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oh man, it is finally good to be here solo,
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you know, this is the way i always envisioned
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the podcast and it
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was called smart and then they want added
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and that
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would say it was say it thing they
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get their whole thing is like, no less is
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more and i'm like no man, less
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is less anyway,
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welcome to smart les
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schwab
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well where'd you go sean oh so
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i went to go visit will and then i went
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on vacation with you
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we're me when yes
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oh no jays my memories not so good own
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jail leave me isn't a did you switch
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com is not related but did you switch com
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is recently that this one says of
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memory socks on it and
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, gotta deal with
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by the way for the way speaker memory suck
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sean and other know it is not related but
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i texted jason last night or that it for
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gamers
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alone
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the discovery that show about people
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being such a little bit of you manage
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now i wanna see that chastened and trying to get me
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to watch it or both of us for a year at least
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at least oh yes jason you're talking
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about that yeah i'm i'm in that dude
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the target in yeah okay
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right i mean it is hundred kind
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of cinematic to write it like she gets
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old dark and creepy and the sounds
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in the little for the like make on afraid or naked
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and afraid looks like a kennel
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like the difference il is kind like survivor of com
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a grab assay and you know kind of aging
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seats up there was me last night negative for
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negative naked and afraid plan afraid lot of ground locked
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my keys i love to further reduce
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further house of know that everybody was getting
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dipping and then but anyway the
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, is that that is the people
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shown they take ten people put them in the woods and whoever can
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last the longest with literally like a thing
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to to not even a mat shot all i would
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think about as blair witch and i well
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and there are people hilariously
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who are like man i'm going to give this beer run for its
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money and then the and then the guy doesn't even make their
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own personal survival is to wait but do
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to do but they're getting chased by a bear is like
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something from the cruise step in and there is no there's
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no crew you got a bunch of golden road else
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yeah a bunch of [unk] preview of years at a joking me
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now i gotta watch this it's pretty great
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credit great i can't wait till you get to the can
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he was feeling bears you're not i'm not talking
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about that gave their got a i'm not the type of gotta
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you know a ended up
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going to do you have been areas of chasing
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me that i haven't shot it inside rawhide
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at twenty versus yeah
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okay listen speaking of twenty first and aids
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which makes it takes me to new york this is a segway
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a beyond those segues
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the guy can actually something i'm
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really excited because i don't know this
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person at we we have had a passing
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hello i think a few times over the years
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but he's one of those people that i've always i'm
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gonna say i'm always absolutely
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adored his career in
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what he does is you bear and
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, he is no no he's not
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a he is too talented from
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the get he's been doing and a long time and
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he's about it all of our age but
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he's been doing it and we've all been admiring
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him for a really long time that
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was even making movies and then directing
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movies and then writing movies in writing
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plays and writing bots and then
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going back and doing this that she's been doing in
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a really long sucked into you respect this guy like
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you not yet but we'll be as a certain look as
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face as a certain i do listen
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listen mister guess before i meet you just
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know that so so ill will i see is
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not phoning this one in he know got
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you've got something is true out
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does he doesn't in i was impressed
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i've always been like ah man that's all that
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was so good and everything he's he's
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really good and he's stuff that's been different
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from from where you started to, where he
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is it's just always it up and
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think that's the hallmark of somebody really
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curious, it really talented they keep
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trying to do different stuff and mentioned the books and
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the plays and you know, i mean, this guy,
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this guy hehehe on
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cannibalism in one of his he he
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stood on the top of his desk and another
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one of his movies, he was
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get the space, but could even have the right
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dna, another one of these his
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movies he's now he's
