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2:03
For me, astrology is obviously
2:05
a family thing. As I've said before,
2:07
it's this ambient background noise
2:10
that leaves its way into your life in
2:12
important moments. But it's not something
2:14
that my family owns. It's
2:16
a vague part of our identity, but
2:18
not really the backbone of it. So
2:21
last year while we were researching the show, my
2:23
producer, Mitra stumbled across this incredible
2:25
story. A friend told her that
2:27
there was this woman in California who learned
2:29
astrology from her mom, who learned
2:31
it from her mom, and it just
2:33
kept going back for generations. It's
2:36
the type of thing you might hear about in India, but
2:38
a lineage of astrologers
2:41
I had never encountered such a
2:42
thing. So I asked Mitra to make some
2:45
calls. And before long, we
2:47
were talking to Jan Kumboletta
2:49
Kettler. I'm a third generation astrologer.
2:52
I'm a Capricorn who's a Phases moon
2:54
and Leo
2:55
rising. My name is Monika
2:57
Kigler Kajas, and I'm a fourth generation
2:59
astrologer. I'm a son
3:03
I'm a Scorpio Moon and the Libra
3:05
rising.
3:06
Yeah. We definitely we connect on
3:08
the Leah vibe for sure. Now
3:11
Jan and Monica are really close and
3:13
they're a lot like they both work
3:15
in healthcare. Jan is a psychologist,
3:17
Monica is a nurse. They live near
3:20
each other in Northern California. And
3:22
when we get them on a video
3:23
call, it's uncanny how similar
3:25
their mannerisms are. But it's
3:27
astrology that really ties them together
3:30
and
3:30
also sets them apart. For
3:32
these two women, astrology isn't just a hobby
3:35
or even a passion. It's
3:37
what connects them to their roots. And
3:39
when Jan and Monica look up
3:41
at the night sky, they don't
3:43
just see the stars and planets traveling
3:45
across the cosmos. They see
3:47
their family story, past,
3:50
present, and future.
3:55
From CalideScope and iHeart Podcast.
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I'm Mongia Chateekuru. Welcome
4:00
to Skyline Drive.
4:38
I've always been a seeker and
4:41
very interested in studying spiritual
4:43
things
4:44
That's Jan. She's in her sixties
4:46
and she kind of looks like a therapist.
4:48
She wears glasses, laughs
4:50
a
4:50
lot and HAS THIS
4:51
GREAT WAY OF PUTTING YOU AT EASE.
4:54
MY MOTHER COMES FROM A
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FAMILY OF SEEKERS, HER
4:58
FATHER ROMON, came
5:00
from a kind of a conservative middle
5:02
class family in Columbia, and
5:05
they were all very pious. They're from
5:07
the mountains. I wish I knew
5:09
what made him reject
5:11
Catholicism. I don't know
5:13
what it was, but my grandfather
5:15
kind of scandalize the family and
5:18
removed himself from the church and just
5:20
did not wanna have anything to do with the fallacies.
5:23
It's turn to the Century Columbia, and
5:25
Jan's grandfather gets deep into
5:27
metaphysics and
5:28
spiritualism. He went on his
5:30
own kind of spiritual journey.
5:32
And I found out later that he
5:34
also studied
5:35
astrology. His conservative family
5:37
is not happy about this, but
5:39
Luckily, his wife is more open
5:41
minded. When he married my grandmother,
5:43
she came from a more liberal
5:46
landowning family. And so
5:48
They were very interested in
5:50
mysticism, and they were very
5:52
intrigued with all his ideas. She
5:55
joins Ramon as he dives into
5:57
Rosa Crucianism, which is this belief
5:59
that there's secret wisdom, including
6:01
elements of astrology that's been handed
6:03
down from ancient times. So
6:05
that's how they raise their kids. Including
6:08
Mavel, Jan's mother.
6:11
Mavel turns out to be adventurous too.
6:13
She marries an American and moves thousands
6:15
of miles away to raise kids of her own.
6:18
But even in rural
6:19
Pennsylvania, she keeps the family
6:21
tradition alive and digs
6:23
deeper for understanding. When I
6:25
was in high school kind of in the sixties,
6:28
my mother started studying
6:30
astrology and
6:31
know, and mine was living in a small town,
6:34
but we were members of the unitarian church
6:37
and unitarians they're
6:39
very much uncomfortable with organized
6:41
religion and encourage a
6:43
lot of free thinking and so
6:46
our unitarian church had
6:48
all kinds of cool things going on. We would
6:50
have yoga teachers come
6:52
there. We would have dream groups there.
