughts
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on
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the show, on the characters we're talking
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about, the psychotherapy around them, and
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of course, some of your suggestions
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for the future. Welcome
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to Shrink the Box.
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Here's one, Sasha, on the WandaVision
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episode. Great, great episode. Yeah.
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You were just phenomenal in that. As
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were you. Yeah, no, I was.
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You're right. This is from H. Stuart
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Trostle, who says, Hello to Ben, Sasha and the
1:35
production team. Just listen to the episode
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on Wanda. First of all, my
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condolences to both of you, Ben and Sasha,
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for your losses. Mine was fresh and
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yours was...
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Not so fresh, but feels it at times.
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Thanks, H. He says, I really appreciate
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this episode and its discussion of the processing and
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internalisation of grief, as I had
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a death in my family last year. It
1:56
was not sudden, and I thought I had adjusted
1:59
to the concept of their...
1:59
passing in advance, but then there are
2:02
times, just yesterday, during a film
2:04
in fact, where I suddenly viscerally
2:06
remember they are gone and
2:08
it knocks me out. Thank you for diving
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into models of grieving that address that non-linearity,
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it's very helpful, and I also really
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loved the discussion of Wanda's grief made manifest
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in the world of the show, and it reminded me
2:20
of another character I love, Dr. Walter
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Bishop, played by John Noble on Fringe.
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And he's right when he talked about how it hit him
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suddenly watching telly because we
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are
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constantly getting new triggers,
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and you don't know what's going to trigger you, it can be a
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scene on a television show, it can be going into a certain
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restaurant, it can be hearing a song,
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you kind of never really fully relax
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after you've had a big loss because you can
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be slightly ambushed at any time. But
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hopefully you get slightly better at managing the ambushes
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and they don't kind of take the rug out from under you quite
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so dramatically as in the early days.
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But yeah, hang
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on in there, H. Stuart
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Trostle, and thanks for letting us know. And
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again, you know, I'm constantly banging on about
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great writing, but don't you think like great writing
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in a movie or a TV show?
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That's what it will do, whether
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you like it or not, like not even just
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about grief, but like it will make you
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feel something to the point where you
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want to call a loved one. Or you think, oh, you know, I should
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spend more time with someone. Yeah,
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that gets
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to you on an emotional level. Exactly,
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exactly that. Nice one. H. All
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right, here's another one on Wanda. This is from Sam Gonzalez.
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Hi, Ben, Sasha and the STB
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team. I'm absolutely loving the show. I
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just listened to Wanda Maximoff episode
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and thought your sympathetic review of her actions in
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the show was great. When I watched the show, I
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was more pretty. occupied by her grief manifested
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in the accidental or thoughtless injury to others
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and honestly miss much sympathy with her situation
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overall. So I really enjoyed your views. I've
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got two character suggestions. I grew
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up as an avid fan of Buffy, the vampire
4:14
slayer, so I'd love to hear your thoughts on her, a
4:16
young teenage girl with the responsibility of
4:19
saving the world. Additionally, I'd love
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to hear you get under the skin of Idris Elba's
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morally ambiguous Luther. Yes.
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Yeah, he's an interesting character. He is. I
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think they're both interesting. Shouts. Did you ever watch Buffy
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back in the day? I never watched it. I never watched
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it like from beginning to end. I sort of saw odd
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episodes here and there. So yeah, I quite
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like to really engage because so many people
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talk about
4:40
it. Yeah, my sister's obsessed with it. My
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eldest daughter has watched it all and
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says it's like superb. I
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don't know what it was. It must have been my age at the time.
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Yeah, me too. I think. Just the wrong
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side of whatever, whoever it was aimed at. I
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can't think. All right. Alex Smeed
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in Balfour and says, Hey, Ben and Sasha,
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ever since I heard that the podcast was starting, I've had this
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question in my mind about the premise of
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the show. I'd be interested to know Sasha's
5:06
comment on how far we can
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go in psychologically analyzing
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a fictional character. The psychological
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models are based presumably on research
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and experimentation with real people, but the characters
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in the shows discussed are deliberately
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created by a writer.