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been he's doing this new over
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on, i guess on disney plus,
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it's at right now he's doing a film on netflix he's got
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importantly, a new documentary that he directed
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that is about pain than joy that
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offered ethan hawke good
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morning i just watched
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the black phone is that what it's called that's
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what it's called you are always i just watched
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it last it's i've been telling everybody about
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it you're amazing telling that movie
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well face yeah in love
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that movie want to see it i'm glad movie got
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a legit intro from will intro i feel
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honored and a legit smile at sean
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hayes is usually faking legit most
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of the time smiles come easy to him but
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that's genuine yeah
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wow that's a pleasure and honor to meet
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you know it really is i mean anything we've never
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really met we is dunno if you remember we one time
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ribs each other on the street the
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west village you probably don't ever arrive via
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rye or emre hire you remember that
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you don't know
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, were i was really glad
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i think you're with sure my i
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know john sherman yeah
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yeah i was wearing a shirt as ring of brian jonestown
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massacre teacher does like fifteen years ago
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and uses when i said see how to sherman you went
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to him in as too soon as extensive as
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those sites and he's a he's
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and was in a tube top a tasteful what a tasteful
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for one it now i was talking with
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somebody yesterday about that toppled
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paul newman document or i cannot wait to see i
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want to see that i just started that was talk about
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how how to disk how did this happen for you
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isn't this dog well i
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was the great before
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the pandemic started and as given out
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of the shower and my apartment in the
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, rang and i got it sounds eyes are closed
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he's got a nice any i often authorized
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to finish analysts if i for tesla tesla
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as as i picked up the phone you know how like now
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when the phone rings you don't know the person's name
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is it should never answer it does
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as well have i just decided what they are
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decided what it up and it turns out it was some paul
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newman and joanne woodward youngest
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child a who got my number from
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a friend and she's like introduce
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yourself and said i really want you to direct a documentary
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about my parents ice com
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a big my first thought was how the hell do i get
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out of this stuff via an
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assistant just sounded like so much work
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in , i talk to your for awhile
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about what she had why she thought it would be good
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good i tried to recommend some other people other she
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was like no up what i'm asking you
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a sec will they
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let me think about affirmative and i just couldn't
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figure out a way to say no when i
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first arrived in new york fallen in love with acting
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they work me , to be corny
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but they had kind of a god like status you would
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see them sometimes that an opening and the
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fact that they two headed
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see the such a high level and six different
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ways you know she was kinda like the actors accuracy
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was teaching acting she was obsessed
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with theater ran around
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theater company and you know he was a card
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carrying cinema luminary and
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the been married for fifty years so whatever you think
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it can't be done the image
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of poland's un would be in my brain like while
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he could live a good life would be a decent person
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and make great arts and have love
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the i i basically as the kids
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if by doing this was gonna find
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out anything that was really revolting
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and rafinha like a i lived there
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your image of them exactly i love my fantasy
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version and i thought it is this it is
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is remotely accurate near
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like yes it's remotely accurate anyway
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i couldn't figure out ways say no so i said
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yes and then the
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three years went by rec his fifth last
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you know it's so crazy that you're on here i was
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think these this kind of stuff as is now how
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many just texted me like two days ago that i'm in that
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i mean that that no way yeah there's
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like a photo of me or something that they cut
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to at the theater in connecticut
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i'm really really weird bizarre
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and then we have you wondered about for that some sort
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of and have no idea did have a lot of i'm
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now of a sudden legal hell and anguish
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, like and get embroidered of nobody
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likes to litigate was on his weight
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so easily this is amazing so now here
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you are twenty twenty two you've just made this been
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last three years your life make a documentary about
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paul newman joanne woodward and less