6:54
So an astrologer came to the
6:56
church My mom took a class
6:58
and I took the class with her. I
7:00
was like eighteen and
7:02
I was in college and I would then I would go
7:04
take astrology classes. And
7:06
I just absorbed it. I loved
7:09
it. You know, I always had these two
7:11
sides to myself. I had this, like,
7:13
kind of the spiritual mystical side
7:15
that I, of course, had gotten this
7:17
really strong hit for my grandfather
7:19
and my mother. Also had this
7:21
other side of myself that
7:23
was really interested in psychology
7:26
and
7:27
working as more of a scientist.
7:30
A scientist practitioner. Jan
7:32
put herself through grad school and becomes a licensed
7:35
psychologist, but she never stopped
7:37
consulting the stars. She
7:39
didn't wanna give up on that side of herself.
7:41
Along the way, she got married and had
7:43
Monica and Monica's brother and
7:46
For a while, Jan's mom lived with
7:48
them, seeing astrology clients
7:50
until her health declined.
7:52
And that It shaped
7:54
Monica's childhood in some pretty interesting
7:56
ways. As long as I can remember,
7:59
I would remember my mom
8:01
and my grandmother talking
8:03
about astrology, like, I feel like
8:05
I have a lot of memories of them
8:08
looking at the ephemeris and
8:10
talking, like, transits and
8:12
dates, and they were using
8:14
their femurist more for looking
8:17
ahead. For those of you who don't
8:19
know, The ephemeris is a
8:21
book of planetary
8:22
positions, and it lists where the
8:24
planets will be in the zodiac. So
8:27
basically, an ephemeris is a must have
8:29
tool in any astrologer's
8:30
arsenal. So ephemeris was
8:33
always by the toilet. Yep. So you can sit
8:35
down and be like, okay. So I
8:37
am just sitting here and I really need
8:39
to know when is the
8:41
freaking Venus and is that good
8:43
for me? So I would always look at this
8:45
and be like, what is this
8:47
stuff. And when I was
8:49
maybe about 789,
8:52
my mom would host astrology
8:55
seminars at our home in the living
8:57
room. It was a good sized crowd. It was like
8:59
ten to fifteen people would come
9:01
she would make these cool flyers, and then
9:03
she would distribute them out at the local
9:05
college. One thing that I
9:07
really remember is how we
9:09
always got our haircuts on a
9:11
water
9:11
sign. That's true. Once
9:14
in a while, if my hairdresser can't
9:16
see me on the right moon sign, I
9:18
have to subject myself to go on
9:20
the moons and check in
9:21
Gemini, but I try not to.
9:24
It's like
9:24
that's totally like when you're a little kid,
9:27
that's like one of the main things that
9:29
sticks out free. You're like, mercury's retrograde
9:31
and the moon's in a water sign so
9:33
I can get a
9:33
haircut. You don't
9:36
really know what it means.
9:38
For Monica, it was just this cool
9:41
way to grow up. And while it did
9:43
affect things like when she got her
9:45
haircuts, it was also just
9:47
something to pay attention to. Something
9:49
that felt like a fun, constant presence
9:53
until she realized she wanted
9:55
to dig
9:55
deeper.
9:56
Once I was a little bit older and
9:58
finished my masters, my mom and I would
10:00
meet and have lunches and we would go through
10:02
charts and we sometimes would look
10:04
at famous people too and like just kind
10:06
of nerd out on that. It it happens when the
10:08
student is ready. It's a
10:10
rich feeling of of
10:12
sharing something
10:13
deep, like the generational piece
10:15
of, oh, wow, I can I
10:17
can pass this wisdom on
10:19
now? But
10:20
not everyone in the family believes, at
10:22
least not entirely. Me
10:24
and my mom are the
10:26
believers of my daughter and my brother or
10:28
not. The one thing they
10:30
will participate in acknowledging
10:32
is Mercury Rachael
10:33
grade. Well, actually
10:35
though your dad has learned over
10:37
time. He will say, okay, we
10:39
gotta do some gardening. Let's we gotta put
10:41
some plants in -- Oh, yeah. -- and he'll
10:43
ask
10:43
me, what's the better day Do this
10:46
weekend or next weekend? And maybe
10:47
because astrology is so divisive,
10:50
it's created this unshakable bond
10:52
between them. There's people who are
10:54
very critical of it. Oh, you
10:56
believe in astrology? Oh, you think
10:58
the planet's like, make you
11:00
do this? And I'm like, Are you
11:02
kidding me? I was like, you don't have
11:04
anything about astrology. The planets
11:07
don't make me do anything. We're in
11:09
relationship to those planets. And it's a
11:10
place, okay, I'm not even gonna defend
11:13
astrology to people like that. You
11:15
know? Yeah. Right. Totally.