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Does this mean that the characters might show
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several psychological patterns they're
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never seen in real life because they
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are by virtue of the genre fictional
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to the writers have to be deliberate in
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adding psychological elements to the characters? And
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if not, does that mean we're actually
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unpacking the psychological makeup of the
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writer rather than the character in
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shrink the box?
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I'm finding the show compelling and thoroughly enjoying
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it. Alex, that is such
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a head spinning question, but I genuinely,
5:52
I really get what you're saying because
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I think I had that question in my mind before we even
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recorded the first episode.
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But the more I consume
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content, and I'll let you speak on this in detail,
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Sash, but I just want to say this.
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I think there's
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things that are said and there's things
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that are unsaid. And you can watch the
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worst TV show in
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the world, terribly written, two-dimensional
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characters,
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awful performances,
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shoddily shot, bad sound design.
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But you could still
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analyze, psychologically
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perhaps, where the
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idea for this is from. Have you ever watched something
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that
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is not ostensibly
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about sexism or misogyny,
6:45
but it's misogynist? And you can't put your finger on why, but you
6:47
can just... There's a nastiness
6:50
to the show that isn't implied. Then
6:52
you watch another show that's smart enough to
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have really nasty content around
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sexism and misogyny. But you can tell
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the writers know that it's a bad thing,
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you know, they're making a point. But
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then the other side of it, for me, just because
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this is all from a layman's point of view, I think
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it's fun to speculate. And I think
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that's the essence of the show,
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speculating around
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this character and what we can
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take from it. But, I mean, Alex is
7:21
absolutely right. The writer is good here
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and they're making the decisions and
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they could be completely misguided in their decisions.
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We always have to be aware that there is the writer's
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voice in there and we are being given a view
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of the world that comes from the
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writer's own. I think maybe
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the reason why so many of the shows
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we look at that have endured are really
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good is because they're American, whether
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it's more common to have a writer's room
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where you have more than one writer's viewpoint,
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which I suppose helps keep it a bit broader
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so it's not quite so one
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person subconscious letting
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their own views.
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filter out. Not that I think that's necessarily
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a bad thing because I think it can be also quite
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therapeutic for a writer to explore
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and for many
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people. Absolutely and sometimes specificity
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is the thing rather than the universal.
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Absolutely. So I think there probably
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is a lot of every writer in every
8:16
character or every scenario and
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I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing
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as long as we know that whatever we sort of watch,
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read, hear is always somebody's
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coming via somebody's lens. We
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pick the shows we do because there
8:29
is an inherent truthfulness in
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there.
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I was just about to say exactly the same thing.
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We recognise these people. They are
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internally consistent. So even
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if they do contradictory things,
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there is still, you can understand
8:43
where those contradictions have come about from.
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So I don't think
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it matters that they're fictional. I mean,
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being fictional enables us to talk about them in a way
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that we never could ethically about real people.
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And there might be some anachronisms in
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there or some incongruities,
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but I think most shows that are good have
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an internal consistency.
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Absolutely. And the reason
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that they work so well is
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because there's a truth in there
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that we all sort of get,
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we recognise it. We recognise a
9:16
person who's a bit like that, or we think
9:19
that rings true to me. And
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like you're you're spot on about American writers rooms.
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If you got six, seven, eight people there,
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and one throws out a
9:29
cod bit of psychology, oh, this happened
9:31
when he was a kid. So now he's like that. There's seven
9:33
people there going, nah,
9:34
don't buy that. Yeah,
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you could have one fictional character like say,
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I don't know, for instance, Omar Little, who he looked at
9:41
in The Wire, who has nothing,
9:43
he's born into poverty. And we
9:46
speculated from how he is that probably
9:48
he either had an absent or a neglectful or an abusive
9:51
parent. And that enables him
9:53
to learn how to control his emotions and
9:55
become very calm, cool and collected
9:57
and plan not get carried
10:00
away by temper. Then we saw Shiv Roy
10:02
born into absolute wealth and
10:04
privilege, but similarly
10:07
neglected and abused and learnt to
10:09
control herself in the same way that Omar has.