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read this really rewind soon
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with the only reason i signed away
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nice so now you're you're
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what was the first was your first acting gig
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and will where you're not from new york i was
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you feel like it's such a quintessential new yorker
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to me me where you from
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murray would you grow up were born
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in austin texas my
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parents split up and i traveled or my dad
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stayed in texas sized spend summers
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in taxes and my mom old are you in they split
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up on me three in
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an , does that and is linear we know
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now that you've gotta bring us
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probably bring us pain it's rape a notice no pain
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no paints are there
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there my mother bounced around
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a lot from atlanta said connecticut
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to vermont to brooklyn to new
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jersey the graduate
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high school in jersey it's a series of bank robberies
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or what was your and address where
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, have to ask are both did she
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says she was eighteen when eighteen was born so
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he was trying to figure out who she was and
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get changing jobs and changing
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yeah her identity so to speak i
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mean not as a bank robber not literally your i
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didn't know and can use you can med ice
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to saying that like i'm ,
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two and i'm still trying to figure
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out out i am a man
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waves all you don't play like but you can't
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you don't play a day over thirty five and will
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take that as well as old as
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just maybe the navy or let maybe
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thirty nine years nine mean have with as
10:26
the sleds let him know it's funny as in
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it's funny intro you were talking about
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he was say nice things about me about curiosity
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and things a but i feel that way to
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the whole time as making this documentary this can
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thing to the editor i'm not a documentary
10:39
filmmaker i don't know what to do i mean i i
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i , know how to do this and
10:45
a dude enjoyed doing that put yourself
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in that position where you have that beginners
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mind sensibility yeah yeah
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you feel closer to yeah now you
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door this only
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one thing i feel close to or which
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is acting as the only thing i know anything
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about at the other writing
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doing other things it's
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a similar exercise is a storytelling
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right but i but i don't know
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i don't feel closer to it it feels just
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as mysterious as you've done some directing
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they'll have been you yeah a bunch image
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and at that that that you feel a closer poulter
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acting and directing when
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a great thing about directing is
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eager to choose your material and you get the
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hire people so everybody that you're
11:28
working with people that you like to be around
11:31
is afoot when when you're an actor you often get
11:33
set on these sets three like let's
11:35
discuss such an asshole and whites who
11:38
, her and alchemy alchemy
11:40
a or for you get into
11:42
a situation where you really like the characters
11:45
something the director
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envisioned it completely different and your
11:49
imagination sir like at war with each
11:51
other and yeah and that doesn't happen
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when you directing i wanted to
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say used to when when when is it strikes me
11:57
so again like you get to go
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in in you'd you're directing some
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and directing a documentary some all
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because probably be a lot of it because
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have you been so good they're acting
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for so long and i get at this is have been a couple
12:12
times of the show but you
12:14
, jason are similar in that you guys started
12:16
young edu continued
12:18
in and done great stuff and there was
12:20
used to sort of that the dangers of being a child
12:22
actor and below blah but you guys going to sidestep
12:25
the lot of that and stayed true to and it continued
12:28
and and you do keeps
12:30
getting better and is and it's unusual
12:32
a in that some even a question
12:34
as more of as statement or an observational but
12:36
what was that moment because i wanted to go back before
12:39
what was what was the first thing you audition for
12:41
mature men was we were using your mom were
12:43
need to audition for this to was she like there's
12:45
a part available added to pursue
12:48
the already okay i'll
12:50
try to do it fast it is some sir you have
12:52
your story about your child's
12:54
acting is dangerous a lot of the people this is
12:56
is that we came up with their dead in of
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yeah i mean and there's not a bunch of on that
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have that are that are still making
13:02
a living i mean i i i
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don't see that to brag on just i'm so
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i'm so proud of of us have
13:09
any one that kinda is somehow navigate
13:13
, that transition from kid too
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young adults who were other cause it's so sickle
13:17
and it's not about who's good it's
13:20
just who can kind of stay like
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kind of semi cool to hire a hire don't
13:25
mean to sound like a cynic by die you know oftentimes
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doesn't have anything to do a talent i think well
13:30
and it has to do with i
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don't think it has to do a towel on it does had to do
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with a little bit your dna who
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brought you up your ability to handle
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failure i'm your ability
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to grow from failure you know i saw i
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talked to martha plimpton the other day and the phone is
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used has grown up to be such a remarkable
13:48
human beings as if you don't do the stuff
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on the inside your talent dies
13:53
young you know if or it just gets it
13:55
gets beaten up my first
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my mom i didn't ever winners we're my
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mom and get home from work till seven says you
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need me to do you know i needed
14:04
to be doing something in the winner says she
14:06
signed me up for an acting class at the paul robes