11:18
The way I see astrology is
11:20
it helps me understand my
11:22
relationship with the cosmos. It's
11:24
a very expansive broader
11:26
view. It helps me understand this world,
11:28
but then my place in relation
11:31
to this bigger thing.
11:32
Not a ton of people have this
11:35
depth of knowledge of
11:37
astrology. Our
11:38
relationship, I would already say, is very
11:41
deep because we have great conversations,
11:43
but this is just like another part
11:45
of our relationship that's super fun.
11:47
I totally agree. I feel that
11:49
we're very close in kind of
11:51
an intuitive energetic
11:53
way. We speak the same language. Mhmm.
11:56
When we were picking my wedding
11:58
date, we looked at the femurist,
12:00
like, we did nonstop where,
12:02
like, looking for
12:03
the right day. We chose
12:05
a moon in Libra
12:06
Day, which I think was --
12:07
Very smart. Very nice. For for
12:10
a wedding. Yes. That's the just thing is
12:12
you can't control everything, but you can
12:14
get some advice and
12:15
guidance, you know. I think
12:17
about my mom here, how
12:19
she has a lunar calendar of important
12:21
religious dates, and how that
12:23
triggers cycles of
12:24
prayer, of fasting, of
12:27
observance and joy. And
12:29
I guess that's true of any calendar.
12:31
How a New Year spurs resolutions? Easter
12:34
reminds us of rebirth? How even
12:36
Mondays and Fridays each carry their
12:38
own meaning in our lives. And
12:40
I think about procrastination, how
12:44
breaking something down into little tasks
12:46
can make it less overwhelming. How
12:49
maybe if your calendar or your
12:51
life is divided into
12:53
celestial moments of flow. Encouragement
12:55
to tackle your problems and to
12:57
be more social or introspective.
13:00
Maybe that makes life more approachable. And
13:03
then there are these other parts of their
13:05
faith and astrology that gives them
13:07
meaning
13:07
too. One thing that
13:10
is passed on is my grandmother's
13:12
ephemeris. I have it right
13:14
here. And there's a letter that she wrote
13:16
inside of it. And every time
13:18
I read it, I cry. And you can just
13:20
totally see her personality coming out
13:22
in her handwriting. Look at this.
13:24
I don't know what this is even about. Do you know
13:26
mom? The balance. Oh, those
13:28
lyrics from a song that she liked,
13:30
from the sixties, from the moody
13:32
blues.
13:33
Oh, okay. Okay. Well,
13:36
that's the letter she left in her ephemeris
13:38
to us. It's a really it's a good
13:40
song. It's actually good
13:42
music. I miss her.
14:16
Thank you so much for listening to Minisode.
14:19
Our little team here at Skyline
14:21
Drive has been dealing with a lot of life thrown
14:23
at us. So thank you so much
14:25
for your patience. Skyline Drive is a
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production of kaleidoscope and
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14:31
mostly hosted and written by me. But
14:33
this Minisode was written by our wonderful
14:35
supervising producer, Mary Phillips Sandy,
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and our excellent producer, Mitra
14:39
Bunchahi. Mark Lotto is my
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very patient story
14:42
editor. Special thanks to Anna Rubenova
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Score. The warning, I'm not
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sure if you figured this out, but we managed to get
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of fortunes. Needs some beach astrologers, meet
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my family, and so much more.
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It is coming soon. Our little
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team has been delayed by COVID and
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COVID and the surgery on my son and more
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COVID, none of which my astrology
15:29
mentioned to me, but I promise
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we are hard at work on two
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very beautiful episodes. So keep
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conclude the series later this month.
15:39
Thank
15:39
you, Amar. Thank you, Dad.
15:41
Thank you to all of you for listening.
15:43
It really means
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the world to me.
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Mirrors. We look beneath the delicate
16:15
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16:16
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16:18
most influential figure. George
16:20
Ballergin. He used to say,
16:22
what are you looking at? Dear, you
16:24
can't see you. Only I can
16:26
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16:28
larger than
16:29
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16:31
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16:31
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