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So it makes sense. So it doesn't matter
10:14
what the background is or what their reaction
10:17
to it is, if it makes sense within the
10:19
world that they live
10:20
in. I can sort of accept that Omar is
10:22
a murderer who
10:24
I find warmer presence
10:27
than say Conneroy. Alex
10:29
talks about psychological models, but
10:31
I don't really understand what he means by that
10:33
because I think each one of us is individual. We
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can look at theories that you can apply to
10:38
different people, but that doesn't make them, oh, they are
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this model, therefore they will act
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in this way. To be fair to him, I think that's
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what he means. I think he means
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theories that you have things that
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we've all heard about and then things that you've
10:51
taught us on this show. We've looked at several
10:53
siblings and we've seen how they've grown up in the same
10:56
household. They are treated
10:58
differently by their parents, but
11:01
there is a similarity there and yet each one has
11:03
very different coping mechanisms. I mean,
11:05
again, the Roy family siblings,
11:09
one goes off into addiction, one
11:11
goes off into sort of delusions of becoming
11:13
president, one becomes sort
11:15
of a sexual fetishist who
11:18
can't grow up. So just
11:20
because the same thing happens to somebody
11:22
doesn't mean they are going to respond in the same way. We're
11:24
in Bloodline, a very brilliant
11:26
example of that too with another set
11:29
of four siblings, each very,
11:31
very different with exactly the
11:33
same set
11:34
of parents, all treated differently,
11:37
all suffering because of it. So guys, I should
11:39
say, our wall of
11:41
names with the pushpins and bits of string,
11:44
suggestions of characters to do is
11:46
stretching down the shrink the box corridor
11:49
now. I mean, it's nearly out on the street, but
11:52
we still want to hear more ideas and here's
11:55
a few suggestions that have come in just
11:57
recently. Mark Woodruff says, would love
11:59
to see you die.
11:59
dissect Jackson Lamb, Gary
12:02
Oldman's character from Slow Horses, the
12:04
unhealthy, sweary, brilliant spy who
12:06
seemingly never washes and only eats
12:09
junk food. He's an anti-hero for modern times
12:11
and part of TV folklore now surely.
12:14
That sounds like a good shout. Everybody keeps
12:16
talking to me about Slow Horses. I've
12:18
actually read all of the Jackson Lamb
12:20
novels. I think it was about eight or nine. Yeah,
12:22
they are fabulous. And so I was predisposed
12:25
to not like the series, but
12:28
I loved it.
12:29
Helen in Leeds has said Marie
12:32
Finchley from National Treasure and
12:34
Ted from Line of Duty. What's National
12:36
Treasure?
12:36
Oh, that was the thing with Robbie Coltrane as
12:39
the pedophile. A pedophile. Right,
12:41
yeah. Chilling as well. That did look chilling. Line
12:44
of Duty, of course, yeah. And Dave Willen
12:47
says, I would love to know what you think
12:49
about Jack Bauer,
12:50
a character who on the surface is just all about
12:53
the shouty, whispery carnage. But
12:55
deep down he has trouble with his past and family
12:57
trauma and in the later series, issues with exes
12:59
and trust. Dave says, keep
13:01
up the good work. 24, wow. That
13:04
was one of the first sort of
13:06
DVD box sets I remember
13:08
getting like obsessed with
13:11
in a real kind of boy's own way. It was just
13:13
like, he's solving the thing. He's running
13:15
and doing the punching. I knew it didn't have
13:18
the emotional depth that
13:20
I really craved. I could just
13:22
watch it and watch it and watch it and like go
13:24
out for beers with the boys. And yet another guy
13:27
would have the, bloop, bloop, bloop, you know, the little
13:29
sound for his ringtone. I was like, oh, this
13:31
really is like, it's that kind of
13:33
TV. I can't say I ever really stopped
13:35
to think about
13:36
Jack's trouble pass. I'm
13:38
not sure we've got enough to go on really to
13:40
know about his trouble pass. Cause he just
13:43
was such a man of action. We have to watch 24 episodes
13:45
for the size hash. And we've got a lot to get through.
13:48
No, thanks Dave. So listen, after
13:50
the break, we discussed what it'd be like to
13:52
have a werewolf as a client and a listener finally
13:55
takes me to task. It's
13:57
about time. Let's be honest. We're going to be back straight
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after these messages.