14:09
and center for performing arts in
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princeton new jersey and i went
14:13
to this class and they had a guest
14:15
speaker com who did like a little
14:17
improv thing and i
14:19
really i was a giant hammers a kid
14:22
and numb after classy came up
14:24
to me the parking lot he said would you like to be
14:26
he was running the mccarter theater and princeton and
14:29
he said would you like to be in a play sure
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and i was done was paid
14:34
was paid a spear and it
14:36
was you know when george bernard shaw st john
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but , did display and and
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just couldn't believe beat around
14:43
all these adults who are having so much
14:45
so it was sitting there talking
14:47
about god and levin
14:50
sword fighting and you know is
14:52
all his they were having
14:54
so much more fun than my parents were something
14:57
, a sudden i loves watching these
15:00
people in rehearsal and so
15:03
after the play was over i
15:05
heard through a friend of mine about
15:07
some open casting calls in new york
15:10
and i just started riding the train and to new
15:12
york with this other kid and going
15:14
on as some of the big of casting calls in
15:16
one of a was explores how old were you
15:18
when you are just let go to go on your own
15:20
on a train into new thirteen
15:24
wow
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yeah that's pretty clean yeah a lot of i
15:27
should say a lot of my friends' parents
15:29
wouldn't let them sleep over at my house because
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they thought my mother was too lenient with
15:36
, see why sheath oh yes
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yes went to new york by i met with to i went to europe
15:41
by myself and road the euro when i was
15:43
i summerhayes
15:45
yes she she put a high value
15:48
on independence and independence
15:50
think if she'd had i think kid i
15:52
would have been and drug rehab or dead
15:54
by eighteen see on but but
15:57
for some reason it suited me i really liked
15:59
my independence you're lucky enough to find a thing
16:01
that brought you joy at such a young
16:03
age which i think is key to use
16:06
success yoga again
16:08
unusual not a lot of beauty and you know so
16:11
exposes the first your first
16:13
film is that it first a gig yeah yeah
16:15
and who that was it with river
16:17
phoenix directed by joe dante yeah
16:20
wow was reversion next the is is
16:22
is dead poet's the thing that kind of broke
16:24
you like the another
16:27
all as had having you mean broke
16:29
like not like killed me but i have
16:31
a see i like broke your life you
16:33
broke into the picture definitely the success
16:35
that movie gave me a career yeah that's
16:38
amazing his successors ominous so
16:40
to so to talk about why you're
16:42
not you , or a drug
16:44
addict robin liquor stores and and doing
16:46
all that stuff even though you were brought up and
16:48
and you know a kind of of a permissive
16:51
a house it sounds like a in in
16:53
a good way you were given rope to like
16:56
you are trusted so you gave your mom reason not
16:58
to and not to just ended up beyond
17:00
okay now can , take some credit
17:03
yourself that you just kind of came out with
17:05
a with a with a good head on your shoulders
17:07
and thank god for that i
17:11
just think it's a dance isn't it you know
17:13
i think a lot of us with the wrong parents
17:16
could be really bad
17:18
situation on what
17:20
leads to my mind when you ask me that as i think about
17:22
my oldest maya she's acting she's
17:25
on stranger things right now of in
17:27
weight your daughters and stranger things yes things
17:29
yes one is a she plays robin
17:32
get on it you gotta be kidding me mad men
17:35
had no idea that was your daughter she's fantastic
17:37
sure yet he's not getting him for fucks
17:39
sake says as honest as
17:41
know so i didn't know that yes
17:43
was the she's she's a
17:45
remarkable young woman then
17:48
i did some things right
17:50
and i did something's wrong in
17:52
who she is is the person
17:54
who is able to differentiate
17:58
right i'll make sense that of her own life
17:59
and what did you give her that
18:02
did you give her that tool a mean the about
18:04
answer probably is no i mean she's just
18:07
kind of thing she was born with it yeah exactly
18:09
yeah she's you weren't going to stop her
18:12
i remember a member of four years old at
18:14
being
18:15
pretty sure that she was gonna be an artist i
18:17
mean it was just the way she related a watercolor
18:20
and eat sure it's a photograph
18:22
and she would
18:24
seems the composition of it and if
18:26
you read or a poem and she likes it she would memorize
18:29
it a mystery just anything that touches the arts
18:31
with a part of her n
18:34
n i didn't did i give her that give
18:36
mean he's mean example for years
18:39
the about why it's a dance is
18:41
we were having a hard time obe says am i missing
18:43
this and she's in her the early adolescence
18:46
in
18:47
just a salary you know we need spend some time together
18:50
and i said ahead of
18:52
had a week off
18:53
then
18:54
that you get a funny i actually wrote in the calendar that
18:56
movie was starting like in the twenty third of
18:59
march and i was just wrong it was starting
19:01
to dirtiest so i thought i
19:03
was supposed to leave town of a sudden was a cheese
19:05
i'm home with nothing to do and
19:08
i wince you are an assiduous and assiduous know you
19:10
have nord time with time
19:12
and i'm getting on your nerves everything but i think the
19:14
answer is let's go
19:16
i want to spend a week with you like i've
19:18
got nothing to do for week and i
19:20
talk to your mom and i'm going to get a school
19:22
and we're just gonna go be together for a week and
19:25
i said i'll take you anywhere you want to
19:27
ohio and , was sure she'd
19:29
say paris or something united or
19:31
vamos reaction to are going to say go
19:33
to school gonna spend a week together i
19:36
don't think she liked spending a week with me but
19:38
she like getting out of school fiasco of
19:40
school or yes but she said she
19:42
said she wanted to go see gracefully wow
19:45
are completely shocked me has
19:47
one want to go to greece lance to sick
19:49
i don't know but she been watching elvis videos
19:52
on youtube you know and
19:54
she just loved him and
19:56
him and i took her to graceland and we walked
19:58
into son studios
20:00
and she said dad
20:03
and she showed me her arm all
20:05
the hair on her arm was standing
20:08
up you know they that thing we get shivers
20:10
yeah as , a key feel
20:12
a to feel this room room
20:14
i'm never thinking i don't know if
20:16
that's this room or her
20:19
like the room is magical
20:21
but you have to have an awareness of why
20:23
it's why for your hair like
20:26
see understood what
20:28
son studios missed and
20:30
she was and she cared about it was interested
20:32
in it she understood with sam posters
20:35
up to his yes she understood a
20:37
lot of that because i talked about it by you
20:39
can i talk about the dallas cowboys to and she
20:41
doesn't care about that either so it's a said
20:44
you know these kids are who they are and
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i want to go back to when you were starting
26:00
because a questions or my head about
26:03
dry , like you know when you're starting out as an actor
26:05
he said he to this plane a ghost that was kind of amazing
26:08
and throwing the rental as adults and then
26:10
i think in people's minds of people
26:12
who has the has successful as you other people
26:14
think oh it's just snowballed and it was
26:16
great and i never stopped working but there
26:19
are always dry spells for actors especially
26:21
when you're starting out starting your younger how
26:23
do you get through those did you doubt yourself
26:25
how did yourself get through that doubts and we ever
26:27
like i'm a can't find jobs maybe
26:29
this isn't working maybe this chose the wrong thing
26:32
i say this a lot and
26:35
people think i'm kidding when i said
26:37
which i guess is a compliment or something but i'm definitely
26:40
with certain i was washed up at three
26:42
different times including you know
26:45
it's as though there were three different
26:47
chapters of my life forensic oh
26:49
wow it's over
26:51
like i didn't i didn't know
26:53
it was going to end them because when you when
26:55
you have success young that
26:58
hijacks your brain and a negative way
27:00
which is set to , to think oh
27:03
the world's on my side you know a guy
27:05
justice justice when
27:07
i was a t like that's my break now
27:09
i'm a made man and then all
27:11
of all sudden the
27:14
the four years go by and
27:16
you do
27:17
six other movies and they're all failures
27:20
and then you want to audition for some
27:22
happening movie and nobody
27:24
will even wants to let you audition cause
27:26
they've heard of view and they know they don't like the
27:29
right visit this all these other twenty four
27:32
year olds that it's just graduating college another
27:34
finding themselves they're coming
27:36
out of the you know them just graduated from this
27:38
trauma programs and everybody's really
27:40
excited about this no no
27:42
we don't want that kid from dead poet's society i saw that terrible
27:45
mystery date is awful other
27:48
i remember
27:50
remember overhearing
27:52
the mom
27:54
film exact like like
27:55
it was i was in the bathroom and it was sick of president
27:58
and paramount or something and and
28:00
he was like yeah america
28:03
cast his vote for ethan hawke him he's
28:05
not a movie star he'll never make it so
