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Hey listeners, hey friends, what's up? Welcome
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to Sadasoul School. Thanks for tuning in wherever
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you are out there. You know, we've got people all
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across the United States and Canada, lots
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of other countries as well. I think the
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last time I looked at the analytics, there are people
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listening from more than 80 countries on a pretty
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consistent basis, which is just so awesome. So
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thanks for being such a big part of the community. You
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are awesome. And of course, I want to get on with the program
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because I know your time is important and
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you're busy. So, this segment is in
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our Failure Friday collection. That
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collection is in fact short stories about mistakes,
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missteps, disasters, and of course, failure.
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All of the non-successes, let's say. Because I'm always
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telling you success stories and we're always hearing from
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people who are getting their business up and running and sometimes
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making a lot of money and that's great. But,
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you know, no business is without challenge.
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No venture, nothing worth doing is ever easy. At
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least it's not always consistently easy. So
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it's interesting to see how people can kind of work
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through a difficulty, what they learn along
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the way, and usually how they end up bouncing
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back in some fashion. Today's
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short story features Billy from Tulsa,
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Oklahoma. Long ago I mentioned
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a story about a guy in Japan who had found
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great success renting himself out to strangers.
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Not for anything weird. I know it sounds weird,
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but he was just doing it for casual hangouts.
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If you wanted to hang out with this guy, you could go and... book
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sometime. He was just a regular person. He
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wasn't like an influencer or anything.
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And Billy thought, let's bring this to Oklahoma.
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And everyone in Oklahoma thought, let's
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not. Okay, so that's the short version.
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But of course, it's all about the details. Let's hear
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the story from Billy
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over to him.
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So there I was, a small town
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factory manager in Tulsa, Oklahoma,
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scrolling through the internet when I stumbled upon
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this intriguing story about a guy in Japan
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who was making a fortune by renting himself out
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to strangers. I thought to myself,
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this is pure genius. Introverts
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and friend seekers unite. This
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could be the next big thing in Tulsa. With
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a surge of excitement and a little bit of naivety,
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I set to work launching my very own
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Rent a Friend business. My
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unique selling point, I would market
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my services to introverts and anyone
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who wanted to make friends but didn't know how. I
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was convinced that I'd soon be rolling
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in cash, helping people navigate
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the tricky waters of friendship in a world
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that seemed to have forgotten how to make
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real connections. I
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invested time and money in designing the
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perfect website, complete with a catchy
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tagline. Don't be shy, give
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Rent a Friend a try. I even
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printed out snazzy business cards and created
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social media accounts to help spread the word. I
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was ready to become Tulsa's very own friend
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for hire, catering to the lonely
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hearts and social butterflies alike. Unfortunately,
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the world had other plans for me. From
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the get-go, it seemed like my unique business
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idea was destined to be more of
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a punchline than a profitable venture. My
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first client, a sweet elderly lady,
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hired me for an afternoon of companionship.
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However, she seemed more interested in teaching me
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how to knit. And this was
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not a talent I had. I
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left her house with a hat.
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finished scarf and the feeling that maybe
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my Rent-A-Friend business wasn't quite the
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goldmine I'd imagined. Things
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did get much better from there. I spent a Saturday
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afternoon playing board games with a conspiracy
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theorist who insisted that the earth was flat and
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that my business was secretly funded by lizard
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people.
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I spent three hours in mostly
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silence, contemplating the life choices
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that led me to this moment. As
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the weeks went by, it became increasingly
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clear that demand from my Rent-A-Friend services
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was virtually non-existent. The
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introverts I'd hoped to help were, unsurprisingly,
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not exactly clamoring to pay a stranger
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for companionship. My clientele
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mainly consisted of eccentric individuals
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who seemed more interested in testing the limits of
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my patience than in making genuine
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connections. With a heavy
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heart and a lighter wallet, I
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eventually accepted the inevitable and
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closed down my Rent-A-Friend business. My
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dream of becoming Tulsa's premier friend for
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hire had fizzled out like a poorly
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planned high school reunion.
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But as they say, laughter is the best
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medicine, and looking back on my Rent-A-Friend
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misadventures, I'm strangely proud of it.
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I may not have made a fortune, but
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I certainly gained a collection of bizarre and
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unforgettable experiences. My
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ill-fated attempt at renting out my friendship
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taught me that it's okay to admit defeat
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and move on. In the end,
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my failure became a lesson in resilience.
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I may not have revolutionized the world of
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friendship in Oklahoma, but at
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least I tried something new and dared to think outside
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the box. And who knows, maybe
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one day I'll stumble upon the perfect side
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hustle and hit the jackpot,
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all while reminiscing about the days when I
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tried to rent myself out as a friend.
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Billy and everyone never confuse a single
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defeat with a final defeat. That's the
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theme of Failure Friday. I love
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the story. I also appreciate the humor and
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the humility as well. So
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listeners, if you have a question or an update for us about your hustle
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or perhaps a contribution to Failure Friday or
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Throwback Thursday, any of our other segments, sidehustleschool.com
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slash questions. Today's notes, sidehustleschool.com
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slash 2337. Once
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again, thanks for being awesome. New episode coming out tomorrow.
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My name's Chris Guillabeau. This is Side Hustle
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School.
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