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This one's from Esther Freeman in reference
15:31
to our Mad Men, Don Draper episode.
15:33
She says, you mentioned that your sister
15:36
says the past is a different country. I'm
15:38
afraid this quotation cannot be attributed to
15:40
her. The past is a different country. In
15:42
quotes, they do things differently there. Close
15:45
quote is the opening line of L.P. Hartley's 1935
15:49
novel, The Go Between, the best opening
15:51
to a novel ever written in my honest
15:53
opinion. It was made into a film in 2015 with Jim
15:56
Broadbent and Leslie Manville. And should
15:58
you expand into film,
15:59
it would be a world- worthy of analysis as it's full
16:01
of emotionally complex moments,
16:03
including love, loss, adolescence and class.
16:06
However, if I was to suggest a character from a TV
16:08
show, it would have to be Jimmy McGill, better
16:11
call Saul. Never found him that interesting
16:13
as Saul Goodman in Breaking Bad. I agree actually,
16:15
they've dug way more into him. But
16:18
seeing his metamorphosis from Jimmy to Saul
16:20
in the spinoff was fascinating. Shrink the Box
16:22
has become one of the shows I really look forward to popping
16:24
up into my feed each week, so keep up the good work. Thanks
16:27
Esther. And in defense of my sister,
16:29
it's probably the way I must have said it on
16:31
the pod. It's actually from
16:34
an essay that she wrote
16:36
in recognition of exactly this.
16:39
So yeah, you're spot on Esther and so is my
16:41
sister and as usual, I am, I am wrong.
16:43
Yeah, that
16:45
is interesting what she says about Saul because I
16:47
rewatched Breaking Bad for
16:50
a Walter White episode
16:52
and I couldn't wait for the Saul Goodman
16:55
moments and I was like, Oh, he's more of a sort of comic
16:58
aside. He doesn't get
17:00
developed. He's like a huggy
17:03
bear or something like that. Jimmy and Stasi
17:05
and Hutch. I also remember thinking
17:07
when they were going to do a spinoff, I was like really? Yeah.
17:10
With that guy? Yeah. But he absolutely
17:13
comes into his own and Bob Odenkirk
17:15
just plays him so well.
17:17
Beautifully. He is phenomenal. And you know, Bob
17:19
in the States is primarily
17:22
known as a comedian and yeah,
17:24
yeah. And an aficionado of comedy and he
17:26
was part of this sort of the
17:29
figurehead and writer on this show,
17:31
Mr. Show, which never came over here, but
17:33
you know, really in that tradition of like
17:36
knock about or sometimes surrealist
17:39
comedy. He's real comedy
17:41
royalty over there. So he hadn't really
17:43
done like a massive amount of drama.
17:45
Oh my God. I would never have known that.
17:47
He was more associated mainstream
17:50
wise. He probably would have been more closely associated with things
17:52
like The Simpsons. Wow. He's a bit writer
17:54
on there and a lot of voice stuff.
17:57
But yeah, he's a proper comedian. I
18:00
think even more kudos to him and
18:02
to Vince Gilligan and the
18:05
writers on the show because
18:07
I think a lot of us expected it to be this explosive,
18:10
you know, sequel slash prequel, you know, whatever
18:13
reboot, and actually is so
18:15
patient and joyfully
18:18
cautious in its storytelling.
18:19
It slowly uncovers the
18:21
layers and I'm going to confess something which I'm
18:24
sure will get a lot of people cross. I prefer it
18:26
to Breaking Bad. Oh do I? Oh do you?