28:07
mm mm because moonlight it was that
28:09
after a premier some movie i did on sick
28:11
oh my god in
28:14
, come rushing out go with what are these
28:16
where's the tally snow i i
28:18
hid inside the you have clear
28:20
as people talk like that all the time
28:22
they the time to write people off you know they're
28:25
either building you up are tearing down
28:27
here are either in the process of one of
28:30
ups and i've had three different times
28:32
where i really
28:33
was scared
28:35
in ah because i love it i
28:37
love doing it and
28:40
i think the joke is that it's how
28:42
you handle those moments when you because
28:45
we're , constantly being asked to transition
28:47
you know even even now my beards going
28:50
gray and you know i know
28:52
, to transition as an actor as to become
28:54
a different actor for
28:57
and if you try to stay the same person
28:59
you were ten years ago you try to stick
29:01
yourself from formaldehyde because people like you
29:03
then he , is die
29:06
you have that says he has to be willing to let it
29:08
all go as danger from your gender
29:10
being wrong for the part if you keep
29:12
if you stay in the same five years he has inspired
29:14
helmets almas easy to do so you
29:16
what your was it you started millipore your theater
29:18
company that was in the early nineties early
29:21
nineties ninety one and where is that
29:23
even even was the theater company
29:25
that
29:26
right after you
29:29
know the couple years after dead poet's society
29:31
and i had drops out of college and
29:33
ah what's , about what city
29:36
is it and near city we have our at
29:38
i took some of the money i made in says rented a seat
29:40
or on forty second street and i
29:42
had a lot of brilliant friends just charles
29:45
robert sean leonard jumped on board chairman
29:47
steve zahn arm arm
29:49
bunch of different men and women that
29:51
were young artists and we just decided to dedicate
29:53
ourselves to producing young
29:56
people's work young know work the work
29:58
of our own generation
29:59
put a nice little place it was it was
30:02
a it was a real sensation and and i can
30:04
tell you as an actor had moved to new york in nineteen
30:06
ninety from toronto and i did know a single
30:08
person it was very intimidating could
30:10
you guys had that i knew some
30:12
people naked angels you guys were kind of the answer
30:14
to naked angels you were like the next generation
30:17
is all these great guys
30:20
in in doing all this amazing stuff but i was
30:22
thinking that must have given you quite
30:24
a bit of a ,
30:26
but at least something that could get to sort of
30:28
take your mind away from all the politics
30:31
in the bullshit about being a movie star
30:33
and actually just focus on doing your thing
30:35
is that is there any truth to that you know
30:38
it's a sinner wonder what you would sit when we talk about
30:40
survivor been a young actor what
30:42
actually pop through my head is
30:44
my friends
30:46
i had really good friends
30:48
a job just a good choice for that such
30:51
a good dude hello to charge he says it's
30:53
a with when you have good friends
30:55
who
30:57
they to you
30:58
really stuck up your know
31:00
you been you know is what are you been hanging out with your
31:02
agency long you sound like you're on an interview
31:05
and you have friends that you admire the
31:08
way that they think about art or the
31:10
way the days i think that
31:13
your friends can save your life and
31:15
if you don't have the right
31:17
friends i know like sometimes
31:20
i just feel so lucky that about
31:23
the friends that friends made them
31:24
they're the ones who kept me alive and kept
31:26
me thinking amen to that in also crossing
31:29
paths with people that are behaving
31:31
in a way that you recognize as a way that you
31:33
don't want to be that's
31:35
also really import yeah i can you know what i'm glad
31:37
you said that you could jason is that
31:39
really stuck i'm
31:42
rolling let me know
31:45
, if you know out you know even are thinking
31:47
what are your friends i knew i knew a lot of those guys
31:50
from way back in the day before the guys is josh
31:53
hamilton josh with me when he did that because
31:56
i was living with the missy jaeger
31:58
was my go for the time when they do wow you
32:00
via with kenny arrogance is it
32:02
was rough alone in that josh
32:04
was so brilliant in that man he was so so
32:06
fucking that it has made me think of forty second street
32:09
and fear executive i did miss
32:11
easy to play with me at at mallifert
32:13
yes the right business and
32:15
either you know i always i ask a bunch
32:17
of people who come on this show who are in the
32:19
theater is yemeni great like tragic
32:22
but funny theater stories that happened to you
32:24
are like one night i'll say i
32:26
have one i don't think i've shared with you guys i'm
32:28
one night i just did this place called good
32:30
night oscar in chicago hopefully it's gonna new york
32:33
and i'm were deafening of and thirty
32:35
was there when was that i am
32:38
in the middle of the in the middle of
32:40
a towards him the play i have
32:42
to play the piano every night and part of
32:44
the story and in the front row
32:47
there's two girls that were
32:49
bombed wasted out of their mind
32:51
drunk and while
32:53
i'm playing it's i'm really intimate like kind
32:56
of moment in the place and these
32:58
girls every time girls just like i would
33:00
play like every ten seconds they go
33:09
and i was like the rest of the audience
33:11
is completely silent and the
33:13
guys would come down they try to get on the stage
33:16
it was insanity you were
33:18
doing display in a theater there's
33:20
as a sunset just i was
33:22
just sent row bombed
33:25
way it was so that
33:27
, have a i have i of good
33:29
theater stories we're not trying to wrap up
33:31
ago with the front rows i did a place
33:34
called hurly burly with josh hamilton bobby
33:36
cannavale he parker posey of foreboding
33:38
the volleys a lot agree people's
33:40
but the director had this idea that
33:43
my character was kind of a drug addict neared you
33:45
well type said that i
33:47
should be on the stage passed
33:49
out with as the audience answers
33:51
by so at the twenty
33:53
but when the it doors opened i would
33:56
have to be that be my underwear was supposed
33:58
to be like saying it off my but and
34:00
i'm sitting my underwear completely collapsed
34:02
on a living room couch right
34:05
the just supposed to be bob and
34:08
people would come and sit down they
34:10
would see me and it was like they
34:13
were looking at their television they would just talk
34:15
about me like , wasn't
34:17
there is and because i first couple rows i could
34:19
just hear you know he's a really terrible person
34:21
i read this article people magazine where the same
34:25
related or not , real massage
34:28
units of of i don't like and i'm having a listen
34:30
and i can't like i want to with them
34:32
i had my
34:34
, on a true associate
34:37
with an entry entry will be
34:39
so foolish as you could we do this or what it
34:41
says hijacked for would move in touch with
34:44
interrupting in which is where open up with i
34:46
was just since out here getting a coffee
34:48
with my middle son and my
34:50
partner my girl were getting coffee mrs hood
34:52
comes by with their grandson and her
34:54
son would ever see standing
34:57
ominous standing sick speak to me then
34:59
she looking at me but talk in recent
35:01
she goes and , i can't really
35:03
remember his name bad bad
35:06
that aside
35:08
i'm having for and i'm stuck on as beds
35:10
and see six feet ammo i just want to be like hey
35:12
you know i'm i live near
35:14
yes i'm breathing right here
35:17
have no rafferty anyway so you're on
35:19
is expiring who directed that version of hurly
35:21
burly
35:22
scott elliot
35:23
of course yeah yeah
35:26
that's of i had another time where my
35:28
friend died on stage with me how bout that
35:30
we what do you mean like ,
35:32
like literally a great canadian actor richard
35:34
easton we have seen in a tom
35:37
stoppard's coast of utopia where he had to scream
35:39
at me i'm i'm know yeah
35:41
i will not lend you any more money he had
35:43
this huge thing where he and his final
35:45
line was and that's my last
35:47
word know if he's as
35:49
he said his tongue fell
35:52
out of his mouth the way like a brick
35:54
would fall out but something was wrong
35:58
and then then
35:59
the hit the ground like
36:02
you know i mean face first the
36:05
spurs a and
36:07
i was so frozen
36:10
i could i'm stare at an a new emit a little
36:12
just women's you know the audience
36:14
thought that that that's part of the play right
36:16
regular kind of see my my final word many
36:19
hits close and unsanitary
36:21
and i don't know it's i'm looking at the audience in they're all
36:24
laughing and i just my
36:26
brain just went to the dark side was accused
36:28
it i'm that guy that
36:30
guy's dead my friend is dead
36:32
wasn't and i don't know what to do and martha
36:34
plimpton was in the wings and she came out and
36:36
she was so ballsy she came
36:38
out she was just like is there a doctor in
36:40
the house is
36:41
doctor in the house and this
36:43
dude in the third rose i'm a doctor
36:45
in the west the audience is still laughing podiatrist
36:47
but i'm here know , was and
36:50
then the prop guy came out and they didn't would
36:52
he calmly higher cpr they did
36:54
cpr on him and so he was dead for
36:56
seven minutes and they revived it might spend
36:58
all day when lincoln center know
37:00
whereas drawing applause know that said
37:02
that the audience had been evacuated was no applause
37:05
for life so ways i'm at yes
37:07
while i'm glad we were laughing because it has a good outcome
37:10