18:27
I like it. But there are even elements to Breaking
18:29
Bad where I think Vince wasn't sure where
18:31
the story was going and I think he's actually
18:34
publicly, you know, spoken about that and he had
18:36
to find it and with Betacal Saw
18:38
it just feels like I know what
18:40
the fuck I'm doing now. Yeah. The
18:42
confidence to give you these
18:45
time leaps and still
18:47
have mystery and intrigue,
18:49
the sense of a life lived as well
18:52
and mistakes made and regrets
18:54
is beautifully observed in
18:57
Betacal
18:57
Saw and I agree with you Sasha, I think it's the better show
18:59
and I don't think that's an insult really because they're both
19:01
great shows. They are. So Vince
19:04
really doesn't have to worry. The man's a genius. He
19:06
is. So you know we've had some people sending
19:09
long lists of characters like just
19:11
like 20, 30, just names
19:14
that they'd like to see in the therapist's chair and that
19:16
is a lot of TV for us to watch but we
19:18
really do appreciate you taking the
19:20
time. So here's a few more before
19:23
we mosey off into the sunset. Chloe Selby
19:25
says, hello team, I've had a run of ideas for potential
19:27
subjects for Sasha to analyze that
19:29
feel a bit obvious but then
19:32
I had a thought about a character
19:34
who really impacted me as a young person might
19:36
feel a bit left field. Oh this is what we like
19:39
Chloe. This is what we like. George from
19:41
Being Human,
19:42
BBC3, I've forgotten about Being
19:44
Human. Haven't seen it. That's great with Russell
19:46
Tovey. Oh yeah oh no look
19:48
she references Russell Tovey here yeah. She said, George
19:51
is a werewolf and struggles with who he becomes
19:53
by the light of the moon. With his two friends
19:56
who are a vampire and ghost they wrestle with
19:58
what it means to really pursue being a
19:59
a person. It's been such a long
20:02
time since I watched it. Same Chloe, same.
20:04
But I remember that Russell Tovey is something of a genius
20:06
in the role, agree. And I'd love to hear Ben
20:08
and Sasha unpick what is going on for him, especially
20:11
as he has a complicated relationship with
20:13
his alter ego when he falls for Nina,
20:16
who I think is the ghost. It's a good one, I think.
20:19
Really enjoy him shirking the box. So thanks for all your work.
20:22
Nice one, Chloe. What is a great left
20:24
field suggestion. And I
20:26
am with you, Chloe. I remember being human
20:29
and I've mentioned it to
20:29
friends and they don't know what the hell I'm talking about. They
20:32
give me the same face that they give me
20:34
when I start waxing lyrical
20:36
about 15 stories high. It's just blank.
20:38
What are you talking about? BBC.
20:40
Brilliant BBC two or, you know,
20:46
alternative BBC
20:48
channel comedies and dramas that just
20:50
never got the right push.
20:53
IMO. My friend Sharon Horgens
20:56
show pulling. Do you remember that? Again,
20:58
just get shunted around style.
21:00
The snookers on it'll be on at 11. You
21:03
know, next week is on at nine o'clock.
21:05
People just don't know how to follow these shows and then they disappear.
21:07
Yeah. And that was a great one. I do remember
21:10
that one. It was brilliant. 15 stories high was Sean
21:12
Lock, much missed Sean Locks,
21:15
a comedy that he wrote and starred in that
21:18
I think is worthy of a shrinker
21:20
box. Actually, it's him and Benedict Wong sharing
21:23
a flat. And Sean
21:25
is this miserly lifeguard at
21:27
swimming pool, basically. But
21:30
there's a lot
21:31
going on in it. Sometimes
21:33
slightly surreal. Set in a block of flats
21:35
in South London, big tall
21:37
high rise. So you get glimpses of these other working
21:39
class lives quite a bit. And it's this
21:42
one of the last sort of
21:43
working class comedies that
21:45
I think I really, really loved.
21:48
You're talking about that. I just had an image
21:51
of the tower block in East London. It made me think
21:53
of chewing gum, which of course is Michaela
21:55
Cole's first series before
21:57
she did the incredible I May Destroy You, which we talked
21:59
about.
21:59
a couple of weeks ago, chewing gum might
22:02
be worth us having another look at. She's
22:04
had a bit of a Vince Gilligan trajectory, hasn't she? Yes.
22:06
Because chewing gum was great, but
22:08
you know, I mean, wow.
22:10
Yeah, it was a hell of a leap from chewing gum to... I
22:12
may destroy you. I may destroy
22:15
you was so powerful and so disturbing
22:17
that when I listened back to our I may destroy you
22:19
episode, the episode disturbed me. Yes. It's
22:22
like, jeez Louise. I know, just
22:24
remembering. The tentacles of this show. Yeah.
22:27
Oh man. You know, I just thought it
22:30
being human, if you did have a werewolf
22:33
as a client, you'd never
22:35
know unless it was like a door knock moment.