yeah yeah yeah he survived and he actually
37:12
returned to the show about two months later
37:14
who have i was at was heart attack
37:16
or something area here get a full blown heart
37:18
attack right there since day one they
37:21
are ethan i've got a question for you something
37:24
that is or i would assume our
37:26
is unique to eat young
37:28
young actors that that become adults
37:31
something that i saw i saw
37:33
with struggle with but i remember being it sounds
37:35
and wonder if you had the same thing when
37:37
you start training yourself to
37:40
convincing as another person
37:44
the time when you're still trying to figure
37:46
out who you are or who you're going
37:48
to be com right as as a child you
37:50
know where we don't really figure out who were going to be like
37:52
toward sixteen seventeen some whatever the hell
37:54
it has to trying on all these different roles
37:57
and really trying to be believable and so that's
37:59
causing you to really
37:59
try to find that place inside of you have that's
38:02
kind of like that characters it started to
38:04
develop for me sort of like
38:06
a are a manager bolts form
38:08
of schizophrenia right like a a monetize
38:10
above version of schizophrenia but
38:13
it it it it sort of confused
38:15
my path to identity
38:18
and who identity really was when i wake up in the
38:20
morning or go to bed at night did you
38:22
ever deal with any of that disturbs starting
38:24
as as as young as i did train yourself
38:27
to be somebody other than who
38:29
you are organically becoming
38:31
absolutely i mean he
38:33
knows limited i had that i
38:35
mean for example when i was doing dead
38:37
poet's society
38:39
the my character is extremely
38:41
shy right he's australian and
38:44
see you're accessing the part of
38:46
yourself that is really shy right
38:48
like well what am i like when i'm really
38:50
shy and you start
38:52
it's almost like hi
38:55
sounds really corny to say but you do you do this to disguise
38:57
sages if you just make yourself
38:59
smile for half an hour you actually are any good
39:01
mood and it does work it's content
39:04
a hard wire your brain will
39:06
you can hard wire your brain for
39:08
brain lot of different things for us and if
39:10
you do in a daily meditation daily
39:12
meditation a human being might hate themselves
39:14
and not feel like with their their
39:16
words are worth anything and you're
39:18
accessing that part of yourself
39:21
yes you know you're more than that but
39:23
you it's kinda like your wiring your
39:25
brain to highlight that
39:27
part of you and i really struggled
39:30
with that when that movie was over this
39:33
has been an ongoing seem of my life
39:35
of trying
39:37
i think actually spent a lotta time inviting
39:40
you how to get into character right you hear people say
39:42
that all done in see spend all this energy inviting
39:45
depression , madness it's
39:48
most confusing with the darker emotions
39:50
rights you might have been but then we
39:52
supposed to do them once you've invited them into
39:55
your psyche to play and i found
39:57
that if i found that extremely difficult
39:59
if you're
40:00
how are you have an aptitude for this
40:03
route n n is is actually an aptitude
40:05
for insanity era you know fervor
40:08
sir and and i think the big lesson
40:10
for young actors is
40:13
if you're gonna really think about character
40:15
you , to start
40:17
to think about your own character while it's
40:19
a you know it's so interesting sexist i'm i'm i'm
40:21
to i really am obsessed with the black phone i thought
40:23
it was such a great movie and
40:26
i'll watch it again like it's one of his movies are
40:28
once again and again a where you
40:30
you actually i didn't know anything about
40:33
it and as i'm watching the movie you're playing this crazy
40:36
kidnapping sounds of the lambs kind
40:38
of guy and kind didn't think you would
40:40
didn't i'd ending the character
40:42
the
40:42
the as dark as it is i when you actually
40:45
the hill
40:46
he'll children young like you kill
40:48
them and i was like
40:51
how in the world
40:53
do you find this purse like
40:56
how in the world did you find out
40:58
how to play that guys because it was scary
41:00
was shit
41:02
the reader wanted ocean okay maybe
41:04
maybe just as the wrong question guy a movie
41:06
i spoke to the rug good and ,
41:08
didn't drop your my can pack your shit shown start
41:10
running around around
41:14
do you live i want to come out and else
41:18
who is really scary
41:20
no you know i i don't
41:22
really know how to answer that question except
41:24
that i feel as
41:26
i get older that acting
41:29
at it's best is a kind of shamanistic
41:31
process and that myself pretentious or whatever
41:33
but it is use a dude like you from his sit around
41:35
the campfire you like get up
41:37
and you tell a story and you do a dance
41:39
and you eat it's and you're kind of inviting
41:42
these are these spirits to be part of the story
41:44
in some way is that yeah you
41:47
you you are a sharman that
41:49
is kind of part of the job and
41:52
learning to invite different emotions
41:54
invite and letting them flow letting and out
41:57
makes and good storyteller it
41:59
is
42:00
you have to know who you are
42:03
and i'm lucky what i did on that
42:05
job for example is
42:08
i just everyday get home from work i would just
42:11
go in a walk with my kids because did
42:13
the dad the dad seen in me
42:15
is way more powerful than the actor jean and
42:17
me if , know like like
42:19
it i know who i am in relationship
42:22
to them very well i'm their father
42:24
then that's all that matters and are
42:28
we eating are we learning to tell
42:30
the truth are we taking
42:32
care of one another all those really simple
42:34
but now things it's kind of like
42:36
a grounding wire for me
42:39
but i don't really know how to answer it you
42:41
know yang any a recursive you touched
42:43
on it that you know the your character dead poet's
42:46
society was the
42:48
very sort of shy and then you said earlier when you
42:50
are the only when you first started taking acting
42:53
for the cedar wood when you're a kid in princeton
42:56
that they were that you actually quite actually ham
42:58
and whatever in i've always thought of you i
43:00
don't know you again but i've always thought of using kind
43:03
of a shy guy and i wonder if it's because that impression
43:05
i just went around or to all all three
43:07
of you guys i was thinking like sean
43:10
the characters that , first
43:12
like sort of introduce you the world was your character
43:14
a will and grace who was very kind of crazy
43:16
and and of all over the place and
43:19
jason you were kind of a wise ass would
43:21
i knew you from it's it's your move
43:23
before we became friends when you did that and
43:25
you're like this wise ass ass that's
43:28
maybe how your introduce the world
43:30
is that thing and i did a lot of people know
43:32
me just from the first thing they do we for
43:34
was probably arrest them away by this insane
43:37
magician who is over the top an illusionist
43:40
else
43:44
that you get kind of
43:47
and everything with you get a cast not just
43:49
for work for life and
43:51
why we see that you know the thing
43:53
about being an actor that nobody tells he was it
43:55
robs you of the ability to make a first impression
43:57
anymore
43:59
so interest you meet people and they
44:02
, a first impression and for
44:04
some people i do because there
44:06
was a whole group of people when i was younger that hated
44:08
me because they hated the guy from reality price
44:10
you know they think for a jerk
44:13
don't use you think you're so cool
44:16
you know know and are
44:18
like what yeah i played
44:20
the character you guys when you relax like oh
44:22
yeah i didn't steal winona
44:24
from ben stiller like you don't have to be mad at me
44:26
at through that funny
44:29
but will farrell used to do that but we have
44:31
your if you go with will people will will like hey
44:34
hank and they attack them and you end up being security
44:36
for will because people are like what
44:38
kind of like and drinking now
44:41
right man i've got fucking
44:43
for kids
44:48
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they are eaten talk about your talk
46:24
about your relationship with with
46:26
with with fame and success
46:28
i put in quotes because you know
46:31
in , opinion he you've you've
46:33
hit the gold medal with success as
46:35
far as longevity goes like that to me
46:37
that's the that's the tough thing to do like
46:40
like know are you need nowadays is just a
46:42
sex tape to get your head above the titles
46:44
and and the get a landmark as so
46:46
that you know to get or fame and money it's
46:49
it's sex thought so he
46:51
said anything or yeah just
46:53
mean just themselves immediate mean just my sister
46:55
real could have so
46:57
are you strike me as somebody who
47:00
is
47:01
completely for
47:03
, with he with
47:05
what you do the level that you do
47:07
it it never seem to
47:09
be a person that has had a thirst
47:12
for fame fortune
47:15
recognition celebrity your
47:17
your is it seems that you've always been on a quest
47:19
to quest an actor that's
47:21
working and also an actor that's
47:23
respected and and not that that
47:25
is you know a you
47:27
our agenda but
47:29
it is just a great result of the choices
47:32
that you make is
47:34
that something that you give a lot of sought
47:36
to or is it just sort
47:38
of well i just kind of get the roles that i get
47:40
in the perception is what it is the is not
47:43
something of my making
47:45
it's not a is not a recipe that i've
47:47
i've got my eye on and not something that you're
47:49
you're pro active at
47:52
well
47:54
our life is how we spend
47:56
it inside at think
47:58