22:38
There he goes, by the way, I was
22:41
just as he's leaving and the full moon shines
22:43
through your...
22:44
Yeah, I'd have to be very careful when I scheduled
22:47
their session for... But even if I
22:49
knew, I wouldn't be able to tell you Ben, because obviously
22:51
confidentiality is sacrosanct.
22:53
So what
22:54
are those marks on your arm? I'm afraid
22:56
you can't get into it. Yeah, no,
22:59
exactly. Guys, I'm really worried about sash. Okay,
23:01
we have one here from someone
23:03
who shows us to be anonymous for good reason. They
23:06
say, hello there, I'm really enjoying your pod.
23:09
If you do choose to mention me, please don't say my name
23:11
as I'm a practicing psych therapist. Karen,
23:14
we will not mention it. In addition
23:16
to the relationships you covered and very
23:18
well too, I thought it important
23:20
to include Don's relationship with Anna
23:22
Draper, mad men, because that seemed
23:25
to be the only time he had a relationship with a woman where
23:27
he could be himself, i.e.
23:29
Dick. It was a true friendship and
23:31
not an affair of any sort. She's easy to
23:33
miss. She was the widow of the real Don,
23:36
an unglamorous but authentic woman. She didn't
23:38
feature my... I'll be honest, thank
23:40
you very much anonymous. I completely
23:43
forgot about that.
23:43
Well, we only did series
23:46
one. Oh, that's why, okay. And I think
23:48
she popped up in season two.
23:51
I'm sorry, I'm using series and season interchangeably
23:53
because I'm bilingual
23:56
in English and American. I mean, you're absolutely
23:58
right.
23:59
It was his only authentic relationship,
24:02
I think, from memory, but I haven't, I didn't rewatch
24:05
season two and I had forgotten about her, but
24:07
yeah, if we get a chance to get onto season
24:09
two, I'd love to talk more about her. Maybe
24:12
it was a guilt thing on his part.
24:14
Maybe we'll mention it if we ever do Peggy.
24:17
I'd quite like to do Peggy one day. Oh yes,
24:19
Peggy. She was a great guy too. Yeah, the only
24:22
woman in Sterling Cooper who was allowed
24:24
to actually move on from being a
24:26
receptionist and secretary. She got to actually
24:28
be an ad woman.
24:29
Okay, we've
24:31
got one more for now. It's Paul from
24:34
Nottingham who just says, how
24:35
about Joshua Lyman
24:37
from the West Wing? I love Josh.
24:39
I mean, it's really interesting to think
24:41
back to West Wing having just so recently
24:43
watched Succession because West
24:46
Wing shows these people, they are incredibly
24:49
smart and they've really earned their place in
24:51
the White House and into
24:54
power in a way that the
24:56
Roy kids were just born into
24:58
a sort of powerful family and don't
25:00
really have the skills or the talent to have enough
25:03
to work at it.
25:04
And also I think another time
25:06
that might come might be Succession related. I don't know.
25:09
I don't think we're done with Succession. That's all I
25:11
can say at this point. Sash,
25:13
I always worry when I get excited about all these
25:15
characters because I just think you've
25:19
got your actual real life clients and
25:21
then I just keep throwing shit
25:23
loads of new characters
25:26
on you like every week. How are you feeling?
25:28
Oh, well, now I love it. I love the excuse
25:31
to go back and watch these great shows and some
25:33
seeing them for the first time thanks to your brilliant
25:35
suggestions and to our listeners, brilliant
25:37
suggestions. But yes, of course,
25:40
my real clients absolutely
25:42
come first and always well. Werewolves
25:44
or otherwise? Well, werewolves or otherwise,
25:47
I will never tell. But I love
25:49
the fictional ones because I can talk about the fictional
25:51
ones. And have fun. And have fun.
25:53
You can even laugh at them. You can even laugh at them in a
25:55
way that I would never do with my real
25:58
clients.
25:58
They, I think when they're
26:01
fictional, they're fair game really. We can be a bit more,
26:03
play a bit more free and loose with our
26:05
attitudes and opinions. Don't have
26:07
to be quite so invested in that.
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