i could easily sale years the big deal but
48:00
no i i put a lot of thought the
48:02
i i'll give you an exit when you say
48:04
that as you can see the new elvis
48:07
movie
48:08
no you haven't seen oh yeah well
48:09
it's funny because this
48:12
is interesting to me because you
48:15
know how when parents you know makes biopics he
48:17
changes the ending you know like the of it
48:19
hits a quilt i'd like to do an elvis
48:21
movie that ends right
48:25
when the current you win win some studios
48:27
is exploding and
48:29
this is breaking the colonel sides them up
48:31
they leave son studios he signs the
48:33
biggest
48:34
contract in music history with rcs
48:37
and i would make a strong case to be made that
48:40
he died that day you know
48:42
that that that window
48:44
object of your life becomes about
48:47
succeeding versus what
48:49
you are succeeding about because
48:51
, his goal in life was to make beautiful
48:54
music there is no doubt
48:56
that he should have stayed with sam phillips he
48:58
he loves african american music
49:00
he loves with same thoughts is doing there is
49:03
always success came from singing black
49:05
music and he should have have
49:07
there and helped other musicians
49:10
and mean it's easy for i'm using him
49:12
as an example right i'm not lasting judgment on
49:14
the dead and i know what i'm saying is that i
49:17
think the path to longevity
49:20
like this what i said de maya is like she
49:22
wants to be an actor i'm like okay how do you feel
49:24
if you're sixty three and you're teaching
49:27
acting at a prep
49:29
, in seattle to suck on how
49:32
be amazing roka okay
49:34
to is that the second she says that
49:36
it's all going to go find right
49:38
it is all gonna go fine and
49:41
you have stepped out my point about the elves
49:43
thing is if his goal was making music
49:47
he made the wrong decision it doesn't
49:49
matter what the price tag from our see i was
49:52
you know he would have been the biggest thing
49:54
and rock and roll wherever he was he didn't
49:56
understand that he had the ball he
49:59
had the talent they have thought that detailed
50:01
they were gonna change music music
50:03
was gonna change rights that
50:05
was gonna happen and he could
50:07
have easy to put the that
50:09
the cart before the horse you know and so
50:12
would i try to do with decision making
50:14
about parts and things like that as if you focus
50:17
is on how it develops you
50:19
is a person the how
50:21
it develops you are aren't how it develops your
50:23
life then , things that
50:25
i knew like for example as make it a joke
50:27
about want to say know about the newman woodward
50:30
documentary but i knew
50:32
that that would be good for me right i
50:34
mean it is due to people to dedicate their whole
50:36
lives to the same thing i've tried to dedicate minds
50:38
you stated it a much higher level for
50:40
a lot longer and here i am
50:42
i was turning fifty when i got that phone call
50:45
and it felt like well the universe has given me a little
50:47
challenge like hey reddit can
50:50
you do this and i knew it
50:52
and i didn't wanna do it like i have no
50:54
desire to be like a documentary
50:57
and that's not my goal in life but the universe
50:59
is i'm not in charge everything is dictating
51:01
a to me it's i knew that meditating
51:04
on these two people for as long as
51:06
it took would probably do good things to
51:08
my life and it definitely did so if
51:10
i'm hearing you write it sounds like you've got a very
51:12
clear idea about what
51:15
what the road looks like that fulfills
51:17
your
51:18
sorry for the term your your soul creatively
51:21
spiritually and you're letting
51:23
yeah just fucking say so i apologize
51:25
car and that's informing your your
51:27
decisions and
51:30
that it would also seem
51:32
like a you would probably
51:35
and have probably lived
51:37
your life and such and way where you're not creating
51:39
things creating your life that are that odds
51:41
with your ability to follow that instinct
51:43
in other words you don't have some a choking
51:46
overhead and number and in your
51:48
life like oh my god i you know we might
51:50
my six houses and my you
51:53
know my seventeen cars man
51:55
by the way it i don't don't fall for jason
51:57
those trying to get devotees overhead know
52:01
that you know that that that dictates that
52:03
you have to take that soul
52:06
crushing starring role
52:08
in something that just gives you a big paycheck
52:10
and then consequently probably leads
52:12
to career suicide since you haven't set yourself
52:14
up for any of those trappings even though i'm sure
52:16
you live a very comfortable life if
52:18
you're you're letting your letting your your
52:21
your
52:22
other stuff dictate your career choices
52:24
yes
52:25
yes in and now we're back to the like nature
52:27
nurture you know as you say that like my
52:29
mom is a fancy materialist
52:31
like she's she's suspect of
52:34
anyone who spends too much money an
52:36
automobile or jewelry or
52:38
anything any exterior show
52:41
of accumulation of wealth or status
52:43
right she's , she's allergic
52:45
to it and suspicious of it immediately that's
52:47
the house i was growing up in so
52:49
if i had met the colonel you know if
52:51
i was elvis's i got us some idiot
52:54
idiot a sister right yeah you
52:56
notes in an elvis didn't
52:58
have that inside and why i'm talking about elvis so much
53:01
but but my point is yes i
53:03
think that
53:04
we all want to be of them
53:06
the have a decent roof and pay for our kids
53:08
else you know we all have our want that but
53:11
if you're not comfortable with like a middle
53:13
class aesthetic and you really want
53:15
eighty million pairs of shoes the stuff you're gonna
53:17
get in trouble if you're not a gym sean
53:20
yes yes yes shot or
53:22
, borough hang on i do and i do
53:24
want to say so heated up the into so glad
53:26
you brought that up because it you
53:28
know if you look at the movies that you've made
53:31
you made over the last thirty
53:33
years of a lot of different films
53:35
a in in a lot of different genres
53:37
hunt a commercial know as well as he are tons
53:39
of commercial yeah it's has a commercial but also
53:41
like you know you made
53:44
first why want to talk about gallagher i love
53:46
i think really under appreciated
53:48
film that is that great
53:50
and i've seen it probably three or four times
53:53
are either are either love them and what was
53:55
what do you that puts i i've always wanted
53:57
to talk about that movie andrew
53:59
cool wrote that was when the best scripts ever read a minute
54:02
to it
54:03
if we're we're honey boo integrate aren't like satisfy
54:06
really opened up my life to like when i read
54:08
kurt vonnegut as a kid tokens
54:11
philip k dick you know these things
54:14
make your brain challenge society
54:16
in with society through that us
54:19
truce and , a cat
54:21
cat just a staggering script
54:25
and i'm so happy that you said you
54:27
would that movie came out it movie came a failure
54:29
but over the last twenty years it's found
54:31
his audience and i've always thought
54:33
andrew luck was one of the just want the best writers
54:35
have ever come across so so good yeah no i
54:38
said the theater and i've seen it's as good in and
54:40
all sorts of when he when you are
54:42
because you're so m a in your so immersed
54:44
in in in everything that you love to
54:46
do the theater and film writing
54:49
what do you do to escape
54:51
it if you ever need to i know you like music guys
54:53
your big music guy as sports
54:55
you follow sport would you like
54:57
i think one of the secret blessings
55:00
i'm out i'm just a huge fan you
55:02
know i mean i love music i love movies reason
55:04
i've been able to work in , many different
55:07
genres movies i think as i say really like
55:09
them all to eat i'm in a
55:11
people can always tell us your arm are
55:14
you know your cash and and they they smell
55:16
they smell it when you don't like what you're doing
55:18
and so am music
55:21
is my secret great passion listening to
55:23
records over and over again finding
55:25
new music i'm not i have no aptitude
55:27
for that art i can that included it so it
55:30
can just geek out and be and fan in
55:32
love with they do playing
55:35
yeah play the guitar badly both
55:37
my both my oldest to my
55:40
own leave are both actually
55:42
musicians and they've lapped me
55:44
so much this now embarrassing to play the guitar
55:46
my house as they play so well
55:48
but no i love
55:50
what would you pay top dollar for a ticket to go
55:52
see a concert wow
55:54
besides elvis well
55:56
if i could get elvis back from the dead and be really
55:58
guess so
56:00
many people you know she's an odd says he wants
56:03
to get elvis back from the dead to give him advice
56:05
on a saturday on how to deal
56:07
with the kernel of know i'm
56:10
hamilton lighthouse heard his from the use
56:12
lead singer the walkman and he did the score
56:14
for the last movie stars the doc adjusted
56:16
and he's is brilliant i highly recommend
56:18
people by his music is underrated
56:21
in an incredible brilliant
56:23
, into those those
56:25
feel like we're very a lot of similar in
56:28
the eases i get a lot more successful
56:30
slash curious slasher
56:32
like artistically inclined
56:35
and and against handsome me
56:37
handsome isn't
56:39
got all this i know it's amazing so is like
56:42
a way more internet any complaint and
56:44
a younger than i am i didn't intend to interesting
56:46
intend with us
56:48
know i'm just saying they would does matter to them and we're not going
56:50
to get of the so and
56:52
so but of the you do here's
56:54
everything want to talk about see do things like gallagher
56:57
and i do want to belabor this too much
56:59
but a a lover and then you make
57:01
these linkletter these movies with richard linklater
57:03
you guys have this amazing seemingly amazing
57:06
relationship with him
57:08
and with julie delpy ed how
57:10
many those films did you guys my age would you
57:12
also rover also three year which
57:15
was which was i mean
57:18
that , about a complete
57:20
shift from working with engineer
57:22
on doing gotta go to doing these movies
57:25
and then you do training day with denzel
57:27
and antwan fuqua i mean this i mean
57:29
are you know you you're getting whiplash
57:32
boy with the different genres here but
57:35
seemingly also of the you're really into
57:37
and can do with
57:39
we need
57:42
i
57:45
wouldn't with it's it's really not easy
57:47
but a a i don't know
57:49
how to answer add it to speak to that
57:52
that writing thing is that the writings
57:54
itami the writing thing is hard to don't tell
57:56
me the running thing is easy or the isn't that
57:58
like just staring at a wall trying to a blank
58:00
page and you just you're overwhelmed
58:02
with all the options available to you and
58:05
how to reduce that down and right at
58:07
the level they that you're writing
58:09
i think it's really important for
58:11
young actors to right because it gets some
58:15
even that whole thing we say about character in about
58:17
who you are and if you're constantly
58:19
interpreting other people's words it's
58:21
extremely valuable than know what your words
58:23
are doesn't need to be for publication
58:25
it doesn't need to be but just
58:27
says the ability to hear your own voice
58:30
and voice think will
58:32
the answer with you were same my
58:35
mom had some quote
58:37
above the toilet when i was growing up which is if you
58:39
have proven one talent god will give you more
58:42
and the the the one was to set
58:44
to master one craft
58:46
you have to apprentice three i have
58:49
one over the toilets as please be neat my pussy
58:53
but , the point i'm trying to make is it for
58:56
me me these things betty
58:58
each other like if you're sitting in
59:00
a monte carlo for four months a denzel washington
59:02
working with him at very high level you don't
59:04
and see that right and
59:07
you bring that with you on your next job
59:09
so when linkletter wants
59:11
me to do this twelve your projects
59:13
were going to make a short film about growing up and i'm going to
59:15
be acting with this young kid over twelve
59:17
over i can bring what i've
59:20
learned from the time on
59:22
set with then sell he creates
59:24
he doesn't wait for people to create a creative
59:27
atmosphere for him to work he makes it app
59:29
read it and app
59:32
in once you see that that's possible
59:35
it opens up doors you know getting to
59:37
be in a rehearsal room with tom stoppard and
59:39
getting to see
59:41
how she obsesses on
59:43
every consonants and vowel
59:46
in the way the whole thing works like a poem
59:48
in seeing writing at that level
59:50
sam shepherd getting
59:53
to be around these people
59:56
if you're if you're paying
59:58
attention you it with you and the
1:00:00
next shop miyamoto and and
1:00:03
i was really grateful you know rick invited julian
1:00:05
i to write those movies with him and
1:00:08
you know you guys saudis the confused right amygdala
1:00:10
this it was so excited to be
1:00:12
working with somebody of our generation who
1:00:15
was in imitating other people he
1:00:17
he was asking this question like what is our
1:00:19
generation
1:00:20
you're what what what what are we contributing
1:00:23
how can we push the form forward it's
1:00:25
, yeah you're a student of what happened before
1:00:28
to understand how they moved their time
1:00:30
period but not to imitate them
1:00:32
but to be present in your own generation food
1:00:34
i fuckin love that so much i'm
1:00:36
such a big proponent of the scenario there's nothing
1:00:39
for me i was sorry but in comedy
1:00:41
but i i hated within does that feels to derivative
1:00:44
ai real real
1:00:47
against often to these guys about other people
1:00:49
who i feel like you're kind you're not
1:00:51
just an amoeba means stealing someone's bit
1:00:53
i mean just kind of doing their thing dealing
1:00:55
their attitude yeah zealand your attitude it bums
1:00:57
me out on such profound level as
1:00:59
and i often have to be talked of led
1:01:02
by of guys causes me
1:01:04
physical pain when they make money at
1:01:06
it as the i know a seer med
1:01:08
same here speaking fucking
1:01:10
crazy ominously my fucking if if if
1:01:13
you were things i'm so proud of my about as
1:01:16
as robin on strange thing says it's a it's
1:01:18
proof says this idea that you
1:01:20
don't have to try to be original
1:01:23
if you are yourself you will
1:01:25
be original that i imitating everybody
1:01:27
else is have some brought herself and what
1:01:29
she has to offer did his character of a sudden
1:01:31
i have seen that character and silva force
1:01:34
it's a unique person and
1:01:36
that's and when it's a see a comedian
1:01:38
a musician anybody
1:01:40
bring themselves you know then
1:01:43
they are resigning yoga and
1:01:45
it's inspired so excited comments
1:01:47
i tell you what eaten thank you so much for years you
1:01:49
we are magnificent was your time think please
1:01:51
keep saying original keeps day i strongly
1:01:54
as yeah i've watched you do what you do
1:01:56
man had such an honor odds got buried
1:01:58
or very inspiring really inspired i'm so
1:02:00
glad to finally speak to you and meet
1:02:02
ya i can't believe we are pass haven't
1:02:05
haven't crossed more significantly till
1:02:07
the know i'm a big fan of you guys in your
1:02:09
i did the show that if it i love the
1:02:11
fact that you guys are either
1:02:13
whoop the think about the new surprise
1:02:15
guest as you get don't have prepared questions
1:02:17
yahoo yahoo an interview and you can sense
1:02:20
exactly what the interviewer once
1:02:22
you to say i urge remember nineteen ninety
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eight you told rolling stone magazine
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or yeah i remember remember say that again
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or as a threat paris yeah those
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were just were just three dummies trapped in an elevator
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with your guardian guy gets trapped for an hour
1:02:36
and , also i think all of us understood
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when you said you know it's about the friendships
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and we're lucky that we get to do this because we're
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old friends and i love these guys are we get to
1:02:44
spend lot of time together and sat on a lovely
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man in their their and thanks
1:02:49
for doing now greater you think rob
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me of reading that supplies that female
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your time have female your rest the day i guess
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say can i see
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so ah i see
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my be top on the list of i
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want to be friends with him and
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that way i am a minute one of friends
1:03:09
a lot of people that we meet on the show but he might be tip
1:03:11
top it seems so damn great
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yeah yeah so cool a in
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always got this new dot
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, series as he talked about the
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was the last movie stars on any spielberg
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mls who serves as b o max mean he's
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just like of course of course
1:03:29
they came to him with for so paul
1:03:32
newman during wars kids came to him he can he
1:03:34
just like you said he is cool you want to hang
1:03:36
out with them and he's the kind of guy you'd want telling
1:03:38
you wanna see that documentary just because there's a photo
1:03:41
of me and i can
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he didn't really react to that do know that
1:03:45
average ross i don't think he's and seen it
1:03:47
no it don't think the think see ketamine gonna
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nodded and i think that be when be when
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really i think he signed up for his positive who
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you are no i by the way i
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don't disagree with you the helm and
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glasses
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but seriously his his brain
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his is
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soul spear whatever you want to call
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it seems just as over the second
1:04:08
time today you brought up soul soul yeah
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happening to you run to try to get
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myself to a place where i
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can say his art
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and everything just seems
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that old by on
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